Yesterday I had to tackle a difficult situation at work. I knew it was coming so I chose to wear one of my bracelets that says "fearless". And that helped me! 😉
At work I wear uniform . So usually I dress down in a hoody and pants and sneakers. But I feel so frumpy and not like myself. Because I do love to dress and look good.
I wish my appearance was important to me. It used to be all I thought about and it was extremely toxic. I spent hours doing hair and makeup. I cared more about what I looked like than how I treated my kids. I’ve grown out of my ego now but now I don’t have any motivation to get dressed up. My motivation was my ego and now that that is gone it just feels like. Why get dressed... I’m a stay at home mom and I only get dressed when I go out which is rare and even then I just wear jeans and a T-shirt. I want the motivation back but I don’t know where I can find it. I just don’t care how other people see me anymore.
I am here because I feel shy dressing up like it doesn't suit me 😩 and that I'm trying so hard when in fact I just want to look good and feminine just like all other girls in my age does TT I grew up in male-centric family (they always give negative comments)--so I've always been pants and shirt and quite overweight as well. All those things combine is a mess of insecurity and self-conscious person.
How is it that something so trivial and insignificant as what we wear become so important. There are those whom dress "nice" or "appropriate " and look great, but feel horrible and are horrible humans. The fact is it doesn't matter what we wear or what label is on what we wear, we as a species have been focusing on everything external and in the process neglected the most important part of a human being your interior, the values and morals which can make us collectively progress instead of regress..
The slight tremor in her voice, the "shoot, this is nerve wracking".. relatable, human and immediately set me at ease. Great talk, great delivery 😊
Soooo nice to finally see someone that doesn't hold a perfect speech and forgets some tiny pieces!! Soo comforting!! So human and sympathetic
So sweet, in a world where every one is fighting for the right to be anything but clothed.
Well, I'm probably three times as old as this young lady and from my experience, she is right.
Yesterday I had to tackle a difficult situation at work. I knew it was coming so I chose to wear one of my bracelets that says "fearless". And that helped me! 😉
omg ,this is so powerful ❤Thank you
At work I wear uniform . So usually I dress down in a hoody and pants and sneakers. But I feel so frumpy and not like myself. Because I do love to dress and look good.
Jessica is awesome! She is so likable in this video as well as in her blog. Maybe she should have a show...
wonderful, i feel the same about dressing up
Her voice is so sweet
yeah. if u lookgood. u feel good. u perform better. u do good.
I wear Wonder Woman underwear for big tests.
Brenna Houk Love this idea!
Yesss🌸🌸🌸
She low key reminds me of Jennifer Garner, I also love how supportive the audience is.
Always dress well!
aw super cute!
I wish my appearance was important to me. It used to be all I thought about and it was extremely toxic. I spent hours doing hair and makeup. I cared more about what I looked like than how I treated my kids. I’ve grown out of my ego now but now I don’t have any motivation to get dressed up. My motivation was my ego and now that that is gone it just feels like. Why get dressed... I’m a stay at home mom and I only get dressed when I go out which is rare and even then I just wear jeans and a T-shirt. I want the motivation back but I don’t know where I can find it. I just don’t care how other people see me anymore.
I feel the same after becoming a mom
You dont have to care about how you look. I'm sure you're fine just one way you are. Do you only feel like you should dress up bc others told you to?
I am here because I feel shy dressing up like it doesn't suit me 😩 and that I'm trying so hard when in fact I just want to look good and feminine just like all other girls in my age does TT I grew up in male-centric family (they always give negative comments)--so I've always been pants and shirt and quite overweight as well. All those things combine is a mess of insecurity and self-conscious person.
love!!!
IS it still right to not think about what others thinkon all everything orJust of some thing ?
So cute!
Thank you!
I lost my good watch😟. It is not even expensive, but I didn't find a replacement😢. Other watches seem occasional.
Thanks for sharing !
How is it that something so trivial and insignificant as what we wear become so important. There are those whom dress "nice" or "appropriate " and look great, but feel horrible and are horrible humans. The fact is it doesn't matter what we wear or what label is on what we wear, we as a species have been focusing on everything external and in the process neglected the most important part of a human being your interior, the values and morals which can make us collectively progress instead of regress..
i LOVE her
She looks similar as Taylor swift🐧🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🍃:):)
She is too cute
well said
I want to wear dresses to work.. never really had a job (well advertising sales maybe huh) where I could do that.
Agree :)
She spent a full minute and a half of a five minute speech telling us what she was going to talk about instead of actually talking about it!
Abi Pereira I agree with you and it was just an introduction to her speech. I liked it because it expressed the point of it.
Abi Pereira Are you here just to criticize?
She just "and" so much :)
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Not till my bottom surgery is perfect!!!!!!!!!!!!
She looks like taylor swift
That's it?...Ok.
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I thought it was Theresa May
I can't listen because I keep noticing how her bangs cover up one of her eyes.
Yes Jessica
You are Real Jessica
.. remember me ? You HV given many mes
to me ? You are my Friend .❤️ You . Br
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i believe it is a slip under her dress
Well if u need to dress good to feel good maybe u need some therapy to improve your self esteem to acceptable level.
totally .. what ive been saying for years ..
You tell that to people who cannot go out without makeup.
How shallow
Her outfit is laughable.