Some people can’t help themselves and go completely over board. Kids don’t need or care about all the junk . Fewer gifts make them special.Happy that you can buy your kids so much but it is an obscene amount. Do they actually appreciate each gift you buy them? You’re kids your life do what you think is best for them. Happy birthday Harley.
Yes it's her kids and her money. I love spoiling my kid and don't personally care what other people think and I don't think she really cares what people think of her spoiling her kids
Serious question- no sarcasm or disrespect intended: how do you have room for all the kid’s birthday presents they receive?!? I have two kids and I feel like we are busting at the seams!!
They have a activity\play area in their basement or somewhere in the house I can't remember exactly where it is but they have a big room specifically for the toys and play things
@@DoughertyDozenthank you for taking the time to respond! Happy early birthday to Harlee and hope you and your family enjoy what’s left of the summer! ☀️
I mean 5 is a big milestone so I think it is not necessary to have that much gifts but at the same time you only turn 5once so this is something she will love and appreciate so I think it’s fine
I was raised with chores,an allowance and love. I knew the value of a dollar. And I was taught how to cook. I never done without. I love my childhood and taught my son the same values.
The kids do have chores and I'm sure their teaching them responsibility a lot of them are from adoption\foster care and didn't have anything or very little for the longest time their allowed to be spoiled
I had no chores growing up as we always had a maid. We also never received an allowance so I was careful with whatever money I got on birthdays and Christmas. I loved my childhood too and when I went away to college, I quickly learned to do my chores. It’s not rocket science. I’m sure you know that there’s more than one way to raise children.
What makes you think they don’t have chores and values? Are you new? You do know this isn’t new they go out the top nothing to be shamed to do that..I buy my kids whatever they ask for and more does that make me a bad parent? Both my kids have the best manners values even though they are spoilt.
@@chelly2517 True it is her children, but some people want to make people who can't afford that much look like horrible parents. Not all of us were able to afford to spend thousands of dollars on our children, but still loved and cherished them despite what we were able to spend. We taught lifes lessons that you can still have a good life and have fun even if you aren't able to have tons of presents.
It’s not about the money she spends but about the quality of gifts. Why does a child need so many dolls ? You can get so many more educational gifts along with what they want.
can you please not. the mom tries to make her kids happy and smile. and there’s a lot of them so she has to make them happy in their way. she only buys them all of these toys and all of these big things because she likes to see her kids smile and then the mom feels so appreciative. so. an you please not say that.
@haileyjacobson2571 these kids do not need the entire toy isle! They likely already have it. The woman has an addiction to spending money and buys an unreasonable amount of literally everything.
maybe she didn’t have all this as a child and she wants to make sure her kids never have to want for anything. I wish my mom had it like this when I was growing up. You can’t tell someone how to raise their children
I get spoiling your kids, but this is extreme. Hopefully you also teach her when she gets new toys, she goes thru her old ones and donates to kids less fortunate. That way they can learn that not everyone lives like this and giving is always better then receiving ❤️
She doesn’t have time to teach her kids anything but the bad habits she’s showing them. Honestly, with the amount of time it takes to film, edit, comment back/block people, clean, cook, and everything else, there’s zero time for 12 kids. I can’t wait until she’s off the internet and actually becomes a caring parent to those kids. Gifts mean nothing, it’s the quality time that does.
@@chelly2517are you an official spokesperson for DD? 🤔😅Always makes me laugh when randomers get all offended on Alicia's behalf🙈😁 The whiteknighting is embarrassing.. Especially when she's not even slightly affected by the comments herself and you're over here blowing a gasket😅..
@@chelly2517You comment on pretty much everyone else’s comment who disagrees w this much spending. She chose to put all this out there soooo we all have rights to speak our opinions! This is ridiculously over the top, she’s 5! I spend maybe $100 on 2 kids for their bdays and Christmas is a bit more. But I also work my butt off to provide for them
I hope one day you will understand that buying this amount of toys are not good for little kids yet the worst thing you can do. It's not an amazing gift its just too much to play with it. You teach your kids not to love one thing, because there is 25, and nothing is important for them. I remember this little girl got so many barbies for christmas too. What happened with these? Im so sorry for her.
@@Indomita506 not dramatic, I'm still dealing with a 26 yr old . Taking care of her child while she still believes she's owed more. Like I said there will be regrets.
@@Pdubbsloveraventhe honesty is SO REFRESHING. It’s not dramatic, it’s the very real result of this behavior. But I also think it’s largely paired with her shopping addiction. It’s dangerous for so many reasons.
w Wretched excess! Assuming this 5 year old kid will get gifts from other people, what a crazy amount of crap. How about art supplies or experiences or one on one time with the parents?
I am so glad that you can give your kids an amazing birthday. They will remember them forever. To the people who say help other people, do you not realize that she does this all the time? Thank of all the kids she is fostering or adopting. You are truly an amazing person, Alicia.
A cart full of plastic toys. Kids don’t need that much stuff, they get overwhelmed and rarely play with it. Of course Alicia doesn’t care, it’s all for the views.
Yes! Toys are fine but books are an adventure and a great way for kids to expand their knowledge and imagination. I inherited my parents love of reading. I started reading at 3 and I still get excited when I come across a great book. My kids grew up in the internet age so they don't really get the awesomeness of books, but I'm working on them!
okay first off there's nothing wrong with hammy downs i do it for my kids so doesn't others just cuz u don't ....don't bite the hand that feeds u bro this isn't forever
Absolutely ridiculous. I love your family but, you over spend.. did you buy anything from her list? She didnt ask for all of that. Crazy crazy crazy...
Let her do what she wants to do, with her children.... Obviously she is doing great with them.....If your going to put her down, why be on here ...Be kind...
The best thing you can ever buy a child is a book whatever it’s age. They will get more from a book than all the plastic rubbish out there now.if you can install the love of reading books as opposed to a screen it will remain in them for ever. My daughter is now 33 and is still an avid book reader- a real book not a kindle or other electronic device. ❤
And here I worried about spending $20 on one toy for my sons 6th birthday coming up. I don’t care what she does but I’d like to know how she has the income for all this. I personally know teachers don’t make that much money.
No kidding right? I can’t believe she spends so much on every single thing. It’s insane! And before anyone comes at me, just remember spending TIME with your kids is way more appreciated and needed than $1000 worth of frieking gifts that will be thrown out after a couple months….
Blessed to be able to spend that money on her daughter Harley, I only did milestone birthdays that way I had time to save up cause I couldn’t afford much.
@@ItsmeMaureen the kids will do fine in the real world she still gives them chores ect. and still teaches them to be responsible she's allowed to spoil her kids if she wants to it's how their family and house works and their all happy
Lord I promise you! Shopping for a 5 year old girl would do some serious damage to you’re pockets 😂😂 because everything is so cute and they just HAVE to have it!!! 😭😭
Oh my goodness kids have so many cool toys these days! Hope Harlee has a great and blessed Birthday! I almost forgot that I hope that Patrick had a great and blessed Birthday as well..
I can’t get over the amount of presents that you’ve bought for one little 5 year old that’s beyond belief
Literally none of ur business as if u live with them and see that her kids don’t play with the toys what ab u mind ur own life?
@@sab_riinewhen she post on TH-cam which is public. That makes it our business 😂
@@sab_riineshe makes it people’s business posting it on here doesn’t she zzz
do you ever donate the toys that are in excess since you obviously over-shop for every birthday. You should show that.
Some people can’t help themselves and go completely over board. Kids don’t need or care about all the junk . Fewer gifts make them special.Happy that you can buy your kids so much but it is an obscene amount. Do they actually appreciate each gift you buy them? You’re kids your life do what you think is best for them. Happy birthday Harley.
Yes it's her kids and her money. I love spoiling my kid and don't personally care what other people think and I don't think she really cares what people think of her spoiling her kids
And where do you put so much!
@@isabelpimentel1415exactly her house isn’t even that big from what I can tell!
Serious question- no sarcasm or disrespect intended: how do you have room for all the kid’s birthday presents they receive?!? I have two kids and I feel like we are busting at the seams!!
They have a activity\play area in their basement or somewhere in the house I can't remember exactly where it is but they have a big room specifically for the toys and play things
They keep a lot of their toys in spare drawers in their bedrooms. We frequently go through and donate toys they no longer play with.
@@DoughertyDozen this also
@@DoughertyDozenthank you for taking the time to respond! Happy early birthday to Harlee and hope you and your family enjoy what’s left of the summer! ☀️
Serious question is how can you afford to buy so much? My kids got a big gift and a small gift.
The kid already has enough toys. Why not take her somewhere for a memory and an experience for her. Those toys will be trashed in weeks.
100% agree! She doesn’t care about quality time because if she did she would stop being on social media.
This is way over the top. A 5 year old does not need THIS MUCH STUFF.
She just doesn’t get it for her I am sure she gets it for other kids
I mean 5 is a big milestone so I think it is not necessary to have that much gifts but at the same time you only turn 5once so this is something she will love and appreciate so I think it’s fine
@@gioiadelancy7799you only turn any age once? Buying this much is way over the top where are they even putting this?
Exactly. Where to put all this stuff ?
You spend over a thousand dollars 💸 n toys but don’t want to pay for bags?????
I was raised with chores,an allowance and love. I knew the value of a dollar. And I was taught how to cook. I never done without. I love my childhood and taught my son the same values.
The kids do have chores and I'm sure their teaching them responsibility a lot of them are from adoption\foster care and didn't have anything or very little for the longest time their allowed to be spoiled
I had no chores growing up as we always had a maid. We also never received an allowance so I was careful with whatever money I got on birthdays and Christmas. I loved my childhood too and when I went away to college, I quickly learned to do my chores. It’s not rocket science. I’m sure you know that there’s more than one way to raise children.
Everyone has their story to tell. That was mine.
What makes you think they don’t have chores and values? Are you new? You do know this isn’t new they go out the top nothing to be shamed to do that..I buy my kids whatever they ask for and more does that make me a bad parent? Both my kids have the best manners values even though they are spoilt.
What does this have to do with shopping for a 5 year old birthday.
too much for a 5 year old to take in,I would be overwhelmed with that many gifts whew!
Doesn't matter how much she gets for HER kids. Mind your own household.
I would be over the moon soo happy
@@chelly2517 whatever how much do you get paid to be the mouth piece for Doucherty Dozen? just curious
@@chelly2517 True it is her children, but some people want to make people who can't afford that much look like horrible parents. Not all of us were able to afford to spend thousands of dollars on our children, but still loved and cherished them despite what we were able to spend. We taught lifes lessons that you can still have a good life and have fun even if you aren't able to have tons of presents.
It’s not about the money she spends but about the quality of gifts. Why does a child need so many dolls ? You can get so many more educational gifts along with what they want.
Why do you always show the receipt on costs of purchases ?
She wants everyone to know how much she spent
She can claim it on her tax if she shows each purchase was made for her content .
@@laurenruccio5835if it’s used for content, it can be written off so to speak.
This is just so ridiculous for a 5 year old wise up luv you need to teach your kids the value of money u won’t always have money wow
The kid asked for 5 things & she bought like 82 things. 😮
No 4 yr old turning 5 needs all this. Way overboard and totally unnecessary. Quality time with them and no phone in your hand is what they want.
can you please not. the mom tries to make her kids happy and smile. and there’s a lot of them so she has to make them happy in their way. she only buys them all of these toys and all of these big things because she likes to see her kids smile and then the mom feels so appreciative. so. an you please not say that.
@haileyjacobson2571 these kids do not need the entire toy isle! They likely already have it. The woman has an addiction to spending money and buys an unreasonable amount of literally everything.
@@haileyjacobson2571if she wouldn't put EVERYTHING on the internet, people would say these things.
worry about ur own kids lol
maybe she didn’t have all this as a child and she wants to make sure her kids never have to want for anything. I wish my mom had it like this when I was growing up. You can’t tell someone how to raise their children
Too much
I get spoiling your kids, but this is extreme. Hopefully you also teach her when she gets new toys, she goes thru her old ones and donates to kids less fortunate. That way they can learn that not everyone lives like this and giving is always better then receiving ❤️
She doesn’t have time to teach her kids anything but the bad habits she’s showing them. Honestly, with the amount of time it takes to film, edit, comment back/block people, clean, cook, and everything else, there’s zero time for 12 kids. I can’t wait until she’s off the internet and actually becomes a caring parent to those kids. Gifts mean nothing, it’s the quality time that does.
You should save each ofd them like 2000 for they birthday so when they go to college or get older they would have something to start with
"I didn't get bags because they cost money"......Meanwhile $500 spent on toys for a 5 year old....😵💫
Too much money on one birthday more than I get in 6 months on disability wow there's so many poor children in the world who have nothing
&&&? It’s not her fault
@@youtubeacc I like this channel but it just seems like to much
Silly buying all that .there kids out there .don't get anything for their birthday
Wow thats so many presents 🫣 are they all necessary 😳
Yes yes it is
Judgemental? Mind your own household
Buy all the presents. But serve all the healthy food. Not everyday is donut and Mountain Dew day.
@@chelly2517are you an official spokesperson for DD? 🤔😅Always makes me laugh when randomers get all offended on Alicia's behalf🙈😁 The whiteknighting is embarrassing.. Especially when she's not even slightly affected by the comments herself and you're over here blowing a gasket😅..
@@chelly2517You comment on pretty much everyone else’s comment who disagrees w this much spending. She chose to put all this out there soooo we all have rights to speak our opinions! This is ridiculously over the top, she’s 5! I spend maybe $100 on 2 kids for their bdays and Christmas is a bit more. But I also work my butt off to provide for them
I hope one day you will understand that buying this amount of toys are not good for little kids yet the worst thing you can do. It's not an amazing gift its just too much to play with it. You teach your kids not to love one thing, because there is 25, and nothing is important for them. I remember this little girl got so many barbies for christmas too. What happened with these? Im so sorry for her.
I have an immensely spoiled child, you will one day regret this.
Lmao don't be so dramatic Brandy
@@Indomita506 not dramatic, I'm still dealing with a 26 yr old . Taking care of her child while she still believes she's owed more. Like I said there will be regrets.
@@Pdubbsloveraventhe honesty is SO REFRESHING. It’s not dramatic, it’s the very real result of this behavior. But I also think it’s largely paired with her shopping addiction. It’s dangerous for so many reasons.
Wow! That’s a LOT of pressies for a 5 year old 😮
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Wretched excess! Assuming this 5 year old kid will get gifts from other people, what a crazy amount of crap. How about art supplies or experiences or one on one time with the parents?
I had a question what do you do with their old toys
Why so many toys…..I don’t get it
I am so glad that you can give your kids an amazing birthday. They will remember them forever. To the people who say help other people, do you not realize that she does this all the time? Thank of all the kids she is fostering or adopting. You are truly an amazing person, Alicia.
A cart full of plastic toys. Kids don’t need that much stuff, they get overwhelmed and rarely play with it. Of course Alicia doesn’t care, it’s all for the views.
She made you watch so
@@Indomita506😂😂😂😂😂
Yes! Toys are fine but books are an adventure and a great way for kids to expand their knowledge and imagination. I inherited my parents love of reading. I started reading at 3 and I still get excited
when I come across a great book. My
kids grew up in the internet age so they
don't really get the awesomeness of
books, but I'm working on them!
7:50 she didnt cut this out 💀💀
All them kit kats for a 5 year old thats alot
I’m sorry but I literally cringed after about the 3rd toy you put in the basket 🤦♀️
You should do these vids for kids in foster care or who are needy and actually will appreciate & need this stuff
She did last Dec 2022...and she still get lots of negative comments on it.
@@DianaRoseEvano-js2kq I just remembered that. The negative comments were mostly because she showed the names of the kids.
Oh please like you actually care
Great idea but with what time? She doesn’t even have any time to parent her 12 kids.
Is anyone besides me thinking Harlee is getting way too many gifts!
And?
Yes… this is insanely over the top….
$15 for a small pack of m&ms? Its definitely more expensive over there. Cute birthday items though!
okay first off there's nothing wrong with hammy downs i do it for my kids so doesn't others just cuz u don't ....don't bite the hand that feeds u bro this isn't forever
Hand me downs 😂is that what you're trying to say
This is why we have a hole in the ozone. Too much crap.
Absolutely ridiculous. I love your family but, you over spend.. did you buy anything from her list? She didnt ask for all of that. Crazy crazy crazy...
Let her do what she wants to do, with her children.... Obviously she is doing great with them.....If your going to put her down, why be on here ...Be kind...
Absolutely 😮beyond ridiculous
So gross
Something for her class? It’s summer?
She's enrolled in the summer program at her preschool
Too much for just a birthday for a 5 year old. Getting all that trash is pointless if it is going to end up in the trash or broken in 1 week.
The unicorn wrapping paper at Target would have been sooo cute 😩
Happy birthday, Harlee! ❄️🦄 She has grown so much! 🩷
Thank You 🎉🎂🥳
even if money is not an issue this is excessive
The best thing you can ever buy a child is a book whatever it’s age. They will get more from a book than all the plastic rubbish out there now.if you can install the love of reading books as opposed to a screen it will remain in them for ever. My daughter is now 33 and is still an avid book reader- a real book not a kindle or other electronic device. ❤
Is this birthday party gifts or Christmas gifts !!! Crazy !!!!
Donuts on a String would be a great game for a party for Harley! (Use a ribbon, though - it doesn't cut through the donut like string)
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The little girl inside me can't wait for Harlee's birthday video! You did a great job for that amount of gifts for the money
So much stuff. Maybe do experiences instead of things they won’t play with after 2 days.
Alicia why are getting them now instead of Sunday and will you do a muffin board Monday before the min vlog
Harlee shares a birthday with my youngest grand niece Addison!!! Happy Birthday,Harlee!
@eugeniahartley9927 Hello Happy Birthday To Your Grand Niece Addison
Happy Birthday 🎉🎂🥳
Hiya ❤ everyone reading hope u are all good and well
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Party City is so expensive! $15 for one bag of M & M's???
Your kids are not going to understand anything.. but it’s okay we all aren’t going to make it for what’s to come
I love the shopping videos f the kids!!❤
That Barbie with a normal size body is such a good find! Seriously agree with you on normalizing it! Happy birthday Harlee!
Happy Birthday Harlee🎉
Thank You 🎉🎂🥳
She is growing up to fast it feels like yesterday she just turned 4 I hope she had the best birthday ever
Thank you 🧡🧡🧡
I believe she going be 5 tomorrow😢 she grew up so fast! Happy birthday Harlee!🥳
And here I worried about spending $20 on one toy for my sons 6th birthday coming up. I don’t care what she does but I’d like to know how she has the income for all this. I personally know teachers don’t make that much money.
It's you and me. All of us watching these videos.
Was shocked to see you didnt choose the unicorn wrapping paper!!
Zoey on the outfit 😂sucks when they get older and are like really mom ❤😊
Could the unicorn with donut be a floater for the pool
I think it was so thoughtful of get Harlee her own books. Good job Mom 😊
Wow, I guess money really does grow on trees!
No kidding right? I can’t believe she spends so much on every single thing. It’s insane! And before anyone comes at me, just remember spending TIME with your kids is way more appreciated and needed than $1000 worth of frieking gifts that will be thrown out after a couple months….
Wow wrapping paper in the states is so expensive!! You can get it in the uk for like £1 a roll 😮
Awesome Video I just discovered these videos yesterday and there's great
My oldest daughter Liberty just turned 5 on Aug. 1st. Happy Birthday Harlee! Hope you have a wonderful, blessed day.
@InChristAlone153 Hello Happy Birthday To Your Daughter
Happy Birthday 🎉🎂🥳
My Son turned 5 on August 1 as well. Best day 😊
Spending money can be fun but saving money can benefit you as well.
do both u always go over the top 😅
How can anyone stand to do that much shopping?
Happy 5th Birthday Harlee 🎂🍰🥳🎉🎊🎁🎈❤️
Blessed to be able to spend that money on her daughter Harley, I only did milestone birthdays that way I had time to save up cause I couldn’t afford much.
Happy Birthday Harley, I believe Harlequin! 🎉🎉💕
Thank You 🎉🎂🥳
Help people instead of waisting money on 20 barbie solla for a toddler.
No
You must be new bc her family helps a lot of people
Also she's not a toddler she's turning 5 a toddler is 1-3
@@ItsmeMaureen the kids will do fine in the real world she still gives them chores ect. and still teaches them to be responsible she's allowed to spoil her kids if she wants to it's how their family and house works and their all happy
Agreed
I would assume donut unicorn squish but mama you got her covered perfectly
Lord I promise you! Shopping for a 5 year old girl would do some serious damage to you’re pockets 😂😂 because everything is so cute and they just HAVE to have it!!! 😭😭
Her party is going to look adorable. Have a good weekend
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I loved books growing up and the records that came along with books. I still love books and love read. Fantastic gifts!
I hope Harlee has a wonderful birthday🧡
Thank You 🎉🎂🥳
Oh my goodness kids have so many cool toys these days! Hope Harlee has a great and blessed Birthday! I almost forgot that I hope that Patrick had a great and blessed Birthday as well..
With the amount of elaborate parties you have thrown you should be a party planner. 😊
My daughter wanted frozen for her theme last year! I had to order everything offline because I guess it’s just not that popular anymore
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Does the birthday kid choose the theme?
Yes and the colors and the food for the day!
Hello LEO SEASON !! We share bday!! 🎉 happy birthday Harlee!!
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don't forget Christmas Is soon
These kids know money. Do they know Jesus?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HARLEE!!! 🎁🎂🎈🍰🥳♥️
Alicia you asked why are girls easier to shop for 😂😂😂 I found it the opposite my boys were easier than my daughter 😂😂😂
My 6 year old son has watched your videos with me a lot. The other day I heard him doing the affirmations in the mirror. It touched my heart.
Happy 5th Birthday, Harlee🎉🎉🎂🎁🎉🎁
Wow 5 already!!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY HARLEE YOU LITTLE CUTIE PIE!!!🎊🎉🎁🎈♥️🍰🎂🍭🍬🦋🥳🥳🥳💕💞💓💙💜💥💥💥👑👑
Happy 5th Birthday Harlee🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Me and Harley have the same birthday! 15 years apart though🤣
Happy early birthday to Harlee! She is so adorable! 💜
My girly got a horse with a donut five years ago lol. It’s a little mechanical unicorn that picks up a donut
oooohh! Ok I bet she saw it on an old youtube video or something 😂
I’m not judging what you spend but how can you afford that for 12 kids?
TH-cam , ADs , sponsorship
I’m definitely in the wrong job😂
Cant believe shes 5 already, that flew by!
Did you work out what the horse with a donut was 🎉❤ there's a book and plush set about A Spotted Pony. Check them out 😊