This is so so valuable. I learned so much thank you!! I hope this goes viral. The way you teach makes it so easy to understand and I love your Matrix example. You changed my life!
You are so wise man! I can tell by the way you specify things when you say something. Like when you make a statement “XYZ”, then you specify “I know that sounds like ‘ABC’ but I’m not saying ABC. If that makes sense. I know you know what I mean, because I do it too and I would. It’s pretty awesome. It takes superb wisdom, to know that life is all about balance! Keep at these videos! I was surprised the video had just under 10,000 views and not 1,000,000. I want to make videos one day too. Keep at it! This was gold. I think I’ve been being like your friend, thinking my siblings are the persecutors. They have reasonable concerns. But I still honestly feel like they don’t confront the parent in a reasonable way about those very reasonable concerns, because of their own triangle habits. It’s like a thousand fishing lines we’re can’t into a pond and I’m trying to navigate how to untangle the mess! But at least I can make sure to do my part to perform the healthy triangle instead of the destructive triangle moving forward! I subscribed thanks!
Looking forward to listening to your current posts and future ones. 👍 over the past 2 weeks the drama triangle came on my radar. I've been noticing it and reflecting on past relationships. I see myself in all positions at different times. Yesterday, I found myself wondering what my life might even look like if I'm not one if these characters. I will say my victim roles have felt real at the time...now I see that there was a payoff or need I wasnt mature enough identify or to ask for.
I agree! I also think high schoolers should take a class or two on how to have relationships. Maybe one on significant other/lover relationships, one on family relationships, and one on friendship relationships. But the powers that be don’t want it that way, because then they won’t be able to control us with politics and advertisements/marketing. They would have already had those classes. They know it, and they don’t want to give up that power. Hmm I’m realizing this drama triangle is everywhere, on a macro level! Tyrants know it and the love it. They won’t give it up either.
@@michaelsorensen7914 i just discovered your work today and i am absorbing it all in a greedy binge and sharing with family. i just listened to the one about measuring our lives. i cried with you about your pops. so moving. your work is deeply meaningful. bravo, michael. awe and gratitude and love from here. never cease.
Hi. Thanks for posting this. I've recently come across David Emerald's the Empowerment Dynamic which seems really useful and I'm starting to explore it.
Can you fall into all three? For example, it you are being scapegoated for something you didn’t do, you tend to be the victim (you didn’t do it), persecutor (you are being scapegoated), and rescuer ( you save the others by being the scapegoat)?
Of course! I’m sure. I do know people bounce around between the three. But also what I think you are touching on, is that people project the three roles onto you (even if you’re not doing them). Those people need to blame or externalize. Or they just simply need those roles to be filled so they project them onto you, because they need them. Which makes it so complicated! But then I suppose maybe your job becomes not accepting the invitation to fulfill the role they are projecting on you.
Hi Clarry, I no longer do 1-on-1 coaching. I do do corporate training, and have multiple courses available, though, here: michaelssorensen.com/relationship-courses/
Good episode Michael sad truth is many people love this cycle sooo much they do not want to quit it.
Thank you. Sad, but true!
a really clear explanation of the drama triangle - thank you
Thank you!
Michael...this is so clearly explained and I really appreciated it. Thank you 😊
Thank you!
It's amazing how eye opening this is! I can't get enough of these podcasts.
Thank you!
really good analysis
This is so so valuable. I learned so much thank you!! I hope this goes viral. The way you teach makes it so easy to understand and I love your Matrix example. You changed my life!
You are so wise man! I can tell by the way you specify things when you say something. Like when you make a statement “XYZ”, then you specify “I know that sounds like ‘ABC’ but I’m not saying ABC. If that makes sense. I know you know what I mean, because I do it too and I would. It’s pretty awesome. It takes superb wisdom, to know that life is all about balance! Keep at these videos! I was surprised the video had just under 10,000 views and not 1,000,000. I want to make videos one day too. Keep at it! This was gold.
I think I’ve been being like your friend, thinking my siblings are the persecutors. They have reasonable concerns. But I still honestly feel like they don’t confront the parent in a reasonable way about those very reasonable concerns, because of their own triangle habits. It’s like a thousand fishing lines we’re can’t into a pond and I’m trying to navigate how to untangle the mess! But at least I can make sure to do my part to perform the healthy triangle instead of the destructive triangle moving forward!
I subscribed thanks!
Thank you, Brennan-this means a lot!
Looking forward to listening to your current posts and future ones. 👍 over the past 2 weeks the drama triangle came on my radar. I've been noticing it and reflecting on past relationships. I see myself in all positions at different times. Yesterday, I found myself wondering what my life might even look like if I'm not one if these characters. I will say my victim roles have felt real at the time...now I see that there was a payoff or need I wasnt mature enough identify or to ask for.
Thank you, Diane. It’s so easy to slip into-I still catch myself. Always learning and progressing!
Yes!!," seeing it for what it is " when theres drama " .
thank you so much for good detailed explanation. I actually feel like I learned something!!
Thankyou so much Michael. The way you explain these 3 positive changes of roles resonate loudly with me. High schoolers need this info.
Thanks, Michael-happy to hear that!
I agree! I also think high schoolers should take a class or two on how to have relationships. Maybe one on significant other/lover relationships, one on family relationships, and one on friendship relationships.
But the powers that be don’t want it that way, because then they won’t be able to control us with politics and advertisements/marketing. They would have already had those classes. They know it, and they don’t want to give up that power. Hmm I’m realizing this drama triangle is everywhere, on a macro level! Tyrants know it and the love it. They won’t give it up either.
wow! amazing clarity about something that is ubiquitous but nearly impossible to see and sort. thank you, michael.
You're very welcome - thank you for taking the time to comment!
@@michaelsorensen7914 i just discovered your work today and i am absorbing it all in a greedy binge and sharing with family. i just listened to the one about measuring our lives. i cried with you about your pops. so moving. your work is deeply meaningful. bravo, michael. awe and gratitude and love from here. never cease.
@@christopherholvenstot9624 Thank you. This means a lot.
Hi. Thanks for posting this. I've recently come across David Emerald's the Empowerment Dynamic which seems really useful and I'm starting to explore it.
Really good explained thankyou
This is all so good. I appreciate this 🙏🏽
Thank you!
Life saving thank you
This is beautiful
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Can you fall into all three? For example, it you are being scapegoated for something you didn’t do, you tend to be the victim (you didn’t do it), persecutor (you are being scapegoated), and rescuer ( you save the others by being the scapegoat)?
Of course! I’m sure. I do know people bounce around between the three. But also what I think you are touching on, is that people project the three roles onto you (even if you’re not doing them). Those people need to blame or externalize. Or they just simply need those roles to be filled so they project them onto you, because they need them. Which makes it so complicated! But then I suppose maybe your job becomes not accepting the invitation to fulfill the role they are projecting on you.
I don't know which one I'm 😬
Can't u do workshops on zoom for us, provide price , time length. Would love to have 1 on 1 what are ur prices.
Hi Clarry, I no longer do 1-on-1 coaching. I do do corporate training, and have multiple courses available, though, here: michaelssorensen.com/relationship-courses/
" instead of persecutor role , assertive instead ...
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