THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME AND CARING in wanting to share knowledge ! Your videos helped me improve my relationship with my wife, when we were on the brink of separation. I asked her to view a couple videos to understand me better, AND IT WORKED ! Its surprising how accurate your videos are, I have a better understanding OF MYSELF now also... 💪 sigma seb
Did you know that back in my generation (60s) the slang sigma used to be a term to describe hot men that had recently come out as gay? It's strange how the term has been twisted, be careful because if you say "I'm a sigma" to older men it basically means you want to date them.
If you have friends, you will create enemies. Sigmas are very loyal friends and if you support your friends, you will inevitably make their bullies/aggressors hate you.
Sigma male hated cause their honest, independent, stable emotionally, critical thinker, not intimidated, calm demeanour, comfortable with who they are, self motivated problem solvers, puts in extra effort, strive for improvement, powerhouse performers that achieve what others can't, humble, low profile, private, question authority, strong morals and ethics. So much hate due to these behaviours
Bruh go get a life ur like 8 or smt just be ur self and not restricted by a stereotype being ur self is honest to ur self if you aren't honest to ur self how can u be honest to other
“They call you the Bandit, an outlaw untamed Shackled only by freedom, you wear no man's chain Some say they despise you, well, maybe they do But deep down inside them, I bet they wish they were you.” - Jerry Reed…
Wow. What a revelation! I always knew I was different, but felt bad about the way I was treated by others despite my good intentions. I had always been taught to be respectful, kind, thoughtful and think about others and not let others influence your thinking. To do what is right and think independently. I now realize that I fit into this mold. I am so grateful for informing us that this type of man exists which I wouldn’t have known otherwise. It’s a blessing.
Don't God Tested me. born with a killer deseise Asthma. Needed a respirator One month, it got so bad the Dr. & the priest came. My pediatrician said " If he can live 72 hrs. He will make it" By the Grace of God, I'm 64 years old
Did you know that back in my generation (60s) the slang sigma used to be a term to describe hot men that had recently come out as gay? It's strange how the term has been twisted, be careful because if you say "I'm a sigma" to older men it basically means you want to date them.
Indeed! It's one thing to say i-m going my own way, but if something threatened their wellbeing they turn coat and follow the wind in a heartbeat. A Sigma would not conform to anything but his own truth and authentic self, And if that does not align with what is happening around him societally, so be it, he can deal with whatever the repercussion from that will follow. Because he is independent and self sufficient. A sigma would rather die than conform to something that is not true to his own path
Sigmas are introverted wise and intelligent warriors, going on their own way and pace, fully independent, do not need anyone, if they choose people, it's because they genuinely want them, but do not need them, they are the lone wolves that can handle alphas and their crews all by themselves, they are the quiet people who will defend themselves if needed and the ones who are innocent and do not know how to fight back, they will fight anything and anyone who tries to harm them, all alone, they are the ones who grind for success, We are the ones who are called Sigmas, We don't need or want anyone in our lives.
bro these people are actually so delusional they think they are better than everyone else but when it comes to a fight they are gonna get humbled@@SyntaxGameblast
I think Sigma males are mostly used to the "hate", but deep down Sigma males prompt others to grow and mature by example. The "hate" is just their reaction to the prompt, and what they do thereafter says a lot about them, good or bad.
Yes agreed. I consider myself to be Sigma and certain types of people, usually dudes, flat out hate me. Like from the beginning, first meeting and by what I call "low status" males who wish they were high. Been battling them since the playground and then on to the shop floor. Got to the point where I beat them profusely and win every time. The thing is that when it's over, they are genuinely nicer people and more so, the social dynamic flips and people start being nice to one another. I guess this supports the commenter's thoughts that after the battle comes the calm
I definitely can relate. I have contended with so many jealous hearted player hating hypocrites in my life. Everything usually starts out cool- but then something changes. We can do is just keep on growing and keep on going. Without skipping a beat, keep your feet on the ground, keep the wind at your back, keep your eye on the prize, and keep your head on a pivot.
I’m 45. These videos are great and bring a certain peace of mind. It’s sucks walking through life feeling like something was wrong with me. At times the isolation can be it’s own form of destruction. Now I at least have a rational understanding of myself. Takes some of the weight off. It also makes more sense when I take shrooms. 😂
Omg it’s seems like every line every word I felt it and it’s so on point, it’s kinda like going to church and feeling like the pastor is talking straight to you ❤
This is undeniably true! Story of my life. I could be standing in line literally anywhere in public and someone’s kids will gravitate towards me and even treat me like I’m their father. It’s crazy. Other times, they’ll lock eyes on me and won’t turn away until I’m completely out of sight.
I would like to see that. I love animals and they have always been drawn to me. I prefer their company to people. I think it is because they are so much easier to understand. They are pure. They want what they want, when they want it without games or pretense. Whether it is food, attention, play, or curiosity. I think children are drawn to us for the same reason.
@SpongeBobPants1980 Every single time I am in a line where there is a mother with an infant, the baby will stare curiously at me, oftentimes getting happy and excited, waving, laughing, and talking in their own way. I always found it curious because I don't particularly like kids. It's not from any place of malice, just that they bring a lot of noise and chaos where I prefer peace and solitude.
Women hate me because I don't feed their ego, and because I don't play ''the game'' exactly according to their rules. I had my car keyed for minding my own business, when some random girl was fishing for attention. It does get annoying sometimes. Sad what society has become (or perhaps always has been).
@@tbswerve2497 that's cause women can't handle rejection in any form... They will make your life a living hell and if it's a woman from work I'd make sure to never be alone with her and tell management all she needs to do is open her mouth and say you're being a creep and you're gonna be hurting.
@@Justsomeguysomewhere yeah I learned that the hard way 😂😂😂 it’s crazy, they want you to be a beta so bad. If you stand up for yourself, they call it toxic masculinity. It’s crazy, but thanks for the heads up.
I wonder if it ever occurs to people the reason why we're so blunt and straightforward is because life is the same way with us. We don't have the luxury to be offered the clandestine, sugar coated side of things, so why should we afford such luxuries to others? Not to mention people more often than not do not recognize when we are cordial or giving a warning shot, leaving us no other choice to say what has to be said.
true, sigmas find themselves outside of the bubble, be that because they have graduated from the game, dropped out or been side-lined along the way. the people playing the game are still caught up in all this fiesty nonsense but they're still getting thrills from it and fulfilling its prerequisites. barbie and ken keeping up with the jones's
I have always liked to set apart time for myself, so I can reflect on all sorts of matters. I remember doing this since I was a teenager. Now I'm almost 50 and amazed to find my personality traits in videos like this one. Proud to be a sigma male.
I've been working IT mainly at the 'leading edge' , for 40 years. Some of my projects have been high profile and newsworthy. Some have been 'world first's, or solutions that were said to be impossible. But I never stay in a job for more that four years, often less because at some point I get 'Shafted'. IE I end up being very unpopular. My managers have either taken credit for my work, or refused to recognise its significance. In truth it wasn't significant to them because i refused to play the game. I've sometimes asked myself, 'why didn't I ever get to a senior level when i can do all these things? This video has now explained it. At the age of 71, I've been working for 50 years and am still working and getting new opportunities. I'd say to my younger self and say to others seeing this video, stick with it!
you have to go beyond the discomfort of distancing yourself from the tribal beliefs, which usually also means you’ll disconnect yourself from its acceptance and support. Once you are strong enough and have the confidence to stand on your own, you’ll become a real individual-you’ll believe in yourself so strongly that you can be different and not worry what others think. The need of the ego to seek the approval of others. The object of conforming is to keep others happy and to feel accepted. Conformity is imposed from above as a control mechanism. Mostly it’s imposed from within. Author Stuart Wilde
1:09 - "Be who you are and say what you feel. Because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." - Theodore Seuss Geisel Aka Dr. Seuss
Thank you so much for your amazing content. I must say you content is creating new neural pathways for our fellow brethren. Don’t stop you have inspired me. I could never confirm and I didn’t know why. You have helped me look at myself in a better light. I will never suffer the woes of alpha and beta. And now I do not have to feel guilty about it. 🙏🏿
I recently received a couple of anonymous hate mails which were obviously intended to distress me, but instead they just made me laugh. Your descriptin of sigmas describes me exactly.
😌 Yes I've noticed that alot of people envy me because they see me as Average but get confused about me also that how is it possible that I'm not empathic like the 80% of people around them or them 😌
I end up by retreating from society, religion and from all platforms of manipulation, sometimes I didn't meet ppls that i know for months and still I take care of myself, make my own money, train myself etc.. most of the time I feel my freedom and sometimes I feel that I am lost. Any ways living your truth is worth it.
I was sceptical i will admit when i first came across one of your sigma videos . I am 47 and never felt comfortable as being labeled as an alpha or beta . After watching the video i feel like i stumbled upon a truth unknown that completes my puzzle . God bless and thank you for the clarity of mind and self your words have brought me ! All the boxes are checked like you could see my life’s course and actions i have taken . AMAZING ! Proud SIGMA male and i will look forward to more wisdom in your content . Subscribed
This will shock some of you: I spend NO time watching professional sports. Why? I was not in that business! I didn't want to be just a sheeple, and I would rather use my time doing something better like making money. I had an interesting job, in time they would call me to solve their "problems". It got to the point where they did not care what it cost just solve the problems and justify the financial costs. Then I told them how much they owed me. I traveled a lot (West Coast and Alaska, etc.). I worked alone usually and loved it. I was like a rattlesnake on the tarmac. People were nice but careful around me because there were problems they definitely did not want to have. I carried a million dollars worth of liability insurance. I got respect. I miss it now that I'm retired and have everything I want!
Could understand why I felt so different compared to the majority. Felt alone and viewed others as cookie cutter. It’s great to be hated for being a free thinker and not wanting to conform to anything! Stay strong and confident fellow SIGMAs’!
It is a powerful ground of integrity that a Sigma uses without getting a drive for showing his ego. This is where Sigma' s have their strength. One thing I do question is....could a Sigma co-exist within society, and learn about the popular norms without conforming to them? Or find a popular norm they would prefer, and fit with an approach of their own ideas?
Mahalo SO much for this video! I’ve always thought I was a bit weird, but now I understand myself so much more. I really appreciate you taking the time to help me understand myself better with this video.
I used to think it was something action related but the more I realize it was the light that exudes from within and nobody can dim it. We are ruthlessly dangerous and that's something we should firmly hold grasp towards. Let go of the ones that lack substance and move on. 💯
Sigma male is seeking his own fulfillment , without distractions. He does not need constant human connection to be complete. Or a drama Mentor to guide his life , Sigma male will do his research on the internet , without unnecessary advice from others, Sigma male knows how to nourish his creativity and individuality without interference, SIgma male gets criticize for being detached or distance, But the majority are detached themselves , mostly everybody is clued to their iPhones or cellphones, There is no human to human interacting communications, most of the time. They should talk, Really,
It’s because we understand life isn’t a vacation or a fun house it’s a job , task and objective. We have 0 external validation. We do what must be done at any cost weather society like it or not .
Absolutely going to help me through my Walk of Life I have a new understanding about myself and why I act the way I do it's been troubling all my life and I watch this one short video and explains just about everything now I'm not completely and exactly like all these points but about 80% of them are definitely the person I am I am 61 years if I would have heard this 40 years ago my life would have been a lot easier maybe at least I have an understanding now thank you for this video!!!!!?
IMHO, ALL these titles of Alpha, Beta, Sigma, Red\Blue/Black Pill, etc, are just 'niches'. Each needs followers which can possibly generate revenue for that particular group. Anyone can create a 'niche', and there's nothing wrong with that
Most of my course mates hate me and see me as annoying. When asked about it, not one of them could give a distinct reason as to why they dislike me so. Other departments in my school noticed and think I'm being bullied for no reason which sucks.
Agreed. We resist the flight response from an early age. We retain our life lessons and observe the mistakes of our peers. We read people and situations. We know that silence unnerves most people and causes them to reveal themselves. We do not fear being alone or the dark. We are comfortable with conflict and being judged. Our confidence in our own abilities is born of experience. Fear is not our drug. Courage is the only answer.
I agree, I graduated from college with a business degree a year ago, but I am a sigma male and people hate what they don't understand. I don't ever expect anyone to follow me, but upper management always sees me as a threat. I have been in between jobs the past year because I don't kiss a$$ towards upper management. It seems working in the office is about kissing a$$. There is a lot of incompetent people working in jobs that are not qualified. I lost my job because I was reserved and careful with my words. 99 percent of my problems are with upper management, but the thing is I don't ever have problems with my coworkers. It only tells me that upper management don't like what they can't control. I believe now that I am the point that I could no longer work for the man. I have to start my own business and fly solo because working for a company brings jealousy and sabotaging.
That explains why I’ve always been the type person people tend to dislike. I don’t follow crowds, I’m not a “yes man”, I see people for who they really are, I stand up and speak up for what I feel is right and the list goes on. I march to the beat of my own drum. I’m not a follower and I’d rather be alone than with a crowd of people. I don’t easily trust people and I distance myself from others. I have a bad temper and I prefer to keep it under control. So yeah, I guess I’m a Sigma.
Young fellas, fron an old head at the end of his journey - who never had the benefit of tools like this video to help Id & understand one's self...Aim for jobs that are technical in nature if you can. These tend to give the most autonomy - as long as you are good! Anything fron high school Tech Ed to CPA to Engineering to research scientist...you need to be able to show value that DOES NOT depend on your ability to be liked at work. Save yourself a lifetime of frustration. Good luck.
I had co workers ask me during a meeting, “how can we get to know you?” and I simply stated “Just ask questions. I’m not going to just spill everything out.”
wow my smegma brethren, my stinky socks were blown off of my feet and my fedora has been tipped. This video reminded me the responsibility to be the true sigma Tate wants me to be. Truly a toe curling experience...
"All men are NOT created equal" but they are equally created. To say all men are created equal is like saying "forgive and forget" old sayings that do not ring true.
My 2 sons watched this video very attentively and used it to analyze people who touched their lives or ruined their childhoods. The truth must reign supreme. My Sigma parents sacrificed their lives altruistically for my family's happiness and success.
A trend that I have noticed enough now that i am comfortable with publicly voicing after watching, studying the chats of and weighing up to people I know personally who , without a doubt embody the characteristics of the subject matter (Empaths, sigmas, INFPs etc) would never write self declaring comments on videos about their said characteristics let alone watch videos related to these traits and respond in modesty and infact in my real life experience people ive met who tend to self declare these types of traits usually turn out to be quite the opposite, both knowingly or unknowingly through cognitive dissodence, narcissism or straight up sociopathy. In saying this, I hope to god that Im actually tottally wrong about this and I have had just a one-in-a-million bad social run in my lifetime.
Should be noted, Sigma are self aware they are like this, that old saying "an alpha never states hes alpha" dosn't apply to sigma, we know what we are and we say whatever we want when needed, silent when we choose.
I for the longest time thought I was taking the role of an alpha. But after hearing this video, it seems I'm guilty of some of these characteristics. Suppose change happens to us in unexpected ways.
i remember when i was young when i do speak and everytime i've been places, from the past experience i've got tired of the same things. and i think i speak for every sigma males that we dislike repeatly ourselves that we change our behavier, well of course we've got smarter and stop interacting those who will find our true motivation. no disrespect but we ain't going there to attrack our attention to other anymore. Yes we are free thinkers and we do make progress when we work on a project without to be disturb. and when the push get to shove we rather to keep for ourselves, we don't have time with haters, it just a waste of negative energy. Even when i was young surrounding by family and friends i always felt an outcast, and i don't know why i like solitude feeling more free and free thinking. at the age of 30 in 1992 i start question why we label human since the age of humanity, and i have no degree in physic and i figuring out visualizing and suprising when i say to my younger nephew, he came back next year and the porfessor of physic told the same things as me.
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Never In my life have i been described so thoroughly, I am very surprised at the level of precision there....
Thanks
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME AND CARING in wanting to share knowledge ! Your videos helped me improve my relationship with my wife, when we were on the brink of separation. I asked her to view a couple videos to understand me better, AND IT WORKED ! Its surprising how accurate your videos are, I have a better understanding OF MYSELF now also... 💪 sigma seb
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wise. thinker can you pin my channel under your video
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Sigmas will be needed more than ever in this age.
Agreed ... Only sigma's can handle the current situation of this world. They can put things back into order without thinking about their personal gain
@@jollykhaira1659 Only simple men will kill each other over religion and borders. This is the age of mind manipulation and Sigma's are immune.
Yup, I’m currently being gangstalked for that same reason
Amen. After all the Alphas have lost total control. Enter the Sigma Male
@@GangstalkingRealitygang stalked? By other simps?
_“If you die without having enemies, you have not lived right.”_ - Author unknown
Fear no hate.
Or just live without considering anyone else as an enemy. Coz being enlightened means being above such labels.
Did you know that back in my generation (60s) the slang sigma used to be a term to describe hot men that had recently come out as gay? It's strange how the term has been twisted, be careful because if you say "I'm a sigma" to older men it basically means you want to date them.
If you have friends, you will create enemies. Sigmas are very loyal friends and if you support your friends, you will inevitably make their bullies/aggressors hate you.
- Winston Churchill
My wife thinks I'm crazy for wanting a few enemies.
One of them is Pete Weber. I hope I meet that sob on the lanes.
That must be why I have no friends. Only acquaintances and enemies.
That sounds like me. I may like some of my acquaintances, but I merely despise my enemies.
Yep, I wish these videos were around 10 to 15 years ago.
Maybe you're just an awkward, annoying teenager.
@@lucasfortes7705 Maybe your just a troll.
yeah, I’m sure that’s why you have no friends
Sigma male hated cause their honest, independent, stable emotionally, critical thinker, not intimidated, calm demeanour, comfortable with who they are, self motivated problem solvers, puts in extra effort, strive for improvement, powerhouse performers that achieve what others can't, humble, low profile, private, question authority, strong morals and ethics. So much hate due to these behaviours
so corny ur not sigma you just have no friends
That’s I don’t wanna hate but this always has to with like being a secret badass or smth it’s kinda sad
I wear the hate like a blanket. It keeps me warm at night:)
The way I act in a bowling league.
Bruh go get a life ur like 8 or smt just be ur self and not restricted by a stereotype being ur self is honest to ur self if you aren't honest to ur self how can u be honest to other
“They call you the Bandit, an outlaw untamed
Shackled only by freedom, you wear no man's chain
Some say they despise you, well, maybe they do
But deep down inside them, I bet they wish they were you.” - Jerry Reed…
BECAUSE WE ARE NOT COWARDS AND MOST PEOPLE ARE. It's THAT SIMPLE!
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well said💯
Amen 🙏👊😎
❤ I don't play games they don't like that. 1:42
Sigma males don’t mind the hate. This only assures them that they are doing something right.
Nailed it!
Facts. I was bout to say, next we need a video of why sigmas give no damns about haters
@@Wise.Thinker type of cars sigmas drive
It’s gets old after 30 years.
You know your over the target when you start catching flack
Wow. What a revelation! I always knew I was different, but felt bad about the way I was treated by others despite my good intentions. I had always been taught to be respectful, kind, thoughtful and think about others and not let others influence your thinking. To do what is right and think independently. I now realize that I fit into this mold. I am so grateful for informing us that this type of man exists which I wouldn’t have known otherwise. It’s a blessing.
Don't be scared youre no sigma
Don't God Tested me. born with a killer deseise Asthma. Needed a respirator
One month, it got so bad the Dr. & the priest came. My pediatrician said
" If he can live 72 hrs. He will make it"
By the Grace of God, I'm 64 years old
Did you know that back in my generation (60s) the slang sigma used to be a term to describe hot men that had recently come out as gay? It's strange how the term has been twisted, be careful because if you say "I'm a sigma" to older men it basically means you want to date them.
@@thecrab3033good to know!
Lots of men wish they were sigmas, but they simply weren't born with what it takes.
If there not sigmas then u and the other people who say they are aren’t ethier we’re all human
cornball
Most men aren't thinking about it. Procreation has them eat up inside.
Indeed!
It's one thing to say i-m going my own way, but if something threatened their wellbeing they turn coat and follow the wind in a heartbeat.
A Sigma would not conform to anything but his own truth and authentic self,
And if that does not align with what is happening around him societally, so be it, he can deal with whatever the repercussion from that will follow.
Because he is independent and self sufficient.
A sigma would rather die than conform to something that is not true to his own path
My studies are in neurology, physiology and psychology.
It would be interesting to see what MRI studies on sigma's would revile.
Sigmas are introverted wise and intelligent warriors, going on their own way and pace, fully independent, do not need anyone, if they choose people, it's because they genuinely want them, but do not need them, they are the lone wolves that can handle alphas and their crews all by themselves, they are the quiet people who will defend themselves if needed and the ones who are innocent and do not know how to fight back, they will fight anything and anyone who tries to harm them, all alone, they are the ones who grind for success,
We are the ones who are called Sigmas,
We don't need or want anyone in our lives.
100%
go outside lmao
@@SyntaxGameblast nah, tried it when I was a teen, not my scene.
bro these people are actually so delusional they think they are better than everyone else but when it comes to a fight they are gonna get humbled@@SyntaxGameblast
@@Pringle2 its hilarious
I think Sigma males are mostly used to the "hate", but deep down Sigma males prompt others to grow and mature by example. The "hate" is just their reaction to the prompt, and what they do thereafter says a lot about them, good or bad.
Yes agreed. I consider myself to be Sigma and certain types of people, usually dudes, flat out hate me. Like from the beginning, first meeting and by what I call "low status" males who wish they were high.
Been battling them since the playground and then on to the shop floor. Got to the point where I beat them profusely and win every time.
The thing is that when it's over, they are genuinely nicer people and more so, the social dynamic flips and people start being nice to one another. I guess this supports the commenter's thoughts that after the battle comes the calm
I definitely can relate. I have contended with so many jealous hearted player hating hypocrites in my life. Everything usually starts out cool- but then something changes. We can do is just keep on growing and keep on going. Without skipping a beat, keep your feet on the ground, keep the wind at your back, keep your eye on the prize, and keep your head on a pivot.
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I’m 45. These videos are great and bring a certain peace of mind. It’s sucks walking through life feeling like something was wrong with me. At times the isolation can be it’s own form of destruction. Now I at least have a rational understanding of myself. Takes some of the weight off. It also makes more sense when I take shrooms. 😂
@billkikstra2225 And how many jabs have you had so far there, smart guy?
@@BAsed_AFroMore than you could ever imagine
Omg it’s seems like every line every word I felt it and it’s so on point, it’s kinda like going to church and feeling like the pastor is talking straight to you ❤
Bro i never knew i was a Sigma Male! But everything in this video is exactly how i am and what i have gone thru my entire life...
I want to see a video on how kids and animals naturally gravitate towards sigmas...
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Yeah! I never really thought about that. You're absolutely correct
This is undeniably true! Story of my life. I could be standing in line literally anywhere in public and someone’s kids will gravitate towards me and even treat me like I’m their father. It’s crazy. Other times, they’ll lock eyes on me and won’t turn away until I’m completely out of sight.
I would like to see that. I love animals and they have always been drawn to me. I prefer their company to people. I think it is because they are so much easier to understand. They are pure. They want what they want, when they want it without games or pretense. Whether it is food, attention, play, or curiosity. I think children are drawn to us for the same reason.
@SpongeBobPants1980 Every single time I am in a line where there is a mother with an infant, the baby will stare curiously at me, oftentimes getting happy and excited, waving, laughing, and talking in their own way. I always found it curious because I don't particularly like kids. It's not from any place of malice, just that they bring a lot of noise and chaos where I prefer peace and solitude.
Alphas: break rules
Betas: follow rules
Sigma: what are rules
Sigmas make the rules!
Make the rules that make sense…
@jimmydevine4449 true sigmas build their own empire
We have our own rules that are the rules.
Wrong, alphas make the rules. Power freaks, betas folow the rules. Sigmas will do whatever it takes to get the job done.
It's because We mind our own business and don't like to reveal much about everything.
Women hate me because I don't feed their ego, and because I don't play ''the game'' exactly according to their rules.
I had my car keyed for minding my own business, when some random girl was fishing for attention.
It does get annoying sometimes.
Sad what society has become (or perhaps always has been).
That's just women in general lmao... I've yet to meet one thats sane so don't feel bad
I rejected a girl in my job, and she started following me around the office trying to instigate me 🤷♂️
@@tbswerve2497 be wary bro, especially at work. There are some vindictive girls out there. Fragile ego's.
@@tbswerve2497 that's cause women can't handle rejection in any form... They will make your life a living hell and if it's a woman from work I'd make sure to never be alone with her and tell management all she needs to do is open her mouth and say you're being a creep and you're gonna be hurting.
@@Justsomeguysomewhere yeah I learned that the hard way 😂😂😂 it’s crazy, they want you to be a beta so bad. If you stand up for yourself, they call it toxic masculinity. It’s crazy, but thanks for the heads up.
I wonder if it ever occurs to people the reason why we're so blunt and straightforward is because life is the same way with us. We don't have the luxury to be offered the clandestine, sugar coated side of things, so why should we afford such luxuries to others? Not to mention people more often than not do not recognize when we are cordial or giving a warning shot, leaving us no other choice to say what has to be said.
true, sigmas find themselves outside of the bubble, be that because they have graduated from the game, dropped out or been side-lined along the way. the people playing the game are still caught up in all this fiesty nonsense but they're still getting thrills from it and fulfilling its prerequisites. barbie and ken keeping up with the jones's
Absolutely nailed it !!!
I have always liked to set apart time for myself, so I can reflect on all sorts of matters. I remember doing this since I was a teenager. Now I'm almost 50 and amazed to find my personality traits in videos like this one. Proud to be a sigma male.
I Tell you how a true sigma react to such a Video if he dosen't know before about that... he just say thank you...
I've been working IT mainly at the 'leading edge' , for 40 years. Some of my projects have been high profile and newsworthy. Some have been 'world first's, or solutions that were said to be impossible. But I never stay in a job for more that four years, often less because at some point I get 'Shafted'. IE I end up being very unpopular. My managers have either taken credit for my work, or refused to recognise its significance. In truth it wasn't significant to them because i refused to play the game. I've sometimes asked myself, 'why didn't I ever get to a senior level when i can do all these things? This video has now explained it. At the age of 71, I've been working for 50 years and am still working and getting new opportunities. I'd say to my younger self and say to others seeing this video, stick with it!
you have to go beyond the discomfort of distancing yourself from the tribal beliefs, which usually also means you’ll disconnect yourself from its acceptance and support. Once you are strong enough and have the confidence to stand on your own, you’ll become a real individual-you’ll believe in yourself so strongly that you can be different and not worry what others think. The need of the ego to seek the approval of others. The object of conforming is to keep others happy and to feel accepted. Conformity is imposed from above as a control mechanism. Mostly it’s imposed from within. Author Stuart Wilde
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"Be who you are and say what you feel. Because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
- Theodore Seuss Geisel
Aka Dr. Seuss
Thank you so much for your amazing content. I must say you content is creating new neural pathways for our fellow brethren. Don’t stop you have inspired me. I could never confirm and I didn’t know why. You have helped me look at myself in a better light. I will never suffer the woes of alpha and beta. And now I do not have to feel guilty about it. 🙏🏿
Appreciate the support! Keep evolving, stay true to yourself.
People hate the Truth, and we value the genuine truth above almost all else.
You wouldn't believe the levels if rage I've seen people attain after I tell them exactly what they've been trying to hide from me
I recently received a couple of anonymous hate mails which were obviously intended to distress me, but instead they just made me laugh. Your descriptin of sigmas describes me exactly.
Please share!
😌 Yes I've noticed that alot of people envy me because they see me as Average but get confused about me also that how is it possible that I'm not empathic like the 80% of people around them or them 😌
I end up by retreating from society, religion and from all platforms of manipulation, sometimes I didn't meet ppls that i know for months and still I take care of myself, make my own money, train myself etc.. most of the time I feel my freedom and sometimes I feel that I am lost. Any ways living your truth is worth it.
I was sceptical i will admit when i first came across one of your sigma videos . I am 47 and never felt comfortable as being labeled as an alpha or beta . After watching the video i feel like i stumbled upon a truth unknown that completes my puzzle . God bless and thank you for the clarity of mind and self your words have brought me ! All the boxes are checked like you could see my life’s course and actions i have taken . AMAZING ! Proud SIGMA male and i will look forward to more wisdom in your content . Subscribed
I hold grief inside , cant say goodbye . Others are wtf!
Great video, keep dem coming 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Cheers!
@@Wise.Thinker cheers 🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂
No please don’t
The loudest boos comes from the cheapest seats
And an empty can rattles the most
Nailed it👍
I'd rather be an honest asshole than a well-liked liar.
Much needed. I was wondering where all loneliness & hate coming from.
Very good description.💪💪💪
Don't need to be liked. Men need respect, not love🔥
I’d rather die on my feet than live on my knees.
you are so cool
I will not comply, I will not conform, I think for myself, I’m a lone wolf, or a stigma man, never realized it, just the way I am
I needed a good laugh in a while. Thanks for this😂
This will shock some of you: I spend NO time watching professional sports. Why? I was not in that business! I didn't want to be just a sheeple, and I would rather use my time doing something better like making money. I had an interesting job, in time they would call me to solve their "problems". It got to the point where they did not care what it cost just solve the problems and justify the financial costs. Then I told them how much they owed me. I traveled a lot (West Coast and Alaska, etc.). I worked alone usually and loved it. I was like a rattlesnake on the tarmac. People were nice but careful around me because there were problems they definitely did not want to have. I carried a million dollars worth of liability insurance. I got respect. I miss it now that I'm retired and have everything I want!
Could understand why I felt so different compared to the majority. Felt alone and viewed others as cookie cutter. It’s great to be hated for being a free thinker and not wanting to conform to anything! Stay strong and confident fellow SIGMAs’!
Jea no one of us was fooled by corona 😉
Ohhh got it right, that's pure...absolute real!
It is a powerful ground of integrity that a Sigma uses without getting a drive for showing his ego. This is where Sigma' s have their strength. One thing I do question is....could a Sigma co-exist within society, and learn about the popular norms without conforming to them? Or find a popular norm they would prefer, and fit with an approach of their own ideas?
They see the norms they can use them to their advantage but their existence is not relying upon them as it is for others.
Facts, as a sigma male me self, pull upp🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Great video explains alot about myself.. subbed
Awesome, thank you!
Mahalo SO much for this video! I’ve always thought I was a bit weird, but now I understand myself so much more. I really appreciate you taking the time to help me understand myself better with this video.
This is spot on...thank you
I used to think it was something action related but the more I realize it was the light that exudes from within and nobody can dim it. We are ruthlessly dangerous and that's something we should firmly hold grasp towards. Let go of the ones that lack substance and move on. 💯
I’ve noticed even as someone that’s introverted and keeps to himself I still get haters
Sigma male is seeking his own fulfillment , without distractions. He does not need constant human connection to be complete. Or a drama
Mentor to guide his life , Sigma male will do his research on the internet , without unnecessary advice from others, Sigma male knows how
to nourish his creativity and individuality without interference, SIgma male gets criticize for being detached or distance, But the majority
are detached themselves , mostly everybody is clued to their iPhones or cellphones, There is no human to human interacting communications, most of the time. They should talk, Really,
Dang, this hit home on so many points
It’s because we understand life isn’t a vacation or a fun house it’s a job , task and objective. We have 0 external validation. We do what must be done at any cost weather society like it or not .
Thanks for this message, it will go a long way in the fight for what is mine.❤
Absolutely going to help me through my Walk of Life I have a new understanding about myself and why I act the way I do it's been troubling all my life and I watch this one short video and explains just about everything now I'm not completely and exactly like all these points but about 80% of them are definitely the person I am I am 61 years if I would have heard this 40 years ago my life would have been a lot easier maybe at least I have an understanding now thank you for this video!!!!!?
Because we are not shallow and transparent but mostly because we could care less what people think
#9 describes me perfectly.
IMHO, ALL these titles of Alpha, Beta, Sigma, Red\Blue/Black Pill, etc, are just 'niches'. Each needs followers which can possibly generate revenue for that particular group. Anyone can create a 'niche', and there's nothing wrong with that
Most of my course mates hate me and see me as annoying. When asked about it, not one of them could give a distinct reason as to why they dislike me so. Other departments in my school noticed and think I'm being bullied for no reason which sucks.
same here. i think the main reason is we refuse to go along with their fantasy stories.but they don't consciously know that's what it is.
My brother told me the same thing.
I AGREE BELIEVE THE SIGMA MAY NOT EXPERIENCE FEAR.
Only fools don't experience fear.
@@MJ-hg1mk GUTLESS MORONS EXPERIENCE FEAR.
Agreed. We resist the flight response from an early age. We retain our life lessons and observe the mistakes of our peers. We read people and situations. We know that silence unnerves most people and causes them to reveal themselves. We do not fear being alone or the dark. We are comfortable with conflict and being judged. Our confidence in our own abilities is born of experience.
Fear is not our drug. Courage is the only answer.
I agree, I graduated from college with a business degree a year ago, but I am a sigma male and people hate what they don't understand. I don't ever expect anyone to follow me, but upper management always sees me as a threat. I have been in between jobs the past year because I don't kiss a$$ towards upper management. It seems working in the office is about kissing a$$. There is a lot of incompetent people working in jobs that are not qualified. I lost my job because I was reserved and careful with my words. 99 percent of my problems are with upper management, but the thing is I don't ever have problems with my coworkers. It only tells me that upper management don't like what they can't control. I believe now that I am the point that I could no longer work for the man. I have to start my own business and fly solo because working for a company brings jealousy and sabotaging.
"Fear no hate"...yup.
That explains why I’ve always been the type person people tend to dislike. I don’t follow crowds, I’m not a “yes man”, I see people for who they really are, I stand up and speak up for what I feel is right and the list goes on. I march to the beat of my own drum. I’m not a follower and I’d rather be alone than with a crowd of people. I don’t easily trust people and I distance myself from others. I have a bad temper and I prefer to keep it under control. So yeah, I guess I’m a Sigma.
SPOT ON.
People get quiet when im around. There is always a tension.
Love the projected hatred.
The projectors hate that.
Young fellas, fron an old head at the end of his journey - who never had the benefit of tools like this video to help Id & understand one's self...Aim for jobs that are technical in nature if you can. These tend to give the most autonomy - as long as you are good!
Anything fron high school Tech Ed to CPA to Engineering to research scientist...you need to be able to show value that DOES NOT depend on your ability to be liked at work. Save yourself a lifetime of frustration.
Good luck.
Brings to mind two men I admire, John McCain and Pat Tillman. RIP brothers.
We don't refuse to follow heard mentality... We just don't...
Thank you for this ❤👍🏼
Any time!
Yes...I think the DSM diagnosis may be a cross of Anti Social, Sociopath and Narcissist Personality.
I had co workers ask me during a meeting, “how can we get to know you?” and I simply stated “Just ask questions. I’m not going to just spill everything out.”
I really can't stand people and I will talk with them but I don't wanna or care to fit in .
That’s true we aren’t cowards and we don’t talk behind other’s backs. They don’t like fake people either.
... Wish I had this video while growing up --it could have been a huge help!
wow my smegma brethren, my stinky socks were blown off of my feet and my fedora has been tipped. This video reminded me the responsibility to be the true sigma Tate wants me to be. Truly a toe curling experience...
The only approval and validation I need is my own.
"All men are NOT created equal" but they are equally created. To say all men are created equal is like saying "forgive and forget" old sayings that do not ring true.
My 2 sons watched this video very attentively and used it to analyze people who touched their lives or ruined their childhoods. The truth must reign supreme.
My Sigma parents sacrificed their lives altruistically for my family's happiness and success.
A trend that I have noticed enough now that i am comfortable with publicly voicing after watching, studying the chats of and weighing up to people I know personally who , without a doubt embody the characteristics of the subject matter (Empaths, sigmas, INFPs etc) would never write self declaring comments on videos about their said characteristics let alone watch videos related to these traits and respond in modesty and infact in my real life experience people ive met who tend to self declare these types of traits usually turn out to be quite the opposite, both knowingly or unknowingly through cognitive dissodence, narcissism or straight up sociopathy. In saying this, I hope to god that Im actually tottally wrong about this and I have had just a one-in-a-million bad social run in my lifetime.
Yeah...I have all those traits but I dont think I'm a sigma, I'm beyond that.
FACTUAL TALKING POINTS SIR .... SALUTE 👍🏽
When you understand then you don't even need to say anything.
Should be noted, Sigma are self aware they are like this, that old saying "an alpha never states hes alpha" dosn't apply to sigma, we know what we are and we say whatever we want when needed, silent when we choose.
Proud to be a Z = alpha + sigma
Sigmas are too strong i can spot a weakness in people with the quickness and will use it against them if it comes to it...
That isn't sigma behavior.
@@ayowser01 🤣
@@LoneWolfReddwdym 🤣
They perfectly can if they wanted to!@@ayowser01
The Core of Me is Sigma but I can be both…pending what situation calls for…
I for the longest time thought I was taking the role of an alpha. But after hearing this video, it seems I'm guilty of some of these characteristics.
Suppose change happens to us in unexpected ways.
PERFECTLY STATED.
herd mentality vs individualism - that was always the case
Sigma here...66 years old... and BOY am I happy!
i remember when i was young when i do speak and everytime i've been places, from the past experience i've got tired of the same things. and i think i speak for every sigma males that we dislike repeatly ourselves that we change our behavier, well of course we've got smarter and stop interacting those who will find our true motivation. no disrespect but we ain't going there to attrack our attention to other anymore.
Yes we are free thinkers and we do make progress when we work on a project without to be disturb. and when the push get to shove we rather to keep for ourselves, we don't have time with haters, it just a waste of negative energy.
Even when i was young surrounding by family and friends i always felt an outcast, and i don't know why i like solitude feeling more free and free thinking. at the age of 30 in 1992 i start question why we label human since the age of humanity, and i have no degree in physic and i figuring out visualizing and suprising when i say to my younger nephew, he came back next year and the porfessor of physic told the same things as me.
I think this is the reason why my dad sort of hated me because I was always different and I never did what he wanted me to do.
If you don't like me, it's because I don't want you to.
I love it when I get laughed at and then I zoom in and watch my subject like a hawk how quiet he gets.
It's the first time I've heard the term sigma men. But this video basically described me.
I felt every bit of this. Thank you.