I am alone. Completely. I am so blessed that this is not a coincidence. I wear my scars proudly, scars of child molestation, rape, beaten, starved...then began a relationship with a narcissist for 9 years. More abuse. But this is not the moral of my story. God pulled me from the darkness of addiction (sober 12 years on 23rd) It is much more beautiful than that. He will use every scar to heal another wound of some soul. We are being made in His image. The process is beyond painful. But He did it for me. So here I sit, abandoned, crying from the lonliness, but clinging ever more to my Jesus. The one and only man who will ever love me for the sweet soul He gave me. I long to see God. Come quickly Lord.
I have not suffered like you. I can't imagine. However, I have known loneliness. Please know there are good, caring people in the world. Reach out. Of course, Jesus is always with us, but I think He would encourage us to be with others, to do for others. Helping others is very healing... we forget our troubles, at least for a while. God bless you. Hugs from Miami, FL! ❤
YOU have scaled a mountain many people have never even encountered or if they have weren't able at that time to attempt the rugged climb. You DID it! You trusted and saw that God is good! Blessings to you sister and may your post encourage those facing mountains. Praise God!
Just pray Read understand the Bible yourself and understand God's plans in Your life and Greatest future and Travel for God's plans are not of anyone's But your devine Plan of God's protection Over everything One Does of Love, Peace Wisdom OVER YOUR LIFESTYLE!
@SusanKennedy-s6t sorry for your pain. Perhaps our situations are different. The ones who reject me are not worthy of my presence. God will remove people from our lives that impeed our walk with Him. He sees dangers that perhaps we can't. God bless you and I wish you true peace during this season of blessings and gratefulness.
@ Thank you. What a kind response. Sadly, the Christian community has been the most unkind and shaming I’ve ever experienced. It’s nice to know there are a few kind people left.
The Christian community has been cruel to me. However, God hasn't abandon me. He now has my two sons. Now more than ever I am grateful He gave me 2 beautiful boys. This suffering is the love I have for Him. In turn, graces and spiritual signs are given to me everyday.
I spent most of my life chasing the love of a man. At 65 years old I accepted that I would never know that love. In my isolation I was able to find something far better. I learned to love myself. It's the best thing I ever did for myself.
.. Im 66 and, men I loved the most those left me.. don't wait, don't chase...love will come when you least expect it. Wish us both be loved by a man who deserve our love. Merry Christmas ✨
57 years old. Never married and I truly understand what you said and all that you could not say. I now have peace. No longer tormented by the questions: what's wrong with me? Why doesn't anybody want me? I know know that we were created intentionally and are not mistakes. To God be the glory.
I’ve given up with humanly love. 57 now and realize all this time I always had God’s unconditional love that never changes through all the years, seasons, and all the stages of my life. No human can ever match that. Not even close.
I’m around your age. I have become so distrustful I don’t know if I’m capable of a companionship type of love anymore. I longed for it for so many years but there’s a coldness that has settled over me for that type of ‘love’. I do have an empathy for those who feel alone. If I were to use just one word about my life in this world, it would be alone/lonely. This message really resonated with me deeply. Blessings to you❤
@@TamiJo6708 I'm 70 and I've been hurt so much in this life. And not from strangers, but from those the closest to me. I understand what you are saying. But don't be cold, be cautious. The Lord loves you very dearly and you are never really alone. I'm not either. Sending you hugs and love of Jesus. ❣
@@pattimoose1 ty so very much. You are absolutely right, I’m not alone. I do need to make that a mantra for myself. Lo, I am with you always. I really needed to hear this. 🥰
My husband and sons have let me down and broken my heart. The daughter-in-laws sure have helped to reject & exclude me. But God has always been by my side. He’s taught me to love me. I am enough. So, their actions are on them and God knows it. I will find my peace through him. He wipes away my tears and lifts my spirits. He is my one hope. My pure love. My beautiful world. Never give up.♥️💕
I am 66 yrs old and to this day the love I give I’ve yet to this day receive that kind of love back to me what’s keeps me strong is knowing that Jesus loves me just the way I am and that means the world to me
@sandracrandall4561 Sandra, while what you relate is true, for those in this desperately lonely situation, cut off from what was thought to be at the start as a love relationship, then other person changes leaving the woman alone, and she is not held, not acknowledged, ignored, not heard except to be told they're wrong wrong wrong - and other people are not experiencing it themselves and do not understand the deep suffering that occurs... YES, God loves us, and has Victory prepared for each of us no matter what the battles are that each faces, but it's hard when one is IN IT. Even Jesus Himself asked, “O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from Me: nevertheless not as I will, but as Thou wilt” While that was an extreme situation Jesus faced, it shows that His >human< part felt the despair, even though He KNEW what the suffering and Sacrifice would reap. So, yes, there IS suffering, we ALL have it, and yes, when we apply our Lord's Principles and Wisdom, He DOES see us through, and knowing that helps ease the suffering, but it does not ‘erase it’. It is indeed a part of being in flesh and we can indeed depend on God, the only One any of us can know for certain Loves us way beyond our finite understandings. Knowing that can make all the difference, certainly. But there is no denying the pain of rejection and abuse, only looking to our Lord His deep and complete Love of us
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2Cor 4:16-18. I have learned to pray this several times a day, everyday; whenever emptiness comes to mind. It helps me to endure, to know that this lack of love in the physical world is temporary. And if i perservere, everything i did not receive here, i will have in heaven for all eternity. I want to encourage you; we will not be here long!♡♡♡
64 and over it. Being alone is less stressful. I've had more than my share of betrayal, abuse, etc, etc. I've made peace with the past and am focussing on the future, God's plans for me. Sometimes I get a bit down but I get back up again as I have always done. It is what it is. 😊
@@ambertrufley6594 I was also crying earlier today for all the rejection from 'family' and others... I know I am loved by our Creator. It would be nice to get a hug once in a while.
Rejected at birth and raised to know I had no real value, I’ve been unloved for 71 years. I have no roots, no close family, don’t belong to anyone. Yet I was taught at age 56 by a marvelous spiritual experience how my Father in Heaven loves me. I’m still lonely, blamed for all the problems and told I must try harder. Although I now know that rejection says more about the person rejecting than their victim, I’m still in pain. So glad for CSLewis and his writings.
WOW, always thought it was only me. I'm 68 and I have never been loved or supported by a man, not even my father. Now yes, my father paid the bills (most times) in my parental home, but never came to a school program....etc. And then was a real ugly incident at age 13. I often wonder if things weren't right when I was much younger. Never dated, never married, and no children. BUT GOD....HE REALLY LOVES AND ACCEPTS ME JUST LIKE I AM. For those who think "oh these women are just lonely"...ALONE, BUT NOT LONELY. TO BE KEPT BY JESUS IS QUITE ENOUGH.🙏🙏💃💃🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏
I needed to hear this as a confirmation of how I have felt for most of my life. Those who are followers of Christ are being molded into His image and it is often a painful process. But we have glorious hope and untold blessings in Jesus!
23rd of December 2024. This is my testimony. I was broken, rejected, discarded and shunned. Now I am chosen, cherished, valued and loved unconditionally by Jesus Christ.
😭😭I needed this!! I feel this is what God wanted me to hear!! I have always known this. I know God loves me. I know it is supposed to be all I need in life. I know what God says about me. My struggle is ACCEPTING His LOVE for me over needing human love and acceptance as well. God created Eve as a helpmate for Adam. He knew Adam needed another "being". We were not created to be alone.
I lay this before God every day. Been through emotional abuse all my life. All I've ever wanted was to be a true helpmate to a man who loves our Saviour and would love me like Christ loves His church. I really don't believe there are hardly any men out there like that. The loneliness is hard. I look forward to go Home soon where there is no more pain or tears.
I was 3 to 5 yrs. Old my mother would grab my curls and tell she hated me because I looked like my father. Pretty much a daily occurrence. My father suffered from PTSD WWII. Owned me and never a normal conversation. Then at age 23yrs. Married an AirForce Fighter pilot married 44yrs. God chose to give me 3 children in my 40's. So I felt had to stay to raise my children. He is a career winer and complainer so he can always feel superior. His cheating is notorious. Nothing escapes our great God. He is love, faithful and trustworthy. All Glory to him.
This is true. Pain to purpose i lost my nephew who was 16 in a drive by shooting in 2020 i gave him the gospel 3 days before he died. But God made beauty from those ashes. I became a gospel sharer. I also forgave and hope and pray the 3 boys who did the shooting to get saved. My family doesn't understand why I feel that way, But God.
I'm a witness of what this man says. God transformed me while still being unloved & betrayed to my face. He changed me, how I respond, how quickly I forgive, how much more freely I show my love, He showed me how fearfully and wonderfully made I am, how beautiful my spirit is, how precious life is, how valuable I am, whose I am... God set me free... "If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed." -John 8:36 Amen! I thank God for loving me and never leaving my side. Every tear my heart has suffered fuels my purpose onward and deepens my understanding of spiritual things. I magnify His name, because He is worthy! Have a beautifully blessed day loved strangers 💝
She is only unloved by those who hate: the devil, demons and evil spirits, those who listen to them. They are not worth her time and effort. She is always loved by God! Her path is that of a warrior, fighting those spirits trying to destroy her, even if they look like a family member, husband, child. Never give up! God is always with you!
My sister has a German boyfriend they have kids 8,14 years old. She is an unloved woman. he keeps telling her, "You got nothing from me." and make her a punching bag here and there. She does not have a choice but to take refuge in God mercy. I was married to a British man for 20 odds years. his telling me and my son were "no body." This brought me to take refuge to our living God. Just before he psat away (82), he accepted Jesus Christ. Now i live single with my daughter, and everyday i feel an intoxicating love & peace through Christ Jesus our first love. All glory to God alone 🎉 Amen 🙏
I can see so much hurt in these posts. Truly, looking back I am grateful for every tear and every heartache there is victory and blessing. "Her pain becomes her ministry, her scars become her testimony, her story becomes a beacon of hope" 110% spot. God loved us before every sorrow and turned every single loss into a faceted faith that cuts through all the mire.
Amén!!!! To be all Praise!!! He is my rock and my fortress. Where does my help come from??? The creator of Heaven and Earth ....my Saviour, Redeemer .... lover of my Soul. ❤
I've been alone my entire life but didn't realize the impact of it until I became a Christian 40 years ago. In said time, many have let the "I love you" words fall out of their mouths but then not been inclusive. The only time they loved me was when I was in church. There was no room for them to fit me in, outside of the building that they spoke of unconditional love. The spoken words of love then became a larger feeling of rejection and pain and what has become a lifetime of working through and rising back to the surface with and through the only tangible love I've known through my heavenly Father, Husband, Friend, Lord and Savior, my everything and a resignation to become and be all He created me to be by loving those who cross my path unconditionally, no matter the cost!
I needed to hear this. To wrap my mind around the fact that God permitted me to be hated from birth, so I would know his love for me. I am 47 years old.
@maggiesalle2256 I am 100% alone. But thank you for reaching across the Internet and trying to commisserate. Much love to you, especially if you are unloved as well ❣️
I used to feel alone when I realized that at 42 to date I've never been loved properly with family, friends or my own personal relationships. It's sad! However, I did have a few people through out the years who actually cared for me. They have their own families but when they could they would share themselves with me by caring in whatever way that was needed at the time.
Not everyone is called to marriage or motherhood. It is better to be single and joyfully immerse yourself in serving God, than to be in a marriage with someone who thinks just being able to write "Mrs." in front of your name should be enough for you.
The story of the unloved woman deeply resonates with me, especially the idea that God sees and loves us even when the world turns its back. It’s comforting to know that rejection doesn’t define us. But it makes me wonder: Can we truly feel God’s love if we are still consumed by the pain of human rejection?
The Love of God gives strength, courage and certainty that we are never ever alone and He will make a way for our experiences be a source of Blessings and outpouring of His Love to fullfil His purpose. Only trust Him and remind yourself He is Love, He will never forsake, nor leave you. Nobody can love you like God in His fullness. He loves you.🌷🦋🌷
We can see so little, kind of like what is just in front of us. God sees everything--our past, present, future, into our hearts and the hearts and minds of all. I'm 52 yrs, never married, and so at peace with it finally. Looking back, I see many times/places where God did hear my prayer and was working, though at the time I didn't think that was the case. Praying for peace and hope for you this Christmas.
To conquer rejection i started loving those strangers in need .i share my love with others making their lives happier than struggling day in and day out with those that one expect to love you but are not.I sm fulfilled and happy now as i have control over sharing my ❤❤
In the world I've been admired emulated & infatuated over but never once have I been loved EXCEPT by the Father the Son & the Holy Spirit & really that's the best love bc its pure & completely unconditional
I am currently married to my sons father, I've been married to him for over 11 years. It's been rocky, I know I'm not loved correctly, I know this isn't the love God wants for me... but I don't believe in divorce. Tolerated in my marriage I am, though I give MY ALL. Anywho, I know I'm a stranger but please pray for me. I'm trying in this life. 🌹🧡
I was in the same spot, and he became physically abusive towards me. Whether you believe in divorce or not, God may remove in that manner for the safety of you and your child
I Pray that the truth of the Word of God won't hurt your feelings; But the only Truth of Divine Love that we can find in the Bible is from Jesus Christ is the only divine love by which we can be saved, healed and delivered. He is actually the only one that the Word says: In John 316 “For this is how God LOVE the world: He gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life. Acts 4:12 There is salvation in no one else! Under all heaven there is no other name for men to call upon to save them.” There is only ONE True God Father Son and Holy Spirit three in one. There is no mother earth. In Genesis it states clearly that He created all things, He said: Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. Therefore, we can not call The earth mother earth, because it was created by an Omnipotent Creator. The one that truly loves us for REAL is God! That gave His only begotten Son as a sacrifice for our sins so that We could be saved. The payment of sin is death. Therefore we were all going in a wrong path of condemnation but when we accept Jesus as our personal Saviour by repenting/baptising for our sins; and living our life according to the Word of God. The Word of God says clearly that there is no condemnation, for those who are in Christ. . For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. In Romans 8:1 says; So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. Deuteronomio 4:35 “He showed you these things so you would know that the Lord is God and there is no other. As you can see, the Bible has all the answers that we need to know so that we won't fall for the lies of the devil. May God bless you and everyone that reads and does this truths. Amen!
The message about God using pain to create purpose is incredibly moving. Seeing life as clay in the hands of a potter gives a whole new perspective to struggles. But it raises a question for me: Are all pains necessary for God’s plan, or are some of them self-inflicted, requiring us to overcome them through faith?
Amen! My life is a testimony for this everlasting love of God after times of broken-hearted from human love. I meditate on the words of God and has been experiencing the joy that no man can offer 🙏🏼 ✝️🕊🎶💕
I'm not unloved, i am the daughter of a King who lives me unconditionally. I'm not perfect but He still loves me. I'm 72, i walked away from my alcoholic, emotionally abusive husband at 48, I've found a peace in God's love 😘
It is true that no human love could ever match the love of God. Their is no comparison. But God created Adam and Eve for LOVE and a relationship not just to multiply. So even though we have the love of God, we still long for the love of a husband, and God is the one who placed that desire in us.❤❤✝️🙏
Anyone in a 'Christian' relationship experiencing this kind of coldness and almost hatred should remind their spouse that nobody will escape God's judgement - one day we shall all have to give an account of what we've done or not done - what will we plead? Innocent of all wrongdoing? Or, I forgot all about the command to cherish my wife - didn't know it applied to me! Nobody will escape God's judgement!
@laurafeher9694 I wish I could like your comment more than once. It cut deep but is true. Amazing how many we are but God is real and I know He is the Husband of the unloved woman rejected from her youth. Isaiah 54:5-6. I have found my identity, completeness - and love! - in Him.
I was well loved by the man in my dreams in my early 20's. We wanted to get married but for no good reason my parents separated us. I tried to get over him by marrying someone else several years later but that was a disaster as I was horrifically abused for a lost a decade. Now it is difficult to trust a man again while crying for my first love. 😢😢😢
My husband has had dementia for five years. Spent all our money, and got in debt. No love, total apathy. So hard to feel love even from God. This is a horrible disease watching someone loose their mind, functioning and health. Hardest ministry Jesus has ever given me. 👆🏽🎺💫⚓️💖
This video is so reassuring for me. I am 49 and have been single for 11 years. I have dated but not found the right one. I have come back to Christ after over 20 years of not following Him. I have faith that He will provide me with a husband if it is His will. I do not feel "unloved", because I have a few good friends and a few family who make me feel some love, but I deeply desire a husband kind of love. I do feel unseen or unheard sometimes, but to be reminded that God is here with me through all the feelings and desires and hurts I have really helps give me strength and hope. I have strong faith that God knows just what I need and that is what He will give me.
I am loved deeply by God. I’ve been let down betrayed and suffered chasing after insecure and unloving people people can never fill the hole that is inside of you. Only Christ can do that.
I am 68 years old. I am an 'unloved woman' from birth. I know its part of the Curse of Man, in which we all must participate,.to greater or lesser degrees..God owes me nothing.. (Thanks to Margaret Clarksons book)
Ive been unloved for 66 years. But i am loved by Jesus AND I WILL serve Him all the days of my life.😊
I luv you!
Me too! What would we do without Jesus!
Not always.
It is time to love yourself ❤
Best love ever.
“God is close to the brokenhearted.”
Psalm 34:18
🕊️🌿💚
Amen in Jesus Christ's name 🙏🏻
Unloved, betrayed and abandoned by humans but Jesus never left me. Loved and watched over by Jesus my whole life.
Amen ❤🕊
Amen ❤️
Amen 🙏
Same.
Unloved by this world !
LOVED by GOD !
Amen
Amen. Abused, mistreated, isolated even hated by the world 🌎 but comforted, strengthened, and blessed by God. To God be the glory ❣️
My husband is unloving ! Which makes a unloving marriage ..thank you God for loving me❤️
Family life and beyond are abusive and hateful but God ❤
I am alone. Completely. I am so blessed that this is not a coincidence. I wear my scars proudly, scars of child molestation, rape, beaten, starved...then began a relationship with a narcissist for 9 years. More abuse. But this is not the moral of my story. God pulled me from the darkness of addiction (sober 12 years on 23rd) It is much more beautiful than that. He will use every scar to heal another wound of some soul. We are being made in His image. The process is beyond painful. But He did it for me. So here I sit, abandoned, crying from the lonliness, but clinging ever more to my Jesus. The one and only man who will ever love me for the sweet soul He gave me. I long to see God. Come quickly Lord.
I have not suffered like you. I can't imagine. However, I have known loneliness. Please know there are good, caring people in the world. Reach out. Of course, Jesus is always with us, but I think He would encourage us to be with others, to do for others. Helping others is very healing... we forget our troubles, at least for a while. God bless you. Hugs from Miami, FL! ❤
@marygomez9240 thank you. Yes, i love helping others. You do forget your own problems and the reward is great. Be blessed sister.
YOU have scaled a mountain many people have never even encountered or if they have weren't able at that time to attempt the rugged climb. You DID it! You trusted and saw that God is good! Blessings to you sister and may your post encourage those facing mountains. Praise God!
Just pray Read understand the Bible yourself and understand God's plans in Your life and Greatest future and Travel for God's plans are not of anyone's But your devine Plan of God's protection Over everything One Does of Love, Peace Wisdom OVER YOUR LIFESTYLE!
His purpose stays.
Rejection is Gods Protection ❤
That is so encouraging. Thank you.
That’s not true. Rejection by “loved” ones such as a spouse is just plain rejection.
@SusanKennedy-s6t sorry for your pain. Perhaps our situations are different. The ones who reject me are not worthy of my presence. God will remove people from our lives that impeed our walk with Him. He sees dangers that perhaps we can't. God bless you and I wish you true peace during this season of blessings and gratefulness.
@ Thank you. What a kind response. Sadly, the Christian community has been the most unkind and shaming I’ve ever experienced. It’s nice to know there are a few kind people left.
The Christian community has been cruel to me. However, God hasn't abandon me. He now has my two sons. Now more than ever I am grateful He gave me 2 beautiful boys. This suffering is the love I have for Him. In turn, graces and spiritual signs are given to me everyday.
I spent most of my life chasing the love of a man. At 65 years old I accepted that I would never know that love. In my isolation I was able to find something far better. I learned to love myself. It's the best thing I ever did for myself.
.. Im 66 and, men I loved the most those left me.. don't wait, don't chase...love will come when you least expect it. Wish us both be loved by a man who deserve our love. Merry Christmas ✨
57 years old. Never married and I truly understand what you said and all that you could not say. I now have peace. No longer tormented by the questions: what's wrong with me? Why doesn't anybody want me? I know know that we were created intentionally and are not mistakes. To God be the glory.
Unloved, but beautifully and wonderfully MADE by the only One who really matters. Praise God. Amen. ❤
Amen. ❤
So true 🎯
I’ve given up with humanly love. 57 now and realize all this time I always had God’s unconditional love that never changes through all the years, seasons, and all the stages of my life. No human can ever match that. Not even close.
Amen
I’m around your age. I have become so distrustful I don’t know if I’m capable of a companionship type of love anymore. I longed for it for so many years but there’s a coldness that has settled over me for that type of ‘love’. I do have an empathy for those who feel alone. If I were to use just one word about my life in this world, it would be alone/lonely. This message really resonated with me deeply. Blessings to you❤
@@TamiJo6708 I'm 70 and I've been hurt so much in this life. And not from strangers, but from those the closest to me. I understand what you are saying. But don't be cold, be cautious. The Lord loves you very dearly and you are never really alone. I'm not either. Sending you hugs and love of Jesus. ❣
@@pattimoose1 ty so very much. You are absolutely right, I’m not alone. I do need to make that a mantra for myself. Lo, I am with you always. I really needed to hear this. 🥰
@@TamiJo6708 you are so so welcome! And He won't leave us or forsake us!! Bless you so much!!!
I've never really been loved by anyone but God. He is my everything.❤❤❤
Same. And Rufus 🐈
My husband and sons have let me down and broken my heart. The daughter-in-laws sure have helped to reject & exclude me. But God has always been by my side. He’s taught me to love me. I am enough. So, their actions are on them and God knows it. I will find my peace through him. He wipes away my tears and lifts my spirits. He is my one hope. My pure love. My beautiful world.
Never give up.♥️💕
Amen unloved by man loved by God
I am 66 yrs old and to this day the love I give I’ve yet to this day receive that kind of love back to me what’s keeps me strong is knowing that Jesus loves me just the way I am and that means the world to me
I quite understand a thousand times 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🫂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Me too-age 67
Thank you for sharing your testimony!! ❤🩵
47
I am that unloved woman. This is definitely speaking to me 💔
Or yet to love and be loved
Same here.
God bless you.. There's lots of us
Same ❤
@@ONLYLOVEIZATION
You're a beautiful lovely soul🕊
The lack of physical touch or understanding is depressing and soul crushing. I know Jesus loves me but the longing for human love is torture
Do not despair...You are the Daughter of the Most High God 👍🥰🧓👼🙏
@sandracrandall4561 Sandra, while what you relate is true, for those in this desperately lonely situation, cut off from what was thought to be at the start as a love relationship, then other person changes leaving the woman alone, and she is not held, not acknowledged, ignored, not heard except to be told they're wrong wrong wrong - and other people are not experiencing it themselves and do not understand the deep suffering that occurs...
YES, God loves us, and has Victory prepared for each of us no matter what the battles are that each faces, but it's hard when one is IN IT. Even Jesus Himself asked, “O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from Me: nevertheless not as I will, but as Thou wilt” While that was an extreme situation Jesus faced, it shows that His >human< part felt the despair, even though He KNEW what the suffering and Sacrifice would reap. So, yes, there IS suffering, we ALL have it, and yes, when we apply our Lord's Principles and Wisdom, He DOES see us through, and knowing that helps ease the suffering, but it does not ‘erase it’. It is indeed a part of being in flesh and we can indeed depend on God, the only One any of us can know for certain Loves us way beyond our finite understandings. Knowing that can make all the difference, certainly. But there is no denying the pain of rejection and abuse, only looking to our Lord His deep and complete Love of us
That part!!!
I absolutely agree. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2Cor 4:16-18.
I have learned to pray this several times a day, everyday; whenever emptiness comes to mind. It helps me to endure, to know that this lack of love in the physical world is temporary. And if i perservere, everything i did not receive here, i will have in heaven for all eternity. I want to encourage you; we will not be here long!♡♡♡
64 and over it. Being alone is less stressful. I've had more than my share of betrayal, abuse, etc, etc. I've made peace with the past and am focussing on the future, God's plans for me. Sometimes I get a bit down but I get back up again as I have always done. It is what it is. 😊
I was crying an hr ago telling God I want a family so bad. To feel loved, physical touch I long for. ❤ I needed this video Thank you
@@ambertrufley6594 I was also crying earlier today for all the rejection from 'family' and others... I know I am loved by our Creator. It would be nice to get a hug once in a while.
Thank you Jesus for always loving me when no one else did. Thank you for perfect love
Hated by demons. Loved by innocent people children animals and upright Angel's.
Amen
Rejected at birth and raised to know I had no real value, I’ve been unloved for 71 years. I have no roots, no close family, don’t belong to anyone. Yet I was taught at age 56 by a marvelous spiritual experience how my Father in Heaven loves me. I’m still lonely, blamed for all the problems and told I must try harder.
Although I now know that rejection says more about the person rejecting than their victim, I’m still in pain.
So glad for CSLewis and his writings.
Bible: God is our husband
I'm right behind you, dear. ❤ Merry Christmas from New Zealand 2024
@@anncox7474God is everybody's husband
@ Merry Christmas from a Yorkshire woman living in Arizona USA. 🇺🇸 🇬🇧🎄♥️
I am loved by all mighty God. Who doesn’t love me doesn’t matter. The king loves me 🙏
100% agree 🙏
WOW, always thought it was only me. I'm 68 and I have never been loved or supported by a man, not even my father. Now yes, my father paid the bills (most times) in my parental home, but never came to a school program....etc. And then was a real ugly incident at age 13. I often wonder if things weren't right when I was much younger. Never dated, never married, and no children. BUT GOD....HE REALLY LOVES AND ACCEPTS ME JUST LIKE I AM. For those who think "oh these women are just lonely"...ALONE, BUT NOT LONELY. TO BE KEPT BY JESUS IS QUITE ENOUGH.🙏🙏💃💃🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen, same here 💕🙌
Me too 💕 61 yrs old.
We are stronger than most..not perfect..just stronger..glory to God
I needed to hear this as a confirmation of how I have felt for most of my life. Those who are followers of Christ are being molded into His image and it is often a painful process. But we have glorious hope and untold blessings in Jesus!
23rd of December 2024. This is my testimony. I was broken, rejected, discarded and shunned. Now I am chosen, cherished, valued and loved unconditionally by Jesus Christ.
You are the Daughter of the Most High God
Unloved by this world But totally loved by GOD !!!
😭😭I needed this!! I feel this is what God wanted me to hear!! I have always known this. I know God loves me. I know it is supposed to be all I need in life. I know what God says about me. My struggle is ACCEPTING His LOVE for me over needing human love and acceptance as well. God created Eve as a helpmate for Adam. He knew Adam needed another "being". We were not created to be alone.
I lay this before God every day. Been through emotional abuse all my life. All I've ever wanted was to be a true helpmate to a man who loves our Saviour and would love me like Christ loves His church. I really don't believe there are hardly any men out there like that. The loneliness is hard. I look forward to go Home soon where there is no more pain or tears.
Thank you, Father. You are more than I've ever deserved. I Glorify you Lord
I was 3 to 5 yrs. Old my mother would grab my curls and tell she hated me because I looked like my father. Pretty much a daily occurrence. My father suffered from PTSD WWII. Owned me and never a normal conversation. Then at age 23yrs. Married an AirForce Fighter pilot married 44yrs. God chose to give me 3 children in my 40's. So I felt had to stay to raise my children. He is a career winer and complainer so he can always feel superior. His cheating is notorious. Nothing escapes our great God. He is love, faithful and trustworthy. All Glory to him.
God is always there for my self worth I love to read and listen to sermons from the book of Ephesians. You really see how much we are loved by GOD.
Your mother's in hell now, isn't she?
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I am in awe of God's glory. I absolutely love Him 💓
I'm nearly 54 and I still hope
This is true. Pain to purpose i lost my nephew who was 16 in a drive by shooting in 2020 i gave him the gospel 3 days before he died. But God made beauty from those ashes. I became a gospel sharer. I also forgave and hope and pray the 3 boys who did the shooting to get saved. My family doesn't understand why I feel that way, But God.
I’ve been rejected my entire life. I don’t understand. My entire family left me when I found GOD. HE is all I need.
Yes me too,I'm the crazy ,trouble maker they say! BUT GOD IS MY DEFENSE..MY PAINS HAVE A PURPOSE I THRUST GOD
Yes I can feel others ,pain
You are the Daughter of the Most High God 👍🥰🧓👼🙏
God is my refuge and my strength……I still need to be strong enough to fight this pain
I'm a witness of what this man says. God transformed me while still being unloved & betrayed to my face. He changed me, how I respond, how quickly I forgive, how much more freely I show my love, He showed me how fearfully and wonderfully made I am, how beautiful my spirit is, how precious life is, how valuable I am, whose I am... God set me free... "If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed." -John 8:36 Amen! I thank God for loving me and never leaving my side. Every tear my heart has suffered fuels my purpose onward and deepens my understanding of spiritual things. I magnify His name, because He is worthy! Have a beautifully blessed day loved strangers 💝
@@AnnaH4R God bless you for the blessing you are to other people, giving people hope truth Christ our Lord and Savior!
Most of us, (unloved women), have been in relationships with narcissists. It is all a Devine path.
It's because narcissists force you to face your worst fears and live your worst nightmares.
We have to be fearless when we take our light out into the world. People will try to put it out, but we are the salt of the earth.
I truly believe that is my destiny. One failed marriage and considering divorcing my second husband.
Not your destiny it's mistaken decisions.
Everyone is a narcissist today….. it’s easy to accuse. Please stop reading the internet women and finding these buzz words.
God's love is pure❤
She is only unloved by those who hate: the devil, demons and evil spirits, those who listen to them. They are not worth her time and effort. She is always loved by God! Her path is that of a warrior, fighting those spirits trying to destroy her, even if they look like a family member, husband, child. Never give up! God is always with you!
My sister has a German boyfriend they have kids 8,14 years old. She is an unloved woman. he keeps telling her, "You got nothing from me." and make her a punching bag here and there. She does not have a choice but to take refuge in God mercy.
I was married to a British man for 20 odds years. his telling me and my son were "no body." This brought me to take refuge to our living God.
Just before he psat away (82), he accepted Jesus Christ.
Now i live single with my daughter, and everyday i feel an intoxicating love & peace through Christ Jesus our first love. All glory to God alone 🎉 Amen 🙏
Your sister will be free of such a man
And You'll not live without a man to love
There is always a choice.
I can see so much hurt in these posts. Truly, looking back I am grateful for every tear and every heartache there is victory and blessing. "Her pain becomes her ministry, her scars become her testimony, her story becomes a beacon of hope" 110% spot. God loved us before every sorrow and turned every single loss into a faceted faith that cuts through all the mire.
Only the greatest of souls weep for others
@@michaelmalech5742 Or those who have felt that pain
Amén!!!! To be all Praise!!! He is my rock and my fortress. Where does my help come from??? The creator of Heaven and Earth ....my Saviour, Redeemer .... lover of my Soul. ❤
Meh. Nah, I'm good being alone. I think being alone is indeed a gift from God. The peace is priceless.
How I envy you! Be blessed.
We are not alone!
I've been alone my entire life but didn't realize the impact of it until I became a Christian 40 years ago. In said time, many have let the "I love you" words fall out of their mouths but then not been inclusive. The only time they loved me was when I was in church. There was no room for them to fit me in, outside of the building that they spoke of unconditional love. The spoken words of love then became a larger feeling of rejection and pain and what has become a lifetime of working through and rising back to the surface with and through the only tangible love I've known through my heavenly Father, Husband, Friend, Lord and Savior, my everything and a resignation to become and be all He created me to be by loving those who cross my path unconditionally, no matter the cost!
Jesus is the Man of my house!
I needed to hear this.
To wrap my mind around the fact that God permitted me to be hated from birth, so I would know his love for me. I am 47 years old.
Ephesians you are totally accepted in the beloved💝👑💎💎💎💓🌸
You are not hated....You are the Daughter of the Most High God 👍🥰🧓👼🙏
@sandracrandall4561 Amen.
This is so relatable. I've wondered what it is about me that results in people treating me the way they do.
Unloved woman right here. 🙋
And here also always❤😢
@vickizimmer ❤️🩹
You are not alone.
@maggiesalle2256 I am 100% alone. But thank you for reaching across the Internet and trying to commisserate. Much love to you, especially if you are unloved as well ❣️
I used to feel alone when I realized that at 42 to date I've never been loved properly with family, friends or my own personal relationships. It's sad! However, I did have a few people through out the years who actually cared for me.
They have their own families but when they could they would share themselves with me by caring in whatever way that was needed at the time.
I can testify that this is absolutely true!
Its a miracle that such a video even exists...no one truly cares for an unloved woman
Lord, Jesus Christ, son of God, have mercy on me a sinner. 🙏🏻
Thank you Christ Yeshua for your unfailing love. Thanks C.S Lewis for the encouragement and reminder.
Thank You Father God for always being with me & loving me. I will be Your example here on Earth, I get my orders from You Lord.
Not everyone is called to marriage or motherhood. It is better to be single and joyfully immerse yourself in serving God, than to be in a marriage with someone who thinks just being able to write "Mrs." in front of your name should be enough for you.
To be completely unloved by your family who looks away when you’re being abused instead of rescuing you from the “burning house”
We have strived to somehow be the textbook woman. Love God and let Him lead, nothing else is worth it ❤.
The story of the unloved woman deeply resonates with me, especially the idea that God sees and loves us even when the world turns its back. It’s comforting to know that rejection doesn’t define us. But it makes me wonder: Can we truly feel God’s love if we are still consumed by the pain of human rejection?
You ARE the Daughter of the Most High God 👍🥰🧓👼🙏
This is God sent for me, putting in words my growth and healing🥲🥰🙏
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Trusting in the Lord - and nobody else - NOBODY!
The Love of God gives strength, courage and certainty that we are never ever alone and He will make a way for our experiences be a source of Blessings and outpouring of His Love to fullfil His purpose. Only trust Him and remind yourself He is Love, He will never forsake, nor leave you. Nobody can love you like God in His fullness. He loves you.🌷🦋🌷
I don't know how to hve hope as i feel my prayers are not heard I can't take it anymore
YOU are the Daughter of the Most High God 👍🥰🧓👼🙏
We can see so little, kind of like what is just in front of us. God sees everything--our past, present, future, into our hearts and the hearts and minds of all. I'm 52 yrs, never married, and so at peace with it finally. Looking back, I see many times/places where God did hear my prayer and was working, though at the time I didn't think that was the case. Praying for peace and hope for you this Christmas.
It still hurts.
Thank you for being honest on here
i know God loves me, still hurts tho 🤷🏻♀️
@@louisesantaniello1855 thank you for sharing
Yes it does,I had a meltdown and this video brought me here,God bless you all you are not going through this alone.
Yes it does!!!!
Thank you almighty God for your love ❤❤❤
Yes it hurts too much GOD LOVES ME NO MATTER WHAT THATS WHAT COUNTS MOST..
Pain isn't wasted in God's economy...love that
thank you
To conquer rejection i started loving those strangers in need .i share my love with others making their lives happier than struggling day in and day out with those that one expect to love you but are not.I sm fulfilled and happy now as i have control over sharing my ❤❤
In the world I've been admired emulated & infatuated over but never once have I been loved EXCEPT by the Father the Son & the Holy Spirit & really that's the best love bc its pure & completely unconditional
I am currently married to my sons father, I've been married to him for over 11 years. It's been rocky, I know I'm not loved correctly, I know this isn't the love God wants for me... but I don't believe in divorce. Tolerated in my marriage I am, though I give MY ALL. Anywho, I know I'm a stranger but please pray for me. I'm trying in this life. 🌹🧡
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@jessicahitchens6926 🌹🌹
You are the Daughter of the Most High God 👍🥰🧓👼🙏
I was in the same spot, and he became physically abusive towards me. Whether you believe in divorce or not, God may remove in that manner for the safety of you and your child
@@sandracrandall4561 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼
I have no need of love from anything in this world. The divine mother and father love me beautifully.
I Pray that the truth of the Word of God won't hurt your feelings; But the only Truth of Divine Love that we can find in the Bible is from Jesus Christ is the only divine love by which we can be saved, healed and delivered.
He is actually the only one that the Word says:
In John 316 “For this is how God LOVE the world: He gave His one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.
Acts 4:12 There is salvation in no one else! Under all heaven there is no other name for men to call upon to save them.”
There is only ONE True God Father Son and Holy Spirit three in one. There is no mother earth. In Genesis it states clearly that He created all things, He said:
Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. Therefore, we can not call The earth mother earth, because it was created by an Omnipotent Creator. The one that truly loves us for REAL is God! That gave His only begotten Son as a sacrifice for our sins so that We could be saved. The payment of sin is death. Therefore we were all going in a wrong path of condemnation but when we accept Jesus as our personal Saviour by repenting/baptising for our sins; and living our life according to the Word of God. The Word of God says clearly that there is no condemnation, for those who are in Christ. . For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. In Romans 8:1 says; So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. Deuteronomio 4:35 “He showed you these things so you would know that the Lord is God and there is no other.
As you can see, the Bible has all the answers that we need to know so that we won't fall for the lies of the devil. May God bless you and everyone that reads and does this truths. Amen!
Thank you for this. I relate.
Being lonely is one thing but being alone you r not. Our saviour said He would never leave or forsake us Jesus said that and He is Faithful and True
The message about God using pain to create purpose is incredibly moving. Seeing life as clay in the hands of a potter gives a whole new perspective to struggles. But it raises a question for me: Are all pains necessary for God’s plan, or are some of them self-inflicted, requiring us to overcome them through faith?
Very Encouraging...based on God 's WORD...be Blessed 🙏🏿
Amen! My life is a testimony for this everlasting love of God after times of broken-hearted from human love. I meditate on the words of God and has been experiencing the joy that no man can offer 🙏🏼 ✝️🕊🎶💕
Like he says Gods love transforms our felt rejection by those close to us
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Yeshuah Messiah and Abba is my life now I am going to be a living testimony of His Glory and Wonders
So true I have felt like this many times
I'm not unloved, i am the daughter of a King who lives me unconditionally. I'm not perfect but He still loves me. I'm 72, i walked away from my alcoholic, emotionally abusive husband at 48, I've found a peace in God's love 😘
It is true that no human love could ever match the love of God. Their is no comparison.
But God created Adam and Eve for LOVE and a relationship not just to multiply. So even though we have the love of God, we still long for the love of a husband, and God is the one who placed that desire in us.❤❤✝️🙏
Excellent narrative. Thank you
I needed this. This is beautifully written ❤
Anyone in a 'Christian' relationship experiencing this kind of coldness and almost hatred should remind their spouse that nobody will escape God's judgement - one day we shall all have to give an account of what we've done or not done - what will we plead? Innocent of all wrongdoing? Or, I forgot all about the command to cherish my wife - didn't know it applied to me! Nobody will escape God's judgement!
Remain Strong
@laurafeher9694 I wish I could like your comment more than once. It cut deep but is true. Amazing how many we are but God is real and I know He is the Husband of the unloved woman rejected from her youth. Isaiah 54:5-6. I have found my identity, completeness - and love! - in Him.
This message really speaks to me. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you CS Lewis and all who made this available .. also and above all
Thank you YeshuaYahweh
I was well loved by the man in my dreams in my early 20's. We wanted to get married but for no good reason my parents separated us. I tried to get over him by marrying someone else several years later but that was a disaster as I was horrifically abused for a lost a decade. Now it is difficult to trust a man again while crying for my first love. 😢😢😢
If he was your love he'd be with you
You...are the Daughter of the most High God 👍🥰🧓👼🙏
Love this! It's so encouraging!
Unloved by the world, LOVED BY THE CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH (YAHUAH). 🤗🔥
My husband has had dementia for five years. Spent all our money, and got in debt. No love, total apathy. So hard to feel love even from God. This is a horrible disease watching someone loose their mind, functioning and health. Hardest ministry Jesus has ever given me. 👆🏽🎺💫⚓️💖
Remain Strong And Rely on God's Grace
Never found true love until i met Jesus. 🙏❤🙏
I trust in God , I know that he has me here for a reason, and that is enough me .
Thank you.
Awasome WORD of GOD 🙏❤️
This video is so reassuring for me. I am 49 and have been single for 11 years. I have dated but not found the right one. I have come back to Christ after over 20 years of not following Him. I have faith that He will provide me with a husband if it is His will. I do not feel "unloved", because I have a few good friends and a few family who make me feel some love, but I deeply desire a husband kind of love. I do feel unseen or unheard sometimes, but to be reminded that God is here with me through all the feelings and desires and hurts I have really helps give me strength and hope. I have strong faith that God knows just what I need and that is what He will give me.
Its actually not that important. You will see eventually.
Needed this...thank u so much ...Xxx ❤
I am a child of God 🙏🏾 and I belong to him 🙏🏾💙👑💯...🪖🇺🇲🎖️🧑🏾💪🏾💯🙏🏾💙👑💕
Thank you. 😶
I am loved deeply by God. I’ve been let down betrayed and suffered chasing after insecure and unloving people people can never fill the hole that is inside of you. Only Christ can do that.
I am 68 years old. I am an 'unloved woman' from birth. I know its part of the Curse of Man, in which we all must participate,.to greater or lesser degrees..God owes me nothing.. (Thanks to Margaret Clarksons book)
Amen.My story.
This is also my story ❤
Brilliant.