Kuv mas nyiam koj niam pog lub neej kawg, koj niam pog yeej xaiv tau ib lub neej kaj siab tshaj li os, kuv lub neej kuv yeej ib txwm xav tau nej no rau kuv lub neej los lawm. Zaum no tau hnov koj niam lub neej yog nkaus kuv txoj kev xav ntag. Ua tsaug rau koj niam txoj kev npau suav no nawb.
This grandma has the right mindset for living her life. It's a shame she had to wait until after her husband passed before living her best life. My husband and I don't want our kids living with us once they become financially independent and we DEFINITELY don't want to live with them. We like our peace and quiet, and doing what we want when we want without having to worry about it conflicting with our children's time and space. We love our two children, but there comes a time when we have to let them live their own lives and we go back to living our own lives as a couple. Still have to wait another 8 years though before our youngest is off to college.
"Grandma Visionaire" - what a powerful way to see life. Live it! like this grandmother. Ohh, the integrity, the dignity, and the pursuit of happiness. What else do you really need at such time. Find your essence of good and live it.
Ur mnl is incredibly n clever. Koj mnl thiaj tsim nyog ua ib zaug neeg nyob tiag tiag li os..zoo li koj mnl thiaj li tsis nkig time tiaj li. I love a old life like this
She so lucky, to be a very heathy woman and still feeling strong independent person can take care herself or others god is very bless her because she has a loving , caring, treating her right, respect her support her, the important thing is her children’s understand her she has a own free dim but our Hmong true life is the children’s usually don’t care about parenting, didn’t love , care, respect, never give parents freedoms the truth hmong culture children don’t love them but just need their money and need them to take their children’s has to live under the children’s , yelling parent, kick them out when they go out or eat out the children’s didn’t wanted to invite her or take parent to go with them only want parent give out to the children’s more then children’s provide to parents what I see is only a few elder people got lucky thank you for sharing .
Your mil is one of a kind. She's very modern. Most niam pog ces cem nyab and waiting for nyab to cater to her. Just sad that she has so much potential but was stuck with an incompatible partner for all her life. 60+ is not old.
I like independent woman especially grandma. My grandma she lives by herself independently because she likes the way she like. Some Grandma they depend on their daughter-in-law to cook and clean for them those are not independent they want to gain a slave from their daughter-in-law.
Many mekas folks live on their own already, only hmoob OG’s still think they can freeload off of their kids. In fact, hmoob ppl 80% still live that life of recycle love…..I (parent) care for you (kids) so later u (kids) must care for me (parents). Your MiL just independent n probably hav enough life savings to go out on her own. Lots hmoob OG never worked n probably don’t have enough retirement, mostly SSI, is not enough to go live on their own. So yes, it all comes down to money at the end no money no freedom.
What do u mean? Tested?? MiL want to do her thing, oh well, let her go! Be happy for her! What else can a nyab do? U want nyab to beg MiL to come back? Ugh really, to me the nyab is great! The nyab is just saying her MiL is different fr all these OG. Which I wish we younger generation can change too, n don’t rely so much to our kids. Geez, this is mekas, learn to take your freedom to a diff level. Be independent!
@@flryprn745 what I mean is she didn’t get to take care of her mil that’s why she happy and love her mil. If she has a mil who has lots of health issue and relies on her all the time, I’m sure she wouldn’t feel the way she does to her mil. Her mil knows her places so she doing everything she can not to burden the kids, only reasons that works out.
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Kudos to your MIL. She's living her life. I want to be just like her. We really need to stop relying on our kids to take care of us when we are old.
I want to be just like her when I get older too! 🥰
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She’s one 21st century woman. Must be one of the first hmoob women to live independently in true freedom.
Love it!
Love this mil for her thoughtfulness and yep I love her style! ❤
When I get older, I want to live my life just like your MIL... independent and free! 😄 You're very lucky to have such a wonderful MIL.
She's living her Best life... #keepitreal
Wow,,,,,,Zoo tshaj li nawb
Love it!! I wanna live like this when I’m older too! Don’t be a burden to my kids. Living life to the fullest.
Such an inspirational story. Thank you for sharing.
Reminds me of Niam Tais Ci Plas. Perfect!
Kuv mas nyiam koj niam pog lub neej kawg, koj niam pog yeej xaiv tau ib lub neej kaj siab tshaj li os, kuv lub neej kuv yeej ib txwm xav tau nej no rau kuv lub neej los lawm. Zaum no tau hnov koj niam lub neej yog nkaus kuv txoj kev xav ntag. Ua tsaug rau koj niam txoj kev npau suav no nawb.
Koj tus niam pog mas ua zoo heev li kuv mas nyiam thiab txaus txaus siab heev li
Wow I love this story. It's such an inspiration. The elders should listen to this story. Lol.
Good job to this mom/mil for taking care of herself. Love my mom, but she needs to hear this story for sure.
This grandma has the right mindset for living her life. It's a shame she had to wait until after her husband passed before living her best life.
My husband and I don't want our kids living with us once they become financially independent and we DEFINITELY don't want to live with them. We like our peace and quiet, and doing what we want when we want without having to worry about it conflicting with our children's time and space. We love our two children, but there comes a time when we have to let them live their own lives and we go back to living our own lives as a couple. Still have to wait another 8 years though before our youngest is off to college.
"Grandma Visionaire" - what a powerful way to see life. Live it! like this grandmother. Ohh, the integrity, the dignity, and the pursuit of happiness. What else do you really need at such time. Find your essence of good and live it.
Love this story!
I love this story. I love cool fun mils like this. I love sons/dils who are chilled like this too.
Zaj no zoo heev li nawb zoo kawm heev li
Your MIL is awesome! This is how I want to live in my old age.
Ur mnl is incredibly n clever. Koj mnl thiaj tsim nyog ua ib zaug neeg nyob tiag tiag li os..zoo li koj mnl thiaj li tsis nkig time tiaj li. I love a old life like this
🎉I love this one super
grandma that’s what I’m
going to be like that.
Omg, I love this lady. I want to do what she's doing when I'm that age. Don't burden my kids.
Koj tus niam pog lub hom phiaj zoo kawg
Kuv nyiam koj niam pog lub tswv yim kawg,
She so lucky, to be a very heathy woman and still feeling strong independent person can take care herself or others god is very bless her because she has a loving , caring, treating her right, respect her support her, the important thing is her children’s understand her she has a own free dim but our Hmong true life is the children’s usually don’t care about parenting, didn’t love , care, respect, never give parents freedoms the truth hmong culture children don’t love them but just need their money and need them to take their children’s has to live under the children’s , yelling parent, kick them out when they go out or eat out the children’s didn’t wanted to invite her or take parent to go with them only want parent give out to the children’s more then children’s provide to parents what I see is only a few elder people got lucky thank you for sharing .
LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST!!
Hais zoo kawg li os
❤️ this story, koj tus niam pog coj zoo tshaij. Xav kom kuv muaj tus niam pog zoo li koj tus.
Wow tus niam tais no mas lub tswv yim no mas zoo kawg li nawb 😅
❤❤👍👏👏👏👏
Very good role model.
Now that is how retirees should be doing! Hmong folks please learn from this!
I could understand why she want to be free and live her life and wanting her freedom after her husband passed away. I would want to live like her too.
Your mil is one of a kind. She's very modern. Most niam pog ces cem nyab and waiting for nyab to cater to her. Just sad that she has so much potential but was stuck with an incompatible partner for all her life. 60+ is not old.
I like independent woman especially grandma. My grandma she lives by herself independently because she likes the way she like. Some Grandma they depend on their daughter-in-law to cook and clean for them those are not independent they want to gain a slave from their daughter-in-law.
Lol if the mister goes before I do, this is sooooo going to be me 💯💯💯
Many mekas folks live on their own already, only hmoob OG’s still think they can freeload off of their kids. In fact, hmoob ppl 80% still live that life of recycle love…..I (parent) care for you (kids) so later u (kids) must care for me (parents).
Your MiL just independent n probably hav enough life savings to go out on her own. Lots hmoob OG never worked n probably don’t have enough retirement, mostly SSI, is not enough to go live on their own. So yes, it all comes down to money at the end no money no freedom.
Party old animals
The author is just happy cuz she doesn’t have to take care of her mil. Sadly, her love for her mil isn’t true cuz she hasn’t been tested.
I think you're right. She's a bit self content. Mil knows she'll only be perceived as a burden so is acting strong and independent.
She doesn’t need to. Hmong people should never expect their kids to take care of them! 🙄
What do u mean? Tested?? MiL want to do her thing, oh well, let her go! Be happy for her! What else can a nyab do? U want nyab to beg MiL to come back? Ugh really, to me the nyab is great! The nyab is just saying her MiL is different fr all these OG. Which I wish we younger generation can change too, n don’t rely so much to our kids. Geez, this is mekas, learn to take your freedom to a diff level. Be independent!
She’s very lucky her mom in law DIDNT want to be a burden on her n other nyabs n sons
@@flryprn745 what I mean is she didn’t get to take care of her mil that’s why she happy and love her mil. If she has a mil who has lots of health issue and relies on her all the time, I’m sure she wouldn’t feel the way she does to her mil. Her mil knows her places so she doing everything she can not to burden the kids, only reasons that works out.
I like & need that grandma/MIL in my life😂 this story is cute & funny 😂❤