How To Attract A Truly Masculine Man
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- “How to Attract a Truly Masculine Man”
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In this video, Clayton and Camille are going to talk about masculine and feminine energies and how to use feminine energy to attract the right man for you.
This video is very important because there are a lot of successful entrepreneurial corporate women who are killing it in their careers, and that success in that specific context sometimes, and very often, can get in a way of their dating life.
And it affects men in a certain way that’s not positive.
If a woman is kicking ass in her career, how would she begin to find her feminine energy?
How would she do it?
Why is it important for a woman to find her feminine energy?
Most women want the man to take the lead. And since we're in this weird modern pop culture dating situation where women are kicking ass in their careers and going out with, work can be a very masculine energy mode.
Women don’t want to be masculine all the time.
We want the guys to take the lead. We want to be feminine. We want to have these things that come naturally to us and be able to turn off that masculine energy.
But a lot of women don't really know how to do that.
It's important because when you stay in that masculine energy so much and you feel like everything's on your shoulders it's stressful. It’s exhausting. It's not enjoyable and it may serve you well in your career but by turning that off or turning that down a little bit in your home life, your social life, it just balances you out.
Everyone has a balance of masculine-feminine.
They shouldn't be in all for a 100% all of the time.
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I brought this up to my boyfriend, and he told me "we should take turns leading". He thinks "equality" in a relationship is very important. I feel so desperate to feel masculine energy these days. I don't feel it from him anymore.
Ella Park I would suggest that you lean back and stay in your feminine. If he doesn’t step up and feel compelled to be in his masculine, if he doesn’t feel more attracted to you because you’re in your feminine, he may not be the right guy for you. Some men have more feminine energy and are looking for a woman who is more in her masculine. There is nothing wrong with it but if that’s not you, I don’t see you being happy in the relationship long term. If he used to be more in his masculine, think back on how you were showing up in the relationship and if anything changed, try going back to the way you were at the beginning.
😂😂😂😂😂. Dam he’s bought into believing men & woman are equal.
@@sabrinacardoso1320 i did girl! And oh man, my life became so much happier afterwards.. i’m now with a new masculine bf, who makes me so so happy!
@@ellapark8770How did you meet him? If you don't mind me asking?
Women who are capable of being emotionally available are very attractive.
I want a masculine man but not an abusive man or a guy that cheats and lies.
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They do, Dont lose hope If you really want it.
But only 10% musculine men out there ...either you have to share him or stick with feminine men..this is reality
The masculine energy wants to be respected and the feminine energy wants its feelings but the narcissistic energy wants both respect AND his/hers feelings cherished. So, if in any of your previous relationships you've been with your masculine or narcissistic energy you have been driving away masculine men (a man who will cherish your feelings) and a attracting feminine men ( a man who wants his feelings cherished) or narcissistic men ( a man who wants his feelings cherished and to be respected)
Unfortunately the masculine men I meet are usually cheaters, players, polygamous by nature and like the thrill of the chase.
I think the best person to explain the feminine and masculine energies is Dr. Pat Allen in her book "Getting to I do." Basically the female energy wants its feelings cherished and the masculine energy wants to be respected. We all have both, this means I want to be masculine at work because I want to be respected by my peers and boss, but I want to be feminine in my relationship because I don't want my man to respect me I want him to cherish my feelings. So, a feminine energy attracts a masculine energy and vice versa. And is a two ways street: I will respect my man as long as he cherish my feelings and he will cherish my feelings as long as I respect him. How to know if you're feminine or masculine?? Easy! The first one to say "hello" is masculine, for example in a bar or in the mall, or if a guy gives you his number and you call him, you are the masculine energy. But according to Dr. Pat Allen there's a third type of energy: The narcissistic energy who wants to be respected AND want his/hers feelings cherished. So if you as a woman who wants to be with a masculine man and have your feelings cherished but you also want him to respect you then you are going to drive him away because he is not receiving respect. I other words: you have to put your masculine man in an intellectual pedestal so he puts you in an emotional pedestal. But be careful with narcissistic men because they want to be in both pedestals leaving you in none. So how to be feminine?? Stop
justifying his actions (maybe he is tired, he didn't mean it, he had a bad day, etc) and start feeling ( I feel sad, I feel like if I do this he is going to get mad/offended, I feel guilty if I do that, etc). A masculine man will make you feel save, protected, beautiful, happy. How?? by being the leader (we are going to do this, we are going to this place, etc) and by cherishing your feelings ( we are going to do this... How do you feel about that?)
The hardest part of being with a feminine energy guy is he is super competitive with me and not his guy friends it's so weird.
Clayton can you make a video of like 5 ways that women act when they are in there masculinity? I believe some of us may not know that we are in that mode. Thanks!
What a phenomenal idea. :)
Will do.
Clayton Olson Thanks!
Clayton! I really appreciate your continued insights into the male mind. Your depth is incredible :) Gives me hope!
Women in the west needs this more than ever.
Came here to learn more, I haven't really dated yet, 1 year in college still. I want to attract a solid guy who can lead our family, be a husband and a dad that can provide and keep us safe and most of all puts God in the center of his life.
I may not have a kickass career and I may not be a girly girl however I would like to be respected, appreciated, wanted and needed by the right guy. I am celibate by choice and people need to respect my choices to remain celibate. I do not give into peer pressure that easily and do not being manipulated or coerced into doing something that I am not comfortable with. I think that the masculine man that I am trying to attract is a man that is accepting, respectful, available on all levels, loving and not abusive.
Well sex is definitely part of some guys' idea of masculinity, so you have to find the guys' for whom having sex is not a part of their masculinity
Than you for this important video!!
Loved this one! I usually have no problem with having a playful feminine vibe...I often refer to it as 'finding softness in my strength '. Following on from the video request below, I would love to hear your take on when a man feels comfortable with a woman being in her masculine, without himself feeling less of a man. Can you give specific examples? I am working my way out of a soul destroying, emotionally toxic relationship, so your videos really help me to become more in tune with myself and my value system. Much kudos to you from Australia. xx
People may get married and have kids...when the women may act like a mom all the time and not wife. You can start feminine, but may change to mom mode and then men may feel left out.
LOL But mom IS feminine! If the man feels left out, maybe there wasn't a substantial relationship in the first place. It can't be based on sex.
It's important for everyone to have flexibility! You have to be flexible in a relationship, change roles. It's horrible if you can't be a full person in your relationship, but instead play this role of "perfect man" or "perfect woman" inside the relationship.
isn't it also the other way around. i mean the masculinity in some men brings the feminine, that playful girl out?
true
habibe Eroğlu absolutely
habibe Eroğlu Absolutely.. why is it that women are always made responsible for men's inadequacies? I find myself being naturally feminine around masculine men. I don't even hv to try.. I naturally soften around strong men.
habibe Eroğlu yes
No, a masculine man will attract feminine women and will drive away masculine women, because the masculine energy wants to be respected. What I mean is that there can't be two alphas in one relationship.
my friend and i used to sing loud for the fun of it
Few good points
I struggle with this. Unfortunately it is and has been the cause of my failed relationships. An only taken to the age of 47 to figure this out. I thought that I had to be the one that picked up the slack and ran the relationship to keep it going. Um yeah no! That caused frustration on my part and his. In fact confusion as I couldnt see what I was doing wrong. An when I asked for the man to allow me to just be the woman. By that time the man had checked out. Funny how my dad raised us girls to be tough and to fight and work for what we wanted in life. Even be competitive.... yep, it gave him some pride in a weird way lol. Sadly tho, I never learned what it was to be and maintain my feminine energy in a relationship. I'm learning now....
This is me!
Hello Clayton,
I've been watching your video's and first of all i want to compliment you explain this man, woman issues in a very clear and pleasant way.
This really helps me a lot by observing man behaviour for i've been dating frequently the last 3 years.
My question to you is if there is any chance to have a relationship on a long term with a muslim man. I'm a christian but i'm not religious at all.
I haven't found any video's about this issue.
I am Muslim guy and I think it's possible depending on a few things.
First off is he from another country or was he born and raised here? This is crucial because it will be an indicator as to how he views male and female interactions.
Loved your points. I'm working on an e-book and I'll add this link to my suggested videos.
Cheers for the Video clip! Excuse me for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Mahorrla Heart Key Method (just google it)? It is a great exclusive guide for understanding how to make any man love you without the hard work. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my cooworker at very last got astronomical success with it.
Not all men have the provider instinct, etc... One reason why I cut things off with a past ex was because he could not act as an initiator in the areas where it mattered most in the relationship, and was really lacking the provider instinct....In watching these types of videos, I am seeing my relationship to the feminine and the experiences and mindsets that started to happen as a child that formed the way I relate to my feminity. I am probably feminine in some ways, but I feel super cut off from it...Hmmm.
The provider instinct is stronger when more feminine energy is present, so there might be a link between those things you are saying.
Sometimes a certain energy is needed to bring out a certain behaviour in someone else, sometimes it is the wrong time, they haven't learnt that yet, etc, etc. Life isn't always straightforward
I understand why I should be more feminine, but still don't know how. her advices are not quite helpful.
A1977ification basically get out out your head (logic) and get into your heart (feelings). It might help you to do a Google search on feminine energies. By feelings, i dont mean get emotional on him. It could be appreciation for a lovely view or the flavors in a meal. Feminine is light, happy. Its being vs. doing.
How do you get into being vs doing at the gym when you do weight lifting as part of the class?! I need someone's wisdom!!!!!!
You can still be feminine even if you lift heavy weights or practise other sports. Just make you clothes more girly and act like a classy lady not exactly too formal like you are at dine with the Queen of England or something. Just dress and act and make your voice sound more feminine it should help alot.
You need to stop thinking and start feeling for example: a self-care activity any activity. If you THINK about it you will never have time to do it because it's a waste of time, you have better things to do, you have to (*insert any productive activity here*). BUT if you stop thinking and just DO the self-care activity you will FEEL good, happy, relaxed, etc. Even having a cup of coffee, but take 5 min to ENJOY that coffee how does it make you FEEL. Being feminine is about being feeling-centered
I encourage you to check out Mrs. Midwest. She does videos on femininity and relationships and is extremely helpful!
But men became the women now..for example they don't call you in the dating site this is take time and until they make a step it's takes time...it's feel like they beome a women
As a female heavy equipment mechanic I am interested to see if what you say might be something I can use.
Ok 6 minutes in and nothing to help.bad video
Be have both the masculine and feminine energy, you want to be masculine in your work but feminine in your relationship
I am a new subbie! I love your videos!
So I should not financially take care of myself and wait for a man to save me? That may never happen...
Dianna Saltz you’re missing the point
The word is not save, the word is cherish. Let a man cherish you.
I have a lot work to do
If they're in a masculine mode than they should know how to compartmentalize. So get out of your work clothes take a shower put on some feminine clothing, and let your hair down literally
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She is correct...women have to find that balance if they aren't already a very balanced person. When I was working, I had a feminine type career (home health aide/CNA), but I was also a full time, muay thai fighter....when I walked out of that fight gym, I transitioned from full on masculine, back to feminine. If a woman has trouble doing that, try wearing more feminine type clothing, makeup, do something with your hair, keep your nails painted, wear certain scents of perfume.
Melinda Earl-Roop feminine energy is not about about appearing “feminine.” You can have the biggest stilletos and the longest nails and still carry that dominant energy
She’s not even in her feminine.
OMG, I can't her seriously with the little girl squeaky voice
LOL Mike, guess you're missing out!
"Who says just because you're feminine your weak?". Men did. They treated us that way all along
Why is it wen have to do all the bending? And men get away with. Poor me, I'm just a man and you need to be this or that or act this way or that otherwise men won't notice. Where is the worlem have to do. Seems disparate.
It goes both ways too, and often women pretend to be weak or see themselves as weak, i.e. the victim and powerless. Thankfully thins is changing, but my point is that it is an idea that perhaps both sexes have bought into, for some strange reason. Although I think the strength of women has always been acknowledged to a large degree, perhaps a different type of strength from a man. I honestly don't know where the idea of women being weak comes from, because it doesn't show up in my world very uch. Maybe it happens in your world
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