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  • Ahhhhh I’m so sorry for not posting in a very long time!!! Next video I’ll actually put effort into the video lol. I have been on TH-cam a lot I just didn’t know what to post but here we go a Non binary Tik Tok Compilation. I’ve changed a lot oop

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  • @silvershadow1271
    @silvershadow1271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3936

    that christian woman is so swEET

    • @finnstone526
      @finnstone526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Hundreth like

    • @julsiegamermove4115
      @julsiegamermove4115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The first thing I noticed was the Chara

    • @dannhoff6646
      @dannhoff6646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      She's so lovely!!!

    • @memmamaybe7840
      @memmamaybe7840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      fr im crying

    • @vinny912
      @vinny912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      im christian too, i really wish we had more people like this representing us, we aren’t all rude transphobic homophobic idiots.

  • @cheche9949
    @cheche9949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    “I’m non binary aka I want to be irresistible to every single gay person I meet but I want straight people to wonder if I’m even human” wiser words have never been spoken>>>>>

    • @michaelbraut9415
      @michaelbraut9415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Donnell Okafor I don't agree with you, but aside from that, how do you know what this person looks like? And if you don't actually know, why did you bring up body types? It's a completely different topic.

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Donnell Okafor Stop being mean. You are repeatedly being disrespectful in this comment section.

    • @pi.7616
      @pi.7616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@michaelbraut9415 What did they say? I know I'm late but I wanna know

    • @bigmanthomas
      @bigmanthomas 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah what did they say?

    • @brack3t_exe
      @brack3t_exe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pi.7616 Uhhhh, iirc it was something along the lines of "you're fat and that makes you ugly"

  • @dumgaebich
    @dumgaebich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2163

    Me: im female
    Also me: *watching the fifth nonbinary tik tok video in a row*

  • @waffle._.bubbles
    @waffle._.bubbles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3462

    I wish I had a mom as cool about pronouns as Margret is

  • @chai7218
    @chai7218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    THE TIKTOKS
    ABOUT MARGARET
    MAKE ME MORE HAPPY
    THAN ANYTHING ELSE IN MY ENTIRE LIFE

  • @avaxoxo2767
    @avaxoxo2767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1648

    I AM A CHRISTIAN AND I FULLY SUPPORT ALL OF YALL EVEN IF I WAS STRAIGHT I WOULD STILL DEFEND YALL TILL THE DAY I DIE

    • @bubblinequeen5287
      @bubblinequeen5287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      you are a true christian

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    • @wondering.why.
      @wondering.why. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank you

    • @n1m0r17
      @n1m0r17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Thanks so much! I appreciate all of your support :D✨✨

    • @RoyalCoyote72
      @RoyalCoyote72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      As Christian i support the LGBT community

  • @sadisticsweet3140
    @sadisticsweet3140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    The most non-binary rep I saw on TV (actual television) was in an aids medication commerical where they used the term assigned female at birth and the drag Queen said smth like "kings, queens, and everyone in between"..... I-

    • @rainbowpanic5632
      @rainbowpanic5632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I smile so hard whenever I get that adddddddddd ahhhhhhhh

    • @mook_butt8037
      @mook_butt8037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That ad is just *so* well made!

    • @jinxthelesbian
      @jinxthelesbian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Watch shera! The reboot has a nb character in season for, it has great representation

    • @haileyforman6638
      @haileyforman6638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I adore that commercial

    • @iixoxichiithewitch7015
      @iixoxichiithewitch7015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I SAW THAT AD! "For all you kings, queens, and you royals inbetween"! "For your love, or many loves." AHH

  • @dakotathenonbinarypal791
    @dakotathenonbinarypal791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1412

    "are you a boy or a girl?"
    "Excellent"
    I need to remember that next time someone asks me 😂

    • @shadowanxceit2375
      @shadowanxceit2375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i love your pfp!
      #SnekBoiWeStan

    • @bob-xb3nh
      @bob-xb3nh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Im a menace is what i am

    • @alicegoldstein4957
      @alicegoldstein4957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahahah hello my non binary pal :D (yes I'm a fellow fander)

    • @blackdevilhatenonbinary6470
      @blackdevilhatenonbinary6470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How to say to someone who are non binary if she a girl are a boy ? Nothing, don’t talk to these stupid people.

    • @dakotathenonbinarypal791
      @dakotathenonbinarypal791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blackdevilhatenonbinary6470 I cannot understand you, could you recheck your grammar and write that again?

  • @camdencardy986
    @camdencardy986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    My sole mission in life as a gender fluid person (who most of the time uses a nonbinary identity) is to confuse everyone in any way I can because no Karen, I am not a human, I am a (mostly) genderless alien

  • @serene3461
    @serene3461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +932

    Someone asked me “Why are you Non-Binary” once, and my response was..
    “Well, I’m nonbinary because I don’t need a gender to be myself, I’m me-gendered, I can be myself without people saying “act like a lady” because I’m not a lady, or “be a gentlemen” because I’m not a man, I’m me, I’m free, and I’m going to be myself, and not let a social construct define who I am,”
    And that’s why I’m non-binary, I am me, and I am free.

    • @hallemoji4094
      @hallemoji4094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Donnell Okafor Yes, they most likely are. Why would they post this comment if they weren’t?

    • @serene3461
      @serene3461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Halle Moji thank youu

    • @serene3461
      @serene3461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Donnell Okafor
      you’re right, imma unicorn 😃
      Thanks for being such a massive help 🙂
      -not-

    • @hallemoji4094
      @hallemoji4094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bunny no problem bun, I just can’t stand ignorant people.

    • @heylol9606
      @heylol9606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Donnell Okafor Thats not a gender thats a sex.

  • @ambivalentambiguity6435
    @ambivalentambiguity6435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    the "are you a boy or a girl question" is one I have proudly carried for 7 years 😌👌

  • @icypopsicle9082
    @icypopsicle9082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +658

    “What are the pronouns of this household? We need to have a family meeting.”

    • @icypopsicle9082
      @icypopsicle9082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Donnell Okafor
      You are forgetting they

    • @wondering.why.
      @wondering.why. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Donnell Okafor He, she, they, also all neopronouns

    • @wondering.why.
      @wondering.why. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Donnell Okafor Hm? I don’t support trump if that’s what you’re saying/asking.

    • @cloud2567
      @cloud2567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Donnell Okafor why are you even watching this video if you don’t support non-binary people? I swear people just search for stuff to complain about. Smh

    • @hanalovesyt7452
      @hanalovesyt7452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cloud2567 I don't, Don't even know why I'm watching this i dunno I guess I'm bored

  • @beetlejuice7771
    @beetlejuice7771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    hey yall, i need your help. so, im in middle school, and the first day back got me feeling like i wanted to die. the worst part is, i know why. i was misgendered and called my dead name all day. i didn't have the courage to speak up and correct my teachers, and even if i did, i don't know where to start. does anyone else have this problem, and how did you fix it? I'm afraid that i'll be told things like "you're too young to know", "that's not what god intended for you", "there are only two genders", and "ha ha! *SHE* " what do i do in this situation?
    theres another problem too. now, this isn't LGBTQ+ related, but im just asking in general since i dont have a therapist yet.
    so, im an actor. i take a lot of ride in acting. but i think im developing a personality disorder. im acting like myself, but ive lost sight of who i was. i need help finding myself again.
    annnnddd to top all that off, im the dad of the group (of friends). i take care of everyone to a very big degree. so much so, that if someone needs something ill give it, no matter what. Example: if someone needs a lunch, i will not only give them lunch money, i would give them my lunch. ok... that was a weak example, but you get my point. ill give blood until there's none left to bleed. how do i stop this?? how do I stop being overly kind?
    im sorry if i asked to much. i dont have anyone else to talk to, because im usually the one to talk to if you have a problem. ive been trying to be both the doctor and the patient in my situation rn. i know that i just kinda ranted, but thanks for listening if you got this far. im also sorry if im asking too much. im really, incredibly lost right now.
    Lord, that's a lot of writing.
    Edit: it's been a year now. I have been reading you guys' comments and I have never had so much faith in humanity and validation of my identity. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
    Yes, I am better now. I am seeing a mental health professional, and I'm definitely gaining mental stability.
    I love and thank you all.

    • @rubberduckballs4701
      @rubberduckballs4701  4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      BeetleJuice today was my first day back to school and I kept getting misgendered and called by my dead name. Try telling a teacher what pronouns and what name you want to go by. I hope this helps

    • @beetlejuice7771
      @beetlejuice7771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@rubberduckballs4701 oh my lord, thank you so much! i honestly didnt think anyone would reply

    • @saki7781
      @saki7781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      As for the personality disorder, I've read that it's rare that a minor is diagnosed with one since we have fluctuating moods and such due to our age, but if you really think you have one, here's a PDF of the DSM-5 : cdn.website-editor.net/30f11123991548a0af708722d458e476/files/uploaded/DSM%2520V.pdf\
      The section for personality disorders starts at page 645 which is actually page 677 in the pdf because the contents and introduction is really long.
      Please, please try to be honest with yourself when looking at the symptoms and make sure you're not just causing a self fulfilling propehercy, you're really really young and it's highly unlikely you're developing a personality disorder at such a young age. I'm saying this because even I thought I had one in middle school. Trust me, being confused is a normal part of middle school life. But if you still think you might have one, please talk to your school counselor or your parents as SOON as possible. I can't overstate how important clinical intervention is.
      As for misgendering and such, nonbinary identities are actually surprisingly accepted in a lot of parts of society. Try telling your favorite teacher about your newfound identity after class.
      I'm a nonbinary (demigirl) lesbian so unfortunately most of the recs I have are about nonbinary lesbianism. Try looking up nonbinary servers on Disboard (if you're above 13) and ask them about resources, they could help you.
      Joining and participating in the community can be really fun, and great for mental health as long as you're in the good sections.
      Lots of love and luck from an nb lesbian. ♥
      PS: Other helpful things
      nonbinary.wiki/wiki/List_of_nonbinary_identities
      pronouny.xyz/ to put your pronouns up on social media in detail
      blogs.scientificamerican.com/voices/stop-using-phony-science-to-justify-transphobia/ super detailed article about being nonbinary
      chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/shinigami-eyes/ijcpiojgefnkmcadacmacogglhjdjphj?hl=en chrome extension that identifies trans friendly and transphobic websites with green and red respectively

    • @beetlejuice7771
      @beetlejuice7771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@saki7781 this helps so much. the first link you listed didn't work for me, but i went and did research on it and im worried i have impostor syndrome because everything checks out. and before you worry, i told someone about it and now im going to go see a therapist. thank you so much. it really cleared things up for me, and im not as confused as before. ty!!! seriously, thank you.

    • @saki7781
      @saki7781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@beetlejuice7771 Whoops, I made a typo and added / to the end of the URL! If you think you could still use it, just remove the / at the end and the link will work (better on a computer than a phone.) You're welcome, and have a great day!!

  • @maradillon2271
    @maradillon2271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    I’m not non-binary but y’all are valid and beautiful and I love all of you so much ❤️❤️
    Edit: It's been 8 months since I commented on this and I still love you all and support you, you're all still valid! I also wanted to share that I have been thinking about gender recently and I actually do think I'm nonbinary, a demigirl specifically.. not that anyone asked lol

    • @heylol9606
      @heylol9606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Donnell Okafor you just mad

    • @SandyKayD
      @SandyKayD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Donnell Okafor what gender/sexuality are you? If you say there hideous just becuase there a certain part of a flag, then whatever you are, you are hideous back. Sorry, just pointing out that you don't have a valid excuse on why there "hideous" when being considered hideous is either being ugly in the body/face, or having a hideous personality, which they where nice a not being a bitch, unlike you. Plus, you don't even know what they look like, so you can't prove there "hideous."

    • @feck5491
      @feck5491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Donnell Okafor If youre homophobic why are you even on a nonbinary tiktok video?

    • @alexisshipley8020
      @alexisshipley8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have been watching non binary tik toks all night and I am straight and identify as a girl I support lgbtq+ and hope yall don't hate me for this

    • @userr2367
      @userr2367 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i- thank you 😌

  • @failure260
    @failure260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I'm non binary and I look feminine, but my voice kinda sounds male.
    I once pre-ordered pizza on the phone, and me and the person on the phone were ending the conversation when they said: Thank you for ordering Sir.
    As I walked into the establishment and stated that I ordered on the phone, and paid for the pizza, the guy looked at me and said: Thank you for ordering Sir... Uhh... Ma'am?
    It was hilarious, and I laughed and told him I was non binary and we had I good time.

  • @pillsburydoughh7491
    @pillsburydoughh7491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    Aaaa this has 69 likes and I CAN NOT ruin that so imma just leave this here.

  • @rubberduckballs4701
    @rubberduckballs4701  3 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    You can be non binary and not use they/them pronouns. My apologies for not showing that much non binaries using pronouns that aren’t they/them. I just want to let you all know that you don’t have to use they/them pronouns to be non binary. Hope this comment made sense :)
    I don’t want to unpin this comment but I got a few things to say,
    I don’t identify as non binary anymore, I identify as a man. I will not be deleting this video but I just want you to know that the creator of this video is not non binary (sometimes I do think of deleting this video but then I remember some people find comfort in these complications lol). I do not make complications anymore and I have stopped making them a long time ago. The only things a post now are shitposts so I’m just letting you know you’ll find any other complications except for the ones from 2020. Please do not comment mean things. There’s no point in it because I’ll delete the comment or it’ll be at the bottom of the comment section lol. Last thing, I don’t like comments or heart them anymore, I stopped a while ago.
    Have a good day.
    (I might start posting serious things soon btw)
    It’s been 2 years since I uploaded this video :’) I will try to start uploading more videos soon.

    • @clvmsy_kydn
      @clvmsy_kydn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know a few people who do, I use they then tho

    • @maymation
      @maymation 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks nagito

    • @Jcon4002
      @Jcon4002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How can you be non binary and call yourself he or she?I thought non binary meant you do not identify as man or woman.

    • @karsomnia
      @karsomnia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@Jcon4002 pronouns don't equal gender :)
      you can be nonbinary and not use pronouns that many people associate with binary genders. for example, someone who identifies as a woman might use he/him or they/them pronouns. likewise, someone who identifies as a man might use she/her or they/them.
      of course, there aren't the only pronoun sets, there are other types as well, but those are just the ones that i used for examples!! ^^
      it's essentially just what you identify as + what you would like to be referred to as-- they *can* correlate with each other, but they don't *have* to correlate.
      i hope that this helped to explain it, apologies if it's too long!!

    • @Jcon4002
      @Jcon4002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@karsomnia I thought pronouns did equal gender tho like weren't he made for men and her for women?Not trying to sound hateful this is just confusing to me,if I don't know the pronouns is it ok to just refer to a person by their name ?

  • @madisonm.4535
    @madisonm.4535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I'm annoyed at myself because I used to use they them pronouns as my default for everyone all the time since I was like three but then in the last year for some reason I have been subconsciously influenced by my peers who I found out are not quite as understanding as I previously thought. They kept saying how using they them sounded weird to them until it rubbed off a little on me. Where previously it felt completely natural to me I now have to work at it again because now it doesn't feel as natural for some reason. I'm so friggin mad at myself!!! I will work at it until it is my default again and it feels completely natural for me to say and hear like it used to be. I'm so pissed at myself! I let people's casual prejudice rub off on me but that is not who I am! I love y'all and don't let anyone change you!
    Edit: Fixed spelling.

    • @dokidoki6927
      @dokidoki6927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You don’t need to “believe” in something for it to be real

    • @madisonm.4535
      @madisonm.4535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Update quarantine seems to be helping with this. Less casual prejudice. Unfortunately quarantine has screwed the rest of my life.

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Donnell Okafor Answer me this then. What would you say in this scenario?
      Scenario: Someone has lost a wallet. You are telling your friend, what would you say to them?

    • @tartaglia.
      @tartaglia. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I used to think it was weird too. Some backstory: there was a book with a character who didn’t identify as girl or boy (although I didn’t know that at the time, I was 7) and the pronouns for the character were “they” and “them”. At the time I didn’t know and I thought it was a grammatical error lol, but then I found out the reason and it all became clear to me.

  • @shroombay
    @shroombay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    me one day: I'm nonbinary
    my brain: No, you're a girl
    me the next day: ok I'm a girl
    my brain: no ur nonbinary
    me and my brain the next next day: ok i'm genderfluid
    both: NO
    -
    -
    -
    -
    -
    -
    which was right?
    I still don't know.
    ((EDIT: THANKS FOR ALL THE HELP YALL ARE SO SWEET- I ENDED UP FIGURING IT OUT; IM JUST A BOY 😇))

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The right answer is whatever you feel is right for you. It takes time.

    • @Jadeigital
      @Jadeigital 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Maybe a Demi-girl?

    • @annief3628
      @annief3628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe demigirl-flux? Idk, I hope you figure it out

    • @mylovexx5485
      @mylovexx5485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      d e m i g i r l

    • @kira-py8gt
      @kira-py8gt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ME TOO ITS SO CONFUSING

  • @lisa101561
    @lisa101561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    3:53 when two strangers you never knew existed until today are more supportive than the people that birthed you

    • @comingsn2519
      @comingsn2519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr and the ppl who birthed you claim Christian. This is proof you can believe in jesus and not be awful. In fact youre not supposed to. In fact God is actually neither male nor female so we in good company!

    • @myclutteredmess2271
      @myclutteredmess2271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sobbing
      True

  • @poepopjestoep
    @poepopjestoep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    My first ever binder finally came in the mail today and it was way too big. I cried a lot but my mom reassured me and told me we were going to keep searching togheter until I have a good one.
    I just want to reassure the people that have nobody to support them in their binding journey:
    it’ll be okay! Finding a good binder is a journey and you’ll eventually find what you need. It’s almost impossible to immediately find a perfect one in one try. You are very strong and you can do this! All the love

  • @sumi5110
    @sumi5110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    I'm a simple girl. I see Brigette Lundy Paine, I click

  • @syaamethyst1297
    @syaamethyst1297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I have a really close friend (more like a younger sibling) who changed to they/them pronouns last summer. At first it was really hard to get the hang of since I didn’t know very many other non-binary people and I was used to calling them different pronouns. But I tried my best and eventually got the hang of it, because it is 100% worth that little extra effort so that they can feel comfortable and safe around me. Maybe it’s not so easy to adjust to new pronouns sometimes, but it’s no excuse to misgender someone because you’re too lazy to be a decent human being.

  • @alegria1813
    @alegria1813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    0:09 HOW ARE THEY GIVING ME 90'S ACTOR VIBES

  • @michaellasumler9590
    @michaellasumler9590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    for anyone that sees this:
    you are valid.
    you are loved.
    happy pride

  • @Smok_Argus
    @Smok_Argus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I wish my language was gender-neutral the way English is ;w;

  • @nevadaeq
    @nevadaeq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I’m not no but I watched this lol

  • @Ella_theghostest
    @Ella_theghostest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    I shared this with my cousin because she is non-binary she liked it

    • @zeephoenixfire7070
      @zeephoenixfire7070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      uhhh do you mean they? or does your cousin go by she also? not trying to be rude so if I came off rude I'm so sorry

    • @Ella_theghostest
      @Ella_theghostest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Well my cousin is more comfortable with she but good point on what i said

    • @catematthew7850
      @catematthew7850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She? I thought you said they were nonbinary? Or are their preferred pronouns she/they? Idk. Nice to show it to them though :)

    • @Ella_theghostest
      @Ella_theghostest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Cate Matthew so the the pronouns are they/them but but she still can be called she or they but she prefers they/them

    • @pinkradiohandlerr
      @pinkradiohandlerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I just want to say to the people replying to this: not all nonbinary people always use they/them pronouns! Nonbinary is an umbrella term and it doesn’t always mean agender. It can also mean bigender or demigenders or anything else, which can use a variety of other pronouns!

  • @legovenom8528
    @legovenom8528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The video in 2:15 makes me feel so validated, I tend to dress a little more feminine but either way I feel better and comfortable if I go by they/them and I'm often expected to look androgynous so that video made my day thx for including it

    • @shaixx3642
      @shaixx3642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I’m a girl and dress kinda girly ish but I go by they/them cause I feel confident

  • @lune9269
    @lune9269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    this made my day so I share for others....So I am out as a transmale to my family but my friends know that i don't identify with a gender so they use they/them of me(I haven't came out to my school) and my English is 50 something and he overheard that my friends used they/them to refer to me so he pulled me aside from the class(i am panicking at this point) all he says "I heard your friends call you by they/them and by Levi instead of deadname...If you feel more comfortable with Levi and they/them I used them if you want, They/them are valid pronouns" then I started to cry because i get bullied since I dress femme and masc. All he says "Hey don't cry I accept you, hey I'm gay too I used to have a bf in my youth and my wife is a lesbian, we stay together still since we are great friends, there a unisex bathroom at *** building on ***** its a teacher br but here are the keys take a breather"......If a 50-year-old male who lived through a bad homophica area why can't others just accept it... I hope this made someone day...for all the closest people, someone out there will accept you just you haven't see them yet...Happy pride everyone

    • @lex.mayy8
      @lex.mayy8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Toxic Rodriguez thank you so much for this

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Donnell Okafor That is uncalled for. They/them pronouns are valid. People need to get over their homophobia not the other way around.

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Donnell Okafor And you can’t force your transphobia bullshit on me. You are also spelling pronouns wrong.
      Also, I’m agender, not a sir.

    • @wondering.why.
      @wondering.why. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Donnell Okafor Shut up. You’re being transphobic. Respect EVERYONES pronouns not just binary ones.
      And your work place sounds terrible... nobody should be disrespected and hated on just because they use they/them pronouns
      Edit: Also this 5:08 :)

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Donnell Okafor If respect is earned, you don’t have any from me.

  • @itsmexoxurmom
    @itsmexoxurmom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    anyone click for casey tho

    • @cal1228
      @cal1228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      me

    • @vixqwrt
      @vixqwrt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bridgette!!

    • @vixqwrt
      @vixqwrt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brook Heyes huh

    • @itsmexoxurmom
      @itsmexoxurmom 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      victoria r my username lol is what i think they were referring to

    • @vixqwrt
      @vixqwrt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      kaitlin bennett’s dirty pants ohhh lmao i tonight they were talking to me

  • @xtaffieditedx6360
    @xtaffieditedx6360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’m non binary and lesbian, and this made me happy.

    • @tartaglia.
      @tartaglia. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, since you’re non binary and lesbian, I have a question: If you identified as a boy on a day but you have a girlfriend, are you technically still lesbian or are you straight for the day? I apologise if this is offensive, I just am curious

    • @raulcazcarro5671
      @raulcazcarro5671 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tartaglia. same

    • @matitties9761
      @matitties9761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tartaglia. I think what you’re thinking of is gender fluid, not non binary. Non binary is a different gender, not to be confused with agender- and you stay as that gender just as people identify as male or female. While genderfluid is when your gender changes dependant on how you are feeling on those particular days.

  • @rubberduckballs4701
    @rubberduckballs4701  3 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    I’m the 1000th comment lol
    I made this video when I went by they/them pronouns but now my pronouns are he/him

    • @rubberduckballs4701
      @rubberduckballs4701  3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@peasyyy what the fuck

    • @ihatepeople5765
      @ihatepeople5765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@peasyyy what

    • @juniper5354
      @juniper5354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cool

    • @papithanos5125
      @papithanos5125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@rubberduckballs4701 U G H THIS VIDEO MADE ME GO BACK INTO GENDER PANIC MODE CAN U GIVE ME TIPS 😩

    • @rubberduckballs4701
      @rubberduckballs4701  3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@papithanos5125 hello sorry for the late response. Maybe try going by all pronouns for a bit and maybe you might find what you feel comfortable with

  • @enderwiggins8248
    @enderwiggins8248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Kind of a tangent, but my amab non binary amigue wished there was more amab non-binary style and rep, like they find it difficult to express themselves properly and basically wear the same pair of jeans and tshirt everyday. A lot of non-binary rep, while amazing, is afab so we gotta break the stigma

  • @turquoisebirb
    @turquoisebirb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    3:46 For anyone who's having a bad day

  • @stephaniejohnson2445
    @stephaniejohnson2445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    0:10 how are they so stunning?!

  • @thatchaoticqueertheatrekid5870
    @thatchaoticqueertheatrekid5870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    i freaking LOVE the christian mother she's so sweet!!!!!

  • @7000Leafs.
    @7000Leafs. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I swear IT'S SO HARD to use the pronouns in the start because of our conditioning.. But we get used to it and then we start getting it right. 🖤💜
    I love the fact that they showed the mom part.. I felt like that for a long time with my loved one

  • @zazoo5557
    @zazoo5557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Bex Taylor-Klaus is another non-binary celeb and we stan a legend. Their insta is iconic.
    Y’all are valid!!
    I watch these because they’re always so wholesome

  • @mabithebard
    @mabithebard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    2:34
    Avu-chan! Tho it’s not easy to get info on their gender since most of it is in Japanese. They’re typically listed as female on official sites but they said in an interview “Am I a man, woman, or transgender? Its difficult to choose.” There have also been sources of them saying they’re both or neither, and in a song they called themselves a “hybrid of Adam and Eve”. They’re fucking GORGEOUS, and their voice is GODLY.

  • @annejohnson3151
    @annejohnson3151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My bestfriend just came out to me as nonbinary today so I'm just here doing my best to support them 💕💞💓💞 happy pride everybody!!

  • @rubberduckballs4701
    @rubberduckballs4701  4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Yay I’m back it’s almost been a year. I’ll try to post more instead of posting 2 times a year lol
    🍋Good Day🍋
    (Some of these are just all lgbtq soooooo)

    • @pillsburydoughh7491
      @pillsburydoughh7491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do not resist the dan Howell in you.

    • @rdd8048
      @rdd8048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      philsbury hœ
      I love you

    • @pillsburydoughh7491
      @pillsburydoughh7491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rdd8048
      Wife??

    • @rdd8048
      @rdd8048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pillsburydoughh7491 sure

    • @rdd8048
      @rdd8048 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pillsburydoughh7491 unfortunatly i do not have a discord

  • @trapsarenotgay8472
    @trapsarenotgay8472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    why is nobody talking about 3:46? i’m in literal tears right now. this made me so happy aaa :,)

    • @comingsn2519
      @comingsn2519 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a christian who is also bi and enby while being married to a straight man and a ren to a beautiful child it hit

  • @rubberduckballs4701
    @rubberduckballs4701  3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Hello. I didn’t know this video would get lots of views. I decided to add captions. Please let me know if there are mistakes in the captions:)

  • @rubberduckballs4701
    @rubberduckballs4701  4 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Thank you for 3k views 🥺

  • @milqvetoast
    @milqvetoast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    quick psa for all my lovely enbys: you dont have to present androgynously if you dont feel comfortable with it/dont have the resources to! you can present masculine, feminine, a mix of the two, or neither. do what makes you feel comfortable :) personally, i have a somewhat feminine/androgynous haircut, i dress feminine/androgynous and i go by she/her pronouns+a set of neopronouns i like. there is no "right" way to be an enby! just be you 💛🤍💜🖤

  • @prim5941
    @prim5941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This might just be me but like, I identify as a girl but I really wouldn’t mind someone calling me he/him. I don’t look like a guy or anything idk I’m strange...

    • @elenav.5470
      @elenav.5470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      well, gender and pronouns aren’t the same thing! if you’re a girl who’s fine with he/him, that’s 100% valid, as is any other identity that you may find out works for you

  • @rubberduckballs4701
    @rubberduckballs4701  4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Woah thanks for all the views lol

  • @maxcarterrambling
    @maxcarterrambling 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    What's the song at 2:33
    It sounds pretty chill so Imma search it up if one of you people tell me

  • @byakya.togami5966
    @byakya.togami5966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Thank for adding mama jill wilice she's the best

  • @leicall6294
    @leicall6294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    3:46
    I was actually watching this in my room on my bed, feeling dysphoric since my period had started. Then this one showed up and made my day, now im gonna actually go do things and try to be productive!! Love y'all ❤❤

  • @SimplyAlex.Offical
    @SimplyAlex.Offical 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:45 WE NEED TO PROTECT THESE PEOPLE OF ALL COST

  • @saitamaschneider7217
    @saitamaschneider7217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    To be honest, I'm a trans guy and I watch nonbinary tiktoks because they're funny and nonbinary people are cute.

    • @emi-ne1kv
      @emi-ne1kv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Donnell Okafor and you’re a disrespectful, transphobic person. Please educate yourself on trans people. you’re most likely confused, usually transphobes/homophobes are the way they are because they are misinformed or uninformed on the topic. if not, please take a long look in the mirror and reevaluate your choices and beliefs. Thank you :)
      Love, a bisexual

    • @saitamaschneider7217
      @saitamaschneider7217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@emi-ne1kv thank you! i was mad and couldn't express that, but you said it perfectly!

    • @emi-ne1kv
      @emi-ne1kv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Saitama Schneider it’s no problem! thank you for being so kind !! you’re valid ❤️

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Saitama Schneider You will always be valid.

    • @saitamaschneider7217
      @saitamaschneider7217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@The._.Household thanks

  • @tylenol4963
    @tylenol4963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey yall, just wanted to say non binary people (including you, if you're non binary) don't have to go by they/them pronouns (which I saw a lot in this video) and can go by she/her or he/him if that person so desires. That's all, I hope you all have a great day! 🖤💜🤍💛

  • @Eruza9306
    @Eruza9306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    1:43 that enby playing the mom seems so cool. Can my mom please be like that? ;-;

  • @jamjams_143
    @jamjams_143 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:43 ok but this actually made me tear up

  • @bubblinequeen5287
    @bubblinequeen5287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yo, I’ve recently come out to myself as non-binary and i have never felt more myself. Idk if i am gonna be able to tell people any time soon, as it would probably put me in an unsafe environment, but maybe some of my close friends will be accepting. I feel so happy that I have finally found a label that fits me. :))

  • @avani4999
    @avani4999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:08 my mom does that but she doesnt mess up that much and makes sure NO ONE gets misgender

  • @trashcanman9357
    @trashcanman9357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I came out as nb for the first time a couple of days ago!! Now I just gotta tell the rest of my friends, wish me luck! ‘:-)

    • @valk1257
      @valk1257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck other enby friend 🤠🤠🤠

    • @trashcanman9357
      @trashcanman9357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@valk1257

    • @moristulti9806
      @moristulti9806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck fellow human!

    • @dyinginablissfuldream
      @dyinginablissfuldream 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ur comment is from 8 months ago now so i rlly hope it went well ^^

    • @trashcanman9357
      @trashcanman9357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@dyinginablissfuldream aw thanks! everything has gone swimmingly :~)

  • @pink_2922
    @pink_2922 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    another simple on, i see brig, i click

  • @sailorpickles
    @sailorpickles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love that Christian lady

  • @tarashivanigopinath7825
    @tarashivanigopinath7825 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    im happy with the gender im assigned to, if you're not, change it.

  • @myotiswii
    @myotiswii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    F in the chat for everyone who speaks a first language where there is no genderneutral pronoun that can be used for humans.
    In Germany, for example, some use 'es' which is the same as 'it' in English, or they use neopronuns (which are kinda akward because they need more explanation) or just use both male and female (which often results in one being used more often, which can be annoying).

  • @rainorxhine
    @rainorxhine 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That Christian woman is the energy I wish to have! I’m also a Christian and I hope this is who I grow up to be!!❤️

  • @teddymathieson3542
    @teddymathieson3542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That tik-tok at 3:46 was not what I was expecting and I love it. I really needed that 💗💗

  • @moonsaep
    @moonsaep 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fun fact: only non-binary pleoples watches this video

  • @HHDDXX
    @HHDDXX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    3:50 One day I woke up saw this tik tok and after I felt super motivated to where I cleaned every inch of my house got dressed in very nice clothing for no reason.

    • @comingsn2519
      @comingsn2519 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goes to show how far love and acceptance goes!

  • @aliciaochs
    @aliciaochs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you look "male" the pronouns come naturally. This announcing pronouns is nonsense. You can't control how people perceive you.

    • @somascorpio.
      @somascorpio. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't think any rational person would get mad if someone *accidentally* misgender them. Like I get it all the time. But if people keep misgendering them on *purpose* ...that would be bad.

  • @jiji7017
    @jiji7017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have a question!
    How do they them pronouns work?
    Can you use "they" or "them" to replace she/her/he/his?
    Or do you use "they" to replace she/he and "them" to replace her/his?
    Or does that depends on the person your speaking with?

    • @valk1257
      @valk1257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So basically! You know how they and them work in plural (more than one person), right? Because they're the same words.
      They are going out.
      Those are their bottles.
      That is from them.
      So it's gonna work almost exactly the same if you're talking about a nonbinary/gender-non-comforming person.
      They are going out.
      That is their bottle
      That is from them.
      Ya got it?
      She / he - they
      Her(s) / his - their(s)
      Her / him - them
      So just practice with it, you'll get the hang of it.
      For example I'll pretend to tell you a short story of a nonbinary person called Robin. Robin was only 12 when they came out as nonbinary. They have lived with that identity for 5 years now and they couldn't be happier. Personally I'm very happy for them. Im glad they feel comfortable like that. And not to mention, their taste in fashion is great!
      See? Easy :D

    • @jiji7017
      @jiji7017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Skye thank u very much for explaining it to me༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ❤️
      Now that I know how that works, it really isn't that hard😂

    • @nomokona
      @nomokona 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jiji7017 what a lovely interaction you are both wonderful please have a wonderful day pals

    • @jiji7017
      @jiji7017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      nomokona
      Thank you,༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ❤️
      Have wonderful days too(⌒▽⌒)

    • @Jadeigital
      @Jadeigital 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Btw, not all non binary people go by they/them. Some of them do go by their original pronouns of she or he. I myself am exploring the feeling of being nb, and i would still prefer to be she/her. This is because for me being nb doesn't mean having to change pronouns, but just feeling comfortable and not caring about fitting the mould of male or female. I am still a she but i don't want to be made to act a certain way as a she.
      Does that makes sense? (I'm not so good with words)
      So if you know someone who is nb, ask them if they do go by they/them or not :)

  • @Adi-qu4ls
    @Adi-qu4ls 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i just feel like all of these people look so great after figuring out and being themselves because then they are happy and confident and theres nothing more attractive than that.

  • @cf1179
    @cf1179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Me: sees Bridget Lundy-Paine
    *clicks so fast you can’t even say polysexual*

  • @xxxGreenNinjaxxx
    @xxxGreenNinjaxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    They're all great but why the Christian woman and her man bring me to tears 😭

  • @mx.sinistxr
    @mx.sinistxr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    4:01 awwwwww

  • @Mel0diez4U_bbg
    @Mel0diez4U_bbg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Christian women is soooo noiceee 🥺 where my fellow enbys?

  • @23V33
    @23V33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its been about 1-2 months since my bff came out as non-binary. I love them so,so,so much they'll never understand how much I love them :)

  • @thedramaclub2198
    @thedramaclub2198 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    AAAHH
    I LOVE THE CHRISTIAN MOTHER
    💜💜💜

  • @littlecousin8716
    @littlecousin8716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    non-binary people are just beautiful! ^^

  • @feisty_frog0389
    @feisty_frog0389 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    idk if i wanna be non binary but still wanna use she/her/they/them pronouns is that still ok

    • @Awwterpaws
      @Awwterpaws 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it's ok ^^

    • @what-6704
      @what-6704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think what you are describing is called demigirl

  • @some1udontno239
    @some1udontno239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My sister calls me her sibrother, cuz I'm genderfluid. Anyone else?

    • @ava_a313
      @ava_a313 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw. That's so nice!

  • @nadiad3758
    @nadiad3758 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now that I have discovered my pronouns are she\they I can relate to these and I am happy

  • @isabelladorr2437
    @isabelladorr2437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    4:20 made me fell good for who i am

  • @probablythismfbutonsteroid6625
    @probablythismfbutonsteroid6625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YAAAASS QUEEN SLAY
    This! So much this! I'm literally shaking rn y'all, so wholesome I can't even
    Oh hey folks, just to mention from now on I'm non-cardinal. Let's unpack this: it means my age doesn't fit in a single, chronologically ordered category based on something as trivial as how many times our space rock has gone around a gas ball (oof). Shhh, just shut up and listen, as a white person you've been raised within the toxic old model which is just ageist and perpetuates problematic adult-centrist, mature-normative patriarchist stereotypes, also designed to discriminate against PoC (wow... just wow). But it's okay, sweetie :) Do you realize scientists actually support the deconstruction of the rigid "age" parameter? There's bone age, psychological age, perceived age, age expressions... You can even be born again after a strong experience, let that sink in. And guess what, sweet summer child? Ding ding ding! Many people don't even have age at all. Yikes! It's almost as if your bigotry had jusk been debunked. Who hurt you? Embrace diversity and maybe, just maybe learn to be a decent human being, friendo. Otherwise you make us lose all faith in humanity and you're not welcome in this safe space

  • @artsyandy6431
    @artsyandy6431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Non-bi bois where we at?

  • @llawliet8164
    @llawliet8164 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That 4:00 made me just so happy

  • @stargirl_babydoll
    @stargirl_babydoll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You dont know my gender cause I am a unknown hooman

  • @h1ghc4t85
    @h1ghc4t85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is there any other closeted non-binary pansexuals in this comment section

  • @person3171
    @person3171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i’m literally in love with bridget lundy paine. they’re so beautiful first saw them. in atypical and it was love at first sight❤️❤️❤️

  • @nonaneko2634
    @nonaneko2634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a pansexual non binary, I’m in 2 friend groups
    1st group:
    They/Them crackhead gremlin with no sleep (me)
    They/he crackhead gremlin with a bit of sleep
    They/she kinda crackhead with no sleep because of the others
    2nd group
    They/Them crackhead gremlin with no sleep (me)
    They/he crackhead gremlin with no sleep
    Lesbian that is very energetic
    Lesbian that is the mom of the group
    She/they quiet

    • @somascorpio.
      @somascorpio. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think every one can relate to the lesbian mom of the group, I have one too. Am I the only shy enby (they/them) tho?

  • @imabandit5739
    @imabandit5739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    wakes up in the morning
    WHAT GENDER AM I.

    • @moristulti9806
      @moristulti9806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Waking up.....
      *error* GENDER NOT IDENTIFED

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Waking up...
      Your gender has been misplaced or destroyed.
      Agender loading...

    • @scott-ry4cj
      @scott-ry4cj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Donnell Okafor gender is made up

  • @hellolovies
    @hellolovies 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish my mom was like margeret

  • @azula7684
    @azula7684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    2:04 is my favorite 😂

  • @bottleobucky-_-9627
    @bottleobucky-_-9627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What nice men and Women

  • @evie7764
    @evie7764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ok but the person at 1:53 slays in everything and I am jealous.

  • @katelyn3898
    @katelyn3898 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom is non-binary phobic… my sister is gender fluid

  • @vixorxiv1363
    @vixorxiv1363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    3:44
    That is some SUPPORT from the Christians
    Thanks you ally’s! 💖💜💙

  • @LV-zp7ve
    @LV-zp7ve 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use they/them so I can confuse anyone but I am a closeted non-binary and bisexual

  • @Kat-bk4vz
    @Kat-bk4vz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The message from the christian woman has restored a little of my hope in organized religion

  • @lonelypotato3436
    @lonelypotato3436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that christian woman made me cry

    • @somascorpio.
      @somascorpio. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She made me so happy 😭😭😭😁

  • @maradillon2271
    @maradillon2271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where can I find a #pridepotatoes shirt?

  • @sockruhtease
    @sockruhtease 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Ma'am? Sir? I'm nonbinary so I guess I go by 'billie'. Its appears it is the 'ma'am' or 'sir' equivalent of nonbinary pronouns." I'm cool with it... Wait aren't those titles and not pronouns? Damn! While,,, I thought was good grammar nazee i failed!!!!! Nooo dar goes the spwellin tooo! (seriously I'd still be cool with it")

    • @somascorpio.
      @somascorpio. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mx. Is actually used instead I think (: