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  • Answering Your Juicy Questions About Our Relationship!! Hey FAM I am back with another video :) today my fiance Rafal and I will be Answering your juicy questions about our relationship 😋 juicy juicy questions lol ... I hope you enjoyed this video Answering the most Asked Questions #questions #agegap #thatssoiyah
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  • @courtnee1060
    @courtnee1060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I'm in an age gap/long distance/interracial relationship too with an amazing Mexican man. I'm 21 he's 35. This is our 3rd year and It was really difficult coming out to my family and my mom still has issues with it. Out of all the drama, I've learned that life is full of lessons and I have to learn them myself just like I have to live my life. I can only be respectful and hope that if it's meant to be, people will eventually accept it. Life is too short to be unhappy so waste time not being happy. I wish you guys the best!

    • @lisaa3636
      @lisaa3636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s your life, your love. Happy to see you aren’t letting people get in the way of that. Love is love. Even if other people can’t accept it, it’s not their relationship to accept!

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He is looking for a green cared

    • @KatGlo
      @KatGlo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      35?! Chile

    • @_fromthedivine_
      @_fromthedivine_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know this is an old comment, but I'm late to discovering their channel. I'm in a 25 year age gap relationship for 6yrs. Now and we are perfect together but he keeps it as a secret from most, out of fear of what others will think and his family not accepting it. To be fair, he battles anxiety and has past trauma in relationship so I think that also plays s part. We've had many ups and downs because of his own worries and fears. We've tried to stay away from eachother but are always led back to eachother.
      I myself don't care what anyone else thinks! It's my life and he makes me happy like no other. It's a deep, very spiritual connection. I'm to the point though of ending it because I'm tired of keeping it a secret and being hidden! I know I deserve so much more. It's a very difficult situation to be in! I admire Raf and Lyah for authentically loving eachother and not caring about what others think!❤ Best of wishes to you!❤🙏

    • @anaalequin5629
      @anaalequin5629 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I see though she acts very grown in a way, she is also very young and childish. I hope it lasts, but he is a very nice and easy going person. To me I do not think this love is not going to last. Sorry a child is coming along. He is a father already of a daughter almost as old as her. She does act of childish. I really feel bad for this couple.

  • @safiyahamisu5874
    @safiyahamisu5874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    The level of maturity is way apart. Both are just being their age. He has experienced her age, she is on her way to experience his age. He’ll probably be more patient and enjoy being her age. Wishing you all the best.

  • @Tiffany-ie3cu
    @Tiffany-ie3cu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    It’s beautiful to know that he prefers her to be natural. A true sign that he loves “her” just for who she is.

    • @catherinewilliams815
      @catherinewilliams815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree.

    • @maritkaa007
      @maritkaa007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Polish guys don't like fake things - that's what I have experienced when dating Polish men. They don't like hair extensions, plastic surgery, sometimes even wearing make up is a big no. That's just so typical Polish guy behaviour.

    • @mariethompson4237
      @mariethompson4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A sign that he really loves black women. 🙂

    • @carly582
      @carly582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And possibly the fact she's extremely beautiful and has an amazing body...

    • @junesammy-robidoux2305
      @junesammy-robidoux2305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes, he is also so patient with her

  • @joycedauzart4764
    @joycedauzart4764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    He doesn't look old at all

    • @AJ-mt9zt
      @AJ-mt9zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I agree but 42 isn't old though lol.

    • @carly582
      @carly582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Yeah he's not old just extremely attractive

    • @butterflymustfly_1232
      @butterflymustfly_1232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@AJ-mt9zt I'm 45 and he's far from old. It's just this generation thinks everything past 25 is old.

    • @lroundtreepatrick
      @lroundtreepatrick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      He is very handsome and his confidence just puts the icing on the cake. I wish them well

    • @tessat.1616
      @tessat.1616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Joyce Dauzart, you are so right, he doesn't. But early forties is n o t really old, he's just much older than she is. He handles her just right, as he's supposed to, at least publicly. He doesn't talk down to her, just quietly corrects her. They are fun to watch.

  • @coolingwinds
    @coolingwinds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    She is so cute. I get why he says that she surprises him. So adorable they are, and now they’re about to have an adorable baby! So sweet 😊

  • @Winter-xh5im
    @Winter-xh5im 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This couple has really changed my view about them.. I enjoy watching them and both seem super sweet!

    • @shaeekenn6253
      @shaeekenn6253 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because you use to seeing toxic bs ughh ppl & they view of things

  • @Jeserie
    @Jeserie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I am in a relationship as well with a 20 year gap, got married when I was 18 and now we have 2 boys 11and 5 and been married for 12 years.
    Age gap is never been an issue to us, I love the fact that I have the person I love helping me grow up and mature, it’s definitely a good balance.

    • @hitdaworld2963
      @hitdaworld2963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What about 36 year gap

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hitdaworld2963 . Some people do that, too.

    • @ronnieg2961
      @ronnieg2961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How it should be and it’s suppose to be.

    • @Jeserie
      @Jeserie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hitdaworld2963 as long as both person get along well and have a lot of things in common, then thats should not be a problem.
      Love and respect is really the key to a good relationship.

  • @atstafford10
    @atstafford10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You 2 are sweet! He is very patient with her, which shows maturity and sophistication. She needs that. She is absolutely adorable! She is a natural beauty and doesn't need anything fake. Personally, I don't like ANYTHING fake or unnatural. I have never worn a wig or extensions, no fake eyelashes, no fake nails. I am 61 yrs old and trust me people have never been able to guess my age. And, as far as his being "old", that's rubbish! He is still very young, and looks it - with his fine self! Take good care of each other, share in good health. With lots of love, and respect for one another you will be forever happy!

  • @paulachin9130
    @paulachin9130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Your a beautiful couple with loads of personality and seem easy to be around. He seems to adore you the way he looks at you and is affectionate is adorable.

  • @nikkig6028
    @nikkig6028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    She’s adorable, but her age def shows her statements, comments, and mannerisms.. hope she blooms into a confident, cultured, n reserved young women some day

    • @lizgaby9761
      @lizgaby9761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Probably won't happen till she hits 30 lol

    • @ghostwriter5745
      @ghostwriter5745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Correct!!!

    • @sharnagrayson9649
      @sharnagrayson9649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Isn’t she like 21

    • @crishnaholmes7730
      @crishnaholmes7730 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How

    • @Raquel_824
      @Raquel_824 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's definitely still a child ... I'm gonna give them one more video but I don't see what everybody else sees .. the age difference definitely shows !!!

  • @z.shari11
    @z.shari11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I instantly liked you guys when you said you didn't like the current state of affairs in America. Thank you for your honesty ❤️☺️

  • @JL-ei4sc
    @JL-ei4sc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +572

    She’s so cute she probably makes this man feel young again

    • @valenciabernadeau242
      @valenciabernadeau242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      For real

    • @gingerjuice4053
      @gingerjuice4053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@valenciabernadeau242 wait how old is he? I'd guess late 20s early 30s😳😳

    • @heatsann4456
      @heatsann4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@gingerjuice4053 he’s 40

    • @preacherskid428
      @preacherskid428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@heatsann4456 43 actually

    • @iwontrespond4039
      @iwontrespond4039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Well yeah but he's fine as hell!! So I think she feels pretty good too

  • @jolciar6516
    @jolciar6516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    You complement each other every possible way. I am very satisfied and happy seeing you as a couple. It brings a wide, genuine smile on my face seeing and hearing how fantastic couple you are.

  • @lisafilly464
    @lisafilly464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It doesn’t matter about the age gap to me. It’s the maturity level difference between them. I sure hope she’s getting an education so she can support herself. Even if they’re together for life she needs to be able to take care of herself.

  • @lifeofalisha6115
    @lifeofalisha6115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    You guys are cute. I’m also in an age gap relationship. Wouldn’t trade it for anything. Wishing you both well

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @Se_190
      @Se_190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God bless ya Alisha, girl I never had a relationship with a man my age, OR AS OLDER AS I AM, ALWAYS YOUNGER, I CAN'T ATTRACT AN OLDER TO SAVE MY LIFE... BUT ITS OK, ONCE A MAN ASKKED ME IF HE COULD ASK MY PARENTS IF IT WAS OK IF HE TOOK ME OUT. OH GOD, I THINK I WENT CROSS EYED! WE EXCHANGED #'s and long story short, he really never did believe my REAL AGE, however, he wasn't my type anyway, toodle loo bro...

    • @lifeofalisha6115
      @lifeofalisha6115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Se_190 I am sorry to hear that. Hope all is going well. We are getting married next month and I am so excited

    • @reshemaewerse4022
      @reshemaewerse4022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me too!…same 22yrs age difference. Together 14yrs married 7yrs, no kids together. My husband is the older one, he’s everything to me.
      Good luck to you guys. People like to chat crap! Ignore them, love is love.

    • @z.shari11
      @z.shari11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME! 🥰🥰

  • @sharongraham116
    @sharongraham116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Let the man talk. Give him time to talk. Please ladies

    • @cocobutterchin6768
      @cocobutterchin6768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      She is like a little kid. Very Hyper. Full Of Energy.

    • @Viva-Ethio.1016
      @Viva-Ethio.1016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      U can see here big age diffrence.

    • @zohrabechan9721
      @zohrabechan9721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes let the man talk

    • @Angelaaa91
      @Angelaaa91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stfu 😑

    • @malushahinduja1875
      @malushahinduja1875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She is learning
      ..she is exited..she will improve in her next video... Love ❤

  • @liveinspirewithlivemulumba
    @liveinspirewithlivemulumba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    It’s beautiful to witness love (couldn’t stop myself from smiling the hole time). God bless you guys.♥️✨

  • @Kstixx1
    @Kstixx1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    There's nothing wrong with your hair it looks good. White girls wear extensions and wigs too? As long as it looks good men shouldnt worry about women's beauty upkeep

    • @sarahm8884
      @sarahm8884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Girls are getting plastic surgery on there whole face and body. He's pressing her about weave. Nope.. Like just admit you prefer men and go 😲👎

    • @altovise14
      @altovise14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's crazy thinking about moving to another's country too because of our new president too

    • @tesswonderful4194
      @tesswonderful4194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Of course white girls wear wigs and extensions. Stereotypes - like black people can't grow long hair. 🙂

    • @colleenlewis3599
      @colleenlewis3599 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is my first

    • @colleenlewis3599
      @colleenlewis3599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like both of you

  • @vernellwindon6771
    @vernellwindon6771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    You’re an adorable couple, he looks much younger, you actually compliment each other.💕

  • @valerywagner3652
    @valerywagner3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She's so sweet and adorable. It's nice to see she show's him gratitude. Awesome keep being a grateful wife.💞💞

  • @luvyjaboin8211
    @luvyjaboin8211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Omg I loved this! I love you guys chemistry 😂
    Y’all look so good and you look gorgeous sweets ❤️
    I’m an INTJ and my friends are ENTP so I def understand what it is to be around the debaters. I like how even though he feels like he’s always right,he’s sweet with you ❤️
    The Witcher is an amazing show! Can’t wait until it comes back.
    I think kids can wait,especially since marriage is already a big transition. Kids are no easy feat and I think it takes a lot more planning. I’d suggest wait until you guys have fun and enjoy the honeymoon period of your marriage. Then invite the little ones.
    Also,idk what it is with the comments. People keep calling you childish but you’re 21 and usually age gap relationships are going to be like this. Men love a personality like that of this woman. He doesn’t mind her so called “ Childish and bubbly” mannerisms. She has plenty of time to grow into a beautiful Crone full of wisdom. Like,it’s her personality and it’s fun. ❤️❤️❤️💅🏾

  • @yanahs1st
    @yanahs1st ปีที่แล้ว +16

    By far my favorite couple to watch on social media, no pretentious acts genuine chemistry 💜💜💜love you 🙏🙏

  • @chigozie9149
    @chigozie9149 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I smiled and giggled all through this video ❤.
    I'm happy for you guys

  • @simma9878
    @simma9878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I feel she has a lot of energy, which I'm sure he likes that.also I feel you guys benefit from each other a lot. I'm an older woman and my man is younger than me with the same energy.

  • @Mzjuju828
    @Mzjuju828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I am in the same boat as y'all and it's soooooo refreshing to see I'm not the only one with an age gap, naturally in love, and y'all can be yourselves to one another. I love, adore, and respect y'all ✨💯🖤🙌🏽

    • @elizabethfitzgibbons2672
      @elizabethfitzgibbons2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm in the same boat to as long as u have chemistry with that person and both of u are in that's what matters

  • @jaz6789
    @jaz6789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Rafal would make a good Lawyer , Iyah looking extra beautiful today

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thank you jasmine 💓hah tell me about it I know

    • @godsonnzube7988
      @godsonnzube7988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My dear you're very pretty 🦋 i admire you, can we get to know?

  • @cassiecoulter1146
    @cassiecoulter1146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Cute couple. He sounds like he always wants to be right

  • @dq8330
    @dq8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I can tell He's already not taking her opinions into consideration because she's way younger. She said it herself he will get into an argument with her for not backing her opinions with facts.
    It's ok to have a personal opinion girly, and as your partner he has to take it into consideration. Don't let him force you into thinking the way he does. It's ok to have different opinions.

    • @kabahumaaliya4645
      @kabahumaaliya4645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Are you rafs ex why too much hate

    • @Optimus19572
      @Optimus19572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I disagree! You have a problem clearly

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree with you.she is too young and he is taking advantage of that. He wants to mold her in to something he wants.

    • @dq8330
      @dq8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@iseeyou2810 he's not necessarily taking advantage of her because she's considered a consenting adult. But he's DEFINITELY discarding her input in the relationship and tossing it aside because she's too young. Healthy relationships aren't built that way. Both partners have to contribute. It should never be one dominant opinion or it will turn into a dictatorship and the one unheard will become resentful of the other.

    • @carly582
      @carly582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dq8330 damn your knowledgeable I learnt alot from you

  • @maemae1752
    @maemae1752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I agree with him, wear your natural hair, take care of it, nurture it and it will be glorious.
    I can never understand women who always want what they are not, curly wants straight, skinny wants curves, light wants dark and all vise versa . He is right, the best is to learn to be comfortable in your own skin, own what you have girls!
    Realise whan you are constantly covering up your natural hair, nails and skin it leads to your hair nails and skin paying the price of all that fake stuff on top and then you are stuck, your natural self looks awful and it costs a fortune to keep up with all the fake. Plus how uncomfortable it must be to wear those wigs and nails all the time. Be free, be natural, especially black girls, you have no idea how much we are in awe of your beauty.

  • @juliettenartey9151
    @juliettenartey9151 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really agree that this couple are so sweet and a good example of how opposites will always attract.
    As someone who is in an interracial relationship with someone, it is great to understand.

  • @dorrishaynes8349
    @dorrishaynes8349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Love his smile and intelligence.

    • @Munaslim
      @Munaslim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My too

  • @sahra4091
    @sahra4091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I just like her craziness, I know why he fall in love with her.

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you love !!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @72capital53
    @72capital53 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    You guys are genuine and hillarious. Love it!!!

  • @615BlackBarbie
    @615BlackBarbie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    "I'm a debater." Then, she looks at him like "huh" and proceeds to explain that he's a Debater" 🤭

  • @dq8330
    @dq8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Did he just say " my girl is growing up"
    I cringed. Respect her she's your girlfriend not your daughter.

    • @DeeDee-ww9ve
      @DeeDee-ww9ve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That made me cringe too

    • @1991jdclark
      @1991jdclark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The mental age difference is more than 20 years.

    • @incognaytopotayto
      @incognaytopotayto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah that was gross

    • @shantelgoode5069
      @shantelgoode5069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea as a mother to a little girl I would be mad if her husband ever said that and I found out but maybe that turns her on

    • @csuchicka5459
      @csuchicka5459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I cringed too 😂🥲

  • @e17yas
    @e17yas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I understand your point. You have different communication styles which is fine. Glad you can hold your own with Hubby 👍🏽

  • @marianb2530
    @marianb2530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ha-ha Rafal...I love how I met my husband to be. It was not in a club or a bar, God brought me all the way from NY to a small place in ME. I t was at a singles retreat through the church of Christ. We vowed to not have relations until the marriage bed...and I am glad we didn't "cloud" our relationship with that. I have made a lot of mistakes in the past with that, and it didn't work out for me. God is good and he helped me to trust in him, and not in myself. Peace and God bless!

  • @Trippyboho
    @Trippyboho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I notice that he tries to shut her up a lot by kissing her or trying to charm her. Which I don’t really like only because it’s obvious she doesn’t really like confrontation, so she just accepts it and moves on but I think in a marriage you have to allow the other spouse to speak their minds without automatically ignoring or putting it to the side disregarding their points & perspectives of things. Because when it’s your turn you will make sure you’re heard. Wish yall luck though 💯

    • @annabaye8223
      @annabaye8223 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      gurlll you just jelly

    • @Samahra01
      @Samahra01 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My husband does this too....but it's not because he doesn't listen or care. They're sharing personal info and allowing us to hear their convo so He's protecting their privacy and setting boundaries. It's okay. He's a man and she's a woman...she even says she likes to talk alot and hes admittedly more private. He's not insulting her...in fact I do the same thing to my hubby but it's more to say, " we have our differences but I love you no matter what". God Bless!:)

    • @Humbirdhippo5475
      @Humbirdhippo5475 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, I’m noticing something there… But at least she still speaks for herself. I hope she doesn’t start to give in over the years. Seems a little like early stage gas lighting. Stay strong, young lady.

    • @mychroniclesoflife4233
      @mychroniclesoflife4233 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Every relationship has one dominate and a submissive...they balance each other

    • @chrestimnisi8509
      @chrestimnisi8509 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I couldn't agree more. I think that is why I stopped watching they videos. I feel like her opinion is always shutdown.

  • @bigananikagiso6413
    @bigananikagiso6413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Girl, I totally get it. You make a point and try to put it into detail until someone starts making you look dumb 😂😂😂🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @kellyhero608
    @kellyhero608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Girl run for ur life, that man has a long way grow, he doesn't kn how respect people opinion

  • @venice2994
    @venice2994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love watching you guys. "Yes when a man buys his woman gifts it makes her very happy.

  • @twwoody813
    @twwoody813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Some people are just destined to be together 🥰

    • @joda1432
      @joda1432 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @mariangaji7212
    @mariangaji7212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Rafael is super funny & smart. I love how you treat Iyah. . I love how you love each other. Great couple!!!!

  • @Beca.prates
    @Beca.prates 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well they are very nice people but the difference between their age is very visible and I hope in the future, when kids come, this is not going to be a problem in many ways. Just wishing you guys the best.

  • @aprylgem1
    @aprylgem1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    You guys should check out Naka and Dom. Great low key but entertaining couple 👌

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Will check them out! Thank you so much 💓💗💛💖☺♥💓

    • @orangemark127
      @orangemark127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I love them .

    • @lisamarcelle4416
      @lisamarcelle4416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@thatssorafiyah7739 no IKA and Demetrie are a much realistic couple

    • @delooaes
      @delooaes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love them .

    • @aprylgem1
      @aprylgem1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Being Jamaican I love and give Ika and Dem 100% support. Also, there's enough love to for Naka and Dom. Just realized both couples names are similar 😁

  • @mercybanda8645
    @mercybanda8645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This couple inspires me a lot,me and my boyfriend we have an age gap of 15year but I tell you people still do talk.

    • @elizabethfitzgibbons2672
      @elizabethfitzgibbons2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone always does that with unique relationships like that I think it's cause people get jealous

    • @elizabethfitzgibbons2672
      @elizabethfitzgibbons2672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My boyfriend is 20 years older then me

  • @alejandrofernandez4159
    @alejandrofernandez4159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    While Poland IS part of the UN that's not what enables her to live, visit and work in the European countries he listed, once she has a polish passport/citizenship. That would be because Poland is part of the EU.
    I don't know about Japan specifically, but as far as Australia is concerned she would most likely still need a Visa as well as other documents.
    Then again I'm german so it actually might be different for polish citizens, so don't quote me on that.

  • @kilovesdaisies
    @kilovesdaisies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You guys are so cute together, I think every yt couple should have their own secrets & privacy. I love you guys 🥺

  • @irenedarkwah6329
    @irenedarkwah6329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I am almost the same age as him. I don't feel old. I am more girly than I have ever been.
    My point is 40 is not old. Great things happen after 40. I guess it's happened in this case.

    • @lemurianchick
      @lemurianchick ปีที่แล้ว

      He looks much younger, though.

  • @nimblewimble
    @nimblewimble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "My little girl's growing up?" Bruh.

    • @lizgaby9761
      @lizgaby9761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I mean .... he is not wrong... but he is wrong for saying that.
      There's only one way to deal woth someone so much younger than yoh and that is also treating her her age..no way around that.

  • @princesshenry3090
    @princesshenry3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    You have to be real ... and share what you like or don’t like that’s what TH-cam is about !!

  • @actuallyNo...
    @actuallyNo... 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn, idk how I missed this... this def. A great one! Anyway, yall HILARIOUS, so cute, & always funny.♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆♡♡♡♡♡
    The love is so sweet amd genuine.
    Yall remind me of my husband and I in so many ways. !!!!! As couples, AND as Individuals, we've got so much in common!
    Our relationship is very close In so many ways to y'all's
    I love seein other people who live each other so wholly & accept a person fir who they really are. In this case of you 2 and your relationship, I think the difference in age is actually a positive thing, and works put perfectly for you. So lucky to've FOUND each other cause you're def. Soul mates ✌🏽

  • @victoriav_muthoni1257
    @victoriav_muthoni1257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My face is smiling so much.. I think I've taken my cheeks on gym😁 haha. You guys are adorable.

  • @tkewalis9350
    @tkewalis9350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Your eyelashes were like tiny door knobs"😂😂😂

  • @svewein5144
    @svewein5144 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you are so cute together😊 everybody can see your true love for each other, that‘s everything counts and age is only a number… those people talking bad about you are jealous or even not courageous enough to do the same in their lifes…wish you both endless love for each other

  • @hotchocolate1204
    @hotchocolate1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I think you are the one of the cutest couples. He has good looks and age well hot couple the chemistry is something else . Enough said.

  • @Ella_4888
    @Ella_4888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I love how excited she gets about things😃😃

    • @kellymurphy6667
      @kellymurphy6667 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Her excitability has a childlike quality that it would probably be a give away of their having an age difference if I didn't know that about them already.
      I used to live with an a 19 year old and her 45 year old boyfriend so the age gap dynamic isn't unfamiliar to me! Relationships where there are obvious inequalities can feel cringe to me but if he's able to be with her and still encourage her to live out the same sort of 20s she would have had outside of their relationship, that would be super healthy.

  • @Stephaniejanetteyoung
    @Stephaniejanetteyoung 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Iyah hasn't stopped smiling they both haven't its a really beautiful thing to be in love

  • @shaaronego8227
    @shaaronego8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    U guys just make me smile from the beginning to the end of the video
    Love you guys ❤💜💋

  • @Bianca_1111_
    @Bianca_1111_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    For your wedding you should vlog dress shopping !!!!!!! Cheating pranks suck. Plus you have to watch what you put out into the atmosphere. Keep it positive and funny!!!! Doesn’t matter! You were 19 and TOTALLY LEGAL!!!! I’m team Iyah👑

  • @breadandbutter5512
    @breadandbutter5512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can see that they love each other. It’s normal for the woman to be very private because there’s enough insecurities we need to deal with, age gap doesn’t mean anything honestly. I need to learn just because people have opinions about my age gap relationship (12years age gap) as long as I am happy he takes care of me RESPECT me I am good.

  • @Browny241422
    @Browny241422 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you both and would very much love to see you continue being this genuine. This video has opened my eyes to how lovely you both are and what a wonderful couple you are. Beautiful video with no filter. I like both your personality and your honesty about your relationship and life itself. You are both each other's keepers. He's very gentle with his wife, and she's sweet and goofy, which makes it a good combination. I have to say, I don't really see the big age gap. Besides, she's not going to stay in her 20s forever. It's a good thing you met this great guy rather than having heartbreak from cheaters, players, and a deadbeat man who wouldn't love you. I like her shyness in their morning love story. It's such a beautiful way of talking about it.

  • @jc7497
    @jc7497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 31 and my last boyfriend ( a very special man) was only 23. It worked. He's the best man I've been with.

  • @pattybennar1251
    @pattybennar1251 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how u both get along n discuss things but not argue to point of fighting. U end up laughing n showing each other love.

  • @Versiongurl
    @Versiongurl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He’s one sexy man, accent and all. I’m a black American woman from NYC and I know about my Polish ppl, there’s a whole community out here, several communities. He has the typical Polish look 😍. Anyway, girl you better mature a little. You’re cute, funny and fun but you can carry yourself a little more mature and mysterious. Men do fine it attractive. When you got all giddy over him buying you a new phone, red flags went up in my head 😆. I’m not gonna say what I was thinking. I know you guys are married now and I wish you the best of luck but grow with him. You don’t want him get tired of the immaturity because I think he’s a good catch. I like a man who take a little control, it’s sexy to me and he doesn’t seem excessive but make him respect you by carrying yourself like you know better. ❤️

    • @faithainspires
      @faithainspires 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ugh. She just a graduated teen and he knew that

  • @cassandrachambers3180
    @cassandrachambers3180 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow this is a first time that I actually watched your video thru and thru. I follow you on IG but do not ever comment! But after listening to you two I really feel your heart and love felt for each other. I love that your husband is such a caring man and protector. He truly wants you to be happy and yet safe. I feel that you will come out of your shell as you age like the rest of us did. But you could not ask for a better mate, right there by your side♥️I enjoyed the video immensely ❤️

  • @empoweringangel7394
    @empoweringangel7394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It is lovely that you are encouraging natural hair wear. It takes longer to care for and gets everywhere. Be careful what you ask for. You are both beautiful xo

  • @deltoriamcclendon8246
    @deltoriamcclendon8246 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love and happiness for both of you is all I want for you guys. You are truly my favorite couple of all!!

  • @Kstixx1
    @Kstixx1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The quality looks so much better. I noticed as soon as I started the video. Good job hubby. As far as mbti I think youre isfj... ❤

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you love 💘I'm going to take the test to find out my personality type

    • @carolh7309
      @carolh7309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is my first time seeing you guys on TH-cam.you are very funny and sweet together I will be coming back.❤

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@carolh7309 thank you so much 💓💗💛

  • @aet4519
    @aet4519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its funny how people say he grooms and controls her..for a hot second I did too. But if they watch from the beginning he adores and spoils her. She is actually more outspoken than he is...and a lil spoiled, but in a cute way. Nothing major at all. The typical 20 year old. She is also mature for her age group. Not all women want to be out partying. Some women choose companionship to make them happy. Of course he is the most mature of the two so he makes most decisions. His age makes him wise and him being a husband puts him in a position to lead in a marriage and provide. Isnt that how it sposed to be anyway? I pray these two can forever embrace their relationship with nothing but love, peace, and happiness regardless of what anyone thinks.

  • @lenayoung1497
    @lenayoung1497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Because she's trying to be adult even for you...lol. You all seem very into each other continue to work on it, it's worth it.

  • @sophiaelizondo5656
    @sophiaelizondo5656 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think it’s beautiful that she found someone to grow with and learn from as well as be in love with

  • @sarascott2561
    @sarascott2561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You two are sooooo cute!!!!!! Thank you for being sooo open!!!!!! I LOVE watching your videos!!!!!! You are ALMOST at 3K.......YAY!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We try our best 🥰🥰🥰 we are glad you love our videos !!!thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I know girl I am so excited for 3kkkk

  • @simplysomali942
    @simplysomali942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m 39 I will be 40 next year my first daughter she is 16 going 17 next year and I looks so young to the point my husband has been told he is walking with a 15 years old child which is not true because he is 45 and I’m 39 ....... your husband looks young too which is bonus to you. And just be happy and love your life . Sending love from all the way from Canada .

  • @vkorchnoifan
    @vkorchnoifan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Does he know what is good for you ? What religion is he ? If any? What does he believe in? What party does he have faith in, democrats or republican ? Can his parents and your parents get along ?

    • @twwoody813
      @twwoody813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh my god! Chill out

    • @ZhaiiYou
      @ZhaiiYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All good questions

  • @pattybennar1251
    @pattybennar1251 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ur a good example to show couples what true love is.u both respect each other .

  • @chontellefraser1482
    @chontellefraser1482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My husband is 7 years older than me and we have been together for 7years now with a beautiful baby girl

  • @ketaarde632
    @ketaarde632 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Remember There is intuition! Works more powerful than logic! Trust your woman’s intuition over logic almost every time. Which means it may not always make sense❤.

  • @Lovely_Linda_777
    @Lovely_Linda_777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I just found your Channel and I am absolutely obsessed and binging on your content!!You’re an absolutely adorable couple, and are both super cute and inspiring!!! I love the educational aspect of your content, as well as the tenderness I can see in your relationship. I love your honesty, and even though I am American, my DNA is from central Europe and resonate with wanting to travel there more ASAP. Obviously the pandemic has halted that for me, but I have hope I will get there someday! I am very curious about your astrological signs,
    as well as the full Myers-Briggs compatibility. I can see the genuine love within your relationship, and it gives me hope that I can still find it for myself! Thank you for sharing your life, and I am glad that you popped up in my recommended! I wish you well on your life’s journey! You will be the most adorable married couple! Much Love from Cali USA! 💞🙏🏻🌹✨🙌🏻🥰

  • @elliefromtt4246
    @elliefromtt4246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She is full of energy and he's just a grown man chilling both I love I hope she grows well and have a healthy and mature mindset as she grows

    • @mariethompson4237
      @mariethompson4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man, you make it sound like he is old enough to be her father. I don't even think he is 10 years older than her.

    • @elliefromtt4246
      @elliefromtt4246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariethompson4237 No one made it seem any way you interpreted it like that don't twist my comment into something it was never intended to be ...wishing a beautiful couple well and stating that she has growing to do and can learn from him was one thing I meant by this comment I hope you read well and understand that and this goes for anyone else who reads this and get that impression keep a positive view thank you .Also I am not to sure of the age gap but I do know that he in fact close to her father age which when it come to their love doesn't matter at all and I am sure you agree

    • @leilanirose3274
      @leilanirose3274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mariethompson4237 He is 20+ years older than her

    • @brenaomi
      @brenaomi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mariethompson4237 He is old enough to be her dad

    • @puffymuffin9064
      @puffymuffin9064 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mariethompson4237he could be

  • @feliciasiebert2284
    @feliciasiebert2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    HER WEAVES BE LOOKING GOOD! WHOMEVER PUT THEM IN THEY DO A EXCELLENT JOB!

  • @amyshoemaker7909
    @amyshoemaker7909 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think that they have a good relationship. And they are happy she is just young and naive and she's a lil immature for her age. I don't think he is trying to control her or do harm to her in any way, he seems to be trying to be an example to her And show her life isn't just fun and games. But I definitely think they love each other and for him to be responsible and takes care of her and treats her great and age doesn't matter she is legal age, and that's all that matters!

  • @designsbysaskiaadalicia3295
    @designsbysaskiaadalicia3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My day is not complete without Iyah being her weird beautiful self 🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️

  • @veecaines6545
    @veecaines6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You guys are such a beautiful couple enjoyed the Q&A thx for sharing. Poland now that's a spot to visit

  • @sylviashyaka7289
    @sylviashyaka7289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think much as Iyah is lots younger than Rafael, she seems to be in control on many issues. In fact I feel they are very compatible, playful!. I just love love love watching you guys, Iyah and Rafael!!!

  • @csuchicka5459
    @csuchicka5459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    GIRL, does he have a brother with his personality and looks? ❤️😄✨

  • @letheafloyd1081
    @letheafloyd1081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Iyah has still maintained some innocence about her. You are a beautiful young lady. Congrats on the new phone. You are beautiful. Rafal has it going on in the looks department also. I love you as a couple. Continue to stay safe

  • @tessat.1616
    @tessat.1616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It takes a lot to render Iyah speechless, but that last question nearly did.

  • @oraldinepoellnitz4475
    @oraldinepoellnitz4475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keeping some things private is wise 👌
    It is not everyone busy to know 🙂 every thing.

  • @ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104
    @ariyonnathebeautifulariese4104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I’m an entp too. Anyways, y’all are such a cute couple. I hope you guys go viral. Such an underrated couple(hopefully y’all will still be the same when y’all go viral).

    • @thatssorafiyah7739
      @thatssorafiyah7739  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You're so sweet thank you love 💘 promise ♡we will always be the same

  • @qaskew24
    @qaskew24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a question for Raf, How has she changed your life?

  • @BerryCozyCats
    @BerryCozyCats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    22:09 Awww you'll look so adorable together. Am so happy for you'll. May you'll be happy forever. Love you both. You'll are the bestttttttttt🥰💖❤🤗💯💫

  • @sandyvalinti8042
    @sandyvalinti8042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Both you are PERFECT 👍 together. Your love makes you both look the same age. So beautiful! ✨💕✨

  • @momkrk49
    @momkrk49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's beyond me why people think they should know your personal life!!

  • @oluseyisegun5706
    @oluseyisegun5706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice video. It was so funny when he described the state of your eyelashes 😂

  • @gutchiespencer2714
    @gutchiespencer2714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    DID she just tell him “Shut the fuck up?” Where did he find her??😂😛Hot damn!! Dude got his hands full.....

    • @twwoody813
      @twwoody813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No she just said shut up, but in a light hearted way.

  • @sandrashrowder9539
    @sandrashrowder9539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It's good you both can learn from each other!you both are clever!!keep that positive energy going.

  • @dq8330
    @dq8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Ok back after watching the full thing.
    Girl, be careful. He literally doesn't care about your input or your opinion and everything is about him winning arguments.
    Be careful please.

    • @coolkid-xc1yi
      @coolkid-xc1yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏👏

    • @-Epiphany
      @-Epiphany 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chiiilleee...

    • @jasminejohnson4707
      @jasminejohnson4707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Finally a comment that sees clearly

    • @ZhaiiYou
      @ZhaiiYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wouldn’t say He doesn’t care but I will say he is very dogmatic . Also look at the cultural difference . He wants to lead and she wants a partnership

    • @coolkid-xc1yi
      @coolkid-xc1yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ZhaiiYou i think it also has to do with their age gap

  • @ravencouch
    @ravencouch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They have soooooo much chemistry. He looks so young too

  • @sharonlegaux1904
    @sharonlegaux1904 ปีที่แล้ว

    Age is just a number, if you love one another, it don't matter, I am older than my husband, been married 40 years.