I can empathise with you. At the moment I am still dealing with depression from losing my sweet Mamma- she died 3 years ago and I still miss her every single day. I go to sleep at night crying wishing I could see and talk to her and ask God to take me home to heaven so I can see her again. Also when i was in high school and even in college i was so lonely i thought i would die. I didn't know how to talk to people or make friends I would sit in my dorm room with a knot in my stomach and ache until the other guys came back and I could hear their voices in the hall. I am a slow reader and was a history miner- i didn't have time to go to games and try to hang out and make friends i had to stay in my dorm and read or i would get behind in my reading. In High school i remember being in my back yard and in the distance I would hear other young people playing riding motor bikes and i felt such loneliness i didn't know what to do. I was bullied terribly in high school and was very withdrawn. As I got older I learned how to talk to people and make friends but it took a long time for me to be able to do it As an adult i do feel lonely at times and don't really have a lot of friends but i'm ok with that- I live with my elderly father looking after him so i stay busy with work and taking care of him. I chat online with friends- I used to go to the gym and talk abut now I stay close to home especially after Mom died- I worry about my Dad. I believe Jesus is coming soon and so i do my best to spend time with the Lord- I don't feel the pain as much during those times of prayer and study. I so look forward to the day Jesus comes to take us all home. We will then never be lonely again. Will be praying for you brother. God loves you and so do I- keep your chin up- God know the desires of your heart- He will give you what you need if you only ask Him. Keep the faith!
Thank you for telling so much about your life, we all have a story to tell, I sometimes wonder how much more time I have left with my parents. I’m not really an introvert but I am not extroverted either, for example, I tend to limit how much I talk on the bus, or talk quietly because it’s more respectful. I’m a quirky person lol, if I ever do walk out with my phone, I have to stand still to look at my phone because I don’t like walking with my phone out in front of me😅. I am a misfit but so are a lot of people, I may look ordinary at first glance but appearances are deceptive 😂. And despite my loneliness I am used to living on my own, so the idea of living with someone is alien to me, which is crazy considering how lonely I am. I’m like a walking contradiction, I could see someone part time for years and years while most other people would get sick of that after a while. Anyway, I hope you had a good Christmas, and will have a good new year. I hope you find other content here you like too, may God bless you brother. *Very sorry about your mother.*
You aint alone bro but ye you can feel lonely. I have felt that feeling many times, especially when I was younger. It's a nasty heavy feeling like a snake is constricting my chest. @@thewaywhatistruth5470
Hi brother in Christ, Happy New Year. I saw you got 323 subscribers, these are the people who are your fans and followers. Keep doing the things you love brother, please stay encouraged. My prayers with you and all your subs are praying too. I wish you The Best!
Praying with you brother - you are NOT alone. Are there any activities you like to do or, better yet, are there any Church related volunteer activities you get involved in? Your awareness that there are other lonely people out there shows you care about your fellow man and maybe you can use that to focus on/help other people. Do that, and I think the friends/friendships will come on their own.
I did fill in a volunteer form at the salvation army church but never heard anything back (early-ish last year.) I am kept busy being a care giver for my mum too, I have in fact done volunteer work years ago in two special needs schools, a hospital, a library and two different charity shops. The last place was at Oxfam but I left because I couldn't face going in, I lost my enthusiasm for it. I have tried to reach out to lonely people on here also, anyway, I hope you had a good Christmas and a good new year. I hope you find other content on here you like. Oh yeah, I have gotten into the habit of telling people my name so they can find me on facebook, it's Pass Peter on there, but my full name is Peter Passarelli. Just in case.
Peter, you can turn your life around. My long-term relationship ended at 34,. When I was your age (36), I was alone, chronically ill, few friends, little family, in terrible poverty, bits of temporary work was all I could get. Now at 50, I own my own home, have a steady job, am fine financially and healthy. I'm hardly a success story, but much better than I was. You can be too, just tackle one issue at a time. My challenge to you: join a gym and go 4-5 times a week. It's basically the only thing that kept me going during the dark days.
Thank you very much for sharing your life experience, it reminds me a bit of some of what my Dad has been through in his life. Respect. Oh, I exercise at home which isn't being social but at least I stay in shape.
God Bless you have people on your side. God is protecting you until he sends those people who are right for you. Don’t give up! God is using your strength to help others. Praying that God will send you Godly friends. The Lord is near the broken hearted.
I wasn’t expecting this video to get so many views and comments, so thank you. To be frank, there’s a lot of ignorant and judgmental people out there, it’s nice to know there’s still good people out there. I hope you find other content you like here, I have a community page too. I haven’t spoken about it much on this channel, but I am going through a crisis of faith right now. A lot makes no sense to me in this life, I only did one video about that anyway. I hope you have a good new year.
After living a lifetime with narcissists and personality-disordered people, the Lord removed me from them all at age 50. I was devastated for years about it. I had tried to love them to health and the Christian way of life, but it didn’t work. I sacrificed most of my life for others. Since then, I’ve been taught a lot. I’ve learned about myself, and the people I thought were good, but weren’t. I’m a Lone Wolf for years now, and I love it. Most people are evil and shallow, sad to say. Pray for the unbelievers, and for those who’ve been deceived by Satan to value the things of this world more than Jesus Himself. Jesus is about to rapture His bride. Wait patiently for the shofar blast. God bless you, and hang in there! 😊✝️🙏🕊
Thank you very much for sharing some of your life with me, I found it interesting, rescued from all that at age 50. That's quite something, God bless you.
IPls. don't bury yourself too much overthinking! It's amazing how open you are putting yourself in the hotseat that you are the point of focus of a huge audience who are there to support and understand your situation. I know, you'd rather reveal your own conflicts so that you find peace when you rather communicate from your heart w/ others, w/ the same level of struggles as yours. As long as you're accepting to acknowledge your own feelings and what's going on inside your mind, it's okay to feel good or bad about yoursellves and alright to cry when need to. Because it's so powerful to be open to try to engage our hearts and minds and become in touch with our own emotions and be able to self-reflect and regulate the issues properly. At least, you'll be open to unlock your own heart and mind to heal. Just, pls. don't ever put your dear heart in a detached box! Because, we hear you out and compassionate w/ you. We acknowledge you -putting your guards down being vulnerable & transparent to express how you feel, is greatness (as focusing on the things that don't really matter won't leave us much time to think & feel will only restraint-repress to disconnect us from reality. The part of you showing up and holding youself accountable is awesome! Because it's easier to do bad things w/o someone to be accountable to. But practicing the mastery of self-control and discipline, operating in our voluntary accountability is greatness. Pls. know that you can be wary, feel isolated and miserable at times, & it's a very healthy "catharsis" in our emotional, mental & spiritual dev. An essential and relevant way to communicate with our needs, desires, and emotions the way you have articulated, elucidated and revealed yourself -struggling to fight your "own demons" is you have won and beat the real games of life for being so caught up -inclined to admit your concerns with all honesty, and (you) keeping the fight openly commands respect! You're worth to be praised for showing well how to manage & address your own issues openly, is commendable! It's important to say what you think and feel and know that your consciously-aware self is genuinely appreciated for (all the right reasons!) The confidence in you in sharing to us your personal and most intimate sentiments in a form of interactive communication is a privilege! We have actively participated to correspond to you from a distsnce. I'm talking w/you from my right heart & mind, just to let you know that I'm so proud of you for being yourself. It's okay to express feelings and bring justice into the open. Because it is crucial for our social and emotional development let alone, YOU drawing closer to our Creator is a pure sign of spiritual enlightenment maturity. Any real human beings in their right hearts, minds, & balanced-harmonized temperament and disposition (to be sensitive of you) is the best feeling in the world! The real people God has for you, get you & empathize w/your happiness and sorrows . The same as the mood swings we get, (also, as forms of internal pain that is mostly mental-triggered) We all have been given the "built-in" innate traits (our natural abilities) that make certain our struggles can be tameable and easier to calm down and require less effort, if only we walk in integrity living life w/ purpose in ways we know how. Our dear life and future need &depend on us to elevate & be purposefully visionary creatures that operate in our voluntarily-accountability as real humans who will show up for ourselves -(a personal practice that can help us prioritze our needs for peace & healing); is solid greatness. It makes sense to validate our feelings because we feel them. You, feeling that sense of emptiness deep inside, for whatever reasons (may have affected you to cause you to shutdown, is a sign that you are just trying to protect your dear life and make free from your deep pain and understanding that you are up to healing your own painful traumas because you are communicating, transparent-based exposition of your truth for who you are in your current circumstance can mean that you intentionally work on your greatness in terms of your internal consciousness to address certain issues underlying your condition that you viably need to be reverted, hopefully, to your most awakened present self that is happy, and fulfilled inside and out! Our inner self (can be either our own alter-ego/self bestfriend or our own demons that we should be fighting in balance and harmony in order to survive and endure). But the best way to deal with our struggles is to work on our (internal issues and resolve them calmly, and patiently) -believing that we can do it, gracefully, by practicing and training our empowerment, walking / our voluntary-accountability to regulate and reflect on God's unconditional love for us that allows us to change and grow into the persons He wants us to be. Because God requires us to exercise proper stewardship of our lives. Good job! God loves you very much! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I really don't know why this particular video has had so many views (relatively speaking) as most of my videos don't get anwhere near as many. Thank you for taking the time to write such a lengthy comment, and it sounds like you have actually watched the video. God has helped me recently, and I do hope you check out my other videos too. God bless.
There are many Christian believers that are alone and lonely at this time. It definitely feels like torture at times. I don’t like or do most social media, but maybe you could start a Lonelyhearts chat for people who find this channel? Cheers to you, my friend. You are alone, but you are not alone. ❤
Same here, I don’t like social media but I am on facebook, although I don’t really upload much on there. We are living in an age where it’s never been easier to contact people yet being lonely is at an all time high. I have to go now as Sylvester is baring his Snaggle tooth and snarling at me right now 😅. Again, I have a community page also if you are interested, hope you find other content here that you like. Have a great new year too.
I can relate to everything you said and I watched to the end. God bless you and I hope to meet you in a dimension of peace coming soon. There is a dimension where loving people live in peace and I believe part of you is simultaneously there now and is so disappointed in this other realm we call 3D Earth 2024. Thanks for sharing; you are less angry than I am. The realms are merging within us, walk into the Light every day until the Eternal Day and we will all recognize each other again. Just my 2 cents, thanks for letting me comment. 🌟
I been alone most of my life. I live where the walls are thin, I hear everyone's words. I drown out the sounds. GET OUT IN NATURE......you will refresh! Get out of the four walls!!!!!! Get a camera. Begin taking pictures. Volunteer at a animal shelter. Animals give unconditional love Write letters to people in Nursing homes who are ALL ALONE!
Some great advice there, thank you, I have a cat who isn't 100% right now. And yes I do like nature a lot, I have even done videos in a nature reserve close to me.
We must ask God to give us the grace to see the bright side of each season in our lives and embrace one by one, because there is something for us to learn in the process. Being more patient, supportive, caring etc, but above all this, being thankful to God for our lives no matter what, because deep down we know He's in control and always will be. I've been lonely for 10 years now since my last relationship and I am 33 now, happy, healed from the trauma and pain of something that wasn't meant to be...this made me actually begin to appreciate loneliness in a way I never thought was even possible...(cuz I used to hate it really bad) In addition, he has blessed me in other areas of my life, I have a good sense of accomplishment regarding my professional career...I'm more aware now to what's going on with people around me so I can pray more and harder for them... So hang in there, God changes lives overnight. Praying for you here 🙏🙌, Btw....thank you for showing to so many that we're on the same boat. God bless (praying for your neighbor as well)
Until God makes it clear to me why human sexuality is so unbalanced, I won’t be uploading one more video. (The link that goes to my video about this topic.) th-cam.com/video/vC_QhLjLmGk/w-d-xo.html I apologize for not commenting earlier about your life experience you shared with me, thank you for sharing what you have been through with me, it means a lot. We can all learn something from everyone in this life, it's easy to get together with the wrong person especially when we are young and relatively naive, life is a tough lesson for everyone. My name is Pass Peter on Facebook if you ever want to add me?
Quite true, quite true, but there's always hope, it certainly isn't easy as it's been tough. Recently however I have had a turn around, thanks for commenting.
Just came across this channel. I feel ya brother. Myself though I prefer being alone. Not many people can handle their own company for extended periods of time and the ones that can are few and far in between. One thing being alone has done for me is gotten me to slow down and just take stuff in. I live in a rural area in Michigan. Beautiful spot. Quiet. You can see all the stars on a clear night because no city lights. One tip I will give to folks struggling with loneliness, don't let society dictate to you that you have to have someone with you to enjoy things. I go to concerts, sporting events, restaurants, movies, etc by myself. I get weird looks at times too. I don't care. I want to sit down in a restaurant and eat, I do it. Go to a baseball game, I go. I think the way I am is because I flat out do not trust people. Not even my own family. I love them, but I do not trust them. My kindness has been mistaken for weakness far too many times. It also comes from me having faith that whatever the hell life is supposed to be for us, can't be what it's all about. I feel like I'm at a way station before the physical body gives out. Try to focus on something tou enjoy doing or try something new. I started building plastic model kits again. I'm just as terrible at it as when I was a kid, but I'm getting better. Brother you got this. I know it can be hard, but we keep pushing through. Life is too short to not have meaningful relationships, but it's also too short to be in bad relationships and it's definitely too short to worry what other people think about you. Think being the key word. Chin up brother.
Thank you for your lengthy comment, I enjoyed reading it, I too like my own company but it's been this way all my life, so it wears thin. Keeping the mind occupied is great advice.
I do like my own company, but having practically no friends from 17 and only one 6 month relationship really takes it out of you. It's not just the loneliness it's boring too. I hope life gets better for you too.
There's lovely prayers on Awakening you youtube. Keep telling the universe you enjoy people in your life and it will bless you. I just discovered Italian poetry helped relax me when I get stressed.
A part of my depression that I don’t talk about much, is caused by how unbalanced the human sexual experience is. Everything I said on the video at the top of my community page is true. Sorry I blurted this out just now but it’s on my mind this morning so. It’s because of how unbalanced human relationships are, that got me to reconsider evolution. As I just can’t reconciliate a God who has created human sexuality as one sided as it is. I have written poetry myself btw.
@heatherthornhill2964 New love? I only had the one relationship at 34 that lasted for 6 months, we got on very well, but because I couldn’t move in with her she ended it. I was happy seeing her part time though. It makes me wonder if it's even worth me trying to find someone? Aside from this, because I don't want children, that lessens my chances of ever finding anyone, aside from the fact that I don't mix and have no friends. *I am half Italian btw.*
@@heatherthornhill2964 th-cam.com/video/vC_QhLjLmGk/w-d-xo.html This is what I was referring to, about how unbalanced the human sexual experience is. Men mostly have a very limited experience compared to women.
Like my dad always said, everything we see and hear has an affect on us. I hope you have a great new year, blessings to you and everyone you care about throughout their lives.
Hello, whoever you are I appreciate your comment, and I hope you have a great new year. I am also dealing with the loss of my Aunty right now, so I am not in a good frame of mind. If you ever need a friend or someone to chat to I am here, my name is Peter Passarelli on Facebook (well, Pass Peter on FB) just in case… I also hope you find other content here that you like, I have a community page too 👍.
I've been praying 🙏for death since I was 15 -- I'm 48 now, and things are NOT better with the grueling passing of time. Can't believe I'm still in this Hell. Wish there were a door that I could escape through. This place is not sane. Insanity has been *normalized* . It's a lot worse than most people can even imagine.
I agree that the world is crazy, a lot makes no sense, and I can certainly relate to everything you have just said. I hope you find other content on my channel that you like, I am on Facebook also, thanks for commenting.
You are right, theres too much loneliness in this world., im praying for you brother and i hope things change for you. Easy to say this, but maybe you should go to a new church and see if there are good Christian people there who would welcome you into the congregation. Do you have family that live near you? Even a short visit may brighten your day. Ive went through a situation similar to yours, a few years back and i was just bored and down , everyday was the same ..After a few months it lifted and got better. Stay in your faith , i have no doubt that Our Lord will place people and events in your path that will brighten your life and give you much Hope ,cheer, and many friendships.✝️
It strikes me you have several things going for you..your physically fit your caring i get the impression you have a good sense of humour..buy a bycicle or even better a motorcycle and get out there and show how worthy you are.all the best.
Hey, thanks, it's funny you should say that because I was thinking of getting a bicycle. Exercise helps a lot it's a natural mood lifter, I hope you have a great new year, if I had no sense of humour I wouldn't be here right now, good observation.
❤ My friend and brother, loneliness that increases or is exemplified or seems expounded is God saying my son I created you in my perfect image and I love you and I want you to take this time to learn to love you and to enjoy and to self discover to challenge all the negative self-talk that we that we have either by environment circumstance whatever you have what I'm experiencing now is a loneliness from years of trauma from several types of abuse but we won't even get into that I'm not saying that you're loneliness isn't feeling like God is pressing you and says it's time learn to Love yourself what is that look like doing one thing to care for yourself even if it's like a facial routine reading one paragraph out of a book some sort of self-care and meditate or you are so kind to do these videos you're getting out of yourself and helping❤ I love you
Wow, I shall have to read your comment again later. I have to go out now but yes, I got the gist of it. Bless you, will be back later. Yes, thank you for your thoughtful comment, in truth I really don’t know if this video serves any ‘good’ purpose, but I suppose I did it because it’s such a big part of my life. Far too many see these types of vids as pity parties, but nothing could be further from the truth. It’s my reality whether people like it or not, anyway I hope you have a great new year. I pray that God helps you with all of your life issues too, Amen.
I'm sorry about the comment I'll try to edit it or just delete it and then really just I wasn't made for voice to text I'm far too passionate especially seeing your video because what you're doing is something that I have great admiration and respect for. First of all it takes a it takes Moxie it takes guts to do what you're doing to share honestly about feeling lonely and you're a man and you did it with such Grace in eloquence that I could watch your video over and keep posting keep updating!!!! Why is it so hard why does it hurt so bad because it's long overdue that you love you fall in love with you God said he fell in love with you making you and it breaks his heart that you haven't even the faintest clue how amazing you are that's what I was trying to say in that run on sentence
Yes, empathy is lacking these days, whatever grace I have, it’s thanks to God. I’m glad you appreciate my honesty too, and I hope you find other content here that you like. I appreciate your support.
def just prayed for u bro god is going to lead your steps and heal u with his love filling the void just hold on all longer .... Jesus struggled to your due diligence is to find peace in the struggle brother trust me you're not alone in this ok I promise . just know god is struggling right with u you're not doing this alone ok trust me I love you big time and I'm here to let u kn ow that things are going to change I promise .....go easy on yourself I feel the same way ..... crackj open the bible that's how god communicates to us .... I LOVE YOU BRO DONT BE SAD
Thank you brother, it means a lot. A lot of the time I feel neither happy nor sad, just taking it one day at a time. My name is Pass Peter on Facebook if you ever want to add me brother?
that's the way to do it bro just know I feel the same way sometimes , u got this u should look up a song called go with it by chrome whenever u feel down , its sure to lift your spirits !! @@thewaywhatistruth5470
My name is Peter Passarelli on social media, including the one you mentioned. Anyway, it’s a nice sentiment so thank you. I have interesting shorts you may like on here too, I’m sure you have watched some already.
That's a truly beautiful sentiment, especially if we can tolerate each others worldviews and beliefs, we all have our differences after all. I hope you check out my playlists, you may find my 'favourite videos off youtube' playlist interesting?
People feel lonely bcs he is not connected to himself, they thought is be like others or other's accepting me It's no need it, you don't need to be happy every single day, what you need is a peace in ur heart
If anything, I am too connected to myself, there's no need for a lot of things in life... Most days I am not happy but I don't expect you to know that, I hope you have a great new year. I don’t care about others accepting me, or being like others, I have always been my own man. What I don’t like is people’s apathy, self righteousness and taking the easy way out (just doing what suits them) while people like me pay the price for it. People can think what they like it doesn’t concern me. Friendship, human communication and yes, romantic relationships also, is what I have been starved of.
I feel ya man. I'm actually in the same exact boat as u. Women suck. They can't handle men's struggles. U can't count on them for nothing. Except if they're yur Mom. I live with my Mom who is 79, and she's all I got. I have absolutely no desire to move out b/c I know how lonely it would be. I have plenty of money, but it's pretty much useless b/c I have nobody to share it with, and I have nothing I want to buy b/c I know buying things doesn't make me happy. I'm scared what I'll have to do in the future b/c I know I'll have to work to get by, and my job brings a lot of stress and worries. It's good to communicate sometimes with my coworkers, but I also feel like they have bad intent for me at times when they're feeling bad. That's the thing, I feel like people just want others to suffer. Yur video has helped me tremendously man. Thank You! for sharing. Yur just being real speaking facts. We are all in a loneliness epidemic, and the people that aren't have issues with the people they live with probably. If yur church would think little of u for sharing yur story, then it's better to not go there. Yur right. But man, I need to pray more, but will definitely think about what u said. Take care.
Thanks for sharing all of that, yes my mum is 75 now and I spend a lot of time helping her out etc... You're correct a lot of women don't have any real empathy for others situations, (this applies to men too but still.) It's gotten to the point where I have come to believe that women (overall but not always) have it better than men in life. Hearing about your life experience has helped me so thanks again. I stopped going to my church a few weeks back, just too depressed to go, it's a good salvation army one but I just feel so out of it there. There are no real loners like myself attending and it's not as easy as you might think making real friendships there. Been saying this for years and it's true, that there's a lot of people in the 20's to 30's age group simply not attending. You mainly get middle class families and kids, teens etc... Then a smattering of those in their 20's and 30's but not that many, (in some none in that age group) then it's mainly those who're 45 or over attending. Been feeling this ever since my early 20's.
I would recommend you read the book called "Imagine Heaven" if you want to know what is beyond this earthly life. Near death experiences recorded for our benefit. GOD bless you and protect you and keep you safe in this world. I think friends are over-rated. GOD never changes, people will change, given enough time. Do not let go of your faith in GOD, that is eternal. Thank you for posting this video, it is a real talk, real talk this world needs more of...God is not just in a church building, GOD is in every human heart that seeks Him. Revelation 21:1-4
Yes, sometimes we need to take a big step back and look at the big picture, people were always unreliable, really what I have experienced of that isn't much compared to others. Friendship is only a good thing if it means something good, otherwise it's a waste of time. May God bless you too.
Maybe it could be you sort of have an emptiness inside which is keeping you bored. Other people will connect with the boredom and also like you know find that boring not want to hang out maybe? Just an idea might help? It seems you don’t have anyone who genuinely needs you? So the solution if you’re willing to try it is to help people who are less fortunate than yourself. Like volunteer some time helping older people tackle technology or some kids with homework or some disabled people with home chores or you know a soup kitchen. You’ll meet some new people they’ll value your help. You might make a friend you might not but it could be an idea to help your situation though I’m from a different country so I’m not sure. Anyway best of luck. God bless.
Yes, but not always how we would imagine or like, a lot depends on what it is we are praying for too. Prayers get answered without us realising it straight away too sometimes.
As a Christian why don't you go to church, works for my Christian mother. It is realistically your only chance, tell your pastor or whoever to meet you up with someone. As atheist with long life experience, I embraced being alone is core of my personality - there is a reason why I only managed to make 1 real life person long term friend in 10 years of trying since 18 Once that one good friend is gone, I won't bother looking for more people. One must learn some things happen for a reason and trying different outcome might be futile.
Some interesting advice there, thank you. But, churches especially in the uk aren't great for that, years of experience talking but yes, some do get lucky.
@@thewaywhatistruth5470 Yes, I don't know your sect I have family from both branches, so saw both sides. Roman Catholic Churches people will be more reserved, want to come in and go home. In Protestant groups, I noticed they have their preaching for 1 hr, then they end up talking to each other and drink tea and coffee for bit. But it's something to think about
I rescued a senior dog out of the shelter. She gets me out walking and observing nature and other humans. Everytime I try to be social, it backfires on me. All humans are insane. Yes, I wrote ALL.
You know what is really insane? Human sexuality, as it’s all one sided and God has made it this way, or so I used to believe, but I am considering evolution now. It’s a part of my depression, thinking about why God sees the human sexual experience as fair, balanced and equal when it’s not. It matters not that the vast majority of people don’t agree with me, because the facts speak for themselves. My video at the top of my community page explains how things are.
@@thewaywhatistruth5470 I absolutely agree. I'll go check out that video. I tell people "I'm on the monk path." It works because people don't know how to respond to that so they remain quiet and leave me alone. And oh, I'm a female so saying "I'm on the monk path" really confuses people. 🤣
society changed for the worse after the 60's , once it was family minded with community spirit. now with rampant sin marriages are just a peice of paper and not a genuine commitment. this evil world is passing away look to the future eternal life in a world like no other.
Bless you for commenting, I wasn't expecting this video to be as popular as it's become... Real relationships are about give and take, and they do take a certain amount of effort, and Amen. *And yes, we all need to humble ourselves and get back down to basics, bless you.*
God bless you Brother. Please start reading or hearing Hanuman Chalisa by Gulshan kumar. Lord hanuman will protect you. Chant Ram Ram jai shree Ram.🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹
I used to use tarot cards myself, and I know they work, but not anymore. I realized that what I was doing was wrong, I hope and pray you are well. Have a great new year.
There's a lot of truth to what you just said, especially the friends part, good ones are hard to come by. People are good at judging others, and doing what suits them, but not so good at having empathy, compassion and seeing the big picture.
@ yup people r just for there own interests friends n romantic partners is hard to find true love if ur mom loves u ur lucky tats about it d only person tat truly should matter
May I ask do you drink much coffee you look weird for 3am . The world is tough and lonely place a lot a people are not nice keep going my friend try gaming online you are bound to find someone on a game you like 👍
It wasn't because of coffee, it's called years of built up misery caused by people not caring. At the least, not caring enough to get in contact at any rate. I hope you have a great new year. And no, in case you was wondering, I don't do drugs or drink I never have, many would have done in my situation however.
Your ex doesn't owe you friendship. How would she explain you being there to her new person? Would you tolerate this in someone? Just because people are Christian doesn't mean they are less of a believer because they don't partake in a friendship with you. Nobody owes anyone anything in life, we are responsible for ourselves. You're luckier than most, you have parents. I couldn't listen to your entire video as most of the time you seem to project your rejection onto others. Perhaps look deep within and examine your feelings of inferiority and low self esteem. Hanging onto exs is a prime example of this. You are experiencing the lesson of non attachment which if not handled correctly will lead to the path of self destruction and outward projection. Have a look at videos of low self esteem, projection and try and work on yourself instead of wanting others to rescue you from your loneliness. I have no family no friends no next of kin for many decades. Nobody other than the bill company writes or texts me. You aren't alone in this journey. There's many individuals around the world completely alone. Nobody owes us anything, we owe ourselves self reflection however on how to move beyond our limited self beliefs. Wish you all the best.
With all due respect, you know absolutely nothing about me. 'Low self esteem?' You're wrong, and I never said anybody owes me a thing, this is just how I feel, what so you think people being selfish, lacking empathy and just doing what suits them is the way forward? I admit that I haven't mixed much in my life, which amplifies how I feel, but trust me, you have no idea about what I have been through. And nothing you have said is anything I am not completely aware of, aside from me 'projecting' onto others and 'lack of confidence and inferiority', that's nonsense. I know my ex doesn't owe me friendship, I realise that, but, it just so happens that she has more than enough good friends as it is, perhaps that made it easier for her to block me on facebook messenger? I just read something else you wrote, 'hanging onto ex's', after she dumped me by text, (I never tried to get back with her btw) a few months afterwards I sent one message asking if she would like to be friends? That's all, and she chatted with me for a bit, then for some half baked reason blocked me on FB messenger. I was never hanging onto her, but like I said, she doesn't know what loneliness is, which caused the lack of empathy. In case you didn't know, she was the first girlfriend I ever had, but I'm quite independent and used to living on my own, so the idea of living with someone else was a bit off putting. I was happy seeing her part time, when I eventually discovered when she dumped me by text, that she wasn't happy because she couldn't imagine me ever moving out this house. th-cam.com/users/shortsU-a-haB4cXc?si=chcH0qNDZ0-bfX9i All the pen friends I ever had stopped writing too, it's been never ending, you soon learn what human nature is really like as you get older, but I forgive all of them, I wouldn't do any of this to them, but there you go. Perhaps if you watched some of my other videos, you would learn more about me, but I have decided to take a long break from my channel. I truly, truly hope you realize that you assumed far too much about me based on a few mins of a video.
I can empathise with you. At the moment I am still dealing with depression from losing my sweet Mamma- she died 3 years ago and I still miss her every single day. I go to sleep at night crying wishing I could see and talk to her and ask God to take me home to heaven so I can see her again. Also when i was in high school and even in college i was so lonely i thought i would die. I didn't know how to talk to people or make friends I would sit in my dorm room with a knot in my stomach and ache until the other guys came back and I could hear their voices in the hall. I am a slow reader and was a history miner- i didn't have time to go to games and try to hang out and make friends i had to stay in my dorm and read or i would get behind in my reading. In High school i remember being in my back yard and in the distance I would hear other young people playing riding motor bikes and i felt such loneliness i didn't know what to do. I was bullied terribly in high school and was very withdrawn. As I got older I learned how to talk to people and make friends but it took a long time for me to be able to do it As an adult i do feel lonely at times and don't really have a lot of friends but i'm ok with that- I live with my elderly father looking after him so i stay busy with work and taking care of him. I chat online with friends- I used to go to the gym and talk abut now I stay close to home especially after Mom died- I worry about my Dad. I believe Jesus is coming soon and so i do my best to spend time with the Lord- I don't feel the pain as much during those times of prayer and study. I so look forward to the day Jesus comes to take us all home. We will then never be lonely again. Will be praying for you brother. God loves you and so do I- keep your chin up- God know the desires of your heart- He will give you what you need if you only ask Him. Keep the faith!
Thank you for telling so much about your life, we all have a story to tell, I sometimes wonder how much more time I have left with my parents.
I’m not really an introvert but I am not extroverted either, for example, I tend to limit how much I talk on the bus, or talk quietly because it’s more respectful.
I’m a quirky person lol, if I ever do walk out with my phone, I have to stand still to look at my phone because I don’t like walking with my phone out in front of me😅.
I am a misfit but so are a lot of people, I may look ordinary at first glance but appearances are deceptive 😂.
And despite my loneliness I am used to living on my own, so the idea of living with someone is alien to me, which is crazy considering how lonely I am.
I’m like a walking contradiction, I could see someone part time for years and years while most other people would get sick of that after a while.
Anyway, I hope you had a good Christmas, and will have a good new year. I hope you find other content here you like too, may God bless you brother.
*Very sorry about your mother.*
Thanks@@thewaywhatistruth5470 God bless you also.
Same here. My mother died a little over 3 years ago and I'm really messed up over it.
My mother died a year ago. I haven't touched a woman in 5 years.
You aint alone bro but ye you can feel lonely. I have felt that feeling many times, especially when I was younger. It's a nasty heavy feeling like a snake is constricting my chest. @@thewaywhatistruth5470
Hi brother in Christ, Happy New Year. I saw you got 323 subscribers, these are the people who are your fans and followers. Keep doing the things you love brother, please stay encouraged. My prayers with you and all your subs are praying too. I wish you The Best!
Most of my subs are from when I had a gaming channel. Have a great new year, and bless you and everyone you care about throughout their lives.
Praying with you brother - you are NOT alone. Are there any activities you like to do or, better yet, are there any Church related volunteer activities you get involved in? Your awareness that there are other lonely people out there shows you care about your fellow man and maybe you can use that to focus on/help other people. Do that, and I think the friends/friendships will come on their own.
I did fill in a volunteer form at the salvation army church but never heard anything back (early-ish last year.)
I am kept busy being a care giver for my mum too, I have in fact done volunteer work years ago in two special needs schools, a hospital, a library and two different charity shops.
The last place was at Oxfam but I left because I couldn't face going in, I lost my enthusiasm for it.
I have tried to reach out to lonely people on here also, anyway, I hope you had a good Christmas and a good new year.
I hope you find other content on here you like.
Oh yeah, I have gotten into the habit of telling people my name so they can find me on facebook, it's Pass Peter on there, but my full name is Peter Passarelli. Just in case.
Peter, you can turn your life around. My long-term relationship ended at 34,. When I was your age (36), I was alone, chronically ill, few friends, little family, in terrible poverty, bits of temporary work was all I could get.
Now at 50, I own my own home, have a steady job, am fine financially and healthy. I'm hardly a success story, but much better than I was. You can be too, just tackle one issue at a time.
My challenge to you: join a gym and go 4-5 times a week. It's basically the only thing that kept me going during the dark days.
Thank you very much for sharing your life experience, it reminds me a bit of some of what my Dad has been through in his life. Respect. Oh, I exercise at home which isn't being social but at least I stay in shape.
God Bless you have people on your side. God is protecting you until he sends those people who are right for you. Don’t give up! God is using your strength to help others. Praying that God will send you Godly friends. The Lord is near the broken hearted.
I wasn’t expecting this video to get so many views and comments, so thank you.
To be frank, there’s a lot of ignorant and judgmental people out there, it’s nice to know there’s still good people out there.
I hope you find other content you like here, I have a community page too. I haven’t spoken about it much on this channel, but I am going through a crisis of faith right now.
A lot makes no sense to me in this life, I only did one video about that anyway. I hope you have a good new year.
After living a lifetime with narcissists and personality-disordered people, the Lord removed me from them all at age 50. I was devastated for years about it. I had tried to love them to health and the Christian way of life, but it didn’t work. I sacrificed most of my life for others. Since then, I’ve been taught a lot. I’ve learned about myself, and the people I thought were good, but weren’t. I’m a Lone Wolf for years now, and I love it. Most people are evil and shallow, sad to say. Pray for the unbelievers, and for those who’ve been deceived by Satan to value the things of this world more than Jesus Himself. Jesus is about to rapture His bride. Wait patiently for the shofar blast. God bless you, and hang in there! 😊✝️🙏🕊
Thank you very much for sharing some of your life with me, I found it interesting, rescued from all that at age 50. That's quite something, God bless you.
IPls. don't bury yourself too much overthinking! It's amazing how open you are putting yourself in the hotseat that you are the point of focus of a huge audience who are there to support and understand your situation. I know, you'd rather reveal your own conflicts so that you find peace when you rather communicate from your heart w/ others, w/ the same level of struggles as yours. As long as you're accepting to acknowledge your own feelings and what's going on inside your mind, it's okay to feel good or bad about yoursellves and alright to cry when need to. Because it's so powerful to be open to try to engage our hearts and minds and become in touch with our own emotions and be able to self-reflect and regulate the issues properly. At least, you'll be open to unlock your own heart and mind to heal. Just, pls. don't ever put your dear heart in a detached box! Because, we hear you out and compassionate w/ you. We acknowledge you -putting your guards down being vulnerable & transparent to express how you feel, is greatness (as focusing on the things that don't really matter won't leave us much time to think & feel will only restraint-repress to disconnect us from reality. The part of you showing up and holding youself accountable is awesome! Because it's easier to do bad things w/o someone to be accountable to. But practicing the mastery of self-control and discipline, operating in our voluntary accountability is greatness. Pls. know that you can be wary, feel isolated and miserable at times, & it's a very healthy "catharsis" in our emotional, mental & spiritual dev. An essential and relevant way to communicate with our needs, desires, and emotions the way you have articulated, elucidated and revealed yourself -struggling to fight your "own demons" is you have won and beat the real games of life for being so caught up -inclined to admit your concerns with all honesty, and (you) keeping the fight openly commands respect! You're worth to be praised for showing well how to manage & address your own issues openly, is commendable! It's important to say what you think and feel and know that your consciously-aware self is genuinely appreciated for (all the right reasons!) The confidence in you in sharing to us your personal and most intimate sentiments in a form of interactive communication is a privilege! We have actively participated to correspond to you from a distsnce. I'm talking w/you from my right heart & mind, just to let you know that I'm so proud of you for being yourself. It's okay to express feelings and bring justice into the open. Because it is crucial for our social and emotional development let alone, YOU drawing closer to our Creator is a pure sign of spiritual enlightenment maturity. Any real human beings in their right hearts, minds, & balanced-harmonized temperament and disposition (to be sensitive of you) is the best feeling in the world! The real people God has for you, get you & empathize w/your happiness and sorrows . The same as the mood swings we get, (also, as forms of internal pain that is mostly mental-triggered) We all have been given the "built-in" innate traits (our natural abilities) that make certain our struggles can be tameable and easier to calm down and require less effort, if only we walk in integrity living life w/ purpose in ways we know how. Our dear life and future need &depend on us to elevate & be purposefully visionary creatures that operate in our voluntarily-accountability as real humans who will show up for ourselves -(a personal practice that can help us prioritze our needs for peace & healing); is solid greatness. It makes sense to validate our feelings because we feel them. You, feeling that sense of emptiness deep inside, for whatever reasons (may have affected you to cause you to shutdown, is a sign that you are just trying to protect your dear life and make free from your deep pain and understanding that you are up to healing your own painful traumas because you are communicating, transparent-based exposition of your truth for who you are in your current circumstance can mean that you intentionally work on your greatness in terms of your internal consciousness to address certain issues underlying your condition that you viably need to be reverted, hopefully, to your most awakened present self that is happy, and fulfilled inside and out! Our inner self (can be either our own alter-ego/self bestfriend or our own demons that we should be fighting in balance and harmony in order to survive and endure). But the best way to deal with our struggles is to work on our (internal issues and resolve them calmly, and patiently) -believing that we can do it, gracefully, by practicing and training our empowerment, walking / our voluntary-accountability to regulate and reflect on God's unconditional love for us that allows us to change and grow into the persons He wants us to be. Because God requires us to exercise proper stewardship of our lives. Good job! God loves you very much! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I really don't know why this particular video has had so many views (relatively speaking) as most of my videos don't get anwhere near as many. Thank you for taking the time to write such a lengthy comment, and it sounds like you have actually watched the video. God has helped me recently, and I do hope you check out my other videos too. God bless.
There are many Christian believers that are alone and lonely at this time. It definitely feels like torture at times. I don’t like or do most social media, but maybe you could start a Lonelyhearts chat for people who find this channel? Cheers to you, my friend. You are alone, but you are not alone. ❤
Same here, I don’t like social media but I am on facebook, although I don’t really upload much on there.
We are living in an age where it’s never been easier to contact people yet being lonely is at an all time high.
I have to go now as Sylvester is baring his Snaggle tooth and snarling at me right now 😅.
Again, I have a community page also if you are interested, hope you find other content here that you like. Have a great new year too.
I can relate to everything you said and I watched to the end. God bless you and I hope to meet you in a dimension of peace coming soon. There is a dimension where loving people live in peace and I believe part of you is simultaneously there now and is so disappointed in this other realm we call 3D Earth 2024. Thanks for sharing; you are less angry than I am. The realms are merging within us, walk into the Light every day until the Eternal Day and we will all recognize each other again. Just my 2 cents, thanks for letting me comment. 🌟
Billions to pray for . Day too shorts cant pray enough !
Amen to that!
Prayers my friend - new subscriber
Thank you very much, God bless you and everyone you care about.
I been alone most of my life. I live where the walls are thin, I hear everyone's words. I drown out the sounds.
GET OUT IN NATURE......you will refresh! Get out of the four walls!!!!!! Get a camera. Begin taking pictures. Volunteer at a animal shelter. Animals give unconditional love
Write letters to people in Nursing homes who are ALL ALONE!
Some great advice there, thank you, I have a cat who isn't 100% right now. And yes I do like nature a lot, I have even done videos in a nature reserve close to me.
We must ask God to give us the grace to see the bright side of each season in our lives and embrace one by one, because there is something for us to learn in the process. Being more patient, supportive, caring etc, but above all this, being thankful to God for our lives no matter what, because deep down we know He's in control and always will be. I've been lonely for 10 years now since my last relationship and I am 33 now, happy, healed from the trauma and pain of something that wasn't meant to be...this made me actually begin to appreciate loneliness in a way I never thought was even possible...(cuz I used to hate it really bad)
In addition, he has blessed me in other areas of my life, I have a good sense of accomplishment regarding my professional career...I'm more aware now to what's going on with people around me so I can pray more and harder for them...
So hang in there, God changes lives overnight. Praying for you here 🙏🙌, Btw....thank you for showing to so many that we're on the same boat.
God bless (praying for your neighbor as well)
Until God makes it clear to me why human sexuality is so unbalanced, I won’t be uploading one more video.
(The link that goes to my video about this topic.)
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I apologize for not commenting earlier about your life experience you shared with me, thank you for sharing what you have been through with me, it means a lot.
We can all learn something from everyone in this life, it's easy to get together with the wrong person especially when we are young and relatively naive, life is a tough lesson for everyone.
My name is Pass Peter on Facebook if you ever want to add me?
@@thewaywhatistruth5470 Book of Job, chapters 38 through 40. God bless you. Praying that you'll stay in the light, in Jesus's name 🙏
An isolated life for a long period of time can have catastrophic consequences.
Quite true, quite true, but there's always hope, it certainly isn't easy as it's been tough. Recently however I have had a turn around, thanks for commenting.
Just came across this channel. I feel ya brother. Myself though I prefer being alone. Not many people can handle their own company for extended periods of time and the ones that can are few and far in between. One thing being alone has done for me is gotten me to slow down and just take stuff in. I live in a rural area in Michigan. Beautiful spot. Quiet. You can see all the stars on a clear night because no city lights. One tip I will give to folks struggling with loneliness, don't let society dictate to you that you have to have someone with you to enjoy things. I go to concerts, sporting events, restaurants, movies, etc by myself. I get weird looks at times too. I don't care. I want to sit down in a restaurant and eat, I do it. Go to a baseball game, I go. I think the way I am is because I flat out do not trust people. Not even my own family. I love them, but I do not trust them. My kindness has been mistaken for weakness far too many times. It also comes from me having faith that whatever the hell life is supposed to be for us, can't be what it's all about. I feel like I'm at a way station before the physical body gives out. Try to focus on something tou enjoy doing or try something new. I started building plastic model kits again. I'm just as terrible at it as when I was a kid, but I'm getting better. Brother you got this. I know it can be hard, but we keep pushing through. Life is too short to not have meaningful relationships, but it's also too short to be in bad relationships and it's definitely too short to worry what other people think about you. Think being the key word. Chin up brother.
Thank you for your lengthy comment, I enjoyed reading it, I too like my own company but it's been this way all my life, so it wears thin. Keeping the mind occupied is great advice.
I'm watching from New Zealand. Haven't seen another sole for going on 2 months. 👋
I do like my own company, but having practically no friends from 17 and only one 6 month relationship really takes it out of you. It's not just the loneliness it's boring too. I hope life gets better for you too.
@@thewaywhatistruth5470 A Netflix subscription helps a lot during winter! I'm learning all sorts from utubers too. Yeah, Hell is other people! 😉
There's lovely prayers on Awakening you youtube. Keep telling the universe you enjoy people in your life and it will bless you. I just discovered Italian poetry helped relax me when I get stressed.
A part of my depression that I don’t talk about much, is caused by how unbalanced the human sexual experience is.
Everything I said on the video at the top of my community page is true.
Sorry I blurted this out just now but it’s on my mind this morning so.
It’s because of how unbalanced human relationships are, that got me to reconsider evolution.
As I just can’t reconciliate a God who has created human sexuality as one sided as it is.
I have written poetry myself btw.
Poetry is a big help and opens the heart to new love
@heatherthornhill2964 New love?
I only had the one relationship at 34 that lasted for 6 months, we got on very well, but because I couldn’t move in with her she ended it. I was happy seeing her part time though.
It makes me wonder if it's even worth me trying to find someone?
Aside from this, because I don't want children, that lessens my chances of ever finding anyone, aside from the fact that I don't mix and have no friends.
*I am half Italian btw.*
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This is what I was referring to, about how unbalanced the human sexual experience is.
Men mostly have a very limited experience compared to women.
You may want to start watching wholesome things it may put you in a better space.
Like my dad always said, everything we see and hear has an affect on us. I hope you have a great new year, blessings to you and everyone you care about throughout their lives.
💔💔💔💔💔💔 I am sorry you feel that way. I hope and pray things change for u.
Hello, whoever you are I appreciate your comment, and I hope you have a great new year.
I am also dealing with the loss of my Aunty right now, so I am not in a good frame of mind.
If you ever need a friend or someone to chat to I am here, my name is Peter Passarelli on Facebook (well, Pass Peter on FB) just in case…
I also hope you find other content here that you like, I have a community page too 👍.
I've been praying 🙏for death since I was 15 -- I'm 48 now, and things are NOT better with the grueling passing of time. Can't believe I'm still in this Hell. Wish there were a door that I
could escape through. This place is not sane. Insanity has been *normalized* . It's a lot worse than most people can even imagine.
I agree that the world is crazy, a lot makes no sense, and I can certainly relate to everything you have just said. I hope you find other content on my channel that you like, I am on Facebook also, thanks for commenting.
You are right, theres too much loneliness in this world., im praying for you brother and i hope things change for you.
Easy to say this, but maybe you should go to a new church and see if there are good Christian people there who would welcome you into the congregation. Do you have family that live near you? Even a short visit may brighten your day.
Ive went through a situation similar to yours, a few years back and i was just bored and down , everyday was the same ..After a few months it lifted and got better.
Stay in your faith , i have no doubt that Our Lord will place people and events in your path that will brighten your life and give you much Hope ,cheer, and many friendships.✝️
Hey brother, thanks for commenting, check out my community page as I have interesting stuff on there. And my playlists too, God bless you.
@thewaywhatistruth5470 I sure will and may God Bless You as well
It strikes me you have several things going for you..your physically fit your caring i get the impression you have a good sense of humour..buy a bycicle or even better a motorcycle and get out there and show how worthy you are.all the best.
Hey, thanks, it's funny you should say that because I was thinking of getting a bicycle.
Exercise helps a lot it's a natural mood lifter, I hope you have a great new year, if I had no sense of humour I wouldn't be here right now, good observation.
❤ My friend and brother, loneliness that increases or is exemplified or seems expounded is God saying my son I created you in my perfect image and I love you and I want you to take this time to learn to love you and to enjoy and to self discover to challenge all the negative self-talk that we that we have either by environment circumstance whatever you have what I'm experiencing now is a loneliness from years of trauma from several types of abuse but we won't even get into that I'm not saying that you're loneliness isn't feeling like God is pressing you and says it's time learn to Love yourself what is that look like doing one thing to care for yourself even if it's like a facial routine reading one paragraph out of a book some sort of self-care and meditate or you are so kind to do these videos you're getting out of yourself and helping❤ I love you
Wow, I shall have to read your comment again later.
I have to go out now but yes, I got the gist of it. Bless you, will be back later.
Yes, thank you for your thoughtful comment, in truth I really don’t know if this video serves any ‘good’ purpose, but I suppose I did it because it’s such a big part of my life.
Far too many see these types of vids as pity parties, but nothing could be further from the truth.
It’s my reality whether people like it or not, anyway I hope you have a great new year. I pray that God helps you with all of your life issues too, Amen.
❤hugs lovely 🌹 I was never meant to use voice to text!!! Far to passionate and moved by your video!!
I'm sorry about the comment I'll try to edit it or just delete it and then really just I wasn't made for voice to text I'm far too passionate especially seeing your video because what you're doing is something that I have great admiration and respect for.
First of all it takes a it takes Moxie it takes guts to do what you're doing to share honestly about feeling lonely and you're a man and you did it with such Grace in eloquence that I could watch your video over and keep posting keep updating!!!!
Why is it so hard why does it hurt so bad because it's long overdue that you love you fall in love with you God said he fell in love with you making you and it breaks his heart that you haven't even the faintest clue how amazing you are that's what I was trying to say in that run on sentence
Yes, empathy is lacking these days, whatever grace I have, it’s thanks to God. I’m glad you appreciate my honesty too, and I hope you find other content here that you like. I appreciate your support.
def just prayed for u bro god is going to lead your steps and heal u with his love filling the void just hold on all longer .... Jesus struggled to your due diligence is to find peace in the struggle brother trust me you're not alone in this ok I promise . just know god is struggling right with u you're not doing this alone ok trust me I love you big time and I'm here to let u kn ow that things are going to change I promise .....go easy on yourself I feel the same way ..... crackj open the bible that's how god communicates to us .... I LOVE YOU BRO DONT BE SAD
Thank you brother, it means a lot. A lot of the time I feel neither happy nor sad, just taking it one day at a time.
My name is Pass Peter on Facebook if you ever want to add me brother?
that's the way to do it bro just know I feel the same way sometimes , u got this u should look up a song called go with it by chrome whenever u feel down , its sure to lift your spirits !! @@thewaywhatistruth5470
I hope your day got better. I do suffer with lonliness myself , i will try to help you.
My name is Peter Passarelli on social media, including the one you mentioned. Anyway, it’s a nice sentiment so thank you. I have interesting shorts you may like on here too, I’m sure you have watched some already.
I think if more people knew how lonely some feel they would go more out of their way to befriend others
That's a truly beautiful sentiment, especially if we can tolerate each others worldviews and beliefs, we all have our differences after all. I hope you check out my playlists, you may find my 'favourite videos off youtube' playlist interesting?
People feel lonely bcs he is not connected to himself, they thought is be like others or other's accepting me
It's no need it, you don't need to be happy every single day, what you need is a peace in ur heart
If anything, I am too connected to myself, there's no need for a lot of things in life... Most days I am not happy but I don't expect you to know that, I hope you have a great new year.
I don’t care about others accepting me, or being like others, I have always been my own man. What I don’t like is people’s apathy, self righteousness and taking the easy way out (just doing what suits them) while people like me pay the price for it. People can think what they like it doesn’t concern me.
Friendship, human communication and yes, romantic relationships also, is what I have been starved of.
I feel ya man. I'm actually in the same exact boat as u. Women suck. They can't handle men's struggles. U can't count on them for nothing. Except if they're yur Mom. I live with my Mom who is 79, and she's all I got. I have absolutely no desire to move out b/c I know how lonely it would be. I have plenty of money, but it's pretty much useless b/c I have nobody to share it with, and I have nothing I want to buy b/c I know buying things doesn't make me happy. I'm scared what I'll have to do in the future b/c I know I'll have to work to get by, and my job brings a lot of stress and worries. It's good to communicate sometimes with my coworkers, but I also feel like they have bad intent for me at times when they're feeling bad. That's the thing, I feel like people just want others to suffer. Yur video has helped me tremendously man. Thank You! for sharing. Yur just being real speaking facts. We are all in a loneliness epidemic, and the people that aren't have issues with the people they live with probably. If yur church would think little of u for sharing yur story, then it's better to not go there. Yur right. But man, I need to pray more, but will definitely think about what u said. Take care.
Thanks for sharing all of that, yes my mum is 75 now and I spend a lot of time helping her out etc... You're correct a lot of women don't have any real empathy for others situations, (this applies to men too but still.) It's gotten to the point where I have come to believe that women (overall but not always) have it better than men in life. Hearing about your life experience has helped me so thanks again.
I stopped going to my church a few weeks back, just too depressed to go, it's a good salvation army one but I just feel so out of it there. There are no real loners like myself attending and it's not as easy as you might think making real friendships there. Been saying this for years and it's true, that there's a lot of people in the 20's to 30's age group simply not attending. You mainly get middle class families and kids, teens etc... Then a smattering of those in their 20's and 30's but not that many, (in some none in that age group) then it's mainly those who're 45 or over attending. Been feeling this ever since my early 20's.
I would recommend you read the book called "Imagine Heaven" if you want to know what is beyond this earthly life. Near death experiences recorded for our benefit. GOD bless you and protect you and keep you safe in this world. I think friends are over-rated. GOD never changes, people will change, given enough time. Do not let go of your faith in GOD, that is eternal. Thank you for posting this video, it is a real talk, real talk this world needs more of...God is not just in a church building, GOD is in every human heart that seeks Him. Revelation 21:1-4
Yes, sometimes we need to take a big step back and look at the big picture, people were always unreliable, really what I have experienced of that isn't much compared to others. Friendship is only a good thing if it means something good, otherwise it's a waste of time. May God bless you too.
Maybe it could be you sort of have an emptiness inside which is keeping you bored. Other people will connect with the boredom and also like you know find that boring not want to hang out maybe? Just an idea might help? It seems you don’t have anyone who genuinely needs you? So the solution if you’re willing to try it is to help people who are less fortunate than yourself. Like volunteer some time helping older people tackle technology or some kids with homework or some disabled people with home chores or you know a soup kitchen. You’ll meet some new people they’ll value your help. You might make a friend you might not but it could be an idea to help your situation though I’m from a different country so I’m not sure. Anyway best of luck. God bless.
Does prayer really work?
Yes, but not always how we would imagine or like, a lot depends on what it is we are praying for too. Prayers get answered without us realising it straight away too sometimes.
Volunteer on some NGO or red cross. Sign to a gym. Chess club, do yoga classes. You'll meet people that way.
As a Christian why don't you go to church, works for my Christian mother. It is realistically your only chance, tell your pastor or whoever to meet you up with someone.
As atheist with long life experience, I embraced being alone is core of my personality - there is a reason why I only managed to make 1 real life person long term friend in 10 years of trying since 18
Once that one good friend is gone, I won't bother looking for more people.
One must learn some things happen for a reason and trying different outcome might be futile.
Some interesting advice there, thank you. But, churches especially in the uk aren't great for that, years of experience talking but yes, some do get lucky.
@@thewaywhatistruth5470 Yes, I don't know your sect
I have family from both branches, so saw both sides.
Roman Catholic Churches people will be more reserved, want to come in and go home.
In Protestant groups, I noticed they have their preaching for 1 hr, then they end up talking to each other and drink tea and coffee for bit.
But it's something to think about
Please consider getting a pet or two. They provide unconditional love. You seem like you would be so good to them.
I do have a cat, and funnily enough I uploaded a short video with him in it recently....
I rescued a senior dog out of the shelter. She gets me out walking and observing nature and other humans. Everytime I try to be social, it backfires on me. All humans are insane. Yes, I wrote ALL.
You know what is really insane?
Human sexuality, as it’s all one sided and God has made it this way, or so I used to believe, but I am considering evolution now.
It’s a part of my depression, thinking about why God sees the human sexual experience as fair, balanced and equal when it’s not.
It matters not that the vast majority of people don’t agree with me, because the facts speak for themselves.
My video at the top of my community page explains how things are.
@@thewaywhatistruth5470 I absolutely agree. I'll go check out that video.
I tell people "I'm on the monk path." It works because people don't know how to respond to that so they remain quiet and leave me alone. And oh, I'm a female so saying "I'm on the monk path" really confuses people. 🤣
Thank you very much, it’s things like this that make my loneliness a little bit more bearable.
society changed for the worse after the 60's , once it was family minded with community spirit.
now with rampant sin marriages are just a peice of paper and not a genuine commitment.
this evil world is passing away look to the future eternal life in a world like no other.
Bless you for commenting, I wasn't expecting this video to be as popular as it's become... Real relationships are about give and take, and they do take a certain amount of effort, and Amen.
*And yes, we all need to humble ourselves and get back down to basics, bless you.*
God bless you Brother. Please start reading or hearing Hanuman Chalisa by Gulshan kumar. Lord hanuman will protect you. Chant Ram Ram jai shree Ram.🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹
I used to use tarot cards myself, and I know they work, but not anymore. I realized that what I was doing was wrong, I hope and pray you are well. Have a great new year.
@@thewaywhatistruth5470 god bless you
It is not worldwide, it is a Western problem
I can see where you're coming from for sure.
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Life is kinda sad ur born alone n mostly leave this world alone everything in between is kinda n illusion family friends ect.
There's a lot of truth to what you just said, especially the friends part, good ones are hard to come by. People are good at judging others, and doing what suits them, but not so good at having empathy, compassion and seeing the big picture.
@ yup people r just for there own interests friends n romantic partners is hard to find true love if ur mom loves u ur lucky tats about it d only person tat truly should matter
May I ask do you drink much coffee you look weird for 3am . The world is tough and lonely place a lot a people are not nice keep going my friend try gaming online you are bound to find someone on a game you like 👍
It wasn't because of coffee, it's called years of built up misery caused by people not caring. At the least, not caring enough to get in contact at any rate. I hope you have a great new year. And no, in case you was wondering, I don't do drugs or drink I never have, many would have done in my situation however.
Your ex doesn't owe you friendship. How would she explain you being there to her new person? Would you tolerate this in someone? Just because people are Christian doesn't mean they are less of a believer because they don't partake in a friendship with you. Nobody owes anyone anything in life, we are responsible for ourselves. You're luckier than most, you have parents. I couldn't listen to your entire video as most of the time you seem to project your rejection onto others. Perhaps look deep within and examine your feelings of inferiority and low self esteem. Hanging onto exs is a prime example of this. You are experiencing the lesson of non attachment which if not handled correctly will lead to the path of self destruction and outward projection. Have a look at videos of low self esteem, projection and try and work on yourself instead of wanting others to rescue you from your loneliness. I have no family no friends no next of kin for many decades. Nobody other than the bill company writes or texts me. You aren't alone in this journey. There's many individuals around the world completely alone. Nobody owes us anything, we owe ourselves self reflection however on how to move beyond our limited self beliefs. Wish you all the best.
With all due respect, you know absolutely nothing about me.
'Low self esteem?'
You're wrong, and I never said anybody owes me a thing, this is just how I feel, what so you think people being selfish, lacking empathy and just doing what suits them is the way forward?
I admit that I haven't mixed much in my life, which amplifies how I feel, but trust me, you have no idea about what I have been through.
And nothing you have said is anything I am not completely aware of, aside from me 'projecting' onto others and 'lack of confidence and inferiority', that's nonsense.
I know my ex doesn't owe me friendship, I realise that, but, it just so happens that she has more than enough good friends as it is, perhaps that made it easier for her to block me on facebook messenger?
I just read something else you wrote, 'hanging onto ex's', after she dumped me by text, (I never tried to get back with her btw) a few months afterwards I sent one message asking if she would like to be friends?
That's all, and she chatted with me for a bit, then for some half baked reason blocked me on FB messenger.
I was never hanging onto her, but like I said, she doesn't know what loneliness is, which caused the lack of empathy.
In case you didn't know, she was the first girlfriend I ever had, but I'm quite independent and used to living on my own, so the idea of living with someone else was a bit off putting.
I was happy seeing her part time, when I eventually discovered when she dumped me by text, that she wasn't happy because she couldn't imagine me ever moving out this house.
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All the pen friends I ever had stopped writing too, it's been never ending, you soon learn what human nature is really like as you get older, but I forgive all of them, I wouldn't do any of this to them, but there you go.
Perhaps if you watched some of my other videos, you would learn more about me, but I have decided to take a long break from my channel.
I truly, truly hope you realize that you assumed far too much about me based on a few mins of a video.