I gasped when I heard the old intro. It actually brought tears to my eyes 🥹 I am so different now mentally than when I first started watching your videos. Love you babes 💕
Dang she be spitting bars: " I feel not pretty in this moment because these girls told me in the past. And because I was not able to process that, I took that as fact. Now, I am rewriting that narrative, just because they told me that doesn't mean that it's true"
That first quote you mentioned reminds me of something my grandma ALWAYS tells me (as an anxious gyal), which is “Don’t meet your problems halfway”… meaning literally why worry about an issue that hasn’t even presented itself yet. I need to remember that more, might have to steal your alarm/reminder idea lol. But, definitely derivative of your advice here. ALSO, i started therapy with your encouragement!! it’s been amazing for me so far. Thank you for all your support and for making this such a safe environment to share in the first place. love love love you🤎
I started watching you at the ripe age of 12 just cause you were pretty I'm now 17 and I now understand and appreciate your content and you as a person as a whole. You do so much for young girls and women and i appreciate that you understand your influence and do good by it. One of my role models. Your vulnerability is aspirational ❤
I feel like you know me sometimes bc your videos always help me out more than I think they would before watching. It’s like you’re my wiser older sister in TH-cam video form😂
GIRLLLLLL THE INTROOOOOO🥰🥰 my heart literally jumped 😂🫶🏾 I don’t know it’s just how I know big sis taty finna drop a gem &&za you did🥹🤍🌱 needed this ! Love uuu
Thank you so much for this advice! I feel more confident in my ability to forgive myself and others. Your videos have helped me so much along my healing journey. You’re so inspiring, thank you for being vulnerable with us! Much love ❤️
OMG THE OLD INTRO 😭 literally missed hearing that so much!! i love your advice so much taty! you've helped me grow my confidence so much and become so much of a stronger person emotionally! 💞
you're like a big sister to me, you've honestly gotten me through a lot and I'm really grateful keep doing what you're doing it makes a diffrence and even though you dont need me to tell you this, youre so beautiful
Amazing! You have so much insight and wisdom. Some points I absolutely agree or also learned in therapy, and some points were new to me/the way you phrased it helped me understand it differently. Anyway, part 2 please!! Thank you for sharing, I love this!
loved the videooo as i love the rest of them 🥰, could u pls do a video of speaking up for yourself and dealing with confrontation as this is also a part of the self lovee journey that i need to get better at
My goodness the part where she says “parent yourself” . A huge part of my adult hood revolves around when i was 4years old, 13years old, 16years , and 18years old . Most of those versions dominate my current adulthood. I am 28years old now i am trying to figure out how to manoeuvre around my life. I realized i care so much and always want to protect people but NO ONE CARES so much about me and it hurts because i get to question myself , how come? Especially my younger sibling i always wanted us to be close, she doesnt want that and i dont get it, i always wanted her to be my best friend and she doesnt want that. I even relocated to get away from her but i care so much about her, if i dont call her she wont bother , i will tell her how i feel , she will drop the phone cause i talk too much, i would try to look out for her warn her about things oh she will drop the phone. I dont get it shes 27 . We grew up together , i looked out for her , she is going to marry a man who bullied me most of my childhood, when i first told her how im going to work through liking him, she said “get over it he bullied you when you were a baby not now” , my mom used to call me lazy and praise my little sister even if we do the exact same thing , i would still not be told i did good, i struggle with trying to be perfect in all areas off my life cause i can hear her voice saying i am lazy. But all im trying to say is i need to protect and baby the child inside me alot she needs a parent and i am failing her
She’s healing so many people with out even knowing ❤
Thank you so much for bringing the old intro back! I felt like I was back in high school 😂
I love love “don’t let the grief of the future spoil your present” … I’m in my head w/ what ifs that may never happen
I adore being a woman. I feel amazing in my body. being a woman is the most beautiful thing in my opinion. we’re all amazing. ❤
I gasped when I heard the old intro. It actually brought tears to my eyes 🥹 I am so different now mentally than when I first started watching your videos. Love you babes 💕
Dang she be spitting bars: " I feel not pretty in this moment because these girls told me in the past. And because I was not able to process that, I took that as fact. Now, I am rewriting that narrative, just because they told me that doesn't mean that it's true"
That first quote you mentioned reminds me of something my grandma ALWAYS tells me (as an anxious gyal), which is “Don’t meet your problems halfway”… meaning literally why worry about an issue that hasn’t even presented itself yet. I need to remember that more, might have to steal your alarm/reminder idea lol. But, definitely derivative of your advice here.
ALSO, i started therapy with your encouragement!! it’s been amazing for me so far. Thank you for all your support and for making this such a safe environment to share in the first place. love love love you🤎
I started watching you at the ripe age of 12 just cause you were pretty I'm now 17 and I now understand and appreciate your content and you as a person as a whole. You do so much for young girls and women and i appreciate that you understand your influence and do good by it.
One of my role models. Your vulnerability is aspirational ❤
I feel like you know me sometimes bc your videos always help me out more than I think they would before watching. It’s like you’re my wiser older sister in TH-cam video form😂
GIRLLLLLL THE INTROOOOOO🥰🥰 my heart literally jumped 😂🫶🏾 I don’t know it’s just how I know big sis taty finna drop a gem &&za you did🥹🤍🌱 needed this ! Love uuu
I clicked so fasttt !!!
Ive been taty's follower for years and all I have to say is that she is just like a big sis ! And I freaking love herrrr !!!!
the intro is back!!!!!!!!!!! love it
You are that therapist friend for sure 💕Love your videos girl! Much love ,XOXO!
Thank you so much for this advice! I feel more confident in my ability to forgive myself and others. Your videos have helped me so much along my healing journey. You’re so inspiring, thank you for being vulnerable with us! Much love ❤️
OMG THE OLD INTRO 😭 literally missed hearing that so much!! i love your advice so much taty! you've helped me grow my confidence so much and become so much of a stronger person emotionally! 💞
I'm so happy the intro is back
Damn this was deep taty lol I needed this, I was just thinking about therapy but I didn’t know where to start ❤
Love this type of content ❤❤❤
I would like to see a part 2. I agree it's 2024 and I'm no longer being a people pleaser❤
you're like a big sister to me, you've honestly gotten me through a lot and I'm really grateful keep doing what you're doing it makes a diffrence and even though you dont need me to tell you this, youre so beautiful
I've missed the old intro ❤❤❤ please keep it in the new vids 🌺
You look so amazing omg!
Amazing! You have so much insight and wisdom. Some points I absolutely agree or also learned in therapy, and some points were new to me/the way you phrased it helped me understand it differently. Anyway, part 2 please!! Thank you for sharing, I love this!
❤❤❤... This message was very much needed! Loved this!!
you are now Dr. Cokley 🥹
Ahh the introoooo, I missed the intro🥹
OMGG TATYYY I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS I CLICKED THE MOMENT I SAW THIS I LOVEEE YOUUU,
have a good day gorgeusss🫶🏻
Aw hi beautiful! I hope your day is amaaazing ❤
You go sis love you so much u really inspire me
Stay in the present! Thank you Taty! ❤
loved the videooo as i love the rest of them 🥰, could u pls do a video of speaking up for yourself and dealing with confrontation as this is also a part of the self lovee journey that i need to get better at
My goodness the part where she says “parent yourself” . A huge part of my adult hood revolves around when i was 4years old, 13years old, 16years , and 18years old . Most of those versions dominate my current adulthood. I am 28years old now i am trying to figure out how to manoeuvre around my life. I realized i care so much and always want to protect people but NO ONE CARES so much about me and it hurts because i get to question myself , how come? Especially my younger sibling i always wanted us to be close, she doesnt want that and i dont get it, i always wanted her to be my best friend and she doesnt want that. I even relocated to get away from her but i care so much about her, if i dont call her she wont bother , i will tell her how i feel , she will drop the phone cause i talk too much, i would try to look out for her warn her about things oh she will drop the phone. I dont get it shes 27 . We grew up together , i looked out for her , she is going to marry a man who bullied me most of my childhood, when i first told her how im going to work through liking him, she said “get over it he bullied you when you were a baby not now” , my mom used to call me lazy and praise my little sister even if we do the exact same thing , i would still not be told i did good, i struggle with trying to be perfect in all areas off my life cause i can hear her voice saying i am lazy. But all im trying to say is i need to protect and baby the child inside me alot she needs a parent and i am failing her
😭😭😭been waiting for that intro❤️❤️
I love taty 😍
This message was amazingly helpful thank you ❤❤❤😍😍😍
Thank you!
Don’t let tomorrow steal the joy of today ✨
omg, that was amazing!!
Love the old intro, missed it, BADLY❤❤❤
Great video I love you❤️
Needed that ❤
I love you sis keep doing you 💚
we love you!!!!!❤❤❤
part 2 pls❤
would loooovvvee a pt2
didn't want this video to end
Part two please ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
this hit home🤍
Who needs a therapist when we have you❤️
Part 2 please!
Thanks sis ❤
True! ❤
Part 2
Become a parent for yourself ❤
First❤️
Hiii❤
@@TatyCokley love your vids all the way from South Africa. 🌍💓
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honey girls
You explained everything really well thank you ! 🫶🏼
Taty this video was so needed and you made me realize so much I never thought about but it was so beneficial to hear🙏🏾🤍