I just had my second at the end of December. My oldest will be 2 at the end of this month. If it makes you feel better the newborn stage hasn't been too bad! I feel way more chill because I've done it before, and my toddler is more content with independent play right now, he's getting a bit more screen time than usual lol.. but the newborn sleeps so much that I'm able to put him down and really play with #1. You're gonna be great!
I hope my second pregnancy is way different than my first. I was nauseous throughout my whole pregnancy and had to get meds for it but the day I didn’t take it I would throw up almost immediately after eating but overall I loved being pregnant. You’re doing an awesome job and I applaud anyone for having 2 under 2. I’m waiting till my baby turns 3 (next year) for my second.
I have so much respect for what you’re doing and going through. I hope things lighten up for you in second trimester! Mother’s sacrifice so much for their children, I think it’s a very honorable thing. I’m hoping to be pregnant and with a toddler soonish, but I am seriously scared too. Even though it’s been hard for you, I still find it encouraging to know that if it’s hard for me I’m not alone.
Also, my partner currently feels like my caretaker so I relate to the relationship not so much being a relationship at the moment :/ I can’t wait to not be pregnant anymore
I am expecting my second while my first is 16 months. This channel has been so helpful dealing with the mom guilt and fear that can come with a second baby. I have tried to look at it as harder at first but better in the long run.
During my second (and last) pregnancy I was so exhausted in the first trimester. I remember just giving my eldest a show so I could sleep on the couch. It passed, thank god! Congrats on the pregnancy! I loved being pregnant and miss those days!
Here I am 22 weeks and 4 days with my second pregnancy and throwing up 6-7 times a day still😭😭😭if anything, it’s getting worse. I’m not as emotional this time around which is amazing. But I’m taking like 3 hours worth of naps throughout the day. All my trimesters are equally as miserable lol. My first was horrible though, my HG had me puking 30+ times a day
Hi, I just found out about your second pregnancy! Congrats :) I'm also pregnant with my first baby girl (due in July), so I'll be following you along the way.
2nd pregnancy with a 14-month-old, and I am exhausted, only 6 weeks and this 2nd time around is hitting me hard...hopefully it'll get better in the 2nd tirmester
Okay I’m commenting as I watch😂I’m so sorry your vivid dreams take so much out of you! I miss my vivid dreams from my first pregnancy, for some reason it was something for me to look forward to at night. Maybe because It’s because I knew when I woke up I’d be puking
My first pregnancy was different than my second for sure! I do wonder if it's because I was pregnant with my daughter the 1st time and my son the second? I totally get the fatigue! I felt like a zombie.
A carseat tech that I follow has been talking about horizontal parenting, wonder if that is something you could try with Rook so you could get a quick cat nap or just to relax?
Honey, why don’t you consider daycare a fee days a week? It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. I am doing this and I am so grateful to have some time to myself, to work hard and to just be me. It’s great, I have the best of both worlds and my son is enjoying daycare so much, its so cute. No offence, i just think it’s very healthy to have some time to yourself and focusing on the parts of your identity that are not the mom :) xx
No offense at all but I really think maybe you should consider going back to work and putting your kids in daycare you don’t handle being a stay at home mom in a very positive way and you constantly talk about mourning your independence maybe you would be happier at work? Just a thought
She is working. Between this channel and the podcast, she is doing a lot on top of being a mom. The balance of her life is off right now but she acknowledges that things will change, even in this video. Your unsolicited opinion overlooks the facts.
@@734P4R7Y the facts lol so she IS a working mom then, maybe she should consider putting her child in daycare or in the care of family like every other working mom. It was meant as a well intentioned suggestion not an “unsolicited opinion”
I just had my second at the end of December. My oldest will be 2 at the end of this month. If it makes you feel better the newborn stage hasn't been too bad! I feel way more chill because I've done it before, and my toddler is more content with independent play right now, he's getting a bit more screen time than usual lol.. but the newborn sleeps so much that I'm able to put him down and really play with #1. You're gonna be great!
I hope my second pregnancy is way different than my first. I was nauseous throughout my whole pregnancy and had to get meds for it but the day I didn’t take it I would throw up almost immediately after eating but overall I loved being pregnant. You’re doing an awesome job and I applaud anyone for having 2 under 2. I’m waiting till my baby turns 3 (next year) for my second.
I have so much respect for what you’re doing and going through. I hope things lighten up for you in second trimester! Mother’s sacrifice so much for their children, I think it’s a very honorable thing. I’m hoping to be pregnant and with a toddler soonish, but I am seriously scared too. Even though it’s been hard for you, I still find it encouraging to know that if it’s hard for me I’m not alone.
Also, my partner currently feels like my caretaker so I relate to the relationship not so much being a relationship at the moment :/ I can’t wait to not be pregnant anymore
I am expecting my second while my first is 16 months. This channel has been so helpful dealing with the mom guilt and fear that can come with a second baby. I have tried to look at it as harder at first but better in the long run.
During my second (and last) pregnancy I was so exhausted in the first trimester. I remember just giving my eldest a show so I could sleep on the couch. It passed, thank god! Congrats on the pregnancy! I loved being pregnant and miss those days!
Here I am 22 weeks and 4 days with my second pregnancy and throwing up 6-7 times a day still😭😭😭if anything, it’s getting worse. I’m not as emotional this time around which is amazing. But I’m taking like 3 hours worth of naps throughout the day. All my trimesters are equally as miserable lol. My first was horrible though, my HG had me puking 30+ times a day
Hi, I just found out about your second pregnancy! Congrats :) I'm also pregnant with my first baby girl (due in July), so I'll be following you along the way.
2nd pregnancy with a 14-month-old, and I am exhausted, only 6 weeks and this 2nd time around is hitting me hard...hopefully it'll get better in the 2nd tirmester
Okay I’m commenting as I watch😂I’m so sorry your vivid dreams take so much out of you! I miss my vivid dreams from my first pregnancy, for some reason it was something for me to look forward to at night. Maybe because It’s because I knew when I woke up I’d be puking
I looked forward to the vivid dreams too lol! Some were soooo cool ha
@@kaitlinross4348 I’m glad I’m not the only one! I know a lot of people hated them and felt like it took so much energy out of them.
My first pregnancy was different than my second for sure! I do wonder if it's because I was pregnant with my daughter the 1st time and my son the second? I totally get the fatigue! I felt like a zombie.
A carseat tech that I follow has been talking about horizontal parenting, wonder if that is something you could try with Rook so you could get a quick cat nap or just to relax?
Honey, why don’t you consider daycare a fee days a week? It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. I am doing this and I am so grateful to have some time to myself, to work hard and to just be me. It’s great, I have the best of both worlds and my son is enjoying daycare so much, its so cute. No offence, i just think it’s very healthy to have some time to yourself and focusing on the parts of your identity that are not the mom :) xx
My first pregnancy I puked like 3 times a week and I was so nauseous I just laid in bed miserable
Were you vomiting?
No offense at all but I really think maybe you should consider going back to work and putting your kids in daycare you don’t handle being a stay at home mom in a very positive way and you constantly talk about mourning your independence maybe you would be happier at work? Just a thought
She is working. Between this channel and the podcast, she is doing a lot on top of being a mom. The balance of her life is off right now but she acknowledges that things will change, even in this video. Your unsolicited opinion overlooks the facts.
@@734P4R7Y the facts lol so she IS a working mom then, maybe she should consider putting her child in daycare or in the care of family like every other working mom. It was meant as a well intentioned suggestion not an “unsolicited opinion”