Their communication would improve if she didn't want to get her way 100% of the time, not work and expect to get taken care of but complaining about feeling like a child and also not to threaten to divorce him in every argument
I'm a woman and if my husband was always paying the bills and something such as this put us in dire straits... I would immediately try to find a job and keep looking until I do.
Exactly. I worked pregnant... years later... I am still working. IJS. Help your man! Put the child in daycare. I did. I said this respectfully. Take care
To me if the wife was worried about the bills getting paid she would have contributed & tried to find employment a little harder. A marriage is a partnership. Even if he told her she didn’t have to work, you see y’all struggling, Its all hands on deck.
I’m a stay at home mom and if my husband was this stressed I’d be driving him to work putting my baby in the car and DoorDash,UberEats,Instacart if I couldn’t afford childcare.
That’s what I was thinking. Who wants. To be sitting at home all day with her parents while her husband is working all day paycheck to paycheck. I don’t see how some women do it. They literally just sit there and wait for a man to do everything. Girl go get a remote job or something
The wardrobe stylist, make-up artist, and beautician... They are ALL the complete truth! You are so beautiful Judge Star. One love. Respect you so much!
I'm thinking the same thing. There are always options as far as daycare/ babysitting. If she values her marriage and her husband then she needs to get a job. Maybe she can get a job (part time) when he is off. Some money (I'm sure) would reduce the pressure he feels. He seems like a good guy and under different circumstances he qould take complete care of his family, but times are hard, she needs to get a job!
With all due respect, she is the problem. This man stepped up to be a father to her child, works 24/7 as a result of increased expenses and all she can see to do is argue, deny him partnership and throw up a divorce?.... I could only hear that so many times before I sign the decree.
Lady Get a Job!!! 💰 There needs to be income from her too, even if it’s temporary!! Why doesn’t she see this?! She’s the problem!! Why Judge Star did not advise her of that!! I’m irritated 😡
@@dearbrave4183right now she said they live with her parents…4 adults the should figure something out…to help save their marriage… she’s complaining about $$$ find something to do to make some $$$
How can a person desire you when you don’t work and are not contributing and they’re trying to support a family on one income during very trying times??? She’s lucky that he even stepped in after she had that child from the other guy. Ridiculous.
Those house fires are no joke. My family and I went through the same thing this time last year. I was pregnant at the time. Our mortgage tripled. I hope they make it! They seem like a real, genuine couple.
I’m so sorry about what you wrote in your comment. Warrior Eagle🦅 I read your comments very often while watching ‘Divorce court’ and often I share your opinion. So, what happened to you is like it happened to a good neighbor or a friend of mine. I hope everything is better now for you and your loved ones.
@Jo-Ann Bastings Thank you so much. We are back in our home, as the kitchen was the main part that was damaged by the fire. That was remodeled and carpet removed. The firemen caught the fire before it spread to the rest of the house.
I'm sure it's a nice feeling to be a kept woman, but it's nothing like having your own. Especially when it's needed for you to step in financially for your family.
How is the compromise only directed at him? She needs to get a job! If only for a little while and maybe just part time, but she needs to help her husband out! He's stressed out and he needs his team mate to help him!!
@@dearbrave4183 this man stepped in to help her and care for her child, why wouldn't she figure out how to help "them" get over this finacial hurdle? Smh putting a child in childcare or school and getting a part time job to help your man should be a priority!
This man is taking care of a child that isn't even his, stepped up and is taking on the financial and emotional responsibilities so that they can be a family. The least this woman could do at this point is get a flipping job in order to help out with the family finances
Been through a few of these same problems in my marriage. I learned the hard way that constantly fighting, threatening divorce, lack of communication, & differences over finances will break a marriage down VERY quickly. I changed by managing my emotions better, building my husband up as a man, and lessening financial pressure in the household. This couple could benefit from counseling. The wife also needs to attend counseling (alone) and try to contribute to the household finances.🙏🏾
Some women know their family is struggling & they go figure a way to contribute not complain & stress out the primary breadwinner. Though she's right communication is key in any relationship.
I like them. Stay grounded and focus. Both parties...remain focus. (Sis): Find your passion and strive towards it. Something tells me he will support you with it.
I was always taught as a woman, make sure you are independent and work because there’s nothing like having your own money. Even if your married or living with your partner you must have your own money regardless because you never know what tomorrow holds, it’s also important for both parties to contribute
I felt so disgusted with her that she has to gall to have this man working so hard to take care of her and another man’s child and she won’t get up to work. I hate her feeling of entitlement and complaining
This is a no brainer --she needs to get a job of some sort. She didn't need to be told this. The baby isn't even his and he is taking care of everything on his own and she is sitting home being resentful. Be responsible and get a job lady.
Wanda Santillo....she has 2 children she should make sure that she is financially secure....light candles??... didn't they have fire at there last home.
As they walk away she’s still harping. They just finished resolving some stuff and she’s still going on about stuff they resolved. She got a lot of work to do to cut that out.
Cringe when she said she wished she just wanted even $10 in her pocket. No wonder he is like that, help out women! Times have changed, unless he's making 6 figures with only working 40hrs a week, you gotta help out and work.
The husband biggest mistake was telling his wife he would take care of her and the children. The wife expected him to keep his word. She obviously don't know how to be their for her man. He allowed pride to get in his way.
She's so selfish. The route cause of their issues is finances but she hasn't got a job....wonders why he fusses about spending money on dates but they living paycheck to paycheck. He's working all the hours he can but she's not happy because he don't make her feel special. Yet I didn't hear one thing she does for him. You can't make this sh*t up
The love is there ❤ Judge Star came in and gave some stellar advice. She really gave this couple’s relationship the CPR it needed. I wish them the best and I wish for a scarf like that!! OMGGGG!!! 😂
She wants to be WANTED. He wants to be HELPED. Mrs. Buford, try to get a job, part time, remote, whatever. That will ease a lot of the pressure. He'll have help financially and have much more energy and time to dedicate to you.
They are some of the best people this show has to offer but it's crazy how all of the suggestion were for him to change. He is stretched thin and instead of Star saying give he some time, she tells her she should have her way and he needs to comply. Crazy we are talking about 12h shifts and still not having extra money and she wasn't to talk about this before sex. I pretty positive he think about their situation during all 12h and doesn't need or want it when he gets home. Definitely a turnoff. She's an adult not a child, but it doesn't seem like anyones catering to his needs. smh
Did this lady say it's "always money with him..." Ma'am your husband is extremely exhausted... all he can think about is money bc You WONT GET A JOB!!!! Then got the nerve to want romance 🙄
Ppl need to realize that intimacy plays a big roll in a relationship. I get the quickie thing sometimes because that can be exciting as well. But the foreplay is ummmmm it just brings so much more to the making love part. I agree with the wife I want to feel wanted during the love making so I get it. Not just getting straight to it.
The wife is a free loader. This man stepped up to help raise a child. She should be ashamed of herself watching her husband struggle and not making a financial contribution. The husband should cut his losses.
There's no excuse as to why she can't get some kind of job even if it's working as a security guard a certified nursing assistant, telemarketing in the privacy of our own home.
She could work a part time job on evenings to help out. Then they can plan to make more money once everything is taken care of. Or she could sell stuff. I’m not working right either but I pay a few bills and provide food while I watch my daughter.
Embarrassing as a woman. He needs therapy because what whole man is going for this?! This woman 35 and can’t take care of herself and child. It’s a mess.
Everyone keeps saying that she needs a job. She said she is looking. But has not found one. I’m wondering what she does or can do. So many companies are looking for employees.
I’m trying to figure out how she expect to have money, but not work? I’m comfused. I raised 3 kids working. They are not financially set for her to be sitting her azz at home. My 2 cents
I’d have an attitude if I was him too. She should take the baby the daycare and go to work. 2 incomes better than one and then they’d be able to get their own crib
Alot of comments covered the financial and breakdown of communication in their marriage. I want to add that I wish and hope they make it. It was refreshing to feel the love despite the challenges and not hear cheating or suspicions of cheating.
Judge told Hubby EVERYTHING HE NEEDS TO IMPROVE-to cater to HER sexual needs, to make certain SHE feels heard & understood in discussions & TO CONTINUE TO KEEP HIS NOSE TO THE GRINDSTONE, even though he is working 12hr shifts AND providing for ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD & doing EVERYTHING he can to provide for his family. What did Judge tell Wifey...? That she needs to discover how to CONTRIBUTE to household FINANCES...? NO. That SAHMS are VERY DIFFICULT TO MAINTAIN these days...? NO. That she should STOP threatening divorce & show some APPRECIATION for the decent, hardworking man who married her...? NO. That she needs to REQUIRE CHILD SUPPORT from her child's BIOLOGICAL FATHER...? NO. As usual, Wifey's 'Princess' attitude carries the day. No wonder there is a DEFINITE issue of contention between BW & BM...😖
I can’t watch. Get a job lady. You can hire a daycare provider with your income. If you share the cost to be the boss you can start to have meaningful conversations.
Girlllll!!! It’s always the money cause y’all don’t have much to spare!!! Duh! I could say a lot, but it’s already been said in the comments. But I will reiterate this: GET A JOB!!! 😩🤦🏽♀️🙄 Judge Star you should’ve been on her azz more about this!
So where is her baby father ? Should he not be supporting his child? I don’t think the judge even ask her that question! I think she is using the young man ,and has too much expectations, while sitting back and watching him work to a frazzle .in my opinion she feels entitled and that is not love.
So for the ppl who lives in lalaland? Are y’all still gonna say we can love without money? To sum up this case he overworking and is tired and she got too much time in her hand and has extreme expectations not accepting her reality love alone can’t cut it, Very sweet couple I wish them longevity and more income.
he stepped up and helped take care of you and your child with another man but you see he working his butt off and you can’t find a solution to help you and your husband get some money?
He’s very patient-give her a time limit to find a job -if it doesn’t happened unfortunately you have to move on.. I wonder why the judge didn’t stress getting a job?
What they’re not saying is that the parents might need them to be there. HIM to be there. Get your life together, sis. Y’all running that man into the ground.
They should try The Adventure Challenge. It gives couples inexpensive date ideas and they can plan it out. Judge Star gave some great free date ideas as well. I’m rooting for them!
These folk making babies before securing the bag. She already had two. He had children from a previous relationship. Why more? Where was he living for $700 a month?
I know one thing> Judge Star be dressed to Kill!! I love all of her Atire and matching roses each time!! Best dressed Lady Judge yet! (and I love all of Divorce Court Sisters) but this one is always on Point!!🔥🔥🔥
Their going through the ups and downs of the marriage. It sure isn’t the time to throw in the towel. Vows Should Be Taken Seriously… This Man is upset and as he should, she has to snap out of what rut she’s in and go to work…She has a child to look after
If she so worried about money go make some. Situations change in life and she has to change she is sitting around doing nothing he needs to be the one complaining.
This is a good guy!! Don’t take him for granted
1. She needs a job. 2. They need better communication. 3. They love each other and it shows 4. Judge Star was on point in everything she said
Yes she needs a job. It's not fair to pressure him about money but you're not helping him out as a wife.
Their communication would improve if she didn't want to get her way 100% of the time, not work and expect to get taken care of but complaining about feeling like a child and also not to threaten to divorce him in every argument
I'm a woman and if my husband was always paying the bills and something such as this put us in dire straits... I would immediately try to find a job and keep looking until I do.
Exactly! A woman that loves and values their husband would get a job to help reduce the pressure he feels and help change their circumstances.
Right!!! And would do it without being asked! 💯
She better get a job ASAP. Not only is she not working but she is picky about the sex....😮....He may need to move around
Exactly. I worked pregnant... years later... I am still working. IJS. Help your man! Put the child in daycare. I did. I said this respectfully. Take care
💯💯
To me if the wife was worried about the bills getting paid she would have contributed & tried to find employment a little harder. A marriage is a partnership. Even if he told her she didn’t have to work, you see y’all struggling, Its all hands on deck.
Facts!! ❤
Right
I’m a stay at home mom and if my husband was this stressed I’d be driving him to work putting my baby in the car and DoorDash,UberEats,Instacart if I couldn’t afford childcare.
THIS!
Take that 3yr old to preschool and get a job. Help that man out
That’s what I was thinking. Who wants. To be sitting at home all day with her parents while her husband is working all day paycheck to paycheck. I don’t see how some women do it. They literally just sit there and wait for a man to do everything. Girl go get a remote job or something
Hello she sound dumb
My exact first thought. The guy resents you... so he's not going to want to show real affection. She doesn't seem appreciative...
That man is stressed out
Absolutely.
The wardrobe stylist, make-up artist, and beautician... They are ALL the complete truth! You are so beautiful Judge Star. One love. Respect you so much!
She keep saying she wants to talk about their problems. You’re the problem ma’am. You lazy and don’t wanna work he needs help
😂😂😂
But yet he want a traditional wife. That means staying home. 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦
So then he needs to stop talking about wanting a traditional wife the.
A traditional wife that doesn't do shit LOL I'm staying away from Marriage
exactly
She responsible for Nagging him to pay bills but not responsible enough to get a job and help with bills? 😮
She said she doesn’t have anyone to watch their daughter so she can work
I'm thinking the same thing. There are always options as far as daycare/ babysitting. If she values her marriage and her husband then she needs to get a job. Maybe she can get a job (part time) when he is off. Some money (I'm sure) would reduce the pressure he feels. He seems like a good guy and under different circumstances he qould take complete care of his family, but times are hard, she needs to get a job!
Exactly.
That's what I said 🥴 typical female
@@imwhoiam5492 not an excuse. She can work from home like thousands of other moms do.
With all due respect, she is the problem. This man stepped up to be a father to her child, works 24/7 as a result of increased expenses and all she can see to do is argue, deny him partnership and throw up a divorce?.... I could only hear that so many times before I sign the decree.
😅😅😅 Facts💯
Yeah, she is 100% the problem. She found a good man and all their issues come down to the fact that she needs to get a damn job. 🙄
Wait a minute...the child is not his?.....runnnn
Factssssss-
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr no! He met her pregnant and they continue dating and later married…..
She needs to get a job!!!!! If you tell me you want a divorce, I would say thank you. I can struggle
by myself.
Amen😂
Pre=Marital counseling/Date Night are both great ideas Judge Star, I'm rooting for this couple ❤
Once again Judge Star hits it out of the ballpark. This couple is adorable. Praying they will make it. I'm rooting for them.❤
Lady Get a Job!!! 💰 There needs to be income from her too, even if it’s temporary!! Why doesn’t she see this?! She’s the problem!! Why Judge Star did not advise her of that!! I’m irritated 😡
Because judge star is a little bias when it comes to women
I agree! She’s the lazy ass problem
She did advise her that she needs to look harder for a job.
And who Will take Care of house chores and child Care?
@@dearbrave4183right now she said they live with her parents…4 adults the should figure something out…to help save their marriage… she’s complaining about $$$ find something to do to make some $$$
How can a person desire you when you don’t work and are not contributing and they’re trying to support a family on one income during very trying times??? She’s lucky that he even stepped in after she had that child from the other guy. Ridiculous.
She pimping him he taking care of another man child while the man who made the kid is chilling
Those house fires are no joke. My family and I went through the same thing this time last year. I was pregnant at the time. Our mortgage tripled.
I hope they make it! They seem like a real, genuine couple.
I’m so sorry about what you wrote in your comment. Warrior Eagle🦅 I read your comments very often while watching ‘Divorce court’ and often I share your opinion. So, what happened to you is like it happened to a good neighbor or a friend of mine. I hope everything is better now for you and your loved ones.
@Jo-Ann Bastings Thank you so much. We are back in our home, as the kitchen was the main part that was damaged by the fire. That was remodeled and carpet removed. The firemen caught the fire before it spread to the rest of the house.
@@sweetsweet81 all right👏🎊🎉🥂👍Have a good weekend to you and your family!
@Jo-Ann Bastings may those blessings return to you and your family!
I had an apartment fire, my insurance paid for my family to live elsewhere while my landlord rebuilt.
She may need to get at least a part time job or go to school while he is at work. She needs something for herself
No, she don't need school, she needs a job, so she can help and have money for herself and some of the things that she wants.
Going to school would just create more expenses on him and they would have less time for each other this woman needs a job
She wants everything her way.
I'm sure it's a nice feeling to be a kept woman, but it's nothing like having your own. Especially when it's needed for you to step in financially for your family.
Here here
My mother would always say no one's money spends like your own
@@kimwilliams1402 Yeap
Respect comes before love. I’d rather have respect over love than we can build a relationship together.
I wish the judge told her that she needs to work. That man needs help! What is she thinking!
Right!!
I wish she tell her to get a J.O.B.
She did tell her In the beginning
How is the compromise only directed at him? She needs to get a job! If only for a little while and maybe just part time, but she needs to help her husband out! He's stressed out and he needs his team mate to help him!!
Is the husband helping out with house chores and child Care? If so, then it makes sense for her to get a job. Otherwise she'll be overwhelmed
@@dearbrave4183 this man stepped in to help her and care for her child, why wouldn't she figure out how to help "them" get over this finacial hurdle? Smh putting a child in childcare or school and getting a part time job to help your man should be a priority!
This man is taking care of a child that isn't even his, stepped up and is taking on the financial and emotional responsibilities so that they can be a family. The least this woman could do at this point is get a flipping job in order to help out with the family finances
Been through a few of these same problems in my marriage. I learned the hard way that constantly fighting, threatening divorce, lack of communication, & differences over finances will break a marriage down VERY quickly. I changed by managing my emotions better, building my husband up as a man, and lessening financial pressure in the household. This couple could benefit from counseling. The wife also needs to attend counseling (alone) and try to contribute to the household finances.🙏🏾
Some women know their family is struggling & they go figure a way to contribute not complain & stress out the primary breadwinner. Though she's right communication is key in any relationship.
Yup
I like them. Stay grounded and focus. Both parties...remain focus.
(Sis): Find your passion and strive towards it. Something tells me he will support you with it.
She is irritating my spirit! You love that man unconditionally so do something to help the family financially!!
U not by your self.... beyond lazy... As my grandmother say just trifling.... Period
I can't just sit around and not have any money. I have to work.
Amen❤
I was always taught as a woman, make sure you are independent and work because there’s nothing like having your own money. Even if your married or living with your partner you must have your own money regardless because you never know what tomorrow holds, it’s also important for both parties to contribute
Mr and Mrs Buford try to hold on pray and talk things out, you two love each other.
This is actually hopeful, thank goodness
She wants to be a housewife long term however she should have her own sources of income so she will have extra money to get through difficult times.
When judge Star hit that gavel; she dropped the the mic bam 💥
I felt so disgusted with her that she has to gall to have this man working so hard to take care of her and another man’s child and she won’t get up to work. I hate her feeling of entitlement and complaining
I love how down to earth she is and the advice that she gave this couple! All practical and simplified ways to communicate and love!
This is a no brainer --she needs to get a job of some sort. She didn't need to be told this. The baby isn't even his and he is taking care of everything on his own and she is sitting home being resentful. Be responsible and get a job lady.
Wanda Santillo....she has 2 children she should make sure that she is financially secure....light candles??... didn't they have fire at there last home.
The love they have for each other is beautiful ❤
As they walk away she’s still harping. They just finished resolving some stuff and she’s still going on about stuff they resolved. She got a lot of work to do to cut that out.
Gail Smith....that is why the other man left her....this poor guy, I feel for him....I wonder what judge Toler would have told them.
Cringe when she said she wished she just wanted even $10 in her pocket. No wonder he is like that, help out women! Times have changed, unless he's making 6 figures with only working 40hrs a week, you gotta help out and work.
SHE SHOULD BE GETTING CHILD SUPPORT, FROM THAT CHILD'S BIOLOGICAL DAD ❤💯
I'm guessing she does, and that's probably why she feels she doesn't need to work
They don’t bother the baby daddy only the bus band gets nagged I would have never married a woman with a baby he deserve what he getting
The husband biggest mistake was telling his wife he would take care of her and the children. The wife expected him to keep his word. She obviously don't know how to be their for her man. He allowed pride to get in his way.
She's so selfish. The route cause of their issues is finances but she hasn't got a job....wonders why he fusses about spending money on dates but they living paycheck to paycheck. He's working all the hours he can but she's not happy because he don't make her feel special. Yet I didn't hear one thing she does for him. You can't make this sh*t up
Nice case! They just needed some guidance. Best of luck to them!
The love is there ❤ Judge Star came in and gave some stellar advice. She really gave this couple’s relationship the CPR it needed. I wish them the best and I wish for a scarf like that!! OMGGGG!!! 😂
It's women out here that would love and appreciate a man like that. Please get a job to help your man so you all can build a great life TOGETHER ❤️
She don't realize the sooner she works, the faster they would get out of this situation and she wouldn't have to work again?
It is SUPER clear that they love each other! This episode was refreshing! 🥰
I can’t watch this, sista girl need a job!
She wants to be WANTED. He wants to be HELPED. Mrs. Buford, try to get a job, part time, remote, whatever. That will ease a lot of the pressure. He'll have help financially and have much more energy and time to dedicate to you.
I’m sorry but if I see my spouse stressed to the max I’m going to help an any way possible!
Thank you
I'm a firm believer in working to help with finances. I was taught not to depend on any one
So shocked that the judge didn't suggest that she gets a job.😮
They are some of the best people this show has to offer but it's crazy how all of the suggestion were for him to change. He is stretched thin and instead of Star saying give he some time, she tells her she should have her way and he needs to comply. Crazy we are talking about 12h shifts and still not having extra money and she wasn't to talk about this before sex. I pretty positive he think about their situation during all 12h and doesn't need or want it when he gets home. Definitely a turnoff. She's an adult not a child, but it doesn't seem like anyones catering to his needs. smh
This is what happens when you hitch your cart to an ungrateful person. This has too much free time on her hand....get a DAMN job girl!
Did this lady say it's "always money with him..." Ma'am your husband is extremely exhausted... all he can think about is money bc You WONT GET A JOB!!!! Then got the nerve to want romance 🙄
Ppl need to realize that intimacy plays a big roll in a relationship. I get the quickie thing sometimes because that can be exciting as well. But the foreplay is ummmmm it just brings so much more to the making love part. I agree with the wife I want to feel wanted during the love making so I get it. Not just getting straight to it.
Sometimes you just want a good Fk....he is stressed!
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr yes and that’s ok
She needs to get a job period
No if ands or buts.
I don’t understand how she wants to have romance in your parents house. That’s hard that alone put strain on your sex life.
She wants him to buy her things, knowing they're struggling. Come on now. Get yo priorities straight. Get a job and help that man out.
The wife is a free loader. This man stepped up to help raise a child. She should be ashamed of herself watching her husband struggle and not making a financial contribution. The husband should cut his losses.
There's no excuse as to why she can't get some kind of job even if it's working as a security guard a certified nursing assistant, telemarketing in the privacy of our own home.
She could work a part time job on evenings to help out. Then they can plan to make more money once everything is taken care of.
Or she could sell stuff. I’m not working right either but I pay a few bills and provide food while I watch my daughter.
Embarrassing as a woman. He needs therapy because what whole man is going for this?!
This woman 35 and can’t take care of herself and child. It’s a mess.
Everyone keeps saying that she needs a job. She said she is looking. But has not found one. I’m wondering what she does or can do. So many companies are looking for employees.
I’m trying to figure out how she expect to have money, but not work? I’m comfused. I raised 3 kids working. They are not financially set for her to be sitting her azz at home. My 2 cents
She needs a job. How is she wanting a divorce when she is the problem by not helping him out and getting a job?
I’d have an attitude if I was him too. She should take the baby the daycare and go to work. 2 incomes better than one and then they’d be able to get their own crib
Alot of comments covered the financial and breakdown of communication in their marriage. I want to add that I wish and hope they make it. It was refreshing to feel the love despite the challenges and not hear cheating or suspicions of cheating.
Judge told Hubby EVERYTHING HE NEEDS TO IMPROVE-to cater to HER sexual needs, to make certain SHE feels heard & understood in discussions & TO CONTINUE TO KEEP HIS NOSE TO THE GRINDSTONE, even though he is working 12hr shifts AND providing for ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD & doing EVERYTHING he can to provide for his family. What did Judge tell Wifey...? That she needs to discover how to CONTRIBUTE to household FINANCES...? NO. That SAHMS are VERY DIFFICULT TO MAINTAIN these days...? NO. That she should STOP threatening divorce & show some APPRECIATION for the decent, hardworking man who married her...? NO. That she needs to REQUIRE CHILD SUPPORT from her child's BIOLOGICAL FATHER...? NO. As usual, Wifey's 'Princess' attitude carries the day. No wonder there is a DEFINITE issue of contention between BW & BM...😖
I can’t watch. Get a job lady. You can hire a daycare provider with your income. If you share the cost to be the boss you can start to have meaningful conversations.
Her the biggest problem is we don't get any one on one time. Lady he started off saying what the issue is. He strained honey!!!
Love still exists and I’m living for it ❤
She seems like she wants him to do everything. Marriage is about teamwork.
Not her complaining about finances but not trying to help
Girlllll!!! It’s always the money cause y’all don’t have much to spare!!! Duh! I could say a lot, but it’s already been said in the comments. But I will reiterate this: GET A JOB!!! 😩🤦🏽♀️🙄 Judge Star you should’ve been on her azz more about this!
So where is her baby father ? Should he not be supporting his child? I don’t think the judge even ask her that question! I think she is using the young man ,and has too much expectations, while sitting back and watching him work to a frazzle .in my opinion she feels entitled and that is not love.
So for the ppl who lives in lalaland? Are y’all still gonna say we can love without money? To sum up this case he overworking and is tired and she got too much time in her hand and has extreme expectations not accepting her reality love alone can’t cut it, Very sweet couple I wish them longevity and more income.
THAT'S A GOOD MAN!!!!
he stepped up and helped take care of you and your child with another man but you see he working his butt off and you can’t find a solution to help you and your husband get some money?
She needs a job. Mr. Bugord chose wrong.
😂yep😂
He’s very patient-give her a time limit to find a job -if it doesn’t happened unfortunately you have to move on.. I wonder why the judge didn’t stress getting a job?
You can tell that he is drained 😢
idk why Star didn't look her in the eye andtell her to get a job and help out instead of wanting, wanting, wanting... and nagging
There is no way I could depend on another person for money, Lady you need a job
Wouldn’t you having to ask for money feeling like your getting an allowance be incentive to work to have your own
What they’re not saying is that the parents might need them to be there. HIM to be there. Get your life together, sis. Y’all running that man into the ground.
They should try The Adventure Challenge. It gives couples inexpensive date ideas and they can plan it out. Judge Star gave some great free date ideas as well. I’m rooting for them!
Imagine this was in reverse they would call that man sorry and tell her to leave asap
Because a man is supposed to provide and support the family.
Honestly why is she not working? Help your husband!!!😢
So why doesn’t she have a job??? “I’m looking” isn’t good enough.
These folk making babies before securing the bag. She already had two. He had children from a previous relationship. Why more?
Where was he living for $700 a month?
Thank you good work 👏
Since she already has a child, she can be a babysitter.
Love Judge Star's fashion
She need to get a job period. He is overwhelmed.
I know one thing> Judge Star be dressed to Kill!! I love all of her Atire and matching roses each time!! Best dressed Lady Judge yet! (and I love all of Divorce Court Sisters) but this one is always on Point!!🔥🔥🔥
Their going through the ups and downs of the marriage. It sure isn’t the time to throw in the towel. Vows Should Be Taken Seriously… This Man is upset and as he should, she has to snap out of what rut she’s in and go to work…She has a child to look after
She needs a job ASAP- she’s the problem!
They need to read the Five Love Languages.
Very few things are FREE. If you are in the streets, you gonna spend money!
She needs to get a job!
If she so worried about money go make some. Situations change in life and she has to change she is sitting around doing nothing he needs to be the one complaining.
She is stunningly beautiful! She could actually be a model if she put herself out there!
Like how they love each other. Wasnt no set of drama in this case. They gone be fine and u can see the judge love them to. 😊😊😊❤❤❤