I DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE: Betrayal - Check Your Vertical Podcast Interview | The Noble Marriage

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  • Part 1: Navigating Betrayal: A Heart-to-Heart with Scott and Mandy from Check Your Vertical Podcast
    Hey friends, Travis and Adelle here, and we've got a special treat for you in this episode! We had the honor of chatting with the dynamic duo, Scott and Mandy, from the "Check Your Vertical" podcast. Grab your favorite cozy blanket and get ready for a conversation that's as real as it gets.
    So sorry for the audio issues at the beginning and end of the video.
    💔 Journeying Through Betrayal: Real Talk, Real Stories
    Scott and Mandy open up about their own journey through the storm of betrayal. No sugar-coating here - just raw, authentic sharing that will resonate with anyone who's been through tough times in their marriage.
    Part 2: • BROKEN MARRIAGE RESTOR...
    Part 3: • UNEXPECTED DEATH & SUF...
    Tools for Rebuilding: Practical Wisdom for Your Healing Toolkit
    But it's not all about the struggle. We dive deep into the strategies and tools that helped Scott and Mandy rebuild their trust and rediscover love. Consider this your practical guide to turning pain into growth.
    Faith-Fueled Restoration: Finding Light in the Darkest Moments
    In the midst of chaos, find out how faith played a pivotal role in Scott and Mandy's restoration journey. Spoiler alert: It's a powerful testament to the miracles that can happen when you lean on your faith.
    Laughter Therapy: Because Healing Shouldn't Be All Serious
    And of course, we sprinkle in some laughter and lightness because healing doesn't always have to be heavy. Join us for a few chuckles as we navigate the serious and the silly sides of life.
    🔗 Connect with: Check Your Vertical:
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    Your Turn to Share:
    What's your go-to coping mechanism during tough times? Drop your thoughts in the comments - let's turn this into a community of support.
    Hit play, join the journey, and let's learn together how to turn the page on betrayal and start a new chapter of love. #PodcastJourney #BetrayalToHealing #RealTalks
    *****about 8 minutes in Scott had a great monologue
    21 minutes in. the affair
    25 Scott raw monologue of his pain and darkness
    26 Garrett white, wake up warrior
    29 crying in the dialogue
    **Support other couples and their healing through crisis.
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    Through powerful storytelling and inspiring real-life experiences, we uncover the essential tools and mindset required to navigate life's ups and downs in marriage boldly. Discover how embracing personal responsibility can lead to unlocking life's hidden blessings and finding true joy.
    Travis + Adelle are certified professional coaches with years of experience in marriage and family coaching. Their personal journey from Brokenness to Restoration has uniquely equipped them to guide couples through challenges. They offer a heartfelt and authentic approach to help marriages thrive. If you're seeking guidance from professionals who understand the complexities of relationships, Travis + Adelle are here to support you.
    Betrayal by the person you trust most feels like weathering an unrelenting storm in the dead of night-filled with secrets, worry, fear, and insecurity. The loneliness that follows can be overwhelming. We've been there ourselves, and we know it's a tough journey that can feel hopeless at times.
    Their own story of Brokenness to Restoration is a powerful testament to God's work in restoring their marriage after addictions, secrets, and infidelity nearly destroyed it. Through God's leading, they discovered transformational tools that healed their hearts and marriage.
    Please consider subscribing, Like, Share, & put a comment below if you found value in this episode & share with someone you know thats also going through a tough season in marriage.
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  • @simplysouthernlawnmanageme1330
    @simplysouthernlawnmanageme1330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Please pray for my marriage. Been separated for 2 months. Wife went on date last night…says there was no sex involved but it’s hard to believe that I’m devastated. Don’t understand how she can move on so quickly after 8 years together. Pray for restoration for CJ and Joanna.

    • @danielleg1504
      @danielleg1504 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There is still hope! ❤🙏🏼

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for sharing. I pray for healing in your life and your marriage in the name of Jesus.

    • @joegaccetta5799
      @joegaccetta5799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Keep standing and being obedient to God. Read and claim all the scriptures around marriage. What we speaks matters. Keep thanking God for your restoration. That is what I’m doing for my marriage of 26 years.

  • @gijoe616
    @gijoe616 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for this testimony. My wife started pulling away from me 10-11 months ago…no intimacy…always out with friends…defensive when I approached her. Phone always on her…code changed. In May caught her lying to me, hiding her car behind buildings and being picked up by someone and taken to a park when she should have been at work. Turns out…it was my pastor. 6-7 “counseling sessions”…as well as admitting more times “but only in the last 4 weeks.” He was “in a fog” after losing his wife. Promised to not do again…caught em again few months later. Church board…did nothing.

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I can’t even imagine what you are experiencing! I pray for peace over you and that Gods Will is done and that your heart is restored as you are going through this tough season.

    • @Angelface11
      @Angelface11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh man. That is incredibly concerning

  • @Sean-eq5ch
    @Sean-eq5ch 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Do it again Lord! Praying that the testimony of the living God in my Marriage comes soon 🙏🏾

  • @tammychisholm9197
    @tammychisholm9197 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can relate to the highs and lows. Went through that as well. That was so hard, but I know God brought us here for His glory and our good. It has been 2 years divorced, but waiting for His timing to bring us back together with Him in the center. 💜🙏

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow. Thank you for sharing this and your journey after divorce. I pray God rescues your husband’s heart and restores your marriage if it is His will. Please continue following and watching our videos. They will help you heal your heart and have a deeper understanding as to why this happened in your marriage. I’m sharing the link to our current podcast series about our story behind the betrayal and how our past plays a huge part in how the enemy attacks us in marriage. Here is the link to follow along!
      th-cam.com/play/PL_qjPvk2kzzk5I-CjIJZsXi0UJCZHkRcF.html&si=DhrVJ24UzOhnHE-k

  • @TheNobleMarriage
    @TheNobleMarriage  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for watching this captivating episode! How did it touch you as you watched it?

    • @tessamaki7443
      @tessamaki7443 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Seeing Scott's emotion as he recalled the brokenness over his sin and what the Lord did in his heart to bring him to repentance and make his relationship with Jesus his top priority is so encouraging. I've known from early on that the storm we are currently in is first and foremost about both of us being in right relationship with Jesus and becoming who He has created us to be. Thank you for sharing this testimony. It's so beautiful to hear how God began this beautiful work in both Scott and Mandie! I'm excited to hear more of what He's done and is doing in and through each of them and their marriage next week. (I'm going to try to resist finding their testimony elsewhere...that cliffhanger though. 😂) God bless you all as you glorify Him by putting His redemptive power on display!

  • @willconwell
    @willconwell 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you! Keep sharing God's great work!

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you brother for this acknowledgment!! Praise God for you brother! Travis

  • @pamsbones7714
    @pamsbones7714 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Please pray for my prodigal husband named Steve he filed for divorce in April 2023 has a mistress we have .2 kids devastated I’ve surrendered him to the Lord I’ve pleaded begged him to stay he won’t cuz he had another woman who was into witchcraft he definitely has demonic powers on him he walked away from the Lord 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Praying for restoration

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I pray that the chains of darkness fall off in the name of Jesus and that his eyes are opened to The Spirit of Truth. I pray that Gods Will be done.
      Thanks for sharing this. We are praying for your heart and supernatural peace during this.

    • @pamsbones7714
      @pamsbones7714 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @prersgirls
    @prersgirls 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Blooooper had me dying😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sticking around to the end to see the bloopers! 😉😂

  • @asamusicdude
    @asamusicdude 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please keep my isabel in prayer. Im in my 5th year of standing. I believe in what God can do and not in my circumstances. Im not letting go till He blesses Me!!!!!!

  • @Angelface11
    @Angelface11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its moreso because often times spouses can be demonically oppressed etc so they don't remember simply because it wasnt fully them

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That makes a lot of sense. Thanks for sharing that.

  • @lynnhampton6269
    @lynnhampton6269 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t think he’s being clear about what he did. How long was his affair, why does the wife say she bore responsibility for his cheating? Did I misunderstand her?

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing and asking these questions. I imagine you have the same questions for yourself here as well. Mandie shared that she bore the responsibility for his cheating, but not that it is healthy or that she deserved this. She brought that on herself for not knowing how to work through the betrayal in a healthy way. Then Jesus has transformed their marriage and individual hearts along the way. I hope that brings you clarity.

  • @loveiseverything8711
    @loveiseverything8711 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have come to understand that: I would rather follow Jesus than to follow my ex spouse down to hell. Love him, but I wish to remain single with Jesus. The father will be done. I’m glad for reconciliation of spouses.

    • @TheNobleMarriage
      @TheNobleMarriage  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for watching the video and commenting! God bless you.