Sexual Discipline Makes You More Attractive (She Wants This)
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Not only is having sex with a bunch of people normalized, but being a virgin is frowned upon people act like you are the biggest loser ever if you haven't had sex by age 18 even though you shouldn't
Being a virgin means you can't get any pussy, even though you really want it. So you're a loser
And then you go outside and realize that's rarely the case :)
@@EgorSvetso you are saying that being a virgin is a shitty thing? Wtf bro
being virgin above age 18 means in 95% of cases that you are not yet mature/confident enough to build a close connection with a girl .
You gotta look at it this way, when you start telling people outside of your own circle that you are on no fap their gonna look at you weird or funny, so it’s just best to keep quiet, and just know you’re doing what’s best for you.
Exactly
You’re so right about how you look at women eye level once you quit porn.
bro your videos have helped me a lot 🙏🏼 i’m in college right now and ive established a solid workout routine, cut out all instant gratification before my work for the day is completed, and started meditating. the difference is night and day, it’s like i enjoy doing work now.
That’s sick brother!
Yo Matt, i‘m really thankful for your videos! Back in April i had my first girlfriend, your videos help me a lot to realize that i was a kind of this creepy dude back then. After your videos i can recognize my mistakes and learn from them to grow and be a real man one day! Thank you so much🙏🏻
how were you creepy?
7:49 you just earned so much more respect for that 💯
Hey Matt I’ve been loving your videos! I’ve noticed that when I relapse on nofap I feel my tired and weaker at the gym. There’s 100s of benefits for SR and my excited for my future in this journey. Thanks for spreading the good message. 👍
Help me to grow my shoulder big
spam lateral raises
Train them really hard and prioritize them at the beginning of your lift
Lateral raises, rear delt flys, overhead press if you want to get stronger although ohp is not necessary for just growth. If your really focused on shoulder growth, do 4 sets of 12-20 lateral raises 3-4 times a week, the medial head of the delt isn’t a huge muscle so you won’t need to do crazy high weight and get super fatigued, so they should still recover pretty easily from the volume increase.
Go beyond failure with lateral raises. I work them with cables using an attachment for ankle on my wrist. You can see basement bodybuilding on youtube for elaborate guides. Stay strong mate!
Big tip, try shadow boxing with weights
sir you the goat you know that right(he getting way too mad while other guys making mistake as he did ).
good shit lil bro
Man you and hamza really have helped me improve a lot thank you so much 🙏
Hey man great video with good advice, good job
Love this so much! So refreshing to hear a man speak about this topic! Thanks for sharing 💗
Imagine the look on matt's face 😂😂😂
I went 14 month no fap I deleted my instagram I stay in my own frame and I’m happy and healthy. Great message to all the bros.
“Seek nothing outside of yourself”
~ Miyamoto Musashi
Im glad I have controlled my urges, I havnt fapped or watched 🌽 in a year
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thanks matt for all of your vids, you really have this "something" that actually triggers my mind into thinking that what im doing is wrong, even tho its really hard sometimes to get through the urges, i was never as motivated as i am right now, especially after watching your videos, thanks for all that youre doing, keep it up, i know that some day, i will be proud of my self that i've acutally achieved something in my life, thanks again
You kept it 💯 dude!
Keep going brother, love your content ❤
i've been on nofap since this year but can't beat 2 weeks. I mean i can but i feel obsest over girls in a weird way, feel like my shy side as came back on again so i usually relapse few days after that sensation. I kind like nofap for the first 10 days because i stop thiking about it everytime but i feel so much more stimulated when i'm w girls than ever so basically i relapse to stop that feeling and be "normal" again. And in the other way it's the same like if i fap for two weeks straight everyday i feel ashamed, worried about anything at school, cant have a convo without looking ankward,... . I want to have balance in that even tho i know fapping isn't the solution at all. but i mean for me i think it's more porn the problem rather than fapping. Do someone see itself through my story?
sorry for the english i french
First, love your vids❤
i really need to stop too. it feels so useless to fap to something you will never have anyway.
I love YOU Bro🖤💪💪
Absolutely true
Hello Matt, I don't really know you but one of your videos really moved me a couple of days ago. I like your approach to these kind of topics but U know situation is different for everyone. I'm 25, still virgin, never kissed or even been on a date with a girl. Slowly and gradually I gave up and decided to leave society behind. it's funny cause in tennage years I was of the most popular kids in school. This shift made me lonely and now I've got no friends. Although I want to reestablish my connection with society but it just doesn't work. I've tried everything, self-improvement, working-out, having a goal, finding the courage to attend meetings, but it just doesn't work. Like I've been left behind. It hurts when u try and try for several years but u lose each and every time so your only choice becomes to satisfy the need to be loved in your dreams and fantasies.
How would you exactly describe the feeling you can’t get rid of bro? Remind yourself that nothing is impossible, maybe you just haven’t found the right way for yourself or you weren’t consistent enough. I don’t want to do like I know better but giving up is too sad to be an option
Just broke my 9 day nofap just because of the urge to do ! Started doing yoga from yesterday and broke it ! What should i do to stop that continue doing yoga or what ?
This frustrates me very everytime i try to do i either break it on day 2 or day 5 or day 9 atleast near 10 just once did it for 15 day setting as a target to do after 15 and i also did it 15 day no fap on 16 fapped !
Stop doing yoga start meditating.
@@themixeduphacker2619 Just to note i have down yoga only for 2 till date not mote than this maybe make some effect as earlier i was going to gym
Meditating
Cold showers
But the most important part is to get free from instant gratification.
Avoid thinking about it, and when the urge comes do something about it mentally or physically
I’m pretty sure I was that guy at some point also, maybe to not that extent though, I always tell people to stop watching porn, idgaf, if you want to win great, if you don’t and you got them weird vibes, stay the fuck away.
bro got me ready to run through a wall holy fuck who is this guy
Hey Matt loving the content, I’m trying to be more like you. I know you don’t use social media but do you use Snapchat because thats the main app that girls message on and I feel like if I stopped using it i would be missing out
In addition to this, do you watch TH-cam and Netflix and stuff?
Dude no fap is actually BS tho..
I’ve been on no fap for 5 months!!!
& brother NOTHINGS changed!
I’m still in the same boat as I was when I first started.
Im still very nervous talking to girls, I’m still working as a phlebotomist,
& I’m still going to the gym..
I was doing everything I’m doing now.. just no porn, I don’t feel any different nor more energized & I definitely don’t not have this “James Bond” Aura that y’all claim to get after 2 weeks on no fap or this Insane “focus”.
Seriously, I’m genuinely curious what y’all have to say
ur probably just a loser dog
100% brother
Hy .... U say most things like jt...... Do u watch him by any chance?
Hey Matt, I just have 1 question, how do you deal with wet dreams?
Bro need your vids everyday so I can be successful in no fap
He speaking facts after like two months you forget all about porn is sex it’s like you brain goes back to normal
I know someone who is eighteen who has their own car, does college courses, etc. and he says things like “need head from a bbw” and “If your a single mother hit my line”. Also he literally has girls with revealing clothes on his phone background along with following a bunch of big booty bitches and stuff. If he’s eighteen is that okay?
Lol it’s not okay, but 18 years old. Gotta let him be immature and find it out. Lots of my fellow friends around that time were like that. Couple of them however are still that way. So hopefully he can figure his life out
Fuck yeah
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The only problem I have is to watching kissing prank videos and I gonna quit this bad habit too! Since 3 days ago I have watched it only for 1 minute per day
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@7:47 I'm good on that bro I got tiktok twitter reddit discord 😏