1. Be yourself. 2. Humor 3. Smile. 4. Be positive and avoid being negative. 5. Be creative with good metaphors, analogies, or puns. 6. Eye contact. 7. Calm and confidence. 8. Being original. There are too many cliché and copy cat phrases. 9. Story telling. 10. Passion, excitement and sounding convincing. 11. Go with the flow. Know your audience, not everyone is the same. 12. Don't try too hard. You will never please everyone, but always give the best version of you.
1. speak in language that is easy for people to relate and understand. using smilies or metaphors. "i am my companies garbage disposal." 2. keep ppl engaged by asking them questions or getting them involved. or ask them to guess something. 3. be creative. express yourself in unique and powerful ways. 4. Dress and act with integrity 5. Set loft goals and have confidence
Bruno Silvestrin Thank you. These vids are too long to say something so short. May one of your wishes come true soon in return for saving us a headache.
Charismatic is about the way you make a person feel. It has nothing to do with you. Charismatic people may have sex appeal based on their confidence and seductive nature. Other charismatic people ask people the right questions, about the other person. They are fun to be around. They aren't typical. They have a wicked sense of humor. They are authentic. These individuals are rare now. I blame this on the internet for this issue.
@@johnnyboy2065 Yup but I see the lack of personality offline when you meet new people or watch people interact. Before internet, you had less stimulation from technology and you got it from socializing (not social media). It required creativity and caused people to fully develop a personality.
@@maximumweb5655 True ,but it was not just the internet that caused their people skills to be low. We have teens who are taking drugs such as cocaine and meth which cause them to become brain dead. Another reason for their lack of people skills is that most kids are depressed now-a-days because they do not fit in with the other kids so they think that everyone hates them that's why you see some of them making videos cutting themselves ,and its really sad to see my generation behave like this. Then you have the kids that are just natural introverts who just enjoy solitude. For me personally I have no problem interacting with others, I can get along with anyone easily and most of my friends describe me as having a magnetic personality.
There should be a club or group dedicated to help one another with self esteem and confidence. I guess self esteem anonymous. A place to get honest, genuine feedback and have an opinion about something from a person not related to the persons in conflict. Any ideas?
You don't have to BE stress free, just ACT like it. Stress is a good thing, it is an uncomfortability to get us prioritizing. It's how we manage it that's important. Anyway, yes, I like you brought up "stress", so many people can relate to experiencing it and it does affect our personalities!
I've watched a few of these kinds of videos before, and usually you'll find a few channels or two that'll speak the same 10 facts constantly but just kinda repeat themselves on the details. This is the only video that really went in depth on things, as well as not just running around in circles, just relaying the information that's actually helpful. Thank you, I really needed this
In my experience, charisma is not about how good you come across, it's about how good the other person feels THEY come across when they speak with you.
Absolutely agree! Charisma isn’t just a natural trait; it’s something we can cultivate through practice. I used to struggle with engaging conversations until I learned the power of connecting language and creativity. Using metaphors to explain complex ideas makes all the difference. It’s fascinating how promoting engagement and revealing integrity can transform interactions too. I recently joined the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x, and it taught me how humor can enhance trust and connection. Keep working on your charisma-it’s a game changer in all aspects of life!
As a teacher, it is important to connect academic topics with students real life so they can better relate. Also, students should always be asked to think about a subject and come up with their own ideas. The work environment can also be a good place to apply these skills. I'm a bit more skeptical in a purely social situation. School and work seems a natural place, especially if you are a leader or teacher, because you are in a position of authority and giving instructions. Regardless, these can't just be techniques. If it is not congruent with who you are it will seem disingenuous. If you truly believe in these ideas and just don't know how to do it, then this can be very powerful. If it's just a way to manipulate it will never last very long.
You are correct. The video is nonsense. Charisma is not a social skill. Charisma is part of Recognition of Self. Specifically self-confidence. This has been long established in the study of Emotional Intelligence. But you need to take this a step further when you include Charisma in conversation. For effective communication you need to have Recognition of Others (Empathy). With the needed skills as described, you can now express yourself effectively and build your social skills. For the emotionally mature adult, charisma is who you are. It is not an act. Obviously, by improving your conversation skills you can convey your message more effectively. So conversation is a skill that is learned.
I was having trouble managing my team. I was criticized by my manager. So, I went to McDonald's and bought twenty large fries, all of a sudden everyone thought I was brilliant! Which is true!🤣
This is just my experience from your video... at about 4:15, I found myself daydreaming. You lost me as well. My tip to you is to get to the point rather than rambling.
Fellas one of the biggest pieces of advice I can give when it comes to women is stop being bitter. Being mad and mean spirited at women for not being attracted to you is not fair to your or the women. You are not attracted to every woman yourself. There are women you find absolutely hideous so its definitely not fair to be mad at women. And Bitterness just keeps you in a bad mood feeling terrible and you take that negative energy out on women who dont even know you exist. Not trying minimize or invalidate your pain. But there are people with debilitating illnesses that keep them in constant pain(Burn victims, birth defects, massive mutilating injuries,) and they still manage to be decent people. Dont let your pain turn you to the dark side Your life will be full of continued suffering if you let yourself stay in bitterness/the darkside because of your feelings towards Women. Find a way to enjoy Life without them while still respecting them. You dont respect them for them. You respect them for your own good. Because when you disrespect others that karma comes back to hurt you. Im saying this because I want the best for you. I dont want you in pain for years becoming a villain mad at the world. ______________________________________ 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨 If you Like video games, anime, funny videos, pretty women, NFT ART, Drawing Process Videos, Action Movies, heart warming content Depression & Stress Relief check out my TH-cam page. Im the walmart of youtube you will find something you like haha YOU WONT BE DISSAPOINTED‼️ 👉🏾 @UCmUyhxq0Y5QKdYmc2icj0Hw Or If you are interested in NFTS please check out my original art work on opensea click the link below‼️ opensea.io/collection/untitled-collection-160982902 or search Blackatem117 on opensea
Very Charismatic People Have very clear goals about where they are going 1,2,3 years from now and their goals are not small either. They are always excited and very positive about what they are doing because most of the things they do they are getting closer to their goal. They are usually leaders. They have high confidence because they are successful although some people can practically envision themselves being successful before they are successful and they are very confident very early. The energy they give off motivates others. They truly listen because they are in the present moment. They are not in their heads. They have empathy for people because they have been at the level where many of them were at before. They can give confidence in people because they know how to get out of that situation. The person i can think of that pretty much everyone knows is Arnold Schwarzenegger
On the first one, I've got an idea for you [I didn't make this one but trust me on this ;)]. If you're an accountant (HIGHLY unlikely), just say you get paid to do math all day. Now I made this one. If you're a waiter/waitress, say you get paid to watch people eat all day. Trust me, it works. Especially when trying to get someone to like you.
I like the accounting one a lot! When someone asks me what I do, I don't want to bore them about debits and credits, I will use this instead lol. Thanks!
Hello Messrs. 'Top Think', I must admit that I have been immensely favoured to acquaint with your channel. The subject matters, your discuss has always been of great benefit to my personal development needs. Thanks you very much, for initiating this selection of content.
Great aidias, or advices, definitely I going to practice More of this information to become More charismatic, thanks 😊 hopefully many more , practice it because this are very valuable advices to practice, gracias 😍👍👋
This is something I need to get better at, I’m dyslexia and that makes me a bad read, not only that, but it comes with more. It makes me not able to understand too much information at once, I cannot easily map things, example, watch a movie and understand the story. Dyslexia have made me blank, I dont have anything to engage in with my friends when they talk about any topic. You know that movie? i dont, because I didnt pick it up. You know this song, lets sing this lyric? No, I dont, I wasnt able to pick up the lyric, not even on songs that is played million times. When I sing, I try mimic what I hear, but lyric is incorrect, making me a laughibg stock in public.
I know it’s been a while since you commented this, but I hope you feel more confident while talking to your friends now and that you’re also staying safe and well!
My problem with talking to people is that I want to be more open and charismatic, but I find myself being completely bored with what most people are talking about even though I know that most people find that person easy to talk to.
The truth: charisma is ultimately pointless as it merely projects a reflective and strongly biased image of one's true self. Charisma does not make you a better person, however it makes you be perceived as one. In other words: it merely deflects attention from what is really important. In the hands of the wrong person it's a dangerous tool. But that's just my silly talk. :)
Power of now - small ego 420 Amazing thing about zen They're just saying this is crown chakra Everyones ego is now smaller And it's better Not to say all of your egoes have been a huge problem but it actually makes being eco-friendly much easier And it makes u all more attractive as humans It wouldn't show up on the holiday unless it was everyone as a whole It was saying maybe it could be a problem.. now it's saying definitely no It's all of them They've chilled And it looks good
10:00 it’s funny how you mentioned Gandhi next to MLK because as I’m sure you know Gandhi would have hated MLK Gandhi often called Black people racist slurs even though people from India are brown and black themselves including him.
So long as it's not tales about their drunken home life that they are giving a speech about, as does my manager sometimes at the beginnings of their meeting.
Mate, if everyone was themselves, then there'd be no such sociality and interaction, you sometimes have to adjust and express yourselves to please and interest the other side, and same goes for the other side too..
And the biggest use for all these traits is really to make life easier for oneself without forcing anyone but by making them feel so good, they're happy to serve u 😊
If you feel emotionally pressed or driven to secure the recognition or favor of those around you, you might think about investigating your motivations. It just might save you a big-ass boat load of frustration, anxiety, and possibly depression. Secure your-own favor first. Because if you don't, No relationship will ever be worth shit. Just a suggestion.
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Ur welcome
Arnav Mehta legend
Wish I went down here sooner 😭
Thank you
Your charisma has taught you well
3 : 18 dick head
1. Be yourself. 2. Humor 3. Smile. 4. Be positive and avoid being negative. 5. Be creative with good metaphors, analogies, or puns. 6. Eye contact. 7. Calm and confidence. 8. Being original. There are too many cliché and copy cat phrases. 9. Story telling. 10. Passion, excitement and sounding convincing. 11. Go with the flow. Know your audience, not everyone is the same. 12. Don't try too hard. You will never please everyone, but always give the best version of you.
Nice
please somebody pin this
I have it all but i lack the story telling, and it made my gf and i break up :(
Thank you 😊
Also have high eyebrows and expressive eyes
1. speak in language that is easy for people to relate and understand. using smilies or metaphors. "i am my companies garbage disposal."
2. keep ppl engaged by asking them questions or getting them involved. or ask them to guess something.
3. be creative. express yourself in unique and powerful ways.
4. Dress and act with integrity
5. Set loft goals and have confidence
Bruno Silvestrin thanks for the effort ❤️
I literally scrolled down to find a summary !
This just saved me 10mins thanks
Thanks, I was sick of the 3 minute intro of unsurprising studies. "Ooo these people were trained and their results were better!"
Thanks for saving me 11 min
Bruno Silvestrin Thank you. These vids are too long to say something so short. May one of your wishes come true soon in return for saving us a headache.
It's amazing how you can turn your life around by just focusing on the right things
Damn right
You’re so right
That’s right. I’m so going to quote tweet you Aakash ✅
@@nascentnaomie share the link heheh I'd love to see it
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Charismatic is about the way you make a person feel. It has nothing to do with you. Charismatic people may have sex appeal based on their confidence and seductive nature. Other charismatic people ask people the right questions, about the other person. They are fun to be around. They aren't typical. They have a wicked sense of humor. They are authentic. These individuals are rare now. I blame this on the internet for this issue.
Lol but aren't you using the internet right now. Smh😂
@@johnnyboy2065 Yup but I see the lack of personality offline when you meet new people or watch people interact. Before internet, you had less stimulation from technology and you got it from socializing (not social media). It required creativity and caused people to fully develop a personality.
@@maximumweb5655 True ,but it was not just the internet that caused their people skills to be low. We have teens who are taking drugs such as cocaine and meth which cause them to become brain dead.
Another reason for their lack of people skills is that most kids are depressed now-a-days because they do not fit in with the other kids so they think that everyone hates them that's why you see some of them making videos cutting themselves ,and its really sad to see my generation behave like this. Then you have the kids that are just natural introverts who just enjoy solitude.
For me personally I have no problem interacting with others, I can get along with anyone easily and most of my friends describe me as having a magnetic personality.
There should be a club or group dedicated to help one another with self esteem and confidence. I guess self esteem anonymous. A place to get honest, genuine feedback and have an opinion about something from a person not related to the persons in conflict. Any ideas?
Well not only that people care more about looks
Charisma = Conviction + A sprinkle of Mystery + good storytelling.
....plus sex appeal.
@@Anglovox wait really? 😂😂
Milton Dooby wow I had no idea looking good would make people around you think you look good
@@cchhclcl9530 no not really
@@tomato4049 Yes really. Sex appeal plays a big role in Charisma.
A concoction of being calm, look them in the eye, be authentic and confident in yourself, smile, ask open ended questions, compliment
1. Connecting language. 3:19
2. Promote engagement. 5:16
3. Express your creativity. 7:22
4. Revealing integrity. 8:52
5. Lofty goals. 9:55
Thank youuu
how to be more charismatic?
CONFIDENT
SENCE OF HUMOUR
GREAT EYE CONTACT
Then: 😍😎
And be yourself.
A Ferrari
@@magnafire1 meh
Be physically fit ,be joyful and vibrant and be stress free
You don't have to BE stress free, just ACT like it.
Stress is a good thing, it is an uncomfortability to get us prioritizing. It's how we manage it that's important.
Anyway, yes, I like you brought up "stress", so many people can relate to experiencing it and it does affect our personalities!
A smile has the same effect as a dog wagging its tail! A smile says "I am happy to be here and see you!"
High School Hacks I’d rather have a tail
I've watched a few of these kinds of videos before, and usually you'll find a few channels or two that'll speak the same 10 facts constantly but just kinda repeat themselves on the details. This is the only video that really went in depth on things, as well as not just running around in circles, just relaying the information that's actually helpful. Thank you, I really needed this
Oh man if this is charisma my level must be at least 2.
This will be a journey
An act of humility…and still getting your point across including their self esteem is rooted.
Step one: have charisma
Step 2: become dictator
Step 3: make the world go KAboom!!!
Step3= start a war then every one will remember you
@@sachinmahajan4362 God damn 😂
My problem was solved with the first point. Not being super technical when speaking but more self expressive 💡😃
In my experience, charisma is not about how good you come across, it's about how good the other person feels THEY come across when they speak with you.
Absolutely agree! Charisma isn’t just a natural trait; it’s something we can cultivate through practice. I used to struggle with engaging conversations until I learned the power of connecting language and creativity. Using metaphors to explain complex ideas makes all the difference.
It’s fascinating how promoting engagement and revealing integrity can transform interactions too. I recently joined the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x, and it taught me how humor can enhance trust and connection. Keep working on your charisma-it’s a game changer in all aspects of life!
As a teacher, it is important to connect academic topics with students real life so they can better relate. Also, students should always be asked to think about a subject and come up with their own ideas. The work environment can also be a good place to apply these skills. I'm a bit more skeptical in a purely social situation. School and work seems a natural place, especially if you are a leader or teacher, because you are in a position of authority and giving instructions. Regardless, these can't just be techniques. If it is not congruent with who you are it will seem disingenuous. If you truly believe in these ideas and just don't know how to do it, then this can be very powerful. If it's just a way to manipulate it will never last very long.
You are correct. The video is nonsense. Charisma is not a social skill. Charisma is part of Recognition of Self. Specifically self-confidence. This has been long established in the study of Emotional Intelligence. But you need to take this a step further when you include Charisma in conversation. For effective communication you need to have Recognition of Others (Empathy). With the needed skills as described, you can now express yourself effectively and build your social skills. For the emotionally mature adult, charisma is who you are. It is not an act. Obviously, by improving your conversation skills you can convey your message more effectively. So conversation is a skill that is learned.
You're right believe it or not if you want to learn charisma study a teacher of course you have to have a deep voice as well to get their attention
In reality, the most important thing about your idea is it works well rather than you're showing lots of confidence.
Sometimes a warm smile helps to influence💫Charismatic persuasiveness becomes effective 💯
I was having trouble managing my team. I was criticized by my manager. So, I went to McDonald's and bought twenty large fries, all of a sudden everyone thought I was brilliant! Which is true!🤣
Great share. Your point on making comparisons to explain something is great. Make an emotional connection too and you're onto a winner
This is just my experience from your video... at about 4:15, I found myself daydreaming. You lost me as well. My tip to you is to get to the point rather than rambling.
they do this not to help, they ramble to get to the 10 minute mark. i'm just as disappointed as you are
It seems they have to get passed the 10-minute mark for some reason or other. Probably money somehow.
@@ballybunion9 yea it is money
Yea my day could not be complete without an *top think* 😄
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Fellas one of the biggest pieces of advice I can give when it comes to women is stop being bitter. Being mad and mean spirited at women for not being attracted to you is not fair to your or the women. You are not attracted to every woman yourself. There are women you find absolutely hideous so its definitely not fair to be mad at women.
And Bitterness just keeps you in a bad mood feeling terrible and you take that negative energy out on women who dont even know you exist.
Not trying minimize or invalidate your pain. But there are people with debilitating illnesses that keep them in constant pain(Burn victims, birth defects, massive mutilating injuries,) and they still manage to be decent people. Dont let your pain turn you to the dark side Your life will be full of continued suffering if you let yourself stay in bitterness/the darkside because of your feelings towards Women.
Find a way to enjoy Life without them while still respecting them. You dont respect them for them. You respect them for your own good. Because when you disrespect others that karma comes back to hurt you.
Im saying this because I want the best for you. I dont want you in pain for years becoming a villain mad at the world.
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whoever made this needs to take a charisma class himself
Very Charismatic People Have very clear goals about where they are going 1,2,3 years from now and their goals are not small either. They are always excited and very positive about what they are doing because most of the things they do they are getting closer to their goal. They are usually leaders. They have high confidence because they are successful although some people can practically envision themselves being successful before they are successful and they are very confident very early. The energy they give off motivates others. They truly listen because they are in the present moment. They are not in their heads. They have empathy for people because they have been at the level where many of them were at before. They can give confidence in people because they know how to get out of that situation. The person i can think of that pretty much everyone knows is Arnold Schwarzenegger
Smiling and telling the truth are great as well,
On the first one, I've got an idea for you [I didn't make this one but trust me on this ;)]. If you're an accountant (HIGHLY unlikely), just say you get paid to do math all day. Now I made this one. If you're a waiter/waitress, say you get paid to watch people eat all day. Trust me, it works. Especially when trying to get someone to like you.
I like the accounting one a lot! When someone asks me what I do, I don't want to bore them about debits and credits, I will use this instead lol. Thanks!
10:12 I try to do the same! I don't want fame and money.. I just want to impact humanity for the better!
Hello I hope you have a lovely day/night!
I am! I hope you are too, Faatimah :)
why do you want that?
This is so helpful, it corrected many weak points in me, thanks
There are some good tips in here!!
Charisma= People like you without even trying to make them like you,
Charm= Intentionally make people like you
Hello Messrs. 'Top Think', I must admit that I have been immensely favoured to acquaint with your channel. The subject matters, your discuss has always been of great benefit to my personal development needs. Thanks you very much, for initiating this selection of content.
生活有進有退，輸什麼也不能輸了心情
1. 打掃心靈
很多人都喜歡房子清掃過後煥然一新的感覺。同樣，理完發的感覺也十分美好，因為多餘的東西去除了。
兒童是快樂的，因為他沒有過多的心事，也沒有不必要的憂慮。而成人則不同，我們的生命中有太多的積壓物和太多想像出來的復雜以及一些擴大了的悲痛。
用電腦的人都知道，回收站是需要經常清空的，否則會佔用過多的空間，影響計算機的運轉速度。人的頭腦也是。你不能什麼都扔掉，你也不能什麼都留著。
聰明的人是善於取捨的人，是適時取捨的人。有太多心事的人走不快，完全沒有心事的人又多半缺乏理性。
而生命的難度也正在於此，你要不斷清掃和放棄一些東西，因為“生命裏填塞的東西愈少，就愈能發揮潛能”。
記得一部戲裏，一個人對主人公說：“走吧，不要回頭，做不好不要回來。”他的意思是讓他離開這裏，是希望不要讓過去拖累他。
清掃心靈是一種掙紮與奮鬥的過程。人生是一個不斷揮手的旅程，少年要告別家鄉，傷心人要告別傷心地，雄鷹要告別安逸，快樂要告別悲傷。沒有告別，就沒有成長，要堅強，就要勇於轉身，離別是為了更好地相聚。
2. 放棄也是一種寬容
一個人就像一個國家一樣，沒有寬容便沒有成長。在一切成功要素中，胸懷是第一位，或者也可以說寬容是第一位的。
有的時候，放棄進攻的言詞，放棄憤怒的衝動，放棄報復的渴望，本身就是一種寬容。
聰明的人也經常要放棄解釋。在許多人看來，解釋就是掩飾。李敖說得好：有時解釋是不必要的敵人不信你的解釋，朋友無須你的解釋。許多事情根本就無須解釋，天不晴有時就是因為雨沒下透，下透了就好了。
成功的人不要怕挨罵，因為只要你做事，就會出錯，就會觸動一些人，就會引起某些人的不滿。事實上，能有50%的人讚成你就很不錯了，世上極少有百分之百的事情，越美的東東西越容易打碎。要鍛煉自己正確對待反對的能力，要勇敢地主動去徵詢反對意見。不要抱怨反對者，他完全可以有他的看法，這是他的自由，與你無關。不必費力氣去和他爭辯，趕路要緊。
3. 時間產生美
幾乎每個人都有自己的傷心地，所以我們並不奇怪，一些看起來很重要的地方，比如故鄉、母校、原單位、初戀現場，卻並不見得有很多人踴躍地回去，那是因為有太多的故事在裏面，有太多的沉重在原地。眼不見，心不煩。
而當一切都可以看開時，往往也是沒有什麼可以失去的時候，時間把往事都衝淡了，只留下了美好的記憶，青春的記憶，成長的記憶，拼搏的記憶，還有擦肩而過的燦爛笑容和寂寞黑夜裏的溫暖燭光。我參加和採訪過許多個校慶，映入我眼簾最多的慈祥的白發和久別重逢的淚水漣漣。歲月可以軟化最鐵硬的心靈。
社會心理學家告訴我們，嫉妒產生於相近的業界和區域，衝突往往源自利益的糾纏。“一切生物都暴露在劇烈的鬥爭之中”，因為一切生物都有高速率增加的傾向，在資源有限的情況下，生存鬥爭是不可避免的。而最劇烈的鬥爭，差不多總是發生在同種的個體之間，因為它們居住在同一地域，需要同樣食料，遭受同樣威脅。一些緊張關係的緩和需要時間和距離，離得遠了，感覺無關緊要了，也便放得開了。遠遠地看去，許多事物都是很美的。
所以我們不必為不能解決的問題沮喪，再不能解決的問題，也會在時間的洪流裏消失。敵意也罷，誤解也罷，輕視也罷，矛盾也罷，都會隨著時間的推移而淡淡化開，時間可以使滄海變成桑田。
4. 引退的美學
再好的眼睛，注視一件事物久了都會疲勞的，人的體力、情緒和智力週期決定了一個人無法永遠留在高潮，在一個生命週期內，人不可避免地要走向低潮。一年便是一個生命週期。
“及時而漂亮的撤退與漂亮的進攻同樣重要。輔佐某人久了，連幸運女神也會累的”。重要的不是到場時博得別人的喝彩，而是離開時別人對你的想念。
引退的美學，即善始善終。它的關鍵是“終”的時機和方式。順利抽身退出要比順利地進入時更難，因為山頂很美，因為下山的時候人一般都比較疲憊。
“滾動的石頭上不長青苔”，不下這座山便上不了那座山。人的一生會爬無數的山。每一座山都是那樣的別致，但沒有一座山真的值得你永遠地留下來。
影響引退的一個因素是貪戀，另一個因素是過分執著。對于人生利益，任何一個人都不可過分執著。所謂不過分執著，就是不偏執於某一個方面，某一種欲望，某一種企圖，某一種目的，某一種過程。任何偏執都可能使人失去中肯的判斷，從而錯過了美景，貽誤了人生。
5. 輸什麼也不能輸了心情
“你不可能因為給人一個微笑而喪失什麼，因為它永遠會再回來”。東西怎麼出去，就會怎麼回來。沒有人不喜歡微笑。
但問題是使人微笑的事物往往不在身邊，而令你煩躁、不安的事物卻往往揮之不去。不能與自己喜歡的人和事在一起，是許多人不快樂的根本原因，因為你沒有快樂的來源。
曾經有段日子，我很惆悵，我喜歡的女孩不在乎我，我精心做的稿子被改來改去，我的身體也出了問題，感冒不時地光顧我，我的生活一塌糊塗。這時我的好朋友對我說：“輸什麼也不能輸了心情，有些事情放了吧”。我決定改變。我不再找那個女孩，那篇稿子我立即投往別處，我也告別了一度懶散而無規律的生活，每天開始打球和跑步。結果，我的身體變得健美起來，我的那篇稿子很快被發表，而且還得了獎，我不再“在乎”了的那個女孩開始在乎起了我……
一個人或事能令你不舒服是一定有著什麼原因的，有的原因要過很久你才有可能知道，而有些原因你永遠都不會知道，但這些都並不重要，重要的是它使你不舒服，他會影響你的心情，影響到你的判斷，也影響到你的時間。
給別人一個重新認識你的機會，給自己一個認識更廣闊世界的機會，有什麼不好？
Great aidias, or advices, definitely I going to practice More of this information to become More charismatic, thanks 😊 hopefully many more , practice it because this are very valuable advices to practice, gracias 😍👍👋
Thank you so much for this wonderful content.
Thanks so much i hope evry1 gets the charisma they need
Writers and musicians are artists
Word play is a really great thing too
Ur a charismatic channel, thanks for inspiring
Brilliantly done!!!!
Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it
Great tips! 😃
This is something I need to get better at, I’m dyslexia and that makes me a bad read, not only that, but it comes with more. It makes me not able to understand too much information at once, I cannot easily map things, example, watch a movie and understand the story. Dyslexia have made me blank, I dont have anything to engage in with my friends when they talk about any topic. You know that movie? i dont, because I didnt pick it up. You know this song, lets sing this lyric? No, I dont, I wasnt able to pick up the lyric, not even on songs that is played million times. When I sing, I try mimic what I hear, but lyric is incorrect, making me a laughibg stock in public.
I know it’s been a while since you commented this, but I hope you feel more confident while talking to your friends now and that you’re also staying safe and well!
Thanks for this vid, i really want to manipulate people but i just cant seem to be interesting enough
🤣🤣
@@alexussy69 its not a joke, i'm a sociopath
@@PuckishAngeI I want to become a sociopath too
@@Ghost-vg6iq tf is wrong with you edgelords
Focus on invoking feelings not on full detai
Let them talk
Creative
My problem with talking to people is that I want to be more open and charismatic, but I find myself being completely bored with what most people are talking about even though I know that most people find that person easy to talk to.
I got so bored while watching this and my thoughts drifting
The voice got no charisma
@@zaperator4449 LOL
😂😂
Lol I start scrolling through comments
- Is rain wet?
- *You are correct*
Thanks I will improve that
Bam! or Bam! Bam! Bam! That is how Chef Emeril Lagasse got the studio crew to wake up when Emeril noticed they were nodding off.
The truth: charisma is ultimately pointless as it merely projects a reflective and strongly biased image of one's true self. Charisma does not make you a better person, however it makes you be perceived as one. In other words: it merely deflects attention from what is really important. In the hands of the wrong person it's a dangerous tool.
But that's just my silly talk. :)
I want to point out that you are not being charismatic.
@@jeffbac1889 I find your lack of faith disturbing.
Power of now - small ego
420
Amazing thing about zen
They're just saying this is crown chakra
Everyones ego is now smaller
And it's better
Not to say all of your egoes have been a huge problem but it actually makes being eco-friendly much easier
And it makes u all more attractive as humans
It wouldn't show up on the holiday unless it was everyone as a whole
It was saying maybe it could be a problem.. now it's saying definitely no
It's all of them
They've chilled
And it looks good
I tuned out before the first point was made. lol
I'm watching this 'cause I want to have Britney Spears' overflowing charisma.
So basically I do all of that I just need to be more confident and maybe have more joy in life.
Felt that on a deep and spiritual level
Oh I guess I've sort of thought myself on how to adjust me voice
8:38 they used to do i don't know why and try to bring down your potential
i always avoid contact bcz of shyness i always get that weird attention whenever i eye contact,maybe ill try eye contactin to improve
How do they make this animations ?
10:00 it’s funny how you mentioned Gandhi next to MLK because as I’m sure you know Gandhi would have hated MLK Gandhi often called Black people racist slurs even though people from India are brown and black themselves including him.
So long as it's not tales about their drunken home life that they are giving a speech about, as does my manager sometimes at the beginnings of their meeting.
i love this chanel
Number 1:Confidence. Litteraly my whole body while talking to a girl:Panic Panic STAY CALM!!!!!
Video starts at 3:19
Thank you
Awesome!!
Good argument, however the video didn’t move very fast
Video start 3:15
Very good video.
Love from Far away India.
I really good at charming because i'm too cute
No.1 tip starts from 3:19
Well please remind me ... Why would I want to be charismatic where as I can be myself ?
Charisma adds to yourself.
Mate, if everyone was themselves, then there'd be no such sociality and interaction, you sometimes have to adjust and express yourselves to please and interest the other side, and same goes for the other side too..
dont trying to being charismatic men ... be your self and enjoy it that the best option..
Wheres petere?
Now my name is Charisma fr if you lie well it's ok just my name is CHARISMA 🥺😭
Charizzma 🦅🦅‼️‼️
3:21
Google: TH-cam-:-Adam Atiyeh good advice an stay tuned for the peoples champ channel coming an tons of videos on many subjects TO THE TOP
What is being referred to here is NOT really ;,charisma", it's "persuasion", or "salesmanship.".
In certain contexts they’re almost the same. Like how car salesmen are generally very charismatic even if it’s only to sell you something.
And the biggest use for all these traits is really to make life easier for oneself without forcing anyone but by making them feel so good, they're happy to serve u 😊
If you feel emotionally pressed or driven to secure the recognition or favor of those around you, you might think about investigating your motivations. It just might save you a big-ass boat load of frustration, anxiety,
and possibly depression.
Secure your-own favor first.
Because if you don't,
No relationship will ever be worth shit. Just a suggestion.
I missed it, what is CLT?
SKIP the first 3 mins.
Based on science? What kind of science? Who is the scientist said about CLT?
Facts.
走向幸福的台階
幸福有時候只需要一個台階.. 無論是他下來，還是你上去，只要兩個人的心在同一個高度和諧地振動... 那就是幸福。
那年，她剛剛 25 歲... 鮮活水嫩的青春襯著，人如綻放在水中的白蓮花。唯一的不足是個子太矮，穿上高跟鞋也不過一米五多點兒，卻心高氣傲地非要嫁個條件好的。
是相親認識的他，一米八的個頭，魁梧挺拔，劍眉朗目，她第一眼便喜歡上了。隔著一張桌子坐著，卻低著頭不敢看他，兩隻手反覆撫弄衣角，心像揣了免子，左衝右撞，心跳如鼓。
兩個人就愛上了，日子如同蜜裡調油，恨不得 24 小時都黏在一起。兩個人拉著手去逛街，樓下的大爺眼花，有一次見了他就問：送孩子上學啊？ 他鎮定自若地應著，卻拉她一直跑出好遠，才憋不住笑出來。
他沒有大房子，她也心甘情願地嫁了他... 拍結婚照時，兩個人站在一起，她還不及他的肩膀。她有些難為情，他笑，沒說她矮，卻自嘲是不是自己太高了？
攝影師把他們帶到有台階的背景前，指著他說「你往下站一個台階。」他下了一個台階，她從後面環住他的腰，頭靠在他的肩上，附在他耳邊悄聲說「你看，你下個台階我們的心就在同一個高度上了。」
結婚後的日子就像漲了潮的海水... 各自繁忙的工作、沒完沒了的家務、孩子的奶瓶尿布、數不盡的瑣事，一浪接著一浪洶湧而來，讓人措手不及。漸漸地便有了矛盾和爭吵，有了哭鬧和糾纏。
第一次吵架，她任性地摔門而去，走到外面才發現無處可去。只好又折回來，躲在樓梯口，聽著他慌慌張張地跑下來，聽聲音就能判斷出，他一次跳了兩個台階。
最後一級台階，他踩空了，整個人撞在欄杆上，「哎喲哎喲」地叫。她看著他的狼狽樣，終於沒忍住，捂嘴笑著從樓梯口跑出來。她伸手去拉他，卻被他用力一拽，跌進他的懷裡。
他捏捏她的鼻子說「以後再吵架，記住也不要走遠，就躲在樓梯口，等我來找你。」她被他牽著手回家，心想，真好啊，連吵架都這麼有滋有味的。
第二次吵架是在街上... 為買一件什麼東西，一個堅持要買、一個堅持不要買，爭著爭著她就惱了，摔手就走。走了幾步後躲進一家超市，從櫥窗裡觀察他的動靜。
以為他會追過來，卻沒有。他在原地待了幾分鐘後，就若無其事地走了。她又氣又恨，懷著一腔怒火回家，推開門，他雙腿蹺在茶几上看電視。看見她回來，仍然若無其事地招呼她：「回來了，等你一起吃飯呢。」
他攬著她的腰去餐廳，挨個揭開盤子上的蓋，一桌子的菜都是她喜歡吃的。她一邊把紅燒雞翅咂得滿嘴流油，一邊憤怒地質問他：「為什麼不追我就自己回來了？」
他說「你沒有帶家裡的鑰匙，我怕萬一你先回來了進不了門；又怕你回來餓，就先做了飯……我這可都下了兩個台階了，不知道能否跟大小姐站齊了？」她撲哧就笑了，所有的不快全都煙消雲散。
這樣的吵鬧不斷地發生，終於有了最凶的一次。他打牌一夜未歸，孩子又碰上發了高燒，給他打電話，關機。她一個人帶孩子去了醫院，第二天早上他一進門，她窩了一肚子的火裡啪啦地就爆發了……
這一次是他離開了... 他說吵來吵去，他累了... 收拾了東西，自己搬到單位的宿舍裡去住... 留下她一個人，面對著冰冷而狼藉的家，心涼如水。
想到以前每次吵架都是他百般勸慰，主動下台階跟她求和，現在，他終於厭倦了，愛情走到了盡頭，他再也不肯努力去找台階了。那天晚上，她輾轉難眠，無聊中打開相冊，第一頁就是他們的結婚照。
她的頭親密地靠在他的肩上，兩張笑臉像花一樣綻放著。從照片上看不出她比他矮那麼多，可是她知道，他們之間還隔著一個台階。她拿著那張照片，忽然想到，每次吵架都是他主動下台階，而她卻從未主動去上一個台階。
為什麼呢?難道有他的包容，就可以放縱自己的任性嗎？婚姻是兩個人的，總是他一個人在下台階，距離當然越來越遠，心也會越來越遠。其實，她上一個台階，也可以和他一樣高的啊！
她終於撥了他的電話，只響了一聲，他便接了。原來... 他一直都在等她去上這個台階。
幸福有時候只需要一個台階..... 無論是他下來、還是你上去，只要兩個人的心在同一個高度和諧地振動，那就是幸福。
HEY TOP THINK YOU ALSO SAME PRINCIPLE YOU GIVE US??
Cut to the chase
In a conversation just talk about the other person... it works ALL the time...
Power
Great
Content
Use easy lang
Care
Creative
Dress
Integrity
Conf
No one can charm me though. I just like myself only.
Great video minus the cheesy ukulele music.
I have no social skills until some wine.
hey TopThink this is great but I was tryna learn how to be more charismatic in bed
That, I cannot help with
I read your name as "TopKink"
Interesting video but you should get a bit sooner to the point. Was losing interest halfway...