Thoughts on Fair Play and How It Mirrors Society. Are You Sleeping Next to the Opps?
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- Thoughts on Fair Play and How It Mirrors Society. Are You Sleeping Next to the Opps? #netflix #fairplay #manosphere #redpill #crisisofmen #patriarchy #society #culture #feminist #feminism
“Don’t get your meat where you get your bread” solid advice from my father
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LOLLLLL omg!
Wow lol great advice actually
Also known as "Don't sh*t where you eat!"
'Don't keep a honey where you make your money!'
I'd simply walk away from him, let him go. I know so many women sleeping with the enemy.
exactly. women need to stop trying to be the bigger person and making relationships work when the other person is clearly your enemy!
Some women cannot be saved.
They rather be with the enemy than be by themselves or save their own lifes for that matter.
I donot waste my energy...
Me too.
The only thing is he might try to sabotage you because you had a relationship with another employee. Especially as a new manager.
@@midi6615What if he tries to sabotage her though, because he relationship with another employee?
Interesting they finally decided to do movie's that show reality and not fairytale nonsense 😒
Well a lot of the movies ans shows do protray things that happen in real life
Notice when you ask men why they love their significant other they say because she cooks, clean, laundry and put up with his bs but when you ask women she says because he is handsome,caring ,smart ,sweet and generous lol it's crazy to me
we see them as people. they see us as appliances.
@@hardcandy71287exactly!
Women are people, men are users.
I don’t think you get those kinds of answers because men are shallow or don’t love their SO. Men on average just aren’t as good/as eager at articulating their feelings as women are, we are just wired differently. A man can be madly in love with a woman but if suddenly asked why he loves her he may not be able to come up with the right words, so he falls back to the kind of answer that you gave.
I used to work construction with all men, and now I work as a nurse with all women. Believe me, the communication difference is real.
@@hardcandy71287It is socially acceptable for women to pursue men for relationships purely based on his high income. What do you think about that?
men are always in competition even when it's unnecessary. it's ok to be competitive in the workforce. the problem is, they bring that same energy home. then, they have the nerve to wonder why we divorce them. they are incessantly adversarial for no reason.
Personally I don’t think it’s ok in the workforce either. Competition addiction within a team is so unproductive.
Tearing each other down to be the “best” on your team so you can get a decent wage is a manifestation of class warfare brainwashing inflicted upon the working class.
She should have left the minute he started questioning her appearance, her dressing and her boss’s motive for promoting her, lol
What if he tries to sabotage her though, because she had a relationship with another employee?
she was afraid to tell him about the promotion. deep down, we all know the truth about these males. she was forced to see him for the weak, jealous, abusive_pathetic_person he was.
I would like to also add that parents with sons, please raise your sons to be emotionally intelligent, empathetic, fully functional human beings who see women as human beings as well. This would help society greatly.
If my son treats women badly, I'll disown him, and he knows it.
and do this training before he reaches age 5. after that hes a lost cause.
@@zooweellama LISTEN!!! You are Absolutely Right! Hell, the lessons should start at the age of 2, If we really want them to stick.
I be listening in on Princella's lives and hearing these moms call in asking about how to train their horrible 12-13-14 year old sons.....? It's too late!
as a woman, I wasn't taught these things but have the traits which leads to me to believe men naturally have very little to no empathy and emotional intelligence
@@kazania7653 Testosterone destroys empathy. And everything else on planet Earth.
This movie triggered me so damn bad. I did the dating my colleague thing but it was really the career ascension that did it. You can work your entire ass off and the second you make moves it’s because you’re boinking someone.
All this buffoon had to do was step his cookies up, go to a different firm, or simply just be happy for his fiancé. He full on attacked her femininity by calling her a cupcake but was also upset when she got along with her male colleagues.
Your femininity and intuition is a superpower. Men know it. It just can’t be hidden by making you property now.
Agree! Our femininity IS our super power!!! I work with men and use it to my advantage whenever I can 🤷🏽♀️🙃
Women brains is the super power
I made my coworkers laugh by saying, "I don't get my meat where I get my bread."
They stopped laughing once they saw a couple of relationships fail and OF COURSE the XYs were the ones who stayed, and the women were the ones who either left or were let go.
Now they know to stop asking about my social media accounts, because I KNOW BETTER than to trust coworkers. I am friendly, but know that coworkers are not friends!
This was an excellent movie! The men talking points in the movie are spot on, how men feel when women are promoted in the workplace. Could you do a review of "The Other Black Girl", a Hulu movie?
I don't have Hulu. I'll see if it's on fire stick. I have read the book though. I'll see what I can do
The book is excellent, but I haven't seen the show yet (I don't think it's exactly the same plot as the book, from what I hear).
It’s not her fault she’s outpaced him…. Men are so fragile😒
They are fragile from birth. Case in point, A baby girl born with medical issues will fight to live. But the baby boy not so much, most times the baby boy is likely to die. Men are like a one cell organism, Most of them should be label failure to thrive!!!. There are literally no words to describe most of the men today. Mentally they are so lost and behind. That is why they are so angry with women. They are for the most part out paced by women in Academics, financially, mentally. And socially. . But we are emotional. Please make it make sense.😮😮😮
There are women who got that fragile ego BS too. I dealt with some fragile bs beetch who wasn't even a principal or nothing of that counselors and ESE (Special ed teachers, co-teachers, counselors, therapists, etc) folks be trippin' balls with their egoism.
I swear how many scholarships and achievements did she have at such a young age. I just think she had low self esteem to be dealing with a man who was tryna hide her away
The new anthropologist study done on prehistoric women on the north hemisphere showed 30% of women were hunters & warriors by extension yet this grouping of hunters/warriors tells us even without education women still outpace men cuz the women invented knew stone equipment & the swiss army stones of the era while the men held the same basic stone hunting kits in death as they did to start hunting in other words stagnation, no invention but the women were specialist nearly no men were it was rare to have a specialist male, and the women kept hunting past 30 till they died while the men quit hunting at age 30.
Definitely fragile. Mentally weak and physically strong.
Yesss Bougie 😳 I've been waiting for someone to do a commentary on this film 👏🏾 First Netflix film I watched this year without getting distracted. It could only be written and directed by a woman (late 30's) who wrote it from personal experiences. It could never be a male director. I'm curious to know who funded it because Hollywood doesn't play open cards like this. She also struggled finding an actor to play the lead because most couldn't access the "vulnerability" to play the part convincingly.
I watched this with my daughter. She just kept asking why he could not be happy for his fiance. I tried to explain and also show how selfish he was. She was suppose to be the happiest she has ever been in life. She was engage to a man that she loved and had the promotion of her dreams. He took it all away...even though he had the means to move on and be successful in his own right. He just did not want her to have any success.
I loved this movie because it really highlights how easily jealous men usually become when women are more successful.. even the ones you are in a relationship with. There’s nothing you as a woman can do. They will resent you and hate you! No amount of ego stroking or supportiveness will help! This is why women should NOT date broke men and/ or men that are not as successful as you.
Not just jealous, but have a complete meltdown and early life crisis 🤣
@@user-qu2gp8mw9u 😂 I swear
@@user-qu2gp8mw9uThe way he came into the office and started barking at the boss like a dog. He had a straight up manic episode because she’s good at her job 😂
Remember she said she would be jealous if he was made pm but she was threatened but want if there were other women in the office just as pretty or prettier than Emily and they were always hanging around Luke and he was taking them out to dinner and going over to their house every night how would you or Emily take it
No,, drop the bf,, keep the job,, I wouldn't snap,, cause of my jealous bf
The movie, based on thr tiktok, is giving, "Your friends are close. But your enemies are closer."
It's really telling how men will try to tear down accomplished women by calling them "masculine"....
But that's just insulting the men who don't measure up to her!
Intimidated men, insecure about their own inadequacies are constantly telling on themselves in the comments!
Would these men say that about their daughter's achievements, accomplishments and dedication to her future goals?
would they even be proud or supportive of her?
Really makes me think 🤔
no, no they wouldn't, and if they did they'd use their daughter's accomplishments to make THEMSELVES look good in front of others
Good advice regarding learning about self defense and getting as fit as you are able to. It's really getting more important to be able to defend yourself on jobsites.
I haven’t seen it yet but my sisters did and they were telling all shit and abuse this man put this woman through this. My question why did she stay with him if she wasn’t dependent on him financially!? I can never understand women are have higher incomes but stay with abusive men!?😏
You’ll see , I don’t want to spoil you but she’ll find some sense 😊
The film takes place within a couple of weeks. Everything happens very quickly. They go from madly in love, about to get married to the toxic mess.
He could easily blackmail her because she had a relationship with another employee and lose her job.
We know why.....some women feel they will be "alone forever" if they cannot "find a man"
Leaving an abusive relationship is the most dangerous stage of that relationship. Men often try to kill the women for leaving.
This movie mad me mad 😅 I’m seriously perplexed at the audacity in this film
6:00 has always been my gut feeling. I haven’t observed any fallout personally. But I don’t like it at ALL.
OMG I am so glad I saw you did a breakdown on this. I am 50 minutes into it and my blood is boiling!!! This man is a dustmite THROUGH AND THROUGH!
I wanted to see this movie but the rating box showed there's sexual violence and the reviwes said there is sexual assault in the movie. I know that will trigger me badly so I will to pass on the movie. It does seem like a good movie overall, as well as an eye opener for women. So if you can stomache that, then it's probably worth the watch. I'm sure the rape scene in there is because in a situation like this, that's the most realistic thing that would happen, unfortunately.
If it helps, that scene is towards the end.
Drop the bf, take the cash, and friggin DIP
Snap?! Please. 1) She needs to tell SOMEone: I'd figure out who that should be, then 2) Drop the emotional, enraged douchebag, take that promotion, get that salary, (along with the experience and a firearm) and then leave if the job is sucking your soul. 🤷🏾♀️ Snap and risk your freedom for WHAT?! 🥴
What if he tries to sabotage her though, because of her relationship with another employee? He could ruin her chances of promotion completely.
Just watched this movie last night, and would advise all women to take a peak. I gave it two-thumbs up....lol The fragile male ego can be beyond destructive! *Won't give away any spoilers!
Sounds like The Office's Pam and Jim gone bad 😂 def gonna check this movie, thanks Burb!
That’s why you date people who encourage you and take pride in your success.
What do you do? Simple: breakup. If he can't handle it, then that's his issue. He needs to be happy for you and not jealous, even if it was the other way around..both should be happy. But honestly that's why you don't date coworkers unless you're in two different departments with different shifts.
This is why you never date or marry within the company or work. I tend to roll my eyes at teachers and principals and people who basically hire from family and marriage and such, because it hinders the companys' (schools') agenda and bottom-line. Strictly business is what is important in companies and work places... otherwise the bottom-line will not be met. My brother is now a manager of his own place, and if (not that it will) ever hires his cousins, or sisters or what have you his sons when they come of age... it should be about the companys' bottom-line and strictly business. It is about the numbers, nothing more. If I were that woman, I cut him off completely. He should be happy about my promotion, not see it as threat, especially if he is married to me and sees us as one unit working together to better each others' lives. There are some fragile ego POSs on this planet.
this is definitely true of my experience in grad school.
That movie had me like 😮😣😡 the whole time I was watching!
I see a lot of comments that say that you shouldn't date someone you work with which is not wrong at all --BUT in the cases where men are of the type of man like Luke in 'Fair Play', that's just who they are no matter if they work at the same office with you or if you two work totally different careers across town from each other.
Men like that will find one way or another to sabotage you and show the same type of nasty behavior towards you just like Luke did in the movie.
The propensity to behave like that is already in them. You, a woman being more successful than them just brings it out of them.
Unfortunately, your co-worker is not your friend and certainly not an intimate partner relationship. Do not shit where you eat folks. I learnt that the hard way, now laying low, and finding work elsewhere.
Hi, thank you for talking about this❤
I was going to watch it this weekend but the trailer gave me a visceral response and not a positive one.
Ladies self defense is key. I was fortunate enough be taught martial arts by my father. I think I started by age three. I am now a 5th degree black belt. There is a certain amount of confidence that comes along with it as well. And yes, I have had to use it on men. I now understand why my dad will only teach women and children.
I think these movies help the world to really see the truth, no going back from truth.
when women want to date men who are successful, have their own car and their own house, judging men based on achievements, men will be competitive
it's really not a rocket science
the movie highlights that there needs to be a major shift in dating (and overall society really), get to know the person and appreciate them for their good qualities instead of dividing people based on achievements
wow, men are really pathetic then...
How someone looks is very important to society too. “Appearance” is mentioned in the movie too as a way to have power in a sense. So unfortunate that other things take more prevalence then someone’s good qualities.
Yes, his good qualities made him hate his fiancé and grape her, not his fragile ego or the fact he’s a POS. 🙄🙄
@@mystyyyyy I didn't say *he* had good qualities, you completely missed my point, learn to comprehend a simple text before replying to people
@@FruityHachi No, you’re the one trying to spin a simple matter into anything but what it is.
A bad man did bad things to a person he claimed to love, simple and short, something we see everyday in society.
But here you are taking rubbish and veering away from the conversation at hand, but yeah, I’m the one with comprehension issues. 😕
The ending😁.
Great right! 😂👍🏽
Yes , wild.😂 I was kinda scared for her. Thought he was gonna🔪
@@JodyMay05I thought she was going to give in and piss me off😂
I really like this movie
It was the assumption he made how she got there by the boss coming on to her.
Don't get your honey where you make your money!
I think there’s gonna be more of a reckoning soon since women have almost always over enrolled in college than men. So a lot of these dominated feels with men and if they were choir, I have always require a college degrees are they going to explain that have a higher than me women it’s a little women are applying and how the degrees with a Main don’t have the degrees as much as it with him.
This movie I'm not joking traumatized me, honestly i was looking forward to this movie throughout the year I love the actors but I cant ever watch this movie again because it's so realistic and far to common.
I really love the male actor but the way he made my skin crawl.
Because we're are dealing with this in real life.
Really need to watch that movie, important topic right there
He sounds like an ex fiance
What do you do? You DTMFA. Case closed. That would be one short ass movie if it were me.
I really enjoyed Fair Play. The director and writer of the film said she created this film because she had gone through her own experience of when her career became successful and how her partner would act. You are seen as a threat. What it highlights is when you are with a below average man and how much they can be your worst enemy. Also because they had to keep the relationship secret it meant that she was isolated and couldn't see how useless he was. This is why when Tyler Perry and other members of the black community are telling black women dating below them, they are putting you in danger. These guys because they are unable to out to you in finances they find other ways to dominate you. There was a 2015 study that women who are breadwinners actually end up to doing more housework as a way to compensate and soothe their partner's bruised egos.
❤this was a poor story Emily was the one lying going to see her boss at 2oclock for some face time she call him pathetic this women directed a couple of show from the series billions on showtime which had many strong women of all races and color and no binder and HBO has a better show call industry about all thse young stocks working i only came to this movie because of bridgerton nexfix wasted 20 million dollars on this movie no black women at this firm are Emily try to do was get Luke to have sex with her all she needed was a good sex toy she was always screaming at luke she was a little bitch
If this movie triggered you good. It was meant to feed on the insecurities and hive mentality of women “boss women” who struggle in relationships. Well done 👏🏽
Hmmm. Interesting. Well, the man in the movie struggled bc he was mediocre and not successful. I'm totally sure the reality of mediocre dudes has to be triggering to simply witness successful women.
@@BurbNBougie Idk that would assume the world revolves around women like that lmaoo. I’d like to think the working men in this world have hundreds of actual problems to deal with. The only people that actively care about a women’s position in the workforce is other women.
Can you explain how, as you put it, the movie "feeds on the insecurities and hive mentalities of boss women who struggle in relationships" and which scenes in the movie did so?
When a dummy talks, you just know. 😕
@@mystyyyyy
Exactly! 😂
As you can see he has yet reply to any of our comments--that's because he knows he has no *logical* reply.
He probably didn't even watch the movie.
You're reaching
Ok