@@neulite24Took responsibility and open enough? He was exposed by his shameful act which he actually did! The only thing debated here is if he took it by force or not? This cultural conditioning and male-centering, is unfortunate. Even the women are so conditioned to rather go against the female folk, when the men stray. That is why we hear of “Jezebels” being women or young girls a full grown man(married) actually committed those acts with, but the men are not with fault. Sad
She’s just an AVERAGE African woman. She should have let her husband NARRATE the story. She’s acting like “Voltron” (defender of the universe). God knows how many other women he slept with before this one became the wrong one. She’s not bothered about him CHEATING, but she’s concerned that the lady “accused him of rape!” She’s nothing, but a mumu woman! I hope he’s learned his lesson & can finally control his “3rd leg!” Good luck to both of them 😂
The wife knew the kind of man she was married to, he is not a habitual cheat, and that was one reason I believe she stood by him. Man or woman cheating never pays
The main takeaway from this interview is: It's not about the number of times you tune in or attend church service. It's about applying what you are being taught. As Christians, we asked to FLEE from sexual sin. There is NO Strong Man or Strong Woman when it comes to sexual sin. Watching Holy Ghost service will not save you...RUN from that compromising situation. Hope the husband has learned his lesson. Peace be unto their homes.
It is not always the same when a woman cheats and when a man cheats, when a man cheats, he might never have anything to do with that women again forever, but when a woman cheats it is hard for her to stop seeing same person, men cheats for pleasure sakes, while women cheats emotional reasons.
She's a good woman and he is a humble man. That combination was impossible for Jezebel to break through. This is why we need to SET BOUNDARIES...to prevent having to fight unnecessary battles.
So so true... We all struggle in our closets with one secret or the other. My advice... stay true to urself and to ur spouse. Above all, everyday work out our salvation with fear and trembling. God help us
IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife????? The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂 Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
Wow! The wife is a sweet soul and didn't deserve what her husband put her through. I hope he really really appreciates are for who she is. I hope she goes for therapy and they both go for counselling because life after a partner cheated is not a walk-in-the-park for the victim, no matter how awesome they are.
Thank God he was vindicated. I hope the girl faces consequences for falsely accusing him? That being said, I hope men will learn from this case, that girl couldn’t have had any grounds to accuse him of sexual assault if he had stayed faithful to his wife. Stick to your spouse, una no go hear. See how his career would have been ruined, and guess who suffered that ordeal with him? The wife and children!! If you like, keep philandering, not every wife will be as forgiving and supportive as this woman here. PS: bringing your wife to the podcast wasn’t necessary. She forgave and supported you throughout the ordeal. Did you have to humiliate her further by bringing her in front of a camera? What is she trying to prove? You could have done this podcast, and told us about her love and support without bringing her here. Would you have done the podcast with her if the roles were reversed? Dave the woman some dignity oga
Exactly. I kept thinking to myself what was he looking for? Why did he do all of those things? In fact, I watched the video with a lot of anger. I want to hear from the girl. Yes, he was vindicated but let us also hear her side.
It was God communicating to him to be faithful. I'm not mad at her.Anything or anyone that brings you back to God or leads you to it isn't bad even if it seems so
@@jd2024-so much anger! Wow! Did a doctor promise to marry you and then broke the promise? Or did you want to become a doctor but it didn't work out well? Here in the US doctors have been disgraced for sexually assaulting others, and I don't think it's any different in the UK. The regulatory body their even seem stricter. If you were sexually assaulted by a doctor in the UK, by all means report them to their regulatory body. You definitely should have evidence. And it doesn't affect you anyway in your "African" community. Don't rush into conclusions in matters you're not privy to.
@@jd2024-Seek healing. Didn't you hear an investigation was done in the UK? You missed the message the wife read etc... African always blame women... This is 2024 !!
The man is courageous and a good man to have confessed to his pastor and eventually his his wife. It can't be easy at all. May God restore their marriage and strengthen him. Nobody is above mistake. I am sure he has learnt in a hard way.
IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife????? The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂 Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
@@tdad8683 That's how people fail exam, watch the video again to find out when he confessed. You happen to be the mumu here. If investigation is going on they will work with the service provider to get any deleted messages if need be. If he deleted anything the lady would have provided her own chat and it will show that he deleted things. This investigation was done home and abroad. Think smart.
@@tdad8683 Make una dey try watch and listen before una go dey off. If you had watched and listened, you would have heard the wife mention that he had told her about it immediately it happened.
This is how some men bring disgrace to their innocent wife, children and family. This shouldn't have happened if the man was faithful to his wife. QUESTION : Would the man accept back the wife if the case was the reverse? Besides, I am glad that the man was humble and responsible enough to acknowledge his wrong. Please men learn to practice self control. Those HOME WRECKERS ladies out there aim is to only destroy your home and family. Big lesson to learn RESPECT YOUR SPOUSE, RESPECT THE VOW, and above all, FEAR THE ALMIGHTY GOD.
I don’t believe that the women out there are the home wreckers. The man that has a wife and is positioning himself or asking another out is the home wrecker.
@@Avy999 They are both home wrecker ( the man and the side chick). How come you will be smashing a grown man like that without checking whether he is married or not or even ha a girl friend? I do not support any side chicks. Ladies should know better and support the fellow woman by not smashing their man. Look for your own man not eyeing others. Karma is real. Be warned.
@@phostv432 What do you call judgement? we are speaking the truth, the fact. If he did not betray his wife, this will not happen in the first place, so we have to call them out, that will help them to stop humiliating the wife and the family. Thank you.
Wow oh wow In the woman’s mind now she has married well because he’s a doctor. If the roles were reversed, I wonder if the man would stay beside her like that and defend her 😢
It was wrong that the young girl accused the man of rape, but the wife is delusional! Her husband may not be guilty of rape but he is not innocent. He was in a position of power and should have never been having sexual relations with a subordinate. I also have a feeling he told his wife after the act because he knew the young girl would tell on him.
That man might be innocent of the rape accusation but he is an infidel. The woman is delusional for vouching for the husband and telling his side of the story for him
@@JoyFayshe wasn't a young girl. She was an adult otherwise the institution wouldn't have overlooked it. As for the man, kudos to his courage. It's no easy story or confession to make to your wife and nobody is innocent including you.
It’s the same thing I’ll always say, if you have a partner especially if is a husband or wife legally married to you, stay away from strange men and women they will only bring you down and if God is not so kind destroy your family. If you don’t go cheating nobody will have the grounds to say you rape or whatever, may God strengthen us to remain faithful to our spouses. Make una dey discipline una sef for God sake, have some discipline and fear of God bikonu. And may God give that girl the punishment she deserves.
Let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he falls. Don't be too trusting of yourself. There are unguarded moments the devil can get to strike unawares
I applaud the man for being forthright. Of course if the role was reversed, we don't know how this would have played out. No one is above mistake. However, this lady should still go for therapy. God bless you both.
IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife????? The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂 Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
@@tdad8683 My sister I no get time to dey read chat. You cheat for your life. The day I catch you omo thats the end. Women think marriage is a throphy and be settling for rubbish. What will people say?
People hate it when wives stand by husbands who go astray. And I wonder why? Marriage is a covenant, not easily broken not even by errors. She is keeping to her marital vows. Yes her husband made an error, but was redeemed. This cord can’t be easily broken not even by Jezebel. Christ is their foundation. When getting married make sure Christ is your foundation. He helps you stay through the storms.
Okay, let me ask you question, if your husband sexually assaults someone are you going to “stand by him” solely because he’s your husband? If he give you a black eye are you going to “keep your marriage vows”? I’m not even saying he raped her, I just want to know where you draw the line since it’s important to stand by your husband. In what situations will you unstand?
@@Wande861 You asked a very important question. Firstly, I didn’t marry someone who can turn to the devil overnight. While making my choice to marry I made sure Christ was our firm foundation. Through prayers and so much more. Before a man becomes whatever he becomes outside, you see the signs at home. The signs are always there, as a Christian woman I watch the gates of my homes, including the life of my husband. Have there been times in the past when I forgot my job and focused on things without eternal values? Yes! Secondly, I said what I said before, I will always stand by my husband. I can’t upstanding him before the whole world. I know the man I married and I know where my strength lies, in God. I will deal with him privately, his spiritual parents will deal with him, I will understand the why and the how of the situation. My dealings with him and within the 4 walls of our home, I will never join the public to put him down, I will do all these because he is submitted to Jesus and there is no situation beyond redemption. In the case of violence, staying away is an option but breaking my vows by publicly speaking ill of him is me speaking ill of myself. Remember we are one.
@@Wande861She will stand by him a lot of women out there hate other women and are allergic to blaming men o many women stand beside their rapist husbands
@@jeshurundaniel794 oh I know this!! That’s why I asked. They’ll do anything for a man. For every woman out there turning a blind eye to your rapist partners, your karma is coming, it doesn’t matter how many times you go to church. You’re evil!!
@@jeshurundaniel794 you again. I understand the lady was given ample opportunities to tell her side of the story both in Nigeria and United Kingdom where I understand she was given a lawyer to help her case. How is it that you still hold on to this your narrative that the man raped the lady? Just to ask, is there something you know that we don't? Please say it while I grab my popcorn and zobo. This year, no gree for anybody o.
All I can see in this story is that he acknowledged & confessed his sins. Remember King David in the Bible. Sin prosper when we hide it. But when sin is acknowledged and exposed.... Mercy prevails.
STORY 4 D GODS IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife????? The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂 Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
@@tdad8683the matter did not cast before he confessed to his wife. He confessed to his wife immediately he cheated, he never waited for the wife to find out, and this prepared the mind of the wife when the allegations came up
Would he have defended her publicly if the script were flipped? She looks drained, exhausted and probably her self esteem has been broken. I recommend individual and couples counselling here. If she ain’t already, self empowered is critically needed….be able self sustain and self sufficient. He seems remorse and took accountability but trust has been broken and we can’t just sweep that under the carpet. This is just an interview, they have to deal and live with this reality on a daily basis and that takes a whole lot of work, patience, grace, humility etc. Staying with a cheating spouse should not be labelled as “HERO” please. She stayed because it benefited her situation and because that is what she choose as her preferred option. That is not heroism, that’s just her decision. On a bigger leave, I wonder if her husband would have gone on a public interview with her if the roles were reversed? I felt a type of way when she took over explaining what happened. She shouldn’t have been talking so much throughout that interview. If needed, her place should have been at the later or very end of that interview. I assume they did the interview so that the husband can clear his name publicly so, allowing the man to take 100% accountability and responsibility was needed. Her interjection right at the start reduced that to some degree.
Is it a crime to celebrate those who handled their marital challenges well and came out better? I could sense if someone here were to face the same challenge, he or she would have called for a divorce. The moral of this story is that the woman is a hero and deserves some accolade for not allowing a third party to destroy her home despite her husband's mistake. Another point is that the man earned his wife's trust, no wonder the woman believed him when he confessed to her.
Dear Chude I hope you get to share a story of a woman who cheated against her husband and confessed. It would be nice to see the husband's reaction to your interview.
Well, the society (particularly, Nigerian society) may be less forgiving or show less grace to women in such instances therefore, I would think most men would not want their wives going public about such.
@@histreasure3189the comparison is even killing me 😂. Number one, she’s probably no longer with her man, society doesn’t go easy on cheating women like that. If they’re still together he probably wouldn’t sit in front of a camera while his wife narrates the story of how she cheated on him. Number two, there’s literally rape involved in this one, it also almost claimed their means of livelihood. And you want him to interview a woman that cheated? That’s a lot of women in the world. But this particular story is unique.
Question is…why is society less forgiving on the woman? And why are we not understanding the perspective/ rationale behind the original poster’s comment? You are that society that continue to perpetuate the double standards and disregard of women even in their marriage, by always cuddling the men no matter how much mess they have made.
I have to applaud the wife, she is brave, cheating breaks trust even marriage and if it doesn’t it takes a whole lot to build back what’s lost. May God continue to uphold the home and heal all wounded hearts even Goodness too.
Please don't say it was EASY. Cos I can bet you a 100% that it wasn't. Yes she forgave him and God gave her tolhe grace to do so but forgiving and accepting a spouse that cheated us BEVER easy. Shalom @@judero.p.i
@@kimerlyakorah9651 at least he repented and confessed to his wife immediately after he did wrong and that is a responsible thing to do and that is why it was easy for her to forgive him
being responsible does not mean you are perfect, it means you are accountable for your wrong doing and try not to do it again. That is what I see in this situation @@kimerlyakorah9651
I just feel so bad for this woman. Having to hear this tale of her husband’s cheating again and again and now here on this show too 🤦🏾♀️. Long suffering spouse is not a good title..wouldn’t wish it upon anyone.
Thank you for sharing this was really inspiring, thank God for directing you to confess. Now I understand the bible verse that says " the truth shall always set u free" and may God almighty bless ur wife she is the real definition of proverbs 12:4.
I hope when your wife committed a sin, I pray you will find it in your heart to forgive her too, nobody is above mistake, the devil is much older than all of us and much much experience, so Dr, be ready to forgive her.
Some women have cheated and some men have forgiven. Some men have cheated and some women left the marriage. Choose your stance. Not everyone will be the same
The fact that she spoke immediately shows the state of their relationship. It can't be you. Your decision! She made hers. If the tables were turned, hope you say same.
Wow, I follow that girl on Twitter and she has been saying she is mentally unstable. I blame the man though, he put his family through this hell. It's so nice hearing his own part of the story. Good men and naivety, just like good women .
This is really amazing, educative, 😢😢, soul lifting, and relieving. A great lesson to be learnt here, this is the level of forgiveness Jesus taught while on earth and we can still see how he forgives us nonmatter the level of atrocities we've committed 😢. All He needs is for you to let go of your past and embrace newness in Him. Kai, someday, I'll be able to look back and say this video has really helped me heal and overcome my guilt and fears. God bless this couple for sharing this part of them.
So many women live in a "Fools Paradise." If a woman is going to stay with a cheat say because of the children, make sure you get your finances in order and invest your money on things that matter. Start educating yourself on building your life/finances and plan your exit if your spouse is a habitual cheater.
No! A woman should always invest in herself and get her finances in order, whether her marriage is a going concern or not. Women must find the strength and courage to forgive, heal and forge ahead when they can, and to IMMEDIATELY quit the marriage altogether when they must!
@meekyngum2015 It is easier said than done for a woman to "IMMEDIATELY" leave as you put it. Most women are cheated on when they are creating a family. A woman is likely to be cheated on when she is pregnant or recently had a baby. The changes in the her body, plus the stress of a new born, changes the family dynamics. A man sees this as an opportunity to cheat. When a woman gives birth her career is held back by atleast 2 years because she is mostly focused on her child. She certainly needs time to restrategize, rebuild her finances and plan her exist so that, she doesn't return to her cheating husband. If not she will be ill prepared to do life on her own with her kids. It will only be wise to stop having kids with an habitual cheater, while you plan your exist and rebuild your life.
Did you not hear the part that he felt bad and told his wife about the cheating, or you just don’t want to accept the fact that there are good men and women out there, you were expecting to hear they divorced but they are still happy in the marriage, there are good marriages only for good and responsible people
A story of true grace, forgiveness & mercy. This is why those dragging the lady on Twitter for saying she wakes up to cook at 5 for her husband because a female colleague brought him spoon to share her lunch with him don’t understand the sacrifice it sometimes takes to guard a marriage. Like this husband said , it started with smaller innocent gifts and gestures, and he should’ve stopped it from the start, but many of us are very unaware and too nice to think evil of nice gestures, but in marriage you have to. Thank God he communicated it to his wife and thank God for such a woman that understands the marriage assignment. The devil is the enemy and we wage war against his vices, not our spouse.
Always the devil…that’s why we never take accountability for our actions as Christians. The devil will not thrive where there is discipline and self control on your part.
I think you should have asked the dr himself to start with narrating the story as wife is only narrating hearsay . Not that her narration is wrong but it would have been better to hear from the accused himself.
💯 👏🏾👌🏾 Sounded cringe to me hearing her narrate the story as if her husband cannot speak. We shouldn’t have heard from her till later or the very end of the interview. Would he stand by her in an interview and do the same if the script were flipped?
@@josephinechannel9697 we’re talking about self worth here you’re talking about court of law. Omo, I see you everywhere making excuses for the man. I hope in future your daughters love themselves. You on the other hand, you can be the doormat you desperately want to be.
Chude is a professional. He started with his wife to give the man confidence to talk about it because he noticed the man was kind of shy of starting it.
@@beautyexpert6481 This ain’t about Chude. I’m sure the couple (specifically the Dr husband) came for the interview to clear his name publicly and to clarify that the case has been throughly investigated and he was found innocent of the accusation. So why hide under your wife? Was she there when the incident happened? Most of the information she knows is hearsay (indirect) If he was man enough to do the act, he should be man enough to explain himself both publicly and privately. As a man, he is the head of the family, plus he was the one who cheated. Allowing the wife lead/narrate the story only comes across as if he is hiding. Or as if their is more to the story. I wish Chude allowed the husband narrate the incident from the start. His wife really only needed to have been their to stand as a United front for publicly, and if needed she could chip in here and their, very loosely. Or express herself at the tail end of the interview. Unfortunately, these kind of accusations always leave a stain on the accused even when found innocent. May 5mins of enjoyment not cause use irreputable damage….AMEN!
Dude secured a trophy marrying this woman. I wish they all have learnt from this. My brother go home and enjoy your marriage. Sin no more. The Samaritan woman that Jesus met was an adulterer with 5 husbands but became an evangelist the day she met Jesus. I love this couple. I am married 19yrs and this is what I tell people. If there is love and forgiveness any marriage will work.
This woman needs to heal properly as much as she probably must have forgiven him .From her look, she's drained both psychologically and physical.I also feel she got angry not only because of the flimsiness of the chats she read but because her trust was broken.
@@Wande861 And Goodness Father discharged him the next day? And The Psychiatrist lady went to the gynae 2 days after?? Pls make your story make sense. In her story, She was admitted after Her first rape, not with this Dr. Also how does a man undress a 21 year old lady in a bar and have intercourse on a floor?? No now? What do you make of the evidences presented by both parties to vindicate him? Yes, U don't trust Nigeria UCH, UK nko? He messed up, agreed. But there is Redemption when you Repent.
Let's understand that emotional disorders exist. There were inconsistenies in the girl's narrative. She was good at whipping up sentiments on social media. I suppose you know the story of the guy who acted Jack Sparrow in Pirate of the Carribean and his wife.
Sin causes a destiny to sink, watching the Holy Ghost service and sinning at the same time was all the devil needed to destroy him, thank God for a second chance
If it was the woman and she immediately told her husband like the man did, and the man truly loves her, he'll forgive, stand by her and YES, they'll be having this conversation. Stop being biased and negative, simply learn from the story, like so many, and stop sowing the wrong seeds in people's mind with that kind of talk.
She’s a little delusional about her husband. “I know my husband”. The truth is that the student was clinically depressed. Your husband knew that and while the girl was crying on the shoulder he provided, they had sex. Now the question is in her unstable mental condition, did he use good judgement in doing anything with her? He is a medical doctor so the signs should have been obvious. I think the girl truly believes that he took advantage of her when she was low mentally. I think the thing is really if she was in a mental state were she could not effectively consent. I don’t know. However, madam your husband was well aware of this woman’s mental situation and while I applaud you guys working to save your marriage, you are not being realistic about what happened.
I remember that when the story broke out the girl had done a test that showed forced penetration. I think it is strange that that aspect of the allegation was not acknowledged
This is what happens when your wife is your friend and your friend is your supporter. She took herself out of the picture, for for his healing, then put her trust in God. Thank God for this story and how God help them both. I salute their courage
Y’all screaming like the school girl is the only one at fault. He cheated on his wife!! He’s WRONG, if a woman cheated. You wouldn’t be screaming her praises like you’re screaming this guy’s praises
Half way into this conversation; but I am curious… did Chidi ask Mr Anthony if he had previously had sex with other people outside his marriage prior to this?
I am KINDA disappointed at chude for this particular interview. He seems to have believed the man COMPLETELY even before the interview. A good interviewer should APPEAR not to TAKE SIDES.
Madam, you need to stand up!! Cheat back or even if you want to forgive, don't join him on a podcast as per understanding wife. Let him do the press tour on his own. After all, you were not there when him and his student were having each other.
@Chude Please you might need to investigate further. No one should be carried away by first to do a show effect which I think the narrator might be taking an advantage of. The pathologist report written by the Late Prof Clement Okolo of the Department of Pathology of the same UCH affirmed the sexual act was forceful. So I personally don't get the narration being pushed here, like he is trying to do damage control, attract public sympathy, paint himself innocent or what???
Not that I'm saying he is innocent or not but if a woman means to bring you down, she can go all out.....there are ways to create the appearance of a forceful intercourse
That gurl needs to be punished accusing a man falsely of rape is very wrong what kind of wickedness is this as in , The lady needs to thought a lesson.
@@Avy999 the man accepted that he cheated on his wife. The girl should be punished for lying that she was raped when she wasn’t. Did you know the guy could have been wrongly jailed for a crime he didn’t commit? Common! He slept with her, not raped her. Two entirely different things! First sex in a bar, the girl riding him from top! lol. You all are funny.
@@NyLonLag Mumu. Case that was investigated in Nigeria and uk yet you’re saying investigate the case. Are you so daft? Must you comment on topics you know nothing about?
Thank God he told his wife & the pastor, thank God he was truthful and straightforward at first. People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy. May we continue to have self control and depend on the Holy Spirt to guide us every step of the way!
She looks very sad and down-trodden. He’s done this before multiple times…this is just the first time he was publicly shamed for it with rape allegations. Bless her. I pray she finds strength to live a healthier life.
Down trodden? She doesn’t look down trodden. Do you even know the meaning of down trodden? This is a couple that are baring it all in public. You talk as if he has raped you before or someone you know. Like you’re so sure. Please be empathic to what they have been through. They are a great couple. That’s what marriage is about. Forgiveness and watching each others back.
Someone said her husband came back that day to confess the event before the lady even started the accusations and you are saying whatever tr*sh you saying. You wanted the woman to be you abi?
It good to be a Christian, he fell but repeated immediately and confess, David said rejoice not against me o my enemies for if i fall I shall arise when I sit in darkness the lord shall be a light unto me, that lady actually came to truncate Gods place for Ur life but glory be to God who helped you it's a lesson to every one to be careful not fall for cheap offer. God bless for sharing sir
This man is a good and responsible man. I commend him for being honest and taking responsibility. I respect his wife, her kind is rare. I have learnt a lot from this video
Lol oh please. Black women need to work on their self esteem. There’s nothing strong about being a doormat, taking a abuse (yes cheating is abuse), and allowing a man treat you however he likes. She is weak. You can watch her body language and see that she’s not the most confident woman.
Thank you daughter of zion for standing by your husband and not abandoning your home and ministry. May the Lord uphold you both and strengthen you. It's not over yet. May the lord grant you wisdom. Remember: The wise woman builds her house...Prov 14 v 1.
Stop misquoting scriptures to suit your culture and nurture.that verse doesn’t mean a woman should condone cheating. When will men be ever held accountable in our culture for cheating? When? Does the Bible approve of it? No.but you people will never quote scriptures that condemns cheating when men cheat, you will always quote the ones that make the woman who is the victim the one who should fix what the man broke, and he is free to live his life as if nothing happened. If it was the woman that cheated you will remember all the scriptures on adultery.
@@blaqhebrew whatever your name is, I don’t need counseling, what is eating me up is people like you romanticizing the suffering of women. You want to keep women defeated and it’s bothering you that people like me exist. You are the one that needs counseling.
I am very proud of the Wife. She stood by her husband through thick and thin. She had the courage to do that because her husband came clean and did not lie to her in the first place. Sometimes the lie is even worse than the sex with another woman. Women have to go through double betrayal just because the men cannot own up to their actions. Good on him that he reported himself first. God bless their union, and devour and devourer for their sake. I pray they continue to hold on to God, and be wise as serpents. The devil is a liar.
Very arrogant man and he will never learn , the wife keeps referring to him as my husband .....desperately holding on to what she perceives to be the best thing in her life. She is not strong enough to let the man learn any consequences.
@@deblog4005 in this public social media space? You lie. If you don't want my opinion, don't comment in public space. Go and get healing and get a husband. This is 2024, no gree for anybody. Feminist local champion 😂
@@blaqhebrew You are chatting a weak mind.. leave her. The interview is self explanatory, and something to learn from. In that same interview, He took responsibility for what happened, the gaps etc. She should divorce, for a single act that He went home, and confessed? These feminist clowns
@@neulite24 exactly what I am trying to point out. You said it all brethren. The guy messed up big time. Like David he admitted his wrongs. And if he's sincere, I'm sure God has forgiven him. But these people all shouting here. Worse than the Pharisees walahi! God help us all.
I really admire and appreciate the wife for her understanding and support. Many would have flared up. If the reverse is the case , would the husband have forgave and keep the family on wholeheartedly??
@@gracegeorge7285 well except you want to make yourself happy, you can believe what is not there. The video didn't say he was going about messing himself up. It was one situation/ incident which he reported to his wife meaning he's not a pro in infidelity. Evidence vindicated him both home and abroad. The seductress of a lady is the riff-raff. She wanted the man to loose his wife and children as she wrote on Twitter, to a riff-raff that can't pass her medical exams without extra seductive tutoring.
Forgiveness is easy in this instance because the husband didn't make attempts to cover up his sins, he took responsibility of his actions.. Hiding it from the wife would have resulted in messier situation... Openess and accountability in marriage is very important
The lady is a psychopath. She began to crush on him even before they were introduced, possibly she intigated the opportunity to meet him. All thanks to the wife for standing firm and applying wisdom.
I know someone who was being harassed by his jilted mistress .....he only realised while being harassed that the lady in question had been following him for months before they even started dating.
@@oluwatoyinroberts don't know if the question was meant for me, but from what I heard she said she invested time on the relationship and he should have chosen her . Apparently that option was NEVER on the table.
Even the lawful captive can be made free, The girl was vulnerable she had mental situations and that should have been enough for him to back out even if she was begging for it . I am happy this family is not broken and many can learn from their journey
I know negativity sells and spreads fast but please try and mix these interviews with positive stories of how people rose above life challenges, excelled in their career etc. We have become so pessimistic even about things that should naturally bring us joy because we listen and watch so much negativity that it's beginning to make us miserable. We have not recovered from Emeka Ike family fiasco, we are already being hit by one man that cheated while watching holy ghost service
Na so o. Me, I just watched it for 2minutes. I am careful about the gateway to my Spirit. The topic irritated me. Anger rose in my Spirit. Holy Ghost Service and immorality. Trust me, I didn't listen. I want Joseph's and Daniels. I guard my heart with all diligence. I don't wait for other people even other Christians to do it for me. We are in the last days, and sex is one of the weapons the enemy is using as distraction. People, even so called Christians are glorifying it, but there is a remnant. If you will be among the remnant you must trust the Holy Spirit above even your family members, before they invite you to defiling birthdays parties. One day, it will be you and God. Your maker, prepare for it. I am waiting for Joseph story. I am tired of people acting as if a marraige must be bad and stressful to work. I want to believe that this can even disgust the Redeemed church. Which one is Holy Ghost Service and temptation again. What about your mates who are keeping themselves Holy and preaching genuinely. Please don't associate that gathering with your actions again. I am begging.
💯...facts. "Negativity sells" One must guard the flow of such coming at one from all directions in this era of social media. Interestingly, I saw this video of an 82 year old woman just a few hours ago also buttressing the need to guard your heart from negativity which ultimately makes people unhappy in life. th-cam.com/users/shorts42Wz6lhah5w?si=LdjlS45-RFfOEC1y
Bro…truth is not negativity. It is a depraved world with a lot of bad things happening and they have to be given attention. Airing it warns others and brings out lessons for others to learn. We have left nursery school since when all we did was see the world through a rose-colored lens listening to make-believe fairy “they lived happily ever” stories, singing kumbaya. Sometimes you can tune off from social media and the news to take breaks like I make sure my teenager sometimes do, if you can’t take the barrage of unpleasant happenings.
@histreasure3189 you are super right. I heard Chude talking and that was it, I just switched off, so I didn't hear the rest, but the topic is explicit enough. It is work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. My mind is not a junk yard. I remember about 2 years ago, someone sent me a video regarding abuse. I deleted immediately. You already told me someone was abused. Why should I watch the video and mess up my spiritual gateways. That is why some people can't have an effective worship and prayer life because the image they watched during the day will not let them rest. They were laughing but they didn't know the devil wasn't joking stamping it in their mind. I am an adult and married but a 1 year old baby can play with my phone. My hair dresser said I made her feel she was watches bad things the other day because I switched the TV off. She put a regular show for children but when it got to a stage of them teaching children wrong things, me I turned it off Children are already seeing the things they did not look for, how can I parent seat down alive and laughing when the world wants you to cry in future. God knows what ever parent does, He watches. The one you have no power over, He will do but the one you have power over, He expects you to act because those children are His, you are the steward. Eli was a Prophet. God said 'Eli has put his children before me' A family that should be a wonder suffered. Templeton starts from thoughts. Guard your heart jealously. You said you are not clearly. What are you setting your heart on.
@@gracegeorge7285 Actually, truth is both negative and positive and neither should be denied however, the way media works is that the negatives get more airplay just because people naturally, gravitate towards any story that has a "shock value" which are mostly, the negative ones. In short, it is more profitable for the media to publish the negative truths while neglecting the positive ones. The media ultimately shapes perception and everyone's "perception" is thier reality. I agree that the individual has the responsibility of moderating what they consume from the media and knowing when to take a break from the negative press.
AdeRONKE is the HERO here. Thank God also that the truthfulness of the man. Eyin oko emashè OTITO emashè ODODO O. At least be truthful. Hmn, some few men and women would package lies upon lies before marriage and inside marriage. Without knowing that only what God joins noone can put asunder. But what lies put together, lies shall definitely put asunder. Beautiful story of LOVE, forgiveness and betrayal and loyalty and truthfulness. During good times your friends knows you but bad times YOU DEFINITELY KNOW YOUR FRIENDS. 💕
At least he was sober and remorseful,my ex had a child outside marriage and came home to tell me with his full chest that I should train my kids to be somebody in life because he now has a son outside,if mine are not cooperating, I don’t know aw I survive till the next morning
May God comfort you. That is painful to deal with. From his mouth to God's ears. Your children will be greater than the son he had outside. I pray that your children will be preserved by the Almighty and used for signs and wonders as the Bible says. They shall have divine favor and the curse of bad husbands like their father shall never be their portion in the name of Jesus 🙌🏽 God bless you and fight for you. Have peace and give it to God.
My dear, dat child may not evn b his own biologically. Do DNA test and thank me later. Somtimes, som side chicks just pin chiren on men 4 their own personal reasons, not bcos d child is his own. Go and do DNA test, u will c d child is not his own
What sense does it make for a person in a position of influence to come out and confess to consensual sex with his suicidal student who you reached out to offer support in their time of need. It may not have been rape but it was definitely unethical and inhumane. And the wife is lousy for appearing beside him to immortalize this evidence. Its today you know, you dont know tomorrow. You might have scaled through this time but watch what happens when u are vying for another teaching position in the future and they remind you that you’re in the habit of sleeping with your students. Yeye dey smell!
My brother you brought this to your self, you don't have any excuse. But I give you kudos for your honesty, sincererity,and still beings sober. I pray God will continue to sustain you
the Wife is the Hero in this story. God please make her happy for the rest of her Life. (in every area. including in her marriage)
Yes she is 🎉
Amen.
God helped her, and Her husband was also open enough, took responsibility.
God heal and preserve their home.
Amen
Amen
@@neulite24Took responsibility and open enough? He was exposed by his shameful act which he actually did! The only thing debated here is if he took it by force or not? This cultural conditioning and male-centering, is unfortunate. Even the women are so conditioned to rather go against the female folk, when the men stray. That is why we hear of “Jezebels” being women or young girls a full grown man(married) actually committed those acts with, but the men are not with fault. Sad
My dear sister❤ your support and calmness should be studied in University.
lol she has to be calm, no point having an attitude if you're not going to leave him, she'd only look more stupid than she already does now.
She’s just an AVERAGE African woman. She should have let her husband NARRATE the story. She’s acting like “Voltron” (defender of the universe). God knows how many other women he slept with before this one became the wrong one. She’s not bothered about him CHEATING, but she’s concerned that the lady “accused him of rape!” She’s nothing, but a mumu woman! I hope he’s learned his lesson & can finally control his “3rd leg!”
Good luck to both of them 😂
The wife knew the kind of man she was married to, he is not a habitual cheat, and that was one reason I believe she stood by him. Man or woman cheating never pays
Well said, she knows who she married.
The main takeaway from this interview is: It's not about the number of times you tune in or attend church service. It's about applying what you are being taught. As Christians, we asked to FLEE from sexual sin. There is NO Strong Man or Strong Woman when it comes to sexual sin.
Watching Holy Ghost service will not save you...RUN from that compromising situation.
Hope the husband has learned his lesson. Peace be unto their homes.
Exactly
Nobody will advising him on that issue again 😂😂
Preach!!
Run oooo, so true… it cannot be emphasized enough!
I hope we will have the same sentiments when a woman cheats on her husband.
EXACTLY 💯 💯 💯 💯
Exactly what i wanted to comment
God!!!!! Like the double standard is disgusting!!!!! This is literally what I wanted to type
It is not always the same when a woman cheats and when a man cheats, when a man cheats, he might never have anything to do with that women again forever, but when a woman cheats it is hard for her to stop seeing same person, men cheats for pleasure sakes, while women cheats emotional reasons.
@@ntamichael9343 this is another angle o... Where is my popcorn and zobo 😂
She's a good woman and he is a humble man. That combination was impossible for Jezebel to break through.
This is why we need to SET BOUNDARIES...to prevent having to fight unnecessary battles.
So so true...
We all struggle in our closets with one secret or the other. My advice... stay true to urself and to ur spouse.
Above all, everyday work out our salvation with fear and trembling. God help us
Did you say "JEZEBEL"???.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You must be PHOOOOOLISH sha.
A GROWN man could not control himself, you dey mention Jezebel.
Na wa.
So the man that willingly cheated on his wife is humble, while the girl he slept with is a jezebel?
Okay oh🤣🤣🤣🤣
IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife?????
The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
Google “Goodness Adeosun FIJ article” before calling the victim a very cruel word as “Jezebel”.
Wow! The wife is a sweet soul and didn't deserve what her husband put her through.
I hope he really really appreciates are for who she is.
I hope she goes for therapy and they both go for counselling because life after a partner cheated is not a walk-in-the-park for the victim, no matter how awesome they are.
Thank God he was vindicated.
I hope the girl faces consequences for falsely accusing him?
That being said, I hope men will learn from this case, that girl couldn’t have had any grounds to accuse him of sexual assault if he had stayed faithful to his wife. Stick to your spouse, una no go hear. See how his career would have been ruined, and guess who suffered that ordeal with him? The wife and children!!
If you like, keep philandering, not every wife will be as forgiving and supportive as this woman here.
PS: bringing your wife to the podcast wasn’t necessary. She forgave and supported you throughout the ordeal. Did you have to humiliate her further by bringing her in front of a camera? What is she trying to prove? You could have done this podcast, and told us about her love and support without bringing her here. Would you have done the podcast with her if the roles were reversed? Dave the woman some dignity oga
Exactly. I kept thinking to myself what was he looking for? Why did he do all of those things? In fact, I watched the video with a lot of anger. I want to hear from the girl. Yes, he was vindicated but let us also hear her side.
It was God communicating to him to be faithful. I'm not mad at her.Anything or anyone that brings you back to God or leads you to it isn't bad even if it seems so
No. It's a wash. He lied, she lied.
@@jd2024-so much anger! Wow! Did a doctor promise to marry you and then broke the promise? Or did you want to become a doctor but it didn't work out well? Here in the US doctors have been disgraced for sexually assaulting others, and I don't think it's any different in the UK. The regulatory body their even seem stricter. If you were sexually assaulted by a doctor in the UK, by all means report them to their regulatory body. You definitely should have evidence. And it doesn't affect you anyway in your "African" community. Don't rush into conclusions in matters you're not privy to.
@@jd2024-Seek healing.
Didn't you hear an investigation was done in the UK? You missed the message the wife read etc...
African always blame women... This is 2024 !!
The man is courageous and a good man to have confessed to his pastor and eventually his his wife. It can't be easy at all. May God restore their marriage and strengthen him. Nobody is above mistake. I am sure he has learnt in a hard way.
Confessed because he probably knew the lady was to come forward with her claims? Ohh ok!
@@gracegeorge7285 which claim...cock and bull story. That even the British see say e no make sense.
IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife?????
The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
@@tdad8683 That's how people fail exam, watch the video again to find out when he confessed. You happen to be the mumu here. If investigation is going on they will work with the service provider to get any deleted messages if need be. If he deleted anything the lady would have provided her own chat and it will show that he deleted things. This investigation was done home and abroad. Think smart.
@@tdad8683 Make una dey try watch and listen before una go dey off. If you had watched and listened, you would have heard the wife mention that he had told her about it immediately it happened.
Nawaoo, women we are trying for this life. I couldn’t do it but una dey try.
Studies have showed women cheat more than men though...😅
Lol. Very true. I pray everyone gives their life to Jesus Christ.
A contrite and a repentant heart is all it takes. Challenges will come but It's really how you able to push through challenges that matters.
CHEATING IS NOT A CHALLENGE BUT A SIN. IT IS INTENTIONAL.
I agree the woman should let the man tell his story himself.
This is how some men bring disgrace to their innocent wife, children and family. This shouldn't have happened if the man was faithful to his wife. QUESTION : Would the man accept back the wife if the case was the reverse? Besides, I am glad that the man was humble and responsible enough to acknowledge his wrong. Please men learn to practice self control. Those HOME WRECKERS ladies out there aim is to only destroy your home and family. Big lesson to learn RESPECT YOUR SPOUSE, RESPECT THE VOW, and above all, FEAR THE ALMIGHTY GOD.
I don’t believe that the women out there are the home wreckers. The man that has a wife and is positioning himself or asking another out is the home wrecker.
@@Avy999 They are both home wrecker ( the man and the side chick). How come you will be smashing a grown man like that without checking whether he is married or not or even ha a girl friend? I do not support any side chicks. Ladies should know better and support the fellow woman by not smashing their man. Look for your own man not eyeing others. Karma is real. Be warned.
Let's all just stop all this judgemental attitude. Please pray it doesn't happen to you.
@@phostv432 What do you call judgement? we are speaking the truth, the fact. If he did not betray his wife, this will not happen in the first place, so we have to call them out, that will help them to stop humiliating the wife and the family. Thank you.
@@extrelason6793
Thank you!
If tables where turned will this man forgive and come and do a podcast?
Never
Exactly my point,Men can't take 1% of the shxt they throw at their women
This isn't the issue of concern here.
kkkkkkkk we will never know sis.
NO
Wow oh wow
In the woman’s mind now she has married well because he’s a doctor. If the roles were reversed, I wonder if the man would stay beside her like that and defend her 😢
It was wrong that the young girl accused the man of rape, but the wife is delusional! Her husband may not be guilty of rape but he is not innocent. He was in a position of power and should have never been having sexual relations with a subordinate. I also have a feeling he told his wife after the act because he knew the young girl would tell on him.
@@JoyFayyou said it all
That man might be innocent of the rape accusation but he is an infidel. The woman is delusional for vouching for the husband and telling his side of the story for him
So you mean that no woman has committed adultery that the husband forgave.
@@JoyFayshe wasn't a young girl. She was an adult otherwise the institution wouldn't have overlooked it. As for the man, kudos to his courage. It's no easy story or confession to make to your wife and nobody is innocent including you.
Doctor thank you for telling your first as fast as you can, that alone helped you a lot, irrespective of her reaction.
It’s the same thing I’ll always say, if you have a partner especially if is a husband or wife legally married to you, stay away from strange men and women they will only bring you down and if God is not so kind destroy your family.
If you don’t go cheating nobody will have the grounds to say you rape or whatever, may God strengthen us to remain faithful to our spouses.
Make una dey discipline una sef for God sake, have some discipline and fear of God bikonu.
And may God give that girl the punishment she deserves.
Let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he falls.
Don't be too trusting of yourself.
There are unguarded moments the devil can get to strike unawares
I applaud the man for being forthright. Of course if the role was reversed, we don't know how this would have played out. No one is above mistake. However, this lady should still go for therapy. God bless you both.
I agree about the therapy thing
IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife?????
The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
@@tdad8683he already told the wife before the matter CAST
@@tdad8683 My sister I no get time to dey read chat. You cheat for your life. The day I catch you omo thats the end. Women think marriage is a throphy and be settling for rubbish. What will people say?
@@tdad8683he confessed immediately it happened. She found out first from her husband
People hate it when wives stand by husbands who go astray. And I wonder why? Marriage is a covenant, not easily broken not even by errors. She is keeping to her marital vows. Yes her husband made an error, but was redeemed. This cord can’t be easily broken not even by Jezebel. Christ is their foundation. When getting married make sure Christ is your foundation. He helps you stay through the storms.
Okay, let me ask you question, if your husband sexually assaults someone are you going to “stand by him” solely because he’s your husband? If he give you a black eye are you going to “keep your marriage vows”? I’m not even saying he raped her, I just want to know where you draw the line since it’s important to stand by your husband. In what situations will you unstand?
@@Wande861 You asked a very important question. Firstly, I didn’t marry someone who can turn to the devil overnight. While making my choice to marry I made sure Christ was our firm foundation. Through prayers and so much more. Before a man becomes whatever he becomes outside, you see the signs at home. The signs are always there, as a Christian woman I watch the gates of my homes, including the life of my husband. Have there been times in the past when I forgot my job and focused on things without eternal values? Yes! Secondly, I said what I said before, I will always stand by my husband. I can’t upstanding him before the whole world. I know the man I married and I know where my strength lies, in God. I will deal with him privately, his spiritual parents will deal with him, I will understand the why and the how of the situation. My dealings with him and within the 4 walls of our home, I will never join the public to put him down, I will do all these because he is submitted to Jesus and there is no situation beyond redemption. In the case of violence, staying away is an option but breaking my vows by publicly speaking ill of him is me speaking ill of myself. Remember we are one.
@@Wande861She will stand by him a lot of women out there hate other women and are allergic to blaming men o many women stand beside their rapist husbands
@@jeshurundaniel794 oh I know this!! That’s why I asked. They’ll do anything for a man. For every woman out there turning a blind eye to your rapist partners, your karma is coming, it doesn’t matter how many times you go to church. You’re evil!!
@@jeshurundaniel794 you again. I understand the lady was given ample opportunities to tell her side of the story both in Nigeria and United Kingdom where I understand she was given a lawyer to help her case. How is it that you still hold on to this your narrative that the man raped the lady? Just to ask, is there something you know that we don't? Please say it while I grab my popcorn and zobo. This year, no gree for anybody o.
All I can see in this story is that he acknowledged & confessed his sins. Remember King David in the Bible.
Sin prosper when we hide it. But when sin is acknowledged and exposed....
Mercy prevails.
Exactly my thoughts. All these people in the comment section acting like Mother Theresa. If we dig into their hidden stories...
True i like this
STORY 4 D GODS
IF THE MATTER NO CAST, would he have confessed to his wife?????
The MUMU WIFE said she went through the chats....😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chats that may have had some parts DELETED.
@@tdad8683the matter did not cast before he confessed to his wife. He confessed to his wife immediately he cheated, he never waited for the wife to find out, and this prepared the mind of the wife when the allegations came up
@@tdad8683Not everybody will think and act like you. Don't display your defunct in attitude and character
Would he have defended her publicly if the script were flipped? She looks drained, exhausted and probably her self esteem has been broken. I recommend individual and couples counselling here. If she ain’t already, self empowered is critically needed….be able self sustain and self sufficient. He seems remorse and took accountability but trust has been broken and we can’t just sweep that under the carpet. This is just an interview, they have to deal and live with this reality on a daily basis and that takes a whole lot of work, patience, grace, humility etc. Staying with a cheating spouse should not be labelled as “HERO” please. She stayed because it benefited her situation and because that is what she choose as her preferred option. That is not heroism, that’s just her decision. On a bigger leave, I wonder if her husband would have gone on a public interview with her if the roles were reversed? I felt a type of way when she took over explaining what happened. She shouldn’t have been talking so much throughout that interview. If needed, her place should have been at the later or very end of that interview. I assume they did the interview so that the husband can clear his name publicly so, allowing the man to take 100% accountability and responsibility was needed. Her interjection right at the start reduced that to some degree.
She simply did what the society expects of her.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
The funny part is that he is PLAYING THE VICTIM.
if you see the girl in question... a very tiny and impressionable human being.
@@tdad8683you know the girl? Bring her here let's here her version please
Bro how do you know she looks "drained" someone that looks so peaceful and relaxed, nawa for una ooo
Is it a crime to celebrate those who handled their marital challenges well and came out better? I could sense if someone here were to face the same challenge, he or she would have called for a divorce. The moral of this story is that the woman is a hero and deserves some accolade for not allowing a third party to destroy her home despite her husband's mistake. Another point is that the man earned his wife's trust, no wonder the woman believed him when he confessed to her.
Dear Chude I hope you get to share a story of a woman who cheated against her husband and confessed. It would be nice to see the husband's reaction to your interview.
Well, the society (particularly, Nigerian society) may be less forgiving or show less grace to women in such instances therefore, I would think most men would not want their wives going public about such.
@@histreasure3189the comparison is even killing me 😂. Number one, she’s probably no longer with her man, society doesn’t go easy on cheating women like that. If they’re still together he probably wouldn’t sit in front of a camera while his wife narrates the story of how she cheated on him. Number two, there’s literally rape involved in this one, it also almost claimed their means of livelihood. And you want him to interview a woman that cheated? That’s a lot of women in the world. But this particular story is unique.
❤hmm
Question is…why is society less forgiving on the woman? And why are we not understanding the perspective/ rationale behind the original poster’s comment? You are that society that continue to perpetuate the double standards and disregard of women even in their marriage, by always cuddling the men no matter how much mess they have made.
@@Wande861why the double standard?
Accepting ones mistake, being accountable and taking responsibility is a plus for them.I love this couple....
These are powerful couple!!! I leant a lot , to be honest it can be anyone. Kudos to the wife especially she deserves the world.
The woman is still traumatized... May God heal her and her home
The trauma is for life, unfortunately. That's the disgrace some men bring to the table.
It is hard to move on from such. May we never be put to Shane Amen.
I have to applaud the wife, she is brave, cheating breaks trust even marriage and if it doesn’t it takes a whole lot to build back what’s lost. May God continue to uphold the home and heal all wounded hearts even Goodness too.
It was easy for her to trust him against because he felt bad about it and confessed to his wife, only responsible man will do that
Please don't say it was EASY.
Cos I can bet you a 100% that it wasn't. Yes she forgave him and God gave her tolhe grace to do so but forgiving and accepting a spouse that cheated us BEVER easy. Shalom
@@judero.p.i
@@judero.p.ia responsible man won’t do it in the first place, y’all play with the word “responsible” a little too much!
@@kimerlyakorah9651 at least he repented and confessed to his wife immediately after he did wrong and that is a responsible thing to do and that is why it was easy for her to forgive him
being responsible does not mean you are perfect, it means you are accountable for your wrong doing and try not to do it again.
That is what I see in this situation @@kimerlyakorah9651
A woman is a hero when she stays with a cheating husband but a man is a "fool" when he stays with a cheating wife.
Life's not fair right
Always.
Very anyhow thing. God forbid
@@judeunuebho6033Thats stupid. Its not about life, its about what naive women choose to put up with. African women especially.
😂 Africa!
I wish i could give this woman a warm big hug. I hope she truly heals from this.
If it was the other way around, that’s the end of the marriage.
I just feel so bad for this woman. Having to hear this tale of her husband’s cheating again and again and now here on this show too 🤦🏾♀️. Long suffering spouse is not a good title..wouldn’t wish it upon anyone.
He will still cheat even after this video. He never change anything.
Humble and he repented admitting his wrong. Kudos to the madam. God bless your genuine love for your husband.
Thank you for sharing this was really inspiring, thank God for directing you to confess. Now I understand the bible verse that says " the truth shall always set u free" and may God almighty bless ur wife she is the real definition of proverbs 12:4.
I hope when your wife committed a sin, I pray you will find it in your heart to forgive her too, nobody is above mistake, the devil is much older than all of us and much much experience, so Dr, be ready to forgive her.
His wife seating there, if roles were reversed would he support her? Men keep getting away with nonsense
Absolutely
Gbam
Some women have cheated and some men have forgiven.
Some men have cheated and some women left the marriage.
Choose your stance.
Not everyone will be the same
I only have one question. Why is the lady the one talking
Yes dey need to ask her how she felt n how she handled it,so dat odas can learn from it.
He wasn't thinking about the impact on his wife and family
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂... The HOLY GHOST CONGRESS was of more importance to the Alleged RAPIST.
God have mercy!!!!
Hey that woman there. Must be grace coz it couldnt be me.
I tell u
It’s not grace, it’s internalized misogyny and one of the symptoms is low self-esteem.
If forgiveness is her choice then so be it. Stop judging. @@JoyFay
The fact that she spoke immediately shows the state of their relationship.
It can't be you. Your decision!
She made hers.
If the tables were turned, hope you say same.
@@JoyFay everything is mysogyny to female clowns.
It's good to be accountable, kudos to this family
Wow, I follow that girl on Twitter and she has been saying she is mentally unstable. I blame the man though, he put his family through this hell. It's so nice hearing his own part of the story. Good men and naivety, just like good women .
Wait, I am hoping this is not Goodness??
@@adeosinjoy6736 it is. Funny thing is i believe Goodness.
@@adeosinjoy6736 I think it's goodness... Of gudie designs
It is Goodness o @@adeosinjoy6736
Even some UCH doctors believed goodness cos d kind of man this guy is…. It’s funny how d wife is saying ‘I know my hisband’
This man is brave to accept his wrongs. Thank God for his wife as well.
Great couple! Greater heights in Jesus name.
He doesn’t seem to care. So many alarming things in this video. He is most concerned about his reputation as opposed to hurting his wife!
Please highlight the alarming things in this video.
Please re-watch the video
Did you watch to the end at all Ma
Are you for real? The fact that he’s blunt and fortright doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. What? Were you expecting him to cry? Oh c’mon man!
This is really amazing, educative, 😢😢, soul lifting, and relieving. A great lesson to be learnt here, this is the level of forgiveness Jesus taught while on earth and we can still see how he forgives us nonmatter the level of atrocities we've committed 😢. All He needs is for you to let go of your past and embrace newness in Him.
Kai, someday, I'll be able to look back and say this video has really helped me heal and overcome my guilt and fears.
God bless this couple for sharing this part of them.
what lesson||||||||||||| lol. this man was cheating for years and finally got caught.
So many women live in a "Fools Paradise." If a woman is going to stay with a cheat say because of the children, make sure you get your finances in order and invest your money on things that matter. Start educating yourself on building your life/finances and plan your exit if your spouse is a habitual cheater.
No! A woman should always invest in herself and get her finances in order, whether her marriage is a going concern or not. Women must find the strength and courage to forgive, heal and forge ahead when they can, and to IMMEDIATELY quit the marriage altogether when they must!
@meekyngum2015 It is easier said than done for a woman to "IMMEDIATELY" leave as you put it. Most women are cheated on when they are creating a family. A woman is likely to be cheated on when she is pregnant or recently had a baby. The changes in the her body, plus the stress of a new born, changes the family dynamics. A man sees this as an opportunity to cheat. When a woman gives birth her career is held back by atleast 2 years because she is mostly focused on her child. She certainly needs time to restrategize, rebuild her finances and plan her exist so that, she doesn't return to her cheating husband. If not she will be ill prepared to do life on her own with her kids. It will only be wise to stop having kids with an habitual cheater, while you plan your exist and rebuild your life.
He is smiling… would he have stayed with the wife if the table turned?
I think he should be asked to hear his response.
Stay ke? Nigerian men are not that foolish 😂😂
@@olujonzin indeed 😀
Did you not hear the part that he felt bad and told his wife about the cheating, or you just don’t want to accept the fact that there are good men and women out there, you were expecting to hear they divorced but they are still happy in the marriage, there are good marriages only for good and responsible people
Instead of you to pay attention and lean from the situation but you are looking for who to blame, that’s why people like you have problems in marriage
A story of true grace, forgiveness & mercy. This is why those dragging the lady on Twitter for saying she wakes up to cook at 5 for her husband because a female colleague brought him spoon to share her lunch with him don’t understand the sacrifice it sometimes takes to guard a marriage. Like this husband said , it started with smaller innocent gifts and gestures, and he should’ve stopped it from the start, but many of us are very unaware and too nice to think evil of nice gestures, but in marriage you have to. Thank God he communicated it to his wife and thank God for such a woman that understands the marriage assignment. The devil is the enemy and we wage war against his vices, not our spouse.
Thank you and God bless madam.
Always the devil…that’s why we never take accountability for our actions as Christians. The devil will not thrive where there is discipline and self control on your part.
I think you should have asked the dr himself to start with narrating the story as wife is only narrating hearsay . Not that her narration is wrong but it would have been better to hear from the accused himself.
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Sounded cringe to me hearing her narrate the story as if her husband cannot speak. We shouldn’t have heard from her till later or the very end of the interview. Would he stand by her in an interview and do the same if the script were flipped?
Even in the law court, it's not necessary for the accused to testify first.
@@josephinechannel9697 we’re talking about self worth here you’re talking about court of law. Omo, I see you everywhere making excuses for the man. I hope in future your daughters love themselves. You on the other hand, you can be the doormat you desperately want to be.
Chude is a professional. He started with his wife to give the man confidence to talk about it because he noticed the man was kind of shy of starting it.
@@beautyexpert6481 This ain’t about Chude. I’m sure the couple (specifically the Dr husband) came for the interview to clear his name publicly and to clarify that the case has been throughly investigated and he was found innocent of the accusation. So why hide under your wife? Was she there when the incident happened? Most of the information she knows is hearsay (indirect) If he was man enough to do the act, he should be man enough to explain himself both publicly and privately. As a man, he is the head of the family, plus he was the one who cheated. Allowing the wife lead/narrate the story only comes across as if he is hiding. Or as if their is more to the story. I wish Chude allowed the husband narrate the incident from the start. His wife really only needed to have been their to stand as a United front for publicly, and if needed she could chip in here and their, very loosely. Or express herself at the tail end of the interview.
Unfortunately, these kind of accusations always leave a stain on the accused even when found innocent. May 5mins of enjoyment not cause use irreputable damage….AMEN!
Dude secured a trophy marrying this woman. I wish they all have learnt from this. My brother go home and enjoy your marriage. Sin no more. The Samaritan woman that Jesus met was an adulterer with 5 husbands but became an evangelist the day she met Jesus. I love this couple. I am married 19yrs and this is what I tell people. If there is love and forgiveness any marriage will work.
Cheating is very dangerous. Especially if you're been seduced by the woman..some of them can be agents sent to destroy your destiny.
Some MEN actually want their destinies to be DESTROYED.... believe me.
How else do we explain A RECKLESS LIFESTYLE????
Men should embibe accountability and self control and stop looking for who to blame for their infidelity
This woman needs to heal properly as much as she probably must have forgiven him .From her look, she's drained both psychologically and physical.I also feel she got angry not only because of the flimsiness of the chats she read but because her trust was broken.
She looks absolutely drained. It’s well
Wouldn’t you have been angry?
Emphasis on trust broken
@anamasonyechinwe3572 she has always been like this o. We were roommate in Uni. She was a year below.
@@bamitaleroseline5403tell them ooo, awon body language observer, like I'm wondering how do they know she's not happy and she looks drain.
He’s even smiling when the wife talks about going through their chat 😢
I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed it. He was smiling oo 😩😩😩 these men are crazy
@@missruzl14 crazy for real 😳
Makes him look guilty or at least like a sadist who is obsessed with self
@@oluseyi9196 Honestly. It’s so wicked
It means they are healed and stronger
I'm not sure stories of cheating and forgiveness are meant to be shared, they always sound a type of way, we all need grace of God sha. .
It is good they share,young couples can learn one or two things from them....how to handle issues and heal
The victim is always obvious and it's more painful when the guilty isn't as bothered or in pain as the victim.
How can you be in isolated environment with a woman who is not your wife. The side chick saw him as a weak soul.
The man himself was BRAINLESS
Let’s not forget that she was 21 too, it happened on her 21st birthday. She was admitted to the psych ward out of shock.
@@Wande861 And Goodness Father discharged him the next day? And The Psychiatrist lady went to the gynae 2 days after??
Pls make your story make sense.
In her story, She was admitted after Her first rape, not with this Dr.
Also how does a man undress a 21 year old lady in a bar and have intercourse on a floor??
No now?
What do you make of the evidences presented by both parties to vindicate him?
Yes, U don't trust Nigeria UCH, UK nko?
He messed up, agreed. But there is Redemption when you Repent.
Let's understand that emotional disorders exist.
There were inconsistenies in the girl's narrative.
She was good at whipping up sentiments on social media.
I suppose you know the story of the guy who acted Jack Sparrow in Pirate of the Carribean and his wife.
Yimu,see his face he will still cheat .See how automated his wife looks poor woman
What a show of shame! Did they have to bring the poor wife in front of the camera and be poking her wounds? She's hurting!
Thank you. She is extremely exhausted. She looked like a woman that was beautiful but became drained and stressed by His mess.
Sin causes a destiny to sink, watching the Holy Ghost service and sinning at the same time was all the devil needed to destroy him, thank God for a second chance
Let us reverse the case, if na the woman?? The man go sit dey get this kind conversation with her?? This life sha!😮😮
If it was the woman and she immediately told her husband like the man did, and the man truly loves her, he'll forgive, stand by her and YES, they'll be having this conversation. Stop being biased and negative, simply learn from the story, like so many, and stop sowing the wrong seeds in people's mind with that kind of talk.
She’s a little delusional about her husband. “I know my husband”. The truth is that the student was clinically depressed. Your husband knew that and while the girl was crying on the shoulder he provided, they had sex. Now the question is in her unstable mental condition, did he use good judgement in doing anything with her? He is a medical doctor so the signs should have been obvious. I think the girl truly believes that he took advantage of her when she was low mentally. I think the thing is really if she was in a mental state were she could not effectively consent. I don’t know. However, madam your husband was well aware of this woman’s mental situation and while I applaud you guys working to save your marriage, you are not being realistic about what happened.
This is the comment I have been looking for...thank you. He had no business having sex with that girl please.
The two of you are categorically STUPID
I agree
Thank you very much for this comment.
I remember that when the story broke out the girl had done a test that showed forced penetration. I think it is strange that that aspect of the allegation was not acknowledged
This is a conversation thay every young man seek wisdom for chastity should watch again and again. Glad i did
You did well by confessing to tour wife, i pray God heals her and make her to forget about this tragedy!!!!
This is what happens when your wife is your friend and your friend is your supporter. She took herself out of the picture, for for his healing, then put her trust in God. Thank God for this story and how God help them both. I salute their courage
Y’all screaming like the school girl is the only one at fault. He cheated on his wife!! He’s WRONG, if a woman cheated. You wouldn’t be screaming her praises like you’re screaming this guy’s praises
Thank you o.
He cheated, it takes two to tango and shouldn't have dragged his entire family into it.
I did not hear him denying that he cheated. He actually took responsibility and said he should have stopped her when she started making advances.
The man should have narrated his own story, the woman wasn't there but read chats. "I kind of know my husband". But your husain went after someone. 😮
As in ehhhh....
Supportive wife oshi.
@@tdad8683😂 Nigerian women will die for marriage.
@@tdad8683I wonder o. If I can't cheat,then you shouldn't. Simple.
How can she defend him when she wasn't there. Horrible
The man should be the one talking . Why is the woman speaking for the husband.
Half way into this conversation; but I am curious… did Chidi ask Mr Anthony if he had previously had sex with other people outside his marriage prior to this?
I am KINDA disappointed at chude for this particular interview.
He seems to have believed the man COMPLETELY even before the interview.
A good interviewer should APPEAR not to TAKE SIDES.
I think this interview was based on the investigation outcome from the UK so it's not like Chude is taking sides in my opinion.
@@blaqhebrew outcome????
Has the girl in question been interviewed????
@@tdad8683 apparently she was invited to give her version to the UK body wasn't she?
@@blaqhebrew version in UK, for an incident that happened in BODIJA, Ibadan?????
Madam, you need to stand up!! Cheat back or even if you want to forgive, don't join him on a podcast as per understanding wife. Let him do the press tour on his own. After all, you were not there when him and his student were having each other.
Poor counsel; she pardoned her spouse, and he expressed remorse, confessing the incident promptly.
She doesn’t have to cheat back but I agree with you on not following him on a cheating tour
You really need help, people like you can't have successful homes
You simply don’t understand the covenant marriage is.
Press tour😂😂😂😂
@Chude
Please you might need to investigate further. No one should be carried away by first to do a show effect which I think the narrator might be taking an advantage of. The pathologist report written by the Late Prof Clement Okolo of the Department of Pathology of the same UCH affirmed the sexual act was forceful. So I personally don't get the narration being pushed here, like he is trying to do damage control, attract public sympathy, paint himself innocent or what???
This! Please it should be investigated...this is just damage control
Not that I'm saying he is innocent or not but if a woman means to bring you down, she can go all out.....there are ways to create the appearance of a forceful intercourse
After all the investigations and report from the UK. Please rest.
Just tired of you... Investigation after 2 years UK Cleared him?
@@IfeomaEkesiobi it’s still possible. You rest!! The UK has had a lot of shaky rape investigations.
That gurl needs to be punished accusing a man falsely of rape is very wrong what kind of wickedness is this as in , The lady needs to thought a lesson.
Really?? Did the man not cheat on his wife? What punishment did you prescribe for that?
He is guilty. Let’s not be naive. Investigate the case well
@@Avy999 the man accepted that he cheated on his wife. The girl should be punished for lying that she was raped when she wasn’t. Did you know the guy could have been wrongly jailed for a crime he didn’t commit? Common! He slept with her, not raped her. Two entirely different things! First sex in a bar, the girl riding him from top! lol. You all are funny.
@@NyLonLag Mumu. Case that was investigated in Nigeria and uk yet you’re saying investigate the case. Are you so daft? Must you comment on topics you know nothing about?
The woman is giving Derrick Jaxn ex wife vibes aka helmet of salvation.... This is really giving Derrick Jaxn vibes seriously
Exactly! I won’t be surprised if that wasn’t the first time he cheated.
His body language is so disgusting. Watch him throughout, no eye contact with anyone. Smh
Husband and wife deceiving themselves! Shame
@Sacred_Wallh his ashamed of himself, it not easy to walk down bitter memory Lane.
They even look alike 🥲
Thank God he told his wife & the pastor, thank God he was truthful and straightforward at first. People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy. May we continue to have self control and depend on the Holy Spirt to guide us every step of the way!
I just pray that this poor woman is happy cause her facial expressions says a lot,please she should go for therapy 😢
Haba someone that looks peaceful na person wey you dey analyse for therapy, nawa for our generation oo
She looks very sad and down-trodden. He’s done this before multiple times…this is just the first time he was publicly shamed for it with rape allegations. Bless her. I pray she finds strength to live a healthier life.
Haha this is a wild assumption. The guy seems like a guy who fell
Down trodden? She doesn’t look down trodden. Do you even know the meaning of down trodden? This is a couple that are baring it all in public. You talk as if he has raped you before or someone you know. Like you’re so sure. Please be empathic to what they have been through. They are a great couple. That’s what marriage is about. Forgiveness and watching each others back.
"He's done this before multiple times" 😂😂😂😂, social media is funny, you actually know him before right?! 😂😂😂
Someone said her husband came back that day to confess the event before the lady even started the accusations and you are saying whatever tr*sh you saying.
You wanted the woman to be you abi?
Pls stop this . What sort of assumption is this? Haba???
If the story was the other way round, will he be there?? Bringing her there was not necessary too...
Poor lady. Helmet of salvation 🫠
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Lol....real helmet of salvation....war room woman
Stopeet!😂😂😂
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It good to be a Christian, he fell but repeated immediately and confess, David said rejoice not against me o my enemies for if i fall I shall arise when I sit in darkness the lord shall be a light unto me, that lady actually came to truncate Gods place for Ur life but glory be to God who helped you it's a lesson to every one to be careful not fall for cheap offer. God bless for sharing sir
I'm sending love and light to them.
This man is a good and responsible man. I commend him for being honest and taking responsibility.
I respect his wife, her kind is rare. I have learnt a lot from this video
Lol girl why are you there? He made his bed, let him do this disgraceful press tour on his own.
For those of you saying she’s strong…she is not.
I think she's strong though. She's not like this broken coconut generation.
Lol oh please. Black women need to work on their self esteem. There’s nothing strong about being a doormat, taking a abuse (yes cheating is abuse), and allowing a man treat you however he likes. She is weak. You can watch her body language and see that she’s not the most confident woman.
@jeseiey412 shut up you are ignorant
She's so weak, the man would definitely not respect her
@@blaqhebrew😂😂😂
This an awesome story
It's good to be open minded.
I can relate,went through the same thing in my marriage.Marriage,marriage,my husband went to court too
We need to see the screenshot of the conversation.
just a mistake,can ruin everything.this woman may ur days be long
Thank you daughter of zion for standing by your husband and not abandoning your home and ministry. May the Lord uphold you both and strengthen you. It's not over yet. May the lord grant you wisdom. Remember: The wise woman builds her house...Prov 14 v 1.
Stop misquoting scriptures to suit your culture and nurture.that verse doesn’t mean a woman should condone cheating. When will men be ever held accountable in our culture for cheating? When? Does the Bible approve of it? No.but you people will never quote scriptures that condemns cheating when men cheat, you will always quote the ones that make the woman who is the victim the one who should fix what the man broke, and he is free to live his life as if nothing happened. If it was the woman that cheated you will remember all the scriptures on adultery.
@@Avy999 lol, daughter of Zion, good woman, virtuous woman, they love to hear all these things. Leave people like this alone oo.
@@Wande861you need counselling and help to heal from whatever is eating you up.
@@blaqhebrew whatever your name is, I don’t need counseling, what is eating me up is people like you romanticizing the suffering of women. You want to keep women defeated and it’s bothering you that people like me exist. You are the one that needs counseling.
Don't mind the narcissistic lot? @@Wande861
"May our loyalty not be tested"
I am very proud of the Wife. She stood by her husband through thick and thin. She had the courage to do that because her husband came clean and did not lie to her in the first place. Sometimes the lie is even worse than the sex with another woman. Women have to go through double betrayal just because the men cannot own up to their actions. Good on him that he reported himself first. God bless their union, and devour and devourer for their sake. I pray they continue to hold on to God, and be wise as serpents. The devil is a liar.
Very arrogant man and he will never learn , the wife keeps referring to him as my husband .....desperately holding on to what she perceives to be the best thing in her life. She is not strong enough to let the man learn any consequences.
Your problem is that a woman is refering to her husband as my husband. Would you rather she referred to him as your husband? Get a life sis.
@@blaqhebrew pls try your best to never reply to my comments or give me ur unsolicited opinion.
@@deblog4005 in this public social media space? You lie. If you don't want my opinion, don't comment in public space. Go and get healing and get a husband. This is 2024, no gree for anybody. Feminist local champion 😂
@@blaqhebrew You are chatting a weak mind.. leave her.
The interview is self explanatory, and something to learn from.
In that same interview, He took responsibility for what happened, the gaps etc.
She should divorce, for a single act that He went home, and confessed?
These feminist clowns
@@neulite24 exactly what I am trying to point out. You said it all brethren. The guy messed up big time. Like David he admitted his wrongs. And if he's sincere, I'm sure God has forgiven him. But these people all shouting here. Worse than the Pharisees walahi! God help us all.
I really admire and appreciate the wife for her understanding and support. Many would have flared up. If the reverse is the case , would the husband have forgave and keep the family on wholeheartedly??
Kudos to the wife too. I cannot abandon my marriage for any rifraf because of something like this too.
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A husband that can go about messing themselves around like this, in ACTUAL ‘seggscapades’
is the riff-raff.
@@gracegeorge7285exactly sis your husband is the riff raff not the woman if you like no abandon the marriage till he gives innocent you an STD
@@gracegeorge7285 well except you want to make yourself happy, you can believe what is not there. The video didn't say he was going about messing himself up. It was one situation/ incident which he reported to his wife meaning he's not a pro in infidelity. Evidence vindicated him both home and abroad. The seductress of a lady is the riff-raff. She wanted the man to loose his wife and children as she wrote on Twitter, to a riff-raff that can't pass her medical exams without extra seductive tutoring.
Forgiveness is easy in this instance because the husband didn't make attempts to cover up his sins, he took responsibility of his actions..
Hiding it from the wife would have resulted in messier situation...
Openess and accountability in marriage is very important
One thing I love about this man is being truthful and swift to tell this woman.This is what remorse should do as a Christian,the devil is a bastard
The lady is a psychopath. She began to crush on him even before they were introduced, possibly she intigated the opportunity to meet him.
All thanks to the wife for standing firm and applying wisdom.
I know someone who was being harassed by his jilted mistress .....he only realised while being harassed that the lady in question had been following him for months before they even started dating.
Have you heard her side of the story?
@@oluwatoyinroberts don't know if the question was meant for me, but from what I heard she said she invested time on the relationship and he should have chosen her . Apparently that option was NEVER on the table.
Shebi the man is a child? He doesn't know how to flee?
@@adaugosincerely speaking
Even the lawful captive can be made free, The girl was vulnerable she had mental situations and that should have been enough for him to back out even if she was begging for it . I am happy this family is not broken and many can learn from their journey
This woman has forgiven her husband, but she is srill very HURT.
It will take a while though.
She can forgive....She can't forget.
Precisely not forget xx
Thanks for sharing your story. Wao!
U really have a good wife. I hope this is a lesson learned from other men. I hope they learned from this
Trust is the best virtue in any relationship. trust fought and won the battle for the couple. good to watch each other's back always.
I know negativity sells and spreads fast but please try and mix these interviews with positive stories of how people rose above life challenges, excelled in their career etc. We have become so pessimistic even about things that should naturally bring us joy because we listen and watch so much negativity that it's beginning to make us miserable. We have not recovered from Emeka Ike family fiasco, we are already being hit by one man that cheated while watching holy ghost service
Na so o. Me, I just watched it for 2minutes. I am careful about the gateway to my Spirit. The topic irritated me. Anger rose in my Spirit. Holy Ghost Service and immorality. Trust me, I didn't listen. I want Joseph's and Daniels. I guard my heart with all diligence. I don't wait for other people even other Christians to do it for me. We are in the last days, and sex is one of the weapons the enemy is using as distraction. People, even so called Christians are glorifying it, but there is a remnant. If you will be among the remnant you must trust the Holy Spirit above even your family members, before they invite you to defiling birthdays parties. One day, it will be you and God. Your maker, prepare for it. I am waiting for Joseph story. I am tired of people acting as if a marraige must be bad and stressful to work. I want to believe that this can even disgust the Redeemed church. Which one is Holy Ghost Service and temptation again. What about your mates who are keeping themselves Holy and preaching genuinely. Please don't associate that gathering with your actions again. I am begging.
💯...facts. "Negativity sells" One must guard the flow of such coming at one from all directions in this era of social media. Interestingly, I saw this video of an 82 year old woman just a few hours ago also buttressing the need to guard your heart from negativity which ultimately makes people unhappy in life. th-cam.com/users/shorts42Wz6lhah5w?si=LdjlS45-RFfOEC1y
Bro…truth is not negativity. It is a depraved world with a lot of bad things happening and they have to be given attention. Airing it warns others and brings out lessons for others to learn. We have left nursery school since when all we did was see the world through a rose-colored lens listening to make-believe fairy “they lived happily ever” stories, singing kumbaya. Sometimes you can tune off from social media and the news to take breaks like I make sure my teenager sometimes do, if you can’t take the barrage of unpleasant happenings.
@histreasure3189 you are super right. I heard Chude talking and that was it, I just switched off, so I didn't hear the rest, but the topic is explicit enough. It is work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. My mind is not a junk yard. I remember about 2 years ago, someone sent me a video regarding abuse. I deleted immediately. You already told me someone was abused. Why should I watch the video and mess up my spiritual gateways. That is why some people can't have an effective worship and prayer life because the image they watched during the day will not let them rest. They were laughing but they didn't know the devil wasn't joking stamping it in their mind. I am an adult and married but a 1 year old baby can play with my phone. My hair dresser said I made her feel she was watches bad things the other day because I switched the TV off. She put a regular show for children but when it got to a stage of them teaching children wrong things, me I turned it off
Children are already seeing the things they did not look for, how can I parent seat down alive and laughing when the world wants you to cry in future. God knows what ever parent does, He watches. The one you have no power over, He will do but the one you have power over, He expects you to act because those children are His, you are the steward. Eli was a Prophet. God said 'Eli has put his children before me' A family that should be a wonder suffered. Templeton starts from thoughts. Guard your heart jealously. You said you are not clearly. What are you setting your heart on.
@@gracegeorge7285 Actually, truth is both negative and positive and neither should be denied however, the way media works is that the negatives get more airplay just because people naturally, gravitate towards any story that has a "shock value" which are mostly, the negative ones. In short, it is more profitable for the media to publish the negative truths while neglecting the positive ones. The media ultimately shapes perception and everyone's "perception" is thier reality. I agree that the individual has the responsibility of moderating what they consume from the media and knowing when to take a break from the negative press.
AdeRONKE is the HERO here. Thank God also that the truthfulness of the man. Eyin oko emashè OTITO emashè ODODO O. At least be truthful.
Hmn, some few men and women would package lies upon lies before marriage and inside marriage. Without knowing that only what God joins noone can put asunder. But what lies put together, lies shall definitely put asunder.
Beautiful story of LOVE, forgiveness and betrayal and loyalty and truthfulness.
During good times your friends knows you but bad times YOU DEFINITELY KNOW YOUR FRIENDS. 💕
At least he was sober and remorseful,my ex had a child outside marriage and came home to tell me with his full chest that I should train my kids to be somebody in life because he now has a son outside,if mine are not cooperating, I don’t know aw I survive till the next morning
Hmmmm nawa, it’s the Society unfortunately this generation are also following suit
May God comfort you. That is painful to deal with. From his mouth to God's ears. Your children will be greater than the son he had outside.
I pray that your children will be preserved by the Almighty and used for signs and wonders as the Bible says. They shall have divine favor and the curse of bad husbands like their father shall never be their portion in the name of Jesus 🙌🏽 God bless you and fight for you. Have peace and give it to God.
I pray that God will vindicate you this new year 2024.
My dear, dat child may not evn b his own biologically. Do DNA test and thank me later.
Somtimes, som side chicks just pin chiren on men 4 their own personal reasons, not bcos d child is his own.
Go and do DNA test, u will c d child is not his own
This woman speaks intelligently , Great Couple , peoples are wicked oooooo ,that girl deserves prison.. Am sure this woman is a Prayerful woman.
What sense does it make for a person in a position of influence to come out and confess to consensual sex with his suicidal student who you reached out to offer support in their time of need. It may not have been rape but it was definitely unethical and inhumane. And the wife is lousy for appearing beside him to immortalize this evidence. Its today you know, you dont know tomorrow. You might have scaled through this time but watch what happens when u are vying for another teaching position in the future and they remind you that you’re in the habit of sleeping with your students. Yeye dey smell!
You are correct. However the story in contention is consensual s3x or rape. The issue of teacher versus student is another one.
My brother you brought this to your self, you don't have any excuse.
But I give you kudos for your honesty, sincererity,and still beings sober.
I pray God will continue to sustain you
Oh wow, God bless you Aderonke. I do love you.