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  • @bckazee
    @bckazee ปีที่แล้ว +12942

    This is true. I used to run my mouth all over the place when i was younger. I've learned the value of silence. Silence allows a woman to be more discerning. A woman with discernment is a powerful thing.

    • @Dwayneleroux89
      @Dwayneleroux89 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Sooooo pretty 🎉

    • @Queen360_Crown
      @Queen360_Crown ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Agreed!

    • @metaLungiez
      @metaLungiez ปีที่แล้ว +31

      👑

    • @NoNotMe0000
      @NoNotMe0000 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      "I used to run my mouth all over the place when I was younger"😅 classic female!

    • @censorship2236
      @censorship2236 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      True... But that isn't the primary value of a "Silent Woman..." It's not necessarily for her personal Aggrandizement. But for service to others. Meaning, your discernment only benefits you. However, your ability to *"LISTEN"* benefits the whole!

  • @TheProfessor1908
    @TheProfessor1908 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +861

    Learning to be silent and learning self control is a valuable attribute for everyone.

    • @sunsetwavey
      @sunsetwavey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Exactly

    • @orlandoviera3898
      @orlandoviera3898 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤Exactly ❤

    • @rosalagniton2348
      @rosalagniton2348 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Right right I was just thinking the same thing like wouldn't any healthy human need to learn both???

    • @alexgatess
      @alexgatess 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Learning to silence yourself is self control I'm not to sure If this lady thought this was some wise unheard of advice 💀

    • @naeneco
      @naeneco 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This !

  • @Marie-or8uj
    @Marie-or8uj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    Correct! Being silenced is different from being silent. That’s powerful!

  • @fsxmantra
    @fsxmantra 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Silence is golden... at the appropriate time. 😊

    • @IntheMOMENT22173
      @IntheMOMENT22173 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      right, but not always. I also think we have to look at the energy that people are embodying as there are men in their feminine energy and women in their masculine energy that can easily take on these roles as well.

  • @dukeravenshadow5532
    @dukeravenshadow5532 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1611

    “If you don't heal what hurt you, you'll bleed on people who didn't cut you.” ~Anonymous

  • @gsii1573
    @gsii1573 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1743

    This young woman is a breath of fresh air wise and elegant

    • @halleyostrander7371
      @halleyostrander7371 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Style & Grace ❤

    • @cannacare777
      @cannacare777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Sounds like she had a good father

    • @yes7639
      @yes7639 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@cannacare777and mother

    • @MicaS145
      @MicaS145 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ye she seems like a brilliant person

    • @kabysummit5801
      @kabysummit5801 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      She’s probably all that. But literally a copycat as well. A typical social media modern day talking head.
      Good but not original.

  • @adrielrichardson-lz2ut
    @adrielrichardson-lz2ut 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Her quiet strength is her greatest asset..

    • @RunawayArtistX
      @RunawayArtistX 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Those words🔥 so full of wisdom

  • @AnimalLover-dw2wu
    @AnimalLover-dw2wu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Deep thoughts from a young woman.

  • @DanielDias33333
    @DanielDias33333 ปีที่แล้ว +4174

    I don't think I've heard anything better than this in a long time. That beautiful young lady nailed it

    • @elg281
      @elg281 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Not really

    • @errollharper2061
      @errollharper2061 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Definitely...

    • @johnwatsonjr3695
      @johnwatsonjr3695 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      EL G ...Really! Come on!

    • @brianhutcheson3965
      @brianhutcheson3965 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah that hit me cause I was that man she’s talking about and I been with women that was like that to so yeah she no wat she talking about

    • @JohnJohn-bi6lh
      @JohnJohn-bi6lh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here.

  • @chatwat7832
    @chatwat7832 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    😮 self control is a flex. Silence is wisdom.

    • @ernestinetodd7744
      @ernestinetodd7744 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Silence is golden staying positive and prayed up kelelah

    • @Mindsetmovement.2
      @Mindsetmovement.2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ernestinetodd7744 “The best way to predict the future is to create it." - Abraham Lincoln

    • @josephatherley86
      @josephatherley86 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      CORRECT 💯💯💯

  • @RaffineDebauche
    @RaffineDebauche 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    My granny said this way back in the day…little boys, watch your hands and little girls, watch your mouths. Shout out to my granny 🙏🏾

  • @misterreesco1759
    @misterreesco1759 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She gets it. Only the holy spirit can have her speak with this amount of wisdom and truth. Women and men should line up to learn this blessesd truth.Continue to light it up my sista!.

  • @hughbrown2990
    @hughbrown2990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1810

    I love messages like this, it's not coming from a bias stand point but a balanced one.👏🏿

    • @witchysass1003
      @witchysass1003 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yup that's what I was thinking

    • @user-pf7sx4kv7f
      @user-pf7sx4kv7f 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm brown

    • @arthurrobinson4644
      @arthurrobinson4644 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True

    • @alr_ok__I_get_it
      @alr_ok__I_get_it 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@user-pf7sx4kv7f this has nothing to do with the video or the comment so why say it

    • @boxcarbandit2098
      @boxcarbandit2098 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@alr_ok__I_get_itbecause their entire life revolves on race instead of anything of real importance like content of character.

  • @hmonsta1189
    @hmonsta1189 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    I'm glad she wasn't silent about this....pure FACTS!!

    • @shyguymuzik9095
      @shyguymuzik9095 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She was completely silent until I scrolled into this video. She waited for the right opportunity to speak 😊

    • @TownBizz9600
      @TownBizz9600 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nigga, stop simpin she not speaking facts at all that shit ain't real life.. nigga u just simpin off the way she saying the shit😂

    • @WIZZYDAN
      @WIZZYDAN ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@shyguymuzik9095 If a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it,does that mean the tree didn't fall 😂

    • @shyguymuzik9095
      @shyguymuzik9095 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WIZZYDAN 🤣🤣🤣

    • @dealwolfstriked272
      @dealwolfstriked272 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She need to tell black women the truth....men like femininity.The black woman is like a man yelling and screaming and thuggin and they wonder why the black men dont like them.....their wisdom!

  • @warrendraw5142
    @warrendraw5142 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is an intelligent woman.

  • @shaolinqueen3684
    @shaolinqueen3684 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    When a person is broken.......stay away from them.

  • @KristianGibran
    @KristianGibran 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1061

    Protect this woman at all costs! ❤👏🏾

    • @marvinchanchu2403
      @marvinchanchu2403 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      If wisdom was a person

    • @DataMind-xd7xm
      @DataMind-xd7xm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hear, hear!

    • @jit4312
      @jit4312 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      From whom??

    • @acoleman8783
      @acoleman8783 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You know what, I have nothing to add to your comment

    • @LOVELY_DAY_69
      @LOVELY_DAY_69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes fack her ❤ her genes need to be scattered

  • @cincrystal
    @cincrystal 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +410

    This is so true! As a woman I have always been a quiet person but in all my years of living I've realized that my silence has been my biggest strength at times. My silence has kept me out of a lot of trouble. I'm always observing even when people think I'm not paying them no attention.

    • @jiblalgautam1408
      @jiblalgautam1408 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great thanks mem, from Nepal

    • @td2222
      @td2222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I observe people who assume I'm not aware of them observing me.

    • @EsterKashihalww
      @EsterKashihalww 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The new me..silent is peace

    • @MaxineShaw-de7bh
      @MaxineShaw-de7bh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've always been observant even when I was a little girl and I still do it to this day.

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the things I hear when they think I’m not listening or just used to me being quiet or think I can’t put 2 and 2 together….😊Lucky for them I have the self control to keep it to myself and keep it moving

  • @AlphaFemale2.0
    @AlphaFemale2.0 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I can’t wait till I find a man that I wanna let speak till I’m spoken to that is goals, that is true respect and admiration in a relationship.

  • @timothym.salley3602
    @timothym.salley3602 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Thats real talk from a Black Queen 👸 Salute to you and God bless 🙏

  • @noexcuses4494
    @noexcuses4494 ปีที่แล้ว +749

    This black queen is speaking facts 👏

    • @LadydogC
      @LadydogC ปีที่แล้ว +67

      She is a lovely young woman, no need to mention she is black. Doing so keeps the problems going foward. Not doing it leaves the problems behind. In this way we move foward united.

    • @metaLungiez
      @metaLungiez ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ​@@LadydogCYea, if we don't talk about racism the racists will stop being racist on their own.

    • @GlobalGangTrippy
      @GlobalGangTrippy ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@LadydogC its ok you secretly don't like to see black folks given their praise. You're the problem.

    • @c.wsnow_
      @c.wsnow_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LadydogC THANK YOUU!

    • @MajthebigG
      @MajthebigG ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@LadydogCyou're the one who brought it up

  • @Enigma1990ad
    @Enigma1990ad 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +398

    When a man feels the coldness of being broken he will set the world on fire to feel warmth. This woman gets it!

    • @sfr2107
      @sfr2107 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Can you elaborate on that?

    • @alexlilley2805
      @alexlilley2805 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      ​@@sfr2107 My interpretation of the original post as a man is that when we are broken we search for things to fill that void and bring the warmth of being whole again. At this point it doesn't matter where it comes from as long as we get what we want. Our decisions aren't made with a clear mind because the focus is to feel good again.

    • @dexterroberts631
      @dexterroberts631 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      ​@@sfr2107 ha, he stole this from an African proverb : if a child is not loved from the village, he will as an adult burn it down to feel it's warmth "

    • @befuddledb
      @befuddledb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@sfr2107 Escobar felt chilly, though his daughter must be freezing, set 2mil on fire! 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @estilonoriega8700
      @estilonoriega8700 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He ain't going set no world in no fire, the firefighters will show up

  • @poppyshoessp
    @poppyshoessp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She's correct. To bad many of the woman will look at her and call her the very thing they call me. Mammie! It's power in our silence. I'm embarrassed by the woman I see today.

  • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
    @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Who is This Young Woman? I Want To Meet Her. A Young Woman With That Much Wisdom is Rare.

  • @toddtollfree5659
    @toddtollfree5659 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    They say it's better to remain silent and be thought a fool...than to speak and remove all doubts....

    • @MukoroJr
      @MukoroJr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      *thoughtful you mean😅

    • @jokergreen2053
      @jokergreen2053 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MukoroJr😂

    • @faxe1155
      @faxe1155 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@Yung Muko I can't tell if you're joking. They said what they meant. No hate.

    • @MukoroJr
      @MukoroJr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@faxe1155 I just understood it now omg. Im completely wrong

    • @MukoroJr
      @MukoroJr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@faxe1155 Thank you for allowing to think further.

  • @medbenotmane8526
    @medbenotmane8526 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    The most beautiful and wise words I've ever heard from a living lady so far. May the Lord bless her and all her beloved.

    • @the8thchurch461
      @the8thchurch461 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I knew this has to do with religion. A silent woman? They want to silence her so that they can grape her and she says nothing.

  • @shomgerry
    @shomgerry 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is actually really beautiful advice. I needed this.

  • @queenelizabeth4242
    @queenelizabeth4242 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My late BF tried to tell me this 11yrs ago. He died 9 yrs ago and i get it now❤

  • @fredalwatkins4506
    @fredalwatkins4506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +394

    Love a woman who keeps her mouth quiet instead of saying evil things

    • @doodlepuddle7500
      @doodlepuddle7500 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      I love when men speak less and sensible

    • @likeitornot-cg1fy
      @likeitornot-cg1fy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@doodlepuddle7500yeah but a lot of women already say that. On the other hand women don't know when to shut up and when some woman does, females think she's a pushover or oppressed when that woman's above you all 😂

    • @jordancamposano8241
      @jordancamposano8241 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Love a man who builds his family and community up, instead of destroying people or things.

    • @MarvelousGod7144
      @MarvelousGod7144 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      " If you have nothing nice to say, don't say nothing at all".....

    • @sarahblasdell5261
      @sarahblasdell5261 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Love a man who does what he says he's gonna do and doesn't lie. Men do destroy with their words as well

  • @thephoenix8485
    @thephoenix8485 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    This is right on the money
    I stopped talking and cussing and started watching and paying attention
    Now they worried

    • @censorship2236
      @censorship2236 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Then you've totally missed the entire point. Because the Silent Woman must have the ability to *"LISTEN"* & take Correction, Direction & Instruction... Something you clearly have no interest in doing!

    • @lmncsay
      @lmncsay ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chowder7498
      @chowder7498 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nobody is worried 🤣🤣🤣

    • @GMacII
      @GMacII ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Because YOUR behavior changed. The easiest way to change the things around you, is to FIRST change YOURSELF. I commend you @The Phoenix

    • @thephoenix8485
      @thephoenix8485 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@GMacII trust me I know about behaviour. I been a psych RN for 18 years and I know my behaviour wasn't always the best 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @DarthCoco
    @DarthCoco 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have heard a circle of knowledge and wisdom out there, which I know is in direct synchronicity to this. It's just that this culminates an understanding to the point, which I am so fulfilled to have heard, and realised amongst us, indeed.

  • @craigpeace7755
    @craigpeace7755 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She speaks the truth. Being out of control hurts everything you love including yourself. Being silent and observing is controlling the situation and you learn more by watching and listening then by talking and doing. Something that took 40 years of my 62 years to learn

  • @markjulius2006
    @markjulius2006 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +385

    If more people knew about these "pearls of wisdom", we would all be better off. What a smart and beautiful woman.

    • @Mmaiskoobutitsnotboxing
      @Mmaiskoobutitsnotboxing 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      people do know but see the thing is that self control part will get to you

  • @lukain630
    @lukain630 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +519

    She gave me shivers, nothing but respect for the way she projects herself.

    • @winloseorrug7099
      @winloseorrug7099 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lmfaoo yo i got goosebumps at the end 😂

    • @NaaaaYaaaa
      @NaaaaYaaaa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This whole comment section is filled with incels… yikes

  • @jodiethomas3748
    @jodiethomas3748 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love it... pure knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @hemendranmunian
    @hemendranmunian 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That was powerful. Preach it. Truer words have never been spoken. Legend ❤

  • @divinegoddesstiffany3254
    @divinegoddesstiffany3254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +382

    She spoke nothing but truthful facts ❤ 💯

    • @joeroyward6457
      @joeroyward6457 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, I’m saving this in writing it down. You are very wise speaker.

  • @julesj5853
    @julesj5853 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is self-control for both, not one or the other.

  • @miraclemorgan1061
    @miraclemorgan1061 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eternal Gratitude, Love, Peace, Truth, Compassion, Justice, Healing/Wholeness/Unity/Abundant Blessing, Royal Starseed
    Sistah! Namaste! 🌌⚖️🕚🕚🌚🙌💯💐🧠

  • @Arkane117
    @Arkane117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    I actually never heard it said like this before. Totally agree!..

  • @GaryMEvans-tm5xq
    @GaryMEvans-tm5xq 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    Incredible wisdom from such a young woman. All praise to God.

    • @mycitysucks8096
      @mycitysucks8096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry but I disagree. This goes for both men and women

  • @TDJ8329
    @TDJ8329 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Woman Speak 🗣️ 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕
    I receive this !!
    I got to put this on Repeat !

  • @tonyahammond3865
    @tonyahammond3865 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯 truth. When I’m upset, I take time to calm down so I don’t speak out of control.

  • @blouie2677
    @blouie2677 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Now that I’m older and been through some shit this hit a whole lot harder…real shit though

    • @theblackmoth1111
      @theblackmoth1111 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts. I use to be a hot head in my teens. Control my emotions . Especially the anger. Self reflection even for a moments keep me in line. Things done in anger can’t be undone in calmness or regret.

    • @xlus3
      @xlus3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@theblackmoth1111well said bro.

  • @Janice276
    @Janice276 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +574

    That's a wise woman right there. Look at the way she articulates her thoughts

    • @nerorandy3736
      @nerorandy3736 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Girl u speaking 😅

    • @josephinejonesbrown5784
      @josephinejonesbrown5784 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@nerorandy3736LIFELESSONS101 SCOTTIE PIPPEN

    • @josephinejonesbrown5784
      @josephinejonesbrown5784 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LIFE LESSONS WISDOM KNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTANDING SHE IS POWERFUL ENOUGH SAID MIC 🎤 DROP

    • @kekepierre0
      @kekepierre0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💛💛

    • @nathanthegreat28
      @nathanthegreat28 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts i always tell the dudes around me a weak man is a dangerous one men are like glass when we break we hurt others this is why we need to temper ourselves it wont stop us from breaking it will make it harder to break but the most inportant part is when s tempered glass breaks it doesn't hurt others

  • @donalisasantos7610
    @donalisasantos7610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re so right. I love my silence. It gives me peace and time to think of my relationship that’s been bad. Silence can be for improving what you want in your man, it’s up to you on your decision. ❤

  • @DragoKovac-dr2cf
    @DragoKovac-dr2cf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ahmen finally some common sense thank you young lady thus is something us older generations know but for whatever reason failed to pass on

  • @rejac2833
    @rejac2833 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Never again. 16 years of "learning to be silent" got me absolutely no where. Speaking my mind has been so freeing. No thanks! I got this.

    • @manifest2203
      @manifest2203 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. Silencing women has been going on for millennia. Doesn’t change the fact that men are more dangerous to society than women. Most of the vio*lent crimes are committed by men and most of the victims are other men. Every woman is more likely to die at the hands of the man she is with rather than a stranger. The number one cause of death of a pregnant woman is murder at the hands of the father of her child. It is not even medical complications as one might expect. Words definitely hurt but it is idiotic to talk about total annihilation of families with anything else. It has become a clown world.

    • @jessalynnspitfire4281
      @jessalynnspitfire4281 ปีที่แล้ว

      For some of us this is true. I was silent for years in a toxic abusive relationship. I had to speak up and stand up for myself. At the same time, she makes a good point. There's a time and place for everything.

  • @AyoKasdeya
    @AyoKasdeya 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    we don't need more women like her, we women need to be like her. a woman who isn't bias with any gender, and respects both.

    • @TADAA-
      @TADAA- 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You mean we need more 'People' like her, not being biased towards any gender and respecting both should be practised by everyone not just women

    • @AyoKasdeya
      @AyoKasdeya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@TADAA-true

    • @naeneco
      @naeneco 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TADAA-agree

  • @MariaEvans-zu5qp
    @MariaEvans-zu5qp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love every word she is saying because it's
    True. Bless you woman!!!😊😊😊😊😊

  • @richardmccauley3855
    @richardmccauley3855 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    She is very wise and beautiful. God bless us all.

    • @markusbroyles1884
      @markusbroyles1884 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The word "Sophia" is feminine and means wisdom. In the Bible wisdom is referred to as feminine.

  • @gregorywynn3244
    @gregorywynn3244 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +351

    This is wisdom from this sister. I wonder who her parents and role models are. Beautiful ,sister, and powerful.

    • @u2-tv899
      @u2-tv899 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      📑 🧐
      Hmmm Oooh lord🤦‍♂️!…
      I wish Black Americans cultural norms, values, standards have all those attributes…
      …Well educated…

    • @wqwegjrtge8384
      @wqwegjrtge8384 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      James 1:19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:

  • @ynor2087
    @ynor2087 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damm she gave words to my thoughts

  • @scratchking7861
    @scratchking7861 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think that's the most truthful thing I've ever heard through this app ever

  • @BajanBoo
    @BajanBoo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +610

    Facts! Once you finally speak… then the person will feel more like shit because they can’t manipulate you any more… silence is key.

    • @amandalidey329
      @amandalidey329 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Facts. Ik more than said.

    • @dotmarceo
      @dotmarceo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do you want them to feel like sh*t? 😂 Your aim should be to enlighten them. If they feel like sh*t afterward, so be it.

  • @CHUBBYdeanne18
    @CHUBBYdeanne18 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +170

    That woman showed what true power is, self awareness and self control.

  • @mwangianne270
    @mwangianne270 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is great wisdom. However, men also hurt women with their mouth. It is great to learn the art of quietness as a woman. Whether you are wronged or hurt, it turns out to be great strength. ❤

  • @RunawayArtistX
    @RunawayArtistX 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    💯👌CORRECT. Wisdom indeed! I’ve dealt with a lot of narcissistic men and other types for many years, and the skills I’ve learned to survive through that, will be with me the rest of my life.

    • @partingalano
      @partingalano 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a common phrase around women... men only hear "you dealt with a lot of men" question: what do you have that makes you attract A LOT of narcissists????

    • @RunawayArtistX
      @RunawayArtistX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@partingalano kindness

  • @beattheflu
    @beattheflu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    This is probably one of the best quotes ever spoken by a woman

  • @HectorRodriguez_servant4Christ
    @HectorRodriguez_servant4Christ ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Tell it like it is my dear sister! Wisdom speaks.. Blessings to you

    • @rubentello9792
      @rubentello9792 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Until you find out she's cheating.

  • @MrJoss-ud1bt
    @MrJoss-ud1bt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She seemed so proud of her self. You go girl!

  • @davidmorris3958
    @davidmorris3958 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a powerful word. Anyone lack wisdom let them ask of God. Amen

  • @christopherrichardson7498
    @christopherrichardson7498 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Someone taught this young lady something keep being you lady💯

  • @SharonLGrady
    @SharonLGrady 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    That's why we have such a respectful and loving marriage, because we always learn from every experience and appreciate the value in each other.

    • @user-vk1zb1dq6d
      @user-vk1zb1dq6d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do u communicate if u r hurt or any complain to Ur partner ....

  • @cwebb6737
    @cwebb6737 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are some of the most insightful words I've heard from anybody

  • @selwynandrews7716
    @selwynandrews7716 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    They both can destroy with words and actions and silence is just a form of self control. Overall tho I agree that when that self control is attained then it makes for a truly powerful person regardless of gender.

    • @iykyk9554
      @iykyk9554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not like a woman

    • @Hengel_Andrews
      @Hengel_Andrews ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Absolutely both, to point at one or the other is shortsighted or subterfuge.

    • @waavy_kakashi4L
      @waavy_kakashi4L ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Youll miss the point women words hit harder because thats woman strength and men are physically so when they lose control they physically destroy things. Yes both can do both but one more then the other. So she is absolutely right on.

    • @selwynandrews7716
      @selwynandrews7716 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @waavy_kakashi4L I know and understand that but what I said isn't any less true. A man can do just as much damage with words but it isn't our first instinct.
      Vice versa for women doing damage physically and putting hands on men tho their instinct is too use words cuz men is the physically stronger sex.
      Is more about nature/ biology then it is "strength" in a certain area. And I never said she was wrong, I agreed but don't see the need to attribute one to each gender when both apply to both

    • @Hengel_Andrews
      @Hengel_Andrews ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@waavy_kakashi4L There wasn’t a point to miss, she was being ignorant. The words then and than aren’t homophones or synonyms. You said “Yes, both can do both”, which means she’s wrong.

  • @Fiash3
    @Fiash3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

    We need women like this❤

    • @swarnalata8812
      @swarnalata8812 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or...*more women need to be like her

  • @Whyruruning
    @Whyruruning 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is absolutely right in every way. These words will change my life.

  • @kp3509
    @kp3509 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ This message is so perfect. I am 51 and my wife and I practiced this through bad and good times. It us common knowledge for us, but ut us good to get this out to the youth. Great message.

    • @user-vk1zb1dq6d
      @user-vk1zb1dq6d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Both of u remail silent after any argument or clash

    • @user-vk1zb1dq6d
      @user-vk1zb1dq6d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do u resolve Ur issue if u hav any complain to Ur partner...how do u convey if Ur hurt or being unheard

  • @IRONFOX6-fy5se
    @IRONFOX6-fy5se 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Well said. Self control is a fruit of the Spirit. This beautiful woman is impeccably wise.

  • @WreckingKrew00
    @WreckingKrew00 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is VERY TRUE and people need to know this. I used tell people " Just cause I don't say ANYTHING doesn't mean that I didn't SEE IT."

  • @raywevv3877
    @raywevv3877 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Grandmother taught me That "U learn ALOT by listening 2 someone"rather than talking 2 someone

  • @shelottabright8155
    @shelottabright8155 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Silence is golden! Not everything requires a response.

  • @williehaywoodjrrice5000
    @williehaywoodjrrice5000 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    It's evident you have been observing because you chose the right opportunity to speak those wise words and your delivery is perfection.

    • @ninoboy2035
      @ninoboy2035 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. But the question is how?

    • @terrencetncube264
      @terrencetncube264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No doubt

  • @user-pd5rf5xn2f
    @user-pd5rf5xn2f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    AMEN!!!!!
    This is actually worth taking a moment and recognizing.
    Thank you!

    • @SarahMoosomin-ts3vu
      @SarahMoosomin-ts3vu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes beautiful woman I so agree with u and thank u for the wise words ❤

    • @tavo6317
      @tavo6317 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True.

  • @user-rh8pb7bn5t
    @user-rh8pb7bn5t 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl you got your shit TOGETHER!

  • @samafathima7286
    @samafathima7286 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is telling a truth

  • @user-zw9ki6lk5t
    @user-zw9ki6lk5t 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I always say whenever a women is in conflict with a man- silence and moving in silence is her most powerful asset- I have heard too many women speak too quick and have what’s spoken used against them- so when this amazing sister says silence is where a woman’s power is she is 💯 correct ❤

  • @goldenlabelstudio
    @goldenlabelstudio 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    There is so much power and wisdom packed into this short clip. If we take heed to it…unstoppable.

  • @briangarcia4902
    @briangarcia4902 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thus the saying don’t speak in anger once you’ve said something you can’t take back what you’ve said! If your mad let it go till you calm down then speak calmly and clearly!

  • @DeniseSingsGospel
    @DeniseSingsGospel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Praise God for role models like this!!

  • @Best_Kept_Secret
    @Best_Kept_Secret 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    Actually, a woman's greatest power is truly LISTENING. For three reasons, one: To hear what is truly being said, that is not being verbalized... Two: it will help her to master her emotions. And three: to help her to better communicate.
    Silence is a great asset and works best when truly listening. Because you can be silent and not listen. (That is when you're silent to auto-react vs. to respond to what is being presented instead of said.) ❤

    • @iGeele
      @iGeele 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      When you are silent you listen

    • @ojokayode2432
      @ojokayode2432 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@iGeele not always. To listen is a choice. It isnt automatic

    • @Funkywaters
      @Funkywaters 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I see this is your "slick way" of getting defense but continue though.

    • @Best_Kept_Secret
      @Best_Kept_Secret 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @Funkywaters there was nothing slick or defensive about what I said. That fact that those things are what you took from that shows your truth, not mine.

    • @Best_Kept_Secret
      @Best_Kept_Secret 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ojokayode2432 very much so.

  • @Tiwariabhi900
    @Tiwariabhi900 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    She is so intelligent and also so beautiful

    • @dwaynejones7266
      @dwaynejones7266 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She's not that intelligent. It's common sense. People knew this 10000 plus years ago

    • @poquitovibes9432
      @poquitovibes9432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ⁠@@dwaynejones7266Intelligence doesn’t come from what you know it comes from what you do and how you do it. So yeh we all may have known this information but most of us didn’t use it obviously. Look around us. Hello! So in my opinion she is intelligent and beautiful if she practices what she is teaching. You obviously need to keep your mouth shut a little lol!

    • @ixlplick1651
      @ixlplick1651 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dwaynejones7266 Perhaps it is ancient knowledge. I see no evidence to say she is not intelligent. She is a wisdom keeper and truth teller. With all of the 21st century bullshit distractions, it is a good thing she is repeating these ancient truths. She is part of long line of people who repeated it so you could make a snarky reply on TH-cam that it has been said before.

    • @dwaynejones7266
      @dwaynejones7266 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@poquitovibes9432 again your just saying what everyone knows 🤣
      "IF she practises what she is teaching "
      So you don't know if she is living the life she talking about? lol
      She ain't teaching shit. It's basic knowledge, not rocket science. everyone knows what she said. How about "teach" something that people don't know . So nah, my mouth will stay open until you come back with an actual point with proper wisdom and intelligence that should keep my mouth shut lol

  • @wazamanikurudi9649
    @wazamanikurudi9649 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen sis you have just described me, it took time to develop the level of self dicipline i have attained.

  • @nay9nay
    @nay9nay 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Realest thing I have heard. Lord continue to be the strength of my mouth. Amen.

  • @Chikom12
    @Chikom12 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It’s sunnah; those men are powerful who control his anger ❤

  • @buffboi8719
    @buffboi8719 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are a GODDESS..never heard a woman speak with that much truth..Peace to you queen..

  • @rayjaglanton3768
    @rayjaglanton3768 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand why you say this...I was wrong you was right...💯

  • @susanbrown8802
    @susanbrown8802 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl, yes, you ARE speaking wisdom, this is the second clip of you speaking I’ve heard. Wish I knew who you were!

  • @mrjustsayn8107
    @mrjustsayn8107 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    “Wow that was so well said and so true as well” Salute to her she’s a beautiful black Queen👏🏾🙏🏽❤️🇨🇻

  • @samueldavis1524
    @samueldavis1524 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She's spitting game. Wisdom is universal-- it comes from the ones you least expect.

  • @jwf9716
    @jwf9716 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yesterday, in a moment of anger, I had a beautiful woman smile at me. And her smile literally tamed this savage beast. Amen to her. May Saint Benedict protect her. 🙏🏻

  • @SteveoGregg
    @SteveoGregg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pay attention women , This is what a real woman is.

  • @dreamhigh4536
    @dreamhigh4536 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    Every single word you said is precious and has a meaning

  • @bherigiridharkartikeya951
    @bherigiridharkartikeya951 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    Beautiful lines by a beautiful woman with a beautiful heart❤

  • @thefeetfromthetoons2035
    @thefeetfromthetoons2035 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First one of these platforms with substance. Thank you!

  • @shamikacook742
    @shamikacook742 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's So True 💯🙏🏾Amen to the Words of Wisdom!!!🙏🏾💯❤️❤️😊

  • @francacava7736
    @francacava7736 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    SILENCE IS BEST THING AND WALK AWAY AMEN

    • @adriennerobinson4668
      @adriennerobinson4668 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can do more with silence than you ever can with words.

  • @nato2panama
    @nato2panama 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    This was my beloved mom's way. She was such a wise and discerning woman. Miss you mom. ❤ ❤ ❤

    • @brendacrawford343
      @brendacrawford343 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Preach! I trying “baby gurl

    • @thetruthii5001
      @thetruthii5001 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you learn anything from her?

    • @nato2panama
      @nato2panama 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thetruthii5001 OMG As I reflected on your question, I was moved to tears. I am not able time wise to answer right now but I will.

    • @nato2panama
      @nato2panama 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Whenever my dad would get worked up about something and start complaining and looking for an argument a la Ralph Cramden. Mom would just remain silent and still much like Alice in the Honeymooners. Much later dad would come to his senses and apologize. Mom would accept his apology and often use the moment to correct or give her opinion. And it was usually wise. (That's only one of many examples I could give.)

    • @charlesubochi2603
      @charlesubochi2603 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nato2panamashe was a wise woman.

  • @p.idouble7617
    @p.idouble7617 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being silent and self control are great virtue traits for both men and women