I can't believe theres families that would treat their children like this, my parents would have been there every day until i got out of the hospital, i feel horrible for op
*Mom, Dad, & Mike: Instead of lying, you could have just told the truth from the beginning. How long did it take you to visit me in the hospital?* "I was CRITICALLY injured, and you were too busy preparing for & attending my brother's wedding to visit me even once in the hospital. I am blocking you all now."
This "cousin" is a spy in the camp for Op. She is everywhere and gleefully reporting back to Op about his parents and Mike's reaction while eating popcorn on the sidelines (with a large sprite). 🤣🤣
I'm so sorry to hear that you had to go through such a tough time alone. It's heartbreaking when family doesn't prioritize each other during difficult moments. You deserve love and support, especially when you’re facing challenges
I think the further you get from your "family" the happier you will be. They sound like terrible people and they do not deserve to be called your parents since they never acted like it
"Wow, this is absolutely outrageous! Your family’s treatment of you after such a devastating injury is beyond disrespectful. You couldn’t control when you had surgery, and the fact that they blamed you for ‘ruining’ his wedding is mind-blowing. It’s honestly great that the truth came out, but it’s heartbreaking that you had to go through that kind of gaslighting from your own family. Hopefully, now that your relatives know the truth, they can hold your family accountable for how they’ve treated you. Stay strong, and I hope you get the support you deserve moving forward!"
I understand this guys perspective. Had a massive heart attack and almost died. Found out in the ER, it was my 7th had 5 silent ones and didn't know. My sister learned this and told entire family I was lying for sympathy and being melodramatic. No one is willing to listen to the truth. Even with medical records evidence. Im the liar. So been no contact with everyone of them for 3 years. And somehow I am the drama queen. Hahahaha. My sister is diagnosed narcissist with bi polar and lies about everything. Go figure. But since i moved far away. They forgotten i exist. Its glorious.
Oh boy!!! Had surgery nobody form the families show up!!!! I can just imagine if it was the other way I bet they would have made you pause the wedding for him if he had to have surgery and worst have the wedding after it got better. Glad all the family members are not a??hole like your parents and brother and probably his wife too!!!
Yessss!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 More people need to know/learn to be DONE with TOXIC individuals!!! Not angry, mad or upset, just DONE!!! I will CONTINUE to live my life this way!!! You WILL NOT play in my face OR disrespect me!!!🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️😡😡😡 #ProtectYourEnergy #ProtectYourPeace
All the parents had to do was tell the truth. They could be there for the ceremony then earn huge kudos by not attending the reception to stay with OP. They could then earn even more kudos by acting like loving and caring parents by caring for OP. Instead, they chose to lie and now they must lay in the bed they made. They could fix things by apologizing for their actions and admit what shitty assholes they were. They can share their regret for abandoning OP when he needed them the most, and that they should have gone to his side when the hospital called. That will restore their image. Sadly, they tried the victim route and are now realizing their actions have consequences. If I were the wife, I’d divorce. They just showed they don’t care if you are hospitalized. What if the kid is hospitalized and they choose to ignore it because, say, they’re going on vacation?
If someone fell several stories in a workplace accident it would be on the news and in the paper. Apparently none of OP's relatives watch the news or read the paper. If the best man didn't show up for the bachelor party, the rehearsal dinner and the wedding and NO relative tried to contact him is unbelievable. No matter what story his foul parents and brother spun. They deserved to be shunned by their (most un-nosiest in the universe) relatives and OP.
Sometimes there appears to be a golden child but in reality it’s more like a highly focused-on child, receiving all the attention, good and bad. Then a lack of attention on the other child/children. And many times, the focused-on child actually has it the worst. But in this case, this is really a golden child.
OP should just have a photo taken of his back. A trashed spine leaves scars for a lifetime after all, even if it was fixable. Send that photo to "Mike" and the parents, with a notice "you're welcome. Go fuck yourselves"
Says that wedding was overshadowed by the fact that he was injured and parents visited him. Then later says a cousin reached out not knowing about his injuries then told the rest of the family… He contacts a lawyer in case his family tried to take legal action against him. For doing nothing? Says Mike stop trying to reach out then says they reached out a few more times… then says he spoke to his cousin who told him they finally stopped reaching out… why tf would your cousin be the one telling you that rather than you knowing… because they haven’t reached out. Catches up with old friends he hasn’t seen in a while when the drama was only with his family.
He mainly got the job to pay off student loans. At the time of the accident he was also trying to pitch in with the wedding expenses. Just because he started out with one purpose doesn’t mean he couldn’t add another one especially if the latter was just the short-term goal of helping his brother.
OP, YTA since you still allow them to contact you when you could block them everywhere. You should also get a. restraining order against your bro and your mom and dad!
I can't believe theres families that would treat their children like this, my parents would have been there every day until i got out of the hospital, i feel horrible for op
I can't believe theres families that would treat their children like this, my parents would have been there every day until i got out of the hospital, i feel horrible for op
You’ll be surprised
This is an AI created story. There are at least 5 versions of this floating thru this site.
@@cadavis5314 Even if that's the case, there are still families like that out there.
6:45 - "Their chemistry is unmatched! This moment is unforgettable!
Avg American white families nowadays are like this only.
Whenever they tried talking to me I’d only say “I almost died” every time
Do not think it would have mattered.
@@christinepuliselic5340 Very true
*Mom, Dad, & Mike: Instead of lying, you could have just told the truth from the beginning. How long did it take you to visit me in the hospital?*
"I was CRITICALLY injured, and you were too busy preparing for & attending my brother's wedding to visit me even once in the hospital. I am blocking you all now."
This "cousin" is a spy in the camp for Op. She is everywhere and gleefully reporting back to Op about his parents and Mike's reaction while eating popcorn on the sidelines (with a large sprite). 🤣🤣
Wouldn't you do the same thing
May peace be with you and live happily and never let them in your life again to taint it.
With family like that who needs enemies?!
I'm so sorry to hear that you had to go through such a tough time alone. It's heartbreaking when family doesn't prioritize each other during difficult moments. You deserve love and support, especially when you’re facing challenges
I think the further you get from your "family" the happier you will be. They sound like terrible people and they do not deserve to be called your parents since they never acted like it
Wow poor guy his parents are awful. There isn’t a force strong enough to keep me from my child if something like this happened to him.
"Wow, this is absolutely outrageous! Your family’s treatment of you after such a devastating injury is beyond disrespectful. You couldn’t control when you had surgery, and the fact that they blamed you for ‘ruining’ his wedding is mind-blowing. It’s honestly great that the truth came out, but it’s heartbreaking that you had to go through that kind of gaslighting from your own family. Hopefully, now that your relatives know the truth, they can hold your family accountable for how they’ve treated you. Stay strong, and I hope you get the support you deserve moving forward!"
It’s heartbreaking to feel left out during such a vulnerable time. Family should be there for each other, especially in moments of crisis
yeah the extended family was mad at his parents and brother, but still didnt bother to visit or find out how OP was going
So was he working to pay off student loans or last minute wedding expenses and what on earth would those be?
I understand this guys perspective. Had a massive heart attack and almost died. Found out in the ER, it was my 7th had 5 silent ones and didn't know. My sister learned this and told entire family I was lying for sympathy and being melodramatic. No one is willing to listen to the truth. Even with medical records evidence. Im the liar. So been no contact with everyone of them for 3 years. And somehow I am the drama queen. Hahahaha. My sister is diagnosed narcissist with bi polar and lies about everything. Go figure. But since i moved far away. They forgotten i exist. Its glorious.
They did this to themselves
Oh boy!!! Had surgery nobody form the families show up!!!! I can just imagine if it was the other way I bet they would have made you pause the wedding for him if he had to have surgery and worst have the wedding after it got better. Glad all the family members are not a??hole like your parents and brother and probably his wife too!!!
well brother marriage will not last longer
Parents and Mike were the ones that messed up, not OP. OP owes them nothing.
I’m glad you have real friends THEY ARE YOUR FAMILY along with your family that is supporting you. God bless you and them🙏🏽🙏🏽💕
Yessss!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
More people need to know/learn to be DONE with TOXIC individuals!!! Not angry, mad or upset, just DONE!!!
I will CONTINUE to live my life this way!!!
You WILL NOT play in my face OR disrespect me!!!🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️😡😡😡
#ProtectYourEnergy
#ProtectYourPeace
So, some of the relatives knew about OP's accident at the wedding and others had been told OP was too busy to attend????
So guy should have years ago just blocked and disowned the lot of their toxic relatives who wherent ever family to him. F um
I thought the OP was working to pay off his student loans, not help with wedding exprenses.
in the time of emercy you learn who your true friends are
I am amazed his brothers wife stayed married after learning about this. pregnant or not i would have been out.
I've been deliriously happy after I got rid of a " former sibling!"; no more lies, no more thefts, no more bs!
Id of abandoned my wedding if my family was this badly injured
If he died, they wouldn't have gone to the morgue till after the wedding
I don't need therapy to know that I am a valid, useful, special person in my own way.
Just let Mike know you're not interested in his drama.
I hope OP sued em, 4 abandonin him n emotional damages. They destroyed their own reputation through their own actions.
It's fake chat gpt story so nobody got sued.
Please do a part2 and part 3 of this story thank you
All the parents had to do was tell the truth. They could be there for the ceremony then earn huge kudos by not attending the reception to stay with OP. They could then earn even more kudos by acting like loving and caring parents by caring for OP.
Instead, they chose to lie and now they must lay in the bed they made.
They could fix things by apologizing for their actions and admit what shitty assholes they were. They can share their regret for abandoning OP when he needed them the most, and that they should have gone to his side when the hospital called.
That will restore their image.
Sadly, they tried the victim route and are now realizing their actions have consequences.
If I were the wife, I’d divorce. They just showed they don’t care if you are hospitalized. What if the kid is hospitalized and they choose to ignore it because, say, they’re going on vacation?
Not to mention the wife would Feel so much more secure in the marriage as well if the parents and brother left after The ceremony to check on him
If someone fell several stories in a workplace accident it would be on the news and in the paper. Apparently none of OP's relatives watch the news or read the paper. If the best man didn't show up for the bachelor party, the rehearsal dinner and the wedding and NO relative tried to contact him is unbelievable. No matter what story his foul parents and brother spun. They deserved to be shunned by their (most un-nosiest in the universe) relatives and OP.
Sometimes there appears to be a golden child but in reality it’s more like a highly focused-on child, receiving all the attention, good and bad. Then a lack of attention on the other child/children. And many times, the focused-on child actually has it the worst.
But in this case, this is really a golden child.
Hmm.. I saw this on FB reels but it was changed to golden child sister's wedding 😅😅
Ugh, these AI stories are starting to sound more and more similar.
Eff em.
OP should just have a photo taken of his back. A trashed spine leaves scars for a lifetime after all, even if it was fixable. Send that photo to "Mike" and the parents, with a notice "you're welcome. Go fuck yourselves"
You’re showing a video game while telling the story?! Good grief! Don’t have anything better to do than video games?
Thank you
Be ur children ur parent spoiled ur golden child karma ur ex parents
Why is Mike's wife married to a guy like him?
First the job was for student loans then it was last min to help with wedding what?😅
Says that wedding was overshadowed by the fact that he was injured and parents visited him. Then later says a cousin reached out not knowing about his injuries then told the rest of the family…
He contacts a lawyer in case his family tried to take legal action against him. For doing nothing?
Says Mike stop trying to reach out then says they reached out a few more times… then says he spoke to his cousin who told him they finally stopped reaching out… why tf would your cousin be the one telling you that rather than you knowing… because they haven’t reached out.
Catches up with old friends he hasn’t seen in a while when the drama was only with his family.
Right?
Started the job for student loans but at the time was getting money for the wedding
He mainly got the job to pay off student loans. At the time of the accident he was also trying to pitch in with the wedding expenses. Just because he started out with one purpose doesn’t mean he couldn’t add another one especially if the latter was just the short-term goal of helping his brother.
This is just stupid.
I don't believe it.
Fake story is obviously fake
OP, YTA since you still allow them to contact you when you could block them everywhere. You should also get a. restraining order against your bro and your mom and dad!
"the last draw", this is the last straw, lazy channel
I can't believe theres families that would treat their children like this, my parents would have been there every day until i got out of the hospital, i feel horrible for op