My Brother Got Married While I Was in Surgery After a Devastating Injury, and My Family ..

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @stevealexander5415
    @stevealexander5415 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    I can't believe theres families that would treat their children like this, my parents would have been there every day until i got out of the hospital, i feel horrible for op

    • @dannysilva3210
      @dannysilva3210 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You’ll be surprised

    • @cadavis5314
      @cadavis5314 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is an AI created story. There are at least 5 versions of this floating thru this site.

    • @Mark73
      @Mark73 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@cadavis5314 Even if that's the case, there are still families like that out there.

    • @cheatingreddittv
      @cheatingreddittv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      6:45 - "Their chemistry is unmatched! This moment is unforgettable!

    • @kimayat5444
      @kimayat5444 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Avg American white families nowadays are like this only.

  • @breannaxoxo3850
    @breannaxoxo3850 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Whenever they tried talking to me I’d only say “I almost died” every time

    • @christinepuliselic5340
      @christinepuliselic5340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Do not think it would have mattered.

    • @breannaxoxo3850
      @breannaxoxo3850 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@christinepuliselic5340 Very true

  • @UnicornOfDepression
    @UnicornOfDepression 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    *Mom, Dad, & Mike: Instead of lying, you could have just told the truth from the beginning. How long did it take you to visit me in the hospital?*
    "I was CRITICALLY injured, and you were too busy preparing for & attending my brother's wedding to visit me even once in the hospital. I am blocking you all now."

  • @marjoriethomas1681
    @marjoriethomas1681 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This "cousin" is a spy in the camp for Op. She is everywhere and gleefully reporting back to Op about his parents and Mike's reaction while eating popcorn on the sidelines (with a large sprite). 🤣🤣

    • @moneylover318
      @moneylover318 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wouldn't you do the same thing

  • @phoenixlotus6967
    @phoenixlotus6967 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    May peace be with you and live happily and never let them in your life again to taint it.

  • @unclelink
    @unclelink 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    With family like that who needs enemies?!

  • @HistóriaDeVida-b9x
    @HistóriaDeVida-b9x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm so sorry to hear that you had to go through such a tough time alone. It's heartbreaking when family doesn't prioritize each other during difficult moments. You deserve love and support, especially when you’re facing challenges

  • @mkelly534
    @mkelly534 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I think the further you get from your "family" the happier you will be. They sound like terrible people and they do not deserve to be called your parents since they never acted like it

  • @lovelyladyd24
    @lovelyladyd24 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Wow poor guy his parents are awful. There isn’t a force strong enough to keep me from my child if something like this happened to him.

  • @biaostockioddziaawcy5735
    @biaostockioddziaawcy5735 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Wow, this is absolutely outrageous! Your family’s treatment of you after such a devastating injury is beyond disrespectful. You couldn’t control when you had surgery, and the fact that they blamed you for ‘ruining’ his wedding is mind-blowing. It’s honestly great that the truth came out, but it’s heartbreaking that you had to go through that kind of gaslighting from your own family. Hopefully, now that your relatives know the truth, they can hold your family accountable for how they’ve treated you. Stay strong, and I hope you get the support you deserve moving forward!"

  • @RedditLullabies-q1c
    @RedditLullabies-q1c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s heartbreaking to feel left out during such a vulnerable time. Family should be there for each other, especially in moments of crisis

  • @slink1313
    @slink1313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    yeah the extended family was mad at his parents and brother, but still didnt bother to visit or find out how OP was going

  • @noniousxltruffles7454
    @noniousxltruffles7454 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So was he working to pay off student loans or last minute wedding expenses and what on earth would those be?

  • @Questfinder1
    @Questfinder1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I understand this guys perspective. Had a massive heart attack and almost died. Found out in the ER, it was my 7th had 5 silent ones and didn't know. My sister learned this and told entire family I was lying for sympathy and being melodramatic. No one is willing to listen to the truth. Even with medical records evidence. Im the liar. So been no contact with everyone of them for 3 years. And somehow I am the drama queen. Hahahaha. My sister is diagnosed narcissist with bi polar and lies about everything. Go figure. But since i moved far away. They forgotten i exist. Its glorious.

  • @darylgreenway8137
    @darylgreenway8137 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    They did this to themselves

  • @PatriciaChestnut-v9q
    @PatriciaChestnut-v9q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Oh boy!!! Had surgery nobody form the families show up!!!! I can just imagine if it was the other way I bet they would have made you pause the wedding for him if he had to have surgery and worst have the wedding after it got better. Glad all the family members are not a??hole like your parents and brother and probably his wife too!!!

    • @hugoumero9723
      @hugoumero9723 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      well brother marriage will not last longer

  • @RockDay-wv8jq
    @RockDay-wv8jq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Parents and Mike were the ones that messed up, not OP. OP owes them nothing.

  • @Shines-x_hM9.7qz
    @Shines-x_hM9.7qz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m glad you have real friends THEY ARE YOUR FAMILY along with your family that is supporting you. God bless you and them🙏🏽🙏🏽💕

  • @Queen-Blue
    @Queen-Blue 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yessss!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    More people need to know/learn to be DONE with TOXIC individuals!!! Not angry, mad or upset, just DONE!!!
    I will CONTINUE to live my life this way!!!
    You WILL NOT play in my face OR disrespect me!!!🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️😡😡😡
    #ProtectYourEnergy
    #ProtectYourPeace

  • @annnichols3091
    @annnichols3091 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So, some of the relatives knew about OP's accident at the wedding and others had been told OP was too busy to attend????

  • @jessedunn9835
    @jessedunn9835 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So guy should have years ago just blocked and disowned the lot of their toxic relatives who wherent ever family to him. F um

  • @annnichols3091
    @annnichols3091 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I thought the OP was working to pay off his student loans, not help with wedding exprenses.

  • @kdeville87
    @kdeville87 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    in the time of emercy you learn who your true friends are

  • @ahmarijah
    @ahmarijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am amazed his brothers wife stayed married after learning about this. pregnant or not i would have been out.

  • @jaredharris1940
    @jaredharris1940 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been deliriously happy after I got rid of a " former sibling!"; no more lies, no more thefts, no more bs!

  • @claireleone
    @claireleone 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Id of abandoned my wedding if my family was this badly injured

  • @cherrylove528
    @cherrylove528 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If he died, they wouldn't have gone to the morgue till after the wedding

  • @met999000
    @met999000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't need therapy to know that I am a valid, useful, special person in my own way.

  • @donnamason938
    @donnamason938 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just let Mike know you're not interested in his drama.

  • @saramccormack3025
    @saramccormack3025 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I hope OP sued em, 4 abandonin him n emotional damages. They destroyed their own reputation through their own actions.

    • @TheHammer89
      @TheHammer89 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's fake chat gpt story so nobody got sued.

  • @susanbailey3715
    @susanbailey3715 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please do a part2 and part 3 of this story thank you

  • @QueenSunstar
    @QueenSunstar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    All the parents had to do was tell the truth. They could be there for the ceremony then earn huge kudos by not attending the reception to stay with OP. They could then earn even more kudos by acting like loving and caring parents by caring for OP.
    Instead, they chose to lie and now they must lay in the bed they made.
    They could fix things by apologizing for their actions and admit what shitty assholes they were. They can share their regret for abandoning OP when he needed them the most, and that they should have gone to his side when the hospital called.
    That will restore their image.
    Sadly, they tried the victim route and are now realizing their actions have consequences.
    If I were the wife, I’d divorce. They just showed they don’t care if you are hospitalized. What if the kid is hospitalized and they choose to ignore it because, say, they’re going on vacation?

    • @moneylover318
      @moneylover318 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not to mention the wife would Feel so much more secure in the marriage as well if the parents and brother left after The ceremony to check on him

  • @LaviniaKing-hz9ue
    @LaviniaKing-hz9ue หลายเดือนก่อน

    If someone fell several stories in a workplace accident it would be on the news and in the paper. Apparently none of OP's relatives watch the news or read the paper. If the best man didn't show up for the bachelor party, the rehearsal dinner and the wedding and NO relative tried to contact him is unbelievable. No matter what story his foul parents and brother spun. They deserved to be shunned by their (most un-nosiest in the universe) relatives and OP.

  • @Rorschachqp
    @Rorschachqp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sometimes there appears to be a golden child but in reality it’s more like a highly focused-on child, receiving all the attention, good and bad. Then a lack of attention on the other child/children. And many times, the focused-on child actually has it the worst.
    But in this case, this is really a golden child.

  • @kiplingin5023
    @kiplingin5023 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hmm.. I saw this on FB reels but it was changed to golden child sister's wedding 😅😅

  • @BrookeAshley555
    @BrookeAshley555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ugh, these AI stories are starting to sound more and more similar.

  • @Luckyrider1958
    @Luckyrider1958 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eff em.

  • @gehtdichnixan8561
    @gehtdichnixan8561 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    OP should just have a photo taken of his back. A trashed spine leaves scars for a lifetime after all, even if it was fixable. Send that photo to "Mike" and the parents, with a notice "you're welcome. Go fuck yourselves"

  • @GeorgeRoper-k8v
    @GeorgeRoper-k8v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re showing a video game while telling the story?! Good grief! Don’t have anything better to do than video games?

  • @tkstories3968
    @tkstories3968 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you

  • @rosebelcaraang
    @rosebelcaraang 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Be ur children ur parent spoiled ur golden child karma ur ex parents

  • @Catsclaw-ru6zw
    @Catsclaw-ru6zw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why is Mike's wife married to a guy like him?

  • @warlordhax5995
    @warlordhax5995 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    First the job was for student loans then it was last min to help with wedding what?😅

    • @ragon39
      @ragon39 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Says that wedding was overshadowed by the fact that he was injured and parents visited him. Then later says a cousin reached out not knowing about his injuries then told the rest of the family…
      He contacts a lawyer in case his family tried to take legal action against him. For doing nothing?
      Says Mike stop trying to reach out then says they reached out a few more times… then says he spoke to his cousin who told him they finally stopped reaching out… why tf would your cousin be the one telling you that rather than you knowing… because they haven’t reached out.
      Catches up with old friends he hasn’t seen in a while when the drama was only with his family.

    • @annabellegarcia4240
      @annabellegarcia4240 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right?

    • @beckah86
      @beckah86 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Started the job for student loans but at the time was getting money for the wedding

    • @mpb3481
      @mpb3481 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He mainly got the job to pay off student loans. At the time of the accident he was also trying to pitch in with the wedding expenses. Just because he started out with one purpose doesn’t mean he couldn’t add another one especially if the latter was just the short-term goal of helping his brother.

  • @Carl-zd3yg
    @Carl-zd3yg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is just stupid.

  • @davidnash8208
    @davidnash8208 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't believe it.

  • @HiddelS143
    @HiddelS143 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Fake story is obviously fake

  • @davidknight3249
    @davidknight3249 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OP, YTA since you still allow them to contact you when you could block them everywhere. You should also get a. restraining order against your bro and your mom and dad!

  • @jyvben1520
    @jyvben1520 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "the last draw", this is the last straw, lazy channel

  • @historianocturna08
    @historianocturna08 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't believe theres families that would treat their children like this, my parents would have been there every day until i got out of the hospital, i feel horrible for op