Exactly! He made it sound as if she was out of line for wanting safety and security. He may not feel it to the same extent as a father, but surely he'd understand it for a mother.
@@Scole23786 I wouldn't like to throw it away either just bcz of a baby. What's the sense of moving into another country if getting a baby is all it takes to undo it?
@@Scole23786 I wouldn't like to throw it away either just bcz of a baby. What's the sense of moving into another country if getting a baby is all it takes to undo it?
@@einunbekannter498 good luck with that lmfao. That's not how having kids work, so maybe it's best to stay child free if that's the lifestyle you really want
@@beetothebop123THE PROBLEM IS you cannot tell people how to parent and so it’s like drawing on a canvas or planting stuff in a personal garden which is really unfair because a gardener can be a responsible person and takes care of their garden but can also be the type of person who makes the garden animal toilet! It’s unfair from the beginning. And that’s sadly how it’s been going on all these years
@@beetothebop123 Having a child doesn't mean I have to/should move back to Germany. What kind of security are we exactly talking about? Security of crimes, financial security,...? Whether I move to my grandmother to Romania or any other country, a child won't get in between my plans. Nobody died because of living in 2nd or 3rd world countries. Also I don't want my children to grow up a wimp.
to me he sounds like a manchild… i’m from south america and i wouldn’t even consider being with someone like him for more than a month or two, he’s not someone you can have a serious relationship with 🤷🏻♀️
@ignacialopezporter He's got a point though. Safety is a problem in Germany. Both crime is growing and the people more and more exagerate. When I say the people exagerate, then I mean that there are seriously people out there in Germany that drive their kids 400m - 500m by car because they're afraid sth. could happen if they use the sidewalk for 10 minutes. My mother walked like 1 hour back in the days in Romania in the 80s. No sidewalk by the way, only the street. Yet she's still alive and nothing happened. And here parents freak out for the smallest events.
@@einunbekannter498Personal security is an issue everywhere, always has been. Bad things happen anywhere, even in paradise- always have especially to women and children.
I absolutely get what he is talking about, as I lived in Germany for a very long time. This is the illusion of safety people are very anxious and not the open social warm hearted mix. For a mother to want safety and a man who's is able to provide that feeling is key for establishing an emotionally sane relationship and family foundation. But I dont think that's what he is talking about. There's a main topic behind the obvious superficial one.
Go to Spain. If a man would talk like that..., the women there would run the other way. They like even more security, then the Germans. He would be seen as a fool.
I think as soon as you have trauma around loss of security, you'll prioritise security. Being without it sucks. He just haven't had that trauma. Also for a woman to need security as a new mother, is natural and mature.
When my wife told me she's pregnant, I swear I felt so in love. I felt the responsibility to protect and provide. Now I toil to bring home the cash. She owns my credit card 😂
His lifestyle/worldview is unplannable. It could be fun for a while, but for a whole life? Not only women, but most men want to live their life not to worry where would they sleep, what would they eat next week/month/year. Doing the same thing with children... It just tell that you are irresponsible and you definitely mustn't have children.
He sounds like a tribal Germanic warrior from The Roman Empire time period / era. He does not sound like a contemporary German living in the 21st century.
A warrior of the Roman Empire had unbridled sex as his life practice, did not seek to provide security for the family and believed that the meaning of life was a fireball in space?
Yvonne was lovely, but she wanted a house for our baby. That's why I left them both. Oh man, you will find sooo many women (foreign or otherwise) happy to put you before their own baby LOL
It never fails. Let these fetishists speak long enough to always reveal it's not about appreciation of the foreigner, but running to a dating market that will overlook their mediocrity until the cash runs out, or it's a problem.
I understand him. Living in a country with high security doesn't mean you are happier. I was in Colombia where there is less security, not just because of crime but also because of the health system. Yet the people there seem to live way happier than the people in Germany here even though we have a stronger economy, better education system and so on.
A filled to the brim bank account would have helped. Put Yvonne up in a high castle or a tower, Carey on travelling yourself and enjoy the sightseeing. Whenever your in German spend some time with Yvonne. Win win
Welp... to be fair if I was carrying a fragile beggining of a human being inside my belly I would need to have some sort of security around. I think its pretty natural.
It’s simple because many German women are dating Turkish men. I have family in Germany the reason why German men date foreigners or Auslanders is what other choice do we have? 😂
lmao... Good for the wife leaving him. I was wondering what kind of man could possibly not want to date German women. They're direct communicators, know what they want, and are IMO the most beautiful in Europe.
Real, powerful men love their women and take care of them. I'm 23, I'm excited to get married and have children. Where are the ladies? Btw he needs take responsibility. He abandoned his ex. Men never abandon their women! And I am traditional and patriarchal, so this is my opinion
I absolutely get what he is talking about, as I lived in Germany for a very long time. This is the illusion of safety people are very anxious and not the open social warm hearted mix. For a mother to want safety and a man who's is able to provide that feeling is key for establishing an emotionally sane relationship and family foundation. But I dont think that's what he is talking about. There's a main topic behind the obvious superficial one.
She got pregnant and then wanted some security, sounds pretty normal and fair
Exactly! He made it sound as if she was out of line for wanting safety and security. He may not feel it to the same extent as a father, but surely he'd understand it for a mother.
He’s immature
My first thoughts too. And I am a man!
@@Scole23786
I wouldn't like to throw it away either just bcz of a baby.
What's the sense of moving into another country if getting a baby is all it takes to undo it?
@@Scole23786
I wouldn't like to throw it away either just bcz of a baby.
What's the sense of moving into another country if getting a baby is all it takes to undo it?
women from all countries will want security for their child
I'm a man, and I want security for my own children too! Like what the others said, he is immature
I'm a man who does NOT want to have children, and I agree that all women from all ethnic backgrounds want security when raising children.
@@zeryphexyoure a Woman
@@zeryphexwtf your wccocnt IS old asf
The ex wife saved herself leaving this man ✨
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I mean you had a child... That would require a change of lifestyle, whether you like it or not 😂
He wanted to adapt the child to the lifestyle, not the other way around.
I wouldn't like to move back to my country either just because I got a child.
@@einunbekannter498 good luck with that lmfao. That's not how having kids work, so maybe it's best to stay child free if that's the lifestyle you really want
@@beetothebop123THE PROBLEM IS you cannot tell people how to parent and so it’s like drawing on a canvas or planting stuff in a personal garden which is really unfair because a gardener can be a responsible person and takes care of their garden but can also be the type of person who makes the garden animal toilet!
It’s unfair from the beginning. And that’s sadly how it’s been going on all these years
@@I_am_FRANCO no offense but I have no clue what you're trying to say
@@beetothebop123
Having a child doesn't mean I have to/should move back to Germany. What kind of security are we exactly talking about? Security of crimes, financial security,...?
Whether I move to my grandmother to Romania or any other country, a child won't get in between my plans.
Nobody died because of living in 2nd or 3rd world countries.
Also I don't want my children to grow up a wimp.
to me he sounds like a manchild… i’m from south america and i wouldn’t even consider being with someone like him for more than a month or two, he’s not someone you can have a serious relationship with 🤷🏻♀️
True
You summed it up best with the word manchild
@ignacialopezporter
He's got a point though. Safety is a problem in Germany. Both crime is growing and the people more and more exagerate.
When I say the people exagerate, then I mean that there are seriously people out there in Germany that drive their kids 400m - 500m by car because they're afraid sth. could happen if they use the sidewalk for 10 minutes.
My mother walked like 1 hour back in the days in Romania in the 80s. No sidewalk by the way, only the street.
Yet she's still alive and nothing happened.
And here parents freak out for the smallest events.
@@einunbekannter498Personal security is an issue everywhere, always has been. Bad things happen anywhere, even in paradise- always have especially to women and children.
Agreed, like at his age too.
If I was a woman and if he looked good while he was young, maybe a couple of flings. This man is garbage.
He’s so unlikeable lmaoo
Is he living on the Sun
We are ALL living on The Sun ... a tiny fireball floating in outer space.
@@zeryphex idk what you're on about but I personally live on planet Earth
@@DrTel
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Did you watch the video?
You must be German because you don't understand jokes from the video you just watched.
@@zeryphex you're not particularly good at it yourself
@@DrTel
Nice.
Telling me that after saying "I don't know what you're on about".
Enjoy your life.
Bye.
I see nothing wrong with the wife.
“She got pregnant?” All her fault?
Just from the way he talks about the mother of his child, I assume, he tasks no responsibility.
Some men never mature, even after balding
lol. True but can we be a bit kind here. 😂😂😂
In short I dated everyone in Germany and nobody wants me 😂 I wonder why 😂
It's not German to want security, it's universal
Yvonne dodged a bullet 💅
I absolutely get what he is talking about, as I lived in Germany for a very long time. This is the illusion of safety people are very anxious and not the open social warm hearted mix. For a mother to want safety and a man who's is able to provide that feeling is key for establishing an emotionally sane relationship and family foundation. But I dont think that's what he is talking about. There's a main topic behind the obvious superficial one.
Go to Spain.
If a man would talk like that..., the women there would run the other way.
They like even more security, then the Germans.
He would be seen as a fool.
I think as soon as you have trauma around loss of security, you'll prioritise security. Being without it sucks. He just haven't had that trauma. Also for a woman to need security as a new mother, is natural and mature.
Hi beautiful lady how are you doing today
When my wife told me she's pregnant, I swear I felt so in love. I felt the responsibility to protect and provide. Now I toil to bring home the cash. She owns my credit card 😂
Hey at least he's honest
It's not enough to make you agreeable
His lifestyle/worldview is unplannable. It could be fun for a while, but for a whole life? Not only women, but most men want to live their life not to worry where would they sleep, what would they eat next week/month/year.
Doing the same thing with children... It just tell that you are irresponsible and you definitely mustn't have children.
Bro said earth is a little fireball 😂
So, he knocked her up, then leaved her because she wants safety and security? What a fine speciment!
Happy Thursday to all!
He sounds like a tribal Germanic warrior from The Roman Empire time period / era.
He does not sound like a contemporary German living in the 21st century.
A warrior of the Roman Empire had unbridled sex as his life practice, did not seek to provide security for the family and believed that the meaning of life was a fireball in space?
Yvonne was lovely, but she wanted a house for our baby. That's why I left them both.
Oh man, you will find sooo many women (foreign or otherwise) happy to put you before their own baby LOL
I think everyone wants That's whatever which country he is 😂
Wow this man got deeper than fuckin nietzche at the very end
Brother.... Seek God.
It never fails. Let these fetishists speak long enough to always reveal it's not about appreciation of the foreigner, but running to a dating market that will overlook their mediocrity until the cash runs out, or it's a problem.
That's why you should be honest about what you want and what you don't. But bear in mind that life, events can change people prospective.
If all German gus like him,sorry 4 German women.excuses to run away,if u wanna build a family ,u have to take responsibilities
I love germany man because they are kind and love and careful.
Not this one
Ofc she wants security? She got pregnant with your child? I’m sorry he’s not a man 😔
I understand him. Living in a country with high security doesn't mean you are happier.
I was in Colombia where there is less security, not just because of crime but also because of the health system.
Yet the people there seem to live way happier than the people in Germany here even though we have a stronger economy, better education system and so on.
Because there is more human connection
Different mentality because of different genotype. Latino ("southern") people have more joy in life
@@AroLiberteSquad it's about culture, not genotype
@@AroLiberteSquad
It's not genotype, what the hell. Has nothing to do with it. It's the culture, values and attitude of a country's people itself.
If he is that spiritual... Answer should have been... Me no dating anymore... I'm on to sanyasa.
You made some mistakes Yvonne but I'm proud of you for leaving this douche 😂
I understand his point of view
"Men are like children" quote from Coco Chanel
A filled to the brim bank account would have helped. Put Yvonne up in a high castle or a tower, Carey on travelling yourself and enjoy the sightseeing.
Whenever your in German spend some time with Yvonne.
Win win
Welp... to be fair if I was carrying a fragile beggining of a human being inside my belly I would need to have some sort of security around. I think its pretty natural.
options are for those who see many ways to be happy and I only see one way. Your not an option. I love you more xoxo
I love the German accent😭
This guy is going to be alone because every woman wants security especially if there's a child involved
I understand where he’s coming from.
German men match good with Russian women and Latina women
I thought the same think that's why German men are so wanted
Russian women like security, even more when pregnant.
Please leave us Latina’s out of this. 🙅🏻♀️This guy obviously has screws loose.
She made herself pregnant?
It’s simple because many German women are dating Turkish men. I have family in Germany the reason why German men date foreigners or Auslanders is what other choice do we have? 😂
Lol u wish, i am kurdish and german women don’t like middle eastern men tbh only deutsch or dutch or french😊
They must be crazy to prefer Turks over Germans with bad taste too
lmao... Good for the wife leaving him.
I was wondering what kind of man could possibly not want to date German women. They're direct communicators, know what they want, and are IMO the most beautiful in Europe.
No. They are no feminine. Seriously, they as worse than Asian women
Mook
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Love this guy
Real, powerful men love their women and take care of them. I'm 23, I'm excited to get married and have children. Where are the ladies?
Btw he needs take responsibility. He abandoned his ex. Men never abandon their women! And I am traditional and patriarchal, so this is my opinion
I absolutely get what he is talking about, as I lived in Germany for a very long time. This is the illusion of safety people are very anxious and not the open social warm hearted mix. For a mother to want safety and a man who's is able to provide that feeling is key for establishing an emotionally sane relationship and family foundation. But I dont think that's what he is talking about. There's a main topic behind the obvious superficial one.