@@rumponsuer Last year was a year of reflection for me which explains why I've been single. However, this year seems to be a bit different and I feel it will be. I'll be back with the news if he's the one. LOL
Im 24 going on 25 in a few weeks. I actually hate admitting this but I'm probably the only one in the whole wide world right now who's SINGLE as a married man right now lmao . But tbh, I''m definitely NOT a hookup or FWB type person at all, unless I have a crush or fwy like that. I have respect for myself I guess & feel that I deserve more than that. I attract the wrong type of men and all they want is sex . I would rather be single . Sometimes I feel like I don't believe in "love" at all or I will never get to experience what it is like to be a girlfriend. I want to have my 1st everything (bf, husband, father, kiss, etc) idk... maybe God doesn't wanna let me be happy or genuinely be with someone. Maybe I'm so "LUCKY" that I won't ever have to worry about being insecure or worrying about getting cheated on or a guy liking some random chicks photos.
tx sis, couples from tik tok or pinterest are always showing you thhe goodand cute side of love but it actually charges lot of responsability and you remind me im not really ready for going into one, you got me the remainder i needed to get calmed down again
im a 24 yr old adult woman watching this vid bc a few of my besties have bfs & they’re both boy crazy & its making me want a bf so bad, especially bc im rly boy crazy fr. ive never had a bf in my life ever
Thank you sm, me and my crush are getting closer so it'll definitely help I'm 17 btw Edit: I don't like him anymore since like mid June XD (about a month after I wrote this comment lol)
I like the idea of having a Boyfriend. What kind of Best advice you can gave me? I want to be in a dating life. I may not be ready to get married yet. I don't want to be single the rest of the my life.
@@Barneyluvshisfam yeah I can't forget my a person I like I want to forget him caz I wanna focus on me But it's hard In my mind i think I have a chance but in reality he's having a gf 💔
@@winter_bear95 yeah i get that just remember that you have so much time and there’s no need to rush into things. as they say there’s plenty of fish in the sea and even if he’s not the right one for you, there is someone else out there that is.
i usually dont really care about my appearence but now i use skincare more often and i want to look pretty in front of my crush, is that a kind of "change myself" ?
If it's using skincare to make you feel prettier it's just taking care of yourself and there's nothing wrong with that. If you put a ton of makeup when you know you're gonna see your crush it's changing yourself (and most guys prefer natural girls). Just remember if he doesn't like you for you, with your everyday appearance he's not worth it. So just do yourself
I am 16 and just got my first boyfriend last week. I love him so so much and we have been friends for like 6 years but I don’t know what to do. I feel like I am going too fast because I only started having feelings for him a few weeks ago, I told him how I felt and it turns out he has liked me for a long time. He is very quiet and introverted and I am super loud and outgoing. I feel bad because I don’t trust myself to be a good girlfriend. But if I tell him that it might hurt him. Please please give me advice I would love some help. Thanks for listening to my vent
@@fluffinpuffn-k7g sorry to ask u this, feel free to answer only if u wanna and ur comfortable, but i feel the exact same that im not gonna be a good girlf how did u deal with that feeling, like how did u sort it out did u keep feeling that always or does it stop eventually or do u have to do smth abt it
I don’t really have any friends I’ve just never had a boyfriend and also I think I want to try it out since I am in high school and almost graduating so
This is soooooo NEGATIVE!!!!Not all these things will happen in everyone’s relationship. Where is the BRIGHT side about getting in a relationship like finally finding someone who loves you and you love them back or sharing a future and life together or having a true friend who cares about you unconditionally. Where are those examples? It just seems like you’re BITTER about your previous relationship and want to lead other women who have hope and an opportunity of having their first boyfriend astray. #FalseProphet #Lonely
I’m about to start middle school in a few days. There’s this guy I rlly like and he said he likes me too!!! Thanks for this, we aren’t dating yet but I’m probably gonna ask him soon 😊
I'm in college and I can say that I've never had a boyfriend nor been on a date. Don't rush it ladies.
yesssss!
Ditto
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How are you doing now lol ❤❤
@@rumponsuer Last year was a year of reflection for me which explains why I've been single. However, this year seems to be a bit different and I feel it will be. I'll be back with the news if he's the one. LOL
Im 24 going on 25 in a few weeks. I actually hate admitting this but I'm probably the only one in the whole wide world right now who's SINGLE as a married man right now lmao . But tbh, I''m definitely NOT a hookup or FWB type person at all, unless I have a crush or fwy like that. I have respect for myself I guess & feel that I deserve more than that. I attract the wrong type of men and all they want is sex . I would rather be single . Sometimes I feel like I don't believe in "love" at all or I will never get to experience what it is like to be a girlfriend. I want to have my 1st everything (bf, husband, father, kiss, etc) idk... maybe God doesn't wanna let me be happy or genuinely be with someone. Maybe I'm so "LUCKY" that I won't ever have to worry about being insecure or worrying about getting cheated on or a guy liking some random chicks photos.
tx sis, couples from tik tok or pinterest are always showing you thhe goodand cute side of love but it actually charges lot of responsability and you remind me im not really ready for going into one, you got me the remainder i needed to get calmed down again
Love this video❤, i'm at the age of 16 & the advice literally means alot💯 to me☺...thank u for sharing😊
Aww yay! Glad you found it helpful!!
You are right I don't need a boyfriend thank you for the reminder this was a great video.
You’re very welcome
@@Karisbell I want one but I'm not sure where to find a good one being a guy
Thank you for being a sister I never had!! 😁
No problem 😊
Great video! I’m a parent, & I always allow my daughters to watch you content. Keep up the good work!!
I waited for my first boyfriend and kiss until I was 26. Definitely worth the wait. Trust your instincts y’all and don’t follow the crowd.
im a 24 yr old adult woman watching this vid bc a few of my besties have bfs & they’re both boy crazy & its making me want a bf so bad, especially bc im rly boy crazy fr. ive never had a bf in my life ever
Thank you sm, me and my crush are getting closer so it'll definitely help
I'm 17 btw
Edit: I don't like him anymore since like mid June XD (about a month after I wrote this comment lol)
Same here…
Great video, i think i might end up with someone, I'm almost 17 and I'm nervous.
Did it work out? :)
Did it work out?xx
Love your channel, and thanks for the great advice!
Aww yay! and no problem. I love making these videos :)
I like the idea of having a Boyfriend. What kind of Best advice you can gave me? I want to be in a dating life. I may not be ready to get married yet. I don't want to be single the rest of the my life.
Dang it I already have a boyfriend watching this 😬
same lmao
So having a bf is good or bad?
According to you
@@winter_bear95 it depends on how you handle it
@@Barneyluvshisfam yeah
I can't forget my a person I like
I want to forget him caz I wanna focus on me
But it's hard
In my mind i think I have a chance but in reality he's having a gf 💔
@@winter_bear95 yeah i get that just remember that you have so much time and there’s no need to rush into things. as they say there’s plenty of fish in the sea and even if he’s not the right one for you, there is someone else out there that is.
i usually dont really care about my appearence but now i use skincare more often and i want to look pretty in front of my crush, is that a kind of "change myself" ?
If it's using skincare to make you feel prettier it's just taking care of yourself and there's nothing wrong with that. If you put a ton of makeup when you know you're gonna see your crush it's changing yourself (and most guys prefer natural girls).
Just remember if he doesn't like you for you, with your everyday appearance he's not worth it. So just do yourself
I got a boyfriend today 😅😅😅
I want one I'm just nervous about it, my ex gf said try grindr
First bf at 13 it lasted 2 months
Ahhh your so pretty
I am 16 and just got my first boyfriend last week. I love him so so much and we have been friends for like 6 years but I don’t know what to do. I feel like I am going too fast because I only started having feelings for him a few weeks ago, I told him how I felt and it turns out he has liked me for a long time. He is very quiet and introverted and I am super loud and outgoing. I feel bad because I don’t trust myself to be a good girlfriend. But if I tell him that it might hurt him. Please please give me advice I would love some help. Thanks for listening to my vent
Hey how's it going ?
@@Chilllpoint we broke up a while ago, dang I forgot about this comment
@@fluffinpuffn-k7g sorry to ask u this, feel free to answer only if u wanna and ur comfortable, but i feel the exact same that im not gonna be a good girlf how did u deal with that feeling, like how did u sort it out did u keep feeling that always or does it stop eventually or do u have to do smth abt it
First second in and I subscribed I love watching black women TH-camrs and am always trying to find more.
Plus you seem super chill and understanding
Awww this just made my day. Thank you!
I was his first girlfriend
. Loved it.
I don’t really have any friends I’ve just never had a boyfriend and also I think I want to try it out since I am in high school and almost graduating so
Yes, nothing wrong with that, just keep in mind what would make you happy :)
This is soooooo NEGATIVE!!!!Not all these things will happen in everyone’s relationship. Where is the BRIGHT side about getting in a relationship like finally finding someone who loves you and you love them back or sharing a future and life together or having a true friend who cares about you unconditionally. Where are those examples? It just seems like you’re BITTER about your previous relationship and want to lead other women who have hope and an opportunity of having their first boyfriend astray. #FalseProphet #Lonely
I wish I knew about this 😊
I’m about to start middle school in a few days. There’s this guy I rlly like and he said he likes me too!!! Thanks for this, we aren’t dating yet but I’m probably gonna ask him soon 😊
Is it wrong to be addicted to your boy friend
I'm in middle school and I already have a boyfriend 1st btw
Congrats
Same I’m in 8th we just started dating today I’m kinda nervous since you have one how is it like?