The Scorn for Simps
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0:00 - Intro
1:39 - What is a “simp”?
3:52 - History of the “simp”
6:06 - The problem with simps
8:31 - Iconic (fictional) simps
13:02 - Entry into meme culture/SIMP Nation
14:16 - “Mordecai was a Simp”
15:24 - Popularity among the “MGTOWs”
19:02 - Why the hate?
21:45 - E-girls, streamers, and their “simp armies”
25:04 - “No Simp September”
27:03 - Female simps
30:56 - Saved by the memes
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I do think there are some ethical concerns when it comes to these parasocial relationships.
It is kind of insidious that Twitch is commodifying its' personalities as brands in order to monetize people with mental health issues (loneliness/depression). In the end it's not Twitch who suffers any of the downsides like death threats and unsolicited [anything].
There should be some more fail-safes in place to prevent this, especially on a platform that underage people can access. Though of course this just hurts their bottom line so It's not likely.
Yo checkout Fresh&Fit. I think you might find interesting perspectives.
Hey, you should have brought Steven King's 'Misery'!! That was the Ultimate "Nice Girl" psycho and doubles as a rabid fan girl. I love that movie.
Girl, what's your skincare routine? I need help lol 😂🤣😂🤣 Yes this is a compliment 🤣😂🤣
I let one of my longtime best friends (who happens to be a female) stay at my place for a couple weeks while she was in between jobs. We didn’t sleep together, do anything more romantic than play Mario kart while having a few beers, and it was overall just helping a friend out. I was mocked as a simp by both coworkers and a few friends for doing this, and honestly I hate the term now lol. You almost can’t have a platonic friendship with the opposite sex without the dude being labeled a simp, ah love the internet
ARGH I HATE THIS ahaha as someone whose closest friends happen to mostly be male - it's insane how the idea of platonic friendship with the opposite sex is still doubted these days. God forbid you do favours like that for each other lol - the guy gets called a "simp" or the girl is automatically into them.
@Speckadactyl
I hear ya. I had a friend who was a model, grew up with her she was my best friend’s girl for a long time before she passed. She had a bad breakup with someone and i went to go chill with her. We were drinking and watching comedies on her bed and never crossed my mind to try and take advantage of that friendship and vulnerability. She started opening up and crying and i just gave her a hug and offered comfort. Straight platonic, it doesnt make you less of a man. It makes you a more of a decent person
boyfriEND
girlfriEND
only Mario Kart: Double Dash has no END
I think the really weird thing is if doing her a favour is simping because you're not getting the "compensation/payment" of romance... then what's the purpose of male friends? Does videogames and beer act as currency only between men?
You should have told them that you did get something out of it. You got a couple of weeks of hanging out with a friend and having fun playing with her. You should ask those coworkers and friends if they would have let you hang out at their place if you lost your job. My roommate is a friend (who happens to be a female) and she's great with making rent and leaves me the fuck alone. We don't have to fuck everyone we meet, lol.
I wish I had a friend like you. All those sad people won't be on their deathbed wishing they didn't help that person that one time, nah, they will be wishing they weren't so alone.
My Elder Millennial brain: What exactly *is* a simp?
Ana Isabel: Take Gunther from Friends
Me: Ah, now I get it
Elder Millennial?! Elder...Elder he says. Not as a Millennial, you don’t get Elder status till you pass that half century mark, geez what does that make my 55 year old ass, an Ancient Gen X? (I mean my friends would say yes, but they also say I threw fish on to land so they evolve into someone to hang out with. :))
@@craig.a.glesner I was riffing on Iliza Shlesinger's "Elder Millennial" bit that I am an "elder" within the millennial cohort since I am right on the cusp of Gen X and Millennial. I fit some Millennial tropes, some Gen-X tropes, and almost no Gen Z tropes.
@@stevegruber4724 okay. Fair enough, I can resepect a cusp baby, I am too in a fashion.
@@craig.a.glesner damn that's a great burn. your friends are hilarious!
@@roxyndra thanks, I try and keep the good ones.
Ana: "Ross is the funniest of the bunch"
Chandler, the actual funniest one: "Am I a joke to you?"
if he were a joke to her, she'd think he was the funniest one.
Yo Ross is undeniably the bigger clown 😂
@@hesjustthisguyyaknow u simpin?
As a kid I found Chandler's jokes the funniest, but eventually I outgrew his sarcastic quips and now find Ross' mannerisms to be hilarious, which I then found cringy.
Disappointed that you didn't write "could I *BE* any funnier?" for Chandler. for shame!
"If you ever look after a girl's kids just because they're your grandchildren, you are a
SIMP" - someone probably
If you ever give a girl money to go to the movies with her 'friends' (even though it's probably another guy!) just because she is your Daughter then you're a SIMP- Some internet bro somewhere
Well, that's just simping and taking care of some other dudes kids with extra steps.
Obvious simp behaviour right there.
If it involves a man and a women, simp. Always simp.
Only if the mother is dumping the kids off instead of raising them properly. If the kids are with grandparents more than the parents then it's a whole nother problem
Nice strawman. Fact is: Only eThots afraid of losing their simps proclaim the term "simp" is overused
@@ExeErdna yeah, because who's ever heard of a mom having to be the primary breadwinner in a family lmao
I get serious Claude Frolo vibes from these guys yelling at e-girls. I mean, I’m a fan of when they start to cross the border into the porn-y category, but self-restraint is a virtue those guys don’t practice. Then they verbally abuse those women and mount an unholy virtual crusade instead of looking inward and seeing their own deficiencies.
"she was asking for it, why did she wear that *insert clothing of choice*" Or why the Quoran requires women to wear a hijab outside their home. Shifting responsibility from men to women because they cannot (or don't want to ) control their urges.
The internet’s ability to ruin everything makes me sad, but the fact that the internet contains this video cheers me up again
I hope the internet takes a while to ruin this video
Hey... are you simping around here or what? 😂
Ofc women would praise simps 😂 but hate on “pick mes”
Makes it easier to take advantage of us dosent it
One thing that you didn't mention as far as the concept of a simp in pop culture is how in almost all popular media from childhood to adolescents we consistently see the "good guy" who "loves" some girl who either doesn't know he exists, doesn't like him or out and out dislikes him, and yet in the 3rd act of literally every single story where such a dynamic exists the guy "gets the girl". From Harry Potter to Star Wars and all spots in between.
The irony is that those who actually penned these stories are likely people who felt that way towards girls in their adolescence but did not get the "happy ending". We are taught to persevere, to be the "good guy" and eventually the girl will "see your worth". It takes some MUCH longer than others to understand that is not how the real world works and undoubtedly has a real effect on why simps do what they do. Sure there are other, arguably bigger culprits like you mentioned e.g. entitlement, sexism, culturally enforced gender roles, blah blah gender studies degree (no offense to any gender studies degree holders).....but there is also a less insidious cause as well that does deserve a mention
This^^^ the real world dispels those illusions real quickly. Cant argue against results.
Yes very true and often overlooked. But since that does not fit the current accepted talking points it will remained ignored or side lined.
Underrated comment
Eh, I don't think persistence is necessarily bad. Sometimes you really can convince her to give you a chance. It depends on your attitude and how you go about earning approval, rather than what you do necessarily.
To provide an anecdote, most of the happiest couples I know featured women that mentioned when asked that their significant others "weren't their type", or didnt impress them much initially.
I honestly feel sad from men who donate to those streamers. They could use their money and time to find someone, but rather than doing that they reinforce what media has taught them.
It's sad
If they’re doing it cause they’re having a good time and appreciate the woman genuinely, then I don’t see a problem. If they’re doing it completely just for attention then I find it sad.
@@TheSlipperyNUwUdlethey aren’t doing it because their life is good, they are doing it because they are mentally I’ll and miserable
Ofc you wouldn’t see a problem with guys giving you money tho, because we are only seen as wallets
I think that the biggest thing you missed in this is that a lot of this comes from insecurity - the fear of being a "simp" or being a "beta". Calling someone one of those things can be a way of distancing yourself from those concepts, a way of placing yourself above the simp. It's pretty sad because a lot of terminally online guys seem to genuinely not believe it's possible to interact with a woman without either being a simp that grovels at their feet, or a chad who women immediately throw themselves at, which leads them to trying to make sure that everyone knows that of all things, "they are not a simp".
Really well said! I think my overview of one's desire to subscribe to the typical "chad/alpha male" image ties into this; but yes, a lot of this roots from insecurity issues for sure.
This is by far the biggest reason why I have a hard time relating to women even on a friend level. They either automatically think I am a creep because I am soft spoken or they ignore me due to gender norms. It is kinda hard because 90% of my coworkers are women. I just don't click with most women to begin with so I am trying to accept that maybe if I dont idolize a relationship I can enjoy myself in the present.
One super serious non me related point a lot of these people are under medicated and health insurance sucks right now. A lot of this is serious unchecked mental illness.
@@michaelschipper1099 I hope you can get around that. Not sure exactly how this is going on for you but hopefully it's more about how you perceive things getting in your way
@@michaelschipper1099 if they ignore you, they ignore you. cant help that. It does help to try and treat women more like you would a "bro". It immediately puts it out of their mind you might be hitting on them, or that you have any ill-will in general. If your work environement is more formal, then thats fine keeping it professional, but also you can also try to just breach the gender gap by trating them more akin to how you would a man (not exactly becxause social norms)
Cruel labels aside, if you're overly drawn to someone, and they're not interested, it's probably time to distance yourself from that friendship/clique.
Agreed. As much as I hate to admit it, I was like that for a majority of Highschool. Not only are you hurting the person you're supposedly crushing over, you're also just making yourself miserable.
The first time I started hearing 'simp', it seemed to be getting thrown at any man that gave basic respect / common courtesy towards women.
Gomez simps for Morticia because that's exactly what she gets off to. We should all be like Gomez with our partners.
To be clear, I mean make sure to listen and look for feedback on various interactions to grow together.
Oh, totes love for Addams Family, the whole lot were righteous peeps.
Is it really simping if shes your wife?
@@sindigler3612 as far as I'm aware, yes. Just cause it's associated with creeps worshipping people they don't even know doesn't mean people can't do it with their partners.
It seems you mis-understand the concept of a simp... Gomez is def "getting it in", so he is not a simp.
A simp is someone who does what Gomez does, yet never "gets it in", receives no love/attention in return, and is in denial of footing-the-bill or being a paying customer (for no return) ... yet still believes to be in some kind of relationship "more special" than a paying customer (or financial doormat)
Simps are Sugar Daddies who get no Sugar and never get called Daddy.
It’s not simping is she’s returning his affection.
This might be difficult to do with TH-cam’s guidelines, but it could be interesting to do a deep dive into “fetish culture”. My initial idea was to talk about furries and how they are a very well known group on the internet, and how despite generally being considered a sexual niche they are more public about themselves than something like bdsm culture.
This is super interesting; I'll keep this in mind! 😃
So basically you're saying furries aren't a fetishised aesthetic? When I say 'fetishised aethetic', I mean furry porn is just regular porn but with animal-humanoid hybrids. BDSM isn't just an aesthetic, it's more active I'd say and in the moment, hence why I wouldn't call it 'porn'. I just don't get why you'd compare something people look like to something people actually do.
AND I'm asking if people somehow ACTIVELY use furries in sex so it's actually comparable.
@@rubenaalexander5007
You really haven't dived into the furrydom have you? It's not just an aesthetic for them either, it can be a whole life style just like BDSM. I'm not a furry myself but kinks/fetishes is a big area I'm interested, especially in the psychology department. I've met and spoke with lots of furries both RL and online ones. If you've never really seen it you'd probably have your mind blown.
My only concern for furries, are the few I suspect are trying to use it as a sort of long-term escapism or replacement for the reality their cause they can make a better fantasy version. Doubt is huge percent of them if any at all, I just think some of them get close to it.
@@rubenaalexander5007 from what I understand the whole fursuits in bed thing, is a fetish and it's actually seperate from the actual furry thing. I don't remember the name of the fetish exactly, but it's got more to do with an attraction to anthropomorphic animals or beings, more than it does the furry community coming together as a community holding events and making art music etc. I could be wrong, I'm not part of that internet community or subculture. I hope understood the comment right and helped bring some clarity. Being human I reserve the right to be wrong as well, Im no genius super alien. Just a humble animal making it through life.
Using Knives as an example of a female simp was an odd choice. She was in a relationship with Scott at the time and much younger. Then, afterwards she just had misguided anger towards Ramona when she should've beeen angry at Scott for not giving her the closure she needed
Hmm I think she falls under the category of "worshipping" or unnecessarily placing Scott up in a pedestal. I feel like male simps would be more inclined to resent those who manage to win over the object of their affections, much like how Knives attacked Ramona for dating Scott (even though she clearly should've been angry at the dude for cheating instead).
@@ana-isabel Fair point. I do think the fact that she was a young lass made it a bit less simpy and a bit more just how a younger person would act when in a relationship, maybe even trying to act mature by taking it super seriously in her point of view.
Great video by the way!
@@bullo247 I would ask, how would we feel about this theoretical situation: a guy who didn’t get closure from an arguably crappy girl, who’s hopped into another relationship already, but holds onto the idea that if he could prove himself better than that other guy he’d finally be able to get with the girl. But as you said, he was young and the girl should’ve let him down better. Would you consider that a simp or not?
@@CaulkMongler not really. I think the age thing plays a big thing in my mind. She did also get with Young Neil though that was fake. Doesnt strike me as a simp move
@@bullo247 i don't think age is requirement for being simp. I's more about sex drive and desperation to be loved. There are simps among high school boys, at least there was one in my school. He broke his arm to show a girl (who quickly started to avoid him, after befrending) that he loves her and would do anything for her.
I think the main difference between the modern concept of the simp and the "fedoralord" or "gentleman sir" of yore is that the simp has the insight to understand he has no real chance, and chooses to lavish the subject of his obsession with largesse for his own sense of martyrdom, while the gentleman sir is delusional, lacking the social awareness to understand that a trilby, pimples, GWAR t-shirt, and patchy teen moustache does not in fact make him irresistable to the woman he has selected to be his manic pixie dream grrl.
When my father was dying my best male friend bought me a hoodie i liked a lot, found a job which was related to my career, and gave me what was worth 300 dollars in soles(which is a lot for my country) out of the blue and yet there were people calling him a simp just for being a decent human being when i was going through my darkest hours. i think the term doesn't even have a meaning anymore. on the other hand i have a stalker that really falls into the definition of the real simp, with the nice guy included, i get so freaked out each time he writes me again even tho i blocked him on every social media platform, he even have old drawings i gave him when i met him because i like to draw and if im drawing in the moment and you like it i just give it to you, it didnt really meant anything special and he still has it after 8 years, he writes me on my instagram saying i was his first love and that im special to him, i didn't even know him that well..it is very scary...
So how did you reciprocate your friends kindness?
@@imjustchillin3538 by being descent human beings with each other? izi pizi, when people do something good for someone they aren't necessarily waiting for something in return, but if he is ever going through something bad i wouldn't doubt in helping him, not because he helped me but because friends can love each other without being sexual. I also bought valheim for him so we could play together but that was just because i like spending time with him and i though he would like the game, not because he helped me.
@@imjustchillin3538
A friend's acts of kindness, kind of like friendship itself, are not transactional.
@@Romana6794 so you are saying one can take advantage of the other
I simp for the level of dedication, research and editing prowess this video took
Thank youu! 🙏
Totes.
Fr though, Ana is pretty but her ability to make thoughtful essays like this is the most attractive thing about her for me
"Especially Ross, who he holds a deep unjustified hatred for."
No, no, no! Ross hatred is never unjustified!
WE WERE ON A BREAK!!
I hate the word simp because in the end it makes men treat women worse out of fear of being called a simp :(
Not actual men, I’m totes secure in my manhood and unlike those weak willed, lazy crap sacks I did get the ultrasex. Funny thing that kinda negates the idea that a) a simp, and b) less of man. I mean did get the booty from well, a goodly number.
It probably does, yeah, cause I can say from experience that roughly 100% of the times I've been called a simp in my life, it was cause I didn't hate a woman who everyone else was hating on, usually after asking why they hate her and not getting a satisfactory or even coherent answer.
Not true
Just like the phrase "nice guy" didn't lead to men treating women badly neither will "simp". This is just an excuse to be a dick
@@craig.a.glesner was this a joke?
Please please PLEASE do that video on how popular media with large female fandoms are generally looked at differently
So . . . a Lindsey Ellis video?
@@Joe-yz7qx no lies here. Her "Dear Stephanie Meyer" video is basically that.
Jacob from Twilight is the male equivilent of an e-girl.
K Pop fans are female Simps , there are just different words for the same core behaviors.
@@mchagnon7 the male equivalent of an e-girl, is an e-boy
Me: *Treats a woman with the minimal level of human decency.*
Some dude with an unwashed ass: S I M P!
Does that really happen ?
@@fastbackshots Man, it's happened to me many, many times.
It does, however, happen more often if the woman in question is a model or does sw.
@@Beto_Serrano well tbh ...simps treat only women good...there's obviously a valid reason simps are hated
@@fastbackshots Yeh. There is an evident and fundamental problem with simps. However, what I am talking about is not people actually being simps, but rather individuals being accused of such just for not joining up on the hate train against women.
@@Beto_Serrano is it really that common? I have never seen anyone calling someone a simp who is not a simp even after spending a considerable amount of time on internet every day.
I'm basically a simp for everyone I ever meet because at its core, life is suffering. Why not choose kindness?
Being kind doesnt make you a simp.
Thanos, Death and Deadpool have a similar relationship to Pam, Jim and Toby. Death has seemed to take a fascination with the mercenary Deadpool, appearing to him on several occasions in the context of a somewhat romantic nature. The implications of this are still a mystery, even to Deadpool. This caused Thanos to curse Deadpool with immortality, and I find that curse so funny xD
Next up: Cute catgirl therapists offering psychological and relationship advice on twitch.
Please tell me this isn’t a thing!?!
If you replace cat ears with occasional bunny ears and add a lot of swearing tics, Sweet Anita would fit that definition.
HealthyGamer_GG already does that, but without the cat ears.
@@andrewt836 why not? I mean if it helps people out, why the hell not?
Sounds like the perfect job for a VTuber!
WE GET IT! You're Intelligent, Hot, and well-spoken... Wait what was I complaining about?
Ooh boy, we caught one here haven't we?
Ladies and gentlemen, we caught em
Ironically, by changing Thanos's motivations in the movies, they made the comics from the 70s more relevant to modern cultural discussions. Well, at least more people are reading comics nowadays.
Okay seriously how does this channel not have at least 500k subs. This is outrageous.
Bro, she will soon. She doubled from like 10k to 20k just like 4 videos ago. This one is going places.
Yeah this stuff is quality
i know, right?!
one of my favorite creators RN
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but Cosmonaut the GOAT
Wow okay simp /s
@Rabbit the One, you right. I think it was at ~14k when i subscribed and it wasnt that long ago. She hit that algorithm sweet spot to be recommended to me because of other vids i watch like this
Excellent video. I've long been irritated by the overuse of words on the internet and having someone explain the degradation of language makes me feel less lonely
Ross without laugh track videos really change his vibe 😳
such a high quality well made video but soooo underrated 😭😭😭 pls youtube algorithm do something about this
a simp is someone who doesnt judge a girl base on her character or her contant but bas on her look and would dihumanize themselves in the hope of her attention and effection
Gambling is consentual too, doesn't mean it's not predatory. Especially when Twitch has an underage audience
The end of life for Simp is basically what we did to the word Weeaboo. Using it a joking self-depreciating manner.
I agree with almost everything here but I think it's important to remember that there is a difference between a guy simping over a twitch streamer and a girl simping over a celeb. The difference is exemplified in the video even. People who simp over streamers communicate with them regularly, and have the opportunity to develope extremely unhealthy thoughts and behaviors relating to this avenue of communication.
I'll never understand giving money to a streamer. I only pay for both convenience and professionally created content (Steam, Netflix). That said, what other people do with their money is their business, unless it's an actual mental issue that compels you to do it, that should get treatment like any other mental illness. IMO the actual fact behind it all is that people get more and more disconnected and try to find social spaces where no reciprocity could exist or it's profoundly superficial and fleeting. And I say this a someone with zero (0) friends.
It's really no difference than paying for any other content. The streamer creates something that you perceive as valuable (entertainment), so you donate to show your appreciation of the content. They spent their time entertaining you, so you pay for their time with money. Generally it's just a nice gesture like "I've watched your content for several years, here's 20 bucks to show my appreciation", but sometimes it does take on more nefarious tones as outlined in the video.
@@leetri Essentially, if you enjoy something and keep wanting to have more of it, somebody has got to pay for it.
I donate a few dollars here or there to show my appreciation to youtubers when they live stream sometimes. I just want them to know I really like the work they do.
Hope you find some friends. Makes life easier / worthwhile. Be well.
This was a fantastic lesson in something I knew basically nothing about (a number of things really). Ana Isabel, keeping me even vaguely on top of pop culture one video at a time. Thanks!
That [redacted] from [redacted] clip of him touching the girls shoulder to "get her attention" gets me every time.
Mikefrompa’s entire online presence is an attempt to make up for that clip of him at 0:12
he was one guy I was not expecting to show up in an Ana Isabel video
WHATS A TIFF?????
Redacted from Clowntown makes himself look worse at least once a week.
Well spoken. So eloquent. Great vid
Omg the mgtow shit at ~16:00 littlerally on an emotional rant about how woman are feelings and men are logical, again in a rant based ENTIRELY in emotion 😂
Ironic isn't? Very hypocritical thou but it's a woman what did we expect.
@@gabrielortiz3811 what the hell are you talking about? 😂
"we've explored the evolution of the Simp meme" and it was quite the half hour indeed
I really love the deep dive in this video! I agree with a lot of what you said, but I would give Crazy Ex Girlfriend a lot more credit! The show does a great job at expressing how Rebecca's actions are not okay, and even has a male character do and say the same things to express the horrible double standard. Additionally Rebecca gets a lot of development and grows into a good person when she seek out the proper mental health care for these terrible behaviors.
This video was promoted on my subscription feed at least. I love these video essays, keep up the good work.
This is a pretty great video, well researched, thoughtfully written, and has obviously a lot of great work put into it.
The research for this one must have been...SO awesome. Thank you for your service. o7
I read that as "Thank you for your fanservice" :D
Thank god the woman I simped for married me. That could of been real embarrassing..... Nevermind, she just told me I am embarrassing.. lol ouch.
always love your essays
I came across this channel a while back and
I just don't understand how it hasn't more subscribers. She is so well articulated, informative and has a voice I could listen to all day
Had to stop at "Sir, who hurt you?". That was funny. So true for the poor guys that overdosed on the "Red Pill"
Simps are usually born from desperation and loneliness. A lot of women are, in my opinion, unnecessarily cruel to these young guys, who are already down and out. Which leads to an acceleration into rage in their isolation. I feel for these men, because they buy into the idea promoted by the majority that you need to have a relationship to have fulfillment. Mgtow hates these guys because they're hopelessly drowning in a shallow pool they could simply step out of it, and find something better for themselves.
So they're weak men, well the weak only exist to be stepped on so what's new about it continuing to happen?
Loved the video and can never find enough creators that use this format
Thanks for the information. I never really looked into the terminology before. Informative & helpful. Thanks for the video
I think one of the most common usages of ‘simp’ I see online nowadays is when any man defends or agrees with a woman about anything especially if it involves feminism or something from a woman’s perspective. Essentially it has just usurped the phrase ‘white knighting’ in a lot of comment threads and that phrase was already often being egregiously misused more often than not.
@John Dunn how so?
@John Dunn If you're a piece of shit maybe
This one felt a bit like "their internet bubble vs. my internet bubble."
Yeah, if this was a pure rant it would be a pain to watch, but the way this video trying to be somewhat encyclopedic about real life lore makes it a little bit entertaining for me
Another great vid. I also thought you did a really good job being fair and considerate about the subject and anyone involved with it. Not an easy task!
A crazy amount of research and thought must of gone into this video.. great stuff thoroughly enjoyed it. cheers
HAHAHA, not even 15 seconds and I'm spoiled with THAT clip of Mike from PA, this is great.
SIMP!!!
Destiny going over those clips is one of the funniest things I’ve ever seen lmao
The logic at 23:46 is exactly what Nancy Reagan said at the height of the drug war "Just say No." It's a good video overall but if Men think this video is going to help them or provide any kind of direction with their issues, they are only going to spiral downwards.
Appreciate the anime & sit-com stuffs. Good stuff good stuff
Really love your videos, they are so informative and well edited! You explain these things so well.
Also, the Beatles poster in background doesn’t hurt 😉
I’ll admit I got a small boost of Serotonin from seeing clips of Valkyrae and Emma in this video. I’m definitely looking at the Thanos simp video next. Thanks for the fun educational half hour!
Dude gives such fun insight into the actual backstory of Thanos ahaha, its great. And thanks for watching!!! 😄
Okay, as a dude who read the AVENGERS comics that are the current MCU AVENGERS I’m actually salty they didn’t keep Thanos’ real reason for snapping out half of all life, it made thematic sense and made him a proper villain and not a cheap dime store wannabe philosopher who doesn’t understand the concept of an infinite universe even when he has full-on god power and should have noticed the fact right away.
I really like self-conscious fan acknowledgement like simp, trash, and stan - there's something about putting it out there that you're self-aware enough to know that not everyone is likely to be as interested in [thing] as you are. Honestly, though, I'm not an authority on this stuff, because I am old.
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Yeah stan is just exaggerated word for super fan. My dad stans ohio state football. My brother stan’d WoW for over 10 years, i’m stanning the shit outta Dresden Files audiobooks right now and ive been stan for countless other things
@@jjackson6082 Stan isn't super fan, Stan is legit "stalker + fan"
@@ExeErdna that’s what it originally meant. Definitions change with time. Now it’s mostly an amusing word for being a fan.
@@TheSlipperyNUwUdle People forget Eminem's "Stan" was a warning not something to clap about. There's a lot more "stalker + fans" than ever
Simp, incel and karen and some of the very useful and specific terms internet has sadly ruined to mean literally anything.
Hell ya another dope video. Thank!
It's funny how you bring up You as the male version of Crazy Ex Girlfriend despite CXG already having a male version of Rebecca in Trent.
I think the internet and rise of streaming/video content has created more investible, "personal" feeling para-social relationships left and right. And that obviously extends to sexual or romantic relationships. Which also interacts with the uneven dynamics people may observe in the real world between the sexes in term of dating, and advantages they perceive other sex to have in that arena.
I think a lot of less than sociable guys have gravitated towards the internet pretty naturally and a combination of community and these parasocial displays creeping into the space over time has created and codified these concepts. These people are drawn to attractive women "publicly" on the internet, but in turn, also many form a resentment. And its not even necessarily two completely separate groups. Although it generally is, I have literally witnessed people "simp" for lack of a better term for one attractive female in the online space, while becoming frustrated with the fans of several others and dismissing their actions and words as being form "simps" and not being valid. I think the personal connection they feel basically clouds their views and gives them a blind spot for "their guy" or girl. I think this resentment is not that uncommon as frustration with dating or relationship success can very easily lead someone down that thought process. That resentment of a perceived unfair female "power over weak men" in combination with their own lack of progress or "achievement" romantically is highly potent to some people, with the extreme endpoint causing them to hate women and any forms of non traditional masculinity expressed by men. So of course, the term very quickly gets a completely derogatory connotation.
Ana has blessed us with another video, love ya!
This is a really well produced video, good work
You know I never heard the term SIMP until I left college back in 2013 and with the whole Elliot Roger thing I realized that there was a lot of confusion out there in the dating world. I never dated in my life and I can honestly say at 31 I don't see the point in having animosity towards a soul. Just like you mention you are responsible for your own happiness. I can't date but I found things in life that makes it fulfilling. I respect the MGTOW, Incel, and PUA people the same as I do Flat Earthers in the sense that they are lost people who want to find a place to belong. Something to identify with and have like minded people. Sure women confuse me but why waste my time hating them or have a bitter taste over men who are successful in dating? Life is too short man. Find your own lane and work with it. If you don't like something just avoid it and move on. Anyway great video!
I feel like this is able to somehow be tied to the "i am not your friend" video by ludwig
This is a fantastic video! Very informative.
Yay! Another great video!
Disagree on one thing. Egirls farming dudes is nothing other than lovescamming. Just like this one tinder guy that has gotten a Netflix movie of his love scamming.
Been rewatching The Wonder Years, it's one of my favorite shows but Kevin Arnold, the main character, spends the entirety of the series simping over Winnie Cooper and it's hard to watch. I really wanna hear someone do a deep dive on this show.
I haven’t watched that show since it first aired. But those kids were pretty young and, by definition, are not yet mature and are trying to learn how to navigate relationships.
But Wonder Years was a great show and a deep dive could indeed be very cool (but that’s a lot of episodes).
I don’t remember subscribing to this channel but I’m happy I did
Great video, actually somewhat brief yet informative a lot.
I simp for these good ass video essays
I simp for Ana Isabel
I think you meant you like David Schwimmer cause if Ross was ever charming it was all him. Played by anyone else, Ross would be a psycho.
spent my whole morning at work listening to your vids. fresh sub!
Welcome aboard!
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Nice Video, very well done and entertaining Thank you!
Can I be your 'simp'? Kidding aside, really great video essay - high quality.
Show not tell
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From what I heard, people were giving iDubbz shit cause of his girlfriend cause of other content he’s made on girls with Onlyfans.
Fun video! Thanks :)
Love your channel
Looks like my copyright tips were useful ;)
They were haha - thanks! :D
Simp is the new “white knight” but somehow it took off way more than white knight ever did
I think it's because, like it or not, white knights are badass. Beating the shit out of someone to defend a woman is still beating the shit out of them, after all ;)
I like your videos, you're great at sharing ideas
4 vids, ok im convinced.. followed
I’ve always been a “simpette” always going the extra mile for guys I adored (like secretly learning how to bake their favorite sweets) only to constantly get dumped/ rejected for someone that gave 0 fks for them. And the only time I got my own “simp” it was my ex husband (but only after I left him for being abusive) he would randomly bring me a whole cheesecake from the Cheesecake Factory, transfer money into my account, show up at my new address, break in…… you know classic stalker entitled sht movies claim women love… all I wanted was for a guy I’m into to do the things I do for them while I’m still into them, why is that so hard?
And the guys I’m into aren’t even those “alphas” or “betas” or whatever, they’re like mid tier? And they’re sweet till we get together, complete 180 😓
Female stalkers can DEFINITELY be dangerous. 👀 Jodie Arias.
Just found your content and I really like the way you speak and extrapolate ideas. Keep up the good work, subbed!
I learned... so much today
17:45 , “hoop-tee”, imma assume you did that on purpose, since you name dropped TooShort and dropped bars.
much love
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Yeah, for real. 47k is super low for the quality of research and presentation she does. Really explains things in a way that is easy to understand in a clear pleasant voice. I have difficulty explaining things to people even if i completely understand it
WHY DOES ROSS, THE LARGEST FRIEND, SIMPLY NOT EAT THE OTHER FIVE
Hoop-tie ,😂 based on the rapping in the beginning this pronunciation makes sense love the vid
Lol she said (hoop-tie)!
I think even the list of criteria you shared had the built-in capacity for the expanded more misogynistic definition - particularly "a female who doesn't bring anything to the table". The term simp is not just a put-down on the male in that usage, but also puts down the female he is simping for by implying that she's not worth it. So if you don't think women are worth anything, like MGTOWs do, then even the smallest gesture does qualify as simping. Just wanted to add that.
The fact that this drops on the same day as Lil Mariko's SIMP music video is great timing
The most underappreciated channel on TH-cam.