Judge Lynn Toler Says Women Should Never Hit A Man In His Weak Areas

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  • The advice Judge Lynn gave modern women to not hit a man in his weak areas was spot on. Women hitting men in weak areas created the red pill and passport king movement.

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    • @Perfekshuhnmorphs
      @Perfekshuhnmorphs ปีที่แล้ว

      so it's OK for men to do all the wrong they do to women if they can't handle the smoke they bussyies 😊

    • @davidobijr.7037
      @davidobijr.7037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless her.

    • @ifyoucallmethenwordiwin
      @ifyoucallmethenwordiwin ปีที่แล้ว

      problem......... the MODERN/FEMINIST/INDEPENDENT WOMEN dont give a F@#$K

  • @solomonhunter9649
    @solomonhunter9649 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Wish there was more women like her she schooled a lot of people on her show

    • @yo3rdtier128
      @yo3rdtier128 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guy, at some point in life get a little stronger. Don’t be such a buttercup. If a woman hit me below the belt? I would LMAO because it make me none.

  • @ImGerald
    @ImGerald ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Hit a man where he's weak basically kills the relationship. Might as well say it's over, you're the enemy now.

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    If you profess to love someone, why would you say/do things to hurt them ? Period.

    • @leonwhite864
      @leonwhite864 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because that's what we do as humans period

    • @joybrooks564
      @joybrooks564 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leonwhite864 Make that make sense.

    • @Vipershadow1
      @Vipershadow1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@leonwhite864 it be the ones who claim to love u that be the ones to exploit the stuff you tell them the most in the worst ways

  • @candacetyndall6142
    @candacetyndall6142 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    God Bless Judge Toler!

    • @harveyhankerson8359
      @harveyhankerson8359 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh yeah.. she’s 💯 right about that !!

    • @reignlove8741
      @reignlove8741 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes because he was a GREAT man.🤔

  • @LetsDoSocialWork
    @LetsDoSocialWork 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "My mother told me, she said, "Never hit a man where he's weak. Never. It could be true, it could be real, but you don't hit him where he's weak because it'll turn around on you. You can get him to do what you need him to do, but you never hit a man where he's weak 'cause they never forget it. It lives with them."
    -Judge Lyne Toller

    • @randyperkins50
      @randyperkins50 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I learned more about men from my father, grandfather and uncles. Best teaching ever.

  • @croaker9260
    @croaker9260 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    There are some women who behave monstrous towards their men, and they wonder why those men cheat or leave. Not every disagreement is a chance to show your ass and hit below the belt. When you take it that far, the relationship will never be the same.

  • @kikayei
    @kikayei ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Gentleman, don’t ever talk to a woman about your fears, your secrets, your failures and every embarrassing moment you’ve been through because that’ll give her the ammo to hurt you. Be smart and keep your mouth shut.

    • @tonisanders3289
      @tonisanders3289 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯💯💯💯

    • @jlove6346
      @jlove6346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same goes for woman too

    • @galenjoyce8895
      @galenjoyce8895 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Excellent advice.

    • @ShadesOfIvory
      @ShadesOfIvory ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jlove6346 Ive seen this happen to a friend of mine. 🙏🏾

    • @coderdecoder5947
      @coderdecoder5947 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed. I learned that before I became red pilled with women. Always display strength.

  • @ekell7472
    @ekell7472 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    there’s a king and a fool in every man. feed the one you want to grow 😂

  • @RillaLord32212
    @RillaLord32212 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love her... She's speaking absolute truth.. Hell, it's happened to me throughout my life, and I've never forgotten it.

  • @TheArtofToday.
    @TheArtofToday. ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I saw this interview with the Judge & both my Mom & Dad always stressed & instilled these facts in me & my Siblings. Great advice many Black Women need to take heed to.

    • @KuruptdMuzik
      @KuruptdMuzik ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They gon do what they want to do. And be the cause of their own bad decisions.

    • @ImGerald
      @ImGerald ปีที่แล้ว +4

      too bad a majority of women don't take advice from anybody. Can't nobody tell them nothing.

    • @charlesdorsey7594
      @charlesdorsey7594 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coco skinned Brazilian woman!!!! HERE I COME!!!!!,🛫

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet ปีที่แล้ว +22

    God bless her she always spoke highly of her late husband and I know it had to be devastating that he is gone. God bless her.

  • @puuddoktr8243
    @puuddoktr8243 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Definitely gotta aunty that could learn from this... But she's pushing 50+ I think she's done, and stuck in her ways... Amazing all of those failed relationships she's had she's never saw that common denominator of an attitude and being mouthy was the root... But go ahead women... Do u

    • @appliancedude63
      @appliancedude63 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have a Mother, aunties, and cousins that are all the same. Can't keep a man because of their mouths and nothing is ever their fault. I feel sorry for their children.

  • @pache7216
    @pache7216 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I love Judge Toler,, everytime she speaks its with so much passion ❤️

  • @robertepps2834
    @robertepps2834 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan said that Where is no discipline there is no love.

  • @wisdom7311
    @wisdom7311 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will say, out of most of the female Judges she was the most tolerable one when it came to Black Men in my opinion and she spoke plenty of wisdom with not only logic but the spirit of her emotions when it came to her people and her race of men showed. God Bless her soul

  • @davismcmillian6790
    @davismcmillian6790 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Special kind of lady. The judge.

  • @lifetrust6080
    @lifetrust6080 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Their mouth and attitude is the problem.

  • @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
    @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I agree with Judge Lynn Toler.

  • @MsDisneylandlover
    @MsDisneylandlover ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My aunt told me you never let a man play hit you. Bc if you let him play hit you and you do nothing. It can get real one day and he will really hit you and think he can get away with it.

    • @googoo5922
      @googoo5922 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey sister. That can be the case. Not necessarily. But yeah it can be. Because if u play that too much. Some man(not all) don't know the fine line between play n reality. So perhaps you should be carefull in choosing a partner. Regardless what i say. Humans are complex and could even hit you even without playhitting. The most important part about arelationship is to have protection from family. Like your father or an uncle or anyone who can step in when stuff happens. We arabs when our daughters get hit or abused we dont say divorce. We basically f the man up. And he never does it anymore. Protection is key

    • @googoo5922
      @googoo5922 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A human being is complex. Even without play hit someone may hit u. Protection is key. Your father uncle or cousin should be there for you when stuff like thid happens

  • @AGoddessNavee
    @AGoddessNavee ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She's an old school woman with morals_condolences to her on losing her husband🔥🔥

  • @saonedixon5476
    @saonedixon5476 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Women are great at hitting below the belt. They can mess your self esteem up. Especially if you're sensitive like myself. But you gotta love yourself and boost your own self esteem.

  • @KM-iz6sg
    @KM-iz6sg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No one should hit another person at their weakest point; irrespective of gender.

  • @dorashelton1615
    @dorashelton1615 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love Judge Lynn Toler. Hit him there IF you need to Defend yourself.
    No. Not just to be Evil. 😮😢

    • @deejay5102
      @deejay5102 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ¿?

    • @dpanman
      @dpanman ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Oh really? Hyena logic to me

    • @APG-fu6gk
      @APG-fu6gk ปีที่แล้ว

      Not even THEN! If you feel like that is the ONLY way you need to be anywhere else.

    • @johannhowitzer
      @johannhowitzer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@APG-fu6gk Yes. If you think "this is something I will use against him only when I need to defend myself," then you are already giving yourself permission and looking for a moment where you can tell yourself it's self-defense. Don't even enter that territory in your mind, that's already setting up your relationship to head that direction.

  • @goldenbaby3608
    @goldenbaby3608 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love Judge Toler!! She represents "black" and real women well.......

  • @simoncorporation3
    @simoncorporation3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She's a wise woman for listening to her elders as we all should, especially when they pass on positive knowledge.

  • @mazmazxavier3069
    @mazmazxavier3069 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Judge had a really emotionally intelligent mother.
    These are really good points and work both ways, for Men and Women.
    I am nearly 57 years old, I do not think, I will be in a relationship, as I have no trust in that part of my life.

  • @keithwiggins299
    @keithwiggins299 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women who do that to a man are really weak themselves. They learned this from childhood all the way up to adult hood and this is one of the reasons why some of these women get attacked.

  • @kenneycooper6199
    @kenneycooper6199 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She’s absolutely correct. 💯

    • @ShadesOfIvory
      @ShadesOfIvory ปีที่แล้ว

      Men shouldnt hit below the belt to women, either. It kills her inside(Ive seen it happen to a friend of mine). I think that why some switch teams at some points in their lives...🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

    • @johannhowitzer
      @johannhowitzer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ShadesOfIvory It's true that both do it, but relational aggression is the wheelhouse of women on the whole. You see this in teenagers; teenage girls tend toward spreading rumors, manipulation, attacking each other's self esteem, whereas boys tend toward direct physical confrontation and trash talk. This carries into adulthood; and while some men do this, women are far more likely to do it, and are far better at it. I'm a schoolteacher, and I see these behaviors in pretty much every classroom all the way from elementary through high school. Teachers are also great at stopping the boys before damage is done, but really rubbish at recognizing what's happening between the girls and stopping it in time.

  • @tqm7502
    @tqm7502 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love her so much

  • @mackmeal6964
    @mackmeal6964 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I believe bein attacked on a vunerable front sets trauma.

  • @ghosttemplar6989
    @ghosttemplar6989 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can bet you this majority of men who has been hit in that weak spot emotions have been harden to tje point where they cant take dating or loving a women or anyone serious anymore.

    • @jasondawson92
      @jasondawson92 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true but there are good women that wants you and love you and there a some that don’t want & love you

  • @deejay5102
    @deejay5102 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You shouldn't hit any human where they are weak at....it shouldn't matter if they male or female....

  • @tkodmusicBeats
    @tkodmusicBeats ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ur right unc men are hurting themselves more often, depression among other mental illnesses has increased significantly with no support but plenty of shame

  • @samuelmahmud1909
    @samuelmahmud1909 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great video coverage Phillip 💯 facts

  • @ohreally1
    @ohreally1 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Take accountability women for your actions!

  • @MsDisneylandlover
    @MsDisneylandlover ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Boths should keep them hands to themselves

  • @richmitch4292
    @richmitch4292 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'll say men turn your weakness into strengths

  • @daniellemyer73
    @daniellemyer73 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    FACTZ & SHOUTS OUT TO QUEEN JUDGE LYNN TOLER👍🏾✊🏾🔥🙏🏾💜😊

  • @361Ratch
    @361Ratch ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish my mom told me things like this growing up. I use to put my husband down a lot. Just to hurt him so he could feel pain like I did. And it always bothered him. He would say words hurt they do stick. And not once did he ever say anything bad about me. It’s something I’m working on . And I don’t plan to belittle him anymore. I do it out of anger some times.

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardson ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amen-RA! Thank you Judge Lynn Toler!

  • @hotice8885
    @hotice8885 ปีที่แล้ว

    They shouldn't.....But SINCE THEY DO, ...

  • @CorporateHoops
    @CorporateHoops ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thank all of the heauxs that hit my weak points. This made me stronger and gave me the fuel to be successful.

  • @brianmuhammad6903
    @brianmuhammad6903 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's what Minister Farrakhan said in a lecture. A woman's damn mouth.

  • @rogerblewett5595
    @rogerblewett5595 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She told the truth 💯

  • @uriandropov8039
    @uriandropov8039 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love that judge

  • @mataylor5
    @mataylor5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We stress this for men yet no should hit anyone when they are down especially in our community I’ve seen men and women say harsh and hateful things I’ve seen couples turn confidential thing’s shared with each on one another

  • @hesterwalker671
    @hesterwalker671 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "GOOD KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM"!! 🙏🙏✝️✝️💜💜💜💜💜

  • @LinaLina-we4nl
    @LinaLina-we4nl ปีที่แล้ว +11

    🗣She (Judge Lynn Toler) 👉🏼Told the Truth 👍☑️💜

  • @RomanHill-j1w
    @RomanHill-j1w ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Amen

  • @deejay5102
    @deejay5102 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    judge Lynn is my ole lady crush....I think she aging Phine as wine....and her wisdom is what makes her stand out...

    • @joshuajackson7050
      @joshuajackson7050 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts, she never ages, seems the older she gets the better she looks.

  • @redemptiongemini
    @redemptiongemini ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She’s so beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Lee85G
    @Lee85G ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love judge Toler. Rest In Peace to her Husband. ❤

  • @Max-oi9es
    @Max-oi9es ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women are born with that knowledge, why do you think they often do it as a last resort tactic? They ain't gonna change partly because we ain't gonna change.

  • @robertepps2834
    @robertepps2834 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is a difference between Sincere Women and the Women who are influenced by the powers that be that's influencing this society.

  • @captainkeyboard1007
    @captainkeyboard1007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Judge Lynn Toler has been right always. Not only a male (boy or man) should not attack a female (girl or woman), a girl and woman do not need to attack a boy or a man. We all are created by one Sweet Gracious Great God, with the same blood, different hair, skin colors, even personalities, except the bad ones, and are in this world together. Like hatred, violence does not belong in the home, no matter what it looks like. We cannot change one another: only Sweet Gracious Great God can change a person, and He does it better than everyone else. All we do is love, pray for, and be nice to one another. It works better than exerting unnecessary strength, even with the mouth.

  • @brotherkevinnelson9555
    @brotherkevinnelson9555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Disrespectful talk is a deal breaker.

  • @williamriley5118
    @williamriley5118 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She’s right!

  • @yisraelyishay
    @yisraelyishay ปีที่แล้ว +4

    📢Peace And Love To The Family!
    (Shalom wa Ahab La Ha Mishpacha!)👳🏿‍♂️💎

  • @abdur-raheems8648
    @abdur-raheems8648 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love that lady, pray for her she recently lost her husband.

  • @lisamc2590
    @lisamc2590 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Judge Lynn is correct & rest in peace her husband

  • @Kasadoll
    @Kasadoll 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you hit a man where he's weak especially if he opened up enough to you to trust you with that weakness, I guarantee he'll never open up to you again. You only need to do that one time and he'll never forget it.

  • @malikbeyard3473
    @malikbeyard3473 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She’s absolutely right!

  • @timothym.salley3602
    @timothym.salley3602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real talk Brother Phil valuable segment thanks and God bless 🙌 🙏

  • @listentoauntrobin9617
    @listentoauntrobin9617 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's a two way street!😂

  • @takodawhitefeather
    @takodawhitefeather 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gender should not be the focus. Show mutual respect and love for one another.

  • @MrsPetal
    @MrsPetal 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love judge Lynn ❤️❤️🤲

  • @jacoby1234ification
    @jacoby1234ification ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are 💯 right Phil some of this brings back memories for me

  • @young10again
    @young10again ปีที่แล้ว

    They know how to push them buttons!🔼🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @kurtrinamckinnon4214
    @kurtrinamckinnon4214 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Luv her example of grown women.

  • @ismaelgirado2887
    @ismaelgirado2887 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I give thanks goddess for sharing this very important message. Peace Love Light

  • @mrq4292
    @mrq4292 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally watch this video like 3 times today great video

  • @mesoanto1031
    @mesoanto1031 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Relationships cannot be always build on trust however it must be built on the truth. It takes a lifetime to build trust and only seconds to destroy it

  • @marvl6472
    @marvl6472 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She was the best on there and Judge faith after.the new one, Star is such a darn Sistahood type ..maybe her Jose Zaddy gets beat up by her

  • @ChristopherBlacksher
    @ChristopherBlacksher ปีที่แล้ว +2

    More black women need to listen to women like Lynn Toler

  • @antionettawolfe9933
    @antionettawolfe9933 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My mother says the same thing

  • @marilynu2681
    @marilynu2681 ปีที่แล้ว

    Judge Lynn Toler is absolutely correct I agree 100 percent. You have to know when to speak and when to keep your mouth closed. A relationship without mutual respect is DONE. Please do not hit below the belt.

  • @Nightrain349
    @Nightrain349 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    BW do it all the time. Amd trust I never forgotten.

  • @Victoria-qk3mu
    @Victoria-qk3mu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gives me chills ❤

  • @CLOWNBOT00
    @CLOWNBOT00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The moral here is to know: Words have potential to cut like knives, and the wounds from those words have a very low chance of going away because they rest within our long-term memory banks and could cause psychological trauma at the height of tension with life-threatening situations. Watch not just what you say, but HOW you say what you say.

  • @nunook5522
    @nunook5522 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This advice swings both ways Phil. I know this is supposed to be about men, and not trying to negate what Judge Toler said.

  • @bernardcollins7924
    @bernardcollins7924 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ladies if a man go all out for you, there's a disagreement and he saying how he doing everything and you say,you didn't have too do that ,you chose too do it. You created a monster.

  • @maxwellotoo7250
    @maxwellotoo7250 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Black women are saving their love for Zaddy who does not want them

  • @augustknight3483
    @augustknight3483 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Women do this type of stuff all the time, and walk away with a smile on their face. Smdh.

    • @eugenedantzler4485
      @eugenedantzler4485 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup and put their hands on you at times

    • @incognitonegress3453
      @incognitonegress3453 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a female, not a woman. Then again...ur prob not a man so that would allude u

  • @jamesmurray8558
    @jamesmurray8558 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They do that all the time.

  • @kingjamesmayo8232
    @kingjamesmayo8232 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real talk Phil

  • @calcan7162
    @calcan7162 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A women scorned same for men hell we all human real talk brother Phil shout out to the judge too

  • @kingdomofgarvin3432
    @kingdomofgarvin3432 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real Talk

  • @pamelawalker3085
    @pamelawalker3085 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Judge Lynn Toler ❤🙏🏾🌹

  • @wiwuno
    @wiwuno 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its true. Men don't get to be weak or vulnerable in our world. We cant share the things that hit to the heart. There are so few people we can trust with that and when someone we trust uses that against us? Its betrayal plain and simple. That trust is gone there on the spot. The relationship will never be the same again.

  • @blacknight88
    @blacknight88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Many men do start off as nice guy simps but eventually he gets turned into something else after he gets screwed over, played and hurt

    • @Vipershadow1
      @Vipershadow1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Experience darkens the heart progressively slowly

  • @jmos005
    @jmos005 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise you,Judge Toler! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @joeo8215
    @joeo8215 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be careful what you communicate to others because sooner or later, you could regrets about it

  • @richmitch4292
    @richmitch4292 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perfect example Mike Tyson Robin givens 20/20 interview back in around 88 or 89

  • @reggiesingleton7024
    @reggiesingleton7024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So True

  • @chicho157
    @chicho157 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fact after 13 years and a son i am done.

    • @chicho157
      @chicho157 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fals. I dont have insecurity. I am just hurt.

  • @ericpetteway3841
    @ericpetteway3841 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Truth

  • @astriverofstrengthandknowledge
    @astriverofstrengthandknowledge ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly Judge, it might not happen all the time, but there have been a good amount of cases where things got ugly real fast when women try to cross that line.

  • @ohreally1
    @ohreally1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Take accountability men for your actions!

    • @eugenedantzler4485
      @eugenedantzler4485 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Many men do..... Women struggle more with accountability

  • @ZaneiYah
    @ZaneiYah ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great small show! ❤❤❤❤