marriage dosnt necessarily kill romance however i think because men are such goal oriented creatures when they have married you they feel that they have reached their goal so onto the next goal, also romance can still be there after you marry but it has to be more deliberate
Oluwatoyin Majiyagbe Ball this guy seemed to have lives a double life. He was or is broke. By her being a doctor (she has money), he is leaning on her.... As it seems.
this short movie sends a really deep message! After reading the comments, I keep going back to catch the little details I may have missed. Why promise a woman heaven and earth when you can't even give her a shrub? It's either the married folks are hiding a lot from us, or we singles are just really jaded about marriage and need to do some digging before hopping into it. I believe more people should speak their truth so others can learn. As I get older, I'm getting sick of the portrayals of women sucking it up and sitting through anything for a ring. It's no wonder people are falling out of marriages faster than they got in. Take time to know each other, don't over-promise anything, be confident with your reality while being open and optimistic about your future as individuals and as a team. And if it hurts, no matter how long you have been dating for, walk out. It's better to have a broken relationship/engagement than a broken marriage. That pain multiples. With Skinny Girl in Transit, I believe Ndani is shedding light on this vital other side. Good job, Ndani!
That story went SOOOOOOO LEFT AT THE END!! 👀 Really great short film. Real lesson in maintaining relationships - keep doing all the good things you were doing at the beginning. Don't slack. Neglect is so destrictive.
Communication is important in marriage...the guy started with note from the beginning and it looked romantic on the part of the woman bcos as a single lady in a serious relationship she was expecting marriage proposal...but after marriage the guy did not change that form of communiction with note....but still used note to communicate with her..and now that she has the ring she wishes that another form of communication can be used by the husband....SIMPLE LESSON IN HERE IS THAT People dont change when they marry you soo do not expect too much...and you can not change them...unless they change by themselves..
I think circumstances oo . You know the beginning the notes were a form of the proposal would it have been fun if he was speaking at every point that oh turn your lights on when she opened the boot of her car too how else will he have communicated because he wasn’t with her at all times but this one they are married you are around and still using it this marriage circumstance doesn’t work with the note and he should wise up
The relevance is not the medium of communication that stayed the same. It is the content. Not changing would mean he still communicates his love via notes and surprises. And that he is still romantic through the day. A note about gas shouldn't be the first thing you see in the morning, in the same place that love notes used to be. Put such a note where she'll see it at breakfast or on her way out. Passion is something to keep kindling. If you could do it once upon a time, keep doing it for ever after.
I read comments: romance b4 and nothing after, thé guy never changed, he never communicated with her directly, and the gifts never Got her complaning. Mariage an eye opener they say,no gifts .... communication issue🙁🙁 . .. mistakes we do dailyyyyyy
Really, nicely done. Especially with the symbolism; their marriage now a watered down version of miscommunication. It was fun and romantic in the beginning, "hints", but not now. Shows how a lot from courtship get carried into marriage, but is it really enough? Well, my critique is that it was way too slow after the first 2mins. It would have worked better as a Punchline Short. But on the whole, good job guys!
Great build up to the Zenith. Cinematography well planned. Great mid and long shots. The props told the story especially with clocks (I saw the idea :). The ending?? errrrrrr maybe not what I was expecting but the hook was there. Great cast. Great Team. #GoTeamNdani
Never mistake romance for love. Wake up. That age old impostor will always be found out. Love is, still is, the greatest though. Love is waking up to find out that your charming spouse snores like the Bahamas Brass Band and you're going to lie by them till death do you part. You'll still love them no less.
Hahaha..."reminder about the cooking gas" as opposed to d love notes pre-marriage lol...totally true!!!nice one... truth be told though our expectations, views and priorities changes everyday but its more obvious in marriage because of the "knot" factor...great job guys!!
lol i would like to see a proposal coming from african television where the bride doesn't always look shocked. i mean unless u just met, the shocked expression is not always the right reaction. just be happy cha lol not all proposals require you to be shocked.
Sometimes its not the fact that he's proposing that's shocking. It might have come at an unexpected moment. I know some are exaggerated but its quite normal to be surprised esp if u didn't know he was planning it to be executed in a certain way.
Lool I know right, even in real life o, I always wonder why they so shocked. Ooh boy like I even picked out my own ring, yes the moment was unexpected but after two years of relationship, there better be a proposal coming up. Especially if uve discussed marriage and expectations in marriage, like u should have an idea a proposal is on the way
If only I could like your comment a million times. Movies and popular culture add to peoples disillusionment with real life romance. The marriage discussions, the saving for the ring, some even live together and you act shocked when he proposes?
Okay so I have a couple of things to say. One: I HATED HER WIG- sooooo fake!!! Two: I liked the concept of romantic gestures everywhere and then all that vanished after "I do". Three: I think the romantic gestures were too much! AH-AHHHH! Notes, t shirts, haba! And so, they were rather unrealistic for me. This leads me to a famous quote most married people know: What you can't continue, don't start it! Because the romance was plenty, she expected it after marriage and the disappointment was quite keen- i'm not surprised and can't blame her. Four: It's a good remainder that romance in marriage is VERY important. It may not reach this guy's level (KUDOS) but women too- what do YOU do????
I totally agree with you but then again sometimes we forget that marriage is not always rosy. You make it how you want it to be. Either way though Mr. Smooth guy could have been a bit more romantic than a kiss on the cheek and a priority pasted on the mirror. I believe this generation expects so much considering that some of our parents were not like this during their marriage. It was either lovey dovey in the beginning and as the years go by they just acknowledged each others presence or vice versa. Either way there are so many things to learn about marriage each and every day and successful couples have made mention that they continue to go through the school of marriage daily. But I most definitely agree with your point!
Really shouldn't start what you can't finish. People think that once you've gotten something, then you can just relax. It's like business, the energy you use to get customer should be the same energy you use to keep them. It gets tough and you relapse, yes, but you shouldn't just relax and let it be the new normal. If you give morning kisses, better continue giving it till the very end. And it's actually okay to have expectations and okay to be disappointed when it's not kept.
It will definitely hurt you. Because all this is only when you guys are not married or even planning to. I bet you marriage does not give you all this, you have to fix yourself up on your own to make yourself happy.
And all this while I thought she had a dream of more lavish life with the perfect man “mr Wright”... only to wake up to the reality of her poorer living and mr all so wrong. Maybe an affirmation she secretly desired and hoped to come true just to wake back up to the otherwise ... but after reading the comments I guess it makes more sense that the romance had died after marriage. That makes more sense.
Hey hey,they worked on their relationship but forgot that the most important thing is life after we both say 'we do'....all the romance ended immediately after, i am sure the last scene of him saying hbd was jst a year after they got married. The marriage itself needs more fire than the courtship because life is hard enough n not jst saying i love you does it any more. Two people coming from different backgrounds...Communication is the most important aspect of a relationship...my opinion thou.
waste of megabytes - precious one at that. A short film, yes, but no bite to it, just bland. Its good but for all the hype about ndani, I expected better especially from a crew that was able to create frank donga( now that's one hell of a character).
The message is very clear......It shows what happens while courting and when married.... B4 he got married to her he was very romantic but now that they are married he reminded her about the gas cooker on her birthday.... This is the reality of life.... Where a young lady always looks attractive during her single-hood and less attractive after getting married.
Who else is reading comments before watching?
This girls skin comprises of comets, gold, black matter and honey..... so stunning
Ekanem Ekpenyong of course you are here😂😂😂
Bola Adebayo loool go away....
Thought I was the only one
marriage should not kill the passion in a relationship. sometimes the idea of getting married and the romance dying is very scary.
marriage dosnt necessarily kill romance however i think because men are such goal oriented creatures when they have married you they feel that they have reached their goal so onto the next goal, also romance can still be there after you marry but it has to be more deliberate
SuppleChicTV #Mute
Oluwatoyin Majiyagbe Ball this guy seemed to have lives a double life. He was or is broke. By her being a doctor (she has money), he is leaning on her.... As it seems.
My sis. Most times the anxiety in marriage affect the passion. Just checked ur channel. U got my support wit a full bell.
this short movie sends a really deep message! After reading the comments, I keep going back to catch the little details I may have missed. Why promise a woman heaven and earth when you can't even give her a shrub? It's either the married folks are hiding a lot from us, or we singles are just really jaded about marriage and need to do some digging before hopping into it. I believe more people should speak their truth so others can learn. As I get older, I'm getting sick of the portrayals of women sucking it up and sitting through anything for a ring. It's no wonder people are falling out of marriages faster than they got in. Take time to know each other, don't over-promise anything, be confident with your reality while being open and optimistic about your future as individuals and as a team. And if it hurts, no matter how long you have been dating for, walk out. It's better to have a broken relationship/engagement than a broken marriage. That pain multiples.
With Skinny Girl in Transit, I believe Ndani is shedding light on this vital other side. Good job, Ndani!
You finish talk
That story went SOOOOOOO LEFT AT THE END!! 👀 Really great short film. Real lesson in maintaining relationships - keep doing all the good things you were doing at the beginning. Don't slack. Neglect is so destrictive.
This set designer, cast and Cinematographer are so on point...
Lesson learnt: Don't start what you can't finish.
Midé that was my exact thought too
Communication is important in marriage...the guy started with note from the beginning and it looked romantic on the part of the woman bcos as a single lady in a serious relationship she was expecting marriage proposal...but after marriage the guy did not change that form of communiction with note....but still used note to communicate with her..and now that she has the ring she wishes that another form of communication can be used by the husband....SIMPLE LESSON IN HERE IS THAT People dont change when they marry you soo do not expect too much...and you can not change them...unless they change by themselves..
Agreed...
Lol.
I think circumstances oo . You know the beginning the notes were a form of the proposal would it have been fun if he was speaking at every point that oh turn your lights on when she opened the boot of her car too how else will he have communicated because he wasn’t with her at all times but this one they are married you are around and still using it this marriage circumstance doesn’t work with the note and he should wise up
The relevance is not the medium of communication that stayed the same. It is the content. Not changing would mean he still communicates his love via notes and surprises. And that he is still romantic through the day. A note about gas shouldn't be the first thing you see in the morning, in the same place that love notes used to be. Put such a note where she'll see it at breakfast or on her way out. Passion is something to keep kindling. If you could do it once upon a time, keep doing it for ever after.
Do not make her feel special cos she's not yours and when she's yours, you forget her worth...
Ruth Adeola so real
So well done: Shoot. Acting. Story. Photography!
Relationships are fantasies. Marriage is reality. Lmao. Cooking gas 😂😂😂😂😂
cooking gas!!!
😂🤣😭
I love this Lady, she has a travelling show
Its not always going to b rosy but communication is d key
I read comments: romance b4 and nothing after, thé guy never changed, he never communicated with her directly, and the gifts never Got her complaning. Mariage an eye opener they say,no gifts .... communication issue🙁🙁 . .. mistakes we do dailyyyyyy
Beautiful....hope this happens in reality sometimes.
Really, nicely done. Especially with the symbolism; their marriage now a watered down version of miscommunication. It was fun and romantic in the beginning, "hints", but not now. Shows how a lot from courtship get carried into marriage, but is it really enough? Well, my critique is that it was way too slow after the first 2mins. It would have worked better as a Punchline Short. But on the whole, good job guys!
What is a punchline short?
Problem started from when he didn't kneel down to ask!
Lol... For real?
Love the short. Hate the wig though.
😂
Great build up to the Zenith. Cinematography well planned. Great mid and long shots. The props told the story especially with clocks (I saw the idea :). The ending?? errrrrrr maybe not what I was expecting but the hook was there. Great cast. Great Team. #GoTeamNdani
Never mistake romance for love. Wake up. That age old impostor will always be found out. Love is, still is, the greatest though. Love is waking up to find out that your charming spouse snores like the Bahamas Brass Band and you're going to lie by them till death do you part. You'll still love them no less.
Deoye Sonde Bahamas brass band 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
@@paulamugabi7320 This just hits differently in a beautiful way 🙂
Hahaha..."reminder about the cooking gas" as opposed to d love notes pre-marriage lol...totally true!!!nice one... truth be told though our expectations, views and priorities changes everyday but its more obvious in marriage because of the "knot" factor...great job guys!!
#Mute
If we had many of her kind of doctor in our country...
Ow I get the story now...I love the twist
lol i would like to see a proposal coming from african television where the bride doesn't always look shocked. i mean unless u just met, the shocked expression is not always the right reaction. just be happy cha lol not all proposals require you to be shocked.
i seriously agree. why the shock? you guys have been dating for what?
Sometimes its not the fact that he's proposing that's shocking. It might have come at an unexpected moment. I know some are exaggerated but its quite normal to be surprised esp if u didn't know he was planning it to be executed in a certain way.
exactly!
Lool I know right, even in real life o, I always wonder why they so shocked. Ooh boy like I even picked out my own ring, yes the moment was unexpected but after two years of relationship, there better be a proposal coming up. Especially if uve discussed marriage and expectations in marriage, like u should have an idea a proposal is on the way
If only I could like your comment a million times. Movies and popular culture add to peoples disillusionment with real life romance. The marriage discussions, the saving for the ring, some even live together and you act shocked when he proposes?
Ndani tv. The transition was too fast and too sudden. Y'all should have started the transition in the middle of the clip not at the end.
That “recieve” though. It got me second guessing my ability to spell “receive”.
‘i’ before ‘e’ except after ‘c’
Hewooo! Romance don die finish :(
Frostbite in the Tropics?
misidee I wonder o
Na wa for una..
Ha ha... true. We should use our own things
Such a lovely one!
Okay so I have a couple of things to say.
One: I HATED HER WIG- sooooo fake!!!
Two: I liked the concept of romantic gestures everywhere and then all that vanished after "I do".
Three: I think the romantic gestures were too much! AH-AHHHH! Notes, t shirts, haba! And so, they were rather unrealistic for me. This leads me to a famous quote most married people know: What you can't continue, don't start it! Because the romance was plenty, she expected it after marriage and the disappointment was quite keen- i'm not surprised and can't blame her.
Four: It's a good remainder that romance in marriage is VERY important. It may not reach this guy's level (KUDOS) but women too- what do YOU do????
Men go the whole 9 yards when they want something, but true its was a very high pinnacle to always meet up to
I totally agree with you but then again sometimes we forget that marriage is not always rosy. You make it how you want it to be. Either way though Mr. Smooth guy could have been a bit more romantic than a kiss on the cheek and a priority pasted on the mirror. I believe this generation expects so much considering that some of our parents were not like this during their marriage. It was either lovey dovey in the beginning and as the years go by they just acknowledged each others presence or vice versa. Either way there are so many things to learn about marriage each and every day and successful couples have made mention that they continue to go through the school of marriage daily. But I most definitely agree with your point!
Lol i was like he must b jobless aahan.. it started gettimg cringy
Patsy U. 😂 😂
Really shouldn't start what you can't finish. People think that once you've gotten something, then you can just relax. It's like business, the energy you use to get customer should be the same energy you use to keep them. It gets tough and you relapse, yes, but you shouldn't just relax and let it be the new normal. If you give morning kisses, better continue giving it till the very end. And it's actually okay to have expectations and okay to be disappointed when it's not kept.
Good job Folu!
So what magic potion do I have to drink to get her complexion? 🤔🤔🤔
Bathe everyday, use vaseline, don't bleach
@@pisolutions1319 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@pisolutions1319 🤣🤣🤣
@@besiatumtum3944 lol. Yeah
😄😄😄 I hear you.
Ndani seriously! Just give me Frank Donga and nothing else.
We are doing life together: adulting, romance, and bills😂😂
Nice1
Awesome.thnx and keep it up
Ha!!!!!
Life😄
LOVED IT! DO I WANT TO WATCH ANOTHER EPISODE? YES, BUT THE ENDING NEEDS MORE WORK. CHEERS!
I thought it was a cartoon because it looked too fictional. Thank goodness it was just a dream
Wasn't a dream
Stanlee Xavier No, it brought you to present day. The romance is gone.
Nice one folu!
What's the name of the last song that was played?
It will definitely hurt you. Because all this is only when you guys are not married or even planning to. I bet you marriage does not give you all this, you have to fix yourself up on your own to make yourself happy.
Made sense 😭😂
The end was wack tho....but the beginning was fun to watch
Who else thinks her voice is strong for her look?
And all this while I thought she had a dream of more lavish life with the perfect man “mr Wright”... only to wake up to the reality of her poorer living and mr all so wrong. Maybe an affirmation she secretly desired and hoped to come true just to wake back up to the otherwise ... but after reading the comments I guess it makes more sense that the romance had died after marriage. That makes more sense.
ohhhhh
nice
Cooking what!!!!🥺🥺🥺😅
Hi Ndani. I really love your short stories. Was wondering if you accept scripts or short story suggestions. If so who can I contact. Thanks.
Maybe you should check their Instagram page for updates about that
💞💞💞💞👏
Courtship was blissful while marriage is the direct opposite and miscommunications!
I don't understand what went wrong.
Me too, i'm looking like what went wrong? i thought i was the only one.
I don't understand, I just know I wasted data
Wait was that a TIV Song @ 3:57.. haha?
LINDY UVY yeah it's by BemYoda
Where can I find the song? I looked for it everywhere.
I don't get it
Hey hey,they worked on their relationship but forgot that the most important thing is life after we both say 'we do'....all the romance ended immediately after, i am sure the last scene of him saying hbd was jst a year after they got married. The marriage itself needs more fire than the courtship because life is hard enough n not jst saying i love you does it any more.
Two people coming from different backgrounds...Communication is the most important aspect of a relationship...my opinion thou.
Julie Bela Wamona what he said above & it seems like money issues too..
Julie Bela Wamona me too , I had to read comments to understand, I'm so slow 😂😂
why didn't she smell the rose?so unlike a girl
And it's kind of why It looked realistic to me.....
very confusing..
ITS NOT AS GOOD AS SKINNY GIRL IN TRANSIT AND RUMOUR HAS IT. I WASN'T ABLE TO FINISH IT.
Grace U You're right
waste of megabytes - precious one at that. A short film, yes, but no bite to it, just bland. Its good but for all the hype about ndani, I expected better especially from a crew that was able to create frank donga( now that's one hell of a character).
Romance over
Tbh this film was a bit stupid.
I don't understand the video...no point😡😡😠
The message is very clear......It shows what happens while courting and when married.... B4 he got married to her he was very romantic but now that they are married he reminded her about the gas cooker on her birthday....
This is the reality of life.... Where a young lady always looks attractive during her single-hood and less attractive after getting married.
Brain processing capabilities differ
lmfao..........