STORYTIME | Before You Date, Clean Your House

[@simonewilliams2178]

People always think and say, the best way to get over someone is get someone new… worst advice and mind frame. 🤦‍♀️

[@Curiousmind7777]

Why’s that the worst idea

[@christinatayloriam]

Because rushing into a new relationship is a dysfunctional behavior that dismisses your feelings as if they don't matter causing unnecessary hurt for you and whomever you get with. Allow yourself to feel your feelings and process what they’re trying to tell you. If you lost a parent, child, or pet would you go out tomorrow and try to find a replacement? Take time to heal and learn from the loss so you'll be better in the next relationship.

[@CasKar75]

Sit and feel the feelings, but don't LIVE there! Move forward.

[@roelewis7683]

There are therapists and then there are GOOD THERAPISTS!

[@Dr.K.H]

2 months and the therapist recommended getting on dating apps following a divorce after 10 years of marriage?! Absolutely NOT!!!

[@ledouard]

Two years.

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

​@@ledouard Two months into therapy, his therapist told him to get on dating apps. He stayed with that therapist for 2 years.

[@ledouard]

@@paigenicholespeaks6172 Yikes. That's even worse. I don't think I could continue with a therapist who would do that.

[@leemcnary2911]

Clean the house and park the car😅 Aaaaaaaamen that's goooood teaching 😊

[@Passion84GodAlways]

CHURRRCH!!! 💎🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@ItsDezL]

Churrrch ❤️🙌🏾‼️

[@Soulficial360]

I realized that Talk therapy doesn't work for me. I need guidance. Im tired if describing how i feel. We need directions!

[@thehealingsessionher]

💯💯💯 we as therapists are to assost to get to process, work through, find solutions and move forward ❤

[@90stype20]

Not sure why this came up in my recommendations but I know this : Jealous hearted fake friends are something else. They are demonic.

[@KimLourens-v7s]

Thx for telling him, because this is how healthy people run in this type of train wreck and these are the type of man that will tell you i am healthy because i have been in therapy. Same goed for women.

[@dionnejoseph]

And thank you for making a great point- therapy should include work to b able to grt through to healing. Otherwise u have paid someone to just talk to u. It feels better but are you better????

[@JO1009-X3]

Churrrch! Love your analogies!

[@sheenacarter8793]

Churrrch!! That was awesome! Thank you!

[@sweetumsDenise]

CHURRRCH!! So good!!

[@sweetsunmuted95]

Great Advice and Analogy 🎉🎉

[@kingdomrestorersinternatio8937]

This was absolutely awesome

[@every1lovesmeeee]

I needed to hear this! Churrrch!

[@asatabamba]

the way my jaw dropped when u said the therapist recommended dating 2 months after enduring all that..... 😭 like HUH?! clearly not everyone is anointed to counsel others

[@joannehalsey1619]

Dang Doc, you are the DOC!! ❤ Life can be so simple!!🙏 WE make it complicated!!And harder than it has to be🎉

[@Varenyam86]

Well said! Never heard someone voice Exactly why I value honesty so much. Thanks❤

[@sacredchimesthecrystalhealer]

You don't pour new wine into old wine skin. Definitely should have taken the time to heal, do shadow work, cut cords and reconnect to self. People definitely have to heal and birth a new them.

[@hhh.2.]

Churrrch! 🙌🏽 🫶🏽 🙌🏽

[@thehealingsessionher]

After 2 months and no relationship recovery 😮😮😮🤔🤦🏿‍♀️ im glad they met you Doc

[@cocoa_marley3734]

Churrrch
Wonderful lesson
I needed this
Recently divorced and this is the best advice I have been given 👏🏾👏🏾

[@KathibffnwithGod]

Churrrch🙌🙌🙌You are so amazing to share all this wisdom. Thank you so much ❤❤❤

[@BigIke_Lewis237]

🗣CHURRRCH, PREACH, & TABERNACLE DOC🥗🥗🥗🥗

[@patricewilliams4627]

The Best advice I've heard in this type of situation. Love it. Thank you so much.❤

[@travelchannel304]

I need to literally need to CLEAN my house. I've cleaned the inner house for years!! LoL probably more work on "stuff that wasn't " mine to begin w/. And now I know. Great video. It's a challenge to find a challenging or effective therapists. The ones I know are friends 😅😅😅. But I don't use them as my therapists. That's just wierd to do that.

[@roxannetaitano1490]

Churrrch! loved this analogy!

[@smyssiqueenhealth1-yv7cx]

Super critical advice...thank you ❤
Churrrch

[@NN-nj8jr]

Agreed!!!...its not as "fun"....but worth the wait

[@joannehalsey1619]

Dang Doc,keep away from that therapist!!❤️🙏

[@brendenanderson6062]

thank you

[@theacurtis808]

Thank you so much for that clarity ❤

[@MsWhite-xz2xg]

⛪️ Churrrch!

[@CourtneeG]

Dang Doc…. You’re correct!

[@nathifablanchfield8925]

Churrrch thank you for this valuable advice 🙏🏾

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

Great advice!!! Churrch

[@thatbemefool]

I’m so happy I went to an actual Psycho Therapist in the early 2000s who gave me tools applicable today.
**He told me the truth, to clean my plate and mind MY business. He released me but told me I could come back any time if I wanted to give him my money 😂😂😂😂**
I’m JUST FINE and retired early because I LISTENED and applied. Self Correction is key.

[@taneenswindell3024]

Churrrch!!! ‼️💯❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏🙏🙏

[@madhusudhankrishna2]

Radhe Shyam❤ nice content 👌 solid advice

[@christalhardy8771]

Amazing video

[@sharonscott8774]

Church!!!!!!!!!’

[@sallyssandraa]

No, no, no please don’t use women to build your self esteem. A.) Youre using those women. B.) Building confidence and SELF esteem is different and you shouldn’t be using people to build YOUR SELF esteem.

[@PetitHibou72]

CHURRRCH 🔥

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Churrrch!!! ✅🫶🏽

[@jeannineaskins1490]

Church ❤

[@TheSplendidChild]

Can someone help? What does cleaning house look like? You can’t just forget everything that’s happened and it’s best not to act like you didn’t go through it at all so you can learn something! What does being healed look like?

[@toniabutler9108]

CHURRRCH🙏

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ChuRRch!

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Churrrch !!!❤

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Churrrrch!!!

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CHURRRCH🎯💯

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Churrrch great video

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Churrch!

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CHURRRCH💙

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Churrrch!!

[@ClaudetteTucker]

CHURRRCH!

[@Iamkrystamarie]

What are some practical examples of cleaning out your house *self / life?

[@naomiii2099]

Understood 😎 ChuRRRch

[@aweforu]

CHURRRCH!!!

[@riawalker6108]

Churrrch ❤😊😊❤❤

[@lls4341]

Churrrch 😁

[@honeybadgerisme]

😮dating apps?!?

[@nicollerobinson9609]

Churrrch!

[@subsistence73]

Sounds like he spoke with a coach instead

[@madhusudhankrishna2]

Church

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CHURRRCH

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Churrrch.

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Churrrch

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You are corrrect

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#churrrch

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Churrrch fo sho. Now please get off my toes.

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