HOW I SAVED $30,000 BUYING LUXURY HANDBAGS | SCARCITY MINDSET | LIFESTYLE MICROAGGRESSIONS
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Bonjour mes amies!
Projection, micro and passive aggression must stop. The internet is filled with examples of people who are not in debt to flex for others. It is possible to the savings, luxury, and travel.
I do hope that you all enjoy today's "TEDTalk" 😂
Ciao for now 💋
Yesssssss! The scarcity mindset and the judgment is as you said, projection & also envy/jealousy. I'm debt free, I travel, buy what I want, own my home and I don't care about what others buy or do. My motto: Do you! Worry about you! Focus on you & watch your own life change. Excellent video!
Absolutely ! Its possible to do all of things! Merci for your time!
👜Speak 🗣 on it! luxury on any level didn’t become a problem until Black women (yep, I said it) started indulging. While I won’t say let ‘em eat cake, I will say let ‘em stay mad🤷🏾♀️
Exactly. !!!
She said what she said and I am here for it ❤️🙏🏾
“WE CAN DO ALL OF THE THINGS”
A True Class Act..CONTINUE ON MRS. Jessie💎💎💎💎💎
We truly can! Because we live in ABUNDANCE! Merci for your support!
👜 Speak sis! A necessary clapback; this needed to be said! 👏🏽
I thank you for that❤️🙏🏾! I was a bit reluctant to press “upload.”
We want it all because we deserve it all. Thank you for being one of the few Black creators that shows we can have all the things. Life should be enjoyable.
We can all have it all! I appreciate you so much ma amour ❤️
JESSIE! The camera push in had me screaming!😂 Your clap backs are classy and unmatched!
You im trying to perfect these editing skills for minor-major motion films, lol!
I love how you did this in an elegant way. Your tips inspire us to do all the things we want to do.
Your message just made me so happy! Merci for your support!
First five minutes and I’m already delivered, set free and made whole🙌🏾Luxury is such a part of the culture in Miami that I forget the rest of the country doesn’t flex like we do. I say you move💁🏽♀️
I may have to move to Miami...
I loved this video! In our house we practice the “double method”. We call it “buy two”. We only make a large purchase when we can afford to buy two of the items in question. It’s simple and guarantees that you do the most for yourself.
I love it!
Amen, thank you for being awesome. It definitely is projection with most critics out there. Keep being fabulous and encouraging to all us who adore you. I love it!!!
I appreciate you!
Hey gorgeous! I’m not a vintage mes aimes, in fact I am brand new but I already see that I am going to be following you forever. Thank you so much for this video! It’s definitely about people projecting their realities onto others especially the ones that look like you and I but also I just wanted to give a quick #reminder to all the pocket watchers out there… it’s FREE to mind your own business and you know what?? … that never goes out of style… ahaha! Ciao for now!
FREE!!! But they’d rather stay and be mean 😭 that has to take a toll on their energy and spirit 💔.
@@CappuccinosandConsignment TRULY!! But continue shining and maybe some of your sparkle will reach them! ❤️
I appreciate this video. You are correct, the same women calling us Sis are the same ones checking our wallets and deciding what we can afford. Scarce thinking is an accurate description.
You just delivered a sermon! Don't get me started on the faux sis phenomenon
Exactly, people can be extremely judgmental. They watch a 20 minute video and think they are Bloomberg financials . Yep I see some of my favs changing their platform names to their government names . Keep focusing on the business and educating. Have an amazing day ✨✨✨💕💯
They don’t even watch the entire 20 mins before they think they’re an expert lol 🤣🤣🤣 Merci for your time ❤️
Practicing the THREE C's, "donot"....COMPARE, COMPETE & CRITICIZE!
Sis you drop the 🎤
Much Love ❤️
❤️🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾❤️
You deserve whatever it is you want to do !! You do you boo! I’m here for you and for ALL the things you share… we are a community of LOVE and APPRECIATION! WE ignore the ignorance and absent mindedness of jealous wicked people!! They are sad! You are loved, always, as I said, in many comments before, you inspire!❤❤🔥🔥
I love you all more 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾❤️ MERCIIIIIIII 🙏🏾
👜 I admit the limited amount of People Like You in Luxury is one of the reasons why I adore your channel. Much of what you spill from your own view only validates my own suspicions regarding Luxury & Community. UBU Great Vidi 😎☕💋
Wow, thank you! I appreciate you support so much ❤️🙏🏾
Hey sis. You have to remember that people, especially those who comment on TH-cam, expect blk women to live below a certain socioeconomic level.
And I get it all the time as a single BW. I buy luxury goods, I've been traveling all over the world since my mid-20s, I own a nice home in PG County. And in one thread, when I talked about traveling to countries like India, Egypt, Uzbekistan, Turkey and Tunisia, to add to my Oriental rug collection, some people actually got angry.
Gurl...just live your life and keep on being fabulous.❤❤❤❤❤
That is sooooo heartbreaking! Even when I couldn't, I always wanting to see the possibilities. AND omg!!! Oriental rugs are EVERYTHING!!! I know you collection is AMAZING! ❤️❤️
Excellent, positive,and a much needed response to negativity and willful disregard for others and their successes. Continue to eat at the table that has been prepared for you in the presence of those whom wish to discredit you. Keep shining and thank you for sharing.☀️🤗🍽️
THIS!!!! OMG! I needed to see your message today! Merci!
Thanks so much.Two of my mantras, "If you believe it, you can achieve it,"and "Change your mind, change your life."" Sis, keep doing your thing. Peace and love to you. ❤️
Yes!!! Merci for your time and support ❤️🙌🏾
Love this!!! You spoke an entire word. We don’t have to choose. We can do all of things and then some.
We most certainly can!
I enjoy you so much, you make me laugh and you tell the truth, that’s why I follow your channel. Be blessed more than you already are. 😊🌹
I appreciate that soooooo much! Merci 🙏🏾🫶🏾
You're a real one Jessie. Keep up your good work and enjoy your blessings!
Awwwwwww! Merci 🙏🏾❤️ I appreciate that!
I love your content, you inspire me to do it all!! Continued blessings ❤
Merci! I appreciate your kind message so much ❤️
I’m so happy to have found your channel! You are so smart and so creative! I’m looking forward to going through all your previous videos! I am so grateful and blessed to have all good things! I love my hand bags, planners and my Chanel scents! I’m excited to belong to this great group!
I thank you so much for joining me and for your time! We live in abundance!
I love it. You Always speak TRUTH 🦋🦋🦋🦋
Merci for your time!
Well said and in the spirit of helping others to elevate their thinking. Continue to share your experiences because it can inspire others to embrace possibilities they secretly desire. Keep up the good work and examples. 😊
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THIS IS IT!!! That is why I am here, to prove that we no longer have to choose! Merci for your time ❤️
One of my favorite wealth affirming videos is by Toni Jones - CurrentSea. Let's keep Flowing Up!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Ignore these ridiculous people! Social media lets some of these folks think they can say anything to others about their personal life. Its crazy!! It’s stereotyping, envy and jealousy! Block them quickly and go on about your business because we enjoy you chanel!!
The block button has become the ultimate mes amies, lol! Merci for your support!
I love watching your videos. You inspire me. Thank you Ms. Jessie. I recently started watching you within the last week and binge watched your videos. I finally came across someone with natural beauty and luxury. It’s beautiful.
You just made me so happy! Merci for joining me!
We are definitely our worst enemy (and I mean we as a collective group of people that look like us). It's truly unfortunate, because you can't count anyone else's pockets or anyone else's life just because your interests or lifestyle goals are different than someone else's. I really appreciate you making this video, and it speaks to the best of us!
You are so right! And it’s disheartening! We could move so much higher if we could move together ❤️🩹
Speak the truth. Spread the LOVE, hate is too heavy and debilitating. ❤❤❤
FACTS 🙌🏾❤️
Yes I never got people who comment on a video that they don’t agree with. If you don’t agree just move on, I definitely feel your response was neccessary. It’s the low self esteem and confidence that prompt them to comment. You’ve been very honest and upfront about your journey, thank you for keeping your content authentic and consistent.
I thank you so much for your time and support! I will never understand , there is so much that I don't agree with online, I just stop watching. It's truly disheartening how people use the internet to spread so much negativity.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 can’t wait to see where C & C is headed!
Me too 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾❤️
Clap back and yes, I support and see you. You deserve and see all the things that the LORD blessing you with. they cannot see because they cannot see even for themselves. When you live in scarcity for yourself you definitly see nothing for others. I truly appreciate you, and acknowledge that GOD does not make us choose and not compare to others. Yes, love it I have not responded to videos in a while but I am still watching and am here for it!!!! Slay beautiful human Slay!!
Merciiiiiiii my dear Belinda! I appreciate you being here avec moi and your kindness!
You dropped that mic and and then kicked it across the stage 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾
LMBO!!! I am hollering!!!! 😂😂😂❤️
You have a new subscriber. This is the exact way I feel about “quiet luxury”. Quiet my foot.
Merci for joining me! "Quiet my foot" I have to use that!
I never understood how people can be so mad about what another person decides to do with THEIR OWN money….I agree with all points here!!! 💕 I love monogram, I love traveling, I love Finances, I love non Monogram and I love my life. People just project their mindset and misery on others because they want what you have! As black women we can never do anything right. They associate us with struggle 24/7. Well I’m here to tell you all that no BLACK person is the same just like people from other races aren’t the same. Stop putting people in a bucket and reevaluate your own life.
Someone pass the collection plate! You made beaucoup valid points! Merci ❤️
❤❤❤ we need more people w ur type of mindset to speak 🎉
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I am new to your page , and you are the first TH-camr to actually speak the truth and thank you for that.
Such an honor! I thank you so much!
I love what you do and stand for. The clapback is on point.
Merci for your support!
People are just jealous. You can have it all! 🙌🏾
Abundance!
The greatest gift I've received? The knowledge that, I can choose to behave toward others guided by my spiritual need to remain true to my FAITH. LEAD w/LOVE 🕊️
So true!
🙌🏾👍🏾Keep showing up Jessie… I love to see it 💛
I cant thank you enough for your support! ❤️
Jessie, you are on it my Sista'. Preach! I just love your way...and yes that Ted Talk is coming.
I was reading comments on another person's fb page & of course there was a very negative comment amongst great ones to which someone responded to that negativity with "who hurt you?" & you spoke in that very same tone to the hater(s)
I'm happy to be one of your 🤔...the French word you call us😁🤣!
You are a Jewel ❤️
I absolutely adore you! Merci "mes amies"! ❤️
Beautifully stated! A class act! Keep thriving, Jessie! ❤
I appreciate you ❤️
Love it! You said it all my Queen.
Merci 🙏🏾
👜 Yes to all of this! I will definitely be going to binge watch your other videos.
MERCIIIIIII! I appreciate your time so much!
Love your style-love your positivity!❤
Merci ❤️
👜❤ New member. I love your approach and style. Speak on it!
MErci beaucoup for joining me! ❤️❤️
I really, truly enjoy your videos! You're eclectic, classy, exquisite and honest! Thank you.💖
Merci 🙏🏾 that is so kind of you! I appreciate it ❤️
I look at social media as a blessing and sometimes toxic. It has opened us up to see the possibilities of what we can do and enjoy with more money. On the negative, it has given people more access to project their unhappiness on strangers simply because they aren’t where they want or just unhappy.
So true! Which is why I put so much energy into focusing on the good.
You are FAB! who cares what other people think. Your spirit is great 🎉
Thank you so much!! 🥂
👜 thank you, thank you, THANK YOU ❤️❤️❤️ I needed to hear this and I agree with your words and mindset. New subscriber here from the previous video and will stay here forever now 🙏🏾
AWWWWW! One million hugs and merci's ❤️❤️❤️
Happy New Year! 🎉 Your video is great! Nothing but blessings to you for the information that you provide.
Bonne année! Merci for your kindness and support!
👜 Loving the channel and thanks for speaking the truth. 👏🏾👏🏾
I thank you so much for joining me!
Fantastic video, Love your "certain people ..hold for very long pause 😂😂 Well, it must be said and I am glad you said it. Thumbs down with the negative mindset when it comes to "certain people", it is tiring and small-minded. Thank you.
You know I appreciate you! I had to pause, lol! Just in case anyone needed a second to let it sink in 😂😂😂
👛 yes sis!!! Let them know! We can have it all!
Abundance 🙏🏾
Double money saving - makes sense. Good concept
Merci!
I love your message 🎉❤ I'm so excited for you.
I can thank you enough for your kindness and support ❤️🙏🏾
I just love you! Keep being Authentically you! ❤
And I love you more ❤️
I love your bubbly personality ❤
Merci 🙏🏾❤️
Mrs. Jessie, can we only spend this time sharing this information, meaning, SIS your content energy and enlignthment that you bring to us is more more important thant these haters. They are waisting all our time in hate and we are not here for this. You are what we are here for and all the things taht you bring forward and yes, Sis many of us as Black folks hate on one another and it is sad. We can have all the things anyone else can have and the blessing that pour in when you save and spend and utilize your money in the right way is what happens when we do the right thing and serve God period. You are awesome and I speak for many others and myself when I say, Sis lets try not to give then your time and your energy it is too valuable to the world. We love you Jessie, now I digress!!!!
MERCIIIIIIII! This message would’ve been delivered sooner or later. I’ve shared it before on IG but never here. If I addressed every ridiculous message I received I would’ve never sleep 🤣. I appreciate your time and support 🙌🏾🫶🏾
@@CappuccinosandConsignment yes and I apologize for asking you not to share your feelings on this platform, in any way you want to show up I am in full support and acknowledge that this is your channel and we are blessed to be graced with your energy!!! I see you, you are doing a magnificent job!! I want you to know that I appreciate you and can only imagine what you open yourself up to from these haters but look at how you keep elevating!!!! Thank you for sharing with us. :)
I appreciate you! I knew your message was sent out of love and I received it as such ❤️. SO much (tone/intent/etc.) gets lost via text 😭
👛 love it!!!
Merci 🙏🏾
Hi Jessie, new subbie here 🤓 I so appreciate this video and your channel - it’s so refreshing to take in content that’s created from a place of positivity and a desire to create a safe space that builds others up and to celebrate all the things 🙌🏻💖 Many blessings to you!
Bonjour et merci beaucoup for joining me! I appreciate your time and support so much. Creating a safe place is my ultimate goal! We deserve a space to be us!
👜👜👜👜👜I'm here from that video! I could listen to you speak for hours!!!! ❤❤
AWWWWW! Merci for joining me! I appreciate it so much! ❤️
👜 congratulations, love your video ❤
Merci ❤️
Yes. I subscribed because of your previous viral video 👜
AWWWWW! Merci for joining me!!!
Thank you for sharing your experiences with us❤❤❤ Well said! félicitations pour toutes vos réalisations !! Bravo 👏🏽
Merci for your time! ❤️❤️❤️
Classy clapback Jessie 🙂
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This video feels like a breath of fresh air. I’m SO tired of the put downs and constant comparison 👏🏼
I appreciate your time ❤️
Watched the previous video and looked you up! 👜
Merci for your time! ❤️
Love the content. New Subscriber!
Merci beaucoup for joining me!
A newbie from the other video. 👛👜 Thank you for showing that us Black women can have it all! Cheers queen! 🥂
We certainly can! Merci for joining me!
PREACH!!! Well said MsJessie. I’m new to your channel & that video definitely got my attention & brought me to your channel. I made the same decision after one of my sons bought me a Neverfull for Christmas. After carrying the bag for the first time 3mos after I received it,the straps started to shed. After finally getting in for an appt at LV they told me it was the “normal wear & tear”. They would not exchange it and was going to charge me to send it out for repairs. After that experience I said I would NEVER spend my money on a brand new designer handbag. Let me just say that Fashionphile & The Real Real are my handbag retailers. Keep up the good work Beautiful👜
SMH! Lordy! What has become of my beloved LV 😭 They once had the best repair and exchange policy. Merci beaucoup for joining me!
Yes! It need to be said. And you did it quite eloquently. What did Momma use to say “if you don’t have nothing nice to say don’t say nothing “, and I drop the 🎤. You are FABULOUS. I’m gonna 🙏🏾 for your strength . Caio for now. ❤
Exactly! It’s takes less time to keep scrolling than to watch, fester and comment 😭. Merci for your support ❤️
Well said .I watch you all the time, and I love your videos. You are a very classy lady.
I appreciate your time and support so much!
👜have no reason why the algorithm took me to ‘why I’m no longer buying luxury items’ but I watched it and then the algorithm brought me here. 🙂
Merci 🙏🏾
Not the toothpick 😂😂 you just gained a new subscriber 🙋🏾♀️😊
🤣🙌🏾 MERCIIIIIIII for joining me! I appreciate it so much 🙌🏾
*Bien pour toi mon amour* !! Clap back 👏🏽❤
MERCIIIIIII! Ma amour ❤️❤️❤️
👏🏾👏🏾 Great clap back
Merci!
Enjoyed your video
Merci!
“Hanging by a Designer Thread”😂😂😂😂
Truly, lol!
Let ‘em know sis!
Jessie, I'm fairly new (7 mos) but I've binged enough to know and appreciate your style, and let me say....that was a well-done clap back. I loved the comment "Dont"(pause...blank stare..)"Do!"
Lady, ignore those "low rent" comments and keep doing you.
Ciao.
Merci for joining me and taking time to send me such an encouraging message! I appreciate it so much!
🗣Speak the truth!!! Thank you for posting! 👏🏿👜
Merci for your time!
Hey Sis!!! Thanks for the Ted Talk!!! Have you ever done video on styling your scarves?
Merci for your time! I did, a longggggggg time ago on IG (before I started vlogging.). I'll record another soon.
You are so sweet. You owe them nothing but if they only had an idea of your credentials.
Awwwwwww! I truly appreciate that! Merci 🙏🏾
Well 😄 You're on fire today 🤩
You should’ve seen what I edited out 🤣😭
👛👜 I am catching up on your videos. I showed my husband. Love your content.
Bonjour et bienvenue ! I can't thank you enough for joining me! ❤️👜
👜 I'm with you!❤
Merci for your time ❤️
👜 well said!!
Merci!
I enjoy you so much my friend. I look forward to your video's, vlogs.... Stay Fabulous, Frugal, Fierce And Frank💯🌺 Sometimes we need to hear and say things that will shift us Upward ⬆️
I couldnt agree more! Merci for your time 🙏🏾🙌🏾
You Do You Sweetie….The Bible Says “ Do Not Argue With A Fool About What YOU Know To Be True”✝️🛐🙏🏽🥰
Praise his name! I'm glad ma mère raised me right (although my ink isn’t completely dry 🤭❤️
@@CappuccinosandConsignment
Darlin’….We Are ALL In The “Progressive Sanctification” Process!
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👛 New & love it here!
Merci for joining me!
New here! Love your content. I get the same comments when I post my sneaker content. Before i would just delete comments but now i clapped back too
Im so here for the clapback! I have to see your sneaker collection! I had no clue how fabuleux some designer were!
I am a newbie here and I love it here😊.
MERCIIIII! I thank you so much for joining me!
🗣PREACH “precha” preach!!!
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When haters speak, I take it as envy...staying fabulous ova here❤.
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Not the way I RAN to the comments to tell you how I’ve been having a ugh .. rough day .. and that long pause and look just toooook me out. I needed that laugh so much .. thank you!! That was that if you know YOU KNOW look 😂 (now back to the video)
🤣🤣🤣🤣 you smiling just made me smile ❤️
Preach!!!!
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