I love the idea of a way healthier argument rather than the usual flinching argument audios, I'm so happy that you're here to remind us what a healthy argument should and could sound like. I will forever be grateful for your efforts, you make sure that everyone is going to feel safe, loved, comfortable and included. The inclusivity is so consistent and it makes me so happy!! Much love to you Nora! 🤍🤍🤍
I KNOW THIS IS REALLY RANDOM, BUT ARE YOU AN ATINY ??? 😭😭 the yeosang pfp and the mingi user ??? (i was about to sleep, but i got really excited, so i have to go back to trying to sleep again)
You’re so right. I hate it when I get recommended channels where the partner says something AWFUL, or shames you or something like that. I don’t want to romanticise toxicity in a relationship ship by any means.
I didn't know arguments can sound like that. The word "argument" always remind me of shouting, raising voices and sometimes it even escalates to "fighting". It's really eye-opening to know what a healthy argument is, and how important communication is in a relationship. Thank you for your hardwork, Nora 💖
I couldn't have asked for a lovelier comment. I'm glad this could change your perception of what an argument could look like, Cathead! Thank you very much as well 🤍
My parents are the exact same way. It's the reason that's kept me from wanting a relationship. It's the fear of becoming like them. Thank you for showing how you can have a healthy argument without becoming bitter and petty.
/*Inhales aggressively* Okay, can we all agree that Nora is the most talented, sweetest, and thoughtful asmr creator ever? No one can ever top him on my list. 😆❤️
The person who ends up marrying him is actually the luckiest person ever. We all need to set our standards higher and have someone like Nora in our lives
As someone who grew up in an abusive and toxic home/family but has grown and healed, I much prefer these kinds of "argument" audios than the yelling/flinching ones. Thanks for making these and for modeling healthy communication during/after a conflict. So much of the media we are bombarded with and consume teaches us the wrong way we should be as humans, which just increases the likelihood of generational trauma cycles continuing. Thanks for breaking the mold!! I really enjoyed this.
One thing about Nora's channel is that it's so different from the other asmr channels it brings alot of comfort and is never boring I literally even go back to listen to his older audios Tysm Nora lots of love!!!
Guys: whoever ends up with this man CHERISH HIM PLEASE PS: thank you for making an audio like this. As someone who grew up with parents who were constantly arguing it's been hard for me to decipher between an unhealthy and healthy argument so thanks for the reminder
I CRIED SO HARD IN THE PART HE SAID "ITS NOT ME AGAINST YOU, ITS US AGAINST THE PROBLEM" SHOOOTTT THAT HURT! this audio might be one of my favorites but I missed the "ily" in the end, I was waiting and it never came 😢 but this audio is totally 10000/10000
Him describing the toxic arguments between his parents was disheartening, and then I was like… hey! That’s my parents…✋😪 Somedays those topics aren’t the good relatable topics😔 Anyways thanks for the absolutely lovely, amazing, fantastic audio.❤
And those are always the most frustrating. At times, we wish that we *did* argue and that they *did* shout instead of leaving the issue by the road. At least let me know what I did wrong, people! Haha. Thank you for your honesty, Josie 🤍
The person who will end up with nora is literally gonna be the luckiest person alive😭❤ im thankful we get to(low key) experience how a healthy relationship is supposed to be thank you nora so much for all your hard work to make us feel loved❤️
This was so sweet and a great example of healthy communication. Love that your character was gentle, but clarified the goal of the discussion. "It's not you vs me. It's us against the problem." Great job with the prompt, Nora!
I'm glad it could be a great example, Alysse! Soft and gentle doesn't mean a pushover - that was exactly how I wanted the character to be like! Thank you for the compliments! 🤍
My parents used to argue very often, my father wanted to tie down my mother but she was way too independent for him. That led to screaming fights. I remember I would stand in my room and watch the closed door hoping that they would stop but they didn’t. My bigger brother had to pull me away and tell me to pay no attention to it. I always used to say “why can’t they just be together and be happy”, but the older and more wiser I got it made me realize that it they really was not meant to be with each other. She deserved better.
Here’s a few suggestions / requests for audios - enemies to lovers / one bed / listener gets cold - listener rambles about their good day - something really flirty and sweet - laying on the listeners chest to fall asleep - listener questioning their worth - comfort for lonely feeling listener - studying together - just whispers / sleep aid - BF talking while listener is doing something (Ex - painting, drawing, studying)
I will state here the reason I follow Nora for :- He's definitely a gentle sweetheart and something about his choice of scripts and his way of delivering the script is what stands out for me. I'd like to highlight a video of his that I really like ( ps , I REALLY like ALL his scripts) is the jealous bf one that he did . If you'd listen to it, you'd be surprised, it's NOTHING like what other artists have done in that particular trope . That trope has a preconceived perception of being rough and hard but he's so GENTLE even in that too ! This is really supportive to the fact that he encourages healthy limits to things - really goes on to say that everything can be done with gentleness, if one finds a way to do it . - love you, Nora 💕
I almost always avoid the typical argument audios because I find them super stressful and upsetting. This one, however, was soothing and sweet. I really appreciate the reminder about healthy conflict and communication 💜 And I hope anyone who needs to hear what a healthy argument sounds like finds this!
Arguments are avoided but if they are healthy, they can always be debated and discussed. Anyway! the audio is amazing as always!!! Thank you for taking these efforts Nora!!! 🥺🥰❤
Never getting tired of his voice So heavenly oml 😭 the way he's able to portray so many different scenarios. Been a bit of a silent fan but forever wishing him the best. Lots of love
I hate arguments. I hate shouting & screaming, it just scares me. Growing up, my parents fought a lot & i always thought it would be better if they just separated. And then when i grew up & got into a serious relationship & things happened that upset me, i nvr spoke about it bcz i feared it would lead to an argument & a huge fight so i kept things bottled up. That relationship did end but thats fine. Thing is, if people like me have people like Nora in this audio, then confrontations or just speaking about whats hurting us won't be so stressful. This audio really does show that things can be done in a lot more healthier way if both parties are willingly.
@@v.alentina i think, at least for me, audios like that are kind of a fantasy to me. idk how to explain it. sorta like, i can project a bad thing or experience that happened to me, but instead of making the outcome how it actually happened (bad outcome), its like pretending that it all worked out fine. like coping or something
this masterpiece made me cry TWICE, he should be a voice actor and i swear i’ll watch that movie/show over and over again just to listen to his voice ❤️
My mom said arguments are healthy for a relationship and I'm 100% sure this is what she meant. To talk things through and not yell at each other. I hope these are the types of arguments I get into one day. I can't handle yelling. Phenomenal video, Nora 💖
I think what hurts the most when listening to this is hearing I’m sorry. I haven’t heard that. It’s always been my fault. I hope that one day I can get someone to understand me like this. Thank you Nora.
These little rules you have that include having no argument asmrs fills my heart with joy! I can see a lot of noris can relate due to my dad and wonderful history with guys. I sometimes struggle with having a healthy argument and realize what an unhealthy one is. Thank you for healing the little girl in me
until how high will you raise my standards nora? gosh i teared up from the amount love i felt hearing your lines and voice. the sincerity and realness is unmatched. thank you for being the biggest green flag
Somehow, I can relate with this. I'm always comparing myself with others and wondering if I'll make the same mistakes as my parents. The reassurance at the end makes me feel relieved a bit. Sometimes, it's hard to carry the burden alone but at the same time, I don't want to trouble others as well sobs.
I'm really glad this made you feel a bit relieved 🤍 And I can't even imagine the burden you have to carry. Please know that people acknowledge and appreciate your strength, Icedaisyah!
Thank you so much for this. Healthy communication is really hard and I struggle with being open enough to start those conversations. Hearing this audio of a vulnerable and incredibly supportive partner talk through a problem was super cathartic and very much needed. You've created such a wonderful safe space on your channel and I can't thank you enough 🖤
Nora, thank you for this. We really tend to take for granted how important communication is, and when it comes to being in a relationship that is such a key factor. This is something I know I have to work on too, but I'm learning slowly. Bottling stuff up has been my go to strategy for years. Lol
Learning and trying are 90% of the equation. The other 10% comes with time. It takes a strong person to realize that they need to work on this, and you're already there. We believe in you, tailedgates9! 🤍
Listening to this made me realize that I’ve never actually heard what a healthy argument is supposed to sound like. My parents and family members are much like you described, so this was really refreshing and somehow healing to listen to. Favorite argument audio hands down!! Much love, Nora 🤍 thank you
I cried so hard while listening to this. About 2 months ago, I broke up with my lover. And we left things unsaid. The reason why we broke up was just... We didn't talk about things that were supposed to be talked about. I was too scared, and they were too. We're scared we were going to hurt each other's feelings if we said it. But that led us to break up. In the end, this 11 months relationship is nothing because we never REALLY talked about what we felt towards each other. I'm telling you all, please, if you have a lover, talk to them. Ask about what are they feeling, ask about what's on their mind and so on. Lastly, thanks for this audio, Nora. I really love it. I hope you're living a great life, always. 🤍
I attended a high school that was strictly focused on rhetoric and persuasive arguments we could produce. One of the things that stuck with me all these years, is that a argument does NOT mean yelling, shouting, or grasping on negative connotations to get your point across. Its about stating and persuading what you think is best, so I love this take on a healthy argument
hi, nora! i'm not much of a commenter and i'm not sure if you'll even SEE this, but just in case you do, i know videos of this length take lots of time and effort to make, and i'm here to appreciate them! many people don't really like longer audios, but they really help me get my chores done (i wash the dishes and mop the floors to your audios, PLS) and they help me so much with my sleep problems. thank you so much for making these, and i hope you stay motivated in making them because they help deeply and widely. have a super nice day, nora! thank you for blessing us with another amazing audio.
i'm usually a silent viewer, but i can't really help it this time. i haven't even finished watching the whole thing, but i feel like i gotta thank you for your hard work. every single video you do is just amazing, and even though i'm already one hundred percent aware of that, you keep surprising me with how much talent you have. thank you for such wonderful work, and i hope you know it is very loved by all of us!! keep up with it, you're doing such a nice job and it shows, and we're very grateful for that, nora
Bro I started crying a little because when I was younger around 11 maybe younger I realized that was the same reason my parents separated and this kinda help me with learning trust and talk to other more to otheres and the part where we are scared to argue, I’m terrified of yelling at other because a yell like my father and I always feel so much like that side of him that I can’t stand myself
after a long while of avoiding this audio in fear of falling into a depressive episode (I'm looking at you, "lost time" and "I need you", **ahem**) I finally mustered up the courage to listen to it and boy was it a good decision. I'm not gonna ramble too much cause the other noris' comments already have me covered, but i wanted to commend you for this audio. I really do think it's one of your best works, and it's clear how much you've put into it. Not so much in terms of script writing and editing (those are always flawless), but in emotional vulnerability. Even with its educational/influential manner, it's difficult to be this open with anyone other than a partner, let alone an inanimate object such as a microphone, so kudos to you! I doubt I have to mention how refreshing and healing this audio is, seeing as everyone will agree with me, but you have honestly outdone yourself, and I'm in awe with your emotional intelligence. You should be proud of yourself, Nora; I know I am 🤍
Your comments are always a treat to read, jarvis. Thank you so much for all the lovely words 🤍 I definitely put a lot of my thoughts and feelings into this audio, and I'm really glad that it shows.
Whoever in this world gets to date or even be friends with this man, please, I BEG YOU treat him well. He does not deserve any kind of heartbreak or hurt feelings. I beg you people, cerish this man the way he deserves to be cerished. I cant even imagine the work behind these master pieces, but please keep going because these videos are just purely amazing
Hi Nora! ❤ I don't usually comment much, but i wanted to let you know, how much of a gift this was to me. I used to really struggle with letting myself fully invest my feelings into storylines (Movies, ASMR, Books), as a way to protect my oversensitivity. But this single video moved me to the point of tears... ...i didn't even notice how used i had gotten to toxic and unproductive arguments. I had gotten so used to getting yelled at and missunderstood. So hearing a version of those arguments, but with the intent of *not* hurting and the *effort* to understand. Something so raw in it's vulnerability, it genuinely shocked me. Positively shocked me into hopefulness, of this actually being _possible_ . And that it's something i should seek for. Thank you so much, for giving me such an _AHA💡 !_ moment - and even giving me courage to take the first step into a healthier realm for communication. Oh my! I've really done wrote a book now, no? 😅 Reminding me once again why i hesitate to comment at times... there's just too many thought's 👩💻. Anyways- i obviously LOVED❤ the video! The sounddesign and ambience sound amazing aswell~ See you in the next one and _stay healthy and safe❤_ 🍙
Well I appreciate you for leaving a comment, Jacobloves Bacon! Please know that I read it fully and that I'm incredibly grateful that I was able to give you that "Aha!" moment with arguments. That's all I wanted to do with this audio. Thank you very much! Stay safe and healthy as well.
I like that the character didn't raise his voice and the physical intimacy was in little amounts. Also he also heard our concerns. This felt more like a conversation. Tbh I'm not sure if this is an argument as I've never heard one from a couple
I feel like Nora is giving us Christmas presents by giving us more videos recently and I'm living for it ,ty Nora for these amazing videos as always and I hope you have a nice month of December!
Aside from the main topic of the audio, the problem you pointed out about breathing room is actually a serious thing in relationships as well. Not only between couples, but also between parents and children. Breathing room is essential for everyone in each relationship. I resonated with those words a lot. It’s such a good topic! And the subject you want to tell is precious. That’s why I love Nora a lot. He always can find the different angels and ways to tell stories, and let the conversations go deeper and deeper. And I agree with that a healthy argument is really important. Sometimes people deny to have conversations phase based. Then a small problem will grow bigger and bigger, at last become a trigger of relationship broken. A healthy argument can put potential problems on the table and help people in the relationship vent emotions properly. We will learn each other better and love each other more after a healthy argument. And it would be better for us to actively solve problems. Thank you so much for this wonderful subject, Nora!!! I love it so so much!!! When I was preparing to have a argument with Nora: *crossing my arms across my chest * *cold eyes * When Nora said: 9:39 Also me: *frantically * IM SORRY IM SOOOORRY 19:48 Hand kisses OMG…… Don’t make me tear up…… My favorite line in this audio: “I’m not okay, but I’m trying to be honest.” I tried not to cry during the whole audio but this man just punched me on the forehead. I love the script so much. Sir don’t tell me it’s unscripted if so I will be crazy. Also congrats on 88k!! Woohoo 90k is coming 🔥🔥
I re-listened to it for many times…… I have to say Nora is so darn good at expressing delicate emotions through his voice, including some little breaths, voice shakes, and pauses between lines. No matter how long I’ve been in the community, no matter how many times I’ve re-listened to your audios, I always always can got into the scene, and felt the emotions strongly. You’re the best RP ASMR artist in my heart. I’ve said the same words when I began to listen to your audios in February, at that time I haven’t known many creators yet. Now I still can say the same things even I’ve listened to a bunch of creators. (Not putting down any other creators here! It’s just my own feelings and tastes!) Thank you so much for bringing this wonderful work to us, Nora! I love it so so much
Nora thank you so much for another audio! 3 audios in 3 weeks. Gosh us noris are getting early Christmas presents from you.The editing,script everything was done well. Your voice honestly feels like a warm blanket. And thank you again for making this audio on what you think means a healthy argument. Much love Nora 💓
i love how the noise of the environment gets louder during emotional moments, it’s such a subtle detail, yet it adds so much to the experience! thank you, nora~
26:00 onwards and 30:10 hits me hard and I cried. The impact of emotional that Nora gave is unexplainable. I've never been into any relationships but I've experienced some situations with my friends. This healthy argument audio really helps a lot. At the very least, I know how to talk to them without making things bigger. Thank you, Nora, thank you so much T_T
Well, I would say that I’m impressed by how you showed how an argument could sound like without the grabbing at each other’s throats, the shouting and the list goes on… I think the couples of these generation could use this audio as a guide honestly. Thank you for this audio and be safe and healthy ❤
nora i might write a lot but this really is an amazing audio!!! just listening through this now, even as a listener made me realise what a healthy argument is and i can’t express the emotions i am feeling. i think because in the past, i’ve never had people properly listen to me when i talk about my feelings and that’s why i feel the need to have to explain everything when someone asks the smallest things because otherwise they’ll bring up the whole “you should’ve said so!” type of stuff. hearing this audio just kinda make me envy having a healthy argument haha.. but thank you so much for showing this to us, like genuinely. this is definitely something i needed in this moment and honestly nora, im always so proud and thankful for you.
Honestly I try not to listen to arguments audios cause they actually make me feel like a gaslighter. Before this video I didn’t know healthy arguments existed so ty ❤
me and my boyfriend argue like this, couples should really argue the right way and understand each others side....arguments help us to grow more even through the tough times
Thank you, Nora, for this audio. We all appreciate how you always underline the importance of communication between people. As a bad talker, I found this so helpful, and now I understand the subject more
I really love how the argument turns out, peaceful, understanding and smoothly emotional 🤍 I think good communication is a very important main point in relationship. I wish my life partner will be like this!! Thanks for such a good audio, nora, as always. Hope everything works out well in your life~ much love 🤍
Also thie is another reason why Nora is NUMBER 1 on meh list im over here checking my list 2 like santa and he still nymber 1 also I think we can all agree his voice, personality, thoughtful and beautiful audios, etc... Is why hes #1 on all of our lists? Like OMG IM DYING FROM HOW WHOLESOME AND SWEET THIS WAS
I have bpd, so I always avoid asmr that has an argument or anything like that. it's a trigger that I hate to have. but when I saw the thumbnail and saw it was from Nora, I gave it a try. and, for the first time in a while, I let everything out loud. about how hard it's to live with bpd, my insecurities, and all that stuff. for the first time, I could be honest and speak everything, so when you said "thank you for being honest", I just fell down and cried. i cried a lot. it's not easy living with the paranoia and fear of everything, but it was so assuring that I felt like I could be loved. that there's people out there who will understand my pain and reassure me that everything is gonna be okay... thank you, really.
i was listening to a song called ‘home’ by bruno major the other day and it reminded me so much of your comfort audios. it sounded as if one of your audios was made into song form (honestly most of his songs do haha)! as for this audio, i really 🤍 the idea of a healthy version of an argument audio, it’s so refreshing to hear! yet another gem, nora! happiest of holidays to you :))
Thank you so much Nora, for emphasising that Yes, Agruements are okay if done properly and in a healthy way. I never actually understand why one would like to support shouting\flinching audios, they are toxic and doesn't give a good message to society. In this era of supporting toxicity without thinking its repercussions I am glad they are still people like you who understand this. Thank you again🤍
No because this one actually made me cry. Your acting is so good, and I can tell you take a lot of time thinking through these. I've had a similar situation with my parents, and I always tell myself that I'll be as different from them as I can
Nora, you give us space & time to us that we may not find or have with other important people in our lives. I know we have to go through life experiences on our own but listening to your audios gives me the space to feel powerful & comfortable with myself. Thank you, Nora. I hope you can have the same comfort in your own life which you provide here. ❤
I love this and I love how instead of a unhealthy or bad argument u did a healthy one and u don't get ur usual and typical flinching, crying and some other stuff type audios I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS!! ❤
It was always one of my fears to end up like my parents. As a result of their relationship, it left me emotionally and physically scarred. I told myself, "I don't want to be like them," and when my relationship started with my spouse, it was bumpy. No one's relationship is perfect. We learned, we grew, we shared and separated from each other (into different rooms) if emotions got too high and came back and talked about it. I can proudly say that we've been together since we were teens and still together today. So, I want to say thank Nora for showing there can be healthy arguments/discussions.
My family are used to argue a lot and it's not that kind of healthy argument (not that they're bad or anything it's just a bad habit they have). It's always shouting even if it's not a serious argument, shouting is always there so I grew up hating noise, arguments, shouting, etc. and because fearing of being like them, I tend to not talk when something really pisses me off and just let it be cause I don't want more arguments. So, I want to thank you for this one because you've made me realize that there are people out there who 'talk' and try to have a good conversation when facing problems. 🤍
As someone who grew up in a somehow toxic household I was never thought that and argument could be like this. I’ve always associated it with screaming and fighting. Thank u so much for this bit of comfort 😊 (Ps: Sorry for any mistake, English is not my first language)
I understood you perfectly well, •Artémis•! Thank you very much for these kind words. It's an important distinction to make, so hearing that this audio was able to help with that is so comforting 🤍
Your voice acting is so good that always makes me envolved and I got emotional. This argument audio was so mature and adult, like all healthy relationships should be. I said before that I was expecting something like that coming from you and I'm not disappointed. Your channel is a safe and comfort place and I love the way you build the relationships and the characters. I can feel how hard for them was to have this conversation (even if they should have it) and that is what makes your voice acting so good, I really aprecciate that. Thanks for this, Nora. 💖
Man, Nora, really; you're a very sweet guy... I remember growing with parents who would argue all the time as well, but luckily they never" fought physically" with eachother. But still, everytime they fought i remember hiding behind my door listening close to see if i could hear a hit sound or something telling me that i should come out to help... While you were explaining the importance of that kind of argument i was like: I KNOWWWWWW, I KNOWWW YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE TO EXPLAIN DEAR! I TOTALLY AGREEE Thanks so much for the audio, i really don't like hearing loud voices or shoutings... They make me feel very uncomfortable ☺ God bless you, man❤
This is an interesting video. I usually listen to the flinching videos because I can relate to them. This video feels foreign but thank you for reminding me what a healthy argument sound like. I usually avoid talking because it creates tension and confrontation that I knew I cant win. Thanks, Nora for this. Thank you for trying to explore parts of human life that can be overlooked.
My parents are exactly like the ones he described, people who don’t communicate, but yell at each other, my dad only “fixes” issues of my mum is screaming and crying, other wise he treats issues as if their not important, they’ve yelled at each other about leaving so many times yet their still together, you would think that makes the, stronger but not only are they in this viscous cycle of never communicating properly or learning from past mistakes, their destroying me and my siblings, it hurts and I feel as though it would be better if they would split up, I want them to understand that their actions are affecting us, my mum vents everything to me cause she can’t talk to my dad about it
I would have straight up cried when he said "Honey, you're the most important person to me" like do you really think someone would say this to me? It's so beautiful, must be nice 😭❤️
I love this so much already!! Thank you for making this audio! Edit: I just finished this audio... The entire time I was trying not to cry but the ending got me. Also I'm not sure if anyone has noticed, but the storytelling is immaculate
Wait nora should be an actor?? He was popping off I was like okayyyy 😂❤ but seriously this is so much better than a shouting argument and I think it's very important and thoughtful of you to show an argument like this, cause all arguments don't have to be strenuous
LOVE THIS❤❤❤. THANK YOU, THANK YOU NORA for bringing this up. Because of you and this audio, it made me feel fuzzy and warm about wanting to have a relationship like this. You made me want to fall in love. I've been surrounded by failed relationships, i don't even have a complete family. I even witnessed my dad and my stepmom argued (breaking things and punching walls) when I was a kid. Your audios made me believe in love again, the love that I've been longing for (OMG, why am i crying while typing this?😭). A healthy kind of love.
This was probably the best ASMR I've ever heard. To be honest, I tried not to cry throughout the entire video, especially when he mentioned his parents... When you go through the same situation, it hits differently. And oh my, a healthy argument is something that I think all couples wish they had. When you solve a problem together, even if you are not okay, it is better than when you shout over each other, trying to figure out who is to blame, while the problem itself remains unresolved. Thank you, thank you Nora, I hope you are doing well and please know that your videos help a lot of people feel better 🤍
“I’ll keep trying”, “I understand, I understand” - this one hit me the most. Perhaps, it’s the words I wish I could’ve heard from my previous partner, not the gaslighting and manipulating. This audio hugged me, truly. This audio teaches what healthy argument is. This audio shows the importance of communicating AND listening. Oh, and also vulnerability- how beautiful it could be when both sides are open, honest, & gentle. Thank you, Nora. 🌸
Thank you for making these like vdos. When I want to listen to a decent asmr I came to this channel. The background sounds, the sound variations in b/w the silence and conversation, the effort, the decency, the intimate connection with the mind of the listeners.... clean and adequate. Good work.♡
this reminds me of when i was little and my father and i would be arguing and i would say that we were having an argument and he would get upset and say "we aren't arguing, we dont have to argue." and i would tell him "just because we're not yelling doesn't mean we aren't arguing. we are disagreeing, we are have an argument." this is weird to think back on knowing i was as young as 5 😂
I love how he makes every audio so healthy to listen to. It just feels like the perfect amount of everything in life in poured into them and we get to hear it. Just thank you so so so so so so much for all your time that u took to make this. I love you❤
I feel it with all my heart. I like conversations in your asmr, because I can hear words what I would be want to hear from another person. It let me feel understandble.
okay, i usually don’t even leave comments on videos, but nora i want u to know that you’re helping me so much. i’m going through an extremely difficult time right now and it’s terrible. i’ve always liked listening to your audios, but especially right now, it’s extremely comforting. love you nora 🩷
thank you so much for this Nora. seriously ❤ as someone who lives an intense and inflammatory living environment, flinching videos trigger the hell out of me so this healthier argument without any aggression makes me feel safe.
Hi Nora! I just wanted to say that, as a graphic design student, I enjoy all of your thumbnails and other typography in your videos. Makes my design heart happy. Thank you for your audios, as always! Take care
I didn’t know this arguments were like this, I’ve never had the ability to argue like this. I thought that arguments were always me against the other person because I have always felt like no one ever gave me the chance to argue with them against the problem. Thank you for this, I have a lot to think about. You did so great Nora
wow.. just wow.. I'm so speechless rn.. I feel like I've been hit by a truckload of emotions. I'm honestly very impressed with your take on argument audio. I can genuinely feel your words and understand what you're trying to convey to the listener. I truly love this a lot. I have to admit that I've paused multiple times because I was simply amazed. Thank you so much, Nora, for your time and energy in making this audio. I think you really show what a healthy argument could sound like🤍
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I love the idea of a way healthier argument rather than the usual flinching argument audios, I'm so happy that you're here to remind us what a healthy argument should and could sound like. I will forever be grateful for your efforts, you make sure that everyone is going to feel safe, loved, comfortable and included. The inclusivity is so consistent and it makes me so happy!! Much love to you Nora! 🤍🤍🤍
I appreciate this audio cause it does shiw how reality is and like those other asmrs are a bit to much dont you think?
@@SukiKurosaki-nf2wf THISSS 🤍🤍🤍
I KNOW THIS IS REALLY RANDOM, BUT ARE YOU AN ATINY ??? 😭😭 the yeosang pfp and the mingi user ??? (i was about to sleep, but i got really excited, so i have to go back to trying to sleep again)
@@cheolsmelonppangi LOVE LOVE LOVE ateez!!!
You’re so right. I hate it when I get recommended channels where the partner says something AWFUL, or shames you or something like that. I don’t want to romanticise toxicity in a relationship ship by any means.
I didn't know arguments can sound like that. The word "argument" always remind me of shouting, raising voices and sometimes it even escalates to "fighting". It's really eye-opening to know what a healthy argument is, and how important communication is in a relationship.
Thank you for your hardwork, Nora 💖
I couldn't have asked for a lovelier comment. I'm glad this could change your perception of what an argument could look like, Cathead! Thank you very much as well 🤍
My parents are the exact same way. It's the reason that's kept me from wanting a relationship. It's the fear of becoming like them. Thank you for showing how you can have a healthy argument without becoming bitter and petty.
Of course 🤍 Thank you as well for this comment.
/*Inhales aggressively* Okay, can we all agree that Nora is the most talented, sweetest, and thoughtful asmr creator ever? No one can ever top him on my list. 😆❤️
How sweet! Thank you very much for the compliments, Eizen! *exhales aggressively*
*Stops breathing*
AGREED 1000000000000%
omgg u have a list too!! Nora is also top on mine
The person who ends up marrying him is actually the luckiest person ever. We all need to set our standards higher and have someone like Nora in our lives
I always avoid argument audios cause they almost never end well, but this idea was amazing, thank you for setting healthy examples Nora🤍
As someone who grew up in an abusive and toxic home/family but has grown and healed, I much prefer these kinds of "argument" audios than the yelling/flinching ones. Thanks for making these and for modeling healthy communication during/after a conflict. So much of the media we are bombarded with and consume teaches us the wrong way we should be as humans, which just increases the likelihood of generational trauma cycles continuing. Thanks for breaking the mold!! I really enjoyed this.
same
One thing about Nora's channel is that it's so different from the other asmr channels it brings alot of comfort and is never boring I literally even go back to listen to his older audios
Tysm Nora lots of love!!!
Guys: whoever ends up with this man CHERISH HIM PLEASE
PS: thank you for making an audio like this. As someone who grew up with parents who were constantly arguing it's been hard for me to decipher between an unhealthy and healthy argument so thanks for the reminder
I will 😊 no I'm jk but they better 💀
It's never too late to see that difference! I'm glad this could help a little bit with that, Corey!
I CRIED SO HARD IN THE PART HE SAID "ITS NOT ME AGAINST YOU, ITS US AGAINST THE PROBLEM" SHOOOTTT THAT HURT! this audio might be one of my favorites but I missed the "ily" in the end, I was waiting and it never came 😢 but this audio is totally 10000/10000
Him describing the toxic arguments between his parents was disheartening, and then I was like… hey! That’s my parents…✋😪 Somedays those topics aren’t the good relatable topics😔 Anyways thanks for the absolutely lovely, amazing, fantastic audio.❤
Hits home. My ex was afraid to talk to me and I was so frustrated because he wouldn’t communicate. I cannot change what I don’t know.
And those are always the most frustrating. At times, we wish that we *did* argue and that they *did* shout instead of leaving the issue by the road. At least let me know what I did wrong, people! Haha.
Thank you for your honesty, Josie 🤍
The person who will end up with nora is literally gonna be the luckiest person alive😭❤
im thankful we get to(low key) experience how a healthy relationship is supposed to be thank you nora so much for all your hard work to make us feel loved❤️
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Nora IS SUCH A HUSBAND MATERIAL🛐! Thank you for this audio Nora, we love you💕💕💕
This was so sweet and a great example of healthy communication. Love that your character was gentle, but clarified the goal of the discussion. "It's not you vs me. It's us against the problem." Great job with the prompt, Nora!
I'm glad it could be a great example, Alysse! Soft and gentle doesn't mean a pushover - that was exactly how I wanted the character to be like! Thank you for the compliments! 🤍
My parents used to argue very often, my father wanted to tie down my mother but she was way too independent for him. That led to screaming fights. I remember I would stand in my room and watch the closed door hoping that they would stop but they didn’t. My bigger brother had to pull me away and tell me to pay no attention to it.
I always used to say “why can’t they just be together and be happy”, but the older and more wiser I got it made me realize that it they really was not meant to be with each other. She deserved better.
Here’s a few suggestions / requests for audios
- enemies to lovers / one bed / listener gets cold
- listener rambles about their good day
- something really flirty and sweet
- laying on the listeners chest to fall asleep
- listener questioning their worth
- comfort for lonely feeling listener
- studying together
- just whispers / sleep aid
- BF talking while listener is doing something (Ex - painting, drawing, studying)
Oh studying together would be a fun one! Cuz i literally listened to this one while doing my homework😆
I will state here the reason I follow Nora for :-
He's definitely a gentle sweetheart and something about his choice of scripts and his way of delivering the script is what stands out for me.
I'd like to highlight a video of his that I really like ( ps , I REALLY like ALL his scripts) is the jealous bf one that he did .
If you'd listen to it, you'd be surprised, it's NOTHING like what other artists have done in that particular trope . That trope has a preconceived perception of being rough and hard but he's so GENTLE even in that too !
This is really supportive to the fact that he encourages healthy limits to things - really goes on to say that everything can be done with gentleness, if one finds a way to do it .
- love you, Nora 💕
I almost always avoid the typical argument audios because I find them super stressful and upsetting. This one, however, was soothing and sweet. I really appreciate the reminder about healthy conflict and communication 💜 And I hope anyone who needs to hear what a healthy argument sounds like finds this!
Arguments are avoided but if they are healthy, they can always be debated and discussed. Anyway! the audio is amazing as always!!! Thank you for taking these efforts Nora!!! 🥺🥰❤
Couldn't have said it any better myself! No problem at all, Maple. Thank you as well!
@@NoraASMR Ofc no worries ❤️
Never getting tired of his voice
So heavenly oml 😭 the way he's able to portray so many different scenarios. Been a bit of a silent fan but forever wishing him the best. Lots of love
I hate arguments. I hate shouting & screaming, it just scares me. Growing up, my parents fought a lot & i always thought it would be better if they just separated. And then when i grew up & got into a serious relationship & things happened that upset me, i nvr spoke about it bcz i feared it would lead to an argument & a huge fight so i kept things bottled up. That relationship did end but thats fine.
Thing is, if people like me have people like Nora in this audio, then confrontations or just speaking about whats hurting us won't be so stressful. This audio really does show that things can be done in a lot more healthier way if both parties are willingly.
same girl i don’t understand why creators make videos like ‘accidentally hitting u during an argument’ like ??
@@v.alentina i think, at least for me, audios like that are kind of a fantasy to me. idk how to explain it. sorta like, i can project a bad thing or experience that happened to me, but instead of making the outcome how it actually happened (bad outcome), its like pretending that it all worked out fine. like coping or something
this masterpiece made me cry TWICE, he should be a voice actor and i swear i’ll watch that movie/show over and over again just to listen to his voice ❤️
My mom said arguments are healthy for a relationship and I'm 100% sure this is what she meant. To talk things through and not yell at each other.
I hope these are the types of arguments I get into one day. I can't handle yelling.
Phenomenal video, Nora 💖
Do NOT listen to this while driving!!
I repeat -
do NOT LISTEN TO THIS WHILE DRIVING!!!!
The tears were flowing this time around for sure 😭
Istg this man can’t be single, Nora you’re too good 😭
I think what hurts the most when listening to this is hearing I’m sorry. I haven’t heard that. It’s always been my fault. I hope that one day I can get someone to understand me like this. Thank you Nora.
Thank you very much as well for sharing this, Sharon. I hope you get the apologies that you deserve 🤍
These little rules you have that include having no argument asmrs fills my heart with joy!
I can see a lot of noris can relate due to my dad and wonderful history with guys. I sometimes struggle with having a healthy argument and realize what an unhealthy one is.
Thank you for healing the little girl in me
until how high will you raise my standards nora? gosh i teared up from the amount love i felt hearing your lines and voice. the sincerity and realness is unmatched. thank you for being the biggest green flag
Somehow, I can relate with this. I'm always comparing myself with others and wondering if I'll make the same mistakes as my parents. The reassurance at the end makes me feel relieved a bit. Sometimes, it's hard to carry the burden alone but at the same time, I don't want to trouble others as well sobs.
I'm really glad this made you feel a bit relieved 🤍 And I can't even imagine the burden you have to carry. Please know that people acknowledge and appreciate your strength, Icedaisyah!
Thank you so much for this. Healthy communication is really hard and I struggle with being open enough to start those conversations. Hearing this audio of a vulnerable and incredibly supportive partner talk through a problem was super cathartic and very much needed. You've created such a wonderful safe space on your channel and I can't thank you enough 🖤
Thank you very much as well for this comment 🤍 I'm glad that my audios and our community have become a safe space!
Nora, thank you for this. We really tend to take for granted how important communication is, and when it comes to being in a relationship that is such a key factor. This is something I know I have to work on too, but I'm learning slowly. Bottling stuff up has been my go to strategy for years. Lol
Learning and trying are 90% of the equation. The other 10% comes with time. It takes a strong person to realize that they need to work on this, and you're already there. We believe in you, tailedgates9! 🤍
"It's us against the problem" had me pause the video to process how true it is wow. Thank you for the good/hard work Nora !
Listening to this made me realize that I’ve never actually heard what a healthy argument is supposed to sound like. My parents and family members are much like you described, so this was really refreshing and somehow healing to listen to.
Favorite argument audio hands down!! Much love, Nora 🤍 thank you
I cried so hard while listening to this. About 2 months ago, I broke up with my lover. And we left things unsaid. The reason why we broke up was just... We didn't talk about things that were supposed to be talked about. I was too scared, and they were too. We're scared we were going to hurt each other's feelings if we said it. But that led us to break up. In the end, this 11 months relationship is nothing because we never REALLY talked about what we felt towards each other. I'm telling you all, please, if you have a lover, talk to them. Ask about what are they feeling, ask about what's on their mind and so on. Lastly, thanks for this audio, Nora. I really love it. I hope you're living a great life, always. 🤍
I attended a high school that was strictly focused on rhetoric and persuasive arguments we could produce. One of the things that stuck with me all these years, is that a argument does NOT mean yelling, shouting, or grasping on negative connotations to get your point across. Its about stating and persuading what you think is best, so I love this take on a healthy argument
hi, nora! i'm not much of a commenter and i'm not sure if you'll even SEE this, but just in case you do, i know videos of this length take lots of time and effort to make, and i'm here to appreciate them! many people don't really like longer audios, but they really help me get my chores done (i wash the dishes and mop the floors to your audios, PLS) and they help me so much with my sleep problems. thank you so much for making these, and i hope you stay motivated in making them because they help deeply and widely.
have a super nice day, nora! thank you for blessing us with another amazing audio.
i'm usually a silent viewer, but i can't really help it this time. i haven't even finished watching the whole thing, but i feel like i gotta thank you for your hard work. every single video you do is just amazing, and even though i'm already one hundred percent aware of that, you keep surprising me with how much talent you have. thank you for such wonderful work, and i hope you know it is very loved by all of us!! keep up with it, you're doing such a nice job and it shows, and we're very grateful for that, nora
Bro I started crying a little because when I was younger around 11 maybe younger I realized that was the same reason my parents separated and this kinda help me with learning trust and talk to other more to otheres and the part where we are scared to argue, I’m terrified of yelling at other because a yell like my father and I always feel so much like that side of him that I can’t stand myself
after a long while of avoiding this audio in fear of falling into a depressive episode (I'm looking at you, "lost time" and "I need you", **ahem**) I finally mustered up the courage to listen to it and boy was it a good decision. I'm not gonna ramble too much cause the other noris' comments already have me covered, but i wanted to commend you for this audio. I really do think it's one of your best works, and it's clear how much you've put into it. Not so much in terms of script writing and editing (those are always flawless), but in emotional vulnerability. Even with its educational/influential manner, it's difficult to be this open with anyone other than a partner, let alone an inanimate object such as a microphone, so kudos to you! I doubt I have to mention how refreshing and healing this audio is, seeing as everyone will agree with me, but you have honestly outdone yourself, and I'm in awe with your emotional intelligence. You should be proud of yourself, Nora; I know I am
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Your comments are always a treat to read, jarvis. Thank you so much for all the lovely words 🤍 I definitely put a lot of my thoughts and feelings into this audio, and I'm really glad that it shows.
Whoever in this world gets to date or even be friends with this man, please, I BEG YOU treat him well. He does not deserve any kind of heartbreak or hurt feelings. I beg you people, cerish this man the way he deserves to be cerished.
I cant even imagine the work behind these master pieces, but please keep going because these videos are just purely amazing
Hi Nora! ❤
I don't usually comment much, but i wanted to let you know, how much of a gift this was to me.
I used to really struggle with letting myself fully invest my feelings into storylines (Movies, ASMR, Books), as a way to protect my oversensitivity.
But this single video moved me to the point of tears...
...i didn't even notice how used i had gotten to toxic and unproductive arguments.
I had gotten so used to getting yelled at and missunderstood.
So hearing a version of those arguments, but with the intent of *not* hurting and the *effort* to understand.
Something so raw in it's vulnerability, it genuinely shocked me.
Positively shocked me into hopefulness, of this actually being _possible_ .
And that it's something i should seek for.
Thank you so much, for giving me such an _AHA💡 !_ moment - and even giving me courage to take the first step into a healthier realm for communication.
Oh my! I've really done wrote a book now, no? 😅
Reminding me once again why i hesitate to comment at times...
there's just too many thought's 👩💻.
Anyways- i obviously LOVED❤ the video!
The sounddesign and ambience sound amazing aswell~
See you in the next one and _stay healthy and safe❤_
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Well I appreciate you for leaving a comment, Jacobloves Bacon! Please know that I read it fully and that I'm incredibly grateful that I was able to give you that "Aha!" moment with arguments. That's all I wanted to do with this audio.
Thank you very much! Stay safe and healthy as well.
I like that the character didn't raise his voice and the physical intimacy was in little amounts. Also he also heard our concerns. This felt more like a conversation. Tbh I'm not sure if this is an argument as I've never heard one from a couple
I feel like Nora is giving us Christmas presents by giving us more videos recently and I'm living for it ,ty Nora for these amazing videos as always and I hope you have a nice month of December!
Aside from the main topic of the audio, the problem you pointed out about breathing room is actually a serious thing in relationships as well. Not only between couples, but also between parents and children. Breathing room is essential for everyone in each relationship. I resonated with those words a lot.
It’s such a good topic! And the subject you want to tell is precious. That’s why I love Nora a lot. He always can find the different angels and ways to tell stories, and let the conversations go deeper and deeper.
And I agree with that a healthy argument is really important. Sometimes people deny to have conversations phase based. Then a small problem will grow bigger and bigger, at last become a trigger of relationship broken. A healthy argument can put potential problems on the table and help people in the relationship vent emotions properly. We will learn each other better and love each other more after a healthy argument. And it would be better for us to actively solve problems. Thank you so much for this wonderful subject, Nora!!! I love it so so much!!!
When I was preparing to have a argument with Nora: *crossing my arms across my chest * *cold eyes *
When Nora said: 9:39 Also me: *frantically * IM SORRY IM SOOOORRY
19:48 Hand kisses OMG…… Don’t make me tear up……
My favorite line in this audio: “I’m not okay, but I’m trying to be honest.” I tried not to cry during the whole audio but this man just punched me on the forehead.
I love the script so much. Sir don’t tell me it’s unscripted if so I will be crazy.
Also congrats on 88k!! Woohoo 90k is coming 🔥🔥
My comment was deleted again. Does Susan hate me that much??? How dare u TH-cam
I re-listened to it for many times…… I have to say Nora is so darn good at expressing delicate emotions through his voice, including some little breaths, voice shakes, and pauses between lines. No matter how long I’ve been in the community, no matter how many times I’ve re-listened to your audios, I always always can got into the scene, and felt the emotions strongly. You’re the best RP ASMR artist in my heart. I’ve said the same words when I began to listen to your audios in February, at that time I haven’t known many creators yet. Now I still can say the same things even I’ve listened to a bunch of creators. (Not putting down any other creators here! It’s just my own feelings and tastes!) Thank you so much for bringing this wonderful work to us, Nora! I love it so so much
Nora thank you so much for another audio! 3 audios in 3 weeks. Gosh us noris are getting early Christmas presents from you.The editing,script everything was done well. Your voice honestly feels like a warm blanket. And thank you again for making this audio on what you think means a healthy argument. Much love Nora 💓
"it's us vs the problem"
Yes. Just YES.
i love how the noise of the environment gets louder during emotional moments, it’s such a subtle detail, yet it adds so much to the experience! thank you, nora~
I’m so happy finally this type of healthy argument ASMR exist!! 😭
Thank you so much Nora ❤
26:00 onwards and 30:10 hits me hard and I cried. The impact of emotional that Nora gave is unexplainable. I've never been into any relationships but I've experienced some situations with my friends. This healthy argument audio really helps a lot. At the very least, I know how to talk to them without making things bigger. Thank you, Nora, thank you so much T_T
I JUST KNOW THIS IS GONNA BE GOOD
I just know I’m gonna be crying at the end…
Well, I would say that I’m impressed by how you showed how an argument could sound like without the grabbing at each other’s throats, the shouting and the list goes on… I think the couples of these generation could use this audio as a guide honestly. Thank you for this audio and be safe and healthy ❤
nora i might write a lot but this really is an amazing audio!!! just listening through this now, even as a listener made me realise what a healthy argument is and i can’t express the emotions i am feeling. i think because in the past, i’ve never had people properly listen to me when i talk about my feelings and that’s why i feel the need to have to explain everything when someone asks the smallest things because otherwise they’ll bring up the whole “you should’ve said so!” type of stuff. hearing this audio just kinda make me envy having a healthy argument haha.. but thank you so much for showing this to us, like genuinely. this is definitely something i needed in this moment and honestly nora, im always so proud and thankful for you.
Honestly I try not to listen to arguments audios cause they actually make me feel like a gaslighter. Before this video I didn’t know healthy arguments existed so ty ❤
me and my boyfriend argue like this, couples should really argue the right way and understand each others side....arguments help us to grow more even through the tough times
Thank you, Nora, for this audio.
We all appreciate how you always underline the importance of communication between people. As a bad talker, I found this so helpful, and now I understand the subject more
I really love how the argument turns out, peaceful, understanding and smoothly emotional 🤍 I think good communication is a very important main point in relationship. I wish my life partner will be like this!! Thanks for such a good audio, nora, as always. Hope everything works out well in your life~ much love 🤍
FIANLYL A HEALTHY ARGUMENT ONE AND NOT ONE OF THOSE screaming, flinching and stuff😭.💕
I really appreciate this kind of content, it shows that this type of communication is very important to experience
Also thie is another reason why Nora is NUMBER 1 on meh list im over here checking my list 2 like santa and he still nymber 1 also I think we can all agree his voice, personality, thoughtful and beautiful audios, etc... Is why hes #1 on all of our lists? Like OMG IM DYING FROM HOW WHOLESOME AND SWEET THIS WAS
I have bpd, so I always avoid asmr that has an argument or anything like that. it's a trigger that I hate to have. but when I saw the thumbnail and saw it was from Nora, I gave it a try. and, for the first time in a while, I let everything out loud. about how hard it's to live with bpd, my insecurities, and all that stuff. for the first time, I could be honest and speak everything, so when you said "thank you for being honest", I just fell down and cried. i cried a lot. it's not easy living with the paranoia and fear of everything, but it was so assuring that I felt like I could be loved. that there's people out there who will understand my pain and reassure me that everything is gonna be okay... thank you, really.
i was listening to a song called ‘home’ by bruno major the other day and it reminded me so much of your comfort audios. it sounded as if one of your audios was made into song form (honestly most of his songs do haha)!
as for this audio, i really 🤍 the idea of a healthy version of an argument audio, it’s so refreshing to hear! yet another gem, nora! happiest of holidays to you :))
Thank you so much Nora, for emphasising that Yes, Agruements are okay if done properly and in a healthy way. I never actually understand why one would like to support shouting\flinching audios, they are toxic and doesn't give a good message to society. In this era of supporting toxicity without thinking its repercussions I am glad they are still people like you who understand this. Thank you again🤍
No because this one actually made me cry. Your acting is so good, and I can tell you take a lot of time thinking through these. I've had a similar situation with my parents, and I always tell myself that I'll be as different from them as I can
Nora, you give us space & time to us that we may not find or have with other important people in our lives. I know we have to go through life experiences on our own but listening to your audios gives me the space to feel powerful & comfortable with myself. Thank you, Nora. I hope you can have the same comfort in your own life which you provide here. ❤
I love this and I love how instead of a unhealthy or bad argument u did a healthy one and u don't get ur usual and typical flinching, crying and some other stuff type audios I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS!! ❤
It was always one of my fears to end up like my parents. As a result of their relationship, it left me emotionally and physically scarred. I told myself, "I don't want to be like them," and when my relationship started with my spouse, it was bumpy. No one's relationship is perfect. We learned, we grew, we shared and separated from each other (into different rooms) if emotions got too high and came back and talked about it. I can proudly say that we've been together since we were teens and still together today. So, I want to say thank Nora for showing there can be healthy arguments/discussions.
My family are used to argue a lot and it's not that kind of healthy argument (not that they're bad or anything it's just a bad habit they have). It's always shouting even if it's not a serious argument, shouting is always there so I grew up hating noise, arguments, shouting, etc. and because fearing of being like them, I tend to not talk when something really pisses me off and just let it be cause I don't want more arguments.
So, I want to thank you for this one because you've made me realize that there are people out there who 'talk' and try to have a good conversation when facing problems. 🤍
very well done audio,nora.
thank you and take care of yourself !! 🤍
Thank you very much, iclal! Thank you as well and take care too!
As someone who grew up in a somehow toxic household I was never thought that and argument could be like this. I’ve always associated it with screaming and fighting. Thank u so much for this bit of comfort 😊
(Ps: Sorry for any mistake, English is not my first language)
I understood you perfectly well, •Artémis•! Thank you very much for these kind words. It's an important distinction to make, so hearing that this audio was able to help with that is so comforting 🤍
Your voice acting is so good that always makes me envolved and I got emotional. This argument audio was so mature and adult, like all healthy relationships should be. I said before that I was expecting something like that coming from you and I'm not disappointed. Your channel is a safe and comfort place and I love the way you build the relationships and the characters.
I can feel how hard for them was to have this conversation (even if they should have it) and that is what makes your voice acting so good, I really aprecciate that.
Thanks for this, Nora. 💖
Man, Nora, really; you're a very sweet guy...
I remember growing with parents who would argue all the time as well, but luckily they never" fought physically" with eachother. But still, everytime they fought i remember hiding behind my door listening close to see if i could hear a hit sound or something telling me that i should come out to help...
While you were explaining the importance of that kind of argument i was like: I KNOWWWWWW, I KNOWWW YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE TO EXPLAIN DEAR! I TOTALLY AGREEE
Thanks so much for the audio, i really don't like hearing loud voices or shoutings... They make me feel very uncomfortable ☺
God bless you, man❤
I'm so sorry you had to go through that 😢❤️🩹
This is an interesting video. I usually listen to the flinching videos because I can relate to them. This video feels foreign but thank you for reminding me what a healthy argument sound like. I usually avoid talking because it creates tension and confrontation that I knew I cant win.
Thanks, Nora for this. Thank you for trying to explore parts of human life that can be overlooked.
My parents are exactly like the ones he described, people who don’t communicate, but yell at each other, my dad only “fixes” issues of my mum is screaming and crying, other wise he treats issues as if their not important, they’ve yelled at each other about leaving so many times yet their still together, you would think that makes the, stronger but not only are they in this viscous cycle of never communicating properly or learning from past mistakes, their destroying me and my siblings, it hurts and I feel as though it would be better if they would split up, I want them to understand that their actions are affecting us, my mum vents everything to me cause she can’t talk to my dad about it
I would have straight up cried when he said "Honey, you're the most important person to me" like do you really think someone would say this to me? It's so beautiful, must be nice 😭❤️
I love this so much already!! Thank you for making this audio!
Edit: I just finished this audio... The entire time I was trying not to cry but the ending got me. Also I'm not sure if anyone has noticed, but the storytelling is immaculate
GUYS WAKE UP, NORA POSTEDD!!!
Oh, Nora, please make an audio with heartbeat, its so calming😭💓
Wait nora should be an actor?? He was popping off I was like okayyyy 😂❤ but seriously this is so much better than a shouting argument and I think it's very important and thoughtful of you to show an argument like this, cause all arguments don't have to be strenuous
LOVE THIS❤❤❤. THANK YOU, THANK YOU NORA for bringing this up. Because of you and this audio, it made me feel fuzzy and warm about wanting to have a relationship like this. You made me want to fall in love. I've been surrounded by failed relationships, i don't even have a complete family. I even witnessed my dad and my stepmom argued (breaking things and punching walls) when I was a kid.
Your audios made me believe in love again, the love that I've been longing for (OMG, why am i crying while typing this?😭). A healthy kind of love.
its midnight and im feeling the feels, time to make it worse by the BEST audios that always strike my heart
This was probably the best ASMR I've ever heard.
To be honest, I tried not to cry throughout the entire video, especially when he mentioned his parents... When you go through the same situation, it hits differently. And oh my, a healthy argument is something that I think all couples wish they had.
When you solve a problem together, even if you are not okay, it is better than when you shout over each other, trying to figure out who is to blame, while the problem itself remains unresolved.
Thank you, thank you Nora, I hope you are doing well and please know that your videos help a lot of people feel better 🤍
I'm glad they do, Anastasia. Thank you very much for all these kind words. And no problem at all 🤍
“I’ll keep trying”, “I understand, I understand” - this one hit me the most. Perhaps, it’s the words I wish I could’ve heard from my previous partner, not the gaslighting and manipulating.
This audio hugged me, truly. This audio teaches what healthy argument is. This audio shows the importance of communicating AND listening. Oh, and also vulnerability- how beautiful it could be when both sides are open, honest, & gentle.
Thank you, Nora. 🌸
Thank you for making these like vdos. When I want to listen to a decent asmr I came to this channel. The background sounds, the sound variations in b/w the silence and conversation, the effort, the decency, the intimate connection with the mind of the listeners....
clean and adequate. Good work.♡
now my pillow is soaked in my tears. thank you, nora. i actually needed a good cry 🤍
No problem at all, jae (눈‸눈)! I'm glad this audio could help with a good cry 🤍
Honestly I was close to crying in this video!
And when BF described his parents sounds like my parents only they're not divorced
idk why but the moment nora walk away just to pick up the call it remind me of smth, my man did that and I can't stop ovt 😭😭😭😭
this reminds me of when i was little and my father and i would be arguing and i would say that we were having an argument and he would get upset and say "we aren't arguing, we dont have to argue." and i would tell him "just because we're not yelling doesn't mean we aren't arguing. we are disagreeing, we are have an argument." this is weird to think back on knowing i was as young as 5 😂
I love how he makes every audio so healthy to listen to. It just feels like the perfect amount of everything in life in poured into them and we get to hear it. Just thank you so so so so so so much for all your time that u took to make this. I love you❤
Your voice is just majestic and PERFECT ♥️
I feel it with all my heart. I like conversations in your asmr, because I can hear words what I would be want to hear from another person. It let me feel understandble.
This is the calmest fking argument I’ve heard in my life wth?
Thank you again, Nora!!
I hope you’re doing well and stay safe always!!
🖤💙🖤
this was honestly such a good reminder and its a very well done audio. congrats :)
okay, i usually don’t even leave comments on videos, but nora i want u to know that you’re helping me so much. i’m going through an extremely difficult time right now and it’s terrible. i’ve always liked listening to your audios, but especially right now, it’s extremely comforting. love you nora 🩷
thank you so much for this Nora. seriously ❤ as someone who lives an intense and inflammatory living environment, flinching videos trigger the hell out of me so this healthier argument without any aggression makes me feel safe.
Hi Nora! I just wanted to say that, as a graphic design student, I enjoy all of your thumbnails and other typography in your videos. Makes my design heart happy. Thank you for your audios, as always! Take care
Oh, that's a really lovely compliment! I'm glad you enjoyed the graphic design, Blue! Take care as well.
I didn’t know this arguments were like this, I’ve never had the ability to argue like this. I thought that arguments were always me against the other person because I have always felt like no one ever gave me the chance to argue with them against the problem. Thank you for this, I have a lot to think about. You did so great Nora
wow.. just wow.. I'm so speechless rn.. I feel like I've been hit by a truckload of emotions. I'm honestly very impressed with your take on argument audio. I can genuinely feel your words and understand what you're trying to convey to the listener. I truly love this a lot. I have to admit that I've paused multiple times because I was simply amazed. Thank you so much, Nora, for your time and energy in making this audio. I think you really show what a healthy argument could sound like🤍
I love this soo much nora i don't know how you do so good on these 😭😭
I didn't even know what happened and there he's apologizing. I was like "But he didn't shout, make us flinch or slap" damn
You don't need to be shouted at or hit to deserve an apology, Nash!
@@NoraASMR 🥺🥺 Thank you So Much for that Nora