Today my 10 year old came into by bedroom crying. I asked why and she said, "I'm sad because I'm too young to start a multi million dollar company." I responded, "You're never too young!" The next day we solved world hunger and now we're billionaires. #gaslight #gatekeep #girlboss 🥰💪💸
I have a daughter and I desperately hope I work enough in my life so that she never has to work if she doesn't want to 😭 I would honestly love it if my daughter got time and money to travel, and pursue what she wanted without fearing about money.
“My 2 year old came in and told me that she was willing to go to work for me and the next day she came home with 1 million dollars and a raise.” #SoProudOfHer #GirlBoss #YouCanDoItTo
hustle culture is funny to me because it’s like: “we live in a society where being wealthy requires an extreme amount of luck and connections which are much harder to get based on socioeconomic status but look at this quote and you’ll get rich like me 😩”
@Sierra J not only that, there's a finite number of people who can ever have wealth like that before there isn't enough to go around. There literally isn't enough currency on Earth for every American to be a millionaire, let alone what these people make. Like, if we took all the money from every country of every type of currency we'd still not have enough for every American to have a million dollars. And that's not even enough to retire these days. So mathematically there will be people who die poor literally no matter what they do. Solutions for the problems these people face aren't something "hustle culture" is really equipped to provide.
Hustle culture feels so dystopic for some reason. Like "oh yes, faceless conglomerate, I love working! Working is good. Working is great. I can't wait to work and work and work for the rest of my life."
You're completely right, and it's not "for some reason"-- it's biological. Human beings do not flourish under the conditions of capitalism. Physical health, mental health, social health, and overall happiness deteriorates very quickly when we are forced to work long hours with no gain to ourselves, our interests, our families, or our lives other than the privilege of buying food to live and work another day. We are musical, artistic, poetic, silly beings that need play as much as we need work. The biological drive for every living creature is to do the least amount of work with the most amount of gain possible. Capitalism is exactly the opposite of that-- work as hard as you can and get nothing in return. Hustle culture is the most extreme end of internalizing all of capitalism's morals and values.
That is because late-stage capitalism is, in it of itself, dystopic. It is harmful and dangerous to people and yet greed for money and control blinds the ones who are better off to all of it's downsides.
same… it’s scary bc you KNOW that some poor woman who needs to get some cash will go by these rules that these often scammy n scummy influencers bc they’re so convinced this’ll get them by.
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I really met a guy who’s an entrepreneur and was bragging about the fact that he needed Adderall because he got little to no sleep and was working all day every day and I was just thinking “And…that’s the life you want to live?”
@@oppakunn328 It seems more like addiction to me. Except he's not addicted to Adderall; he's addicted to hustle culture and Adderall is only a means to that end. We're used to seeing addicts struggle to make money so they can buy more drugs. How do we help addicts who struggle with unnecessary drugs so they can make more money?
I was researching that ten-year old child (I felt weird doing so ngl) but her parents are multi-millionaires with million dollar companies. Her idea of the work force is so much different than ours and she will never be able to have the same struggle we do.
I love how these hustle culture people's top role models are the 5 or so people out of 7.8 billion who happened to be born in a rich family. Like sit down Joshua you own a dropshipping Twitter account not Amazon.
the amount of people supporting and admiring that 10yr child regurgitating the rhetoric her parents shoved down her throat was CONCERNING. trying to defend it say that's what the child wants and its so wonderful to see.... i-
it’s so upsetting. especially to see her made up to make her look older than she actually is. why is it so hard for people to let their children be their own people? why is it so hard for people to let their kids just be kids? it’s so sad
N they will be confused when that girl finding alt cuture and especially embracing it will distance themselves from the luv of their lives, n probably shame her for doing so.
Exactly, like she’s a CHILD.. this is _not_ what she wants, she doesn’t even know what she wants she hasn’t experienced life yet. She was forced into it and did it for her parents validation (which every child has a need for).
@@daisyelizabeth5462 preach. Let kids be kids. Kinda ironic how adults say “dont grow up” to them but then force their kids into being mini versions of themselves before they’re even 18.
I'm in an another comment section right now talking with someone who thinks hobbies are procrastination and is proud of the fact they work like 70 hours a week. Like I can see hustling working short term, like when in college (although I wish people wouldn't have to resort to it), but it's so unmaintainable in the long term
@@xenonsan3110 they’re literally a slave to the system, in i guess 2 years they will burn out. there’s a fine line between motivation and being work obsessed. 70h a week? could never be me.
Oh god that poor girl… i first saw that clip when Kurtis Conner talked about her in his podcast VRG, I just feel so sorry for her because it’s obvious she is only doing that to please her parents 😢 I mean she is 10, she should be enjoying her childhood 😖
When I was ten I was still into American Girl dolls and pretended to be Marvel superheroes at recess with my friends. I can’t imagine being like her at all. It’s def her parents fault.
She’s the daughter of Grant Cardone. He’s one of these hustle culture motivational speakers. That talk she gave was at one of his 10x conference. So I guess the dad is taking advantage of his cute daughter to be the mouthpiece of this nonsense… bless her.
@@armelcornu6229 I had a feeling this was the case. Anyone else would put in the 0.9 seconds to think and realize that raising a child on the idea that they only have worth as a person if they're working isnt a good idea
I honestly didn't even know you could post comments and pics and bullshit stories at LinkedIn, I thought it was just a place to put your work history. 😂
Same, the only time I went on there was to look at my professors‘ projects and research teams… I was watching this video and when linked in came up I was like: what? 😂 this is considered to be a social media site?
That ten year old dressed up as an adult woman and speaking in a kid voice telling stuff like "I am only worthy if I work hard" (paraphrased) that gave me chills... What kinda society
I worked at the largest mortgage company in the world as a banker. The workplace culture was so absolutely toxic and there was so much pressure to just sell your soul in order to make money. To keep up appearances and play into their stupid “theme days,” I was spending as much money as I was making. Even after hours we were pressured into attending “team outings,” throughout the city. I quit after three years when I woke up and had a thought that I’d rather be dead than work another 80 hour week.
I worked at a couple high ranked law offices and the experience was basically the same. People would retire at 40 but looked like they were 60, my coworkers were getting heart problems from the stress and none of us was even 30. When my second contract ended i didnt renew and never looked back.
@@verybarebones this is true. Stress ages us so much. I’m glad we both learned while we were young that sometimes money just truly isn’t worth it and that our mental health has a price as well.
@@mariunfabregas7533 it was a nightmare. In the month of March I was easily clocking 100+ hours because of a stupid workwide competition. The prize? A vacation to a destination you do not get to choose and is kept a secret till the end. One year it was North Carolina.
i must've curated my online experience just right, because i never see hustle culture online, only ever "i don't dream of labour" type posts, and i'm all about that because i, too, hate capitalism.
Yeah, capitalism sucks, luckily we get zero exposure to consumerism thanks to the algorithm and our viewing choices! Also, this at 0:24 is totally not an ad.
I love how the role models for hustle culture are always rich beforehand like if your parents can give you a $100,000 loan you ain’t like the rest of us
I was watching this video while editing bc I love your channel and am now in shock after hearing my channel mentioned 😳 you were so incredibly kind thank you & I’m so glad you enjoyed my video 💜
I've read some REALLY ham-fisted sci-fi books and thought "wow, that was a little preachy, little on-the-nose with the anti-corporate stuff." Then I saw the 10-year-old Girlboss and realized we are beyond parody.
I’ve never been sucked into hustle culture, but I DO have gifted kid burnout and the two are incredibly similar to me. In middle and high school, I was so paranoid that not doing every thing would ruin my chances of getting into a good college so I would fail. I neglected my hygiene, my sleep, and my social life to accomplish this. My last two years of high school were spent waking up at 4am and not taking a moment to rest until 10pm. It was exhausting and unsustainable. Now, I’m a college student who feels like a vat of wasted potential, struggles to even brush my teeth more than once a week, and is too burnt out to even put effort into the things I’m supposed to love. Hustle culture is so unsustainable and will eventually lead to burn out. Even if you succeed along the way, it hurts so much more in the long run
Take little baby steps and try to build an environnement that is good for you. It's really difficult and nearly impossible to reach a perfectly balanced life (at least to me, who have adhd). But having experienced depression several times, and having anxiety and adhd, i know that little by little, by creating and sticking to a basic routine can help. I still struggle with organizing my schedule for uni and im 1 week late for an assignement rn T-T , but i've learned how to have a healthy sleep schedule, eat good and cook and meditate since high school, where i used to sleep 2hrs just to study all night and thought it was something to be proud of. Rn im trying to make a habit of reading a book a month. Im trying to do things that are good for me. Writing this comment just to let you know that change is possible and im sure that you'll find a lifestyle that is healthy for you and makes you happy. school is not everything in life.
@@hera5454 Yeah, I’m definitely working on that :) I have ADHD and depression, so it’s been hard, but I’m an RA (resident advisor) this year at my school, so I’ve been waking up earlier and I feel more productive and happy
I hate hustle culture so much. I absolutely do not want to have every moment of my existence to feel like it needs to be monetized. I want to be able to make art for work, and to make art for myself without mixing my artistic value with the ability to make money. It's so exhausting.
People have confused hustle with work. No one's putting a gun to your forehead and forcing you to work every second of your day. You could be working 2 hours and spending the remaining time with your loved ones. It's all about flexibility, just because garyvee said work 24/7/365 doesn't mean his word is written in the bible now that everyone has to follow it. Do you! Do what makes you happy and not what other people are saying
If you have really expensive tastes, you have to work harder to maintain them. Simpler tastes usually mean you don't have to push yourself quite as hard. But even minimal stuff like water heaters are pretty expensive, so yeah, you probably don't want to make a living on a part time minimum wage job.
I felt how she felt at 10, but did not, would not and STILL do not translate the feeling of “omg, just cuz I’m a kid doesn’t mean I am useless and don’t exist” to “work more”. No hunny, I been trying to figure out how to work less since I was her age 😂 the thing is because she is a kid with millionaire parents, her idea of “work” is… creating ideas, pitching business deals, doing things that SHE likes that she feels contribute to the world. Maybe go on a world tour giving inspirational speeches! 🤩🤩This is not work for us. Work for us is often… spending most of our lives doing things we hate around people we hate in a place we hate in order to have a roof over our heads. I saw my parents come home EXHAUSTED. I went to their work place and was bored out of my mind. I realized that being a grown up, though I want the freedom, is gonna suck balls. But when your parents are rich… it’s very easy to idealize it.
I don't mind at all if someone wants to live that Hustle Culture life, it's the gatekeeping and bullying those who don't subscribe to the same mentality that pisses me off. If you want to work your life away, cool, but we are NOT the same, and imma need you to butt out of my personal choices.
Exactly !!!! Some people will make you think that you're worthless if you do not want to live the same lifestyle as them and it is incredibly frustrating. Do i want to work to be able to live the life i want? Sure. Do i want work to be my purpose in life? No, thank you.
Not to mention that people engaging in hustle culture in and of itself creates toxic work environments on a systemic level because people putting in work to this extent allows capital owners to say “see, these people devote their entire lives to work, I don’t see why you shouldn’t as well even if it’s just to be able to pay for food and rent”
I feel this. I don't mind people that want to be hard working and successful. The only problem I have is when, people harass others for not working to their degree of success.
@@fionatastic0.070 In the bleak future it will be "any attempts to unionize or demand a raise or additional benefits will be responded with termination and automation of your job."
That 10 year old Ted talk thing kills me. Yeah I thought the same way when I was 10 and people told me I was too young to get a job. In fact I thought a LOT of things when I was 10 that I've since changed my mind on, as I'm sure most people did. Then I grew up, got my first job, and went "oh no I hate this never mind." I guarantee the minute that girls turns 14/15 and gets her first job she'll have the same experience lol
Yes so true the way I imagined what my work would be when I grow up and the things I wanted when I was a kid is so different to what matters to me now!!
Bro, am I the only one that absolutely DREADED growing up as a child because I was terrified of having to work? Now I'm working and yeah, I was right. It sucks.
Same....never understood all my childhood peers who were in a rush to grow up. Now as a 24 year old struggling to get through the work week and make enough to stay afloat, sometimes I really just want my mom lmaoo. It's tough out here...
I love that as a woman you have to decide between children or a career. Bitch, I don't want either, I just wanna live my life. Hustle culture is something that I'll never understand, and after this video I'm even more lost. I also watched this video while working, so you can kinda see my relationship with work :D
LOL yep, I hear you here. Maybe I could just make enough to pay rent, hang with people who love me, play games, and eat snacks? That's kind of my bag. I applaud the ambition, but I'm good down here thanks
@@candycoatedcactus i am glad someone said this....you know when these kinds of videos calls out toxic work cultute the comments are usually filled with anti feminist who claims that women were better back then when they didn't work and stayed at home and raised children...staying at home and having children are my worst nightmare but i also hate this extreme hustle work culture....there are people who wanna stay in middle....but sadly such videos gives anti feminists to push their stupid religious and anti women agenda but m glad this video's comments ain't like that...we can call out the toxicity of capitalism without pushing some stupid idea that women are better at home raising children...
Damn this is so true trueeee 😩 I feel so burnt out and im only 24, but there's such a heavy pressure of being successful that has always been a chip on my shoulder.....If I try to express this to my family it turns into the suggestion of apparently the only alternative for women, raising a family to be fulfilled in life. Like wtf?? I've spent most of my life helping take care of my disabled brother and maybe I don't want that responsibility anymore!! Yeah I think I need therapy fr....
Okay, for reasons out of my control (mostly capitalism) I have found myself in the thick of the corporate workforce and I have to say, my experience with LinkedIn is so different. Not better btw, because it's toxic in its own way. I think the examples you are finding are a lot of the bottom of the barrel wannabe types. No SAP or Oracle sales person would ever talk like that. They would be laughed out of the room. High end multinational enterprise sales take months, even years. They aren't selling used cars and the relationship isn't over just because you closed a deal. So you can't act like these assholes. On the other hand, there's this toxic fake positivity and pretensions to CSR (corporate social responsibility, think all of those big companies posting black squares during the height of the BLM protests) that is pervasive in the upper echelons of LinkedIn. They actively swing the other way with their posts. They talk about how important it is to have work life balance all while they work you to the bone. They pretend to be caring organizations with big hearts trying to change the world all while killing the planet. I'd say that stuff is even more insidious. Because they pretend to care about your well-being while actively ensuring its destruction.
Yes I organized a convention for a big 5 company. It was for "women in management" and they advertised themselves like these big ass feminists all while having one woman in senior management (in that department) out of 30. And most women being assistants!! (myself included) never wanted to work for a big firm everrrrr again
I’m right there with you ‘in the thick of the corporate workforce’ even though I have little desire to. I stop work at 5 every day and avoid as many meetings as I can (my manager actually does a really good job shielding me from unnecessary meetings, though aren’t they all?). I don’t care about climbing the corporate ladder and I feel bad when I see some co-workers sending emails in the middle of the night. Spoiler alert: the industry we are in is NOT life-saving at all, nothing is worth checking emails in the middle of the night. Anyway, I have two things I tell my 4 year old son: “Commercials/ads lie to you” and “Companies are never your friend and never care about you and will almost always lie if they can get away with it”. I like to think I’m equipping him to be a skeptical consumer of corporate crap, but 🤷♂️
@Kyle Ankeny The best way to climb the corporate ladder is to jump from one corporation to another. Lie a little bit in CV, get hired, get the experience / reputation, lie a little bit in CV and repeat the cycle
That guy talked about dreaming of closing a deal... I started dreaming about work once and it was the lowest, most anxious, most stressed I’ve ever been. It was NOT healthy.
seeing my late dad have his two attempts at starting businesses flop despite the skills he had really made me realize that its not really just the efforts made but the luck..
Hustle culture posts just remind me of Charlotte from Rugrats and that episode of All Grown Up when she lost her job and didn't know what to do with herself so she started obsessing over Angelica.
I don’t understand how people can be so bold on LinkedIn. My literal only connection is my mom. I don’t even have the gall to request my best friend much less a stranger
Just advice, linkedIn connections aren't that deep. You can totally request classmates/coworkers/whoever! Worst case scenario you just get ignored and it's fine!
@@marzipan2555 yeah I was mostly talking about the people who try to add people they’ve never met just because (?) haha. But thanks! I’m getting degrees in 2 sciences so to me it doesn’t feel too necessary anyways as compared to someone in business or something
In my freshman year of art high school, one of my art teachers was OBSESSED with hustle culture (you gotta pressure people to let you at their gallery, make millions, etc, etc) and it honestly made me think of quitting art.
That's what Indeed is for, haven't touched LinkedIn yet and don't really want to 💀 Indeed is pretty cut-and-dry with connecting employers with potential employees.
As a child I never wanted to work. I just knew it was to get money to buy things so as a teenager I pursued it just to buy things. Not because it seemed cool to work
Exactly! You know what i thought would be cool once i'm old enough to work? COMMUTING! Now i'm like, hard pass! I can't imagine working in big fancy office environment
I was just diagnosed with ADHD 2 months ago, and it's tough having undiagnosed ADHD because I would look up productivity tips and what to do, and ran into so much hustle culture and then feel even worse about myself cause I'm not even at the normal baseline of work. I'm not trying to up my productivity so that I can hustle, I'm trying to up my productivity so that I can get ANYTHING or SOMETHING done, even just 1 or 2 hours of focus, so I can be happy and make it through my day job that I do like but ain't obsessed w and also be able to focus on my hobbies and social situations better. Now that I'm diagnosed I know a bit better of what tips actually work for me and where to look for them. I still want to up my focus and productivity but for my own personal mental health cause getting nothing done also doesn't feel great.
I know that little girl did not write that speech so the fact that she talked about “not being a kid and not yet an adult” plus the way she’s presented makes me so uncomfortable. She should be enjoying her childhood, not forced into this hustle world with such high expectations already.
I escaped a job where the work culture WAS hustle culture, and to be a 'good' employee you had to be the type that would drop anything and everything to rush to a clients house. So glad I escaped... and got counselling.
I also feel like young hustle culture is extremely toxic, I've seen people being 17 or 18 and saying how much they make, how they have a house or fancy apartment and how they have a "luxury young life" when they are a fresh young adult who should still have fun and have responsibilities at the same time instead of just acting like a full grown know it all adult. I remember stressing out about how I needed to have everything situated by age 18 and pay for everything and move out but I realized i am good where I am at age 19, I have a job, I have a car and a credit card and pay for my essentials and live at home. I'm hustling but at my own pace and I'm alright.
Ironically I got a connection from someone whose opening message said they build bots to optimize connections and asked if I would be willing to learn about the job So you aren't wrong
salem tovar made a video yesterday where the topic of hustle culture was brought up, this topic interests me because it's its toxic especially for broke people like me...like yess, rub it in my face that im lazy and broke😭
Another thing I realized is that a lot of the people who push hustle culture with a large platform ACTUALLY ENJOY the hustle, the competition. They LIKE IT! And people are inspired by their wealth so they try to do it and it’s not normal to enjoy hustle culture. It’s not normal because the reason you’re working is different than the reason someone like Gary V is working. I used to be in hustle culture because I thought the more I hustled, the faster I could ESCAPE the hustle. Until I realized my life was getting away from me, my mental health was deteriorating, and I was tolerating toxic work places for the sake of… still not making enough money. My solution was to leave hustle culture, find remote work, work a job that is as simple as possible and use the rest of my time and steady income to take care of myself.
This feels more like a propaganda for young people against wanting European Social Standards (Health Insurance/social security benefits, etc) in the United States too.
Some further nuance on this topic is probably the other side of hustle culture which is fed to minorities. It’s kinda like “if you work hard enough you can get out of the trenches”. Often times it robs young people of enjoying their childhoods because if they don’t work to help out at home, then they’re somehow “ungrateful” and “spoiled”. It’s the weirdest thing and I find it so common in ethnic households. And obviously racism plays a factor in hiring so the idea that we’re supposed to just get 3 jobs and work hard to provide for our families completely undermines how race, gender, and class affects your work life.
It’s good to see someone talking about this, my best friend is Chinese and she would wholeheartedly agree with this comment and has seen it play out among her other Asian friends.
@@adrianc6534 as an ex junior lawyer at a corporate firm, you dont even have the time to spend the money you earn. My office literally had beds for workers to spend the night there, people would finish work at 4am and be working again at 9:30am the same day. What's the point of getting paid x2 as much when working x2.5 as many hours? It's a scam.
This sounds like an industrial revolution robber baron paid her off. "I WISH they would hire me to crawl under the machines!! I simply must use my small stature to fix the gears!!"
I hate the shaming people for spending their money so much. You don't have to be poor! Just `*~budget~*' every ounce of joy out of your life and you can be a millionaire on your $20k salary! If it doesn't work, then it's your own fault for spending $5 on a meal that isn't beans and rice.
@@Louise-ls4jv Everyone should have a budget, but that budget should also include some money that you can spend on yourself. Poor people are allowed to have nice things.
it's like you took the words right out of my mouth. hustle culture makes me SO upset and the 10 year old girl boss breaks my heart. she's SO young and I sincerely hope she gets out of that situation or away from the person who is teaching her those values. Gary Vee makes me eyeroll centuries into the future and his videos take years off my life.
i love this comment. it’s like a work of art. especially the last sentence which i find so true and so hilarious. like the phrase “gary vee makes me eyeroll centuries into the future” is something i’ll have to use for the rest of my life
@@raynajcarter omg that is so sweet of you to say!!! He really does drive me NUTS so I'm glad someone can appreciate my hyperbolic way of expressing that.
That little girl is definitely referring to the Kardashian definition of "work" You know the one where you use your family's money to slap your name on something and then sit back and earn an income while real people make the product and do the actual work
The thing about the little girl is that what she said would be fine if I didn't know who her father was. Also when a kid says "I wanna be treated adult" I'm not saying that's not what she's saying but sometimes I hear that and other times I hear "I wanna be treated like a human" idk.
It reminds me of Lil Tay. There is definitely a adult probably her father behind this. We now even have 2 year old influencers for what? We really need to call this what it is child abuse. Let kids be kids & using your children for money is plain wrong. Also reminds me of Chinese geniuses just drop dead at 18 because of stress they have been pushed since the age of 2.
AAAAH I never made the connection between hustle culture and MLMs! God it makes so much sense. I've always gotten bad vibes from the hustle culture. It's taken me a long time to figure out that my worth is not determined by my productivity, and I still struggle with that guilt in a lot of ways. I definitely work to live, not live to work. So seeing a group of people that not only live to work, but who proudly throw themselves into a meatgrinder of work just does not jive with me at all.
I really frickin hate linkedin. Unfortunately, I HAVE to use it in order to get a job in my field. The more people I'm connected with on linkedin, the more likely it is that I'll get an interview/job but like??? I just graduated college??? And my family is poor af, I don't know any software engineers!! This is one of the realizations that made me a commie lol
not sure why you need linkedin to get a job. ive been working as an engineer at a large semiconductor company for almost 5 years and never gave a fuck about linkedin. i have like 30 connections and they are all just random people from my undergrad class.
Welcome comrade lol But I agree I was advised to open a linked in because I would get a job But like there was so much work and connections they require before you can truly find a good one I went to a company who employs people and got it right away
Bro you can offer your skills on fiverr and stuff to freelance and that will put you a whole lot better towards getting a job than trying to connect with everyone on LinkedIn so like freelance for a bit, take a couple contract jobs and then start applying to enterprises
so my dad was apart of hustle culture before it was more main stream, he made me listen to tony robins almost every day as a child, and how he just has to work harder, and one of the first times i remember him being proud of me was when i got my first job at 14. i was 14. wtf bro. and during covid there was 3 months i was out of a job and both of my parents made me feel like i was just taking up space for not contributing to society in the work force. even if you are apart of hustle culture, please don’t force it onto your kid’s because it has definitely warped the my mindset about myself
Have you ever watched Katherout's videos? She went from being all in on hustle culture to being a full-fledged socialist anti-capitalist. It's interesting to hear her talk about how her mind changed over time.
But her video attracted several anti feminists who claims that women don't like working and be better at home raising children. Sadly such videos attract women haters who want women to be dependent on men...the message in her video was to call out toxic huslte culture but so many people started hating on feminism and saying that women should stay at home and raise children. This really harms the whole Independent women narrative. I hate toxic huslte culture but that doesn't mean i wanna be dependent on a man. I wanna work enough to support myself and my hobbies and enjoying life. I wish people got the real message instead of blaming feminism.
i think this video is a sign, ive just been looking online for a second job and convincing myself to get my head down and just work 24/7 as its an escape and distraction in itself in a way , im just so unsure what to do but i want to save as much money as possible but i know id be ruining my mental health and relationships if i did it
I love how I stumbled on this channel through the 365 Days review and here I am, smiling because Casey is talking about LinkedIn again. I don't know how I went from "are you lost baby gurl" to this.
i feel like any culture or trend that focuses only on one thing will always be toxic..whether it be the hustle culture or the 'always positive' mindset or anything like that, because life is about balance in practical reality.
I subscribed to hustle culture for a good three years. While I accomplished the things I wanted I can also say that it came with a burnout + depression. It wasn't worth it.
I rarely use my LinkedIn. The last time I went on it, I had to stop myself from going down the rabbit hole of comparing my achievements to those of my High School crush. God, I hate Hustle Culture. 🤢😖
I've never understood the social media aspects of LinkedIn. I used it for several years as a place to get jobs, and it's pretty effective for that (at least for some industries), but the weird blog stuff always made me cringe. I wish it would just commit to being a job platform and stop being a stage for sales executives to out their psychosis
I think the term "hustling" means something different now than it did when I was a kid. When I was younger hustling was some form of under the table work you did outside of your conventional job such as dealing drugs or doing odd jobs around the neighbourhood. Example: ,"After work, Jim hustles by shovelling snow off people's driveways so he can buy a new car"
This is wild. For a long time I wasn't able to really work full time, or let's be honest, at all due to my mental illnesses. In one year I had 7 jobs not because I was out there hustling but because I could not keep a job for a long period of time. I'm now more healthy/stable than I have ever been and for the first time in a looong time I am working full time. I make sure that I have at least two days off every week because that is absolutely essential to keeping me sane.
Lazyness is the engine of the world. The whole universe tends to the conservation of energy. We discover the wheel because a guy was too lazy to drag things on the ground, and we attached a horse to the wheels because another guy was too lazy to pull the cart alone. If our mindset, as human species, was "hard work" we would still be here dragging things on the ground.
@@michaelsasylum yeah its so dumb to harbor animosity against the people directly responsible for the lives of working class people being fucking miserable and alienating. stfu
@UC_7QIELShYbATMH2DXZ7CIw more like politicians who make the rules than common rich people tho. sadly "eating the rich" never actually works or lead to better living for everyone, those kind of violent revolutions never really did anything for wealth equality in the past and in socialist communist countries just ruined everything for everyone instead. try to watch Envy by Contrapoints, very eye-opening th-cam.com/video/aPhrTOg1RUk/w-d-xo.html
These people are the kind to realize that the work they do is ultimately pointless and instead of accepting it and finding a healthy way to balance both, they decided to make work their LIFE, so they mindlessly slave away so big soulless corporation eventually notices them and gives them that 5% pay raise Business is gambling, you can try and try and fail, or you can succeed without even putting in anything, it's a game of luck for those with big boy pants (or big girl pants) to feel some type of meaning . I feel disgusted for that 10 year old, she has some acting skill, absolutely, but I couldn't imagine how much stress she's under behind the scenes, let alone having to repeat some flawed rhetoric about hard work. Here's to hoping that she at least gets out of that seemingly abusive household soon
Today my 10 year old came into by bedroom crying. I asked why and she said, "I'm sad because I'm too young to start a multi million dollar company." I responded, "You're never too young!" The next day we solved world hunger and now we're billionaires. #gaslight #gatekeep #girlboss 🥰💪💸
yess girlboss 😙😙😙👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I have a daughter and I desperately hope I work enough in my life so that she never has to work if she doesn't want to 😭
I would honestly love it if my daughter got time and money to travel, and pursue what she wanted without fearing about money.
“Today my 10 year old came into my bedroom”
“The next day”
JSJNX I SEE WHAT YOY DID THERE💀💀
@@littleone. I actually just made a mistake there because literally how they speak😂
“My 2 year old came in and told me that she was willing to go to work for me and the next day she came home with 1 million dollars and a raise.” #SoProudOfHer #GirlBoss #YouCanDoItTo
That girl that said “when you’re 10 you’re stuck you’re not really a kid but not really an adult” girl- YOU’RE A KID
Right- like you and algebra ain’t even down like that yet.
She’s just brainwashed and was trying to earn her dad’s affection by repeating what he preaches.
Hahahaha truly 😂😂😂😂😂
She's barely learned multiplication 💀
Deadass. Like I understand a 17 year old saying that but TEN???
hustle culture is funny to me because it’s like: “we live in a society where being wealthy requires an extreme amount of luck and connections which are much harder to get based on socioeconomic status but look at this quote and you’ll get rich like me 😩”
Literally summed it up in the best quote ever honestly.
exactly!
yes i love ur pfp btw !
@Sierra J not only that, there's a finite number of people who can ever have wealth like that before there isn't enough to go around. There literally isn't enough currency on Earth for every American to be a millionaire, let alone what these people make.
Like, if we took all the money from every country of every type of currency we'd still not have enough for every American to have a million dollars. And that's not even enough to retire these days. So mathematically there will be people who die poor literally no matter what they do. Solutions for the problems these people face aren't something "hustle culture" is really equipped to provide.
honestly the only way that you can be successful is if you're born at the right place at the right time to right family
Hustle culture feels so dystopic for some reason. Like "oh yes, faceless conglomerate, I love working! Working is good. Working is great. I can't wait to work and work and work for the rest of my life."
it really is some 'work will set you free' type shit like its not OUR fault the cost of living's gone up some 500% since the 20th century T~T
You're completely right, and it's not "for some reason"-- it's biological. Human beings do not flourish under the conditions of capitalism. Physical health, mental health, social health, and overall happiness deteriorates very quickly when we are forced to work long hours with no gain to ourselves, our interests, our families, or our lives other than the privilege of buying food to live and work another day. We are musical, artistic, poetic, silly beings that need play as much as we need work. The biological drive for every living creature is to do the least amount of work with the most amount of gain possible. Capitalism is exactly the opposite of that-- work as hard as you can and get nothing in return. Hustle culture is the most extreme end of internalizing all of capitalism's morals and values.
That is because late-stage capitalism is, in it of itself, dystopic. It is harmful and dangerous to people and yet greed for money and control blinds the ones who are better off to all of it's downsides.
Yeah half of these people are not rich or wealthy themselves and are scammers selling false pipe dreams
I don't understand how it's a crime to enjoy work
there's people that enjoy painting ,or photography
what makes working any different
i don't think hustle culture will ever not be toxic
same… it’s scary bc you KNOW that some poor woman who needs to get some cash will go by these rules that these often scammy n scummy influencers bc they’re so convinced this’ll get them by.
Unfortunately 😔
I went on a few dates with a guy who really thought he’ll be the next Bill Gates. Ironically, he didn’t even tip our server.
but was he rich tho
He would be perfect, already not valuing workers
he would be wasting money he could use for hustle investments lol
the servers don’t deserve tips, because then they wont hustle and get to the top 🤡
a few? pretty sad that you went on more than one. not tipping is just a shitty thing to do.
my dad has to use linkedin for his job and every time he goes on there he watches a comedy after so he can remember he has a soul
Hey whos the anime boy in ur profile pic?
@@benjaminsmit781 thats Ibara Obami from Kakegurui :0
@@binbinbinnie thank you!!
I have to post things on LinkedIn too for my job. I hate it 😫
@@benjaminsmit781 It's worth noting that Kakegurui is a very mature show about gambling and includes on-screen violence, so please be aware of this before looking it up or watching it.
I really met a guy who’s an entrepreneur and was bragging about the fact that he needed Adderall because he got little to no sleep and was working all day every day and I was just thinking “And…that’s the life you want to live?”
It’s shit like this that makes it a huge pain to procure these meds for those of us who ACTUALLY need them, too. 🙄
@@oku12 right! I admire a good work ethic but we’re meant to spend every waking moment working
@@RisingSunfish I actually never thought about that until just then. Yeah that’s really shitty.
Yeah, thats some undiagnosed adhd right there
@@oppakunn328 It seems more like addiction to me. Except he's not addicted to Adderall; he's addicted to hustle culture and Adderall is only a means to that end.
We're used to seeing addicts struggle to make money so they can buy more drugs. How do we help addicts who struggle with unnecessary drugs so they can make more money?
I was researching that ten-year old child (I felt weird doing so ngl) but her parents are multi-millionaires with million dollar companies. Her idea of the work force is so much different than ours and she will never be able to have the same struggle we do.
Her father is Grant Cardone. Grant is a scam artist.
I love how these hustle culture people's top role models are the 5 or so people out of 7.8 billion who happened to be born in a rich family. Like sit down Joshua you own a dropshipping Twitter account not Amazon.
They also act like if they just do what (insert multi-billionaire) did and read some shitty inspirational quotes they’ll get the same
The 10-year-old girl speech is tragic
were calling the SCP unit holy fuck that girl need a barbie and some bionicle in her life wha the FUCK
@@StardustSpiritDragon IKR?? LIKE PUT ON SOME MLP DONT BREAK YOUR BACK YOUR 10
I'd employ her immediately.
I bet she was sponsored by Ms. Magazine.
the amount of people supporting and admiring that 10yr child regurgitating the rhetoric her parents shoved down her throat was CONCERNING. trying to defend it say that's what the child wants and its so wonderful to see.... i-
it’s so upsetting. especially to see her made up to make her look older than she actually is. why is it so hard for people to let their children be their own people? why is it so hard for people to let their kids just be kids? it’s so sad
N they will be confused when that girl finding alt cuture and especially embracing it will distance themselves from the luv of their lives, n probably shame her for doing so.
Exactly, like she’s a CHILD.. this is _not_ what she wants, she doesn’t even know what she wants she hasn’t experienced life yet. She was forced into it and did it for her parents validation (which every child has a need for).
@@daisyelizabeth5462 preach. Let kids be kids. Kinda ironic how adults say “dont grow up” to them but then force their kids into being mini versions of themselves before they’re even 18.
@@daisyelizabeth5462 I mean she is dressed and looks like a 10 yr old
I've met "hustlers" and they all need therapy not even in a funny way I'm genuinely concerned for everyone like this
yes they live to work instead of work to live
they're workaholics- people with legitimate work addiction.
When I think of the term "hustler" I can't help to think of someone that scams people.
I'm in an another comment section right now talking with someone who thinks hobbies are procrastination and is proud of the fact they work like 70 hours a week. Like I can see hustling working short term, like when in college (although I wish people wouldn't have to resort to it), but it's so unmaintainable in the long term
@@xenonsan3110 they’re literally a slave to the system, in i guess 2 years they will burn out. there’s a fine line between motivation and being work obsessed. 70h a week? could never be me.
imagine giving birth to a child and the first thought is: 'gotta take a photo for LinkedIn'.
Fucking LinkedIn. I hope the child grows up to be normal.
people do that with facebook every day. tragic.
Oh god that poor girl… i first saw that clip when Kurtis Conner talked about her in his podcast VRG, I just feel so sorry for her because it’s obvious she is only doing that to please her parents 😢 I mean she is 10, she should be enjoying her childhood 😖
yeah, i’m glad people aren’t taking it out on her though, her parents are the ones in the wrong here
When I was ten I was still into American Girl dolls and pretended to be Marvel superheroes at recess with my friends. I can’t imagine being like her at all. It’s def her parents fault.
She’s the daughter of Grant Cardone. He’s one of these hustle culture motivational speakers. That talk she gave was at one of his 10x conference. So I guess the dad is taking advantage of his cute daughter to be the mouthpiece of this nonsense… bless her.
@@armelcornu6229 I hope she gets out of there (as in her turning toxic family)
@@armelcornu6229 I had a feeling this was the case. Anyone else would put in the 0.9 seconds to think and realize that raising a child on the idea that they only have worth as a person if they're working isnt a good idea
I honestly didn't even know you could post comments and pics and bullshit stories at LinkedIn, I thought it was just a place to put your work history. 😂
It is becoming the worst parts of FB, just humble bragging and network sales attempts everywhere!!
Same, the only time I went on there was to look at my professors‘ projects and research teams… I was watching this video and when linked in came up I was like: what? 😂 this is considered to be a social media site?
I can see the idea of posting things in order to get to know employees are different companies, but I have never seen it be used in a good way.
I thought it was basically an online esume
basically it is a site for sharing your work experience but companies also like posting things for ~engagement~
That ten year old dressed up as an adult woman and speaking in a kid voice telling stuff like "I am only worthy if I work hard" (paraphrased) that gave me chills... What kinda society
it's so dystopian. freaked me out.
I worked at the largest mortgage company in the world as a banker. The workplace culture was so absolutely toxic and there was so much pressure to just sell your soul in order to make money. To keep up appearances and play into their stupid “theme days,” I was spending as much money as I was making. Even after hours we were pressured into attending “team outings,” throughout the city. I quit after three years when I woke up and had a thought that I’d rather be dead than work another 80 hour week.
I worked at a couple high ranked law offices and the experience was basically the same. People would retire at 40 but looked like they were 60, my coworkers were getting heart problems from the stress and none of us was even 30. When my second contract ended i didnt renew and never looked back.
80 hour week? Holy shit that sounds like a fucking nightmare. Not even my workaholic uncle who's a doctor is crazy enough to work that much💀
@@mariunfabregas7533 sometimes it's worse. You leave at 4am and get told to be back at 9am that same day.
@@verybarebones this is true. Stress ages us so much. I’m glad we both learned while we were young that sometimes money just truly isn’t worth it and that our mental health has a price as well.
@@mariunfabregas7533 it was a nightmare. In the month of March I was easily clocking 100+ hours because of a stupid workwide competition. The prize? A vacation to a destination you do not get to choose and is kept a secret till the end. One year it was North Carolina.
i must've curated my online experience just right, because i never see hustle culture online, only ever "i don't dream of labour" type posts, and i'm all about that because i, too, hate capitalism.
Road work ahead?
I sure hope it makes time for relaxation and home life too
I do have some insta friends who post qoutes like that all the time and its something
Yeah, capitalism sucks, luckily we get zero exposure to consumerism thanks to the algorithm and our viewing choices! Also, this at 0:24 is totally not an ad.
@@jonferngut so you mean ads are exclusive of capitalism? No other economic system has ads? Or curated social media? Really?
"I don't dream of labour" oozes priviledge
the rise and grind community i SCREAMED
"The current p-word we are living in-" okay ben shapiro, go off
THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT LMAO
wap
wet ass pandemic
@@caseyaonso4270 wet ass p-word, make that pull out game weak
@@caseyaonso4270 ben shapiro reviewed WAP and it's so cringy…girls are simping over him too lol
LMAOO it actually took me a while to realise she didn't mean pussy
I love how the role models for hustle culture are always rich beforehand like if your parents can give you a $100,000 loan you ain’t like the rest of us
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when your favourite creators watch each other omg
Wow my faves are interacting today must be a good day
Aw so cute! You're both the best.
I've read some REALLY ham-fisted sci-fi books and thought "wow, that was a little preachy, little on-the-nose with the anti-corporate stuff." Then I saw the 10-year-old Girlboss and realized we are beyond parody.
Those books were warnings, but it looks like they were read as guidelines to these people. 😭
That sounds interesting, any recommendations?
@@aisling8092 The Giver (maybe)
I’ve never been sucked into hustle culture, but I DO have gifted kid burnout and the two are incredibly similar to me. In middle and high school, I was so paranoid that not doing every thing would ruin my chances of getting into a good college so I would fail. I neglected my hygiene, my sleep, and my social life to accomplish this. My last two years of high school were spent waking up at 4am and not taking a moment to rest until 10pm. It was exhausting and unsustainable. Now, I’m a college student who feels like a vat of wasted potential, struggles to even brush my teeth more than once a week, and is too burnt out to even put effort into the things I’m supposed to love. Hustle culture is so unsustainable and will eventually lead to burn out. Even if you succeed along the way, it hurts so much more in the long run
^ This comment right here
"vat of wasted potential". I felt that one.
I farte d XD
Take little baby steps and try to build an environnement that is good for you. It's really difficult and nearly impossible to reach a perfectly balanced life (at least to me, who have adhd). But having experienced depression several times, and having anxiety and adhd, i know that little by little, by creating and sticking to a basic routine can help. I still struggle with organizing my schedule for uni and im 1 week late for an assignement rn T-T , but i've learned how to have a healthy sleep schedule, eat good and cook and meditate since high school, where i used to sleep 2hrs just to study all night and thought it was something to be proud of. Rn im trying to make a habit of reading a book a month. Im trying to do things that are good for me. Writing this comment just to let you know that change is possible and im sure that you'll find a lifestyle that is healthy for you and makes you happy. school is not everything in life.
@@hera5454 Yeah, I’m definitely working on that :) I have ADHD and depression, so it’s been hard, but I’m an RA (resident advisor) this year at my school, so I’ve been waking up earlier and I feel more productive and happy
I hate hustle culture so much. I absolutely do not want to have every moment of my existence to feel like it needs to be monetized. I want to be able to make art for work, and to make art for myself without mixing my artistic value with the ability to make money. It's so exhausting.
People have confused hustle with work. No one's putting a gun to your forehead and forcing you to work every second of your day. You could be working 2 hours and spending the remaining time with your loved ones. It's all about flexibility, just because garyvee said work 24/7/365 doesn't mean his word is written in the bible now that everyone has to follow it. Do you! Do what makes you happy and not what other people are saying
If you have really expensive tastes, you have to work harder to maintain them. Simpler tastes usually mean you don't have to push yourself quite as hard. But even minimal stuff like water heaters are pretty expensive, so yeah, you probably don't want to make a living on a part time minimum wage job.
@@rohitgurav16 The Bible in Ecclesiastes says do not wear yourself out getting rich. Be smart enough to stop.
true
the 10 year old is like "i'm the most fulfilled when i work" wHAT WORK???
Is she talking about like a lemonade stand?
Home work hopefully 💀
This is cardone kid no wonder
I felt how she felt at 10, but did not, would not and STILL do not translate the feeling of “omg, just cuz I’m a kid doesn’t mean I am useless and don’t exist” to “work more”. No hunny, I been trying to figure out how to work less since I was her age 😂 the thing is because she is a kid with millionaire parents, her idea of “work” is… creating ideas, pitching business deals, doing things that SHE likes that she feels contribute to the world. Maybe go on a world tour giving inspirational speeches! 🤩🤩This is not work for us. Work for us is often… spending most of our lives doing things we hate around people we hate in a place we hate in order to have a roof over our heads. I saw my parents come home EXHAUSTED. I went to their work place and was bored out of my mind. I realized that being a grown up, though I want the freedom, is gonna suck balls. But when your parents are rich… it’s very easy to idealize it.
such a great point
I wish I could like your comment a million time
agreed
I don't mind at all if someone wants to live that Hustle Culture life, it's the gatekeeping and bullying those who don't subscribe to the same mentality that pisses me off.
If you want to work your life away, cool, but we are NOT the same, and imma need you to butt out of my personal choices.
Exactly !!!! Some people will make you think that you're worthless if you do not want to live the same lifestyle as them and it is incredibly frustrating. Do i want to work to be able to live the life i want? Sure. Do i want work to be my purpose in life? No, thank you.
Not to mention that people engaging in hustle culture in and of itself creates toxic work environments on a systemic level because people putting in work to this extent allows capital owners to say “see, these people devote their entire lives to work, I don’t see why you shouldn’t as well even if it’s just to be able to pay for food and rent”
I feel this. I don't mind people that want to be hard working and successful. The only problem I have is when, people harass others for not working to their degree of success.
@@fionatastic0.070 In the bleak future it will be "any attempts to unionize or demand a raise or additional benefits will be responded with termination and automation of your job."
they have the same condescending energy as vegans
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That 10 year old Ted talk thing kills me. Yeah I thought the same way when I was 10 and people told me I was too young to get a job. In fact I thought a LOT of things when I was 10 that I've since changed my mind on, as I'm sure most people did. Then I grew up, got my first job, and went "oh no I hate this never mind." I guarantee the minute that girls turns 14/15 and gets her first job she'll have the same experience lol
Yes so true the way I imagined what my work would be when I grow up and the things I wanted when I was a kid is so different to what matters to me now!!
if you’re older than 10 and your opinions haven’t changed since you were 10 there is a problem
Her parents are millionaires, she will never start at the bottom.
Bro, am I the only one that absolutely DREADED growing up as a child because I was terrified of having to work? Now I'm working and yeah, I was right. It sucks.
Nope I cried each birthday as a child haha. My daughter doesn't want to grow up at all because she enjoys being a child as well.
Same....never understood all my childhood peers who were in a rush to grow up. Now as a 24 year old struggling to get through the work week and make enough to stay afloat, sometimes I really just want my mom lmaoo. It's tough out here...
I love that as a woman you have to decide between children or a career. Bitch, I don't want either, I just wanna live my life. Hustle culture is something that I'll never understand, and after this video I'm even more lost.
I also watched this video while working, so you can kinda see my relationship with work :D
Damn, truer words have never been spoken (at least ones that I can heavily relate to).
LOL yep, I hear you here. Maybe I could just make enough to pay rent, hang with people who love me, play games, and eat snacks? That's kind of my bag. I applaud the ambition, but I'm good down here thanks
@@candycoatedcactus i am glad someone said this....you know when these kinds of videos calls out toxic work cultute the comments are usually filled with anti feminist who claims that women were better back then when they didn't work and stayed at home and raised children...staying at home and having children are my worst nightmare but i also hate this extreme hustle work culture....there are people who wanna stay in middle....but sadly such videos gives anti feminists to push their stupid religious and anti women agenda but m glad this video's comments ain't like that...we can call out the toxicity of capitalism without pushing some stupid idea that women are better at home raising children...
@@candycoatedcactus EGGZACTLY🗣🗣🗣
Damn this is so true trueeee 😩 I feel so burnt out and im only 24, but there's such a heavy pressure of being successful that has always been a chip on my shoulder.....If I try to express this to my family it turns into the suggestion of apparently the only alternative for women, raising a family to be fulfilled in life. Like wtf?? I've spent most of my life helping take care of my disabled brother and maybe I don't want that responsibility anymore!! Yeah I think I need therapy fr....
Okay, for reasons out of my control (mostly capitalism) I have found myself in the thick of the corporate workforce and I have to say, my experience with LinkedIn is so different. Not better btw, because it's toxic in its own way. I think the examples you are finding are a lot of the bottom of the barrel wannabe types. No SAP or Oracle sales person would ever talk like that. They would be laughed out of the room. High end multinational enterprise sales take months, even years. They aren't selling used cars and the relationship isn't over just because you closed a deal. So you can't act like these assholes. On the other hand, there's this toxic fake positivity and pretensions to CSR (corporate social responsibility, think all of those big companies posting black squares during the height of the BLM protests) that is pervasive in the upper echelons of LinkedIn. They actively swing the other way with their posts. They talk about how important it is to have work life balance all while they work you to the bone. They pretend to be caring organizations with big hearts trying to change the world all while killing the planet. I'd say that stuff is even more insidious. Because they pretend to care about your well-being while actively ensuring its destruction.
Yes I organized a convention for a big 5 company. It was for "women in management" and they advertised themselves like these big ass feminists all while having one woman in senior management (in that department) out of 30. And most women being assistants!! (myself included) never wanted to work for a big firm everrrrr again
I’m right there with you ‘in the thick of the corporate workforce’ even though I have little desire to. I stop work at 5 every day and avoid as many meetings as I can (my manager actually does a really good job shielding me from unnecessary meetings, though aren’t they all?). I don’t care about climbing the corporate ladder and I feel bad when I see some co-workers sending emails in the middle of the night. Spoiler alert: the industry we are in is NOT life-saving at all, nothing is worth checking emails in the middle of the night.
Anyway, I have two things I tell my 4 year old son: “Commercials/ads lie to you” and “Companies are never your friend and never care about you and will almost always lie if they can get away with it”. I like to think I’m equipping him to be a skeptical consumer of corporate crap, but 🤷♂️
Ya those last few sentences really hit home on the absolute hypocrisy that corporations peddle and how that is expected to be fake as fuck.
You people call everything toxic and it devalues the word.
@Kyle Ankeny
The best way to climb the corporate ladder is to jump from one corporation to another. Lie a little bit in CV, get hired, get the experience / reputation, lie a little bit in CV and repeat the cycle
That guy talked about dreaming of closing a deal... I started dreaming about work once and it was the lowest, most anxious, most stressed I’ve ever been. It was NOT healthy.
A dream about work is not a dream. IT'S A NIGHTMARE.
Work nightmares always stress me out, and they happen way too often.
Right? If I'm dreaming about work that means things are really, really rough for me
Right? If I'm dreaming about work that means things are really, really rough for me
very strong girlboss energy in this one 😌
Not only is the man in that one photo just squatting there, he has a baseball glove on😭 Does he think he can catch the baby like that?😭😭
Baby: *flies at full speed towards guy*
Guy: *catches baby effortlessly* YOOOOU'RRREEE OUUUUT!
I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that omg
it took me way too long to find a comment about that! I had to do a double take to make sure I actually saw that😭
So we know that when they met she was shooting a ball or something out of there lol
Not the Chuck Bass energy 😭😭 literally every "self made" man on LinkedIn ever
He did it ALL by himself!! He turned off his privilege just like Kendall Jenner 😤
guarantee the Humiliates Son Guy refers to taking care of his own child as "babysitting"
seeing my late dad have his two attempts at starting businesses flop despite the skills he had really made me realize that its not really just the efforts made but the luck..
this is the epitome of corporate propaganda and it really scares me.
“When you’re ten, your stuck. You’re not really a kid” THEN WTF ARE YOU? A TWEEN?
YES like go play with some kids and enjoy your childhood
I was playing with barbies until like 15 so...at 10 your a baby still....😅
At 17 I thought my child hood was over. I was such a baby back then.
He’s not “just squatting there” he is preparing to catch his child 💅🏼😝😍
Hustle culture posts just remind me of Charlotte from Rugrats and that episode of All Grown Up when she lost her job and didn't know what to do with herself so she started obsessing over Angelica.
I don’t understand how people can be so bold on LinkedIn. My literal only connection is my mom. I don’t even have the gall to request my best friend much less a stranger
Just advice, linkedIn connections aren't that deep. You can totally request classmates/coworkers/whoever! Worst case scenario you just get ignored and it's fine!
@@marzipan2555 yeah I was mostly talking about the people who try to add people they’ve never met just because (?) haha. But thanks! I’m getting degrees in 2 sciences so to me it doesn’t feel too necessary anyways as compared to someone in business or something
@@madisonceola hey! Chemist here (chemistry degree). I’ve actually gotten a few hits from recruiters on there. Don’t sleep on it for STEM jobs!
@@MediocreChemist wait that’s so funny that you’re a chemist bc my primary major is chem!
@@madisonceola I figured that you were STEM! good luck!! Wolframalpha, chegg, and google are your best friend!
In my freshman year of art high school, one of my art teachers was OBSESSED with hustle culture (you gotta pressure people to let you at their gallery, make millions, etc, etc) and it honestly made me think of quitting art.
wait i thought LinkedIn was just for people to see your cv and hire you😭😭
That's what Indeed is for, haven't touched LinkedIn yet and don't really want to 💀 Indeed is pretty cut-and-dry with connecting employers with potential employees.
bold of casey to assume "girlboss" isn't a gender neutral term
It's more said as a general term
hes not just squatting, he's holding a mitt as if shes going to pitch the baby at him omfg. like is he expecting it to shoot out at him?
I feel like if you tell the hospital you don't have insurance, this is the doctor you get to deliver your baby
As a child I never wanted to work. I just knew it was to get money to buy things so as a teenager I pursued it just to buy things. Not because it seemed cool to work
Same! I just wanted money to go out with friends and buy things for my hobbies. Not because I wanted to work
Exactly! You know what i thought would be cool once i'm old enough to work? COMMUTING! Now i'm like, hard pass! I can't imagine working in big fancy office environment
I was just diagnosed with ADHD 2 months ago, and it's tough having undiagnosed ADHD because I would look up productivity tips and what to do, and ran into so much hustle culture and then feel even worse about myself cause I'm not even at the normal baseline of work. I'm not trying to up my productivity so that I can hustle, I'm trying to up my productivity so that I can get ANYTHING or SOMETHING done, even just 1 or 2 hours of focus, so I can be happy and make it through my day job that I do like but ain't obsessed w and also be able to focus on my hobbies and social situations better.
Now that I'm diagnosed I know a bit better of what tips actually work for me and where to look for them. I still want to up my focus and productivity but for my own personal mental health cause getting nothing done also doesn't feel great.
I know that little girl did not write that speech so the fact that she talked about “not being a kid and not yet an adult” plus the way she’s presented makes me so uncomfortable. She should be enjoying her childhood, not forced into this hustle world with such high expectations already.
the last post is something I would see my mother post unironically on facebook and act like its super profound and philosophical.
I escaped a job where the work culture WAS hustle culture, and to be a 'good' employee you had to be the type that would drop anything and everything to rush to a clients house. So glad I escaped... and got counselling.
I also feel like young hustle culture is extremely toxic, I've seen people being 17 or 18 and saying how much they make, how they have a house or fancy apartment and how they have a "luxury young life" when they are a fresh young adult who should still have fun and have responsibilities at the same time instead of just acting like a full grown know it all adult. I remember stressing out about how I needed to have everything situated by age 18 and pay for everything and move out but I realized i am good where I am at age 19, I have a job, I have a car and a credit card and pay for my essentials and live at home. I'm hustling but at my own pace and I'm alright.
hes not just squatting in that photo, he has a catcher's mitt...I-I-...
just girlboss your way through it babe!! 😁❤
That girl makes me super sad. I know she’s hyped up now but at some point she’s gonna look back and realize she can’t get that time back…
linkedin feels like we put all the bot accounts on one platform and theyre just girlbossing it out to the death
Ironically I got a connection from someone whose opening message said they build bots to optimize connections and asked if I would be willing to learn about the job
So you aren't wrong
salem tovar made a video yesterday where the topic of hustle culture was brought up, this topic interests me because it's its toxic especially for broke people like me...like yess, rub it in my face that im lazy and broke😭
clicked on this REAL QUICK
Click, click!~ 🎶
Another thing I realized is that a lot of the people who push hustle culture with a large platform ACTUALLY ENJOY the hustle, the competition. They LIKE IT! And people are inspired by their wealth so they try to do it and it’s not normal to enjoy hustle culture. It’s not normal because the reason you’re working is different than the reason someone like Gary V is working. I used to be in hustle culture because I thought the more I hustled, the faster I could ESCAPE the hustle. Until I realized my life was getting away from me, my mental health was deteriorating, and I was tolerating toxic work places for the sake of… still not making enough money. My solution was to leave hustle culture, find remote work, work a job that is as simple as possible and use the rest of my time and steady income to take care of myself.
hustle culture just makes me feel so pressurized & claustrophobic
This feels more like a propaganda for young people against wanting European Social Standards (Health Insurance/social security benefits, etc) in the United States too.
EXACTLY! They only want you to hustle so you make them money and not support yourself.
Some further nuance on this topic is probably the other side of hustle culture which is fed to minorities. It’s kinda like “if you work hard enough you can get out of the trenches”. Often times it robs young people of enjoying their childhoods because if they don’t work to help out at home, then they’re somehow “ungrateful” and “spoiled”. It’s the weirdest thing and I find it so common in ethnic households. And obviously racism plays a factor in hiring so the idea that we’re supposed to just get 3 jobs and work hard to provide for our families completely undermines how race, gender, and class affects your work life.
It’s good to see someone talking about this, my best friend is Chinese and she would wholeheartedly agree with this comment and has seen it play out among her other Asian friends.
oof.. as a junior lawyer at a corporate firm this one feels ✨personal✨
at least you are rich
@@adrianc6534 meh, not really. Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy to be gainfully employed but at this point, it’s hardly a goldmine…
@@adrianc6534 as an ex junior lawyer at a corporate firm, you dont even have the time to spend the money you earn. My office literally had beds for workers to spend the night there, people would finish work at 4am and be working again at 9:30am the same day. What's the point of getting paid x2 as much when working x2.5 as many hours? It's a scam.
@@verybarebones wow. So you people are just slaves. You just don't realize it yet
I don't know what mlm means in real life but to me it's always gonna be men loving men
multi level marketing. Essentially modernized and legal pyramid schemes.
Multi Level Marketing. Stuff like Avon and Herbalife..
I know what it means but I, too, always think of men loving men first :'D
This sounds like an industrial revolution robber baron paid her off. "I WISH they would hire me to crawl under the machines!! I simply must use my small stature to fix the gears!!"
I hate the shaming people for spending their money so much.
You don't have to be poor! Just `*~budget~*' every ounce of joy out of your life and you can be a millionaire on your $20k salary! If it doesn't work, then it's your own fault for spending $5 on a meal that isn't beans and rice.
I'm all for saving and budgets, but it is not a one size fits all.
@@Louise-ls4jv Everyone should have a budget, but that budget should also include some money that you can spend on yourself. Poor people are allowed to have nice things.
@@complainer406 Exactly. A millionaires budget won't look the same as a college students budget.
Especially because they asume you can actually afford to spend on iphones or starbucks 😅
That little girl dressed like a grown up woman, heels and makeup included, is the dream child of capitalism and patriarchy
gatekeep, gaslight, girlboss 😁let your silly side shine through 🤪HUSTLE 👹
Period❤️💅🏾☺️🥰🥰🥰🥰
it's like you took the words right out of my mouth. hustle culture makes me SO upset and the 10 year old girl boss breaks my heart. she's SO young and I sincerely hope she gets out of that situation or away from the person who is teaching her those values. Gary Vee makes me eyeroll centuries into the future and his videos take years off my life.
i love this comment. it’s like a work of art. especially the last sentence which i find so true and so hilarious. like the phrase “gary vee makes me eyeroll centuries into the future” is something i’ll have to use for the rest of my life
@@raynajcarter omg that is so sweet of you to say!!! He really does drive me NUTS so I'm glad someone can appreciate my hyperbolic way of expressing that.
That little girl is definitely referring to the Kardashian definition of "work"
You know the one where you use your family's money to slap your name on something and then sit back and earn an income while real people make the product and do the actual work
The thing about the little girl is that what she said would be fine if I didn't know who her father was. Also when a kid says "I wanna be treated adult" I'm not saying that's not what she's saying but sometimes I hear that and other times I hear "I wanna be treated like a human" idk.
It reminds me of Lil Tay. There is definitely a adult probably her father behind this. We now even have 2 year old influencers for what? We really need to call this what it is child abuse. Let kids be kids & using your children for money is plain wrong. Also reminds me of Chinese geniuses just drop dead at 18 because of stress they have been pushed since the age of 2.
AAAAH I never made the connection between hustle culture and MLMs! God it makes so much sense. I've always gotten bad vibes from the hustle culture. It's taken me a long time to figure out that my worth is not determined by my productivity, and I still struggle with that guilt in a lot of ways. I definitely work to live, not live to work. So seeing a group of people that not only live to work, but who proudly throw themselves into a meatgrinder of work just does not jive with me at all.
I’m just too tired all the time to be into hustle culture
I really frickin hate linkedin. Unfortunately, I HAVE to use it in order to get a job in my field. The more people I'm connected with on linkedin, the more likely it is that I'll get an interview/job but like??? I just graduated college??? And my family is poor af, I don't know any software engineers!! This is one of the realizations that made me a commie lol
not sure why you need linkedin to get a job. ive been working as an engineer at a large semiconductor company for almost 5 years and never gave a fuck about linkedin. i have like 30 connections and they are all just random people from my undergrad class.
Welcome comrade lol
But I agree I was advised to open a linked in because I would get a job
But like there was so much work and connections they require before you can truly find a good one
I went to a company who employs people and got it right away
Bro you can offer your skills on fiverr and stuff to freelance and that will put you a whole lot better towards getting a job than trying to connect with everyone on LinkedIn so like freelance for a bit, take a couple contract jobs and then start applying to enterprises
Yes yes yes 🙌🏼
@@adrianc6534 well it does provide referrals fro interview if you can lose self dignity to beg someone for it
The equivalent to girlboss is malewife, as we all know
so my dad was apart of hustle culture before it was more main stream, he made me listen to tony robins almost every day as a child, and how he just has to work harder, and one of the first times i remember him being proud of me was when i got my first job at 14. i was 14. wtf bro. and during covid there was 3 months i was out of a job and both of my parents made me feel like i was just taking up space for not contributing to society in the work force. even if you are apart of hustle culture, please don’t force it onto your kid’s because it has definitely warped the my mindset about myself
Girlboss at 10: I can't wait to work
Me at 10: I can't wait for the next Zelda game
Have you ever watched Katherout's videos? She went from being all in on hustle culture to being a full-fledged socialist anti-capitalist. It's interesting to hear her talk about how her mind changed over time.
damn she sounds based
But her video attracted several anti feminists who claims that women don't like working and be better at home raising children. Sadly such videos attract women haters who want women to be dependent on men...the message in her video was to call out toxic huslte culture but so many people started hating on feminism and saying that women should stay at home and raise children. This really harms the whole Independent women narrative. I hate toxic huslte culture but that doesn't mean i wanna be dependent on a man. I wanna work enough to support myself and my hobbies and enjoying life. I wish people got the real message instead of blaming feminism.
i think this video is a sign, ive just been looking online for a second job and convincing myself to get my head down and just work 24/7 as its an escape and distraction in itself in a way , im just so unsure what to do but i want to save as much money as possible but i know id be ruining my mental health and relationships if i did it
i think if i just read though linkdin enough ill be put off i dont want to become these people lmaooo
Whats the point of money without time and health to enjoy it?
@@verybarebones very true, im only 19 so my idea was to work extra for like a year or 2 and then travel for as long as i can with the money :(
I love how I stumbled on this channel through the 365 Days review and here I am, smiling because Casey is talking about LinkedIn again. I don't know how I went from "are you lost baby gurl" to this.
i feel like any culture or trend that focuses only on one thing will always be toxic..whether it be the hustle culture or the 'always positive' mindset or anything like that, because life is about balance in practical reality.
Casey: what is hustle culture *reads definition*
Me: I was gunna say capitalist boot licking..
I subscribed to hustle culture for a good three years. While I accomplished the things I wanted I can also say that it came with a burnout + depression. It wasn't worth it.
I rarely use my LinkedIn. The last time I went on it, I had to stop myself from going down the rabbit hole of comparing my achievements to those of my High School crush. God, I hate Hustle Culture. 🤢😖
I've never understood the social media aspects of LinkedIn. I used it for several years as a place to get jobs, and it's pretty effective for that (at least for some industries), but the weird blog stuff always made me cringe. I wish it would just commit to being a job platform and stop being a stage for sales executives to out their psychosis
LinkedIn is the armpit of the Internet. I couldn’t agree more. This is so validating.
I think the term "hustling" means something different now than it did when I was a kid. When I was younger hustling was some form of under the table work you did outside of your conventional job such as dealing drugs or doing odd jobs around the neighbourhood.
Example: ,"After work, Jim hustles by shovelling snow off people's driveways so he can buy a new car"
as someone with chronic fatigue, hustle culture is my worst nightmare lmao
As someone with chronic pain, I feel you.
Hustle culture is the kids who used to brag about who had the least amount of sleep because of homework
I don't get why people make such a big deal out of how little sleep they get/need. I see it everywhere. It's ridiculous.
This is wild. For a long time I wasn't able to really work full time, or let's be honest, at all due to my mental illnesses. In one year I had 7 jobs not because I was out there hustling but because I could not keep a job for a long period of time. I'm now more healthy/stable than I have ever been and for the first time in a looong time I am working full time. I make sure that I have at least two days off every week because that is absolutely essential to keeping me sane.
heyy I’m earlyy for once
also it’s been like a month since the last stream, we’ve missed you
@@caseyaonso4270 YAY LMAO
10 year old girl in 25 years: "OH MY GOD!!! WHAT HAVE I DONE?!?! I WAS 10! ALL THOSE YEARS WASTED!!!!"
Lazyness is the engine of the world. The whole universe tends to the conservation of energy. We discover the wheel because a guy was too lazy to drag things on the ground, and we attached a horse to the wheels because another guy was too lazy to pull the cart alone. If our mindset, as human species, was "hard work" we would still be here dragging things on the ground.
"Work smart, not hard", apparently people in the past have a better understanding of this concept
aside from cruel world happy mind's video, savvy writes books even dives into the books that rachel hollis has written
How about instead of having hustle culture we had a eating the rich culture
How do we do that?👀👀👀
That's a really dumb statement.
@@michaelsasylum yeah its so dumb to harbor animosity against the people directly responsible for the lives of working class people being fucking miserable and alienating. stfu
You don't change your situation by hating or trying to break down people you see as doing better than you. In the end, you're only hurting yourself.
@UC_7QIELShYbATMH2DXZ7CIw more like politicians who make the rules than common rich people tho. sadly "eating the rich" never actually works or lead to better living for everyone, those kind of violent revolutions never really did anything for wealth equality in the past and in socialist communist countries just ruined everything for everyone instead. try to watch Envy by Contrapoints, very eye-opening th-cam.com/video/aPhrTOg1RUk/w-d-xo.html
These people are the kind to realize that the work they do is ultimately pointless and instead of accepting it and finding a healthy way to balance both, they decided to make work their LIFE, so they mindlessly slave away so big soulless corporation eventually notices them and gives them that 5% pay raise
Business is gambling, you can try and try and fail, or you can succeed without even putting in anything, it's a game of luck for those with big boy pants (or big girl pants) to feel some type of meaning
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I feel disgusted for that 10 year old, she has some acting skill, absolutely, but I couldn't imagine how much stress she's under behind the scenes, let alone having to repeat some flawed rhetoric about hard work. Here's to hoping that she at least gets out of that seemingly abusive household soon