"If you are reading this, remember you deserve love" this line reminds me of this video called help from jack staubler. It falls like one comment explained. One just notices you that you need help without actually helping you. Like to me you told me "you deserve love" and I don't know what love is. Nor knew it as a concept and was fine without knowing it. Then I'll be looking for love right ? Considering how cruel reality is. I'll be meeting up with ppl who will just come and do this parole " you want love? You want it ? You don't want love." Then leaves despite me looking for something i don't understand. I'll be saying thank you as you are leaving by and have realised that there is big rock above my chest that I wasn't aware of. Thank you
b l i s s Trust me, that mentality will only bring bad things to you. I can’t explain it but it’ll just ruin you further. Take responsibility for your own life and you’ll do much better.
Yows. Uhm..the 2nd dude is kinda right... i grew up in a place in which some bad shits happened... but i want to believe that even tho it wasn't my choice to be here i have the control on my life and that i wont let my people's mistakes define me... i hope ur ok... and whereever u r rn, always remember to stay alive and always remember that u r loved :")))))
My parents are loving people but here I was acting like they were the worst parents and we’re just assholes in general. Now that I’ve seen both sides of the coin (dosent matter fi it’s a show it happens in real life) I changed my attitude towards my parents and tell them I’m greatful as many of us should especially us teenagers. I think this show shows a lot about mental health and emotional wellbeing and where it stems from which I really really love about how raw and real they can go
for better or for worse? because i personally started to notice all the negative patterns of their relationship with me during my childhood, which i haven’t payed attention to before, and that show made me open my eyes to all the emotional abuse they’ve put me through all these years
Same . Sometimes I have my eyes opened and still don't know why I feel this way. So I ask myself why am I so frustrated /sad ? why am I here in this classroom/household full of hypocrites that are putting on this ridiculous play , when I can do much more meaniful stuff , then live a lie like them.
@@shivamanand3908 of course we are alone inside , dude if someone really want to be "inside" me , he should be trusted and not running away from his future child 😂 xD if you know what I mean
Bojack's dad was definitely bipolar. My dad is too and he's exactly like him. He always says I'm a lesbian because my mom failed. I actually took care of all my siblings while him and my mom fought and I destroyed my childhood for their sake and I'm treated like shit. I've gotten used to it through the years and I'm going to college in a year and maybe it'll be ok.
Like the series would indicate, you are not predisposed to become a product of your upbringing. Overcoming it is a challenge, but for some people it molds admirable character, so as the foundation of that character is strong. Perhaps this will one day be an anecdote of an otherwise beautiful success story for you. :)
Wow Bojack has such a sad story, he came into this world as a mistake, and it not his fault. (Edit: Ha lol it just his fault also thanks for the likes)
This show made me realize a lot about myself... a lot of negative things that I knew that they were there but I was too blind to see it. If you have a lot of things in common with Bojack, you should go and see a therapist. Is never good to identify so much with this character... or even the others. Take care.
Ima be straight up everyone born and raised in the 1990’s and 2000’s were raised so wrong in my eyes. It’s sad that more than half of us can relate in a way to bojacks story. It’s sad that that my dad is just like his and that my childhood was fucked because he didn’t know how to raise kids right. We gotta make sure we raise our kids right in the future. Learn from their mistakes and don’t make the same ones. Just because we suffered doesn’t mean our future generations have too. Stay strong everyone
Watering down the worth of relationships. No one wants to improve those anymore since you can just throw away people and find new ones, right? The modern mentality.
Angela Kartolína Luntian that’s a pessimistic way to look at it. Relationships are worth a lot, yes, but there’s no use in staying in something that isn’t working. You can try, and try, and try but sometimes, it’s never gonna be fixed, so you need to let go.
@@Changeling6562 that kind of relationship where you wanna "fix" someone, a friend or your SO, -happens- should happen less. We're so used to looking at it that way, that we're thinking there's nothing wrong with trying to fix and replace actual people as if they're slaves putting up with our standards.
And it's hilarious because the generation that came before us likes to tell us how easy we had it because their parents beat them. Emotional abuse was not recognized.
It's interesting. Butterscotch's toxicity manifested through deliberate malice where Bojack's was always in reaction to something. Not making excuses for him, just noticing how their different personalities channeled their anxieties in unique unhealthy ways.
When I was about 6 years old, my mom said "You weren't supposed to be born" while brushing my hair.. Im now 14. Its been 8 years and that still scars me, I was so little and for my own mother to say that hits hard. I live my life with the same exact words stuck in the back of my head replaying "You weren't supposed to be born". I've gotten bullied and emotionally abused, I feel like a fucking rug for people to just step on me.
Auralovesalberto neither was I. It’s partially true, I’ve never been told directly but it’s been heavily implied throughout my life. It wears one down, it starts breaking your stability. Something you shouldn’t do: drink alcohol to push the bad thoughts away. It works, but it’s habit forming. Works for me, can’t let it keep going forever though, it’s a too good to be true.
I don't give a fuck what anyone else says, you're here for some reason. I don't know why, but you are. And I don't know who you are but whenever you start to feel bad, just know there's people like me who want to lift your spirits. You will find your people one day. The people that want you here. They're out there.
As much as Beatrice was kind to Henrieta for giving her that advice, she basically said Bojack was poison. You decided to have a child woman.You decided to stay with that man.
Yes, it's true with our standards now. In 60' it wasn't that easy. And Butterscotch wanted to take care of her and a baby. Now it would be insane for a young woman: marry with stranger who is the father of her baby. Then it was more obvious. And it ended bad. She said a couple times that Bojack was a poison but I don't think she really thought that. Everything was a poison. It was messed up from the beginning in her life: death of Crackerjack, mother's lobotomia (and Honey told her to never love a child because she will end like this, it isn't good for anyone), her misoginistic dad, Butterscotch. Beatrice could marry Creamerman but she would be happy? I don't think so. Bojack was just a near person to blame. And we need to admit: Beatrice apologized to Bojack for everything. Many parents wouldn't do that. (sorry for my english)
@@martinmaguire-music6692 in secound season, she called Bojack and they talked about his book. She was partly mean but she said "I am sorry". He was surprised
@@pandathelibrarian3053 I suppose that was kind of an apology, although I always thought she meant it more as "I'm sorry that you're you," rather than "I'm sorry that I partially made you this way." I suppose it's almost an apology.
my parents have been arguing a lot recently and my siblings barely ever talk to me and anytime i try to talk to my mom she always seem like she’s angry at nothing. kinda makes me feel unwanted and they wonder why i don’t go outside instead of just listening to music all day. it’s like an escape from reality. makes you feel great, unstoppable, brave which is the opposite of what my parents give me because my dad hates pretty much everyone except straight white men (which is true) and my mom hates me so music and friends really help me
Hey listen music is in my opinion the best outlet for stress (other than talking to people about) which sometimes just either doesn't work or you can't (mine was i couldn't because of depression) but remember the people that love you and you care about and help you.... hold them close a..and don't let them go😥
Sometimes, I wake up, and there's a trace of a dream still stuck in my head. I shake it off as a whisper in a world where emptiness screams, and depression cries me back to sleep, only to let anxiety shake me awake again.
I wish we could go back to those time when all we cared about was 2 hours we used to get to play around with our friends with no care in the world. Now all we're are just alive from the outside and dead from inside.
Man bojack brought a shit memory back in my head when he was sitting all alone at that soccer field. I remember after baseball practice my parents forgot to pick me up left me in the rain for a couple of hours. I had to walk all the way to a grocery store just to use a phone to call them. They didnt feel bad at all in fact they made it somehow my fault it happened...... One thing I learned as a kid was this, no feeling in the world feels worse then feeling alone around your own family. They looked at me like I was some kind of stranger... For those of you who have a good family be thankful for that fact. You don't want to know what it feels like to be treated like dirt by your own blood.
2:15 was honestly so scary. My dad tells me the exact same thing at its so scary for me, I’m a teenager, and he says that I should not trust anyone, he says during his age, he trusted some people and they all backstabbed him, so when I have friends he tells me to never trust them and never have them do anything for me, and I have a boyfriend, he told me it wasn’t going to last, so now I have major trust issues and anxiety of being abandoned, so hearing this really triggered something again
I don't like depressing shows like these. They are too real, and i don't like it. I want freedom, which is why I watch anime, it just makes me feel like I'm in a different universe. Better then drugs anyway, drugs are ridiculous. I just don't know how people can watch shows like these, shows that make people feel worse and worse the more and more they watch. Sure it's funny but it's too real? Ignore the talking animals and you have reality.
@@faust5727 I know. I remember I wanted to watch a show like family guy to get me to laugh. Y'know out of stupidly funny stuff. I found this show under the section "comedy." It ruined my night. Edit: If you're looking for a show that'll make you happy, watch the promised neverland. It's an anime :) (Its my favorite anime)
@@faust5727 errr that's not the end. I read the manga because the show was GODLY and I'm now in tears so yeah. The show has a season 2 so its gonna be one hell of a rollercoaster😭😭
This is basically how my parents describe theirs, however when I visit my grandparents they're chill, happy and proud of their children and grandchildren.
its stuff like this that makes me realize that even though my father passed when I was young, it was better to have a good father for so short of a time, than a bad one for my whole life. I'm so sorry to everyone who struggles with their shitty parents, and I hope you know that you are loved, and an inspiration, and will be the best of us.
When you’ve living in a toxic environment for your entire childhood, you’d realized that and you’d tried to escape. But at the end you found out it’s actually a toxic world all along. The whole system is corrupted and that’s nothing you could do about it except becoming one of them.
"HEY IF UR READING THIS DONT FORGET YOU DESERVE LOVE" thanks man that actually makes me feel really good. im going through a lot right now so just reading that made my day thank you
Growing up being taught that no one will help you and your all alone will help you mature so fast, but believe me when I say, maybe it's a good thing to take your time.
throughout my whole life, I started having feelings that I could never describe but now I do. I can love people around me but I just can't love myself and I never felt like by the people around me
i feel so bad reading these comments, i feel so grateful for having parents that have suported me and loved me through the years, even with their mistakes... man i hope all of you remember that you DESERVE love, you have literally been conditioned as kids to think otherwise but that is not true
You can’t rely on other people, that line has kept me from loosing it. When you loose half of your family, and all of your friends it hurts. All I do is please people, but I’ve lost my friendliness now. All I have is myself now, which will suffice.
I think a common theme with many people's parents were that they were good people, but bad parents. But that doesn't really make years of abuse and/or neglect okay. Your parents are just people, some better and some worse that others, but they're just people like us. Understanding that makes a lot of things easier in the long run.
2:08 now this hurts you can see bojacks face when he says this and he thinks “wait is he going to change to apologize” but then he keeps going on and you can see the disappointment in bojacks face when he realizes that his father will never change
That's how abusers reel you in. Give you the slightest hopes just to crash them down again. Always little gestures to keep you in while they twist little strings around your arms and puppet your body and your mind so they can keep their little plaything. And just cutting one string won't cut it. Ypu have to get every last one or else they'll just keep reconnecting. Ypu gotta cut them all. And they're all industrial-strength. Not an easy feat.
“ you got a head start of most kids” My dad made me start working with him since I was 11 or 12, nothing hard but just to learn more of life and the future , I’m glad I learned early but that separated us more and more along the years, even with my mom, I just don’t feel as happy around them as I once was and I can see it’s happening to my little brother now too since he’s being made to work
This is truly when I started understanding that nobody is a bad person, we all have our uprisings and downfalls. And the people who try to make themselves better even though they’ve done terrible shit, I’ll root for them because at least they’re making an effort.
my mom was raped at 14.... I was put up for adoption.. by the grace of God I was picked up... but why.. I was brought into this world a mistake and it feels like all I am is a mistake.... I know no one of my bloodline.. and im the black sheep in my current family.... so why am I still here...
For that cases the abortion is a really good option. Now you are alive, and can't blame someone else for what you are, you and only you can chance your bad start in this World
@@camilohernandez4156 And yet people want to make pregnancy and raising a child a punishment regardless of the circumstances. They don't understand that two wrongs do not make a right. Or they DON'T want to understand. They think they know everything, but they actually don't. Or they do and they just don't care, just so long as their pregnancy continues and the child is born. They don't care about their lives. And they don't want to. They're just pro-birth at the end of the day.
Listening to this has made me realize why I cant seem to be happy. I feel my life is a mistake. I was born with autism, a birth flaw, and cant seem to make any friends. All my attempts at friendship lead to someone else getting hurt. At this point I believe my life was a mistake because I was born incorrectly. Maybe if I could be a better son then mom wouldnt be stressed out all the time. And maybe I could finally tell myself that I'm a decent human being. But I know people like me dont get happy endings
0:26 "A Doll’s House traces the awakening of Nora Helmer from her previously unexamined life of domestic, wifely comfort. Having been ruled her whole life by either her father or her husband Torvald, Nora finally comes to question the foundation of everything she has believed in once her marriage is put to the test. Having borrowed money from a man of ill-repute named Krogstad by forging her father’s signature, she was able to pay for a trip to Italy to save her sick husband’s life (he was unaware of the loan, believing that the money came from Nora’s father). Since then, she has had to contrive ways to pay back her loan, growing particularly concerned with money and the ways of a complex world" ... also this is great i love it!
It's crazy how i never really got into the show when it first came out...and now i just recently finished it...and oml i can relate to him on a major level.
0:20 - 2:31 watching little Bojack sitting there silently for over 2 minutes, not looking at his father and flinching at his angry words is heartbreaking. That is an abused child right there.
Dayuuumm this actually hits, it really hurts knowing and hearing the thoughts from the closest person you care the most just treat you their biggest problem.
When your parent has problems, money, mental, with each other, and one of then just keep showing to their children to the point they think it's their fault, especially when the parent say it to the face of the child who tries to do his best but can't because dad and mom are terrible people and they raise him without any sense . Not awful or evil but just suck to be "normal" human being with each other and the kid just watch his parent fighting again until one he realizes that the problem comes from them, and the child can't help because he as his own problem to deal with even though he now more mature tan both of this parent combine, some people do with what they as, I love my parent but... Sometimes is just not enough.
My childhood was almost the same. my mother was beating me and taking a lot of medicine. threw me out with my dad at night. my dad recently died. I'm alone now..I'm afraid I'm not his daughter. Mom was a prostitute when she met him and I know she was cheating on him ... I'm afraid that my dad could sacrifice his life for not his child
I think your dad wouldn't have cared less about you even if you weren't his biological child and he found out about it. I'm sure he had some doubts about it and still chose to love and care for you. Loving and caring for a child for so long is not so brittle. Blood related or not, his love for you wouldn't break so easily. I'm sorry you didn't have a good mother figure. Sometimes the one who support you are not helpful. Even so, you can still find love and meaning in other things. Don't let bad things happening to you make you think otherwise. It's not easy but I have faith in you.
@polar lights' Now is....okey? I mean my mom left me i have piece. Sometimes she call me and do something terrible and I'm alone with it but I' m doing well. Better than my friends with perfect life.
this show was beautiful. i cant explain how deeply i connected to this show and the attachment i have to it. it’s fucked how Netflix cancelled this show out of 13 Reasons Why or any other shitty Netflix original.
Throughout everything you can hear through the words that they're just putting the blame of their problems on a child who didn't want to be born or anything and are blaming each other because they don't want to see their own issues.
If you're reading this and you live with toxic family, MOVE OUT as soon as you're old enough. Me and my lil sis moved out when I was 21 n she 18, she lived on the streets of ny for a year and I lived in my car in orgeon for the year. We saved up and roughed it out. The only thing I'd add is you gotta be strong, life gets really hard especially when you're alone
the part when " you're lucky you had a head start than other kids" hits me so hard, because my dad said that to me, That it's a good thing my mom is a toxic person that would mentally, emotionally and physically hurt you because it makes you ready and you'll know how to deal with people like it in the future. I thought my dad only said that to me... It's sad to see other people have to deal with it too
I like how Bojacks dad completly ignores that his wife wants comfort, but he's more worried about his lunch. Though I feel the father vibe from him when he was giving Bojack real life advice.
I literally want to hug everyone in this comment section. I'm so sorry your lives were so shitty, but I promise it'll get better. Keep pushing yourselves to be the best you you can be and just remember you deserve as much love, kindness, and happiness as everyone else in this universe. Take care of yourselves ❤️
"Sooner or later you gotta learn that nobody cares about you" I've learned that lesson time and fucking time again and so I just stopped trying to be someone, I'm just waiting to die at this point
I keep thinking about the fact that if Bojack's parents made the right friends or just made real friends throughout their lifetime, probably they would get the help that bojack got, and they would've been less aweful human beings, so that makes them exactly like Bojack and Bojack isn't any better, he even has his father's voice which maybe a metaphor for their resemblance, Bojack just got lucky by getting to know people who truly care about him ... However the only right thing Bojack did is that he didn't commit to someone and had kids for the mess he is.
“If ur reading this, remember you deserve love.” Well aint that a sweet hidden message.
"If you are reading this, remember you deserve love" this line reminds me of this video called help from jack staubler. It falls like one comment explained. One just notices you that you need help without actually helping you. Like to me you told me "you deserve love" and I don't know what love is. Nor knew it as a concept and was fine without knowing it. Then I'll be looking for love right ? Considering how cruel reality is. I'll be meeting up with ppl who will just come and do this parole " you want love? You want it ? You don't want love." Then leaves despite me looking for something i don't understand.
I'll be saying thank you as you are leaving by and have realised that there is big rock above my chest that I wasn't aware of. Thank you
Until you realise you dont
@@zexsin2117 I don't ? Explain more
Time stamp?
Riot Society Fan ill look for it
It wasn't my fault I was born, it's not my fault you made me. It's yours, stop pushing it out on me, all I did was exist and not by choice.
Imagine how Beatrice would have responded to that statement
b l i s s Trust me, that mentality will only bring bad things to you. I can’t explain it but it’ll just ruin you further. Take responsibility for your own life and you’ll do much better.
Yows. Uhm..the 2nd dude is kinda right... i grew up in a place in which some bad shits happened... but i want to believe that even tho it wasn't my choice to be here i have the control on my life and that i wont let my people's mistakes define me... i hope ur ok... and whereever u r rn, always remember to stay alive and always remember that u r loved :")))))
Facts
s ü n. k i s s ë d remembers what I felt when I was a kid and still think about now
I literally changed my attitude towards my parents after watching this show.
Szechuan Sauce like what ?
Ye like what
My parents are loving people but here I was acting like they were the worst parents and we’re just assholes in general. Now that I’ve seen both sides of the coin (dosent matter fi it’s a show it happens in real life) I changed my attitude towards my parents and tell them I’m greatful as many of us should especially us teenagers. I think this show shows a lot about mental health and emotional wellbeing and where it stems from which I really really love about how raw and real they can go
for better or for worse? because i personally started to notice all the negative patterns of their relationship with me during my childhood, which i haven’t payed attention to before, and that show made me open my eyes to all the emotional abuse they’ve put me through all these years
dragonymash same
Doesn’t matter what’s truly out there in the world.... when you close your eyes were all alone inside
Yes and no..
/music plays
It's the same for me even with my eyes open
Same . Sometimes I have my eyes opened and still don't know why I feel this way. So I ask myself why am I so frustrated /sad ? why am I here in this classroom/household full of hypocrites that are putting on this ridiculous play , when I can do much more meaniful stuff , then live a lie like them.
@@shivamanand3908 of course we are alone inside , dude if someone really want to be "inside" me , he should be trusted and not running away from his future child 😂
xD if you know what I mean
Screw Netflix for canceling Bojack but keeping big mouth
Red Hellfire it wasn't cancelled it's just finished after 6s
@@mikey6724 the creator as well as Aaron Paul confirmed Netflix cancelled it
Final season is divided Im so mad!! Honestly it breaks my heart that amazing shows like this one and Santa Claritas Diet are gone now 💔
Is there a chance another network could pick it up?
roberts kanels bojack needs an ending it’s fine we need to see how it ends
s a r a h l y n n ?
Pause at 3:35 it says “Hey if your reading this don’t forget you deserve love”
@@MyIphoneGaming just a black screen to me
@@MyIphoneGaming I saw it
Her name just makes me sad now a days 😭
This got me crying😭😭😭
Bojack's dad was definitely bipolar. My dad is too and he's exactly like him. He always says I'm a lesbian because my mom failed. I actually took care of all my siblings while him and my mom fought and I destroyed my childhood for their sake and I'm treated like shit. I've gotten used to it through the years and I'm going to college in a year and maybe it'll be ok.
Like the series would indicate, you are not predisposed to become a product of your upbringing. Overcoming it is a challenge, but for some people it molds admirable character, so as the foundation of that character is strong.
Perhaps this will one day be an anecdote of an otherwise beautiful success story for you. :)
I relate so much and now hes gone but soon will i
Atleast you’re getting away :(
Sending lots of love. 💜
@@crackfetish6837 u okay buddy?
I may not fully relate to this but to some extent, I do. Man, so many childhoods wasted away because of unhappy couples
Never stay for the kids friend.
I just finished my divorce, still fighting for kiddo's safety. Thank you, I needed to hear this.
Wow I can't believe they made my parents into a TV show
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Same
Pearls are for ladies, Fleur.
Same
i love the recent spike in bojack edits
Probably due to the new season of it.
Wow Bojack has such a sad story, he came into this world as a mistake, and it not his fault. (Edit: Ha lol it just his fault also thanks for the likes)
Well, it is his fault. "It's not what happened to you in your career, or as a kid; it's you."
Jonathan King Yeah but it sounds nice
I think the shittyness of his parents is a factor why bojack is what he is? Or is it just me?
@@alexander3kings469 Yes, but it's important to not use that as an easy excuse to be a bad person and challenge yourself despite that
@@Sevin7 easy to say
This show made me realize a lot about myself... a lot of negative things that I knew that they were there but I was too blind to see it.
If you have a lot of things in common with Bojack, you should go and see a therapist. Is never good to identify so much with this character... or even the others.
Take care.
I think everyone is Bojack in a way
I dont wanna gp to a therapist
lolwhatt ? Never saw the point in it. Paying for someone else to hear your own problems. Icky.
i relate sm to bojack it makes me angry at myself.
@@TraceLight thats not all they do though
The moral here is: *that you can't always depend on someone you hold so dear about.*
Nothing lasts forever
Aka my parents and the rest of my family
Nah the moral here is “ pearls are for ladies”
Ima be straight up everyone born and raised in the 1990’s and 2000’s were raised so wrong in my eyes. It’s sad that more than half of us can relate in a way to bojacks story. It’s sad that that my dad is just like his and that my childhood was fucked because he didn’t know how to raise kids right. We gotta make sure we raise our kids right in the future. Learn from their mistakes and don’t make the same ones. Just because we suffered doesn’t mean our future generations have too. Stay strong everyone
Watering down the worth of relationships. No one wants to improve those anymore since you can just throw away people and find new ones, right? The modern mentality.
Angela Kartolína Luntian that’s a pessimistic way to look at it. Relationships are worth a lot, yes, but there’s no use in staying in something that isn’t working. You can try, and try, and try but sometimes, it’s never gonna be fixed, so you need to let go.
Chloe Kiko Omg yes it’s was so shitty. They didn’t allow me to do anything but schoolwork
@@Changeling6562 that kind of relationship where you wanna "fix" someone, a friend or your SO, -happens- should happen less. We're so used to looking at it that way, that we're thinking there's nothing wrong with trying to fix and replace actual people as if they're slaves putting up with our standards.
And it's hilarious because the generation that came before us likes to tell us how easy we had it because their parents beat them. Emotional abuse was not recognized.
It's interesting. Butterscotch's toxicity manifested through deliberate malice where Bojack's was always in reaction to something. Not making excuses for him, just noticing how their different personalities channeled their anxieties in unique unhealthy ways.
When I was about 6 years old, my mom said "You weren't supposed to be born" while brushing my hair.. Im now 14. Its been 8 years and that still scars me, I was so little and for my own mother to say that hits hard. I live my life with the same exact words stuck in the back of my head replaying "You weren't supposed to be born". I've gotten bullied and emotionally abused, I feel like a fucking rug for people to just step on me.
Auralovesalberto neither was I.
It’s partially true, I’ve never been told directly but it’s been heavily implied throughout my life.
It wears one down, it starts breaking your stability.
Something you shouldn’t do: drink alcohol to push the bad thoughts away. It works, but it’s habit forming.
Works for me, can’t let it keep going forever though, it’s a too good to be true.
you look like a fucking mug
I don't give a fuck what anyone else says, you're here for some reason. I don't know why, but you are. And I don't know who you are but whenever you start to feel bad, just know there's people like me who want to lift your spirits. You will find your people one day. The people that want you here. They're out there.
I say that to myself all the time. Not that someone told it to me (not that I remember anyway)
Everyone here for a reason and fight through it and find real friends maybe talk to your teacher or whatever about this they'll help you :D
As much as Beatrice was kind to Henrieta for giving her that advice, she basically said Bojack was poison.
You decided to have a child woman.You decided to stay with that man.
Yes, it's true with our standards now. In 60' it wasn't that easy. And Butterscotch wanted to take care of her and a baby. Now it would be insane for a young woman: marry with stranger who is the father of her baby. Then it was more obvious. And it ended bad. She said a couple times that Bojack was a poison but I don't think she really thought that. Everything was a poison. It was messed up from the beginning in her life: death of Crackerjack, mother's lobotomia (and Honey told her to never love a child because she will end like this, it isn't good for anyone), her misoginistic dad, Butterscotch. Beatrice could marry Creamerman but she would be happy? I don't think so. Bojack was just a near person to blame.
And we need to admit: Beatrice apologized to Bojack for everything. Many parents wouldn't do that. (sorry for my english)
@@pandathelibrarian3053 and she also got traumas with that baby horse doll being burnt
@@pandathelibrarian3053 When did she apologise? I'm not saying she didn't, but I can't remember it happening.
@@martinmaguire-music6692 in secound season, she called Bojack and they talked about his book. She was partly mean but she said "I am sorry". He was surprised
@@pandathelibrarian3053 I suppose that was kind of an apology, although I always thought she meant it more as "I'm sorry that you're you," rather than "I'm sorry that I partially made you this way." I suppose it's almost an apology.
"wouldn't it be funny if it was the last night we ever talk to each other"
...mr blue
That uneasyness Bojack is feeling when his dad ranting in the car, I just can feel it. Like, you dont want to hear him. But you cant say that to him.
my parents have been arguing a lot recently and my siblings barely ever talk to me and anytime i try to talk to my mom she always seem like she’s angry at nothing. kinda makes me feel unwanted and they wonder why i don’t go outside instead of just listening to music all day. it’s like an escape from reality. makes you feel great, unstoppable, brave which is the opposite of what my parents give me because my dad hates pretty much everyone except straight white men (which is true) and my mom hates me so music and friends really help me
Find the sheepy community they are really supportive
Hey listen music is in my opinion the best outlet for stress (other than talking to people about) which sometimes just either doesn't work or you can't (mine was i couldn't because of depression) but remember the people that love you and you care about and help you.... hold them close a..and don't let them go😥
I was so scared to post that
Sometimes, I wake up, and there's a trace of a dream still stuck in my head. I shake it off as a whisper in a world where emptiness screams, and depression cries me back to sleep, only to let anxiety shake me awake again.
Yo this is making me feel sad wtf
Yo
Ayyyy peter
Wish i was taught how to love and trust people in my life, instead i'm constantly scared of being left alone because i'm useless and i deserve it.
Abandonment issues?
I like how butterscotch isn’t even a good writer, noticed how he admitted to writing a giant run on sentence
I wish we could go back to those time when all we cared about was 2 hours we used to get to play around with our friends with no care in the world. Now all we're are just alive from the outside and dead from inside.
damn i guess i really shouldve watched this on netflix when i couldve
this is making me *s e r i o u s l y* emotional.
It's still on Netflix!
Jonathan King it is?
Aw man, i dont see it anymore
Guess ill go check, thank you though!
Region
@@inkystix5327 Use VPN if it's not there.
Man bojack brought a shit memory back in my head when he was sitting all alone at that soccer field. I remember after baseball practice my parents forgot to pick me up left me in the rain for a couple of hours. I had to walk all the way to a grocery store just to use a phone to call them. They didnt feel bad at all in fact they made it somehow my fault it happened...... One thing I learned as a kid was this, no feeling in the world feels worse then feeling alone around your own family. They looked at me like I was some kind of stranger... For those of you who have a good family be thankful for that fact. You don't want to know what it feels like to be treated like dirt by your own blood.
"You can't depend on others." Absolutely amazing advice.
2:15 was honestly so scary. My dad tells me the exact same thing at its so scary for me, I’m a teenager, and he says that I should not trust anyone, he says during his age, he trusted some people and they all backstabbed him, so when I have friends he tells me to never trust them and never have them do anything for me, and I have a boyfriend, he told me it wasn’t going to last, so now I have major trust issues and anxiety of being abandoned, so hearing this really triggered something again
My God, I had been telling myself the same thing. And then my mother reinforced it through both telling me that and her own actions.
Its really reached the point where i watch sad bojack edits
I watch this everyday just to feel like I'm not the only one even though I still feel like I am pretending makes it easier 🙂
2:15
"You can't rely on other people , you got a head start on most kids"
This cut so deep when i saw that episode I still feel it.
Dude this is one show that hate becuase its the reality of our lives.
I don't like depressing shows like these. They are too real, and i don't like it. I want freedom, which is why I watch anime, it just makes me feel like I'm in a different universe. Better then drugs anyway, drugs are ridiculous. I just don't know how people can watch shows like these, shows that make people feel worse and worse the more and more they watch. Sure it's funny but it's too real? Ignore the talking animals and you have reality.
@@faust5727 I know what you mean, I with you there man
@@faust5727 I know. I remember I wanted to watch a show like family guy to get me to laugh. Y'know out of stupidly funny stuff. I found this show under the section "comedy." It ruined my night.
Edit: If you're looking for a show that'll make you happy, watch the promised neverland. It's an anime :)
(Its my favorite anime)
@@littlesadeo eeee 😬 family Guy. Not fan, ohh but I finished the promised Neverland! Such a good show, I'm really happy they all got to escape
@@faust5727 errr that's not the end. I read the manga because the show was GODLY and I'm now in tears so yeah. The show has a season 2 so its gonna be one hell of a rollercoaster😭😭
This is basically how my parents describe theirs, however when I visit my grandparents they're chill, happy and proud of their children and grandchildren.
Wow this gave me the goose bumps. You cant rely on others.
Or maybe you can. I don't think you should be taking buttercups advice here.
You can sometimes rely on others. Weeding out the unreliable is a part of the journey of life
its stuff like this that makes me realize that even though my father passed when I was young, it was better to have a good father for so short of a time, than a bad one for my whole life. I'm so sorry to everyone who struggles with their shitty parents, and I hope you know that you are loved, and an inspiration, and will be the best of us.
When you’ve living in a toxic environment for your entire childhood, you’d realized that and you’d tried to escape. But at the end you found out it’s actually a toxic world all along. The whole system is corrupted and that’s nothing you could do about it except becoming one of them.
"HEY IF UR READING THIS DONT FORGET YOU DESERVE LOVE" thanks man that actually makes me feel really good. im going through a lot right now so just reading that made my day thank you
Damn am I the only one who this sorta stuff inspires me to do right things?
Growing up being taught that no one will help you and your all alone will help you mature so fast, but believe me when I say, maybe it's a good thing to take your time.
I wish my dad would talk to me so much
throughout my whole life, I started having feelings that I could never describe but now I do. I can love people around me but I just can't love myself and I never felt like by the people around me
i feel so bad reading these comments, i feel so grateful for having parents that have suported me and loved me through the years, even with their mistakes... man i hope all of you remember that you DESERVE love, you have literally been conditioned as kids to think otherwise but that is not true
You can’t rely on other people, that line has kept me from loosing it. When you loose half of your family, and all of your friends it hurts. All I do is please people, but I’ve lost my friendliness now. All I have is myself now, which will suffice.
I watch bojack videos when im feeling shitty... im not sure they make me feel better... but it makes me feel something
Just like me
I think a common theme with many people's parents were that they were good people, but bad parents. But that doesn't really make years of abuse and/or neglect okay. Your parents are just people, some better and some worse that others, but they're just people like us. Understanding that makes a lot of things easier in the long run.
This made me cry when I needed to. Had way to many rough weeks to count. Thank you.
,,hey if ur reading this don´t forger you deserve love,, that hit me real deep
The episode when bojacks mom has flashbacks I cried so much :’)
I really need to watch this, like this is one of the many scenes that sold this show to me...love it
...im a dude and i like pearls
That's okay. You're not my son anyway.
Gay
I hope you get to wear your pearls someday.
Pearls are for ladies, Bojack
Pearls are little cacas from clams
2:08 now this hurts you can see bojacks face when he says this and he thinks “wait is he going to change to apologize” but then he keeps going on and you can see the disappointment in bojacks face when he realizes that his father will never change
That's how abusers reel you in. Give you the slightest hopes just to crash them down again. Always little gestures to keep you in while they twist little strings around your arms and puppet your body and your mind so they can keep their little plaything. And just cutting one string won't cut it. Ypu have to get every last one or else they'll just keep reconnecting. Ypu gotta cut them all. And they're all industrial-strength. Not an easy feat.
This was tuff to watch but comforting at the same time
“ you got a head start of most kids”
My dad made me start working with him since I was 11 or 12, nothing hard but just to learn more of life and the future , I’m glad I learned early but that separated us more and more along the years, even with my mom, I just don’t feel as happy around them as I once was and I can see it’s happening to my little brother now too since he’s being made to work
It is nice having someone to relate to , but bojack is not someone yiu want to be . Poor fella . Actions cannot be excused but can be understood
This is truly when I started understanding that nobody is a bad person, we all have our uprisings and downfalls. And the people who try to make themselves better even though they’ve done terrible shit, I’ll root for them because at least they’re making an effort.
my mom was raped at 14.... I was put up for adoption.. by the grace of God I was picked up... but why.. I was brought into this world a mistake and it feels like all I am is a mistake.... I know no one of my bloodline.. and im the black sheep in my current family.... so why am I still here...
Jake Stevens it’s Ok you are who you are, you perfect and important
For that cases the abortion is a really good option. Now you are alive, and can't blame someone else for what you are, you and only you can chance your bad start in this World
@@camilohernandez4156 And yet people want to make pregnancy and raising a child a punishment regardless of the circumstances. They don't understand that two wrongs do not make a right. Or they DON'T want to understand. They think they know everything, but they actually don't. Or they do and they just don't care, just so long as their pregnancy continues and the child is born. They don't care about their lives. And they don't want to. They're just pro-birth at the end of the day.
That's up to you to figure out
i love you. you and your mom are so strong. god bless and wish all the best.
Raphael really had his way around the development of characters .. the way he had the face of Henrietta all sketched up.., it’s really very deep
Listening to this has made me realize why I cant seem to be happy. I feel my life is a mistake. I was born with autism, a birth flaw, and cant seem to make any friends. All my attempts at friendship lead to someone else getting hurt. At this point I believe my life was a mistake because I was born incorrectly. Maybe if I could be a better son then mom wouldnt be stressed out all the time. And maybe I could finally tell myself that I'm a decent human being. But I know people like me dont get happy endings
You re not alone
If only we could see each others lives like tv shows maybe then we would have more sympathy for everyone .
I relate too bojacks childhood, this show is so good👊🏻
Tilly Belmont it got cancelled lol guess it’s just another example of how unfair life is
@@BobBob-qg4lo it did not...it's ending
GamePhobia hate to tell you but it’s ending BECAUSE it got cancelled. it was planned to go on for another 2 seasons
@@BobBob-qg4lo it's better like this I'm sure, don't want it to become a Simpsons-like
GamePhobia you do have a point, although I don’t want it to end.
It's crazy how much this show makes me feel...And it really hits home due to issues I deal with family and at school...
I hate how everyone I ask has never seen this show
0:26 "A Doll’s House traces the awakening of Nora Helmer from her previously unexamined life of domestic, wifely comfort. Having been ruled her whole life by either her father or her husband Torvald, Nora finally comes to question the foundation of everything she has believed in once her marriage is put to the test. Having borrowed money from a man of ill-repute named Krogstad by forging her father’s signature, she was able to pay for a trip to Italy to save her sick husband’s life (he was unaware of the loan, believing that the money came from Nora’s father). Since then, she has had to contrive ways to pay back her loan, growing particularly concerned with money and the ways of a complex world"
... also this is great i love it!
In the end, we are all alone, and within the loneliness, is sadness, and within that... depression
It's crazy how i never really got into the show when it first came out...and now i just recently finished it...and oml i can relate to him on a major level.
That's what I learned when I had to make my own sandwich
(Guys I just quoted y are you liking ksksks)
KW- Violin why do comment quotes always show up when i’m scrolling exactly when they say the sentence in the video
come to Brazil
@@Kaw-rasu no
@@Kaw-rasu heck no
I know it’s suppose to be a sad flashback but I kinda laughed at that part
0:20 - 2:31 watching little Bojack sitting there silently for over 2 minutes, not looking at his father and flinching at his angry words is heartbreaking. That is an abused child right there.
" I know, I know- but it's- How do you deal with- with heartbreak? "
" You cry! "
" You just, cry. "
Why did "you go around the horn the way God intended!" Make me laugh through my tears
Eyyy it’s my guy Beowulf’s song
Dayuuumm this actually hits, it really hurts knowing and hearing the thoughts from the closest person you care the most just treat you their biggest problem.
When your parent has problems, money, mental, with each other, and one of then just keep showing to their children to the point they think it's their fault, especially when the parent say it to the face of the child who tries to do his best but can't because dad and mom are terrible people and they raise him without any sense
. Not awful or evil but just suck to be "normal" human being with each other and the kid just watch his parent fighting again until one he realizes that the problem comes from them, and the child can't help because he as his own problem to deal with even though he now more mature tan both of this parent combine, some people do with what they as, I love my parent but...
Sometimes is just not enough.
I had a great childhood, sometimes you just want to feel sad to make the good times mean something.
My childhood was almost the same. my mother was beating me and taking a lot of medicine. threw me out with my dad at night. my dad recently died. I'm alone now..I'm afraid I'm not his daughter. Mom was a prostitute when she met him and I know she was cheating on him ... I'm afraid that my dad could sacrifice his life for not his child
I think your dad wouldn't have cared less about you even if you weren't his biological child and he found out about it. I'm sure he had some doubts about it and still chose to love and care for you. Loving and caring for a child for so long is not so brittle. Blood related or not, his love for you wouldn't break so easily. I'm sorry you didn't have a good mother figure. Sometimes the one who support you are not helpful. Even so, you can still find love and meaning in other things. Don't let bad things happening to you make you think otherwise. It's not easy but I have faith in you.
@polar lights' Now is....okey? I mean my mom left me i have piece. Sometimes she call me and do something terrible and I'm alone with it but I' m doing well. Better than my friends with perfect life.
this show was beautiful. i cant explain how deeply i connected to this show and the attachment i have to it. it’s fucked how Netflix cancelled this show out of 13 Reasons Why or any other shitty Netflix original.
Throughout everything you can hear through the words that they're just putting the blame of their problems on a child who didn't want to be born or anything and are blaming each other because they don't want to see their own issues.
If you're reading this and you live with toxic family, MOVE OUT as soon as you're old enough. Me and my lil sis moved out when I was 21 n she 18, she lived on the streets of ny for a year and I lived in my car in orgeon for the year. We saved up and roughed it out. The only thing I'd add is you gotta be strong, life gets really hard especially when you're alone
I’ve had to take care of myself since I was 9. I still wish I’d had a teacher. I don’t have any great insight. I love you all.
the part when " you're lucky you had a head start than other kids" hits me so hard, because my dad said that to me, That it's a good thing my mom is a toxic person that would mentally, emotionally and physically hurt you because it makes you ready and you'll know how to deal with people like it in the future.
I thought my dad only said that to me... It's sad to see other people have to deal with it too
Loved it
I like how Bojacks dad completly ignores that his wife wants comfort, but he's more worried about his lunch. Though I feel the father vibe from him when he was giving Bojack real life advice.
I'm one of those mistake that the world has made 😌
yeah
A wise man once said it's a happy mistake
speechless maybe mistakes are just that, mistakes.
Dat horse was talking some real shit....
I just got reminded I am a mistake in reality...
ok lmao
I'm sorry
me too. By myself.
Snow you aren’t a mistake
My dad knows that I’m suicidal. He wants to cut my wrist instead of me cutting my wrist. Is that okay?
Bojack:oh just some child hood erm stuff -_-
Our child hood:
These dont make me feel
Bad it make me feel worse
Dear stranger, if you ever feel broken or alone look to your right, I’ll look to my left, you are never alone, I will be there for you
1:48 It might not be his writing day, but Sunday's his riding day (riding the car).
I literally want to hug everyone in this comment section. I'm so sorry your lives were so shitty, but I promise it'll get better. Keep pushing yourselves to be the best you you can be and just remember you deserve as much love, kindness, and happiness as everyone else in this universe. Take care of yourselves ❤️
Amazing 👍
"Sooner or later you gotta learn that nobody cares about you"
I've learned that lesson time and fucking time again and so I just stopped trying to be someone, I'm just waiting to die at this point
I feel so alone
Bojack Horseman i hope you feel better after 8 months
My dad is like this. The whole show is super nostalgic for me at least .
I keep thinking about the fact that if Bojack's parents made the right friends or just made real friends throughout their lifetime, probably they would get the help that bojack got, and they would've been less aweful human beings, so that makes them exactly like Bojack and Bojack isn't any better, he even has his father's voice which maybe a metaphor for their resemblance, Bojack just got lucky by getting to know people who truly care about him ... However the only right thing Bojack did is that he didn't commit to someone and had kids for the mess he is.
I like watching clips like this and crying. Sometimes I drink too. Try it it's fun.
I mean I'm pretty sure at least 50% of ppl have the same issue probably more of various degrees. Myself included.
By issue I mean bad parents of course.
Seeing BoJack as a child makes me feel so sad 😞 This show is SO well made
that hurts
i dont even like the show but this hit harder than i thought it would.