I don't know I think that on this Earth there are two sides to every person one side is the heart on side of the mind one side is physical one side is mental they never belong to just one person or very rarely do they belong to just one person I feel like it's nothing you can look for it something that just comes to you something it just happens whether you take up that shot or not is what would make you have this idea of love love to me means you need to find someone that completes you in a sense that you are halfway there and before them you were completed or you thought. you need someone to break you down to show you who you are but also build you back up and become better not someone to pick up your Slack but for someone to help you recognize your slack and for you to pick it up there for you to do the same for them and I believe that that is where true love exists that's how someone completes you by you completing yourself them giving you the idea I'm giving you the passion the motivation to complete yourself whether it's emotionally meaning you have things that you can't get over that help you get over it or physically you're not doing something physically and they help you out to get you to do it physically Advance your career Advance how you live what they think or why they feel such things that's when someone completes you by letting you complete yourself.
@@HazwuanSamuels just back out and heal yourself brother only you can save yourself only you are what you have. I beat depression when i quit and chose myself the loss will only hurt you as much as you let it.
@@jamie0731 well it’s different for everyone but i got out of it by losing weight using cannabis occasionally sorting my diet out,writing my emotions down stopped harming myself and left the house a lot more and if any of those things relate to you,try it
@@cpollard9994 damn. I’ve tried to be better and improve myself but I’ve always ended up giving it up because I see it as not worth it. I’m proud that you managed to do it. Really does take a lot for some people and if it was hard work for you, or even if it wasn’t, I’m proud.
@@jamie0731 thank you and i think that’s the problem ur only going to get out of it if you keep pushing and keep sticking to it and if it’s not that if it’s just a break you need take stuff time off school/work and focus on urself for a while
@@dark7957 My interpretation to this is that when "everbody loves you" sometimes it is more of an obligation or just a definiton of love that is much more meaningless and just sputtered out on a whim. It isn't real love it is the fake persona of yourself that is being radiated and having people be in "love" with. That is just a facade of yourself which is really getting loved. To be liked is for someone to find you appealing and to really find reasons to be in your company. By being loved you can be loved for any reason or not and to have someone like you is to posses the qualities that gives you worth.
the fucked up thing is BoJack Horseman is the only character I've ever related to. When I'm lacking inspiration for my poetry, I come to Bojack Horseman and he always helps me out.
I was in the hospital with her in those last moments.. And they were truly horrifying, full of non-sensical screams and cries, but there was this moment, this one instant of strange.. calm, where she looked at my direction and said: - I see you.. It’s the last thing she said to me. „I see you“. Not a statement of judgement or disappointment.. just acceptance, and the simple recognition of another person in a room. "Hello, there. You are a person. And I see you." Let me tell you, it's a weird thing to feel at 44 years old, that for the first time in your life, your mother sees you. It's an odd realization that that's the thing you've been missing, the only thing you wanted all along, to be seen. And it doesn't feel like a relief, to finally be seen. It feels mean, like, "Oh, it turns out that you knew what I wanted, and you waited until the very last moment to give it to me." I was prepared for more cruelty. I was sure that she would get in one final zinger about how I let her down, and about how I was fat and stupid, and too tall to be an effective Lindy-hopper. How I was needy and a burden and an embarrassment. All that I was ready for. I was not ready for "I see you." Only my mother would be lousy enough to swipe me with a moment of connection on her way out. But maybe I'm giving her too much credit. Maybe it wasn't about connection. Maybe it was a... maybe it was an "I see you," like, "I see you." Like, "You might have the rest of the world fooled, but I know exactly who you are." That's more my mom's speed. Or maybe she just literally meant "I see you. You are an object that has entered my field of vision." She was pretty out of it at the end, so maybe it's dumb to try to attribute it to anything.
This is just me saying this cuz i need to . . Im scared, I know all too well what bojack feels. Im scared that im gonna mess up my own life. I have plans because I want to feel happy and good about myself. But what if I screw it up for myself. I'm the problem in my life and what if im not good enough. Im scared, of nothing and yet everything. I hope I live a happy life and get better. I wish to live in pure bliss and not mess it up for myself. I want to be able to love me. . Well thanks for listening to my Ted talk
me too . it gets even harder when you realize like bojack , you’re the problem . and there’s no one or nothing you can blame your shitty decisions and self hatred on. but yes I constantly feel like i’m gonna fuck my life up way more than I have already
You said something that you simply wanted to, and I heard every word of it because I feel the same way. But the key difference is that I can’t say what I need to without getting shut down before I get to that point by whoever is listening, or I’m so deathly afraid of the consequences that my words could have that I just don’t say anything at all, and then it just builds into this tower of regrets over every time I hesitated and missed out on an opportunity that could’ve changed my life for the better, but now I’m stuck in place with all my held in words and regrets and frustration and I don’t know how much more I can hold back. So now I’m jealous that you found the freedom to express yourself in ways that I can’t.
“ I want to feel good about myself “ sum ppl have the life other ppl want , but sometimes the other just wants to feel happy even if it doesn’t require wealth or materialistic stuff that ppl dream to have , feeling empty inside like a never ending loop and it sucks bc it never stops until u do
People think your life is bad or worse when you get into drugs, but I'm gonna tell you, its not. Dealing with depression you have all the time without numbing your pain is real pain. Living with it through all situation's, not knowing how to react anymore because people will make you feel bad no matter how hard you try. There is that one day, everybody loves and likes you and then, you change nothing, there is no one who even tries to call you and ask you how you feel. These are the so called friends but that's not the biggest problem. How is life, when you did something real bad, like real bad (not the " I stole some chocolate at a store.. :'((" problem) and you can't even numb yourself just for not thinking about it anymore, because you need to function, go to your job and pretend "everything is good". Living with emotional pain is the worst and it gets way worse when you can't find the right way of healing and aren't allowed to numb yourself. Just because you know that taking drugs lead to more problems. You live with unhealable pain, the rest of your life. Nobody can fix it anymore. You messed up, and won't find piece. You feel that pain deep inside your heart, at nighttime, at daytime, every single fucking day. THAT is the real pain!
I'll tell you a Lil bit about me. I've been talking to a lot of people about loving myself, which I don't, and I'm in a position know that, I have a depression, this past year I was going to kill myself but all of a sudden I met this girl that was very very nice to me, in fact she was super nice to everybody and she made me have some hope in the humanity again. We are in a relationship for 7 months now, we're doing great. But the thing is, she is the only person I love, and also the reason I live. I know that, if she breaks up with me I'll do 10x worse than I would if I just loved myself but but I can't, I just can't. I accepted the fact that I'll die with or without her, so I prefer to live my best life with her and give her all i have.
I feel this man, struggling with a girl rn that I really love and I somewhat feel like I screwed it up all because I wanted to spend time with her, but we spend a lot of time together already. Now I feel like I probably messed things up and I am hoping so much that I didn't, I hope her and I can go back to the way we were
I am the problem to everyone I love and care for so the best thing for me to do is to off myself so no one has to deal with me ever again and that will solve everything
Nobody completes anybody.. remembering this quote made every relationship easier to end.
You need to remember to settle.
It'll also make it easier to find someone, you don't need to find the most *perfect* person, just a person that you can settle with.
I don't know I think that on this Earth there are two sides to every person one side is the heart on side of the mind one side is physical one side is mental they never belong to just one person or very rarely do they belong to just one person I feel like it's nothing you can look for it something that just comes to you something it just happens whether you take up that shot or not is what would make you have this idea of love love to me means you need to find someone that completes you in a sense that you are halfway there and before them you were completed or you thought. you need someone to break you down to show you who you are but also build you back up and become better not someone to pick up your Slack but for someone to help you recognize your slack and for you to pick it up there for you to do the same for them and I believe that that is where true love exists that's how someone completes you by you completing yourself them giving you the idea I'm giving you the passion the motivation to complete yourself whether it's emotionally meaning you have things that you can't get over that help you get over it or physically you're not doing something physically and they help you out to get you to do it physically Advance your career Advance how you live what they think or why they feel such things that's when someone completes you by letting you complete yourself.
I hear what you are saying but...it still hurts so bad I'm going through it now and it just hurts so bad
@@HazwuanSamuels just back out and heal yourself brother only you can save yourself only you are what you have. I beat depression when i quit and chose myself the loss will only hurt you as much as you let it.
watched this show for the first time when i was in a really dark place. understood every bit of it. it is a fucking beautiful show.
How did you get out of that dark place
@@jamie0731 well it’s different for everyone but i got out of it by losing weight using cannabis occasionally sorting my diet out,writing my emotions down stopped harming myself and left the house a lot more and if any of those things relate to you,try it
@@cpollard9994 damn. I’ve tried to be better and improve myself but I’ve always ended up giving it up because I see it as not worth it. I’m proud that you managed to do it. Really does take a lot for some people and if it was hard work for you, or even if it wasn’t, I’m proud.
@@jamie0731 thank you and i think that’s the problem ur only going to get out of it if you keep pushing and keep sticking to it and if it’s not that if it’s just a break you need take stuff time off school/work and focus on urself for a while
@@cpollard9994 thank you. It’s crazy how someone you don’t even know can help you and for that, I thank you.
"Tell me im a good person" did hit my depression at night really hard.
stfu 14yr
@@okidokie67 lol, edge
@@DeadAutumnHorrorStories hes not lying
''Everybody loves you, but no body likes you''... that's deep...
Hang in there
That really got me in the show but I had to keep it together and not cry so my grandparents didn't think something is wrong with me
Can you explain what it means ?
@@dark7957 My interpretation to this is that when "everbody loves you" sometimes it is more of an obligation or just a definiton of love that is much more meaningless and just sputtered out on a whim. It isn't real love it is the fake persona of yourself that is being radiated and having people be in "love" with. That is just a facade of yourself which is really getting loved. To be liked is for someone to find you appealing and to really find reasons to be in your company. By being loved you can be loved for any reason or not and to have someone like you is to posses the qualities that gives you worth.
@@dark7957 it's often the love feels like a obligation they do love you but they don't like your actions or personality
the fucked up thing is BoJack Horseman is the only character I've ever related to. When I'm lacking inspiration for my poetry, I come to Bojack Horseman and he always helps me out.
That's plagrizim
@@confusedgirl8286 how
The creator can make this show sad and depressing, and make this show work.
*”everybody loves you. but nobody likes you”*
When you are so depressed that being happy makes you sad because it just reminds you of how good things are not…..
I was in the hospital with her in those last moments.. And they were truly horrifying, full of non-sensical screams and cries, but there was this moment, this one instant of strange.. calm, where she looked at my direction and said:
- I see you..
It’s the last thing she said to me. „I see you“. Not a statement of judgement or disappointment.. just acceptance, and the simple recognition of another person in a room. "Hello, there. You are a person. And I see you." Let me tell you, it's a weird thing to feel at 44 years old, that for the first time in your life, your mother sees you. It's an odd realization that that's the thing you've been missing, the only thing you wanted all along, to be seen. And it doesn't feel like a relief, to finally be seen. It feels mean, like, "Oh, it turns out that you knew what I wanted, and you waited until the very last moment to give it to me." I was prepared for more cruelty. I was sure that she would get in one final zinger about how I let her down, and about how I was fat and stupid, and too tall to be an effective Lindy-hopper. How I was needy and a burden and an embarrassment. All that I was ready for. I was not ready for "I see you." Only my mother would be lousy enough to swipe me with a moment of connection on her way out. But maybe I'm giving her too much credit. Maybe it wasn't about connection. Maybe it was a... maybe it was an "I see you," like, "I see you." Like, "You might have the rest of the world fooled, but I know exactly who you are." That's more my mom's speed. Or maybe she just literally meant "I see you. You are an object that has entered my field of vision." She was pretty out of it at the end, so maybe it's dumb to try to attribute it to anything.
54 years*
And thanks .
2 years later I still have this on repeat. Nothings been fixed. This video don’t help, but it’s a video I’ll forever watch.
U okie man? Wanna talk?
this show is hard for me to watch. but I understand all of it tbh. that is sad
This is just me saying this cuz i need to
.
.
Im scared, I know all too well what bojack feels. Im scared that im gonna mess up my own life. I have plans because I want to feel happy and good about myself. But what if I screw it up for myself. I'm the problem in my life and what if im not good enough. Im scared, of nothing and yet everything. I hope I live a happy life and get better. I wish to live in pure bliss and not mess it up for myself. I want to be able to love me.
.
Well thanks for listening to my Ted talk
me too . it gets even harder when you realize like bojack , you’re the problem . and there’s no one or nothing you can blame your shitty decisions and self hatred on. but yes I constantly feel like i’m gonna fuck my life up way more than I have already
You said something that you simply wanted to, and I heard every word of it because I feel the same way. But the key difference is that I can’t say what I need to without getting shut down before I get to that point by whoever is listening, or I’m so deathly afraid of the consequences that my words could have that I just don’t say anything at all, and then it just builds into this tower of regrets over every time I hesitated and missed out on an opportunity that could’ve changed my life for the better, but now I’m stuck in place with all my held in words and regrets and frustration and I don’t know how much more I can hold back. So now I’m jealous that you found the freedom to express yourself in ways that I can’t.
When I’m in a dark place I watch bojack because it makes me know I’m not alone.
“I need you to tell me that I’m a good person”😢
“ I want to feel good about myself “ sum ppl have the life other ppl want , but sometimes the other just wants to feel happy even if it doesn’t require wealth or materialistic stuff that ppl dream to have , feeling empty inside like a never ending loop and it sucks bc it never stops until u do
It turns out you knew what I wanted and you waited until the vary last moment to give it to me...ouchies😞
Everybody loves you but nobody likes you... That one really got me
Samsies ✊
am i just doomed to be the person that i am?
Im listening to this in a loop for 3 hours
People think your life is bad or worse when you get into drugs, but I'm gonna tell you, its not.
Dealing with depression you have all the time without numbing your pain is real pain. Living with it through all situation's, not knowing how to react anymore because people will make you feel bad no matter how hard you try. There is that one day, everybody loves and likes you and then, you change nothing, there is no one who even tries to call you and ask you how you feel.
These are the so called friends but that's not the biggest problem.
How is life, when you did something real bad, like real bad (not the " I stole some chocolate at a store.. :'((" problem) and you can't even numb yourself just for not thinking about it anymore, because you need to function, go to your job and pretend "everything is good".
Living with emotional pain is the worst and it gets way worse when you can't find the right way of healing and aren't allowed to numb yourself. Just because you know that taking drugs lead to more problems.
You live with unhealable pain, the rest of your life. Nobody can fix it anymore. You messed up, and won't find piece. You feel that pain deep inside your heart, at nighttime, at daytime, every single fucking day.
THAT is the real pain!
thx for this vid
😢🥀
I used to watch these and cry but now i just stare and realised, that i dont have feeling..... all i feel is... numbness
now.
period
At least with numbness, there is no pain.
I gotta thank my Prozac for my numbness 😀
i dont know how many times i fell asleep to this exact video :P
Nice job
ICU part really hurts.
Nice bro Keep it up
Facts at the beginning
Elég mély ez a videó illetve gondolom ez az epizód lehet hogy belenézek ebbe a sorozatba
De egyébként nagyon jó lett!🙌
Több epizód részeiből vágtam össze, de egyébként csak ajánlani tudom a sorozatot :)
Köszönöm szépen c:
Everybody loves you, but nobody likes you, damn that hit hard….
Incredible work 😍😍😍😍😍😍💙😍💙😍💙💙😍💙😍💙😍💙😍😍😍💙💙
Thanks 😊
ICU (intensive care unit)
I'll tell you a Lil bit about me. I've been talking to a lot of people about loving myself, which I don't, and I'm in a position know that, I have a depression, this past year I was going to kill myself but all of a sudden I met this girl that was very very nice to me, in fact she was super nice to everybody and she made me have some hope in the humanity again. We are in a relationship for 7 months now, we're doing great. But the thing is, she is the only person I love, and also the reason I live. I know that, if she breaks up with me I'll do 10x worse than I would if I just loved myself but but I can't, I just can't. I accepted the fact that I'll die with or without her, so I prefer to live my best life with her and give her all i have.
Tommorrow is the future, yesterday is the past but today is a gift and that’s why it’s called the present. I hope your guys relationship the best
I feel this man, struggling with a girl rn that I really love and I somewhat feel like I screwed it up all because I wanted to spend time with her, but we spend a lot of time together already. Now I feel like I probably messed things up and I am hoping so much that I didn't, I hope her and I can go back to the way we were
she completed me…then she left
Same boat. Never again
man im down bad huh
What the song at the end? It's beautiful and soothing.
i see youu!💛
know damn well this wasn’t directed to me but damn did it make me smile
aww im glad it made you smile! lmaooo i see youu🥰🥳Now that's definitely directed to youu😂😌✊🏼
I am the problem to everyone I love and care for so the best thing for me to do is to off myself so no one has to deal with me ever again and that will solve everything
I’m done trying ... I’m done
Deadass, just fucking go thru the motions. We are who we are and if people don’t like it FUCK em… I’m done trying to change too
What song is in the last?
Dreaming backwards
7 see you
3:57
what software do you use?
🔥
I love myself but doesn't like my self..
stfu fake depressed kid
@@Tenkay0 wow
@@Tenkay0 then why r u here
blackBoJack
Please activate subtitles in your videos
why the 3D filter...
I might have overused it a little, but it looks better this way.
AcCsU i think it looks good
I like it :)
i hate that i relate to bojack horseman
Idk why but I do feel the same way 😞
Where can I find this show?
Netflix
@@lackofadvice thanks
Netflix
Hi
Who is reading it : GOD IS THE ONE WHO CAN COMPLETE YOU !
No
not at all
No
no .
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