It's not worth it to chase women and go out of your way just for women. Be yourself, chase your goals and the real ones should come (you can learn more about this in 'Casanova: The path to success, wealth and love'. Author talks exactly about what I said above. You first need to improve yourself, build social circle, make money and build wealth. And then women start gravitating towards you).
Did that, lost it all and the women too. I have none of that and have more women in my life than anyone I know. My buddy asked me to help him find him a wife. His reasoning is that I'm a "chick magnet".
But, if you understand your mistakes that turn her off... you also understand what's missing in your path to becoming a true man. Because when you're a stoic, true, discpilined man on your path... ALL these things come automatically. Stop blaming women, and start to understand that every turn off for her = a chance for you to understand how to improve yourself as a man. Take them as a testing machine, don't be lazy. Remember, one of the main points is.. do not use this for tricks, it's a waste of time.... use it to understand what's missing from you. They are just a testing machine for you.
@@777luciferoyou are altogether wrong.Women define masculine guy as a guy thats useful for them.Which is clear miss on the mark.And then y say that change should be done based off of improvements women point towards.They will always point towards only what they want😂😂
Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 4 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward , I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .
Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 6 year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.
I once thought that, and then I realised I was dating a younger version of my mom and that weirded me out so much that I no longer wanted anything to do with her.
Whether it's that or something else like that, it's good to try and think up this sort of thing which seems to 'reach into their mind'. Somethings you say don't have any impact at all.
Hey man, life's simpler than you think. Attraction is mutual - just like you're drawn to attractive women, they're drawn to attractive men. Don't sweat the stuff you can't change, focus on what you can control to boost your appeal: 1. Level Up Your Look: Seriously, nail the basics. Grooming, style, fitness - most guys slack here, so it's your chance to shine. 2. Become a Skillful Dude: Learn stuff that makes you self-sufficient and resourceful. Being self-reliant and useful is sexy. Cooking, fixing things (computers, cars, whatever!), handling finances, driving - these skills are like magnets. 3. Have purpose: Go after something, have a dream and work on it. It could be a business or something simpler like working on a dream project. There is something about a man working on building his dream that is a turn on for women. And listen, it's totally cool to be a little goofy. Everyone has their quirks, and women know they're not perfect either. Trying to hide your goofy side just makes you seem fake. Embrace your personality - it's what makes you unique. Be genuine, be you.
this sounds great on paper but I would much rather depend on some rich broad like many of these girls depend on rich guys. coast through life without basicaly any skillset
6:17 is true. I had a woman tell me once that she liked me because I was funny. When she said that, I couldn't understand what she meant at the time because I legitimately wasn't trying to be funny. I was just calm, talking normal, and a little serious. After watching Casey's past videos, I was able to understand what she meant. Watching this video is just a reminder to calm down when you're around these women. Either if it's on a date or if you are having a quick conversation. The other biggest mistake that I've made was the first thing he mentioned in this video. Talking too much and too fast. All this is true gentlemen.
@@AlienKizzywhether she finds you boring depends on how predictable you are. If you are always telling her how great she is, will she get bored of hearing it? What if you suddenly insulted her? What if you mocked and teased her then told her how amazing she is? Puslh-pull, hot and cold...unpredictable. Emotional Spikes...positive or negative, doesn't matter except you cant lead with negative spikes. Make her feel good first then make her feel bad, she'll chase that good feelings again. Now she's your dancing monkey. Why do womyn watch so much reality shows and drama and read novels? Watch hiw they gossip about each other etc.? Emotions is their fuel, attention is their currency. Be her drug dealer for both.
Yeah very true, i said something true in the moment Unknowingly i made her laugh and she was dying and then got disappointed about me not laughing with her but only thing is i forgot what i said after she started laughing
@@AlienKizzyif a woman finds you boring dude you cant care because if she says that and is still with you then she likes you now IF u KNOW you doing boring things especially asking boring questions bro she aint gonna fw you there isnt no twist or turn mystery or drama
I work with a lot of peeps in their thirties and younger. I’m quite a bit older. The boys complain a lot and act like kids, giggle and talk like girls and rarely anything of importance. The older men mainly just get on with the work and dont get involved w the nonsense. I wasnt like that at their age, I was super focussed on myself and my career. That’s when I met my wife. I’m not sure if this is a generational thing where fellers are culturally getting more effeminate. We’re losing our edge, guys..
You aren't wrong. But you have to understand that many guys, including myself, are done being womens scapegoats, tools and sacrafical lambs. I'm not sacrificing my happiness in order for her to be happy. Now it's all about happy spouse happy house, not the other way around. That's why women complain that there are no more "real" men around. They know and feel that they are losing their grip on men and aren't really the main priority in man's life.
Yes, i agree with this. All through my twenties i didn't do any of this and was a complete failure ! I think that in recent years many of these 'male' behaviours, which were once 'traditional', have been erased and replaced.
Women want you to be able to talk them down. I noticed this on this first date I had. She was ridden with anxiety, I didn't know why but I felt it. So I lowered my tone a hair slowed my speech. She started to calm down, the went into a lull. Truth be told I don't remember what we're were talking about. But all the sudden she leans forward and speaks up "Man! You almost had me there!". I don't care what state of mind a woman appears to be in, if they don't feel like they are safe, they maintain their guard. As you can see she didn't have a guard against anything I said. It was how I said it. Think hypnosis, like she said, I almost had her.
I am at Casey's level on the female mental game. I am in my mid 50s and been successful with women my whole life. I was blessed in the genetic department. What is hard for me is to locate friends who also have this type of knowledge (peers, any age) and are winning because of it.
This video is so on point!!!!!! I can’t stand guys that talk excessively and are all agitated and hyper. Absolutely a turnofffffff. We like men that are chill, calm and cool as a cucumber. That’s so masculine And sexy.
True. But how are you supposed to have a calm cool conversation with a woman if you don't even get the chance to start one? Living in a rural area with only 1 small town half an hour away. I've tried sparking up conversations in public usually ignored or parmed off. I've been on online dating and every message I've sent is ignored. I'm a handsome looking fella so I'm told with an athletic physique but only 5"8 I'm told by female friends I'm to short! Which I refuse to believe. But besides that I'm confident and couldn't care less to be honest but I'm just confused as women are humans just like us men why can't these women here just be civil and talk like grownups without thinking your hitting on them or something? It's really off putting.
Been working on this theme for the last few videos, just another idea of his to churn out more videos, 4 years of these videos and he does repeat himself often, sometimes a new idea but really new ideas for videos more than anything. All he's really saying is set the right tone and give the right vibes that she'll like, childish and emotional, women are just like that.
My problem is im terrified of coming across as boring and I try to speak fast and it comes across as totally crazy , I know this but my mouth hijacks my brain . thanks for pointing out what I already knew but I NEEDED SOMEONE ELSE TO POINT IT OUT.
So working on yourself is putting on a facade ? Why are men so against working on themselves and improving themselves? What a turnoff it is when a man refuses to change and improve himself for the BETTER.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322Most women think that it is empowering to strive for the opposite of what men find attractive- being masculine, trying to act tough, etc. So I see this as men just returning the favor. It was going to happen eventually.
Nope. Men don't have to change for you. Happiness is reality - expectations. Putting on a show only lasts so long. You either hit it off or you don't. Girls and boys will act. Men and women will do what's right.@@gabrielamartiniuc6322
I'm comfortable in my own skin and confident talking to women. My problem is actually getting the chance to actually talk to them? If i approach in public I'm usually ignored or given the impression what I'm doing is creepy. On line dating sites I'm ignored when I message lady's. I live in a rural area the closest town 30km away with not a huge crowd to pick from. So I suppose my question is how can you talk to lady's when you can't even get a response to a simple hello?
I think 'geography' does play a part ! I live in a city of 270/300,000 people, industrial. Up till the 2000's it had quite a good mix of people, but in recent years the place has 'deteriorated', the place has become more 'trashy' with the better types of people in general moving away. So there is a very slim chance of me seeing the type of woman that i like. It's sad really to see this sort of change. I'm in the UK/England, and many other cities are becoming like this.
i just feel like being too calm and nonchalant will bore the woman. talking about long term. one night stand i totally understand these points. i’m 21 so the women im dating are still younger so i see how this can work for older women.
I really really really try to disagree with you man. And I really really really can not make an argument that doesn't end up with you being right. Thank you for your words brother man
This recent Casey trend of saying that being goofy and funny is bad is absolutely L take. He even go out? Overjoyed, weirdos, funny and over the top guys have much more results (at least where a live) than stoic guys trying to act like James Bond or Peak Blinders
@youhatelogic thanks for your common sense. Women are much more attracted to the emotional intelligence and thinking patterns of someone who’s able to be non reactive, not someone who is overly spontaneous and has no real direction
Do not alter your fundamental core masculine character when communicating with women...... How you communicate or what you say and how you say it, is often actually even more important than your physical appearance or how you look.
There’s a sad reality that a lot of guys are going to have to wrap their head around and be comfortable with and it’s that you always have to think of yourself as better and above her. That’s how you stomp out the equality bs and all the feminine thinking that has put you at a disadvantage by being docile and accommodating and not being a man. A man centered in his own masculinity which requires being direct with your intentions which are often rooted in selfishness but will benefit her even if she doesn’t realize it at first.
I am quite goofy and out there and honestly the girls i am with love it and always seem stimulated by it then it stimulates them to be goofy and we just had a good time. I am generally a loud and high energy person and if i took this advice, I think my personality would be castrated.
It's who you are and it's genuine. It's for all the try hards and the people opposite to that who doesn't come off genuine that this applies to. Also you probably understand what kind of women your personality attracts. Most men have no clue who they are or what chicks even respond to their character. They're too busy trying to chase chicks who are polar opposites who they have 0 chances with because they're full of lust and have 0 self control.
Bro im tripping. I thought I was playing it cool but just re read my texts and I cringed at my own words. Holy fuck. Idk what to do other than to not reply for a couple days and let my brain calm down and try to save this.
Never ever go on a brunch date. Maybe if you've been dating for months but no dinner or lunch dates. No one is getting laid or sparking chemistry that way. Go out in nature or go do something fun!
What ive come to (talking about 5:29) understand is that can all be turned around when you just “act natural” with everyone besides her meaning (you are holding frame probably smirking or smiling hell even laughing while speaking to your circle,other people) Ive done this and honestly it made me look like a damn mystery Like how come “he can do that with others but not me?” “What can or how can i get him to do abz” you must understand to not fold, ease up smirk but dont be no open 5 page book
Now you must understand that i wasnt laughing outloud or raising my tone like a goofball i was just chilling and enjoying my time while being there talking to other people besides the female i was interacting with at the time
This is somewhat contradictory to what you said in one of your other podcasts where women are supposed to be sexually attracted to the extroverted and loud frat boy type. Im not saying that your wrong but women I guess can be attracted to different things based on their type.
I really don't understand i hot like two numbers last weekend totally into me and texting good first 2-3 messages then i suggested to meet up and they ghosted me completely like wtf
It may not have been anything you did wrong. Women have unlimited options through social media and dating apps. Ghosting is part of the game. I know it's frustrating but don't worry about it or be surprised. On to the next ones.
My mom sais this long time ago she said be more serious your too funny. And it wasnt about dating or girls. Shes like you look like a serious man behave like on.
I swear in previous videos he told us to NOT be serious around women. That they find it boring. Now we're back to being serious again. Make up your mind Casey.
If you’re an absolute Casanova with her, confident and calm letting yourself cry (but handling things) go for it but it’s a tightrope walk. If you’re genuinely destroyed and can’t handle yourself, do nothing - get calm and centred and let it out elsewhere 👍🏻
This doesn't explain why a legit female would be attracted to a trans-woman (male). Not masculine to feminine polarity, not lesbian either. What's the dynamic going on there?
Yo, you could be as funny as fuck. Just do it with the dry delivery and don’t be goofy. Casey could actually be a little funnier and it would help him.
Good point ! That happened to me the other day ! With a girl that i really like; it wasn't a complete failure, but afterwards i could 'remember' all the things i should have done ! ( that's why i try and practice on lots of girls that i'm not interested in, in the 'hope' that i can 'keep it together' when a girl comes along that i do like ! )
Guys with all seriousness american women are not the only women that exist. Make better choices stop blaming them just dont bother with em. They will soon get the memo. They are like kids, they have to grow up.
Casey, I could swear a month ago you said to wear loud clothes and be loud and goofy to show you don't care and now you want us quiet and reserved. C'mon, man.
Watching a guy like this tell you about how life is couldn’t be more cringe. Go figure it out yourself. I can tell you right now that everyone’s experience is different.
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It's not worth it to chase women and go out of your way just for women. Be yourself, chase your goals and the real ones should come (you can learn more about this in 'Casanova: The path to success, wealth and love'. Author talks exactly about what I said above. You first need to improve yourself, build social circle, make money and build wealth. And then women start gravitating towards you).
Did that, lost it all and the women too. I have none of that and have more women in my life than anyone I know. My buddy asked me to help him find him a wife. His reasoning is that I'm a "chick magnet".
I know enough about women to not change myself for a woman who is going to be a constant problem.
Bingo 🎯
Don't change yourself for any woman. Problem or not.
Problem is an understatement
But, if you understand your mistakes that turn her off... you also understand what's missing in your path to becoming a true man. Because when you're a stoic, true, discpilined man on your path... ALL these things come automatically.
Stop blaming women, and start to understand that every turn off for her = a chance for you to understand how to improve yourself as a man. Take them as a testing machine, don't be lazy. Remember, one of the main points is.. do not use this for tricks, it's a waste of time.... use it to understand what's missing from you. They are just a testing machine for you.
@@777luciferoyou are altogether wrong.Women define masculine guy as a guy thats useful for them.Which is clear miss on the mark.And then y say that change should be done based off of improvements women point towards.They will always point towards only what they want😂😂
All of this boils down to not being needy. That's it. Show interest, ask questions, but don't be desperate for her.
"You are not a comedian" is pure wisdom.
11 minutes of BS
Casey, your MBT course fully changed me. I realize that the way i was living life was completely wrong. Thanks man!
Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 4 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward , I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here .
Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 6 year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.
Remarkable! How did you discover a spiritual counselor, and what's the procedure for me to get in contact with her?
Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for her talent in bringing back ex-partners.
Many thanks for providing this valuable information; I've just conducted an online search for her.
Damn these people are in serious trouble
Tell her your Mom is your best friend and that she reminds you of her. Gets em every time.
I once thought that, and then I realised I was dating a younger version of my mom and that weirded me out so much that I no longer wanted anything to do with her.
@@Trazynncap
@@Trazynncap
Whether it's that or something else like that, it's good to try and think up this sort of thing which seems to 'reach into their mind'. Somethings you say don't have any impact at all.
@@Trazynnthey’re all sayin 🧢 but it’s happened to me too so I feel u bro. Shii feels mad weird
Hey man, life's simpler than you think. Attraction is mutual - just like you're drawn to attractive women, they're drawn to attractive men. Don't sweat the stuff you can't change, focus on what you can control to boost your appeal:
1. Level Up Your Look: Seriously, nail the basics. Grooming, style, fitness - most guys slack here, so it's your chance to shine.
2. Become a Skillful Dude: Learn stuff that makes you self-sufficient and resourceful. Being self-reliant and useful is sexy. Cooking, fixing things (computers, cars, whatever!), handling finances, driving - these skills are like magnets.
3. Have purpose: Go after something, have a dream and work on it. It could be a business or something simpler like working on a dream project. There is something about a man working on building his dream that is a turn on for women.
And listen, it's totally cool to be a little goofy. Everyone has their quirks, and women know they're not perfect either. Trying to hide your goofy side just makes you seem fake. Embrace your personality - it's what makes you unique. Be genuine, be you.
this sounds great on paper but I would much rather depend on some rich broad like many of these girls depend on rich guys. coast through life without basicaly any skillset
That whiteboard reminds of Egyptian hieroglyphics inside some Pharaoh's tomb.
Its all gibberish
Men trying to figure women out since Horus 😂
@@dentside78 😂
Casey has the handwriting of a stroke victim. 😆
Great video as always!! Necessary information for all men !! The early we learn this,the more success and happiness in life we will have!!
All these videos made me realize , the effort is totally not worth it. I will be the way iam, if she doesnt want me for it, i shall remain single .
Also why should I be the one doing all these changes?? How about she changes herself to match me
@@shinrinyokumusic1808Be the
BE the change. Be a leader . But you’re not a masculine leader.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 I am who I am, I can't all my life manage a fake act just to please her like a little princess 304.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 also stop being so entitled you little 🐝 ch
@@shinrinyokumusic1808why? When I can get what I want? And avoid annoying men like you 😂
Best dating coach I’ve ever watched TH-cam videos most coaches don’t teach you long term vs short term
this format suits me and my husband a lot, thank you so much
This intro was the best one yet
6:17 is true. I had a woman tell me once that she liked me because I was funny. When she said that, I couldn't understand what she meant at the time because I legitimately wasn't trying to be funny. I was just calm, talking normal, and a little serious.
After watching Casey's past videos, I was able to understand what she meant. Watching this video is just a reminder to calm down when you're around these women. Either if it's on a date or if you are having a quick conversation. The other biggest mistake that I've made was the first thing he mentioned in this video. Talking too much and too fast. All this is true gentlemen.
Make sure to never get angry, excited, sad, happy, or any excessive emotions around women. Speak slow and speak rarely.
@@maxstrike3022is this to remain a mystery ? What if she finds you boring?
@@AlienKizzywhether she finds you boring depends on how predictable you are.
If you are always telling her how great she is, will she get bored of hearing it?
What if you suddenly insulted her?
What if you mocked and teased her then told her how amazing she is?
Puslh-pull, hot and cold...unpredictable.
Emotional Spikes...positive or negative, doesn't matter except you cant lead with negative spikes. Make her feel good first then make her feel bad, she'll chase that good feelings again. Now she's your dancing monkey.
Why do womyn watch so much reality shows and drama and read novels?
Watch hiw they gossip about each other etc.?
Emotions is their fuel, attention is their currency.
Be her drug dealer for both.
Yeah very true, i said something true in the moment
Unknowingly i made her laugh and she was dying and then got disappointed about me not laughing with her but only thing is i forgot what i said after she started laughing
@@AlienKizzyif a woman finds you boring dude you cant care because if she says that and is still with you then she likes you now IF u KNOW you doing boring things especially asking boring questions bro she aint gonna fw you there isnt no twist or turn mystery or drama
Casey your a genius bro thanks for all the info
The words bring back all the memories, and the memories bring back, memories bring back you.
There's a time that I remember, when I did not know no pain, when I believed in forever, and everything would stay the same
all of your videos click with the things I've been reading in the book 'Magnetic Aura', warm recommendation to everyone
I work with a lot of peeps in their thirties and younger. I’m quite a bit older. The boys complain a lot and act like kids, giggle and talk like girls and rarely anything of importance. The older men mainly just get on with the work and dont get involved w the nonsense. I wasnt like that at their age, I was super focussed on myself and my career. That’s when I met my wife. I’m not sure if this is a generational thing where fellers are culturally getting more effeminate. We’re losing our edge, guys..
T levels are dropping
It is. I noticed it too.
You aren't wrong. But you have to understand that many guys, including myself, are done being womens scapegoats, tools and sacrafical lambs. I'm not sacrificing my happiness in order for her to be happy. Now it's all about happy spouse happy house, not the other way around. That's why women complain that there are no more "real" men around. They know and feel that they are losing their grip on men and aren't really the main priority in man's life.
Your best video yet.
Yes, i agree with this. All through my twenties i didn't do any of this and was a complete failure ! I think that in recent years many of these 'male' behaviours, which were once 'traditional', have been erased and replaced.
Women want you to be able to talk them down. I noticed this on this first date I had. She was ridden with anxiety, I didn't know why but I felt it. So I lowered my tone a hair slowed my speech. She started to calm down, the went into a lull. Truth be told I don't remember what we're were talking about. But all the sudden she leans forward and speaks up "Man! You almost had me there!". I don't care what state of mind a woman appears to be in, if they don't feel like they are safe, they maintain their guard. As you can see she didn't have a guard against anything I said. It was how I said it. Think hypnosis, like she said, I almost had her.
This guy is bad ass.. thanks Casey
I am at Casey's level on the female mental game. I am in my mid 50s and been successful with women my whole life. I was blessed in the genetic department. What is hard for me is to locate friends who also have this type of knowledge (peers, any age) and are winning because of it.
This video literally explained why i didn't get a reply text after the first date... wow.
me and my friends love hanging around watching your videos
I love your videos.
*It's not about being perfect, but showing that you’re comfortable in your own skin and not constantly seeking validation.*
I think this has come to a point of conclusion where we know by now that every woman is different and they want and like different things
I got you Casey. I changed your video to .75 speed.
I noticed so many guys nowadays talk like girls with that girl accent as if they are their girlfriends or wife's girl friend.
And the hand gestures and stances and cadence and pitch they use all feminine. I seen it too G.
@ut07 Yep!
Slightly drunk Casey is a vibe 😂
This video is so on point!!!!!! I can’t stand guys that talk excessively and are all agitated and hyper. Absolutely a turnofffffff. We like men that are chill, calm and cool as a cucumber. That’s so masculine And sexy.
Talking and emotions are for women and children only
Remember guys, ignore what they say.... watch what they do
And I can't stand women that wanna control men. American women are the biggest turnoff.
Women don’t know what’s sexy.
They literally only want men
who don’t give a shit about them.
True. But how are you supposed to have a calm cool conversation with a woman if you don't even get the chance to start one? Living in a rural area with only 1 small town half an hour away. I've tried sparking up conversations in public usually ignored or parmed off. I've been on online dating and every message I've sent is ignored. I'm a handsome looking fella so I'm told with an athletic physique but only 5"8 I'm told by female friends I'm to short! Which I refuse to believe. But besides that I'm confident and couldn't care less to be honest but I'm just confused as women are humans just like us men why can't these women here just be civil and talk like grownups without thinking your hitting on them or something? It's really off putting.
Been working on this theme for the last few videos, just another idea of his to churn out more videos, 4 years of these videos and he does repeat himself often, sometimes a new idea but really new ideas for videos more than anything. All he's really saying is set the right tone and give the right vibes that she'll like, childish and emotional, women are just like that.
My problem is im terrified of coming across as boring and I try to speak fast and it comes across as totally crazy , I know this but my mouth hijacks my brain . thanks for pointing out what I already knew but I NEEDED SOMEONE ELSE TO POINT IT OUT.
All i know is that you have to be yourself and be good looking. If you put on a facade long enough the woman will find out and you're done for.
So working on yourself is putting on a facade ? Why are men so against working on themselves and improving themselves? What a turnoff it is when a man refuses to change and improve himself for the BETTER.
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322Most women think that it is empowering to strive for the opposite of what men find attractive- being masculine, trying to act tough, etc. So I see this as men just returning the favor. It was going to happen eventually.
Nope. Men don't have to change for you. Happiness is reality - expectations. Putting on a show only lasts so long. You either hit it off or you don't. Girls and boys will act. Men and women will do what's right.@@gabrielamartiniuc6322
STFup and relax is the biggest self-reminder for success really. Along with, never think about sex.
Yeah i can relate to that " your soo funny but i aint even trying to be funny. Just sharing my observational vibes of the world today...iykyk...
I'm comfortable in my own skin and confident talking to women. My problem is actually getting the chance to actually talk to them? If i approach in public I'm usually ignored or given the impression what I'm doing is creepy. On line dating sites I'm ignored when I message lady's. I live in a rural area the closest town 30km away with not a huge crowd to pick from. So I suppose my question is how can you talk to lady's when you can't even get a response to a simple hello?
I think 'geography' does play a part ! I live in a city of 270/300,000 people, industrial. Up till the 2000's it had quite a good mix of people, but in recent years the place has 'deteriorated', the place has become more 'trashy' with the better types of people in general moving away. So there is a very slim chance of me seeing the type of woman that i like. It's sad really to see this sort of change. I'm in the UK/England, and many other cities are becoming like this.
i just feel like being too calm and nonchalant will bore the woman. talking about long term. one night stand i totally understand these points. i’m 21 so the women im dating are still younger so i see how this can work for older women.
They gravitate towards me.
I really really really try to disagree with you man. And I really really really can not make an argument that doesn't end up with you being right.
Thank you for your words brother man
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs
This recent Casey trend of saying that being goofy and funny is bad is absolutely L take. He even go out? Overjoyed, weirdos, funny and over the top guys have much more results (at least where a live) than stoic guys trying to act like James Bond or Peak Blinders
@@CaseyZander You can be funny, but also mature and socially calibrated
@@CaseyZanderyou know that what you say matters more than all of the other stuff you mentioned at the end of the day, right?
The funny thing is that it contradicts his older videos lmao
Yes being a fun corn ball gets you in the disposable toy category congratulations.
@youhatelogic thanks for your common sense. Women are much more attracted to the emotional intelligence and thinking patterns of someone who’s able to be non reactive, not someone who is overly spontaneous and has no real direction
Do not alter your fundamental core masculine character when communicating with women...... How you communicate or what you say and how you say it, is often actually even more important than your physical appearance or how you look.
There’s a sad reality that a lot of guys are going to have to wrap their head around and be comfortable with and it’s that you always have to think of yourself as better and above her. That’s how you stomp out the equality bs and all the feminine thinking that has put you at a disadvantage by being docile and accommodating and not being a man. A man centered in his own masculinity which requires being direct with your intentions which are often rooted in selfishness but will benefit her even if she doesn’t realize it at first.
Yes ! That is exactly what i have discovered from my own experience !
You're fuckn cool, Casey
I am quite goofy and out there and honestly the girls i am with love it and always seem stimulated by it then it stimulates them to be goofy and we just had a good time. I am generally a loud and high energy person and if i took this advice, I think my personality would be castrated.
It's who you are and it's genuine. It's for all the try hards and the people opposite to that who doesn't come off genuine that this applies to. Also you probably understand what kind of women your personality attracts. Most men have no clue who they are or what chicks even respond to their character. They're too busy trying to chase chicks who are polar opposites who they have 0 chances with because they're full of lust and have 0 self control.
I've flipped the script on my roster. Each one falling in line 1 by 1
Bro im tripping. I thought I was playing it cool but just re read my texts and I cringed at my own words. Holy fuck. Idk what to do other than to not reply for a couple days and let my brain calm down and try to save this.
To get the vibe of what women want, listen to Sade's "Smooth Operator"...
Women can't resist the suave, seductive type...center yourself, slow down...err on the side of being stone cold instead of high strung...
Casey you made a video that talked about how the more you try to communicate with a women the worse of you’ll be. Where can I find that video
Never ever go on a brunch date. Maybe if you've been dating for months but no dinner or lunch dates. No one is getting laid or sparking chemistry that way. Go out in nature or go do something fun!
i purposely sound slow and bored thru voice notes and they say they like my voice 🤷🏽♂️
Stupid but true.
@yup i dont make the rules
What ive come to (talking about 5:29) understand is that can all be turned around when you just “act natural” with everyone besides her meaning (you are holding frame probably smirking or smiling hell even laughing while speaking to your circle,other people)
Ive done this and honestly it made me look like a damn mystery
Like how come “he can do that with others but not me?” “What can or how can i get him to do abz” you must understand to not fold, ease up smirk but dont be no open 5 page book
Now you must understand that i wasnt laughing outloud or raising my tone like a goofball i was just chilling and enjoying my time while being there talking to other people besides the female i was interacting with at the time
I have unlearned so much in just last two videos.
Unlearning is the first step to learning, good attitude.
Lol sad that most guys are like this. This is why girls like guys that don't like them at all. Just scowling at everything they say
Not only that the female vocal tone is shown to have value bc others (males; bosses, teachers, professors) so they begin to add it.
Women aren't hard to figure out, what the problem is , is that it's hard to accept what you are seeing because it makes no sense whatsoever.
This is somewhat contradictory to what you said in one of your other podcasts where women are supposed to be sexually attracted to the extroverted and loud frat boy type. Im not saying that your wrong but women I guess can be attracted to different things based on their type.
hey man people call me funny or weird but I dont even try to be. Is it a good or bad thing? For me Im the most normal person in the world
I really don't understand i hot like two numbers last weekend totally into me and texting good first 2-3 messages then i suggested to meet up and they ghosted me completely like wtf
You need to text longer then 2-3 messages before asking to meet up
Like at least for a few days being casual
It may not have been anything you did wrong. Women have unlimited options through social media and dating apps. Ghosting is part of the game. I know it's frustrating but don't worry about it or be surprised. On to the next ones.
Think Clint Eastwood as the man with no name, the spaghetti western movies
3:28 it shows excitement, that he's not getting laid with women at her level of attraction, so hypergamy is dissatisfied.
Thought I was wheeling this hot blonde turns out I was not. Lot to learn but shit we starting
Did you have a few drinks before this one 🤣
No... no, his just drunk, that's all
Probably celebrated Trumps victory
@@HunkyMan777 niiiiice
Depends on your age too, I think. This is more like for men 30+
My mom sais this long time ago she said be more serious your too funny. And it wasnt about dating or girls. Shes like you look like a serious man behave like on.
Bill Burr watching this video:
"The fvck I'm not a comedian. Who the hell are you?"
Eh alot of entitled emotionally immature women nowadays. Gotta find the right one is all.
I swear in previous videos he told us to NOT be serious around women. That they find it boring. Now we're back to being serious again. Make up your mind Casey.
does it ever acceptable to cry in front of a woman?
maybe even out of happiness?
no, unless you want her to perceive you as beta (submissive/feminine) and lose all interest
If you’re an absolute Casanova with her, confident and calm letting yourself cry (but handling things) go for it but it’s a tightrope walk. If you’re genuinely destroyed and can’t handle yourself, do nothing - get calm and centred and let it out elsewhere 👍🏻
Do what you wanna do.
@@Majin33Fk em.
Is it ok to text a woman 3 times a week
This doesn't explain why a legit female would be attracted to a trans-woman (male). Not masculine to feminine polarity, not lesbian either. What's the dynamic going on there?
Yo, you could be as funny as fuck. Just do it with the dry delivery and don’t be goofy. Casey could actually be a little funnier and it would help him.
Could’ve used this video five years ago
All of these videos, trust me you wont remember any of this when you are actually in the field
Good point ! That happened to me the other day ! With a girl that i really like; it wasn't a complete failure, but afterwards i could 'remember' all the things i should have done ! ( that's why i try and practice on lots of girls that i'm not interested in, in the 'hope' that i can 'keep it together' when a girl comes along that i do like ! )
Guys with all seriousness american women are not the only women that exist. Make better choices stop blaming them just dont bother with em. They will soon get the memo. They are like kids, they have to grow up.
Is this really true, why do all the jacked good looking guys always win though?
Fake news. Ben Shapiro got married
lol! Very true, he did.
Who gives 2 flying fux what wahmen think or what turns them off...
Facts.
People who want to get laid
Corinthians 13:11 in action
Casey, I could swear a month ago you said to wear loud clothes and be loud and goofy to show you don't care and now you want us quiet and reserved. C'mon, man.
Casey isn't a funny guy so he wouldn't know the power of having a genuine sense of humor.
Something is wrong with your speaker
Watching a guy like this tell you about how life is couldn’t be more cringe. Go figure it out yourself. I can tell you right now that everyone’s experience is different.
Words = language?
Bro thought you said women like drama chaos and bums .
You are very observant, these last 3 videos are quite good. 11:13
You dont have to prove anything to anyone
you been drinking
My two biggest turn offs:
1) blames me for his decisions/doesn’t own them
2) not protecting me if I need it
💯🔥💯
Casey you made a video that talked about how the more you try to communicate with a women the worse of you’ll be. Where can I find that video