1leeg niam zoo los yog 1tug neeg zoo nws yeej tsis deev hluas ua dev ua npua ua ntej nrauj tu taw Koj yuam kev qhov koj hlub niag poj dab ntawv li koj txiv hais lawm. Thiab yog kom nws xaiv nej thiab nws tus hlub ces nws xum xaiv qau nawb. Ntuj aw ua tsis zoo nyob yog niag poj dab ntawv ho lam rov mus deev nws tus qub hlub yav puag thauv mas kuv nkag siab yam nws dag koj kawg viv ncaus . Tab sis niag poj dab ntawv nws twb xum tso nej tag nrho tseg ces mus caum dua lwm rab qau lawm xwb cas koj thiaj tseem tsis pom tias nej twb tawm ntawm koj txov los thiab yog nws tsis hlub koj txiv nws yuav ua cas hlub tau nej naw. Vam thiab cia siab tias koj yuav tsis mus ua lub neej deev hluas li koj niam es tua koj tus txiv tuag nyoos li koj txiv nawb
That stepmother is a head case and a manipulator! She's such a jealous and needy person----she never truly cared about you kids...she just wanted to win against your mom by faking niceness as you finally found out when you confronted her about her lies! Yes, your father was hurt by your mom's betrayal, but that doesn't give him and your stepmother the right to alienate you kids from your mom. No need to apologize to that "wolf in sheep's clothing" stepmother because she's in the wrong, not you. If your father continues to act with such unreasonable hatred, you don't need him in your life, nor should you let your children be exposed to such toxicity and hatred from your father and stepmother.
Niag ntxhais khaus pim tuag e koj niam yog tus deev qau tsuj koj txiv tob hau na ua cas koj yuav hais tau tias tsis muaj koj niam es muaj tus los sawv cev ntawm qhov ncaws naw Oh.... Cas koj phim mag ncaws ua luaj Coj li koj thiab koj niam neb ces thov kom txhob yug ntxhais ntxiv nawb neb phem dhau lawm tsis zoo muaj noob toj
Wow, you are super lucky to have a step mom loves you that much. You don’t have to pick one over the other. you both are at fault but you’re at fault more. You started at first for not accepting her that’s why she fights so hard. I am not a step mother, but I grew up with stepfather. His loves to me is free and I appreciated every little thing he did for me. Without him, I don’t even have a dad. Your stepmom was hurt when you dis-appreciated her loves that’s why her poj dab came out. She’s a human being so she has feelings as well. No one can replace your mom but she’s the one that makes your dab happy so respect her. Having two moms is better than none. Your mom loves you because you are her own daughter. A stepmother loves like yours is free loves that she’s not even has to do that much but she did it out of her heart. You can do better than that by being the bridge to connect both your mom and stepmom. If they both love you, they will understand your needs.
Love can never be bought. Why not share the love instead of hogging it. The more love the merrier. Even though your mom left your dad, she was honest about it, and still want to be there for you. Your stepmom tried hard to become your mom but no one can replace your real mom. I don't blame you because you're just a kid growing up in a broken home and didn't know any better. Your dad and stepmom should have been better parents. Now that you have your own family, love all who comes in contact with you. Good luck!
She tried to be your mom and over stepped here and there but at the same time she did try to be a good mom to you and you were kind of rude…just because she didn’t birth you, you automatically tried to put her in her place and put up that wall towards her letting her know that no matter what she wasn’t your mom. Even after that, because of your dad she still tried to be good to you. You might feel that you did nothing wrong but you weren’t that great of a step daughter either.
Only 16 mins in and I can tell you don't respect your step mom at all. The reason why your mom bf come over when you are there is because he don't want you guys. He could at least try to get to know you guys
I just have to comment because I was waiting for some typical horrible abusive drama, but nope. With all due respect, divorce is such a tragic loss for the children and no one can ever repair such pain and sadness. Woman listen up! You are a spoil and terrible step daughter. Sounds like you can only sympathize for your mom but not your dad. Hmong people always accept more love(xyeej tsawg xwb tsis xyeej coob) You have love from all 3 parents, but you consistently rejected your step mom. You dont deserve any of it. Stubborn like your mom, you will probably not realize your wrong doing, and you will always blame others for your misery. I actually feel bad for all 3 parents more than feeling bad for you. Hope you feel some relief by telling your story and someday have the courage to make things right with your dad.
The bond between a child and their birth mother is uniquely special. It appears your father and stepmother deprived you and your siblings of experiencing that maternal connection unless your mother was unwilling or unable to be part of your lives herself. By restricting access to your mother, they may have overstepped appropriate boundaries regarding your right to that relationship.
You owe your dad and step mom a sincere apology. You must have not listened to enough Hmong stories to see how fortunate you are to have a loving step mom. - this is just adding on to everyone else’s comments bout how you should be fair to both mothers etc..
I get that you love your mom but your mom chose to leave your dad because she wasn’t happy. You did not need to keep stabbing at your step mom especially at the wedding by saying she can’t replace your mom. That was unnecessary. But she and your dad shouldn’t have forbid your mom from attending your wedding, that was something she could’ve and should’ve been at
I understand why you feel the way you feel. Your MIL is showing financial love for you and your siblings but her mouth of hateful speech about your mother is beyond what is needed to be said.
I understand your reason my step mother is also the same only good for show. As we grow older she tries to use us for money and especially my brother she uses him and my Nyab all the time. But when it comes to her kids she says she’ll take care of everything .. smh
No one will beat the real birth mom with the kids. So stepmom, don’t try too hard because the kids will never value you! However, most mom will love her children unconditionally, but with Hmong moms, when they remarried, they can forget their children.
Daughter in the story. You don't owe them an apology. Respect and love go both ways. Seem like your stepmother is a loving person only if you cut tie with your mom. That's not love. That's a manipulative controlling person. The broken relationship between your parents is only between your father and mother. Your mom can be whatever, and she has the right to find her happiness. Yes, she was the person who broke your family, but that doesn’t give your stepmother the right to hate her and to criticize her. If she is a perfect woman, her ex-husband won't have cheated, too.
you should have loved and respect both mothers. Do understand that its normal for parents to hate each others when theres a broken family like yours. The parent that causes the family to be separated will get the most hated by everyone but you stood by your real moms side thats why your father and step mom got jealous . Your step mom isnt your mom but she was there for you the most so you need to respect her. You have been a rebellion daughter to your father and step mom so when your step mom got really mad and told you to repaid her was probably she have had it of your disrespect.
I understand your feeling toward your stepmom, you have done so much to hurt your stepmom and she still love you patiently, so I recommend you to change and appreciate both sides. Change for you and your dad’s happiness. I understand it’s not easy to be a stepmom or both of you but be respectful for both of your mom and stepmom to avoid stress or issues.
Listening to this story, I understand why this girl is the way she is. This step mom should never talk down on the mom no matter what. She doesn’t know the whole story and bashing their mom like that, is not good. This is why she felt like she had to defend her mom. I don’t blame for treating the step mom the way she does. As for hmoob people, txawm tim tus txiv los tus mom yeej mag cem. Whatever happened in the marriage, you as the step mom, you should stay out and never talk bad about the ex. This man is not a good dad either, Maybe there’s a reason why the wife did what she did. There’s two sides to every story.
Nej cov mi nyuam hmoob no mas tsis paub tswj nej lub siab es hlub 1 tug ces muab 1 tug txiav kiag..yuav tsum tswj koj lub siab hlub 2 leeg pob qhov no yog 1 qho zoo.
What a horrible step mother. This mother is a master narcissist. She knows how to manipulate people to think she’s a good person, and prob play the victim when it’s in her favor. Scary people like this exist in the world. 😱
The problem with this stepmom is that she started off wrong by insulting the children’s birth mom and then tried to replace their mother. Their mom is not dead. She’s still alive and still plays a huge part in their lives. The stepmom definitely overstepped her boundaries. On the other hand, the daughter is also unappreciative and disrespectful toward the stepmom even when she has done much for her and her siblings. So they are all at fault starting with the dad. Leej txiv los tsis txawj ua txiv. Leej niam tshiab los tsis txawj ua niam. Ntxhais los tsis txawj ua ntxhais. So the ultimate lesson here is, learn to let go of bitterness, know your role, know your boundaries and appreciate what you have and count your blessings to live your best life.
Even though she’s your 2nd mom, you should at least respect her but you shouldn’t deny her unless she abuse you and your siblings!! We know you love your mom but she thought you would understand so she thought she would have a mutual conversations with you!! Sometimes it’s hard to accept the truth what your mom did to your dad!! Aren’t you hurt that your dad is hurt?!?! A good mom wouldn’t cheat unless her man don’t respect her and treat her like she’s nothing! But your dad is a good dad & your mom ruined her own life by loving another man and she also left you guys too! My brothers ex wife left her two kids and prefer her bf more than my nephew and niece! Once a women leaves to another man, she killed her kids and her husband!! You don’t know how bad someone hurt you until it’s happen to you!! 😢😮❤🎉
I have a step daughter like you who don't appreciate me for stepping into the motherly role and opening up to love n care. You obviously don't understand and know how hard a step mother tries to love kids who are not their own. Yes, nobody can replace your birth mom, but according to your story, seems like your real mom hasn't done half as much as your new step mom has for you and your siblings. Have you ever thought that people like you don't deserve a mother's love the way you act?
Koj niam muaj lub neej lo yog hluas nraug lawm...koj niam tsis kam muab txoj sia rau nej lawm nawb....koj niam txawm kam lo koj niam tu hlub tsis kam os
Koj niam twb mu lawm koj ua phem li koj rau koj nia yau ma koj coj tsi yog lawm yuav tau hlub yu niam yau thiab vim yus txiv twb yuav nw lawm tsi yog tia koj hlub niam yau e txawm yuav tsi hlub koj niam yus koj lo koj hlub koj niam yau lo koj hlub thiaj li ncaj ncee
I don't understand why you guys are bashing the daughter???? The stepmom and dad are the ones who started bashing the mom from the beginning. And then they restricted the kids from seeing the mom. No matter what the mom did, she has the right to maintain a relationship with the kids. No parent wants to leave their kids!! The stepmom and dad never said anything kind or respectful about the mom. They brainwashed the kids. Part of co-parenting, there needs to be respect both ways. Don't talk trash about the parent to the kids. It's not their fault for the failed marriage. All they want is their love. Poor girl, she's caught in between toxic people 😕
Mloog li cov lus tham no tim tus ntxhais tsis txawj coj rau 2 tug niam xwb, yus yog me nyuam lawm txawm yog niam yug thiab niam tshiab los yuav tau coj zoo rau nkawv ib yam.
Your step mom could only hold in so much until she couldnt anymore. I don’t think it was right for your step mom to hold you back from loving your mom but also i genuinely think your step mom just tried to love you guys.
I believe that everyone is trying their best to be the best parents but they should never say things that are disrespected the other parents.. the step mom should never come with a disrespect on the first place that why the daughter had some kind of way to her stepmom.
Sister it amaze me how many hateful comments there are of you. It goes to show how people only love if the other person/s love them back. That’s not love at all. You were right in loving your mom despite her flaws. Your second mom was no saint. She talked bad about your mom and her so called love had ulterior motives. Sorry that you were put in the middle of all this. A good parent would never make their child choose which parent to love. I hope you learned a good lesson in this. Never take a one sided story. If you want to know the truth, go directly to that person and find out for yourself.
Yg koj txiv g hlub koj niam tsim koj niam kj thiaj tsim nyog ua li ko rau koj niam tshiab tabsis yg kj niam yeej g hlub koj txiv thaum pib los lm twb tham hluas nraug li ntawv kj txiv thiaj yuav g taus kj niam na kj muaj hmoo kg nej thiaj tau tus niam ntawv na yg nws cem nej ua phem rau nej mas koj ua phem rau nws los tau mas hlub nws nawb kj xav kom kj txiv kaj siab ces kj yuav tau ua zoo thiab Koj niam yeej hlub nej mas vim nws yug nej ne tabsis yg koj niam hlub nej tiag kj niam yeej uv nrog nej nyb hlub nej lm na yeej g tham hluas nraug li ntawv o qhov nws hlub nej thiab mas tsam lwm hnub nws ho yuav vam nej hlub nws thiab xwb na kom kj to taub li ntawv
Your mom will always be your mom no matter what but you have to balance your love for both. Sounds like deep down you dislike your stepmom. She is trying her best to support y’all because of her love for your dad. You should be grateful. Nws cem cem koj hais hais koj tag los nws twb hlub2 koj. Your step mom tsis txawj hais lus xwb but hauv nws lub siab yeej hlub nej.
Yes the OG are wrong to keep you away from your birth mother but your also wrong to do that to your step mother. Even if she doesn’t truly love you, she did a lot for your ungrateful self. I’m grateful to have a step mother who loves me more then my real one but that doesn’t mean I treat them both differently.
In life, we cannot predict the future and the presence. Just be good and do good fairly without any judgement with any parties. Just be neutral and learn to balance. Love and respect everyone as you should just as you would want love and respect in return. Life is not meant to be perfect. You just have to have a perfect heart and mind. Things happened for a reason.
Koj g sawm zoo os tus twg hlub koj ces koj yuav tau hlub luag thiab luag hlub koj npaum cas los koj g hlub luag es luag pab hlub koj los zoo li g muaj nqis ces luag chim xwb tus niam poj hmoob
You are those hater kids that just hate the step mom or step dad no matter they try to be nice to you. If you love Your Dad, then you have to respect your step mom. Same for your mom as well. You are just the kids, if you don't respect your step, parents, it means you are not a good kid.
You chose money over your mom. Don’t try to redeem yourself. You should have stood up for your mom during your wedding but no, you wanted a beautiful wedding paid by your new stepmom over the presence of your mom.
This story is actually told from the stepmother from her prospective of how she view the point of view of her stepdaughter. She felt her stepdaughter was very ungrateful towards her love. But regardless, if the biological mother loved her that much, she wouldn’t go cheating and put her kids through hell through her inability to keep her pants on.
Tus pój niam zoo li nej niam tshiab ko mas thiaj yog cov neeg siab phem tshaj Yus niam yug yus thiaj hlub yus xwb Txhob cia siab rau tus sab nrauj Muaj ib hom poj niam mas nws cuab ntse kawg tiam sis hauv nws siab lim hiam tshaj
Your dad and step mom are in the wrong for trying to keep you guys away from your bio mom and talk down on her. You guys are so lucky that your mom still wants to be involved in your life. You’re right, your parents cannot be replaced. Listening to your story makes me so sad that your parents are putting you in the position to guilt you. Sending you hugs from someone with divorced parents.
Kuv xav mas tsawg tus niam tshiab thiaj li coj zoo li tus niam tshiab no xwb mas, peb li peb niam tshiab siab2 phem txeeb txhua yam,cas ho tsis tau ib leej niam tshiab siab zoo no los ua peb niam ne
if you look deeper into all this, this is what they mean when your they say your real mom will cause trouble in your life. she is the element that stirs all the negativity. i know it sounds bad, but you have to separate from the root of it. the root is not your step mom, its your mom. i can see that you even started to hate your husband’s mom when she talks about your real mom… i can only imagine how bad it may get if your husband disagrees with your real mother.
Kuv yog niam tshiab thiab tabsis kuv yeej tsis nrog kuv tus husband tus ex ua rog li os kuv husband mob mob los nws twb tseem tuaj saib tim hospital tib sis as..txhob ua yeeb ncuab thiaj tsis tau chaw ti os peb cov me niam tshiab os es coj kom dav os mog..😊
Girl.. your dad has every right to be mad at your mom. But he shouldn’t tell yall to hate her. And your step moms have no rights to talk bad about your mom to you. But you’re also wrong for how you act towards her. She may not be your birth mom but shes married to your dad so it is also her duty to look after you and your siblings. If anything happens to yall.. that would look bad on her since she is your dad’s wife. You should be happy your dad found love again.
You need to accept your stepmom. She accepts you guys but you guys won’t accept her so you’re at fault on that. On her part she needs to allow you guys to visit your mom too.
I’m not sure what you’re trying to justify in this story but you are not a good step daughter. You’re one of the lucky one who received so much loves from your step mom but you don’t deserve her love. Even if you pick your mom over her, you should’ve accepted your step mom. She is indeed a lovely mom. I bet if it was your birth mom, you wouldn’t have a beautiful wedding. You need to listen to more step mom and step children stories to realize how grateful you and your siblings are. I feel sorry for your step mom, she does not need to poured her money on you to accept her as a mom
I’m a stepmom, myself. There are things that your stepmom said that I would never say. I’m not sure if you are telling the whole story… but you misunderstand, if my husband’s kids were disrespectful like you, I would have nothing to do with them too. I’m not here to win any kids over, I’m here to support and love my husband. If I have a great relationship with them, that’s great but if we don’t, that’s okay too. As long as my husband and I are good then the kids can do what they want. Kids grow up and move away. You should at least try to get along with your stepmom. She was in the wrong for trying to talk bad about your mom to you, but you were in the wrong for disrespecting her.
1. Your mom should have gotten shared custody through the courts 2. Your stepmom and dad are wrong for keeping you and your siblings from your mom 3. Always listen to your gut
Aib pog koj tu2 siab ces koj khua tig mus tu siab tshaj plaws rau koj niam nawb vim koj niam khaus pim xav tau ntau qab ne
Koj ntshai koj niam tu siab koj tsis pom koj txiv txoj kev tu siab. Koj yog lub nceb lwj li koj niam tuaj ze ntawm koj niam tib tug taws lwj kawg
Xav kom koj txiv thiab niam tshiab tuaj mloog koj zaj no aib pog ruam
1leeg niam zoo los yog 1tug neeg zoo nws yeej tsis deev hluas ua dev ua npua ua ntej nrauj tu taw
Koj yuam kev qhov koj hlub niag poj dab ntawv li koj txiv hais lawm. Thiab yog kom nws xaiv nej thiab nws tus hlub ces nws xum xaiv qau nawb. Ntuj aw ua tsis zoo nyob yog niag poj dab ntawv ho lam rov mus deev nws tus qub hlub yav puag thauv mas kuv nkag siab yam nws dag koj kawg viv ncaus . Tab sis niag poj dab ntawv nws twb xum tso nej tag nrho tseg ces mus caum dua lwm rab qau lawm xwb cas koj thiaj tseem tsis pom tias nej twb tawm ntawm koj txov los thiab yog nws tsis hlub koj txiv nws yuav ua cas hlub tau nej naw.
Vam thiab cia siab tias koj yuav tsis mus ua lub neej deev hluas li koj niam es tua koj tus txiv tuag nyoos li koj txiv nawb
Tim koj niam ua siab phem tso nej tseg yam tsis muaj nqis koj txiv thiaj yuav poj niam dua xwb
Mus hais qhia koj niam pab tias koj tu siab nawb pog ruam
That stepmother is a head case and a manipulator! She's such a jealous and needy person----she never truly cared about you kids...she just wanted to win against your mom by faking niceness as you finally found out when you confronted her about her lies! Yes, your father was hurt by your mom's betrayal, but that doesn't give him and your stepmother the right to alienate you kids from your mom. No need to apologize to that "wolf in sheep's clothing" stepmother because she's in the wrong, not you. If your father continues to act with such unreasonable hatred, you don't need him in your life, nor should you let your children be exposed to such toxicity and hatred from your father and stepmother.
Pab hlub koj tus txiv dhau lawm os cas koj tseem yug tau 1tug me nyuam lawm thiab os aib pog ruam
Yes update is a good thing.
Lucky to have that stepmom.
Niag ntxhais khaus pim tuag e koj niam yog tus deev qau tsuj koj txiv tob hau na ua cas koj yuav hais tau tias tsis muaj koj niam es muaj tus los sawv cev ntawm qhov ncaws naw
Oh.... Cas koj phim mag ncaws ua luaj
Coj li koj thiab koj niam neb ces thov kom txhob yug ntxhais ntxiv nawb neb phem dhau lawm tsis zoo muaj noob toj
Yuav tau hloov hlub koj niam tshiab nawj.
Koj tuaj piav ces koj tsuas hais koj qhov zoo koj hais qhov phem thiab piav luag qhov phem xwb.
Pab koj txaj muag niag maum dev koj ua tau ntxim ntxub dhau lawm . Ua zoo rau cov niag me nyuam siab lim.hiam li koj ces xum muab nyiaj pov qhov ntuj zoo mloog dua .
Cas koj tsis txaj muag koj tseem kab coj tuaj hais thiab
Tsis txhob tu siab vim Koj yog Tus txhais phem heev lawv mloog ces paub tias koj phem heev li
Raws li mloog mas tus leej niam tshiab no yeej zoo thiab hlub nej kawg niag txhais no nkaug heev
You may love both mothers. Your mom & the new mom.
Wow, you are super lucky to have a step mom loves you that much. You don’t have to pick one over the other. you both are at fault but you’re at fault more. You started at first for not accepting her that’s why she fights so hard. I am not a step mother, but I grew up with stepfather. His loves to me is free and I appreciated every little thing he did for me. Without him, I don’t even have a dad. Your stepmom was hurt when you dis-appreciated her loves that’s why her poj dab came out. She’s a human being so she has feelings as well. No one can replace your mom but she’s the one that makes your dab happy so respect her. Having two moms is better than none. Your mom loves you because you are her own daughter. A stepmother loves like yours is free loves that she’s not even has to do that much but she did it out of her heart. You can do better than that by being the bridge to connect both your mom and stepmom. If they both love you, they will understand your needs.
I like to hear the stepmom’s side of the story.
Love can never be bought. Why not share the love instead of hogging it. The more love the merrier. Even though your mom left your dad, she was honest about it, and still want to be there for you. Your stepmom tried hard to become your mom but no one can replace your real mom. I don't blame you because you're just a kid growing up in a broken home and didn't know any better. Your dad and stepmom should have been better parents. Now that you have your own family, love all who comes in contact with you. Good luck!
She tried to be your mom and over stepped here and there but at the same time she did try to be a good mom to you and you were kind of rude…just because she didn’t birth you, you automatically tried to put her in her place and put up that wall towards her letting her know that no matter what she wasn’t your mom. Even after that, because of your dad she still tried to be good to you. You might feel that you did nothing wrong but you weren’t that great of a step daughter either.
Only 16 mins in and I can tell you don't respect your step mom at all. The reason why your mom bf come over when you are there is because he don't want you guys. He could at least try to get to know you guys
Koj yog tus me nyuam txawj xav thiab nkag siab tej laus
You don’t need their fake love
Niam liam ces feem ntau ntxhais yeej liam li niam.
Don't be salty though. Your Step Mom does seem like a loving and giving person. 😊
I just have to comment because I was waiting for some typical horrible abusive drama, but nope. With all due respect, divorce is such a tragic loss for the children and no one can ever repair such pain and sadness. Woman listen up! You are a spoil and terrible step daughter. Sounds like you can only sympathize for your mom but not your dad. Hmong people always accept more love(xyeej tsawg xwb tsis xyeej coob) You have love from all 3 parents, but you consistently rejected your step mom. You dont deserve any of it. Stubborn like your mom, you will probably not realize your wrong doing, and you will always blame others for your misery. I actually feel bad for all 3 parents more than feeling bad for you. Hope you feel some relief by telling your story and someday have the courage to make things right with your dad.
The bond between a child and their birth mother is uniquely special. It appears your father and stepmother deprived you and your siblings of experiencing that maternal connection unless your mother was unwilling or unable to be part of your lives herself. By restricting access to your mother, they may have overstepped appropriate boundaries regarding your right to that relationship.
Koj yuav tau thim xav hlub koj niam tshiab hlub yog koj txawj hlub mas koj tau 2 leej niam zoo
Paj Nyiag, koj Liam li koj niam kiag!
You owe your dad and step mom a sincere apology. You must have not listened to enough Hmong stories to see how fortunate you are to have a loving step mom. - this is just adding on to everyone else’s comments bout how you should be fair to both mothers etc..
I get that you love your mom but your mom chose to leave your dad because she wasn’t happy. You did not need to keep stabbing at your step mom especially at the wedding by saying she can’t replace your mom. That was unnecessary. But she and your dad shouldn’t have forbid your mom from attending your wedding, that was something she could’ve and should’ve been at
Es koj tus tus siab Cas koj ho tsis hais kom tau koj niam hlub hlub koj txiv koj tsis hais kom koj niam be faithful for your dad.
Niam tshiab yeej ua zoo lm tim koj xwb
I understand why you feel the way you feel. Your MIL is showing financial love for you and your siblings but her mouth of hateful speech about your mother is beyond what is needed to be said.
I understand your reason my step mother is also the same only good for show. As we grow older she tries to use us for money and especially my brother she uses him and my Nyab all the time. But when it comes to her kids she says she’ll take care of everything .. smh
No one will beat the real birth mom with the kids. So stepmom, don’t try too hard because the kids will never value you! However, most mom will love her children unconditionally, but with Hmong moms, when they remarried, they can forget their children.
Los ua tshiab ces yeej yuav tau Hu ua niam..ua niam tshiab mas tsis yooj yim kiag
Daughter in the story. You don't owe them an apology. Respect and love go both ways. Seem like your stepmother is a loving person only if you cut tie with your mom. That's not love. That's a manipulative controlling person. The broken relationship between your parents is only between your father and mother. Your mom can be whatever, and she has the right to find her happiness. Yes, she was the person who broke your family, but that doesn’t give your stepmother the right to hate her and to criticize her. If she is a perfect woman, her ex-husband won't have cheated, too.
Wow, no one will understand how hard it's to be a stepmom till ur in their shoes....
you should have loved and respect both mothers. Do understand that its normal for parents to hate each others when theres a broken family like yours. The parent that causes the family to be separated will get the most hated by everyone but you stood by your real moms side thats why your father and step mom got jealous . Your step mom isnt your mom but she was there for you the most so you need to respect her. You have been a rebellion daughter to your father and step mom so when your step mom got really mad and told you to repaid her was probably she have had it of your disrespect.
Let’s hope you don’t follow your mother’s footsteps if you never appreciate your step mom’s love. Don’t play blind.
I understand your feeling toward your stepmom, you have done so much to hurt your stepmom and she still love you patiently, so I recommend you to change and appreciate both sides. Change for you and your dad’s happiness. I understand it’s not easy to be a stepmom or both of you but be respectful for both of your mom and stepmom to avoid stress or issues.
Listening to this story, I understand why this girl is the way she is. This step mom should never talk down on the mom no matter what. She doesn’t know the whole story and bashing their mom like that, is not good.
This is why she felt like she had to defend her mom. I don’t blame for treating the step mom the way she does.
As for hmoob people, txawm tim tus txiv los tus mom yeej mag cem.
Whatever happened in the marriage, you as the step mom, you should stay out and never talk bad about the ex.
This man is not a good dad either,
Maybe there’s a reason why the wife did what she did. There’s two sides to every story.
Tus tsi yug yus ces yeej yv pom qhov phem tawm lo xb2 mas txhb cia siab rau tus sab nrauv lo ua niam tshiab
Koj liam li koj niam yus koj ntag ..koj thiaj li tsi pom koj niam tshiab kev hlub koj yog poj laib ntxim ntxub xwb os kuv noog koj zaj no ce kuv ntxub koj xwb os
This step kid is horrible! To this step mom, don't waste your time, money, and love for those step children.
You are in the wrong girl!. You should be lucky to have step mom love you this much.
mloog mas ntxim koj yog ib tug ntxhais phem heev li yog koj niam hlub koj tiag ces koj niam yeej coj nej nrog nws mas
Koj yoog koj niam koj thiaj tsis paub nco koj niam tshiab txiaj ntsig. Yog koj niam nyob ces koj yeej tsis tau lub tshoob zoo li ko. Koj niam tshiab hlub koj npaum ko koj twb tsis tau nws ua niam no ces koj yeej dhau lawm.
Nej cov mi nyuam hmoob no mas tsis paub tswj nej lub siab es hlub 1 tug ces muab 1 tug txiav kiag..yuav tsum tswj koj lub siab hlub 2 leeg pob qhov no yog 1 qho zoo.
What a horrible step mother. This mother is a master narcissist. She knows how to manipulate people to think she’s a good person, and prob play the victim when it’s in her favor. Scary people like this exist in the world. 😱
The problem with this stepmom is that she started off wrong by insulting the children’s birth mom and then tried to replace their mother. Their mom is not dead. She’s still alive and still plays a huge part in their lives. The stepmom definitely overstepped her boundaries.
On the other hand, the daughter is also unappreciative and disrespectful toward the stepmom even when she has done much for her and her siblings.
So they are all at fault starting with the dad. Leej txiv los tsis txawj ua txiv. Leej niam tshiab los tsis txawj ua niam. Ntxhais los tsis txawj ua ntxhais. So the ultimate lesson here is, learn to let go of bitterness, know your role, know your boundaries and appreciate what you have and count your blessings to live your best life.
You don’t deserve each other
Even though she’s your 2nd mom, you should at least respect her but you shouldn’t deny her unless she abuse you and your siblings!! We know you love your mom but she thought you would understand so she thought she would have a mutual conversations with you!!
Sometimes it’s hard to accept the truth what your mom did to your dad!! Aren’t you hurt that your dad is hurt?!?! A good mom wouldn’t cheat unless her man don’t respect her and treat her like she’s nothing!
But your dad is a good dad & your mom ruined her own life by loving another man and she also left you guys too!
My brothers ex wife left her two kids and prefer her bf more than my nephew and niece! Once a women leaves to another man, she killed her kids and her husband!! You don’t know how bad someone hurt you until it’s happen to you!! 😢😮❤🎉
I have a step daughter like you who don't appreciate me for stepping into the motherly role and opening up to love n care. You obviously don't understand and know how hard a step mother tries to love kids who are not their own. Yes, nobody can replace your birth mom, but according to your story, seems like your real mom hasn't done half as much as your new step mom has for you and your siblings. Have you ever thought that people like you don't deserve a mother's love the way you act?
New parents should never talk shit about any ex .. that part ruined it for the kids
Koj niam muaj lub neej lo yog hluas nraug lawm...koj niam tsis kam muab txoj sia rau nej lawm nawb....koj niam txawm kam lo koj niam tu hlub tsis kam os
Koj ces yog ib tug ntxhais phem kuv twb pab koj txaj muag
Koj niam twb mu lawm koj ua phem li koj rau koj nia yau ma koj coj tsi yog lawm yuav tau hlub yu niam yau thiab vim yus txiv twb yuav nw lawm tsi yog tia koj hlub niam yau e txawm yuav tsi hlub koj niam yus koj lo koj hlub koj niam yau lo koj hlub thiaj li ncaj ncee
I don't understand why you guys are bashing the daughter???? The stepmom and dad are the ones who started bashing the mom from the beginning. And then they restricted the kids from seeing the mom. No matter what the mom did, she has the right to maintain a relationship with the kids. No parent wants to leave their kids!! The stepmom and dad never said anything kind or respectful about the mom. They brainwashed the kids. Part of co-parenting, there needs to be respect both ways. Don't talk trash about the parent to the kids. It's not their fault for the failed marriage. All they want is their love. Poor girl, she's caught in between toxic people 😕
Mloog li cov lus tham no tim tus ntxhais tsis txawj coj rau 2 tug niam xwb, yus yog me nyuam lawm txawm yog niam yug thiab niam tshiab los yuav tau coj zoo rau nkawv ib yam.
Raws li mloog zaj no mas niam tshiab yeej los ua ib leej niam zoo kawg li lawm, tab li zoo li tus ntxhais no yeej tsis lees txais niam tshiab txoj kev zoo li xwb. Qhov nej niam tuaj tos tsis tau nej mus nrog nej niam nyob vim niam tshiab thiab koj txiv nkawd yuav coj nej mus ua si ntawd koj yuav muab liam tsis tau rau niam tshiab ib leeg tej zaum twb yog koj txiv lub tswv yim xwb. Yog koj yog ib leeg ntxhais zoo zoo ces tsim nyog koj yuav tau hlub thiab hwm 2 leej niam ib yam nkaus mas thiaj yog naw. Koj muaj hmoo kawg koj thiaj tsis ntsib cov niam tshiab lim lim hiam tsis pub koj noj koj hnav li yam twg los ntshaw ntshaw siab quaj dhi xwb mas koj thiaj paub tias niam tshiab zoo li cas no. Koj mas twb yog muaj hmoo kawg li. Muaj tsawg tsawg tus niam tshiab thiaj zoo xwb nawv. Xav hnov koj txiv sab thiab
Your step mom could only hold in so much until she couldnt anymore. I don’t think it was right for your step mom to hold you back from loving your mom but also i genuinely think your step mom just tried to love you guys.
I believe that everyone is trying their best to be the best parents but they should never say things that are disrespected the other parents.. the step mom should never come with a disrespect on the first place that why the daughter had some kind of way to her stepmom.
Koj niam tsis yog neeg liam ces nws yeej tsis deev hluas nraug rau koj txiv ntsia ntsoov ib zaug. Liam dhau qhov liam lawm los koj tseem pheej lees nws ua koj niam yam koj txiv twb tsis kheev koj hu nws ua niam txawm nws yug koj kiag. Koj los yeej phem nkaus li koj niam thiab ces koj thiaj pheej ua teeb meem rau koj niam yug koj, koj niam tshiab, thiab koj txiv tib si.
Txawm nws ua zoo npaum cas lo yg yus niam lm nws yeej yog tus zoo tshaj lawm yus niam yug yus thj hlub yus niam tshiab xav tau kev hlub rau yav nws yv tuag es nws thj ua zoo rau cv menyuam kom lawv hlub nws thaum nws yuav tuag vim nws g muaj leej twg k nws,niam tshiab siab phem saib nws tus kheej zoo xb dag kom cov menyuam ntxub niam yug xb
U don't deserve to be loved. Ur new mom was good enough and tried her best proof love to you, blind never appreciated it.
Sister it amaze me how many hateful comments there are of you. It goes to show how people only love if the other person/s love them back. That’s not love at all. You were right in loving your mom despite her flaws. Your second mom was no saint. She talked bad about your mom and her so called love had ulterior motives. Sorry that you were put in the middle of all this. A good parent would never make their child choose which parent to love. I hope you learned a good lesson in this. Never take a one sided story. If you want to know the truth, go directly to that person and find out for yourself.
Yg koj txiv g hlub koj niam tsim koj niam kj thiaj tsim nyog ua li ko rau koj niam tshiab tabsis yg kj niam yeej g hlub koj txiv thaum pib los lm twb tham hluas nraug li ntawv kj txiv thiaj yuav g taus kj niam na kj muaj hmoo kg nej thiaj tau tus niam ntawv na yg nws cem nej ua phem rau nej mas koj ua phem rau nws los tau mas hlub nws nawb kj xav kom kj txiv kaj siab ces kj yuav tau ua zoo thiab
Koj niam yeej hlub nej mas vim nws yug nej ne tabsis yg koj niam hlub nej tiag kj niam yeej uv nrog nej nyb hlub nej lm na yeej g tham hluas nraug li ntawv o qhov nws hlub nej thiab mas tsam lwm hnub nws ho yuav vam nej hlub nws thiab xwb na kom kj to taub li ntawv
Txawm kuv yog koj tu niam pog lo kuv yeej ntshai koj thiab nawb vim koj leej niam tshiab koj twb tsis hwm li....niam pog yog niam pog tsis yog tu yug koj ces koj yeej tsis hwm ib yam thiab nawb...niam pog mas koj haj yam tsis hlub lau....tu neeg coj li koj nws tsuas hlub tu yug nws xwb
Your mom will always be your mom no matter what but you have to balance your love for both. Sounds like deep down you dislike your stepmom. She is trying her best to support y’all because of her love for your dad. You should be grateful. Nws cem cem koj hais hais koj tag los nws twb hlub2 koj. Your step mom tsis txawj hais lus xwb but hauv nws lub siab yeej hlub nej.
Ib leej tib neeg coj zoo coj siab zoo zoo tsis coj li koj tus poj Hmoob ko. Koj niam los liam. Koj niam tshiab los nim los txws koj ntxias koj. Ntuj aw yuav yug me nyuam es cas koj tsis mus npaj tua qaib rau koj noj naws yog koj xav xav noj qaib tua nas. Thov hlub fwm koj niam yug koj. Thov fwm niam tshiab thiab. Koj niam hais nyuag nyob li tsis kam mus tua qaib rau koj xwb koj txawm siv tus siab nrho pog vwm ruam tshaj ruam zoo li koj ces yug los xiam tiag koj nyob los nyhav av xwb.
Nej nyiag nim tawv tawv nyiag li ces ntshe yuav cia huab tais lauj.
One day you will follow your mother step.
The step mom waist her time and money on evil step kids
Yes the OG are wrong to keep you away from your birth mother but your also wrong to do that to your step mother. Even if she doesn’t truly love you, she did a lot for your ungrateful self.
I’m grateful to have a step mother who loves me more then my real one but that doesn’t mean I treat them both differently.
In life, we cannot predict the future and the presence. Just be good and do good fairly without any judgement with any parties. Just be neutral and learn to balance. Love and respect everyone as you should just as you would want love and respect in return. Life is not meant to be perfect. You just have to have a perfect heart and mind. Things happened for a reason.
Koj g sawm zoo os tus twg hlub koj ces koj yuav tau hlub luag thiab luag hlub koj npaum cas los koj g hlub luag es luag pab hlub koj los zoo li g muaj nqis ces luag chim xwb tus niam poj hmoob
You are those hater kids that just hate the step mom or step dad no matter they try to be nice to you. If you love Your Dad, then you have to respect your step mom. Same for your mom as well. You are just the kids, if you don't respect your step, parents, it means you are not a good kid.
To the daughter u have no right to hate ur step mom too......just being a child for both parents....
Step mom txawm yuav hlub npaum twg los tus ntxhais yeej tsis care step mom li nes
You chose money over your mom. Don’t try to redeem yourself. You should have stood up for your mom during your wedding but no, you wanted a beautiful wedding paid by your new stepmom over the presence of your mom.
This story is actually told from the stepmother from her prospective of how she view the point of view of her stepdaughter. She felt her stepdaughter was very ungrateful towards her love. But regardless, if the biological mother loved her that much, she wouldn’t go cheating and put her kids through hell through her inability to keep her pants on.
Tus pój niam zoo li nej niam tshiab ko mas thiaj yog cov neeg siab phem tshaj
Yus niam yug yus thiaj hlub yus xwb
Txhob cia siab rau tus sab nrauj
Muaj ib hom poj niam mas nws cuab ntse kawg tiam sis hauv nws siab lim hiam tshaj
You should talk to your mom first before believing anyone. Only your mom loves you unconditionally.
Your dad and step mom are in the wrong for trying to keep you guys away from your bio mom and talk down on her. You guys are so lucky that your mom still wants to be involved in your life. You’re right, your parents cannot be replaced. Listening to your story makes me so sad that your parents are putting you in the position to guilt you. Sending you hugs from someone with divorced parents.
Kuv xav mas tsawg tus niam tshiab thiaj li coj zoo li tus niam tshiab no xwb mas, peb li peb niam tshiab siab2 phem txeeb txhua yam,cas ho tsis tau ib leej niam tshiab siab zoo no los ua peb niam ne
This girl, she should know that her mom don't really love them if she did, she would have taken you all with her no matter what she did.
if you look deeper into all this, this is what they mean when your they say your real mom will cause trouble in your life. she is the element that stirs all the negativity. i know it sounds bad, but you have to separate from the root of it. the root is not your step mom, its your mom. i can see that you even started to hate your husband’s mom when she talks about your real mom… i can only imagine how bad it may get if your husband disagrees with your real mother.
Kuv yog niam tshiab thiab tabsis kuv yeej tsis nrog kuv tus husband tus ex ua rog li os kuv husband mob mob los nws twb tseem tuaj saib tim hospital tib sis as..txhob ua yeeb ncuab thiaj tsis tau chaw ti os peb cov me niam tshiab os es coj kom dav os mog..😊
Kv Pom tau tias kj tsis lees txais kj niam tshiab lub txiaj ntsig nws ua zoo rau kj hlub kj thiab yus yog ib leeg niam ua zoo yus yeej xav kom yus tej me nguam pom tig hlub yus thiab kj ua tsis yog lawm vim li cas kj tej viv ncaus nus yaus kj txiv nkawv ho tsis txiav ho txiav kj tib leeg xb muab xav duab
At least be happy for your dad. It's not your step mom's fault your mom is screw up.
Girl.. your dad has every right to be mad at your mom. But he shouldn’t tell yall to hate her. And your step moms have no rights to talk bad about your mom to you. But you’re also wrong for how you act towards her. She may not be your birth mom but shes married to your dad so it is also her duty to look after you and your siblings. If anything happens to yall.. that would look bad on her since she is your dad’s wife. You should be happy your dad found love again.
You need to accept your stepmom. She accepts you guys but you guys won’t accept her so you’re at fault on that. On her part she needs to allow you guys to visit your mom too.
I’m not sure what you’re trying to justify in this story but you are not a good step daughter. You’re one of the lucky one who received so much loves from your step mom but you don’t deserve her love. Even if you pick your mom over her, you should’ve accepted your step mom. She is indeed a lovely mom. I bet if it was your birth mom, you wouldn’t have a beautiful wedding. You need to listen to more step mom and step children stories to realize how grateful you and your siblings are. I feel sorry for your step mom, she does not need to poured her money on you to accept her as a mom
Nej niam tshiab ko muab nyiaj los nplog nej qhov muag
Tiam sis hauv lub siab mas dub kawg
Uacas tus poj mebcab no muaj xiv los thuam luag tej na. Nws los yeej yog mebcab ibyam.
No koj txhob chim rau koj step mom o. Koj ua tsis yog lawm o me ntxhai koj yuav tau Thov txim rau koj niam o.mloog koj cov story yog Tim koj niam lawm ov. Yog nws hlub koj tiag nws yeej tsis mus deev hlua nawb.
Mloog li pog no hai ma nws tsi nyiam nws niam tshiab xwb
I’m a stepmom, myself. There are things that your stepmom said that I would never say. I’m not sure if you are telling the whole story… but you misunderstand, if my husband’s kids were disrespectful like you, I would have nothing to do with them too. I’m not here to win any kids over, I’m here to support and love my husband. If I have a great relationship with them, that’s great but if we don’t, that’s okay too. As long as my husband and I are good then the kids can do what they want. Kids grow up and move away. You should at least try to get along with your stepmom. She was in the wrong for trying to talk bad about your mom to you, but you were in the wrong for disrespecting her.
1. Your mom should have gotten shared custody through the courts
2. Your stepmom and dad are wrong for keeping you and your siblings from your mom
3. Always listen to your gut