Staying Silent For 22 Years | Find A Way
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
- All of us have secrets but for some of us, our secrets are darker. This episode of Heart On My Sleeve, Liz bravely comes forward to share her past and dark secret. Her mental health was affected and it eventually drove her suicidal. Watch the video to know how she managed to get herself out of this pit-hole.
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Please don't cry, Liz. God has blessed you with a lovely baby, a caring husband, and the whole Titan family to support you. We all love you so much.❤️❤️❤️
You are so sweet wow i- just wow
How to handle negativities...? When i got 85+ my parents always said, you can get better you just didnt try to. And when i got 60 i got scolded, then when i- basically doing something and my parent just keep giving me negative after negative after negative... like the negativity word my parent said is just never stops... pls someone tell me how to avoid getting depressed by a negative word
@@clive... I really wanna help you but I am in kinda same situation,my parents are mostly the cause of my ruined mental health,Its really hard to find good people for u to talk to,Its really hard to love yourself,just remember something good will probably happen in your life,fighting!!!
@@ayeza_anaeya7474 thanks for that! I appreciate the fact you wanted to help. God bless you
Yeah pls don't cry I hope Liz parent understand her more
Liz parents should see this. This is how Liz felt in the past and hope her parents can understand her better
Like that also want die..lol....I born with hearing impairment gf left me bad eyesight in one eye and I born in a bankrupt family u not happy with your life right Liz can switch with me I won't jump down .....if like that also want jump down either u trying to seek attention and attract views or weak
@@shawnrock1997 im so sorry for what uve went through, but i dont think it’s nice to just invalidate her feelings like that? she’s alr brave enough to come out & talk about it even though she, as mentioned in the vid, is still learning to trust people. this is not a competition, so why not just support & help one another out instead of just comparing?
@@shawnrock1997 it’s not easy for her too
@@qqyyy5991 than u help me can
@@qqyyy5991 i give u my bank account number u donate me money can,
I love how this was uploaded right after one of the happiest day of her life. (It was her wedding day yesterday ) Its proof that anyone can overcome the troubles in their life and find happiness. 💫 wish you all the best liz
Aww 🥺
♡♡♡♡
@Olivia Yu same
Its fun to know that team titan isn't just a platform of fun its also a platform of cooling down emotion letting people know that it is not just you who went through stuff and there will be a light at the end of the tunnel and it depends on you where the light is strong or weak.
I mean look at Liz she did eventually made it out of the tunnel and it looks like her light is stronger and her sharing her story shows that there is an end of the tunnel "DON'T LOOSE HOPE"
Don't give up
There's always a meaning to life, find that meaning in life and carry on
All your loved ones will be here for you💖💗💞💓💕
I feel like i'm hated by everyone honestly. even my closest friends its like when im with them they dont really want me around at all. they leave me out of everything. even on my own birthday. I'm really thankful liz is talking about her struggles. Please dont cry, youre not the only one.❤️
Aww its ok u have ur amazing family
im sorry for your situation, there's always people who truly love and care about you ❤️ things will get better, have hope, stay strong... i love you 🥺💞💕
@[chaine fermee] i know how it feels to be bullied... you should tell someone about it, it will get better and remember no matter what they say about you, it isn't true, they are just jealous about how amazing you are ❤️ you are beautiful the way you are and i love you okay 🥺💞
Hi Sanaa :) thank you for sharing so vulnerably too ♡ you are so special my dear, meant for greater things than those who are against you. You are designed for a time such as this, set apart, called, a light , that shines brightly in darkness. Uncompromising, rooted, and flourishing, your best days are ahead Sanaa :) feel free to reach out , im on IG @freshbreadloaves or @leexinyi_van if u need to :)
Be greatly blessed!
@[chaine fermee] You are not weak my dear , and certainly you do not have to fight this. Daddy God is here for you, and He will be the one who will defend you in the mightiest way beyond what u can ever ask or imagine :) call upon His name, 'Abba, Daddy, help' , you will see that ur bullies will be surrounded by more angel armies than they. For they are more for you, than those against you :) im here on IG if u ever need @leexinyi_van or @freshbreadloaves :)
Upholding u in prayer, beloved one whom Jesus loves ♡ 😊
i swear to god seeing her cry makes me wanna shed tears too
Correct lahhh
i cried 😢 glad she's fine now. she's preety btw 🥰
I think I am in the same situation like Liz , I can't express my emotions actually I am searching for someone who will listen me without judging but there's no one I could find ....But this video was a hope for me ..
Thank you so much for this.....
Same
Same
Same
dont worry
only remember one thing
DO NOT GIVE UP
keep trying and I'll reach at the top of the mountain one day
@@jovannajose4468 thanks dear
For those people asking Liz to not cry...
I personally think that crying is good because the after feeling of it is really comforting...she cried, let her cry. She is expressing her feelings.
Love you Liz, and congratulations on your wedding!
I am also 14. But like Liz said it is a source of hope.
Are you secondary 2?
@@kennethlim7166 yep
@@kennethlim7166 Yes I am
I am 13.I feel like I cant really talk to my parents about anything
@valliammai hi, 👋🏼👋🏼😁😁
Liz is so strong.
*We love you Liz!!* 💪🔥💞
Next time I see a motivational vid, I'll send it to the friend in my life who looks troubled.
This is such an honest confession. These things do happen if your household is a forever busy one and most importantly if you have to change schools multiple times. I could really relate to each every event that was told here. For her it was her friend who helped her out, for me it was moving away from my friends (probably had built up some insecurities without knowing). It really takes time to heal and get control of yourself. Just keep going.
Sending virtual hugs to you Liz!
And thank you Ladies First!❤️❤️
Yes, I had mild depression since 3rd grade with the mind that “there’s no point of making new friends if I’m going to move anyways”
It got better once I started high school, but I went thru a deep depression in 2017. My fam never valued my opinions so I abandoned them twice & completely disconnected them from my life. It still hurts. I still deal with depression & anxiety. But idk where I would be if my S.O. wasn’t by my side.
@@Sarah-ul9ec Don't lose hope at all. It will be all fine over time. Sending loads of love!💫
I am actually going through this right now. I hv always been silent when i am around people that I'm not very close with. For example my sports teacher or like my friend's friend. I feel very shy and insecure everytime I'm alone outside like that.
So I think this video will make me express myself and don't be so afraid since I'm still 10 years old this year.
Thank you Ladies First.❤
It’s ok. If u can’t express urself to others, try expressing things to urself. Start writing diary maybe. I’ll give u this piece of advice for which pple call me crazy but that makes me feel good. Start talking to things 😅. It’s just like talking to people but the benefit is that things won’t judge u. Ya, u May also call me crazy now but that’s how I deal with it. Hope u find this helpful 😊
@@prajaktayadav4611 thank you. I might find this helpful sometime. Appreciate it.
Me too
Apologies this is way too long. but i hope u read it till the end.i was 12 when i had shifted 2 a new school n was bullied for almost 2 and a half years there. i had no friends in the school i had joined plus i was not in touch with my old school friends, my parents also couldn't help me with the negative emotions i was going through, infact they kept telling me that i was way too weak that i couldn't handle my emotions properly. my class teacher at that time also didn't pay much heed to my emotions n thought i wasn't bullied (when infact i was bullied severly for my body flaw), it was just a small problem. just like liz said i also had been through the same thing relating how i just collected my emotions in a trash bin, cuz i had no true friends in school, my old friends were'nt in touch with me my teachers n my parents were also of no help. soon when i turned 14 i had seeked help from a psychologist in school when i started showing signs of depression. a week later after meeting her, i was diagnosed of clinical depression n i need therapy from a psychiatrist. the classmates in my grade were later also informed by a few taechers about my mental health problem. that's how my journey towards self love had started. i went under therapy for a year, yet i took time to be 100% in my element even after i had stopped taking pills prescribed by my psychiatrist. overall, this experience was a blessing in disguise, tbh. i found friends in the school since a few teachers informed the entire class about what i was going through. i also learned that i can't b everyone's favourite girl. Some people will show me love, while others will despise me to extreme limits. what really matters is that i understand whom i should form a close realtion with n whom i should just give off the IDGAF attitude towards, which i had excellently achieved after being cured. my old school friends r my loving BFFs n also realised my parents couldn't help me cuz they also had their problems to deal with. they kept complaining that therapy was costing a lot, yet i was still thankful that they paid all costs for thearpy from time to time. i used to b very annoyed at whenever they used to complain cuz i knew they were quite financially stable, just the fact that each appointment was a bit high had upset them. but ,later as i had got better i realised yes the appointments did cost a bit high(according to my parents' earnings) but they were worth it. today i'm 16, almost 17.there r no more suicidal thoughts coming to me. i have good relationship with friends from both schools i had attended. plus i realised i was never weak because i could hold my emotions for more than two years n looked totally okay around everyone when i was dealing through a lot of pain. it's just that i'm emotionally stronger n a bit mature. music from little mix has also helped me maintain my self love n totally not just survive but be absolutely fine with bullying, body shaming etc.
thankyou for being strong.
You're so strong. I was bullied too not mentally but physically. Its not easy to talk about it because i felt nobody cares
OMG I feel so sad for you.
Never forget we are always there with you.
This young lady over here understands more things and is more mature than a lot of people who r even older than her. Kudos to you.
Like that also want die..lol....I born with hearing impairment gf left me bad eyesight in one eye and I born in a bankrupt family u not happy with your life right Liz can switch with me I won't jump down .....if like that also want jump down either u trying to seek attention and attract views or weak
@@shawnrock1997 she's not trying to attract attention LOL she's sharing her experience so that ppl facing the same problem as her won't feel like they're alone and the advice she give can help those ppl. one video doesn't say the whole story of what someone is going thru. just because u feel like you are in a worst situation in life doesn't mean u can place someone else's depression or suicidal thoughts lightly. hope u get better soon tho
so @Mr 420, can u kindly share to us what things she understood?
@@shawnrock1997 I mean... You're really judging too much. Did you know that a person could suicide even when their situation is not worse? The feeling that they're standing on kept on stacking. The higher it gets, the more you wanted to jump down. I know that you're hurted and all, it's really sad. Hope you get well soon.
Thankyou Liz for opening up to us... you are sooo brave and we do look up to you and support no matter what! love you Liz♥️🤗
We love you Liz❣️❣️Love from India to the whole Ladies First team😘😘
I am from India too!! Where r u from??
Hey me too where are you from ?
I'm so glad you guys are show casing this. It's very reassuring to many including me about my mental help. Love ya Liz we can all get through this together ♥️🐻💗
Well I have become an adult, a few months ago from today...like Yes I am 18 . This video really made me cry....I don't why but it really did ...at some point of time I also realised that what Liz was saying, happened with me too.....
I also want to be a better person ....and overcome all the situations like LIZ did... Yeah I will do it
liz, dont give up, you still have hope left inside of you! 😊
If you think that no one in the world cares then your wrong, there are a lot of ppl that cares about you, you can always trust them to tell them your problems.
LOVE YOURSELF GURL
Liz is so strong.. She is so brave that she share these.. Yes I can't see this because I am 13..Love u ❤di..
Suhanee!
you know how she said that one day, a whole avalanche of feelings will come if you bottle up your feelings? i am 12 and i used to cry everyday for no reason? but then yesterday, i didn’t want to cry quietly because it was hard and not the proper way, so I knocked on my mum’s door and just bolded my eyes out...🥺🥺🥺i feel u liz
I can really relate
Since childhood I felt like I was never worthy of love
My parents were always hard on me and they are one of the reasons I became suicidal and depression deprived. I’ve always had trouble belonging and expressing my true emotions. I am 13 and lived in 3 countries and changed schools 9 times now. I make friends but when I leave them I feel like everything changes. Meeting people all the time is heartbreaking because I’m changing and I will never be who I used to be. My mother suffered from depression when I was young so she used to take her anger on me since I was a child. Both my parents have high expectations for me but my rebellious ways keeps me from achieving them. I feel like a failure and that I don’t deserve to live.
Don't cry liz ......😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
u should actually let people cry whenever they want to. its's our body's way to release stress chemicals n toxins out of our body. i'm not saying that u r not showing empathy or sympathy, just that people have this misconception that supressing ur tears helps to deal with emotions n be stronger, but infact that's a sign of weakness. not evreyone has the ability to bravely express their emotions n pain.
Don’t give up I know your strong,
We’re all with you I hope this makes you feel better
We’re all here to support you and you are amazing :)
I've never related to a TH-cam video this much . It's sad to think there are people like me and one of them is liz .
Liz you’re so strong!
Look where you are now, you even have a family and baby reign!
Keeping going,加油☺️
Liz you are really strong don't ever forget that❤️❤️❤️
Who disliked this video??? Mental health matters and there's always happiness somewhere. Liz, you're so strong and stay strong, we love u
Love you Liz i was crying over my life that I'm not the perfect daughter and then I opened youtube feeling really sad and then I found this I'm just 14 but your life was also hard still you keep going I'll also never give up and will keep going love u Liz
My family is the same as Liz. I feel every day as Liz felt. This gave me a huge motivation, mainly the line " treat the day as an hour". Imagining a day as an hour is a great way to get rid of the trouble Ness. Thank you Liz....
Yes u are a hero to go through this journey. This gives a lot of people and make it relatable.
Liz, you are so strong and so inspiring! I think that this video is sooo needed in this period of time because of COVID and all the difficulties and stressing out. This will really help others out there. And I’m sure that saying all these is definitely a weight off your shoulders! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ BTW, I’m a ballerina 🩰😘Stay strong 💪🏻
I love you liz , and did anyone notice she was dancing solo Jennie from blackpink , like if you are a blink
Yes I noticed
God bless her. She is a sweet, kind, funny and pretty angel, the fact that she could stay strong without opening up to her parents because she cared for them and didn't want them to worry for her... Stay strong 🖤❤️💪🥰
yes and btw are you a blink cause i am too
@@dqyna yep ;>
@@yw1487 ayee ^
Love from us for that best friend who made our Liz happy❤️❤️
Awww I never Knew that she had to go through so many things in her life!! I love you Liz and the whole Ladies first team too!!😘 Stay strong 💪
Don't give up liz,we are proud of you 💟💟
Liz! We are so proud of you we love you! Be strong 💞💞💞
Liz, thank you so much for doing this to let people out there know that they're not alone and to show that you can actually heal from depression, that it is not hopeless. 😭❤
We love you so much Liz, we all have your back ❤️❤️
Liz is so brave to share her experiences with us! I’m so thankful that she has talked about things some of us are going through and has given us some hope. She has shared with us feelings I didn’t even know how to describe before and the raw truth about how toxic and deceiving depression can be to the point we aren’t even able to reach out for help. I love her so much and hope the best for her and anyone going through a similar situation!
Thanks Liz❤️ I really needed it right now. After watching this it help me feel better and now i feel like I’m not the only one facing this. Thank you #TeamTitan #LadiesFirst for uploading this. To all the people facing the same thing. You’re not alone. You have one life. Live it. You are loved and your life is worth a living💕 Merry Christmas 💕✨ Lots of love
Liz.. you make me cry 😭 pls don’t cry... we are all here to support you!♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎
I'm so sorry Liz please stay strong we all love you 💜
Who else are also in the same situation like Liz?
@@GoldenCheeseFries what
Me💀
I was crying for emotional issues before watching this. After I watched this, I felt better. Thank you💓
this really make me cry. i felt so alone during my primary school days, i had barely any friends but even those friends felt fake to me. my parents had gotten divorced an early age, which led to my mom struggling with financial difficulties, so i barely got to see her or even seek help from her cause i was scared. my brother and i also grew apart, so i felt so alone. not to mention, i sort of gotten bullied a few times which makes thing worse. i really just wanted to end everything then, i know i was young, but i felt like i was alone, okay? I was scared of being judge too. anyway, fast forward, things have gotten better now, i have friends who care for me, my mom is less stress from work and most importantly, i feel happier now. So, dont give up guys! i know things seem tough now and that you just want to give up, but once you reach the end of the tunnel, it will be worth it. trust me guys! Also, like what liz said, you gotta know how to love yourself first before taking the next step. self-love is really important, you cant love someone if you have no respect and love for yourself. Anyway, stay happy yall! :)
Pleas don't cry your making me cry. you are one of my favourite ladies first members. We love you ❤️❤️❤️
This helped me soo much , thanks Liz, I don't know why I was crying during the video 😭😭😭❤❤❤
Being a person that has depression and has struggled with thoughts of suicide in the past it breaks my heart to see someone cry and discuss these lows. It's a very hard situation to get out of. And very few younger people know how to help or communicate with people who are going through it.
At a Luke 18 retreat, we call a talk like this a “hurting and making up” talk. They are always the hardest to listen to, but also often among the most meaningful. This would fit right in as one of those talks. It’s both upsetting and uplifting.
It's good to notice a child of GOD here!
@@rishithacatherine1766 thank you!
ITs not like i have any depression or anything like liz's proble but this helped me alot...cuz like since im still a kid i have one problem that i just feel that the problem was like..ok example like ur carrying a bag full of items and its just so hard u feel like its too heavy and cant handle the heaviness of the bag anymore.so like yeah...and my problem is maybe common so its just my problem is that....insecurities. My sis would like always say im ugly.. Ppl who say like "the words wont go to ur head if u dont let it" its kinda hard for me to do that cuz im a sensitive person..even though im a sensitive person i would like still give some advice to my friends and other ppl who have been going through alot...i keep everything to myself too but like..sometimes i just can keep it all to myslef and tell it whom i trust the most. Im not an attention seeker or anything.would just like to share it to some ppl who have too many problems and they would just overthink and say like as if they r the only one handling this kind of problem :) always keep in mind that not Everybody hates u,theres always someone🤗
We love u girl I know I can’t watch it so I’ll leave but u are the best mom ever so don’t be sad about anything everyone will cheer u up
Don't worry Liz .
I will always be there to support you .
I love you so much !!
We love you Liz 💖💖💖 your parents should see this too, it can make them understand you better 💖
4:20 Liz was dancing "Solo" by Jennie!!!!!!
And don't worry Liz, we are all here for u :) This vid is really inspirational. Stay strong! 👍👍
was looking for this comment
@@yunyikwie3287 lol 😂
omg i knew i recognised that dance from somewhere but i just couldn't make out which one it was !!
I am suicidal to I just realised about two weeks ago I have been crying to bed for every day for about two years my mom is a single mother so she also went through a lot that y I don’t share how feel with her Cuz I don’t want her to stress about me I don’t want to tell her that even after all the hard she did for me I don’t want to tell her that I am failing in life I have my important exam in a 1 month and that pressure added more anxiety and Increased fear of failure I keep all my emotions in a bottle and I fear that it will blast soon I don’t know what to do and plus that I am only 15 makes it even more difficult for me to express myself as everyone thinks it’s just a phase when it’s not .
Heyyy.....I understand you and I believe in you.....you are the best ....exams come and go.....but u and ur dreams are the same ......it might be a lot to handle but think about you past.......you had overcomed a lot of thing which no one could.........you have come this far......why can't you go ahead and make it a history an achievement which you achieved by your own self power..........And when you fell depressed , or suicidal, think about your mom , if she thought of giving up on life then you or her wouldn't be here ... all the hardwork which you did will go in wain......you need not need anyone else to tell you how good or important you are to thm ...just tell to your self that you are prettier , you are the best and this which you want to hear frm others....this will make u loveyourself ...hwaiting
this might not help you , but I just want to tell you that there is a person in some corner of this world who understands you and who believes in you........let's hope for the best .....you can do it ......and even if u can't its okiee......with lots of love ....
@@sunflower9386 thank u so much :) i don't what else to say but thank u for understanding me by the u comment made me cry but in a happy way I felt like i am not alone
Hey, as years pass by you will realise everything will get better. Just have to get through this tough period of time. Don’t give up. If u really end your life, it’s irreversible and will cause so much pain to your loved ones. Please seek Doctor’s help also. Medicine really really really helps.
@@happyleaf9635 thank u i told my family about everything and they said that they will take me to the doctors but first to a therapist
i've been in the same situation as liz. i can't trust my family and my friends but luckly i've survived till this day thanks to my friends who supported me and my partner!
Stay Strong Liz
We will always be there for you
Dear Liz,
You are a strong person... Even though there are lots of things in your plate, always remember that we are here for you and your wonderful friends are too.... Stay calm.... Thank you for sharing your story.... Even though I'm 10 years old.. I know I can't watch but I wanna watch bcs I wanna learn from you❤❤❤
Its okay Liz!~
I do have one too...I felt this is really relatable for me...But God was here for me...Your Fam is there and also Team Titan!We are here ur fans too.✨✨💜
It's sad that your dad had such a way of thinking. I understand where he is coming from but no one is ever ALWAYS OKAY.. I understand like people would say stuff like "oh, crying won't do anything. You look weak. Stop Crying. " But honestly.. I understand crying won't do anything but aren't I allowed to have feelings? And if me crying until I'm satisfied makes me feel better then who are you to judge me? At least I'm still trying. I look weak? It's because I was in a weak state at that time and you aren't helping by saying that. Anyways I'm happy you were able to get through everything and is doing better now liz. Best of luck to you 😊 And remember, just because you haven't found your purpose doesn't mean you don't have a purpose. If you didn't have a purpose then God wouldn't have created you.
"Taking the day one hour at a time"
This quote gave me such encouragement
Aww liz don’t cry u have such a nice baby and a nice husband and the whole Titan group don’t worry we all by your side
This feels like she is telling my story. But the difference is I don't have any best friends or anyone with whom I can share my mind. And I have not yet reached the point where I can feel that I have self worth
Liz, thank you so much for sharing.
without getting into too much, i relate so much to your life and i'm currently in the state now where you were before.
the thing that's getting me through each day is taking it one step at a time.
also reminding myself that one day i'll get to that happy place. and that itself is worth fighting for. ❤️
My birdie flew away 3 months ago and I felt really hopeless too because I shared everything with him but now I am a happy person
It’s alright Liz! You’re fine now🥺💗
I can relate to this as well...
I was so stress in school. Be it my studies, my friends.
I had this group of friends, but day by day, I realised that my relationship with them were fading away. Although this doesn’t seem much but, it really hurts me:( I used to always cry at head, when I was sleeping, showering, or even studying. I always think about them.
Have to bare with this for 3 years with different conditions of each group of friends. I was so stress in school because of my studies as well, my mom taught me right after she came home from work. Spend so much time teaching me and I do not want to disappoint. That makes me stress and tired as well>< But now, I have a new group of friends❤️ They make me so much happier and make me feel like I am something❤️ Thank you so much to my friends🥺💗
I'm honestly very thankful for Liz who came forward to speak abt tis cuz a lot of ppl really need this type of motivation in their life if not motivation then they can at least hope that everything will get better soon. & Honestly I literally broke down in between of the video cuz I know how it feels...but ya I'm definitely grateful that my parents are really very supportive & understanding. I'm 12 & gonna turn 13 tommorow & this was literally the best bday gift for me so thank you very much Liz & Lf Team🥺✨
We have your back Liz! Stay strong! ❤️🥺
Seriously we need to address more of mental health problems right here in SG. Mental health problems shouldn't be seen as a taboo and it is absolutely normal for humans to feel that way. I was once depressed too and suicidal, but I'm glad I didnt do it. I'm glad you are happier now Liz!
I am 16th my best score so far on your channel, love you guys 💝
You’re soo strong!! Love u Liz 💗
Well after seeing this video I realized that I'm almost in a same situation like her...also same with my family,it's just that my dad is overprotective but he tries to understand if I cry over something and not to lecture me...but I mostly don't express how I feel because I'm very considerate and understand other ppl..but during this lockdown I went through a mental breakdown bcuz while being considerate towards others I didn't love myself..everyone thinks I'm happy and I don't feel abt anything!!😔😭
@ッUkiyo thanks ❤
Ladies first is really inspirational and amazing I love u guyssss❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank u for this episode, it's really nice to know that I am not the only one going through these struggles
Liz congratulations to you on being a stronger person than you thought you were. Be proud that you managed to win over your emotions and how far you have leaped. Think of your cute baby now and be happy
Liz we love you 💕❤️
always stay strong never give up💖
we love you liz ❣️
I can't watch this coz i am 12 and i will cry a lot i cant handle this but make sure you stay strong we love you so much💜
This feels like me. I'm gonna share with u all my own story. I'm a 12 year old girl and due to confinement I was supposed to go to secondary school but however I'm still in grade 6 (primary) so if I could share my story with u guys.. here u go
In my school, I had met a boy. We slowly became friends and then overtime bestfriends. However one day he confessed to me and he said he loved me. Being the girl who i am, I have always put my studies #1 and I knew deep inside of me that, that would never ever change. So , I told him that let's wait till we grow. One day, he called my friends and I. He said he wanted us to get official. He said he would give me 24 h to think abt it. Well, then I kinda ghosted him abt this matter. But we were still very close. On my birthday , his bff and him bought me gifts and my own bffs bought me gifts too. They all spoiled me on that day🥰🥰 so happy I was. Then I realised how close I was with that boy. It's like my heart full belonged to him. But I never wanted to take the name "love". So days went like this. It felt like really...I felt like we were like in love...But I rejected..everything...as days went on .. our "love" or attraction became stronger.
Then all the promises he made, today gir shattered. He cheated me. I realised that I shuld have never even talked to him I wanted to knw how far it would go.
And for me honestly, I feel like I have been hurt multiple times...like I wanna cry my eyes out but the tears won't come
i'm so sorry for you he doesn't deserve you
liz, i may not know you personally, but we are all here for you! stay strong 💪 💗
I’m reallly proud of you Liz, u fought through it even though you were struggling a lot. Keep up the good work!😊 👍
Stay strong 💪 and stay beautiful and do not give up in life.girl power and God bless 🙏
Ah yes this definitely very deep to go through as I am going through the same thing and I’m still staying silent as I’m scared to truly say what I’m going through which is why I don’t vent or show my true emotions and I don’t cry in front of them as it’s hard to speak up and not to stay silent. When it comes with my situation I would always make new friends but they would always leave me so I ended not making friends and was always quiet because I would always think I’m not a good friend or they don’t don’t want to be my friend because they think I’m a freak. This is the reason why I became quite a toxic friend back in 4th grade because I didn’t know what a true friendship was like and I didn’t realize how bad I was until now that I look back. i always suppress my emotions and I just can’t handle it sometimes so I break down and let it all out when no ones around to make me feel better but it just made me worse and get more negativity calling myself weak and that I’m such a crybaby. But I always put this mask on of me being angry and tough and not act weak because I’m scared that my loved ones will leave me because I’m weak. I am still recovering little by little but I’m still staying silent but I have made great friends that now have made me a lot more happier and open to new challenges.
Im inspired that your so strong to be able to go through this and god bless your happiness and love life 🤍
All I can say is Liz, you aren't alone. Her story is very similar to mine, can't trust friends or family so I resort to a romantic partner. I guess I was so insecure, that I got blinded by so much negativity, I got easily moody, I threw all of my stress onto him and I shouldn't have. He was the sweetest most supporting person I've ever met. We dated for almost 3 years, I still love him dearly and he has such a special place in my heart though one of my close friends never agreed on our relationship. I know I should have listened, but now, I don't regret it as much because for just a moment, I felt loved, cared for and protected by him and now I don't really experience those feelings as much anymore. Without him, I wouldn't be the person I am now. Maybe in another life, we could have been the best of partners
We loveeeeee u liz😭 don't worry we r there for you❤️
I NEVER watch complete videos of even 5 minutes without forwarding or many times i just don't even see the whole video. But, i saw this whole video without forwarding because i just love Liz a lot and i love hearing her talk! Love you team titan for voicing people's share of struggles and helping out those who are going through their darkest phase of lives. We really respect and appreciate that. We love you a lot Liz!❤️❤️❤️
liz dont cry we are there for u
Dont worry Liz we're all here for u and you have a purpose in this life, titan wouldn't be the same without you, we love u so much 🥺❤
It’s ok to cry, it’s ok to be vulnerable, seek help if you need it, nothing to ashamed about.
I feel so bad for you Liz. I am going through depression too. I'm honestly losing it, so seeing this gave me some hope.
Liz we love you so much don’t worry to much and also take care of you health plz and don’t stress so much either we love you and plz don’t think negative because you are an amazing person.
Thank you for sharing your story and for your advice❤ so proud of your growth. Happy you're here thriving today. Wish u all the best.
Awwww, dont cry Liz..Who agrees with me?
Awwwww Liz~
You can express your feeling you can cry, we'll always be with you....
*Thank you for sharing this and i wish everyone facing this problem,don't give up on your life,it's precious*
Omg,this got emotional
There are moments in life when you feel low
It could be because your family does not have time for you,you don't get enough of support from your family for what you want to do, your career is not stable,other family problems
I also feel low very often in my life and just like Liz I can't even express it to my mom,who is my best friend and I love her the most and she's the reason behind my life
And just like Liz,I google things about life
But Liz you really really motivated me to love yourself and love your life and be happy about who you are
Basically have self love