Love this! I ended a 2 year relationship Jan 23 - he was a narcissist. I never knew what the word meant. But it was classic case. I went into therapy for 6 months after as it had a huge impact on me and had never experienced anything like it before. I’ve now been on my own since Jan 2023 - first time on my own since the age of 16 - I’m now 50!!! I’ve now healed from the abuse but have to say I now look back and thank that I went through it. I’ve learnt so much about myself and how low my self esteem was to let someone into my life like that, I now like myself - enjoy my peaceful life on my own. Only thing is I can’t see me wanting to get into another relationship. I would rather be on my own with my good friends. I love your content and feel like I’m not alone.
I found your channel yesterday, and have listened to this chat 3 times. This is me ! Exactly me… This blew me away.. finally someone understands and was put it into words. It’s me word for word. I don’t know if I should laugh or cry… both I think. Thank you so much.
Thank you for the book recomendations, they're definitely my intrest area. Very honest personal story and so brave of you to share so others may benefit from your experiences ❤
Hello,I’m so enjoying your channel…..I so get what you have been saying……I feel everything you are saying as I have lived it…still am….but ready to go after 20 years of coming and going.Would love to sit down with a coffee and chat to you for hours…..but it’s a bit far from NZ,but I will keep watching and learning Thankyou so much for your honesty and insight.Keep doing what you are doing and I will keep watching.❤ From NZ.
Completely understand soul mate comes into our life to teach us lessons my goodness did my ex teach me lessons I actually love the person I'v now because was it a toxic relationship definitely covert narcissist maybe but I'm off that merry go round intrtresing chat
@@biba350 That kind of relationship can be so harrowing , it s really good to hear you love the person you’ve become and you’re through the other side 👌
You seem very confused and insecure about relationships & i guess its been a slow learning curve.Hopefully you will find happiness but it is a two way street & people do change from the person we first meet.God bless you.
Thank you, perhaps in the past but know I realise the first relationship you need to be sure of is the one with yourself. I’m very happy now and wouldn’t have changed any of my past as it’s made me the person I am today.
Love this! I ended a 2 year relationship Jan 23 - he was a narcissist. I never knew what the word meant. But it was classic case. I went into therapy for 6 months after as it had a huge impact on me and had never experienced anything like it before. I’ve now been on my own since Jan 2023 - first time on my own since the age of 16 - I’m now 50!!! I’ve now healed from the abuse but have to say I now look back and thank that I went through it. I’ve learnt so much about myself and how low my self esteem was to let someone into my life like that, I now like myself - enjoy my peaceful life on my own. Only thing is I can’t see me wanting to get into another relationship. I would rather be on my own with my good friends. I love your content and feel like I’m not alone.
Thank you for sharing . Well done you got getting help and working through it. So pleased your out the other side after such a traumatic time xx
I found your channel yesterday, and have listened to this chat 3 times.
This is me ! Exactly me…
This blew me away.. finally someone understands and was put it into words. It’s me word for word.
I don’t know if I should laugh or cry… both I think.
Thank you so much.
Thank you for sharing, it helps me to know I’m not the only one too 🤗. Your right, laugh, cry, scream it all helps x
Thank you for the book recomendations, they're definitely my intrest area. Very honest personal story and so brave of you to share so others may benefit from your experiences ❤
Hello,I’m so enjoying your channel…..I so get what you have been saying……I feel everything you are saying as I have lived it…still am….but ready to go after 20 years of coming and going.Would love to sit down with a coffee and chat to you for hours…..but it’s a bit far from NZ,but I will keep watching and learning Thankyou so much for your honesty and insight.Keep doing what you are doing and I will keep watching.❤ From NZ.
Thank you and I would have loved that coffee and a chat with you too. NZ is a beautiful country that I’ve yet to visit , who knows maybe one day 😊
Completely understand soul mate comes into our life to teach us lessons my goodness did my ex teach me lessons I actually love the person I'v now because was it a toxic relationship definitely covert narcissist maybe but I'm off that merry go round intrtresing chat
@@biba350 That kind of relationship can be so harrowing , it s really good to hear you love the person you’ve become and you’re through the other side 👌
You seem very confused and insecure about relationships & i guess its been a slow learning curve.Hopefully you will find happiness but it is a two way street & people do change from the person we first meet.God bless you.
Thank you, perhaps in the past but know I realise the first relationship you need to be sure of is the one with yourself. I’m very happy now and wouldn’t have changed any of my past as it’s made me the person I am today.