Declaring My Independence: Miriam Te'o v Anthony Bridges S24 E38

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  • @wallacealicia
    @wallacealicia ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Whoever said " I KNEW IT!" so loud has me CRYINGGGGGGGGGGG

    • @melrwill
      @melrwill ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao I didnt know their audio was on either 🤣

    • @darristhomas5602
      @darristhomas5602 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OMG I thought I was the only one that heard it. Lmao

    • @britzoevaug
      @britzoevaug ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought I was only one who heard that lol!

  • @brittanyb7568
    @brittanyb7568 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    He's too sick to go to work, but not too sick for parties?

    • @jo5755
      @jo5755 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This!

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Touche! 👍🏾🆗

    • @loranbolding8670
      @loranbolding8670 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My thoughts exactly. While she's paying all the bills, he's having a mid life crisis. This is traumatic for her and he's just nasty.

    • @gapeach14
      @gapeach14 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He was gone be sick with Itch and the burn if he keeps it up.

    • @Ms209630
      @Ms209630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sound like someone I know. Girl better pack his stuff and put him on the street he like to walk

  • @Osa698
    @Osa698 ปีที่แล้ว +553

    No one falls in love faster than someone who needs a place to stay 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @jo5755
      @jo5755 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That’s a fact 💯

    • @trishhur5035
      @trishhur5035 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      😅😂🤣😅🤣🤣🤣

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings ปีที่แล้ว +15

      BOOOM! Right on the spot!👏👍

    • @sharoneh8929
      @sharoneh8929 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Real talk 💯💯💯

    • @jennyraphaela9188
      @jennyraphaela9188 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😅😅😅 true

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    He didn’t move to Vegas for no dang job, he moved there for free room and board.

    • @tinajackson6875
      @tinajackson6875 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly, trifling.

  • @JazzyJeffRealTalk
    @JazzyJeffRealTalk ปีที่แล้ว +195

    “I’d rather not answer that”. The case is over right there. He’s cheating at sex parties and she’s supporting his trifling self. She needs to move on.

    • @amybynum8962
      @amybynum8962 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes she does

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yep! Most definitely!

    • @ThatManDWill
      @ThatManDWill ปีที่แล้ว +4

      these sex parties are a big thing in most major cities and you would be suprised who's attended. Relationships are a thing of the past these days.

    • @Sandrinarhonda
      @Sandrinarhonda ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ThatManDWill yup most of them happen at music festivals too . Just nasty

  • @DBX4018
    @DBX4018 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    As much as I want to be mad at her for allowing this for so long, I can't. She's just the sweetest person who deserves so much more than what he has to offer. H can't even support her, the only thing he's offering is community dck that's been marinated in dirty pool water 🤮
    Be careful who you date. Not everyone is looking for love. Some are looking for help and a place to stay!

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My mom and I just had this conversation

    • @tracyleesmith781
      @tracyleesmith781 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It is just know how to ask specifically. I'm just learning from this video. All I can say she is blessed for not having any children with him & she is not tied down from his swinging self!

    • @rochelleowens6501
      @rochelleowens6501 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is her fault. If she is so close to her family what did her family tell her? No way in the world would my mother not get on me about my relationship. She's not leaving.

    • @vanessaandrews152
      @vanessaandrews152 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He knew exactly who she was and took advantage

    • @vanessaandrews152
      @vanessaandrews152 ปีที่แล้ว

      If they don't vibe why did he stay

  • @carolyncoleman6349
    @carolyncoleman6349 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Ms Jones put a whole new spin on divorce court, I like it

  • @rickylwmsable
    @rickylwmsable ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Woman...please run from this guy!
    Man, go find someone who wants the same lifestyle as you and stop using this woman!

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว +3

      from what I've heard he HAS been doing that, and doesn't seem to have a problem finding them, can't be mad at that

    • @amybynum8962
      @amybynum8962 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @amybynum8962
      @amybynum8962 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @miloperrault2614
      @miloperrault2614 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@d820m He may get women to lay down with his sorry AZZ, the one he is living off of is tired of being used!

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@miloperrault2614 that's all it takes 🤣

  • @WALKINGBYFAITH144
    @WALKINGBYFAITH144 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This dude is totally out of pocket she need to leave him period 💯

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage ปีที่แล้ว +97

    These two are not equally YOKED!! The girlfriend needs to RUN!!!!

    • @VirgoBeyGroove
      @VirgoBeyGroove ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Run like hell😂

    • @sasbridgecloserstudent
      @sasbridgecloserstudent ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And run now before he convinces her to join his world.

    • @amybynum8962
      @amybynum8962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @amybynum8962
      @amybynum8962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes run like hell do not look back🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is not done sadly I know a lot of Samoan women but black American men get treated like trash but at least the one I know don’t have to pay the bills

  • @kristiemao4275
    @kristiemao4275 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    When Judge Star asked him what did Bridges like about her culture, and he could only talk about her long hair and thickness instead of her actual culture. SMDH. Sad.

    • @qt4everandever63
      @qt4everandever63 ปีที่แล้ว

      My hair is longer than hers and I am thick..... I am Black. These dudes are broken, damaged, self hating and don't even realize it. Sad.... Then they ask why Black women stay wearing weaves and hideous wigs...

    • @antithesiscoaching
      @antithesiscoaching ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Precisely, a fetish and self-hating BM obsessed with another ethnicities phenotype yet you hate your own genetics. Meanwhile she is proud to be Samoan and at 46 still loyal to her culture even though it conflicts with her intrinsic values. Her culture doesn't tolerate treason or individualism.

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว

      @@antithesiscoaching people sure love to throw the word "self-hate/Self-hating" around like frisbees, why is he self hating?

    • @bsinclair6264
      @bsinclair6264 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@d820m fetishizing things of another race or ethnic group that is opposite of yourself does scream self hate. If you specifically like a person because they are not your color or doesn’t have Afrocentric looks whilst being a person with Afrocentric looks is a form of self hate because you are specifically pedastalizing someone who doesn’t have what God gave your particular ethnic group or “race”….

    • @bsinclair6264
      @bsinclair6264 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@d820m it’s internalized racism, which would be a better description for this man choosing to go for her solely for her hair and body shape..

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Also Judge Star should have told him to go with the STREETS!!! 😂😂😂

    • @gracie4200
      @gracie4200 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly 💯 Being a Christian ✝️ myself that doesn't sound right even though he do need to go with God but you're right he does need to go with the streets you do that kinda stuff when your single or when your mate is involved.

    • @Singlehood2Marriage
      @Singlehood2Marriage ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gracie4200 Facts! It's no telling how many people he has been with and std's that should be spreading. I'm glad she can see the light now and leave him alone.... it's definitely not worth it.

    • @janeelenville8725
      @janeelenville8725 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Singlehood2Marriagethat's right

  • @candacebutler7011
    @candacebutler7011 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    She is beautiful and deserves to be valued. I pray she knows and received her worth in Jesus name Amen

    • @soulstrength
      @soulstrength ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen.

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that'd be the only person willing to put up with her🤣

    • @murieltillman9554
      @murieltillman9554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love your comments, Ms Butler. You're always uplifting.

    • @nannynewsviews542
      @nannynewsviews542 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen

    • @deborahadams3745
      @deborahadams3745 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 💯

  • @leeleegrace9015
    @leeleegrace9015 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    10:35 that "I knew it!" In the background took me all the way out! 😂😂😂

  • @Whistlesonthewind
    @Whistlesonthewind ปีที่แล้ว +70

    OK, since no one else is going to say it, she got a Pookie. He found out what type of man she wanted and he conformed himself to be that type of man for a period of time so, that he could get up under her. He played upon the socialization of her not being “attractive”( according to this ridiculously shallow society we live in) and took advantage of her. When he had her, his mask dropped.
    I hope she gets the love that she desires.

    • @PoliticalWonderland
      @PoliticalWonderland ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1000% perfectly said & I’m glad u said it.

    • @kaeshalae1
      @kaeshalae1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He is the definition of a struggle dusty 😂

    • @meh2481
      @meh2481 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      he is to confident to be raggedy

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว

      at least you have hope, there's always that.....🤣🤣🤣

    • @tinajackson6875
      @tinajackson6875 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Boom you said it perfect @Whistlesonthewind ain't no more to be said.

  • @ReadySetRum
    @ReadySetRum ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I don’t see what she is getting from this relationship.
    You can’t determine how people to treat you, but you can stop them from treating you like this.

    • @refi6438
      @refi6438 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shes probly not wanted in her own community. So these women know black men will accept them. Black men will literally take anything thats non black and put it up on some pedestal.

    • @JM-cx6ze
      @JM-cx6ze ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That lady seems like a sweetheart and he’s just trying to run over her and she has allowed I’m to do so but I honestly believe she’s tired of it now and is ready for him to move the heck on

    • @spiceboxify
      @spiceboxify ปีที่แล้ว

      she like the bad boy and the freaky sex...stop taking up for these women who lie.

    • @shereekern6801
      @shereekern6801 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s got an esteem issue I think. She loves him and don’t wanna be alone. She’s got so much more going for her than she realizes.

  • @simplyclaireese
    @simplyclaireese ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Okay but what does he have to offer ?? He’s not sleeping with you , doesn’t pay for anything , staying in your house, and living in the middle of the night to go to swingers parties , and thinks it’s okay because touring boring and “don’t stay up pass 8pm” Chile you are a mother to a grown man .

  • @daffodil4500
    @daffodil4500 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The jury member that said "I knew it" was all up in my mind because he is sweet as pie🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @antithesiscoaching
    @antithesiscoaching ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Cultural pressure/expectations, no boundaries and severely low self-esteem has a 46 year old adult woman being used and abused for 4 years!!! She got the same self hating black man. Thank you for taking the trash out.🗑 she needs an intervention. She has neglected and allowed this abuse willingly. He got an easy person to use for room and board.

    • @mauricesutton1906
      @mauricesutton1906 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly! I remember this dude from Divorce Court S17:E30. He was a male exotic dancer. She needs to let that go & fast!!!🥴

    • @nnekairoegbu2360
      @nnekairoegbu2360 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@mauricesutton1906 Yeah he looks very familiar as well, the last I know he used that other woman as well with no commitment.

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mauricesutton1906 what that means is that he can still pull women, self esteem issues be damned🤣

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว +4

      why is he self hating?

    • @DreamLegacy8808
      @DreamLegacy8808 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, let these women have them. The women never learn. You can tell if a relationship is based on love or a fetish.

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Ew....just the thought of random people swapping bodily fluids with others so freely makes my skin crawl!!!

    • @junereader7230
      @junereader7230 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He looks nasty. I am about to throw up.

    • @deborahadams3745
      @deborahadams3745 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mines too!🤮

    • @piasteward2875
      @piasteward2875 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sho' nuff Warrior. Now a days you have to go down to the health department initially, and confirm each person's status initially!

    • @cherynmoon5841
      @cherynmoon5841 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@junereader7230 😊😮😅up

  • @shay-rae138
    @shay-rae138 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The first thing she did wrong is to take him out for a date🤦🏾‍♀️, sis he’s suppose to take you out

    • @eunicedelgadoo
      @eunicedelgadoo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes girl I agree with you!

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And moved in within a week.

  • @smithcarr7495
    @smithcarr7495 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Judge Star’s dress is gooorgeous- that color was made for her! And her hair/make up? 👩🏻‍🍳 💋👌🏻

    • @murieltillman9554
      @murieltillman9554 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is the same thing I'm saying! Her stylist is on point, she's always dressed to the nines! Hair and make-up lit! I really like her on Divorce Court.

    • @ArtisticDreams2U
      @ArtisticDreams2U ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed! I love her💯💯🤩🤩❤❤👏🏽👏🏽

  • @omgmazin
    @omgmazin ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Once he said he'd rather not answer that the case was over🤦🏾.

  • @lesley5380
    @lesley5380 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    He belongs to the streets 🤭

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      he is the streets...and she aint going nowhere

    • @js8213
      @js8213 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly!!

  • @cynthiaward4512
    @cynthiaward4512 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She is more pathetic than him, for putting up with it..

  • @joannbutler8695
    @joannbutler8695 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I love Mrs Star Jones, she do not hold any punches. 😂😂😂

  • @bridgetts4767
    @bridgetts4767 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    She should’ve left him once she found out he was swinging. That means he’s been cheating on her with multiple women already! Shouldn’t have been a option to stay n give up the lifestyle. Naw bruh you betta get the stepping!!

  • @mal4348
    @mal4348 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    this is a prime example of a DUSTY man

    • @js8213
      @js8213 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very DUSTY

    • @johnadams4938
      @johnadams4938 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      DUSTY, YES, MAN, NOOOO👀🤔🤔🤣😂

  • @latoyas191
    @latoyas191 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Idk what more she needs to know to make a decision to run. Girl!

  • @RAINEYSARCHIVES
    @RAINEYSARCHIVES ปีที่แล้ว +17

    His description of her had nothing to do with who she was as a person… the door

  • @karmengreene9611
    @karmengreene9611 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He talking about he told her. Dude, you wouldn't even tell Judge Star what was up.

  • @rachelulale
    @rachelulale ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Miriam is the sweetest person! I am such a fan of her when she used to perform with her soulful voice ❤... Sis you deserve way better

  • @trishhur5035
    @trishhur5035 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    He is a free loader taking advantage of a beautiful, caring woman. What a snake he should have been honest in the beginning defining what fun meant to him.

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's too old to be taken advantage of. This man is what desperate and needy get you.

  • @yvonneb8736
    @yvonneb8736 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Don't give him ultimatum send him packing

  • @shelz4346
    @shelz4346 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If nastiness was a person, this man is it!!!!

  • @beautyfull7669
    @beautyfull7669 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great judge replacement, love her energy!! Now I'm back to watching divorce again🤗🤗

  • @PoliticalWonderland
    @PoliticalWonderland ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Now that I’ve watched all the videos thus far from judge I can say I like this judge. Will continue watching every episode. ♥️

  • @browngoddess5340
    @browngoddess5340 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is why you don't move in with people after a week.

    • @Wyzdom1974
      @Wyzdom1974 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Real Talk 💯

  • @araineacutebrownnurse7315
    @araineacutebrownnurse7315 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is absolutely beautiful! Sister , don’t walk RUN ! You are much too good for this loser !

  • @gracie4200
    @gracie4200 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I don't understand how people can be this old and this foolish 🙄 he should be ready to settle down and get married I'm 41 and my partying days are definitely over I hate the smell of a bar 🥵🥵You can tell she's not that kinda person.

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right but she's 46, much too old for putting up with this. She should have been long gone.

    • @gracie4200
      @gracie4200 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@roslynhawkins1475 Agree

    • @blank-stare6373
      @blank-stare6373 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      everyone doesn't want to settle down and get married. and 40 is still young if you've spent your 20s and 30sc raising kids.. now is his time to enjoy his life. that's my opinion and I'm 45.

    • @oliverclytus7559
      @oliverclytus7559 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The man has a right to live how he want to live. And she should’ve waited before moving a man in her home after just 1 week. Can’t put everything on him

    • @Jedi_Jonson
      @Jedi_Jonson ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@oliverclytus7559 facts. Moving a guy into your house from out of a state a week after you meeting him and she wonders why her relationship is failin smh. People so ready to have a happy ever after without laying down the ground work and building the foundation for it.

  • @sincerelyedb
    @sincerelyedb ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Atlanta is one of the biggest cities for film in the country, I knew he wasn’t making legit films when he said he moved 😭

    • @jo5755
      @jo5755 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂

  • @jesstheeempress
    @jesstheeempress ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I seen this guy somewhere before 🤔 ..oh wait! He was on Divorce Court before 😯😯; he was on Divorce Court when Judge Lynn Toler was the judge 👩🏾‍⚖️ but he was with a different woman. Just look up the episode Williams vs Bridges.
    SN: This woman needs to run... and run fast! 🏃🏾‍♀️ He's not worth it.

    • @ljmosley8427
      @ljmosley8427 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right wasn’t he a stripper???

    • @jesstheeempress
      @jesstheeempress ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ljmosley8427 Yes he was the stripper back then

    • @cynthiaward4512
      @cynthiaward4512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was a stripper ???Yuck

    • @jesstheeempress
      @jesstheeempress ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cynthiaward4512 Same thing I thought when I saw him; he was younger on the episode he appeared on with Judge Lynn Toler

    • @cynthiaward4512
      @cynthiaward4512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jesstheeempress some women and men just want a relationship no matter how bad it is..he could bring her home something she can't get rid for..

  • @carlpotter007
    @carlpotter007 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Star read him from A-Z. Boy bye! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @AByron-im7os
    @AByron-im7os ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He said he's a videographer... and he works at these "parties".... so the better job opportunity he spoke about was filming p0rn? Lol...ok then...

  • @roxlady181
    @roxlady181 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She need to haul tail immediately!! He knew he was not crap and that is the reason why he did not bring his “double life” to her attention in the beginning. Smh

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว

      lotta tail to haul, though🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @murieltillman9554
    @murieltillman9554 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The plaintiff's conversation tells me she doesn't mind being used. Sounds like she expects it/condones it, is a more than a willing participant. She stayed around after this guy canceled a date with her, let alone on Valentine's day, to take another woman out. I'm sure that is light weight as far as how this guy behaves in this "relationship". She says she doesn't complain. Sheesh. She's nuts.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She have low self esteem. She’s not going anywhere. She will continue to let this guy use her.

    • @SS-cl2nn
      @SS-cl2nn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She nuts? Always blame the victim instead of the person who actually committing the wrong doings.

    • @murieltillman9554
      @murieltillman9554 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SS-cl2nn She's nuts. She is choosing to stay around and accept that behavior from that slug. Call it " blaming the victim" if you'd like. How long do you stay around being the "victim" before you're a willing participant?

  • @Fleefromsin
    @Fleefromsin ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You have to SIT in order to COMMIT! How can you commit if you don’t sit? Sit and learn, sit and pray by yourself, sit and pray with others, sit and read, and sit so you can take root in where God has called you to grow! Don’t run around just sit down! Once you have sat you will stand! Stand and be committed, and stand and not be moved!
    ~Vanisia Tapia

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She not going no where she low self esteem

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully Judge Star and staff can talk some sense into her leaving him alone.

  • @marysodia9042
    @marysodia9042 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Judge said it clear and to the point..

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Ms. Te'o clearly did not ask enough questions at the onset of their relationship. They obviously didn't even find out if they were even compatible before he moved in. You can't get to know somebody in a week.

    • @quichequiche4274
      @quichequiche4274 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thry talked for 2 months prior to him moving in. They must not uave talked about anything that mattered.

    • @soulstrength
      @soulstrength ปีที่แล้ว

      @@quichequiche4274 Clearly.

    • @deloresking9766
      @deloresking9766 ปีที่แล้ว

      First Frist of all this man was 't in an position to be in an realationship.If you are to sick to work you are too sick to be in a realationship.You can get rid of any disease.He should have worked on getting healthy.

    • @ThatManDWill
      @ThatManDWill ปีที่แล้ว

      MOST women never does !!!

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 ปีที่แล้ว

      What relationship? It's a one sided relationship if anything cause he's off doing his own thing as she can see.

  • @justmythoughtsjustmythough7202
    @justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the ‘ take it off your shoulders’ gesture. I love juror in back did it too.

  • @dstevenson1991
    @dstevenson1991 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Judge Starr keeps it real 👏🏾

  • @carolwatson551
    @carolwatson551 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mrs Star looks so freakin beautiful with that ponytail! You go Judge!

    • @js8213
      @js8213 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She do

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He’s doing all this and still has a home to come back to?? 🤨

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She have zero self esteem. She needs therapy. Leave this guy alone

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't be mad at the brother if she still allows him to stay....look up "glutton for punishment" in the dictionary and there will be a full-page picture of her in it🤣🤣

  • @BigDJeff
    @BigDJeff ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why are brothers so dusty on these shows… embarrassing.

  • @82laina
    @82laina ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Judge Star @9:03 her response and facial expression took me out 😂😂😂😂

  • @jamiex6072
    @jamiex6072 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When he said gravy on his biscuit I could tell he's a perv.

  • @keith7189
    @keith7189 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Time is priceless it cannot be bought back so Te'O she need to not waste another minute with bridges. I don't have respect for bridges for using her as his comfort zone

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว

      She have no self esteem. She needs therapy and she needs to leave him.

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He should have been honest and upfront from jump about his lifestyle. Instead, he strung her along for 3.5 years while he's out exchanging body fluids with random folk. He tried to plead the 5th when the Judge asked him if he participates in the group sex.

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he was well within his right not to answer

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@d820m True, yet, he told on himself.

    • @nikkif9873
      @nikkif9873 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@d820m 😂🤡

  • @altabailey3218
    @altabailey3218 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When she said "The vibe was there" and the Judge responded back with, "...but good sense wasn't!"
    I hollered and sniggled 😂

  • @zulu3274
    @zulu3274 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    When venturing into new relationships often times most couples or people make the mistake of not asking tough questions about the person they are getting involved with... Be honest with yourself, be honest with others and allow them the choice to decide if they want to deal with what/who you are as a person or the baggage you may have... Don't be afraid to let them go if they aren't what you want or need them to be... Have open, honest and difficult conversations in the beginning......Not in the middle or the end....
    Nothing wrong with polygamy or monogamy... Just be honest about it...
    I wish them both happiness....💯

  • @tdacosta520
    @tdacosta520 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Polynesian women aren't pushovers. They don't bring drama and will take care of you. All he had to do was work and keep his thing at home. Easy.

  • @nastusalmander
    @nastusalmander ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This man is about to get jumped by her Samoan brothers after this 😂

  • @notaslaveoffear5114
    @notaslaveoffear5114 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I never understand the endings of Star’s divorce court. Bring back judge Maybeline😢

    • @anniemitchell4467
      @anniemitchell4467 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s on another lot. Great lady. I met her a a mall.😊

  • @yvonneb8736
    @yvonneb8736 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woman u should send him packing from beginning. When I heard him say he is videographer in Las Vegas my antennas started humming

  • @moussabby
    @moussabby ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ms Te'o, you have so much patience! He would have been out of my house as soon as I heard about those parties. The selfishness and disrespect of that man, full of pathetic excuses! Ms Te'o, I hope you've left him and kicked him out. You deserve much more than that.
    Judge Star's verdict was on point! As usual!

  • @charliethephoenixmyers4036
    @charliethephoenixmyers4036 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m through with Ms Star Jones, hunny. She had me so weak at the end when she was disgusted. 💀🤦🏾‍♂️🙌🏾

  • @sonyacody6039
    @sonyacody6039 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And Run Fast!!!!

  • @traviousivey2271
    @traviousivey2271 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will bet $20 they are “working” it out.

  • @lawrencemiller8198
    @lawrencemiller8198 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hearing that guy say that I'd rather not answer that that right there in and of itself is a red flag cuz him saying that chances are he's been cheating with multiple women so he was just using the "I'd rather not say to cover up his infidelity that lady needs to run as far as she can from him!!

  • @kholquip
    @kholquip ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oohh.. I went thru the same situation as her. I stood my ground to protect my values. What he likes might be his definition of self-value, but she’s just different than him. MOVE ON AND DONT LOOK BACK

  • @BibleTellTale
    @BibleTellTale ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He moved to Las Vagas and then all of a sudden moved in with her. I hope she didn't meet this man and invited him in to live with her before he even thought of moving. Lady he is using you. Please save the heartache and move his belongings out yiur house. He is a PIMPED for real!

  • @iamnunya7074
    @iamnunya7074 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He was homeless and she had a big heart. She needs to RUNNN

  • @nnekairoegbu2360
    @nnekairoegbu2360 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is only going to use you like he did the other woman on Judge Lynne Toler "s show.

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lady 🏃🏽‍♀️ Run🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @jennyraphaela9188
    @jennyraphaela9188 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    First time watched her show and I love her already 😅

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Vulnerable and desperate people are on these dating sites with different intentions and most are not compatible but use ea other for their own benefits

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like he have been doing to her. She needs to leave him now. Don’t waste another minute girl, you wasted 4 years already. He is just taking advantage of her.

  • @liahb6810
    @liahb6810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Run!!!!!!! Please run!

  • @KWin-ik5cl
    @KWin-ik5cl ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He likes gravy on his biscuits, dude is that what you come up with when speaking of you’re mate? Geeze

  • @barkleyanderson2894
    @barkleyanderson2894 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She need to let him go. A beautiful lady with great values need a man who appreciate her and together build a life that raises them both

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 ปีที่แล้ว

      Um yea. She left him move in less than a month from when she met him. Wonderful values.

  • @yvonneb8736
    @yvonneb8736 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He don't have no money but want to party

  • @KathleenPMartin
    @KathleenPMartin ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Get your wallet and run. Allow him to find someone who wants what he does

  • @mmm76716
    @mmm76716 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He been on this show before...with another woman and judge lynn toler

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God is NOT in the parties that this guy is going too 😕

  • @Bossyt100
    @Bossyt100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I knew he was from New Orleans soon as he started talking

  • @wizzydaniel2663
    @wizzydaniel2663 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sir, with the kind of lifestyle that you're living right now, serious relationship or marriage isn't for you at this moment.
    Just keep on living your best life like you said, and stop playing with that beautiful lady's feelings and emotions okay.
    Responsible and respectful people that are really ready for serious relationship don't live a double life okay.

    • @gerdyithamarpierre-louis2156
      @gerdyithamarpierre-louis2156 ปีที่แล้ว

      He wanted a place to stay and a woman to take care of him.

    • @wizzydaniel2663
      @wizzydaniel2663 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gerdyithamarpierre-louis2156 Absolutely you are right actually 👍❣ 💯
      Such a beautiful woman with a heart of gold. She really do deserve better. Definitely not that unserious dude. 👌😔🤔

    • @d820m
      @d820m ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gerdyithamarpierre-louis2156 ........and got 'em both, she ain't going anywhere

  • @janetmatthews7973
    @janetmatthews7973 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He thought she was stupid and could pimp her out”. What is wrong with society now that nasty is the new norm?

  • @omgmazin
    @omgmazin ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pay attention to people that have an explanation for everything.

  • @ambersandifer7401
    @ambersandifer7401 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh hell no. She deserves someone who wants the life she wants and values her. I hope she runs!

  • @thefreequency
    @thefreequency ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please use better discernment when dating. Unfortunately, videographer= frequently unemployed. Right along with dj's, personal trainers and the like. Trust I've whirled and twirled in many a direction and often landed on the 1099 types. They are rarely financially stable 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @johnadams4938
    @johnadams4938 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He sounds like he be at them “DIDDY” parties👀🤔🤔😂🤣

  • @godfavored5
    @godfavored5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nope! Girl run before he bring back something you can or cannot get rid of! Ewww

  • @mochachocolatemosley2240
    @mochachocolatemosley2240 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We wouldn't even made it to the courthouse because I would have put him out long ago he's nothing but a user

  • @anneagena8236
    @anneagena8236 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ewww the fact that he wanted to accept is just beyond me bruhhh.

  • @michellemguni8298
    @michellemguni8298 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just from the start he's already a red flag, the way he described his "type" aka in his instances internalized oppression

  • @horschiday9449
    @horschiday9449 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GIRL THROW HIM OUT LIKE YOU WOULD THROW AWAY TRASH AND NEVER LOOK BACK 😤😤.

  • @purpleorchid5110
    @purpleorchid5110 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please Run miss he not gonna change.

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In their 40s and still as foolish as you'd expect for the 20s... This really isn't cute anymore.

  • @lexislove639
    @lexislove639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl he is a grown freaky BUM! RUN !!!!!!!!!!

  • @gailwhite8361
    @gailwhite8361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't believe she's standing there with that grin on her face!!!!