You Shouldv'e Been There: Matthia Kelsey v Charles Kelsey
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2024
- Matthia looks to leave her 13-year marriage claiming Charles cheats on her and lacks any ambition. Charles is willing to change and asks Matthia to let him move back into the home.
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He's 38??? No freaking way! Time was not patient with his looks. Yesssssss...Leave him girl...he don't love you, 🚩appreciate you, 🚩he don't care about your wants🚩..plus he let himself go🚩. Calling her a dude? 😑 No need to entertain that!
💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Patient with his looks took me outtttt
@@diamonddiamond2024 😂😂😂 you know it's true hon 😂
@@lakeshadavis8332 u are cold🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's very true tho🤣🤣🤣
Right that is a tough 38 😂.
I said no way she older. So glad I wasnt the only one thinking that.
Congratulations Matthia Kelsey on going back to College and completing.
Did she really say she pays for an extra apartment for him to live in? Girl bye!!!
He'd be under the freeway!!
She's better than me!!!
😄😄😄😄😄
She did...yes..she did.
....and dont forget 3 months grocery. Unreal!
She’s an amazing woman and mother Good for her for choosing to love herself better
I have never been so angry 😠 watching Divorce cour. This man is annoying!!!!! God bless that woman and her kids.
I call bullshit. Most of what she said was her being an adult
You stole my comment before I even got a chance to make it lol. The only thing I would have added is that she is an amazing and beautiful woman.
He had no intentions of stepping up to be a better man. He thought coming to Divorce Court would get him back in the house and give him more time. He showed no true remorse or willingness to change. Bravo for serving him there because he would have dodged the process server. 👏
He already stepped up providing for kids that's not biologically his, he was the 1 fighting for the marriage why did she come to the show with divorce papers couldn't she have signed them at home? No let's go on national TV & emabarass ourselves to make it look good. It's funny how yall encourage women to break up a family over minor issues that can be fixed. Now it's gonna be even hard raising 4 kids by yourself without that man's income, knowledge, protection or structure! No 1 will ever date her seriously again, she's an older busy woman with 4 kids who about to sign up for that?
@@DB-tv9jp Totally disagree. He WOULD NOT HAVE signed them at home. He won't even move out. And sir ya'll doesn't include all women. That's like saying ya'll as men are all freeloaders, users, and abusers. We don't know why she had to do this here but obviously there's a reason. 🤔 You may not choose her but there's someone who will and appreciate her for who she is.
@@mskim8575 He didnt want sign That's because he's fighting for his family why marry someone just to give up 13 years in & we are talking about there situation, no 1 said anything about abuse or negativity she said he works & sits in chair on FB that's not abuse & where's the biological father who does nothing? No 1 is checking for an older busy mom of 4 to have a relationship with. Stop telling men what they want & listen to what we want it's crazy how yall want to encourage families to break up & think somebody else bout to come save the day? Those kids need there father in the home period
@@mskim8575 Why should he have to move out when your married yall figure that shit out why is it fair for him to be thrown of out a home they both share & contributed to just because she mad & he still contributed to her home after he moved out cmon now we know yall hate us but damn yall take pride in getting over on men anyway yall can
@@DB-tv9jp Obviously they couldn't figure it out hence they're on Divorce Court.
That's EXACTLY the type of man who'll end up ALONE in an elderly center with NO visitors and his corpse won't be reclaimed.
Omg I've cared for patients like that, the oncology and hospice units
So sad 😞
I’ve taken care of SO many people like that- men more than women, and what makes it even sadder- most of them don’t ever own their own actions that led to it.
EXACTLY 💯 💯
This man is fighting for his marriage she is leaving & she will be by herself later on no 1 is going to seriously date a older busy OW mom of 4 kids, where is the biological father at where is the mean comments for him because he don't do shit for his kids but yall mad at the man who stepped in & became a step father make it make sense
@Dion Tatum With all that truth said that's all you can say my point exactly 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ crazy part is jokes is really on yall, us men our going to keep leveling up living good & still getting any action we want from you or any females that's around you qw out numbered as men & we still able to get what we want with or without a relationship think about it
These are some of the best, most authentic situations that I’ve seen on Divorce Court in a long time. Whoever is screening the couples who appear on the show is doing an amazing job.
Agreed!
I agree. That’s why Toler left and that’s why Faith didn’t last because situations. Half the folks weren’t married or were married to someone else yet bringing a side piece to court or bs like Rolling Ray smh. Star is doing a great job but she has more to work with then they gave Faith who was an actual judge
I agree,because some of the couples on these shows seem so fake and comical
Correct.
I luv these cases,more mature,no nonsense
It hurts my heart to hear her talking about what she does. No one deserves that.
deserved it for 15 years
She sounds like me at times!!
Judge Starr brings another level of subtle drama to the show and I’m here for it. Great job Judge
LOVE Your wording
Judge Star your the truth!!!!
He might as well call her mama😂😂😂😂😂
If he is not the epitome of a sorry man idk what is. Complete man child. Good for her and those kids to be greater!
He wasn’t . He made a mistake and she is still stuck on it. And based on her temperament I don’t think she might’ve been the best of wives
Now I won’t say he is perfect nor near completely right. Let’s keep it a buck the average woman will only do as good as her baby daddy that woman need to shut the fuck up go back to her husband and go through counseling
@@javiercordero9039 it's the lack of accountability and doing things for himself. The type of wife she was shouldn't dictate how he shows up for his kids or how he shows up for himself.
@@dannielleyelder Anen
@@dannielleyelder she wants to be a man. She married a simp because a real man not going to want her with 2 kids. She turning into the man she wants.
“You act like we hurting tho!” Words of the man who is complacent, nonchalant and not interested in elevating and growing their family.
No that means they are not broke & they are content with their normal average life which is ok, she kept saying he can do more but his point was we good why isn't that enough? Everyone is not ambitious everybody don't wanna be rich some men like to live a regular good decent lifestyle & that's ok. Now where is she gonna elevate too being a single older busy mom of 4? Those children need there father in the household & they did grow there family having extra kids why spend 13 years investing just to give up & get nothing no one will ever date her seriously being older OW with 4 children 🤷🏿♂️
@@DB-tv9jp hes a loser. Glad she got away.
@@DB-tv9jp um maybe that's true in the 90's but in today's day in age it's completely normal for an older woman with kids to date and I know plenty of them who have found husbands that they are happy with. Also it doesn't mean they were content with what they had it means HE was content with what he had. She was miserable, the reason to end it after all these years is because she wasn't happy and she decided to start living a life where there is happiness for her. If he's content with the lifestyle he's living then he should find a woman who would be happy living that type of life.
@@DB-tv9jp also, it's not like he's providing everything they need. She's saying she has to supplement the rest, which would be fine except for that she wants more outta life so if they were BOTH striving to make more money then they can be alright and get more outta life. Cause having 4 kids is very expensive. Probably not easy to afford a vacation.
@@pratkier Stop the lies no 1 is seriously looking to date an older, busy overweight woman with 4 kids simply not true it's not a super gang of stepfathers around & what about the children you're breaking up there home too
To many damn excuses 😒 she needs to run 🏃♀️ she can do bad alone
It flowed out like Diarrhea.. just wow..
She’s already gone for six months now
She can do Good all by herself.
Yessss is about time she leave him. She doesn't need him!!! I am soo happy that she signed those papers👏🏾👏🏾. I wish her the best💯
Thats right encourage her to break up that home & raise 4 kids by herself without the father they need, dont complain when shit gets hard
@@DB-tv9jp Is that you, Charles!
He screwed up big time! They should’ve at least offered the brother some tissues when he was crying!🥴😇
@@DB-tv9jpi rather that than dealing with a cheater & someone who would leave my side when im at a hospital bleeding out & hysterical cause he “doesnt want to see that”✨ someone else is going to come treat her AND her kids better than he ever could.
This is the same thing that had happened to me in my marriage. The only thing that will change him is you change your path to go in the opposite direction of him. I promise you that.
Yes 😉
I love the way Ms. Star dresses!!
Wow! He so wrong for not being there for his wife. Got her out here by herself acting like single mom.
She was a single mom until he stepped him & took care of another mans kids for 13 years wheres the credit for that?
@@DB-tv9jp sounds like he doesn’t even help out with his own kids with her.. let alone the step kids
We as women do too much for men who don't deserve a slice of bread
Damn so a man who step in & take care of anothers mans kids dont deserve anything? wow 13 years is a long time to stay in a so called bad situation! Yall love dogging men just because you'll never keep one lets stop the BS ok
@@DB-tv9jp how did he support them? He had no choice but to step in if he was living with them. What did he teach them? Yo saw one of them hertbroken
@Tonya Harper, A slice of moldy bread he doesn't deserve.
She said he provided, he works 12 hours day I'm quite sure his money was contributing & why should you have to support kids that belong to another man, why do women think that's ok? 13 years was it really all bad cmon now yall love to argue instead of thinking before you speak
And why did the kids decide to call him dad if he truly wasn't a father figure?! It's not about being right it's about being realistic
Just think of what more of a superwoman she'll be for herself and her kids. Glad she let go of this selfish man. Now her boat can sail without his constant leak.
This was an oddly satisfying episode. I hope he signed with no issue. She deserves the world and I think she’s gonna go out and get it! 😍
maybe another kidney?
Good for you Ms Kelsey! You did probably the best thing you could do for yourself. It's refreshing to see on Divorce Court a woman like Ms Kelsey who's clear about what she wants and puts her foot down.
She wants to be a man. She be single and mad in 5 years like most black women
“If my husband kept calling me dude, I would throw something at him” 😂😂😂😂
he's dead weight
I think everyone’s heart broke when the daughter came on. Tears came to my eyes and everyone on the show. To have the feeling of being forgotten by the man you know as a father. That hurts. What a beautiful young lady. Well spoken, smart and loving.
My ex was loving towards my kids until he had his own...
Now everyone has grown up an he is alone, for good reasons.
Kudos to this woman!!!!! She knows her worth even if it took a little time! He is worthless
If he's 38, then we all need help.
😅😂🤣😅🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lookin 5 years from social security 😑😑
He wasn't gonna come if he knew it was to actually get the divorce...He thought he was gonna continue to string her along with the promise of "working on it"; she was determined to get out of this, so she let him think that to put him on the spot to get him to sign it right then & there.
Girl, when I left my 1st husband I didn't look back. Idc how much he tries to get you back; if he starts going to therapy, let him know that's great for him & hopefully will make him a better father, but do NOT give him hope or even think about going back when you know from trial, tests, & errors he ain't it...
I couldn't give someone 15 years of my time to waste; I bailed after 3, and that was too long! I wouldn't have the amazing spouse I have today had I kept settling trying to "make it work" listening to miserable people!
Think about the new possibilities after removing that burden from your life. I'm excited for her & the next chapter in her life without that stressor weighing her down. Time to get in shape, get your health under control, and take care of YOU! Divine wishes, hopes, & dreams for you 💖.
I’m sooo proud of this woman. She’s absolutely beautiful, inside and out! This man didn’t deserve her and he had plenty of time and opportunity to prove he wanted his family. Lots of women wait and wait for the man to get it together and there is only so much a woman can take. Good luck to you Queen!
When she put on her glasses I knew shit was going to get real
HE THREW AWAY A DIAMOND
So many women experience this in their marriages and it’s sad. Society needs to stop letting men think going to work is all you need to be a good husband.
Sis you can't stop a man from cheating
Freedom is great isn’t it. Moving forward
Oohhhh Lord i don’t think she was safe enough to serve him at home. He seems very angry and hostile. I’m glad she left.
He did. I was like wow he's rough and gruff in his conversations with her.
Congratulations to this lovely lady for moving on.
I’m glad she signed those papers and did not hesitate good for her. 🎉
Ohhhhhhhhhh nooooo sis. I'm sorry you've had to put up with him. You're a warrior, a true example for your children. He's truly disgusting. Trust and believe the universe has someone better for you.
No 1 is about to seriously date her, she's older OW busy mom of 4 kids who is about to sign up for that? Stop encouraging women to break up there families because now she will never have another man
13 years it couldn't have been that bad, she would have been gone. So him working 12 hours a day & contributing to kids that's not his is a lot & should be rewarded as such? Where is the disstain for the biological father who doesn't do anything for this blood children what yall gotta say to him?
@@DB-tv9jp you must be Mr. Kelsey
@@kaylaj.3743 No I'm me I'm my own person with common sense & adult tendencies I act my age, why is it a problem for me to make an adult comment about an adult conversation. Grow up yall keep acting like kids & think everything a game & its not why is it ok for yall to encourage people to break up there families? Misery loves company single women keep women single!
@@DB-tv9jp nobody said it was a game. But when someone is hurting you, you don’t continue being with them just because he works and helped support children whom are not his.
I guess all abused people should stay with their abusers right? Or people who are not being supported in the marriage should continue being emotionally unsupported?
GOOD FOR HER 👏
HE EVEN LOST THE KIDS WORST EXCUSE FOR A MAN I HAVE SEEN
You go girl😁 run, run and never look back.
This woman is amazing . I’m in tears .I’m glad you saw your self worth . Judge star you are an excellent mediator
This man is a whole can of hot mess🙄🤦🏽♀️
He was definitely jealous of her getting her education, Ridiculous! My kids father told me he was jealous of me going back to school. He wouldn't watch watch our daughter or help with anything. Relationships are not a competition, your are suppose to there for your better half and congratulate them through their accomplishments.
You would think that in a partnership that if
one gets an opportunity for success, then both
of them are succeeding. Push it along!
@@missioncnacpr7904 I really feel your pain. I made the mistake of letting
them pressure me into feeling success was too much for me. Glad you made it.
Another' DUDE who messed up on a good woman!
This was a great episode. She realized they need to be apart
Well done Lanya!! Keep on succeeding. 👏🏾
Ma’am it’s way past time for you to 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ 🏃 please go away from that sorry piece of human .
So freaking proud of her!! She knows her worth and can do what’s best for her and kids and hopefully find another man who will cherish her.
Listen at the end of a day, bringing home a check is nice. But, showing up is equally important and while it isn’t always easy to do, a fair partner can recognize when their spouse is trying and when they are being lazy.
He isn’t vapid and lazy, can’t deal with anything beyond his needs and wants. Sometimes when you’re in an uncomfortable situation- just be honest with those around you but show up and be present, attentive, act interested (ask questions) and before you know it... you will find yourself successful in showing up when it’s last thing you want to do.
even if you don't mean it and don't give a rat's ass?
he’s sooo angry at heart 💔
Judge star was so ready for her to divorce him she stood up half way an realized o shoot the police officer post to get the paper 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
It's sad to see a family fall apart is sad to watch. But when a woman's fed up, there's nothing you can do about it. (R KELLY)
HE IS EVEN YELLING IN COURT BECAUSE HE NOW SEE ITS OVER
Congratulations to her on her FREEDOM!! Nothing quite compares to that!!
Sad, he didn't even realize that she was already gone.
RKelly said it best: when a woman's fed up, it ain't nothing you can do about it!!
When she said she’s diabetic she has one kidney, my heart broke, I wish her strength and best in her life ❤
.....and perhaps ....a new kidney?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He doesn't know how to BE a husband...people don't automatically become something, just because they are put into position...he just sounds stupid, defending himself.
Dead weight, time to move on💯
Blk men just keep embarrassing blk women...smh now that he's about to be alone and the only women he will get are these young girls who will play him for a fool....he's jealous of her lowkey...
That's why I just stop dating BM too many I met are like this
Don’t group all BM together with this kind of foolery, we’re not all about this, I’ve been thru misery, drama, stress, etc.. with BW, but, I would never speak bad on all BW because of the few I’ve had bad experiences with, it’s like saying all blacks are criminals
Congratulations Ms. Kelsey. Men have to realize when a woman says that she is tired with him and his games. She is gone like cook up.
Wow he got really mean :/ I’m glad she signed the papers and saw thru his BS!!
HE HAD 15 YEARS TO GET IT TOGETHER AND DO RIGHT AND FAILED NOW HEIS PISSED TO BAD DUDE THE NEXT GUY WILL KNOW EXACTLY WHAT TO DO
HE IS THE PERFECT EXAMPLE OF A DROWNING MAN WILL GRAB A STRAW SORRY DUDE TO LITTLE TO LATE
@@charleslee1644 will there even BE a next guy? Wouldn't that be funny if she needed a kidney and he was the only match for a donor? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So many men are such a disappointment and waste of humanity!! They just float through life taking everything for granted!! Women please have love for yourself and take nothing less than your worth!! Break the ties... he can be a nothing man by himself!! Once she gets rid of that dead weight than she can be lifted and accomplish so much more!!
Yes currently
You sure he’s 38? He looks like he’s had a hard life
He acts like he's on something, the way his eyes kept rolling
This woman makes me want to cry for her.
He wants to save his marriage. Translation: he doesn’t want to lose his momma, I mean wife😂
Not Robert leaving his pen 😂 ✒
Right 😂
yasss congratulations🎉🎉🎉 sis on moving on,you deserve much better than what he gave you 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
He deserves better he took care of another's man responsibility & now gets nothing for it. Sis moving on to nothing no man is seriously going to date an older, overweight busy mom of 4 kids! Yall love encouraging women to break up there families & not thinking how that effects the children of that household it's about the kids not mom trying to live her best life!
@@DB-tv9jp She deserves less drama in her life and she does not want that bum anymore.
@@ericar.hutcherson874 Right now doing everything alone without an active father in the household & without all his contributions is going to be less drama, make it make sense. In life you only get what you work for & earn nobody deserves nothing! Yall love to argue & fight with the same men trying to love yall its not cute & jokes all you us men going to keep leveling up, keep succeeding & keep getting action from you or from any female around you. Yall will learn the hard way that a man is much more than a dollar sign!
@@DB-tv9jp From the replies that you have posted, you seem to know the bum. Am I correct? You cannot raise a grown man and he fits the description.
@@ericar.hutcherson874 Like I said nake it make sense she's a bum as well ain't nobody checking for her & u know that & chose that bum stop the cap buy a dog & die alone Big Shirley! Women are accountable too they both have fault in this but he's fighting & she's quiting go be single by yourself ain't nobody checking for you or her overweight, old busy mom of 4 go enjoy the struggle
I love that for her! You go girl! Divorceeeeee him🥳🥳
He 38 but look 50
My late husband just graduated September 2021 till he suddenly passed Dec 2021, he didn't do/go to ceremony as he didn't want to but I bet you butt I was there proud of him!
As I always say; you can be every type of woman a man wants, if they don’t want to be there, they won’t be. Just greedy with confidence on E. On to other news GO GIRL!!! Good for you! May you be in good health and may your family prosper!! 💞💜💞
They're past the point of working it out. I hope that he can learn from this so that he can have a successful relationship someday. I also hope that she one day gains the love a stability that she deserves.
I’m SO happy she got away!!!
I’m Soooo tired of seeing couples who have a horrible marriage, full of lies, cheating and no hope for the future leave the court room still together. She deserves all the best. Congratulations on your graduation, Mama. 🎉
Seems like he was 39yrs old on those before pictures 😆 it's funny how dudes try to act straight when you mention about you divorcing them.
LOL! Matthia is done. DONE, DONE, DONE!
He don’t want her to stop taking care of him he got to go she can find better or do on her own she have beautiful kids that show leaders in the making
Ive watched so many episodes of Divorce court. A lot of the dynamics bring back memories of how my parents interacted but this episode in particular reminds me so much of my parents relationship its crazy.
I am a HSSU alumni!
Dead weight.. you are alive by God mercy...He kept you and you are beautiful.
Did he trust call her "dude"???
This DB person in these comments is too pressed 😂😂😂😂. I’m starting to think this is the man in this episode 😂
Yes, I asked him point-blank if he is.
Sorry, sorry, sorry. This man is SORRY.
Actions speak louder than words. Just how long does a person have to wait for you to do what supposed to be done?
He's thinking whose gonna cook and clean for me now? Women do living alone better than men.......
And her anthem is I got my degree it's time for me. When you are a wife and mother family comes first period.
I absolutely love this woman!
If you don't want to do everything for another person then don't do everything for them!!
He's 38 and looking like an ad for AARP.
🤣🤣🤣
I'm proud of her! 👏🏿
Wow I feel so bad for the children. I feel he is self -centered, selfish and a user. Love shouldn't be this hard
Judge Star is so GOOOOOODDDDDD OMG!!!
It broke my heart as a College Counselor (for HS seniors) that he didn’t go to her events. That really Carries a lot weight for kids. He’s not a real man, if you know what I mean.
He don't want to lose his place to live
Girl why do you even engage in arguing with him??????? Just say goodbye and make it final. He’s got his claws out hanging on and still has the audacity to fight like a child. Just LEAVE.SIMPLE!
I was so annoyed watching him I didn’t wait to see the end! Smart lady! She had the papers ready to go and heard him singing the same old song….‘I’m tired!’ Lol…..You’ve been served! 😂
It's not that hard or simple to leave a family.
@@Amal-ku9xq I know, I’ve been there.
This woman is an enabler ~ I was done when she said she provided the first 3 months of his groceries, didn’t she say he had a job?
He did not deserve her!!
What a tone to use towards his wife ?! Where is any show of love for her at all ? Why is he crying ?
Having been in a marriage with similar circumstances, this case hit home
Ain't no way in hell I would be paying for his apartment. He could have gone to a shelter. Sis wake up!
what is wrong with our blk men !!??
The best part for me is when JS and Robert talk about the case after. They both crack me up😂😂😂😂😂
I loooove the “you’ve been served”!!! Yesssss!!! So hopeful for this lady to love her best life moving forward. Homeboy can stay wherever the hell he’s at and learn to actually be a parent.
Oooh Judge, that outfit is fire on you, Sis! I so enjoy watching you straighten these couples out in high fashion!
This is a perfect definition of when a woman has had enough and there’s no going back. She can do bad all by herself she doesn’t need him for that. 👏🏽 good luck, better days are ahead. Trust in God 🙏
HE IS MAD BECAUSE HE KNOWS IT WILL ONLY TAKE HER A HOT SECOND TO GET A GOOD MAN
I'm signing these divorce papers too ma'am....lol
Same! 🖊️