Why Do Men Cheat? 5 Reasons Why He Cheats (And What You Can Do!)

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    5 Reasons Men Cheat (Time Stamped)
    Reason 1 - Men cheat because of the ego. 00:55
    Reason 2 - Men cheat because they are bored. 02:05
    Reason 3 - Men cheat because of insecurity. 03:30
    Reason 4 - Men cheat because of immaturity 04:45
    Reason 5 - Men cheat when they are dating someone who is a doormat ie has compromised themselves or their values. 07:00
    Ego:
    Boredom:
    Insecurity: Men feel insecure so they seek validation from another person. They make the mistake of trying to boost their confidence by sleeping with other women, by going through the chase.
    Immaturity - Men tend to develop an emotional IQ later in life. Men in younger years tend to be more immature in dating and relationships and tend to let go of good things.
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ความคิดเห็น • 185

  • @weinklent5082
    @weinklent5082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Well shoot... Being a man, and a former cheater I couldn't agree more with all the reasons he's given. There probably more reasons but, these are the main ones. I had everything I've always... Not just wanted, but needed. A loving, faithful woman. On a scale, definitely a 9. I wanted to feed my ego more I suppose... And make me look better in front of my friends. But that was a big mistake. Being immature and still fairly young at the time... Got caught up in a whole new way. Lost an angel of 2 years. If i could take it back, I would. Fast forward, karma is real. You cheat, one day you'll get cheated on. Believe that

  • @modiehimotshabi901
    @modiehimotshabi901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'd be very happy if u make a video on "why men gets so angry ND in denial when caught cheated" why they shift the blame

  • @connieflores7362
    @connieflores7362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I was cheated on by my significant other. We have been together for one year and a half. I had looked down one day towards his phone. I saw a girls text stating good night with a emoji kiss. This is something he would text me every night. I asked him how's Rachel. The look on his face was price less. He said she text me that really. I told him how is she. He said he got on a singles web sight. Broke my heart now the table has turned he thinks I'm cheating on him. Thank you for opening my eyes. God bless you.

  • @KevinBaird75
    @KevinBaird75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    “Happiness comes from within; not through the validation from others...”

  • @r_ns7150
    @r_ns7150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “Thou shall not commit adultery”..

  • @christagamor2120
    @christagamor2120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I always believe in Karma.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Christa for the post

    • @kiviagomes41
      @kiviagomes41 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      me tooo

    • @janeyd5280
      @janeyd5280 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christ's Gamor you are so right. my ex got his karma big time.x

    • @narhbertha9389
      @narhbertha9389 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here dear

  • @mobopolo
    @mobopolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He said he was lonely. I was too focused on raising our kids and not giving him enough attention.

    • @steveisichei7903
      @steveisichei7903 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Husband cheated I just found out but don't know how to confront him

  • @jersylinda2973
    @jersylinda2973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Well for me I didn't know he was cheating he was always saying he had estimate he had to do until the day I found him cheating and found out he was cheating for years I stayed with him for 4 years after I found out we had a daughter she was 12 I didn't want her to pay for that but I left him after 4 years after that and I've been alone for 9 years I dont beleive in love anymore they all lie and cheat I'm better off alone I think

    • @susanebanks3268
      @susanebanks3268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is sad .it better be alone. To hard

    • @aronjohn84
      @aronjohn84 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry for you but absolutely not true

  • @mary9012
    @mary9012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My ex falls under ego and immaturity. I was married to him for 36 years and found out he had many affairs over the last 32 years. I found pictures and stupid love letters. All with young women, 20-25 years old. Explain a 56 year old man with a 23 year old girl? It can only be an ego boost.

    • @Gachagoddess789
      @Gachagoddess789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Clearly a blesser!!! He seeks validation... The fantasy... The secrecy and intrigue.. With the affair partners there are nothing real... Only validation... Cheaters confuse those as intimacy.... It's his escape from reality...

  • @gaynellhopper1928
    @gaynellhopper1928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My husband cheated and i left him got a divorce. You are absolutely right. I worshiped him. I worked full time but I gave up everything for him. I was his doormat

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching the video, I hope it was helpful for you Gaynell.
      Coach Adrian

    • @Gachagoddess789
      @Gachagoddess789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doormat??? Maybe so yeah.. Don't ever sell yourself short.. We've been submissive... All up in flames for cheap thrills.. And the Homewrecker feels absolutely zilt!!! All the best Gf

  • @patriciasalmon7167
    @patriciasalmon7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I just want him to suffer the way I'm suffering

    • @KatinkaHope
      @KatinkaHope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm 200 % in agreement with you!!!

    • @wop2784
      @wop2784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      karma real

  • @gatchcat1297
    @gatchcat1297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this video! I needed to hear why my husband cheated. He got 3 out of 5 you mentioned. As soon as I looked at his cell, I found out he was having an affair. That evening, he texted his affair partner and said it was over, we're going to work on our marriage. This was 1 year ago. We're still together, we've been married for almost 40 years now. I watch and listen to your videos, and they have helped me.

    • @weinklent5082
      @weinklent5082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ouch... That must hurt. But staying with a cheater, I would assume would hurt even more? You must really be strong, or you assume you can't find... Not a better man, but a righteous man? Whatever you do, just do it for you Missy.

    • @carmeladubbs2574
      @carmeladubbs2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where did you start? How did you start?!? We are newly married (5 months) and he cheated, I found out and he has apologized but I recently found out it wasn’t just with his old drug buddy but he had given his # out to 2 differently women in public and had been online texting girls ?!?! WHERE DOES THE HEALING BEING?!? How did you do it 😢

  • @jeffyhacey2668
    @jeffyhacey2668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i believe theres no reason that justifies cheating. they cheat bcoz they want to, n they don't care bout their significant other.n they don't have respect for themselves.

  • @joannbyrd6324
    @joannbyrd6324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for this information. My people perish for a lack of knowledge. Iron sharpens iron. Now I can walk forward again.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're very welcome, Joann. I'm glad to hear that, thank you for watching!
      Coach Adrian

  • @evanm076
    @evanm076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I needed this today. Thanks. I'm going now day at a time. It hurts, though.💔

  • @d.notfromhere4405
    @d.notfromhere4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was cheated on by my Husband we have five children married for 22 years loved each other to death helped each other out with everything he told me he loved me all the time and so did I everyone used us as an example and that is the truth I swear to you everything was so perfect and then two years ago I came home and he was gone he cheated he told me everything then he came back then five months later he left again and cheated again and now he’s back and I don’t know what to do.

  • @languagetalk4fun534
    @languagetalk4fun534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Husband cheated on me after 3 years of distance dating me believing he was loyal. When we got married his Mistress came out obviously wanting to create problems this came as a shock to me, he was having phone calls and he decided to go with her. We are separated he says to forget the past and see the future, but he still keeps talking to this woman and probably others, he doesn't want to seek help. I am frightened to go back. I don't see really a change, I am very much hurt.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your story. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you on a personal level.
      Coach Adrian

  • @heartmendoza3361
    @heartmendoza3361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    what goes around comes around

  • @janeyd5280
    @janeyd5280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my ex was a cheater. But he had a well nourished chip on his shoulder. He didn't believe he was good enough and had to get confirmation from others.

  • @traceybrown8061
    @traceybrown8061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am committed to my husband nothing can make me cheat.comitted man don't cheat.a man who cheat are player's

  • @sunishabali6703
    @sunishabali6703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes it very hard to leave because of children.

  • @normaepatanao5755
    @normaepatanao5755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a strong feeling that my boyfriend is a narcissist, I always read an article and always watch in youtube channel about this personal disorder. And some of emphatic criteria is my characteristic falls on me. I know my boyfriend is keep lying and cheating with me. But I can’t understand that I’m always forgive him. And until now I’m still here in the relationship that makes me as a broken pieces person.

    • @rosered3919
      @rosered3919 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello. There are so many wonderful you tubes on understanding and recovering from narcissistic abuse. Get into them.

  • @lorip6790
    @lorip6790 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Men cheat because addiction causes all of those scenarios. It draws in a nice person and can make them very codependent because addicts are always angry and they're always pushing a good person away who doesn't have an addiction. Addiction correct in on my husband and I, it's turned both of our worlds upside down. He's cheated on me and lied so many times. He abandons me all the time and he basically is either cheating on me with someone else or someone who's an addict or with his addiction because it's robbing us of the good times that we used to have and leading him down a path that I'm not willing to follow him on. You have great advice! Thank you! He refuses to get help for his alcohol and drug addiction. He is currently not in our marital home. Any advice for me?

  • @billieglasscock7465
    @billieglasscock7465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I cheated on my ex 3 years ago. I guess women and men cheat for different reasons. I cheated because the sex was bad. He has ED. We split last year. I started seeing my cheating partner again in Dec. Sex is not enough to keep a relationship alive either! We got along in bed but not out of. But we are great friends! Just stay single!!!

    • @chandradpradeep18
      @chandradpradeep18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im a man..... I don't have ED or something.... But one of my friend also cheated cause of ED... She was so sad that if he found out it would make him more insecure nd broke off with both of em.... A another GUY friend of mine cheated when she had small breast nd gain a little weight..... Yaa men nd women both cheat for different reason

    • @hollyvondross9635
      @hollyvondross9635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Single people cheat also.

    • @sloeberdoet
      @sloeberdoet 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hollyvondross9635 How can you cheat when you are single? If you are single you have no obligations towards others. There'"s no commitment or whatever. Singles can never cheat.

  • @Carmenvillegas
    @Carmenvillegas 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found my now ex bf was cheating on me with 2 girls all 3 at the same time. He definitely has many issues. He has no friends, recently got diagnosed with bipolar 2 and OCD, gave him 8 months of my life and I am glad I was smart enough to figure all of this out. He is very insecure and I told him he needs to fix himself first before he can ever be happy with anyone else. He had a lot of childhood trauma and I know that is where all of this is coming from. I do wish him the best. At this point I just feel sorry for him.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Carmen. ⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇
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  • @eramfida9139
    @eramfida9139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How to stop being a doormat? And to work on this?? Please make a video of this..!! Thank you love your video

    • @isacha1
      @isacha1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you don’t play the victim and take back your power then you will not be a doormat.

  • @rayprowd7435
    @rayprowd7435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My partner passed 7 months ago, and she asked her daughter in law to look after me, she is married and because of emotional sadness and loneliness and our bond and connection are getting stronger and we fall for each others hand please help us we know it is wrong what can we do she has to look after me for a long time i'm still young and healthy..

  • @polabear9710
    @polabear9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I keep meeting narcissists

    • @aliciawaters1281
      @aliciawaters1281 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl run I had one they are dangerous

  • @ashielasuh6821
    @ashielasuh6821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I created a fake account and try to flirt with my bf since my intuition kept doubting him, and sure enough he fell into my trap he said he's single for so many years.. Now that I caught him red handed he started saying he knew it from the beginning that it was me with a fake account.
    P.S - I changed my way of chat
    Is it true that he's aware it's me?

  • @victorgoldigwebuike5799
    @victorgoldigwebuike5799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband cheated on me but when I confronted him for us to talk he started shouting at me saying why was I always suspecting him. Am heartbroken what do I do?

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out. Being betrayed is very painful. ⭐ This is how to fix your relationship if you cheated👇
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    • @sahmcgowan7
      @sahmcgowan7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      File for separation. Make him earn her.

  • @Lakatanvlog
    @Lakatanvlog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All of the five reasons are very enlightening. It’s really my husband.....

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Ester.
      Coach Adrian

  • @Jdiodkdndggs
    @Jdiodkdndggs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got cheated on 2 years ago due to the 5th reason. But after that I've grown as a person a lot!!

  • @remirich420
    @remirich420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im currently being cheated on & its with his ex of 5 years while he's been with me for 3 years & we live together. i address the issue with him when i first saw this & his response was "He grown he does wat he wants & stop going through his phone" yet the phone is mines & i let him use it. So i asked him wateva is going on end it or we done. So i didn't see or heard nun for a year & half & he sum how slipped up & saw it again & i called her cause i know he was gonna lie. And wat she tells me i knew already & the thing that got me was that she said he been texting & seeing her the whole time trying to get back but she didn't want him & told her he was single & stay with his mom i was upset i confronted him & he got mad & blammed me & called me an informant

  • @joycalorriene6943
    @joycalorriene6943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😭 thank you for this.

  • @mavisahiadzi1319
    @mavisahiadzi1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do you handle a partner who flirts on the Internet most of the time, and finally cheat on you and then after that plead for forgiveness and yet contininues to seek female attention on the net. How do you handle such man.

    • @vibe2248
      @vibe2248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      U don’t that’s toxic. Let him go life is too short.

  • @kellygroenewald71
    @kellygroenewald71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just found out my boyfriend cheated on me... again... the thing is, he never have physical relationships with other woman, he have an ugly tendency of cheating on me by texting multiple woman he knew in his younger years and keep on saying how he want to try with them again and I found messages where he have been sexting with other woman aswell. I already have a self esteem issue and this is just making it so much worst. I have no idea what to do. Do I end things? Do I try and fix it? I feel so stupid for staying. please help!!

    • @Clemen_tine1997
      @Clemen_tine1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here girl

    • @DollHouseMadam
      @DollHouseMadam 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      By staying, you are showing him that you are ok with being a doormat. From the sound of it, the fact you struggle with your self esteem only plays into him power over you. He is certain you will not leave because of that. Bottom line, you need to leave. Work on becoming more self confident so you are not relying on a man to make you feel good. Whoever holds the power controls the relationship.

  • @shandellecumbee3892
    @shandellecumbee3892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really need some advice right now. My boyfriend and I got pregnant when I'm not suppose to be able to. I was 2 and a half months and had a miscarriage which took a toll on me and even though he didnt show it I believe him as well. A few weeks later I had some major pains and rushed to the hospital only to find out there was a second baby in my tubes and had to have emergency surgery. I was completely crushed. He was by my side the entire time.. a cpl weeks later I seen a message between him and someone he works with about taking break together and she was adamant about doing things to him. Then another message showing he left for lunch and didnt see her txt. I was hysterical. I wanted to kick him out feeling completely betrayed... it's been a cpl weeks now and I still feel off. Like it cant get fixed. I dont understand why he "cheated" to begin with. And now all I want to do is fight with him. I'm so lost and idk what to do or if he is still talking to someone(s). I'm completely devastated. I love him and I want to be with him but I cant get pass the fact that even though hes an amazing person he still chose to hurt me.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Shandelle. I understand what you're going through. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level.
      Coach Adrian

  • @Agatha14631
    @Agatha14631 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am in number 5 reason because am sacred of lossing him. He cheated on me and I love him so much

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Onyemachi. ⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇
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  • @bhaswatimukhopadhyay31
    @bhaswatimukhopadhyay31 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a married woman for 34 years. Itrusted my husband blindly. But at this age of my family life I found he is a cheater. He soled our Gov. flat to his own brother without my concern and he took this decesion only discussing with his bro. and his wife. Nobody told me anything about it. I think he alsohelps bro"s family in otherways . So that I cann"t tollerate him anymore because of his cheating. What canI do legally?

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your story. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level.
      Coach Adrian

  • @lilyaguirre626
    @lilyaguirre626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How can you get thru when ur partner doesnt recognize what he did, when I have all the proof that he did, I tried to trust him , but is hard to trust againg, when he has never said he is sry for what he did, what do I do if all he says is that he has never done it, but you know he did?

    • @anj0804
      @anj0804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same situation 💔

    • @joyoustv8321
      @joyoustv8321 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lily Padilla make him understand that you're aware of all that he's doing, then devalue and ignore him. I assure you that he'll come back to you once he notice you no longer give attention to his actions.....

    • @christineflowers5293
      @christineflowers5293 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sexual addiction is not addressed

    • @Raec123
      @Raec123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He may be a narcissist. If so, he is unable to have any real emotion or true regret. Just leave. My has been caught 3x. 2 of those times he was carrying on daily conversations with women who he never even met in person. Who does this? One he actually did have sex with. But I’m done. As much as he begs and says he’s sorry he really isn’t, he’s sorry he got caught. Mine claimed I was crazy, but all the evidence each time fell in my lap from the women & exposed him; but he was sticking to his guns until I had full conversations with them & he couldnt deny. Trust your gut. My gut told me each time something wasn’t right

  • @lamarcacoleccion9299
    @lamarcacoleccion9299 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The man who cheat is one of his character, how it will work for him to change??

  • @philisiwepearl7932
    @philisiwepearl7932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    .he said he was insecure and because we are far from each other

  • @anj0804
    @anj0804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My boyfriend just cheated on me several times. But I choose to stay with him even if it's so hard for me.. 😔

    • @carnuroalnanda5241
      @carnuroalnanda5241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about "should i take my cheating boyfriend back" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Tonichael Cheating Cachaca - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my work buddy got cool success with it.

  • @lameesclodly4639
    @lameesclodly4639 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband said it was to have a change of scenery, a breather from me, our problems with our teenager children etc..
    Also I show a lack of respect and love towards him because I work a lot and don't give him time...
    But he is madly in love with me and he won't let me go..
    He is Muslim, which means he can marry again as part of the islamic values, so he married her. But I'm his main priority and he wants to be with me all the time. But in order to have sex he has to marry the other woman, he cannot have a sex partner as such.
    Hope that makes sense?
    I'm very very angry and hurt..
    I want to ru away from my life or scream and hurt him.
    What shall I do to not break up the family?

  • @fallofmanbrand
    @fallofmanbrand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved It!

  • @mindset_happy
    @mindset_happy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When my bf told me goin vacation with friends
    I feel weird he don’t pick up the phone / video call from me
    Even my msj he reply late after hours
    I try to ask him what happens
    He just trying to cover up the truth
    Since that I’m away
    Sad but I told him
    We are now normal friend
    He keeping try to contack me
    But enough is enough

  • @patriciasalmon7167
    @patriciasalmon7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you coach Adrian.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome, Patricia. Thank you for watching.
      Coach Adrian

  • @zeenatmustapha2240
    @zeenatmustapha2240 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u wow coming from a man, yes I was cheated on, now i,m happily divorced and he,s sadly lonely

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your story, Zeenat. I hope the video was helpful for you.
      Coach Adrian

    • @zeenatmustapha2240
      @zeenatmustapha2240 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HappilyCommitted thank u, yes it did it,s a great video 👍 I just ❤ it, take care and God bless 🙏.

  • @mirnapurugganan4509
    @mirnapurugganan4509 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, i believe bcoz i am in a relationship already for a few months and we committed w/ each other bcoz i meet my bf in a dating site.. Since he saw me he courted me for a months after we have already in a relationship. He asked me to delete my profile in daying site where he meet me so that we can concentrate each other properly.. Oneday i visited my profile curiously and i saw his profile active everyday. So that's the time we have some sort of discussions regarding this things.. Do you think he's still searching and looking another ladies in that site or following someone??? Thank you..

  • @RachaelNPC
    @RachaelNPC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband told me he thought he was gay which is why it occurred. I found out. He swears he isn't gay but idk if he is just in denial to himself.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we an help you more on a personal level.
      Coach Adrian

  • @XenithRose888
    @XenithRose888 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My boyfriend of 4 and a half years just admitted to cheating on me with someone i considered a friend I called her out and she now hates him and now he thinks he wants to fix us I agreed but I still don’t know what he wants I’m trying to work with him on this though I love him so much I don’t want to lose him but I don’t want to be hurt again all my friends say leave but my heart and gut say stay

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand the pain you're going through. It is hurtful to have your boyfriend betray you. Many people are unsure what to do in circumstance like this. Please take a look at this article, it will help you with your situation.
      www.withmyexagain.com/blog/why-get-back-with-your-ex/
      Coach Adrian

    • @beautymellz5600
      @beautymellz5600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay. The friend tried to break u up. Don't allow it to ever happen again

  • @ramonadaniels6508
    @ramonadaniels6508 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so hurt knowing my husband talking to other female it killing me 😭

  • @prettylittlesecrets5086
    @prettylittlesecrets5086 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What does it mean when a man look at a women next door all the time and not agreeing with it. ( his wife is a beautiful women and the one who see is not pretty at all)

  • @kerryanncoote9022
    @kerryanncoote9022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My partner cheated on me with our coworker why I don't know.maybe is because he want to keep his job because who he cheated with is close to the boss like the boss pit.. I could really want to know why he do it ..he say he make a mistake and he did only want to be friends with her but he don't know what happen..

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Kerry. ⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇
      www.love.happilycommitted.com/offer-page-infidelity1608666073419
      Coach Adrian

  • @shandyevans325
    @shandyevans325 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me and my husband has been together right years and when I catch him cheating he always lies and try to make me to let it go but I have confront him about it but it keeps happening I don't know what to do and it makes me so sad I don't want to keep going thru this

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Shandy. First and foremost, thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I understand how difficult it can be to recover from infidelity, especially when it is on going. If you need more support or need more help trying to navigate the situation, you can book a one-on-one session with us at www.happilycommitted.com
      - Coach Danny

  • @luciaparkin5542
    @luciaparkin5542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband uses dating apps and I have proof he went on date with someone but because he didn’t have sex he says this is not considered cheating he only broke trust. This hurts me so much him not admitting that he cheated makes me think he is going to do it again because he has the right to do it. Because of this it has been very difficult for me to move on since he has shown no remorse.
    I don’t know what to do anymore and he keeps asking for an open relationship but I don’t want that. It hurts me so much that he wants to see other people. Its like his view of marriage has changed and he is bored with me.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand what you're going through, Lucia. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ and consider booking a 1:1 session so that we can help you.
      Coach Adrian

    • @DollHouseMadam
      @DollHouseMadam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is changing the rules on you mid game. You have told him that it hurts you and he has done nothing to help you with that. He will never admit to cheating on you because he doesn’t see it that way and you being hurt won’t change it. If you don’t want an open relationship and he does, you are both at an impasse. You need to leave the relationship and find someone who wants what you want. Wishing that he wanted the same thing is simply wasting both of yours time. Cut him lose, deal with the pain without him and make yourself stronger.

    • @777maggiemae
      @777maggiemae 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel for you you Lucia. I am in the same situation. We have been together for 35 faithful years. A few months ago I started noticing very strange behaviour from him around his phone. I finally decided to have a look and found that he was texting and talking to several women. I felt like I’d been kicked in the stomach. Not in a million years did I think he was capable of betraying me. We are still together but it’s very difficult as I still don’t trust him.

    • @whitneytolbert3648
      @whitneytolbert3648 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@777maggiemae I'm going through something similar now I know that this comment is a year old I'm interested in knowing how things are now has it gotten better or worse?? He won't leave me I guess cake and eat it too and I honestly can't leave because I have nowhere to even go 😭

  • @carmeladubbs2574
    @carmeladubbs2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where does drug use fall into cheating. My husband of 5 months cheated on me with an old “drug buddy” he said it wasn’t about sex it was just for the drugs! (Not exactly true because I found in his phone he had text several girls before that drug binge) He was clean n sober for 18 months prior to cheating while I was out of town (I literally was gone 30 mins before he started texting her and then met up with her n spent the weekend in hotel doing drugs n having sex with her) I’m crush, he has apologized and I’m willing to try n work it out, but I’m so hurt and betrayed, and angry, I don’t know where to start! He checked himself into 30 day rehab and I’m searching for the info and knowledge to try and heal and “move on”....... if it’s even possible?!?

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing your story. I can only imagine the pain you're going through. Many people are not sure where to begin. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ and consider booking a 1:1 session so that we can help you on a personal level.
      Coach Adrian

  • @2taxedout
    @2taxedout หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about she using sex as a weapon? Denying physical intimacy for 4 yrs and there is nothing medically or emotionally wrong?

  • @jenneeliseo15
    @jenneeliseo15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can i contact u if i have more question

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ to book a 1:1 session.
      Coach Adrian

  • @chendriahsharda6373
    @chendriahsharda6373 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thx for xplanation ..but could you gv my an reply on why a husband always fell in love on any type of women...althought he is married man..he alwys hate his own wife...why??

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Chendriah.
      ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: happilycommitted.com/coaching/
      Coach Adrian

  • @adasiachandler17
    @adasiachandler17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if it’s happened 4 times but you never knew about it until now...

  • @haroonmoosa9777
    @haroonmoosa9777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well my husband of 15years has recently impregnated my friend, turns out they have been doing this for a long time now. I'm deeply hurt and don't know how to deal with this

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Haroon.
      ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: happilycommitted.com/coaching/
      Coach Adrian

  • @hollypepper7019
    @hollypepper7019 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this female said that my boyfriend that iv been with for 7 years has been texting her and iv seen the text he was telling her she pretty and that her boyfriend was lucky and asked her to send him a birthday picture of her and I'm sure we all know what kind of picture he was wanting.
    but this is me being cheated on
    to me...what do you think and what do I do now because now I feel worthless and now I feel like I have no Purpose how can I make it all go way and go back to normal how do I know that he really loves me ? he hasn't said he was sorry he said he hasn't did anything but he did

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Holly,
      I am sorry you’re going through this. I understand why you feel that way and I know its a struggle to deal with it. We have a video on our channel that talks about emotional affairs and what to do when your partner is texting someone else. I hope you find the time to watch it.
      th-cam.com/video/ANxKDKnQilY/w-d-xo.html

  • @tabbycomfort7940
    @tabbycomfort7940 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got cheated when I got pregnant..6th month until now and my baby is 5months old

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Tabby. ⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇
      www.love.happilycommitted.com/offer-page-infidelity1608666073419
      Coach Adrian

  • @ashmsss2218
    @ashmsss2218 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So..I have a boyfriend..we talked for the longest time, but he would talk to his ex and have sex with her some times, we started dating in August and his ex contacted me providing proof of dates and everything, would it be worth for me to stay..?

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Ash. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level.
      Coach Adrian

  • @gracecramirez6395
    @gracecramirez6395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why men tend to be on Social Media an block you from it,we are married an never puts our picture of Us.Im always on investing mode what to do??

  • @dianedewindt5083
    @dianedewindt5083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate the discussion about compartimentalizing, i.e., one can be mature in one part of one's life, but immature in other parts. I just found out my mate has three mobile phones, only one of which I knew about.

    • @jeffyhacey2668
      @jeffyhacey2668 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      thought twas mine alone that did that...

  • @jbramores
    @jbramores 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    all of the above fit case...

  • @wagastergirl
    @wagastergirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found out last month my husband have been cheating on me for 7 years probably longer and he keeps denying it.
    We have been together for 12 years, married 2 years.
    I found out by going thru his message and it had message from 7 years ago with him telling different women how he loves them back and wanting to start a relationship.
    He does everything he is supposed to as a husband and a father so I never suspected him . I am in shock and it affecting me as mother and my job don’t know what I did wrong till I watch this video and realized it has be the last 3 reasons you gave.
    Am having anxiety and trust issue any time he is on his phone or not with me .
    Please what should I do.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Tina. I understand what you're goin through. Being betrayed by a spouse is very painful. Please watch this video when you get a chance.
      th-cam.com/video/dcXBu3NqAOQ/w-d-xo.html
      Coach Adrian

  • @remirich420
    @remirich420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    And to further continue it every since i spoke to her he has blame me & now hes mad & haven't talk much to me if he do its short & then it turns to anger & now im every name in the book & its my fault & hes not touching & cuddling with me at night anymore since this he's on one side im on the other. No intimacy for awhile within the month & half of this mess he caused i can recall us being together on 2 occasions that's it & he tells me just because we not intimate doesn't mean its someone else. Its hard to believe it when i have proof of text messages & info from her so thats hard to believe when he lay with me EVERY NIGHT. So plz can i get sum help i love him & want to work on it i just need help on how to or should i move on & how to cope if i lose him cause i probably won't be able to.

  • @ssoziandrew1313
    @ssoziandrew1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He has cheated on me again

  • @haminattaceesay1036
    @haminattaceesay1036 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband my has been cheating on me for 9years i always got him redhanded in any relationship he got his self to but he neva accept the fact.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Haminatta. Being betrayed by your spouse is very hurtful.
      ⭐ How To overcome being cheated on?👇
      www.love.happilycommitted.com/offer-page-infidelity1608666073419
      Coach Natalie

  • @vivansolo7471
    @vivansolo7471 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a husband but he’s cheating on my with a another girl what do I do?

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out, Vivan. Please watch this video.
      th-cam.com/video/dcXBu3NqAOQ/w-d-xo.html
      Coach Adrian

  • @tb3006
    @tb3006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All five!!! I am a doormat 🤣

    • @Yoyo-pn7sb
      @Yoyo-pn7sb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ouch!😂😂

    • @veenakakade2833
      @veenakakade2833 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am door mat too realized this was the reason... while i always had a hunch...🙁😢

  • @peggymicsky8607
    @peggymicsky8607 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mainly because they can!

  • @evonnestuart2689
    @evonnestuart2689 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I been cheated on and I did emotional cheating later in marriage. We would like to do your infidelity program.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for reaching out. Are you interested in booking with us?
      Thanks
      Coach Adrian

    • @evonnestuart2689
      @evonnestuart2689 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HappilyCommitted yes we are thinking to do so.

  • @joycalorriene6943
    @joycalorriene6943 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now i kmow the reason why i get cheated on many times by the same man.. the first and only man I love. That reason is no.5 😭 sad but true

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching the video. I hope it was helpful to you.
      Coach Adrian

  • @Melowdiaaa
    @Melowdiaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bf cheated, one of his reasoning was the loss of his best friend.

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching, I understand what you're going through. Please watch this video, I believe it will be helpful for you.
      th-cam.com/video/dcXBu3NqAOQ/w-d-xo.html
      Coach Adrian

  • @pinkrose3230
    @pinkrose3230 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ego / insecure.

  • @lmh8642
    @lmh8642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what about sex addition...compulsive sexual behavior disorder???? is this driven by ego???

  • @claire1034
    @claire1034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @louiemertyn4218
    @louiemertyn4218 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Need help

    • @louiemertyn4218
      @louiemertyn4218 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Found out last month, my bf cheated on me. That my guts feeling is true that day!

    • @HappilyCommitted
      @HappilyCommitted  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you.
      Coach Adrian

  • @kareenmesidor3278
    @kareenmesidor3278 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband cheated i think because I make more money than him 😥

    • @moehammadyoenoes9177
      @moehammadyoenoes9177 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My wife cheated on me .nd also I dd cheat but on my cheating end up wit the child nd now my wife know the true things a bad now in the house