My ex said I hate you because I couldn't call her while in class. She said "your embarrassed to talk to your own girlfriend? I hate you!". I swear, my exact words were "Nope, I'm out"
Had one straight up start talking about marriage with me right as we went on our first date. She said, and I quote, "I've never had a chef for a husband before." Never gave her a second chance, even if she was a lovely woman.
The story about the person mentioning how cheap and easy it was to hire a hit man was scary as hell...I had a crazy ex who claimed to know people in the mafia. 🙄
Not me but my sister “I left the moment he started to come up with names for our grandchildren not ironically or funny. He was completely serious the whole time”
@@raiden6428 grandparents don't typically name grandkids. It sort of implies he was fantasising about kids so much that he knew what names the fantasy kids would like for their own kids
I had this one guy try dating me and he was something else. He already had his wedding planned... down to the dress the bride would wear. He literally needed any living female person to plug into his fantasy it was that planned out. Guess who was the lucky girl he chose? :D He also decided to sit in the parking lot of where I worked to "watch my car". Because apparently my car needed babysitting. Totally not being possessive or anything. Just... yikes.
My brother and I went down to his property to take care of a few things. Told her I'd be gone all day, I'd call her the next day. She called my cell a dozen times before I even got there. It's an hour drive. She called my house 56 times after I kept hitting the FU button on the phone (I never set up voicemail). Called her back the next day, told her flat out "Done."
I was pretty lonely and living in Michigan at the time. We met on bumble and it seemed great. He came and picked me up because my car decided to shit out a day before our date. We’re riding to the restaurant and this dude goes, “There’s something you should know. I’m on the sex offense registry, but not because I actually did anything. The girl who got me there lied and said I molested her but I didn’t.” We’d been talking for at least 3 weeks at that point and he decided to tell me this when we were in the middle of no where driving in the car alone. I never called him back. Idc if he did or didn’t, you don’t get a girl all alone and then creepily tell her about how you’re a sec offender and then go silent for 10 minutes on the way to the restaurant.
I was dating a guy for two weeks when he asked “how do you feel about being common law partners instead of getting married? Also about having all our children at home without birth certificates?” Not even kidding I just immediately stopped and turned around. I hadn’t even been dating this guy for two weeks and he’s talking about marriage and kids with no identities.
I actually like when people are honest about their ideals upfront. He may be a little crazy, but at least you didn't discover it months or years into the relationship
Anyone who makes you choose between your relationship and your pet is just trying to control you. If you give up the pet, they'll just find something else to force you to change. It'll never end. Fuck them, keep your pet. Your pet won't demand you to change for them. Your pet will love you no matter what.
@@gnhun101 There is very obviously a difference in context, there. You can have a mature, reasonable discussion about allergies, and how to reconcile your SO's health issues with your pets. The situation I am describing, which comes up repeatedly in the video, is that of boyfriends and girlfriends declaring that they want a pet gone, not for any rational reason, but purely to satisfy their personal whims. If there's no rational argument being made for the removal of the pet, and your partner isn't showing your desires proper respect, and ESPECIALLY if they turn it into an ultimatum... Fuck 'em. Keep the pet.
Got my buddy here, he’s just told me a story about a girl (asked him if I could post it) he dated around 30 years ago for 3 years , it seems that he took her to meet his parents and all seemed to be going well, but when they left to go home all she did was complain about his family and slag them off. So anyway they got on to the motorway and did about 20 miles and he pulled in to the service station she left to use the toilet he filled up and he drove off and left her there with around 175 miles to go before he got home, a few days later he got a call from a friend of hers who tried to rip him a new one so he explained what had happened and boy did it hit the fan she was ostracised by everyone because it turned out this wasn’t the 1st time something like this had happened ( 2 previous boyfriends) 30 years later and still know body who knew her then talks to her to this day apparently.
10:45 Same to the second comment. If you are a survivor of abuse and a friend or even if a lover treats you like that, nope out of there as fast as possible because they're a manipulative sociopath. I've gone through so much abuse and neglect that I just want to be isolated from everyone with my boyfriend, he and I both don't like people and I am absolutely terrified of people so... yeah.. We'd love to live a quiet, peaceful life in a house that is miles away from society.
I really don’t want to sound transphobic, as I treat trans people with the same respect as “normal” people. Her being a trans girl was NOT the real reason that I dumped my first girlfriend. She was manipulative, wanted to talk to me as much as possible, got jealous when I even _talked_ to other guys, even requested to be in the same classes as me throughout all of high school. When I tried to break up with her- which happened several times- she always pulled the “if you break up with me I’ll kill myself” card, probably because she knew I would be too mentally weak to go through with it, and I was. It took me about seven years to FINALLY break up with her, and that was over the phone after I moved across the country. Her: ...I’m not a boy, I’m a girl. I’m a transsexual. I’m a girl. Me: Oh, that’s too bad. I don’t like girls. _Click_ Of course, it’s bad to use someone’s gender identity like that, but at least I accept that she’s MtF. I’m *SOOOO* glad I got rid of her!!!!
An abusive person is an abusive person, if some idiot jumps in here to call you 'transphobic' over an abusive person, they're the one with the issues here, not you.
That’s not transphobic at all lol, and even if the reason for not wanting to be with her anymore was because she was a girl that’s totally ok, after all you like boys not girls.
I want to reassure you. I'm trans. And i don't think you were transphobic in this situation. You dumped her because she was manipulative and a jerk with you.Not because she was trans. And if you are into guys and not girls, it's logical you won't continue the relationship with her when she discover herself as trans. It would be the same if you were for example a hetero guy in a relationship with a girl who discover she is lesbian. You have to go separate ways. So don't worry. You did the right thing.
Blind date: guy started talking about marriage, convertimg to his religion (Pentacostal) meetimg his mom, having kids, how many kids we'd have - he'd even chosen their names (all boys). And this was all within the first 40 minutes! Plus, he kept trying to order for me! By dessert, I was planning my escape. So I let him pick dessert while I went to the bathroom - but instead, I asked our waiter if there was a back exit (if there wasn't, I was going to climb out the bathroom window), but luckily he said there was an exit in the kitchen area. He also offered to stall the guy while I made my escape. I thanked him and booked it tf out of there and got on the first bus headed towards home. Note: I was 16. He was 22. The bitch who set us up lied and told me he was close to my age - also the bitch was his cousin and knew he was a fucking religious-psycho-nutball!!
True story. Met a woman on an online dating site. We talked on the phone and decided to meet at a local Starbucks. I got there a little early. She showed up in a floor length robe and a Hogwarts uniform. She showed me her wand and her “backup” wand. For the next hour she told me what would have happened if she had been at Hogwarts with Harry Potter. It was like having someone act out their fan fiction. This woman was in her mid to late 30’s and had never been married. I was definitely entertained but I noped out on a second date
I don't know if dating counts as a relationship or long-term things only. But 2 cases. 1st is dating, on 1st date she verbally abused a waiter... she didn't even pretend to be nice to others to make herself seem better, I ended it before we got the coffee brought to us. 2nd was after 1 month, I was inactive in a chatroom I got invited to for a long time, she and her friend talked about basically using me and other guys just as food calls. Being a food call aside, she admitted to cheating. Since on a topic of waiters, I was once on a date, it was a bit late and we were sitting in the outdoor area, so it was a getting a bit chilly, so I ordered a mojito and requested it be warmed up instead of full of ice. The waiter did as I asked, and it was genuinely a damn good drink.
A friend of mine had just been in a car accident with him and her little sister. At the scene of the accident he shook her while she was in that weird mind shock and unable to speak. She watched him get mad at everyone because it was his birthday and of course the world was against it. He yelled at her little sister for not being able to figure out the insurance. The little sister was 15 at that time. Later their parents came to pick them up and meet back at his house to talk as a group for a minute about what happened. So they all got their and he was trying to get her into his room while she was still in shock. The parents stopped it and took her home. But a week later she needed a ride and he volunteered to drive her. She begged her mom but she didn’t realize the issue so made her go. On the drive he was driving reckless and running red lights. He started talking about kidnapping her and making her his. And bunch of other creepy crap. She tried to get out of the car but he kept locking the doors. He took her rehearsal for some reason and as she got out of the car she just said “I don’t think we should see each other again.” shut the car door and walked to into the building. He showed up at her house a week later demanding to see her but she ended up climbing out a window and running to a store and hid in the bathroom. But after that she never saw him again.
17:10 my ex gf was like that, I work on our family farm and some days I'm just so tierd I just wanna relax. And she'd want to go out drinking, and would through a fit if I said no, sometimes I'd say let's go but be home by midnight. But then she through a fit and bitch at me the whole drive home. The next mornings I'd get up at 530am and she'd sleep in......
Should have been when he yelled at me for giving my daughter a bigger fork than his. That’s right A BIGGER FORK. “The man gets the biggest fork”. Yikes
There’s a few stories about people with hallucinations or schizophrenia in this and how they got dumped pretty damn quick. Meanwhile I couldn’t care less about my boyfriends rather frequent insistence that he’s being haunted by demons and he needs to carve smiles on himself (no I’m not letting him do it) I know it’s probably weird or seems like I’m just asking for something bad to happen. But I know who he is when he’s healthy and I know I can always be there to help him. Before anyone can ask our relationship is very healthy and we’re both happy, we’re both just slightly mentally ill (me slightly less so at this point in time) XD
That’s extremely kind and tolerable of you. Good for you! If there were more people like you, we’d live in a better world. Just a reminder to anyone that may see this: not all schizophrenics hallucinate.
A Karen is a sexist and racist trope. If I was a manager I would rather deal with a Karen than a LaKeisha. One will complain and another will vicious attack. After she pushes her three illegitimate children out of the way and needs to adjust her weave.
Never dated but we were FWB and hung out for movie dates and coffee dates. I invited her to hang out with my friends. We were never official. She eventually asked me if we were officially dating, and I responded "no" . She says "that's ok, to be honest I think I would cheat on you." She was sleeping with other people at the time, and she didn't trust her track record to not hurt me. I also had no emotional attachment to her, so we remained friends and all was good. But I guess still counts as a sign to "nope" outta there
Someone I met at church. He belittled me, talked over me, wouldn't let me finish a sentence, never listened to me and was incredibly verbally abusive. I walked away from that church and haven't looked back.
Sometimes i feel kinda guilty cause it was such a dumb and immature situation. I hung out with this older guy like 4 times (not even dating) The day i noped out of that ''relationship'' we were high at his house and he got really jealous that i was texting my ex, started grabbing and shaking me saying ''so you like him dont you?''. I was high and so couldnt really process what was going on, i just locked myself in the bathroom and my ex called an uber for me and i fled lol
Took me three years of abuse but the final straw was him telling me all of a sudden that I/we shouldn’t go to edc on the week of my birthday. Totally threw over his head that I was the only one busting my ass at work to save money and buy these tickets for both of us, let alone I had the Airbnb paid off. Trip was ready for me. And I just got fed up and broke up with him. He obviously didn’t take it seriously because he was so used to us “breaking up on and off”.
entered a long distance relationship i told him i needed time before getting intimate because of trauma, and when i came to visit him for 2 weeks he "accidentally" groped my ass before we were even in the door, and i caught him making grabby hand motions at me while i was turned away to put away my stuff. broke up almost on the spot. he ended up kicking me out so i stayed with some of our mutual friends for the rest of the trip. had a blast tbh
19:20. "This is surprisingly common; it's baffling." It *IS* common, but it's hardly baffling. It's raw, unrefined selfishness (basically, greed). It's someone who was never told 'no' as a child and has never once considered others. And it is becoming more and more prevalent in our society.
Can’t get into full details but basically an ex friend I used to be very close to called me racist for no reason and told me I deserved all the abuse I’ve endured in the past. This is the second time he’s done this, and I was naive for forgiving him in the past. I wish I had never met him. What he did has damaged me quite a bit.
So, the story with the girl that saw demons, I think that's a minor case of shitzophrenia(However you spell that) where the imagination gets mixed with reality. I'm not sure though, and I heard that it can be terrifying. It's why someone I know keeps her room almost completely lit up at night, with only one dark spot near her head.
A classmate in the 70s had a crush on me. When we were in our 60s. We started dating. What a mistake! He thought he still was "in love" HE really didn't like who I am. Only liked who he remembered. He NEVER had a clue. Sad...he was a nice guy. Just living in the PAST.
Am I the only one that's slightly bewildered by the thumbnail for this video? How is he supposed to be kicking the door open to get out when it opens in the other direction.
Two weeks together and he was mad that I wouldn’t drop theatre rehearsal to hang out with him on the weekend. Anyone who knew me in high school knows that theatre was my life, and I was the lead (Lisa in “David and Lisa”) in the play at the time. He had every opportunity to be completely aware of my passion but just clearly never grasped it. I dumped him over Facebook messenger on the spot. Would be laughing in his face if it was in person. It was just a moment where I instantly realized he wasn’t even trying to get to know me in the two weeks we’d been together, he just, like many high school students, just wanted someone on his arm. Even now I know relationships will never be, in Daniel Sloss’ analogy, the center of my jigsaw puzzle. In high school it was theatre, in adulthood it will be being a parent. Honestly the main reason none of my relationships have lasted very long is because my first priority is never going to be that relationship. Ends it real quick when it doesn’t work out that way.
I understand you. I'm very career- oriented and it's fine! You'll do great! The right person will either be equally as passionate into their careers like you or very understanding if they value your perception in life. So you go steal the spotlight, girl! You got this (~‾▿‾)~
1) Ex boyfriend who told me he had to cut himself if I couldn’t help him “finish.” 2) Ex girlfriend who invited me to live in her basement as a sex slave. She said it in a moment of passion as though it was something she deeply wanted and finally felt like she could share it with me in the heat of the moment. Better than forcing me, I suppose.
At one point I went through a realization that I was fixing a broken woman, again. Well, was an inconvenient time to break it up. After 3 years I realized that she could not be mended, the problems ran too deep. Now in the middle of a divorce with one kid. With her, if she knows she has no power over someone and understands that that is the way it’s going to be infinitely she is fine. Problems arise when she feels she deserves something and thinks that she can coerce that out of someone. I, as a person look like I can be pushed around, but can’t. My reaction to my action and her reaction to my action was literally in the binary of success and failure. Failure meant that I would never again do that. That led to me being able to show her that what I do is what ever I think is least problematic for me and her reactions are directly the defining quality in my decision. She did not like to be responsible for her toxic attitude leading to consequences. Hence the divorce that I wanted us to get.
I'll tell you what made me nope right out of a relationship. Well I honestly don't know if I could even call it a relationship, we were only together for a few hours in one day. The guy started with the I Love You stuff that first day. I was already uneasy about being with another dude openly, because this was back in 2005, and people weren't cool with two guys together, even if they said they were. So I broke up with him over the phone when he called me that night.
My ex-wife would watch murder documentaries. I thought it was a harmless curiosity, until she started saying things like, "but where she messed up was ..." Two days later she might casually ask about my life insurance.
The thing is, you probably do. But all your life you've had people saying you didn't deserve good things... and good people. It's only been a month, right? It's not to late to tell him why you broke things off. Give this relationship--and yourself--a second chance.
Dated a girl I was really into but she had some issues and need more help than I was in a position to provide. When I tried to go home one morning she threatened to hit me with her sons plastic bat. Now I wasn’t exactly in fear for my life, but violence, even the threat of violence, is an automatic deal breaker for me. I hope she got the help she needed and found a good partner, despite what happened.
Listened to several of these threads and so glad to be happy being solo. These interactions being called Relationships are jokes for the most part and NOT worth wasting valuable time on cheaters, whores and liars!!! Too much work sifting through utter bullshit....TRUTH!!
Met this girl at a party and exchanged phone numbers. Next day, she was asking me to do sexual stuff with her. I barely shared a word with her. I blocked her number immediately. Thank god I did. From what I heard from by best friend, she’s crazy. She tormented him for a long time after I cut her off.
Dude who my cousin set me up with he was nice till we went on our third date and I started noticing how he looked at kids a certain way I stopped talking to him after that three days later he was arrested for stalking some kids at a school
Sometimes I get really lonely because of being single for so long. And then I read threads like this one and realize I'm probably better off being single.
We weren’t in a relationship, but we were talking. What made me stop was her telling people we were in a relationship when we were in a phase of knowing each other. I can’t date a liar
Geez, the girl at 5:00 sounds like a narcissist. 9:45 reminded me of the time I used YikYak back in college and one entry was apparently a girl who had a boyfriend who basically told her "it's either your education or me" and as I wasn't in a relationship at the time (still aren't lol) I didn't realize that was a huge red flag, I just thought he was a bit of a jerk but had I know I should've told her to dump him right there, I just hope she's doing better now. 15:53 I'm almost 27 and I also feel a bit lonely because I've never had any real affection either, however it's situations like this one that make me realize that I'm not desperate enough to overlook potentially toxic or abusive relationships (and other situations that are worse than mine). If a date insulted my reading habits as well I'll assume she's a dumbass and kick her out because that's not someone I want to spend my life with. As one song puts it, "better off alone".
Imagine yelling at someone tying to Hook you up with a deal on some cookies. Had that happen once at a FYE store this old lady refused to get another shirt in the buy 1 get one free rack and started yelling at the workers that she just wanted to buy her shirt and get out and that she didn’t want to buy another one even though the employees made it very clear it was free
I was speaking to this guy for a few weeks but he started asking if I can lend him money to get the train to work. I wanted to help so I did, turns out he got the train to london instead and even tho he said he would pay me back, he blocked me on everything and then starting refusing and trying to turn the blame on me when he was confronted. So yeah, lost around £60 and gained even more trust issues
She kept a calendar of next year with a date of the birth of our first child and "forgot" several times to take her birth control. Total psycho. Trying to get pregnant without consent of the father should be made a crime.
The first one who criticised every person he knew? My ex-sister-in-law the psycho. Who now lives, apparently, on Valium since both her daughters want nothing to do with her. Go girls!
I was at the Street Races with my girlfriend. An acquaintance started chatting her up. Before the next race started, the acquaintance tells my girlfriend, he's going to the finish line. My girlfriend says, "I want to go to the finish line" so I took her. I stayed in the car and pretended to sleep. I could hear everything the acquaintance was saying and my girlfriend was eating it up. I was suppose to take my girlfriend to her Mother's house to do her laundry, so I get out, grab my girlfriend's laundry bags and tell the acquaintance, "Do me a favor and drop her off at her Mother's house". He agrees so I drop the bags and left.
19:30 - drinking lots of mountain dew over a long period of time will make you gain weight, which in turn will impair fertility, so it isn't that illogical LOL
I am an avid reader with more than 100 novels. If you don't like that, be rude to customer service and a gold digging only you me and meet no one else I will straight up say, good bye.
To clarify, there was definitely more than this. He was very clingy and wanted to be couple-y when I was with my friends. But yeah, this creepy comment pushed me over the edge. Plus he denied he said it when I broke up with him.
She had taken everything else from me. My friends, my family, my sense of self worth, even my job (and nearly my career). Then, one day, she went after the last thing I had left. My religion. She went to her mom's to let me think it over and I moved out before she came back.
My friend, in highschool, twirked very very close to me (while their behind was basically touching my stomach) and i find it disgusting (shouldnt need to explain why) so I said "umm EW, NO." And they havent had a conversation with me since 🤣🤣🤣
When my ex put his hands around neck in anger. Not like sexy anger ether. I caught him lying to me so I confronted him about it. He got mad at me because he lied. I went to walk away because I’ve been in abusive relationship before him and as I was getting up to leave so we could calm down and finish the conversation he put his hands around my neck squeezed and pushed me back down into the bed. I couldn’t help but crawl up into a ball and start shacking and crying. I had told him when we started dating that if you ever put your hands on me out of anger then that was it we are done. The worst part about that whole thing was he left the room right after he did it and 5 minutes later he came back to apologize for it. Like that was going to change anything. To this day if anyone I’m dating or in a relationship with raises their hand to me I flinch and start shaking
I had a girl once tell me she deserved to be right about a basic math problem (she wasn't) because she had agreed with me even though I wasn't right (I was) about everything else in the relationship. The relationship ended immediately.
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 ... They hold the expectation of it, which is what makes a lot of allos angry even if we said from the start 'no bedding'. They think we'll change our minds. For those of us that don't....!
Hey that's my post (: I just randomly thought of this question and never expected it to blow up because i thought it would of been asked 1000x already but I guess not.
I dated one girl who had a kid and I don't want children but I liked her. I expressed that at the very beginning and I said it would have to be something I would have to feel out and possibly warm up to. I was transparent all the way through. Suddenly one day she started referring to me as Daddy whenever she talked about her child. I told her to stop and she kept doing it and then I got out. She pulled the "I'm pregnant"thing on me even though she got knocked up by another guy I told her we should take a test to make sure and I would take full responsibility if it was mine but I would not date her again. It didn't even get to that because she started threatening to kill herself if I didn't get back with her. Eventually I just said f*** it and stopped keeping in touch with her and wasn't even able to get the test done. Also the I used my own condoms each time except for once earlier in the relationship and that was a she had 2 periods in between there. Then I found out she had sex with a guy in between us taking a "break" when she referred to me as the dad to the previously mentioned kid and the math adds up to the other guy being the father.
I knew a girl who thought her being pansexual meant she could bone down or date whoever she wanted and it wouldn't be cheating because that's her orientation. I think she mistook pansexual with polyamory, and either way with polyamory that means you need your partner's consent to do that. She said I was homophobic and told all of our mutual friends, AND some non-mutual friends as well apparently.
My ex would constantly cry I’ve she didn’t get her way or something didn’t go her way and would always tell me she wishes she was single so I dumped her
Regarding the guy who didn't want to have sex with his Gf because she had finished her period 3 days ago and was grossed out . As a man I can say that from my experience when a guy under the age of 35 turns down sex its a pretty good indication that the relationship is over , it may be because he has a woman on the side, or that he no longers finds his partner attractive but either way its over
Not exactly, I'm mid-twenties and don't really care for anything sexual, when I was bothering to look for relationships it was mostly for companionship but there's honestly so much incorrect information around men's sexuality and pressure to conform to those expectations in order to 'be a man' that you get insane things like an erection meaning you 'must have wanted it' or 'every guy _always_ wants sex'. I was honestly perfectly content in my relationship until she started cheating on me with a single father, but she's still not getting sex out of that one and she was unhealthily obsessed with the daycare she worked at when we were together so even though I don't have solid proof of what's going on in her head, I'm honestly very concerned for that kid's well-being.
I probably should have seen the whole bunch of red flags sooner, but I was very naive. The very thing my ex girlfriend said that made me say "Nope!" Was when she said she was Polygamous (likes having multiple relationships at once, the cheaters way.) So I just sat down, thought for a little while and talked to a close friend and came to my decision. If y'all have any questions go ahead.
I was going on a date with this girl in a day and the night before she accidentally sent me a picture of a man. When asked she claimed it was her brother and she was sending it to a friend. Glad I didn’t go on that date
Ok, I’ve never noped out of a relationship but there was a situation that me now would have noped out of when I was in pre-k(it’s young I know). I had this bf in pre-k, we will call him jake. Jake was weird, he either had a bunch of the same outfit or never washed his clothes bc he always came to school in a blue plaid shirt and jeans. He always pulled my hair and hit me, he even bit me a few times. He was rude but even at such a young age, I had daddy issues(still do). I fell in love and plucked up the courage to ask him on a date at the rock wall at the playground, he said yes. At recess he was late but got there eventually and told me he wanted to show me a secret. He pulled me behind the rock wall unzipped and peed on the back of the rock wall. He threatened to tickle me if I told or ran off(I hated being tickled to the point where I would cry at someone just saying “I’m gonna tickle you!” So ofc I stayed and kept quiet. He continued to be mean(hitting, biting, pinching, pulling my hair, etc.) and the rock wall thing happened daily. One of my friends found out and immediately tried to talk me into telling him off but I was to scared. Eventually she(my friend) told another friend of mine who was respected by everyone in the grade. He was seen as scary as he was taller than others and managed to give a kid a black eye and he played with me at recess everyday until the end of the year to keep me away from Jake. One day Jake tried to pull me away to the rock wall again and my friend(we will call him ty) gave him a bloody nose by jumping him from behind, Jake hit his nose on a metal bar hence the bloody nose, ty got in trouble but he immediately became my BFF after that. Jake didn’t want anything to do with me after that. I’ve never been more grateful for a classmate, ty moved a few years later and sadly I never got to thank him. Ofc I don’t blame myself I was young and didn’t have a brain developed enough to see how much of a savior he was. But if I could I would thank him today
My ex said I hate you because I couldn't call her while in class. She said "your embarrassed to talk to your own girlfriend? I hate you!". I swear, my exact words were "Nope, I'm out"
Ah yes, relationships among 10 year olds... Or at least, it sounds like that.
@@101Volts mostly toxic in nature
*7:12* > "so you're going to leave me, just like you left your brother?"
*gets rope:* "Yes. I only hope they believe it was a suicide this time too."
Yes. My thought when I heard that was "you better run b****. I'ma kill you. *grabs knife and runs toward them* COME HERE!!
I would immediately throw hands.
I would say, "Get out, if you don't, I'll throw you out the window."
@@F.R.E.D.D2986 I don't think I would be able to resist the impulse to slap her across the face long enough to get a single sentence out.
@@ImaNerdANDaGeek yo same cause i would totally throws hands with a bitch or anyone else that talks shit like that
Had one straight up start talking about marriage with me right as we went on our first date. She said, and I quote, "I've never had a chef for a husband before." Never gave her a second chance, even if she was a lovely woman.
"So, what do your other husbands do for work?"
If you think about it, that phrase doesn't necessarily mean that she ever _was_ married before. But it also could imply that she *was.*
The story about the person mentioning how cheap and easy it was to hire a hit man was scary as hell...I had a crazy ex who claimed to know people in the mafia. 🙄
can't nope out of a relationship when you can't get one in the first place
#LonelyGang
Same.
Or don't want one.
That is my motto. Single is happiness and couple is sadness.
#BigBrainMoment
I can get in relationships. Keeping one is the issue
Not me but my sister
“I left the moment he started to come up with names for our grandchildren not ironically or funny. He was completely serious the whole time”
GRANDchildren?!?!?!
I mean, names for children is okay a few years into the relationship, but grandchildren?
@@laerramarie2620 i mean if you're already ok with names for kids then its safe to assume those kids will also have kids
@@raiden6428 grandparents don't typically name grandkids. It sort of implies he was fantasising about kids so much that he knew what names the fantasy kids would like for their own kids
I had this one guy try dating me and he was something else. He already had his wedding planned... down to the dress the bride would wear. He literally needed any living female person to plug into his fantasy it was that planned out. Guess who was the lucky girl he chose? :D He also decided to sit in the parking lot of where I worked to "watch my car". Because apparently my car needed babysitting. Totally not being possessive or anything. Just... yikes.
My brother and I went down to his property to take care of a few things. Told her I'd be gone all day, I'd call her the next day. She called my cell a dozen times before I even got there. It's an hour drive. She called my house 56 times after I kept hitting the FU button on the phone (I never set up voicemail). Called her back the next day, told her flat out "Done."
I couldn't power through some of these experiences, if you embarrassed me like that in public I'd bail on you before the night was done.
I was pretty lonely and living in Michigan at the time. We met on bumble and it seemed great. He came and picked me up because my car decided to shit out a day before our date. We’re riding to the restaurant and this dude goes,
“There’s something you should know. I’m on the sex offense registry, but not because I actually did anything. The girl who got me there lied and said I molested her but I didn’t.”
We’d been talking for at least 3 weeks at that point and he decided to tell me this when we were in the middle of no where driving in the car alone. I never called him back. Idc if he did or didn’t, you don’t get a girl all alone and then creepily tell her about how you’re a sec offender and then go silent for 10 minutes on the way to the restaurant.
The tuna salad comment made me laugh. Good call on the OP's part.
I was dating a guy for two weeks when he asked “how do you feel about being common law partners instead of getting married? Also about having all our children at home without birth certificates?”
Not even kidding I just immediately stopped and turned around. I hadn’t even been dating this guy for two weeks and he’s talking about marriage and kids with no identities.
I actually like when people are honest about their ideals upfront. He may be a little crazy, but at least you didn't discover it months or years into the relationship
She didn’t want my dog around... my dog will stay with me!
Anyone who makes you choose between your relationship and your pet is just trying to control you. If you give up the pet, they'll just find something else to force you to change. It'll never end.
Fuck them, keep your pet. Your pet won't demand you to change for them. Your pet will love you no matter what.
@@tbotalpha8133 preach
@@tbotalpha8133 even if they got allergies?
@@gnhun101 There is very obviously a difference in context, there. You can have a mature, reasonable discussion about allergies, and how to reconcile your SO's health issues with your pets.
The situation I am describing, which comes up repeatedly in the video, is that of boyfriends and girlfriends declaring that they want a pet gone, not for any rational reason, but purely to satisfy their personal whims. If there's no rational argument being made for the removal of the pet, and your partner isn't showing your desires proper respect, and ESPECIALLY if they turn it into an ultimatum...
Fuck 'em. Keep the pet.
Even if youv got allergies, my dog got there before , f .... Off.
Got my buddy here, he’s just told me a story about a girl (asked him if I could post it) he dated around 30 years ago for 3 years , it seems that he took her to meet his parents and all seemed to be going well, but when they left to go home all she did was complain about his family and slag them off. So anyway they got on to the motorway and did about 20 miles and he pulled in to the service station she left to use the toilet he filled up and he drove off and left her there with around 175 miles to go before he got home, a few days later he got a call from a friend of hers who tried to rip him a new one so he explained what had happened and boy did it hit the fan she was ostracised by everyone because it turned out this wasn’t the 1st time something like this had happened ( 2 previous boyfriends) 30 years later and still know body who knew her then talks to her to this day apparently.
10:45
Same to the second comment. If you are a survivor of abuse and a friend or even if a lover treats you like that, nope out of there as fast as possible because they're a manipulative sociopath. I've gone through so much abuse and neglect that I just want to be isolated from everyone with my boyfriend, he and I both don't like people and I am absolutely terrified of people so... yeah.. We'd love to live a quiet, peaceful life in a house that is miles away from society.
I really don’t want to sound transphobic, as I treat trans people with the same respect as “normal” people. Her being a trans girl was NOT the real reason that I dumped my first girlfriend.
She was manipulative, wanted to talk to me as much as possible, got jealous when I even _talked_ to other guys, even requested to be in the same classes as me throughout all of high school. When I tried to break up with her- which happened several times- she always pulled the “if you break up with me I’ll kill myself” card, probably because she knew I would be too mentally weak to go through with it, and I was. It took me about seven years to FINALLY break up with her, and that was over the phone after I moved across the country.
Her: ...I’m not a boy, I’m a girl. I’m a transsexual. I’m a girl.
Me: Oh, that’s too bad. I don’t like girls. _Click_
Of course, it’s bad to use someone’s gender identity like that, but at least I accept that she’s MtF. I’m *SOOOO* glad I got rid of her!!!!
I just thought there were gonna be loads of people ganging up on me because I dumped a trans person. You never know nowadays.
An abusive person is an abusive person, if some idiot jumps in here to call you 'transphobic' over an abusive person, they're the one with the issues here, not you.
@@kvasskinggsezbooyah69 the super straight movement proved anything is transphobic kinda scary ngl
That’s not transphobic at all lol, and even if the reason for not wanting to be with her anymore was because she was a girl that’s totally ok, after all you like boys not girls.
I want to reassure you. I'm trans. And i don't think you were transphobic in this situation. You dumped her because she was manipulative and a jerk with you.Not because she was trans. And if you are into guys and not girls, it's logical you won't continue the relationship with her when she discover herself as trans. It would be the same if you were for example a hetero guy in a relationship with a girl who discover she is lesbian. You have to go separate ways. So don't worry. You did the right thing.
Blind date: guy started talking about marriage, convertimg to his religion (Pentacostal) meetimg his mom, having kids, how many kids we'd have - he'd even chosen their names (all boys).
And this was all within the first 40 minutes! Plus, he kept trying to order for me!
By dessert, I was planning my escape.
So I let him pick dessert while I went to the bathroom - but instead, I asked our waiter if there was a back exit (if there wasn't, I was going to climb out the bathroom window), but luckily he said there was an exit in the kitchen area. He also offered to stall the guy while I made my escape.
I thanked him and booked it tf out of there and got on the first bus headed towards home.
Note: I was 16. He was 22. The bitch who set us up lied and told me he was close to my age - also the bitch was his cousin and knew he was a fucking religious-psycho-nutball!!
True story. Met a woman on an online dating site. We talked on the phone and decided to meet at a local Starbucks. I got there a little early. She showed up in a floor length robe and a Hogwarts uniform. She showed me her wand and her “backup” wand. For the next hour she told me what would have happened if she had been at Hogwarts with Harry Potter. It was like having someone act out their fan fiction. This woman was in her mid to late 30’s and had never been married. I was definitely entertained but I noped out on a second date
That story about the twin brother committing suicide struck me because I'm a twin and can't even imagine my twin dying naturally
I don't know if dating counts as a relationship or long-term things only.
But 2 cases.
1st is dating, on 1st date she verbally abused a waiter... she didn't even pretend to be nice to others to make herself seem better, I ended it before we got the coffee brought to us.
2nd was after 1 month, I was inactive in a chatroom I got invited to for a long time, she and her friend talked about basically using me and other guys just as food calls.
Being a food call aside, she admitted to cheating.
Since on a topic of waiters, I was once on a date, it was a bit late and we were sitting in the outdoor area, so it was a getting a bit chilly, so I ordered a mojito and requested it be warmed up instead of full of ice.
The waiter did as I asked, and it was genuinely a damn good drink.
A friend of mine had just been in a car accident with him and her little sister. At the scene of the accident he shook her while she was in that weird mind shock and unable to speak. She watched him get mad at everyone because it was his birthday and of course the world was against it. He yelled at her little sister for not being able to figure out the insurance. The little sister was 15 at that time. Later their parents came to pick them up and meet back at his house to talk as a group for a minute about what happened. So they all got their and he was trying to get her into his room while she was still in shock. The parents stopped it and took her home.
But a week later she needed a ride and he volunteered to drive her. She begged her mom but she didn’t realize the issue so made her go. On the drive he was driving reckless and running red lights. He started talking about kidnapping her and making her his. And bunch of other creepy crap. She tried to get out of the car but he kept locking the doors. He took her rehearsal for some reason and as she got out of the car she just said “I don’t think we should see each other again.” shut the car door and walked to into the building.
He showed up at her house a week later demanding to see her but she ended up climbing out a window and running to a store and hid in the bathroom.
But after that she never saw him again.
Being gaslit about half a dozen times during the first/only date 😖
17:10 my ex gf was like that, I work on our family farm and some days I'm just so tierd I just wanna relax. And she'd want to go out drinking, and would through a fit if I said no, sometimes I'd say let's go but be home by midnight. But then she through a fit and bitch at me the whole drive home. The next mornings I'd get up at 530am and she'd sleep in......
My first boyfriend ran away from home to be with me. His mum was so pissed off and insisted he stay at my house for a week. Yep....That was a nope.
Should have been when he yelled at me for giving my daughter a bigger fork than his. That’s right A BIGGER FORK.
“The man gets the biggest fork”. Yikes
There’s a few stories about people with hallucinations or schizophrenia in this and how they got dumped pretty damn quick. Meanwhile I couldn’t care less about my boyfriends rather frequent insistence that he’s being haunted by demons and he needs to carve smiles on himself (no I’m not letting him do it)
I know it’s probably weird or seems like I’m just asking for something bad to happen. But I know who he is when he’s healthy and I know I can always be there to help him.
Before anyone can ask our relationship is very healthy and we’re both happy, we’re both just slightly mentally ill (me slightly less so at this point in time) XD
That’s extremely kind and tolerable of you. Good for you! If there were more people like you, we’d live in a better world.
Just a reminder to anyone that may see this: not all schizophrenics hallucinate.
She sounds like a Karen in that resutrant story
A Karen is a sexist and racist trope. If I was a manager I would rather deal with a Karen than a LaKeisha. One will complain and another will vicious attack. After she pushes her three illegitimate children out of the way and needs to adjust her weave.
@@edwardcoit9748 Oh, you're one of _those_ people aren't you?
Yaboitom10
You mean someone who calls out the hate and hypocrisy? Yes.
@@edwardcoit9748 what?
Lorraine
Having difficulty with comprehension?
Never dated but we were FWB and hung out for movie dates and coffee dates. I invited her to hang out with my friends. We were never official. She eventually asked me if we were officially dating, and I responded "no" . She says "that's ok, to be honest I think I would cheat on you."
She was sleeping with other people at the time, and she didn't trust her track record to not hurt me. I also had no emotional attachment to her, so we remained friends and all was good. But I guess still counts as a sign to "nope" outta there
Many of these dodgy daters would score high on the psychopath/sociopath tests.
Someone I met at church. He belittled me, talked over me, wouldn't let me finish a sentence, never listened to me and was incredibly verbally abusive. I walked away from that church and haven't looked back.
She's was still living with her ex and was two months pregnant with his kid. NOPE.
Yikes! Cannon ball ducked :/
Sometimes i feel kinda guilty cause it was such a dumb and immature situation. I hung out with this older guy like 4 times (not even dating) The day i noped out of that ''relationship'' we were high at his house and he got really jealous that i was texting my ex, started grabbing and shaking me saying ''so you like him dont you?''. I was high and so couldnt really process what was going on, i just locked myself in the bathroom and my ex called an uber for me and i fled lol
Thank ur ex lol
Took me three years of abuse but the final straw was him telling me all of a sudden that I/we shouldn’t go to edc on the week of my birthday. Totally threw over his head that I was the only one busting my ass at work to save money and buy these tickets for both of us, let alone I had the Airbnb paid off. Trip was ready for me. And I just got fed up and broke up with him. He obviously didn’t take it seriously because he was so used to us “breaking up on and off”.
An ex of mine tried to push marriage onto me and got his mom involved and had the wedding planned out. I didn't want to get married and noped out hard
entered a long distance relationship i told him i needed time before getting intimate because of trauma, and when i came to visit him for 2 weeks he "accidentally" groped my ass before we were even in the door, and i caught him making grabby hand motions at me while i was turned away to put away my stuff. broke up almost on the spot. he ended up kicking me out so i stayed with some of our mutual friends for the rest of the trip. had a blast tbh
19:20. "This is surprisingly common; it's baffling."
It *IS* common, but it's hardly baffling. It's raw, unrefined selfishness (basically, greed). It's someone who was never told 'no' as a child and has never once considered others.
And it is becoming more and more prevalent in our society.
Many of these stories confirm to me that the only thing a relationship does is make you oblivious to truth.
7:28 *BROOO THAT WAS A FULL ON HORROR MOVIE!!!!! THE MENTAL IMAGE I MADE BASED ON THE DESCRIPTION IS TERRIFYING...*
Can’t get into full details but basically an ex friend I used to be very close to called me racist for no reason and told me I deserved all the abuse I’ve endured in the past. This is the second time he’s done this, and I was naive for forgiving him in the past. I wish I had never met him. What he did has damaged me quite a bit.
Patrick: Is Mountain Dew birth control?
Squidward: No Patrick Mountain Dew isn't birth control
So, the story with the girl that saw demons, I think that's a minor case of shitzophrenia(However you spell that) where the imagination gets mixed with reality. I'm not sure though, and I heard that it can be terrifying. It's why someone I know keeps her room almost completely lit up at night, with only one dark spot near her head.
It’s schizophrenia, and not all hallucinate.
A classmate in the 70s had a crush on me. When we were in our 60s. We started dating. What a mistake! He thought he still was "in love"
HE really didn't like who I am. Only liked who he remembered. He NEVER had a clue.
Sad...he was a nice guy. Just living in the PAST.
Am I the only one that's slightly bewildered by the thumbnail for this video? How is he supposed to be kicking the door open to get out when it opens in the other direction.
Having an abusive partner is like living with your own worst enemy
Two weeks together and he was mad that I wouldn’t drop theatre rehearsal to hang out with him on the weekend. Anyone who knew me in high school knows that theatre was my life, and I was the lead (Lisa in “David and Lisa”) in the play at the time. He had every opportunity to be completely aware of my passion but just clearly never grasped it. I dumped him over Facebook messenger on the spot. Would be laughing in his face if it was in person. It was just a moment where I instantly realized he wasn’t even trying to get to know me in the two weeks we’d been together, he just, like many high school students, just wanted someone on his arm.
Even now I know relationships will never be, in Daniel Sloss’ analogy, the center of my jigsaw puzzle. In high school it was theatre, in adulthood it will be being a parent. Honestly the main reason none of my relationships have lasted very long is because my first priority is never going to be that relationship. Ends it real quick when it doesn’t work out that way.
I understand you. I'm very career- oriented and it's fine! You'll do great! The right person will either be equally as passionate into their careers like you or very understanding if they value your perception in life. So you go steal the spotlight, girl! You got this (~‾▿‾)~
Sounds like he liked someone else's tuna salad. Lol!
1) Ex boyfriend who told me he had to cut himself if I couldn’t help him “finish.”
2) Ex girlfriend who invited me to live in her basement as a sex slave. She said it in a moment of passion as though it was something she deeply wanted and finally felt like she could share it with me in the heat of the moment. Better than forcing me, I suppose.
At one point I went through a realization that I was fixing a broken woman, again. Well, was an inconvenient time to break it up. After 3 years I realized that she could not be mended, the problems ran too deep. Now in the middle of a divorce with one kid. With her, if she knows she has no power over someone and understands that that is the way it’s going to be infinitely she is fine. Problems arise when she feels she deserves something and thinks that she can coerce that out of someone. I, as a person look like I can be pushed around, but can’t. My reaction to my action and her reaction to my action was literally in the binary of success and failure. Failure meant that I would never again do that. That led to me being able to show her that what I do is what ever I think is least problematic for me and her reactions are directly the defining quality in my decision. She did not like to be responsible for her toxic attitude leading to consequences. Hence the divorce that I wanted us to get.
The steakhouse story, that's when you ask for seperate cheques and ask if you can leave out the back.
I'll tell you what made me nope right out of a relationship. Well I honestly don't know if I could even call it a relationship, we were only together for a few hours in one day. The guy started with the I Love You stuff that first day. I was already uneasy about being with another dude openly, because this was back in 2005, and people weren't cool with two guys together, even if they said they were. So I broke up with him over the phone when he called me that night.
Hope you are doing well dude
You got mosbied. I hope things are better.
My ex-wife would watch murder documentaries. I thought it was a harmless curiosity, until she started saying things like, "but where she messed up was ..." Two days later she might casually ask about my life insurance.
He's too nice. Genuine. Perfect. I felt like I didn't deserve him...
The thing is, you probably do. But all your life you've had people saying you didn't deserve good things... and good people.
It's only been a month, right? It's not to late to tell him why you broke things off. Give this relationship--and yourself--a second chance.
Dated a girl I was really into but she had some issues and need more help than I was in a position to provide. When I tried to go home one morning she threatened to hit me with her sons plastic bat. Now I wasn’t exactly in fear for my life, but violence, even the threat of violence, is an automatic deal breaker for me.
I hope she got the help she needed and found a good partner, despite what happened.
Listened to several of these threads and so glad to be happy being solo. These interactions being called Relationships are jokes for the most part and NOT worth wasting valuable time on cheaters, whores and liars!!! Too much work sifting through utter bullshit....TRUTH!!
Met this girl at a party and exchanged phone numbers. Next day, she was asking me to do sexual stuff with her. I barely shared a word with her. I blocked her number immediately. Thank god I did. From what I heard from by best friend, she’s crazy. She tormented him for a long time after I cut her off.
“You see that guy over there?”
Me: “yeah?”
“Go bully him”
Me: “okay have a not so good life, bye”
14:50 holy shit! We gotta crazy!! Crazy clean up aisle 5!! Crazy cleanup!!!🕵🕵😂😜😲🙄💁🙅🙈👀👀
He was a hoarder. I am the opposite of a hoarder. Nope, nope, nope.
just me being single petting my cat
Dude who my cousin set me up with he was nice till we went on our third date and I started noticing how he looked at kids a certain way I stopped talking to him after that three days later he was arrested for stalking some kids at a school
I’m so sorry but when he said ‘she was actually B E E’ i laughed
Sometimes I get really lonely because of being single for so long. And then I read threads like this one and realize I'm probably better off being single.
99 calls on my caller ID box (90s device rented from phone company) in 4hrs.
6:59 I felt that 😂😭yo who wants to play catan online?
She stood me up for a movie date... on my birthday.
We weren’t in a relationship, but we were talking. What made me stop was her telling people we were in a relationship when we were in a phase of knowing each other. I can’t date a liar
Geez, the girl at 5:00 sounds like a narcissist.
9:45 reminded me of the time I used YikYak back in college and one entry was apparently a girl who had a boyfriend who basically told her "it's either your education or me" and as I wasn't in a relationship at the time (still aren't lol) I didn't realize that was a huge red flag, I just thought he was a bit of a jerk but had I know I should've told her to dump him right there, I just hope she's doing better now.
15:53 I'm almost 27 and I also feel a bit lonely because I've never had any real affection either, however it's situations like this one that make me realize that I'm not desperate enough to overlook potentially toxic or abusive relationships (and other situations that are worse than mine). If a date insulted my reading habits as well I'll assume she's a dumbass and kick her out because that's not someone I want to spend my life with.
As one song puts it, "better off alone".
i did the same thing with a long-term friend. Suddenly realised I'd been putting up with A CRAZY WOMAN for far too long. Goodbye Judith.
LOLS if all it took was to drink dew to not get knocked up then i would chug a whole tanker full xD
I would already be sterile.
The Catan guy is the ultimate player.
Im sorry-- 5:12 wtfhow-
Imagine yelling at someone tying to
Hook you up with a deal on some cookies. Had that happen once at a FYE store this old lady refused to get another shirt in the buy 1 get one free rack and started yelling at the workers that she just wanted to buy her shirt and get out and that she didn’t want to buy another one even though the employees made it very clear it was free
I was speaking to this guy for a few weeks but he started asking if I can lend him money to get the train to work. I wanted to help so I did, turns out he got the train to london instead and even tho he said he would pay me back, he blocked me on everything and then starting refusing and trying to turn the blame on me when he was confronted.
So yeah, lost around £60 and gained even more trust issues
She kept talking about my money like she was doing my taxes
That thumbnail though 😂
She kept a calendar of next year with a date of the birth of our first child and "forgot" several times to take her birth control.
Total psycho. Trying to get pregnant without consent of the father should be made a crime.
7:00 bro that’s why U don’t let woman know what really effects you
The first one who criticised every person he knew? My ex-sister-in-law the psycho. Who now lives, apparently, on Valium since both her daughters want nothing to do with her. Go girls!
I was at the Street Races with my girlfriend. An acquaintance started chatting her up. Before the next race started, the acquaintance tells my girlfriend, he's going to the finish line. My girlfriend says, "I want to go to the finish line" so I took her. I stayed in the car and pretended to sleep. I could hear everything the acquaintance was saying and my girlfriend was eating it up. I was suppose to take my girlfriend to her Mother's house to do her laundry, so I get out, grab my girlfriend's laundry bags and tell the acquaintance, "Do me a favor and drop her off at her Mother's house". He agrees so I drop the bags and left.
19:30 - drinking lots of mountain dew over a long period of time will make you gain weight, which in turn will impair fertility, so it isn't that illogical LOL
I am an avid reader with more than 100 novels. If you don't like that, be rude to customer service and a gold digging only you me and meet no one else I will straight up say, good bye.
An m&m went down my shirt and he said he’d still eat it. Left within the week. ✌️
To clarify, there was definitely more than this. He was very clingy and wanted to be couple-y when I was with my friends. But yeah, this creepy comment pushed me over the edge. Plus he denied he said it when I broke up with him.
She had taken everything else from me. My friends, my family, my sense of self worth, even my job (and nearly my career). Then, one day, she went after the last thing I had left. My religion. She went to her mom's to let me think it over and I moved out before she came back.
My friend, in highschool, twirked very very close to me (while their behind was basically touching my stomach) and i find it disgusting (shouldnt need to explain why) so I said "umm EW, NO." And they havent had a conversation with me since 🤣🤣🤣
When my ex put his hands around neck in anger. Not like sexy anger ether. I caught him lying to me so I confronted him about it. He got mad at me because he lied. I went to walk away because I’ve been in abusive relationship before him and as I was getting up to leave so we could calm down and finish the conversation he put his hands around my neck squeezed and pushed me back down into the bed. I couldn’t help but crawl up into a ball and start shacking and crying. I had told him when we started dating that if you ever put your hands on me out of anger then that was it we are done. The worst part about that whole thing was he left the room right after he did it and 5 minutes later he came back to apologize for it. Like that was going to change anything. To this day if anyone I’m dating or in a relationship with raises their hand to me I flinch and start shaking
I had a girl once tell me she deserved to be right about a basic math problem (she wasn't) because she had agreed with me even though I wasn't right (I was) about everything else in the relationship.
The relationship ended immediately.
We were like 3 weeks into our relationship and he was talking about having kids and getting married
Glad I asexual. I'd never be able to deal with this shit.
I mean this is all emotional manipulation from other people if anything, orientation has nothing to do with it, fellow Ace?
I finally got out of an ltr with an asexual guy - my hormones were raging while he was content with no sex. Sexual compatibility is important.
A lot of these stories didn’t even involve sex though.
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 ... They hold the expectation of it, which is what makes a lot of allos angry even if we said from the start 'no bedding'. They think we'll change our minds.
For those of us that don't....!
Hey that's my post (: I just randomly thought of this question and never expected it to blow up because i thought it would of been asked 1000x already but I guess not.
I dated one girl who had a kid and I don't want children but I liked her. I expressed that at the very beginning and I said it would have to be something I would have to feel out and possibly warm up to. I was transparent all the way through. Suddenly one day she started referring to me as Daddy whenever she talked about her child. I told her to stop and she kept doing it and then I got out. She pulled the "I'm pregnant"thing on me even though she got knocked up by another guy I told her we should take a test to make sure and I would take full responsibility if it was mine but I would not date her again. It didn't even get to that because she started threatening to kill herself if I didn't get back with her. Eventually I just said f*** it and stopped keeping in touch with her and wasn't even able to get the test done. Also the I used my own condoms each time except for once earlier in the relationship and that was a she had 2 periods in between there. Then I found out she had sex with a guy in between us taking a "break" when she referred to me as the dad to the previously mentioned kid and the math adds up to the other guy being the father.
I knew a girl who thought her being pansexual meant she could bone down or date whoever she wanted and it wouldn't be cheating because that's her orientation.
I think she mistook pansexual with polyamory, and either way with polyamory that means you need your partner's consent to do that.
She said I was homophobic and told all of our mutual friends, AND some non-mutual friends as well apparently.
just recently, broke up w me bc my depression was really bad and i had constant anxiety when i went out
My ex would constantly cry I’ve she didn’t get her way or something didn’t go her way and would always tell me she wishes she was single so I dumped her
"Like you left your brother" and that your honor is how I got this murder charge.
Regarding the guy who didn't want to have sex with his Gf because she had finished her period 3 days ago and was grossed out .
As a man I can say that from my experience when a guy under the age of 35 turns down sex its a pretty good indication that the relationship is over , it may be because he has a woman on the side, or that he no longers finds his partner attractive but either way its over
Not exactly, I'm mid-twenties and don't really care for anything sexual, when I was bothering to look for relationships it was mostly for companionship but there's honestly so much incorrect information around men's sexuality and pressure to conform to those expectations in order to 'be a man' that you get insane things like an erection meaning you 'must have wanted it' or 'every guy _always_ wants sex'. I was honestly perfectly content in my relationship until she started cheating on me with a single father, but she's still not getting sex out of that one and she was unhealthily obsessed with the daycare she worked at when we were together so even though I don't have solid proof of what's going on in her head, I'm honestly very concerned for that kid's well-being.
I probably should have seen the whole bunch of red flags sooner, but I was very naive. The very thing my ex girlfriend said that made me say "Nope!" Was when she said she was Polygamous (likes having multiple relationships at once, the cheaters way.) So I just sat down, thought for a little while and talked to a close friend and came to my decision. If y'all have any questions go ahead.
"Do you know how cheap a hitman is?"... doesn't register as a red flag? Too naive to believe it...?
"Text me his number"...
I was going on a date with this girl in a day and the night before she accidentally sent me a picture of a man. When asked she claimed it was her brother and she was sending it to a friend. Glad I didn’t go on that date
She didn’t like being seen in public with men and wouldn’t get a job that paid better because she felt awkward
Ok, I’ve never noped out of a relationship but there was a situation that me now would have noped out of when I was in pre-k(it’s young I know). I had this bf in pre-k, we will call him jake. Jake was weird, he either had a bunch of the same outfit or never washed his clothes bc he always came to school in a blue plaid shirt and jeans. He always pulled my hair and hit me, he even bit me a few times. He was rude but even at such a young age, I had daddy issues(still do). I fell in love and plucked up the courage to ask him on a date at the rock wall at the playground, he said yes. At recess he was late but got there eventually and told me he wanted to show me a secret. He pulled me behind the rock wall unzipped and peed on the back of the rock wall. He threatened to tickle me if I told or ran off(I hated being tickled to the point where I would cry at someone just saying “I’m gonna tickle you!” So ofc I stayed and kept quiet. He continued to be mean(hitting, biting, pinching, pulling my hair, etc.) and the rock wall thing happened daily. One of my friends found out and immediately tried to talk me into telling him off but I was to scared. Eventually she(my friend) told another friend of mine who was respected by everyone in the grade. He was seen as scary as he was taller than others and managed to give a kid a black eye and he played with me at recess everyday until the end of the year to keep me away from Jake. One day Jake tried to pull me away to the rock wall again and my friend(we will call him ty) gave him a bloody nose by jumping him from behind, Jake hit his nose on a metal bar hence the bloody nose, ty got in trouble but he immediately became my BFF after that. Jake didn’t want anything to do with me after that. I’ve never been more grateful for a classmate, ty moved a few years later and sadly I never got to thank him. Ofc I don’t blame myself I was young and didn’t have a brain developed enough to see how much of a savior he was. But if I could I would thank him today