3 Things God ALWAYS Does to a Narcissist
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- What will God do to a narcissist according to the Bible? Here are 3 things that will happen to someone who is narcissistic and does not repent.
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I wish the church knew how to protect the victims of narcissistic abuse. It hurts when the people you go to for help don’t believe and understand you.
Then that is not your church and there are plenty of other resources to assist in your healing journey. God is our Defender, and He is the only one who can protect us from evil. We seek others for understanding and awareness who’ve been through what we’ve been through. Ignorance is bliss in terms of just because an individual didn’t witness a particular event, behavior etc doesn’t make it untrue. No one has ever seen God, but we know He exists and the same for NA. I’m an advocate for NA and speak on it from a Biblical standpoint and all of the above is my testimony. I always knew it was demonic and God exposed it all and delivered me from evil. God bless and may He protect us from the wicked Jezebel’s that lurk. ❤️🙏🏻✝️
@@sicibell this i why the bible says study to show thyself approves. Preachers nowadays don't want to deal with this level of demonic force... instead they prefer prosperity teachings. This is deep but narcissists are demons using human flesh to manipulate degrade and antagonize us. If we don't get to the root of the problem, we're going to continue to see mass murders, suicides because people are being possessed. 2 scriptures. 1. We wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and rulers of darkness in high places. 2. Your worst enemies are of your own household. The spirit of deception. Those that are closet to us. Not all, but many spirits lies within our bloodline. That's it's generational. 1 trait of narcissism is mirroring their prey. They know exactly what you like what buttons to push and how to hurt you. 3rd scripture put not your Trust in men for they will deceive you. In many cases, We eat we laugh we party and sleep with these spirits. We who are of light are outlets. They plug into us and drain us if our source. Thats why the worst crimes happens at night, Whilst we're sleeping and slumbering. Your plots agaisnt you are already set in place by the enemies. That's why nightmares happens at night. It's the hours of demonic forces. Never let the sun go down on your wrath because anything can happen. In the morning we have new mercies and joy because this is Gods hour. In this season keep a quiet place and meditate. Bridle your mouth and keep Very little company. The devil has ears!
Yeah the thing with me and church is both of my parents say they're christians my dad is the pastor of our church. The only good thing about this is I've known the bible since a very young age but it all just seems like a story since I've heard it like over and over again. They're always nice around other christians and around our church so no one believes me they always reflect the same exact things my parents say to me to defend them. And they compare my parents with their parents my friends parents i mention or parents in general. I feel like my parents are forcing a religion on me the older i get and think about it. 🙄 And they use God and biblical scripture to control me.
@@MrMuzikboi80 I agree with everything you said. Even before I was saved, I always knew they were demons in human meat suits. I believe they are the Nephilim, half human half giant as recorded in Genesis 6. Evil spirits can only occupy an open willing vessel just like a parasite to a host. Narcissists are the disembodied spirits that roam the earth and are absolutely familiar/household enemies!
@@Killua_Zoldyck3407 if you’re of age to disengage I’d do so. You can’t honor parents you don’t hold in high regard. The Bible also says, fathers do not exasperate your children Jesus says, if you have to choose between me and another person, choose me. I was raised by a narcissistic mother to then go on to date her male counterpart and have a child with. Our parents are our first abusers and their assignment is to set us up to be further abused in our romantic relationships. Although your parents are spiritual narcissists the good news is that they helped train you in spiritual warfare. I didn’t know what I know now and my life would have taken a different path. Put on the full armor of God and use the Sword of the Lord and go no contact if you can. Hear me and hear me well, if you don’t tear down the demonic altars and generational curses it will only carry through the bloodline and birth another generation that will pay for the sins of our ancestors!
Narcissist has to be a demon because it's a demon who takes pleasure in angering, agitating and annoy people.
I think so too. Which makes me feel bad removing them from my life because i dont think it’s really them being evil.. so tough
I believe it is related to demonic oppression
I won't go into too many details but suffice it to say, the stronger and deeper my fatih walk the more my husband became agitated and took it out on me. A few weeks ago we got into yet another fight and I finally shouted out to cast out the demons in the name of Jesus!. The change in him after the last 10 years of our marriage...I am still sort of dumbfounded. There had always been a huge SOMETHING in the way of us and it was removed!! HALLELUYAH and SHOUT OUT to Jesus!!!!
@@ateachableheart2649 that's excellent. What did you say exactly? Did you notice a change at that point when the demon left? 🙏
@@quasimodo614 If I had to pin point, the next day. I'm still on guard tho. BUT!!! Even if this thing tries to come back, I know now the power of these words!
I said "I cast you out in the name of Jesus!" I think I kept saying it, but more than 24 hours these days not so easy to recall. I should have written it in my journal but we had a sick pet and things were very stressful.
But I will say this.....I can tell in the eyes of my husband and our son and yes, my son has had this too and there is a powerful testimony to go with that event.
Prayers up to all who have been victims of narcissism!🙏🏻
I'm the one victim...my narc...gf she believed satan...
💯
Amen🙏
Amen
The Lord rescued me from a few. I didn't know these monsters existed. I do now!
To anyone suffering at the hands of a narcissist God has set you free, loves you and will protect you!
Amen.
Amen. Thank you.
If it was only that easy.
I don’t feel free; when peace seems to be, the sociopath flares up with more intense abuses. A loop exists.
Narcissist s degrade , defile , destroy all things lovely , beautiful, good ! God has handed them over to the misery of their choosing , He has allowing them to burn every bridge, they are defiant , angry alone , The wrath of God is evident on the disobedient! Not about feeling , it's about understanding these things ! Not about the wrong done to us , and we need get honest with ourselves ! Did I not go pursueing my wants , when I met my narcisstic spouse ? Did I consider God's advice when I choose to pursue my wife ? No I was in a fallin state , alone , and was leaning on my own understanding, not the Lord's , I was ignorant , not willfully so , but had been influenced by the society, and culture we live in ! Gratefully I know better now , these are dark , perilous times we live in ! And I understand today , only by God's grace have I survived it , He is calling us out to humble ourselves and look to Him for salvation! To be humble and acknowledge yes Lord , it is my fault ! And praise you Lord for having on a wretched sinner like me ! My will didn't get me there , but yours did ! Layed His life down for me , took the scourge , nails , tomb , and death with Him ! Lest I think and feel sorry for myself ! He is worthy ! Agape !
When the Lord said "Evil walks among you." He was talking about NARCISSISTS.....
I feel your pain but true evil goes beyond a narcissist
Trained by Lucifer to do his bidding.
Facts!
I couldn't agree more! Narcissism is pure evil
I believe that. Thats what Derrick Prince says about many traits. Spiritz, aka demons in one form or another. They are. Well dang. Its to much for little old me to battle and God tried to help. I am just not worthy anymore. I know all that now. The narc in my life all but put me in the ground himself. There still time tho.
I believe that God allowed me to experience narcissistic abuse in part...because I needed to learn to
WALK AWAY. I have prayed for strength to be able to do this...and at almost 70...I finally can.
I feel the same. My step dad gave me to women and children sex trafficking and forced to be with FASD narcissist. The torcher was very traumatic. I asked God for strength, understanding, patience, knowledge and never let go of God's hand. Now I can help others
Same
Thank God.
The LORD brought one next door to me. To deal with my Fear. God said his People have built an altar of fear for Baal and that's where he sit ruling us like Pharaoh. It shall be demolished.
I walked away and I don't regret it!!
Christians are very attractive to narcissists. Because we are so forgiving. Brothers and sisters do not allow yourself to be abused. God does not want that for us. Whoever tells you otherwise has an agenda to destroy you.
Where have I seen that paradigm before recently? People taking advantage of the goodness in others to hurt them towards the goal of destroying them? Something about a 6 colored rainbow?
@VoiceOvaGuy
That’s not how the story of Noah went.
They hunt you!! Beware, kindness draws them in.
I agree with you,💯
most christians are narcissists
The closer we get to God, the closer evil doers follow and pester you, they work hard to prevent you from reaching goals. Everything is a test. You can do this. Ameen.
Absolutely. Amen
Amazing comment
So true. It seems like the harder you try, the worse it gets! It's like, certain people can actually see right through you... Anticipating you next move... Relentlessly, spying on you! Waiting for you to stumble..
Demons.
The KG Bible says Peter 3: 1-6 Wife, place yourself in submission to your Husband. Live in a way that Honors your Husband and God. Believe that this godly conduct will win an unsaved husband to Christ.
3:7 Husband, be kind and gentle with your wife. Honor her as your very best friend. Listen to her and spend time with her.
Cherish her and spend time with her.
Cherish her and make her feel extremely important.
Recognize that not doing so will hinder your pray life and obstruct answers.
4:8 Love all believers fervently.
I love JESUS He knows how a Marriage is full of happiness, mercy, tender love is supposed to be.
AMEN Reading the Bible is so Amazing
Anyone ho reads will find peace.
Please comment if anyone agrees. My Marriage was so Awful. They vibes would make me so terrible
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I prayed so many times
My mother is a narcissist and she has done so much damage to my family. Please pray for us. I need God to stop her evil ways and to protect my father
God put me in a family with a narc mother cos it was his plan for me to be trauamtised to death, cos god is love, can I get an "amen".
@@projectbirdfeederman5491 God is love, His ways and our ways are different. We just gotta stand strong and pray for each other
Walk away quietly
Psalm 94:16
@@joykraft1175 Yep! Forget about justice at this point. They would love me or you to be hung up on that. As the bible says: "Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord."
According to mental health professionals the unfortunate thing is true Narcissists RARELY change, but instead rationalize, justify, blame shift and double down on their behavior.
That's because it's about their pride more than anything. Being right, always right to a narc is more important than- like having friends.
My whole family does this and I'm the scape goat. Now, I just stay away.
If you have experience with a narcissist, you know how unfathomably far they will go with the behaviors you describe.
They are children in adult bodies.
Narcissists take advantage of a believers genuine desire to forgive and like to use scripture as a weapon against true believers. Many like to hide in church because of this very thing. How things appear to others is more important than the true walk which is from a sincere heart seeking. Deeds without Love is in vain. So those who struggle openly or are sensitive are easy targets. They are easily deceived. Its all about themselves and usually to esteem themselves requires a slanderous and cut down of others. Knowing the nature of evil requires the experience of good within. Most target only 1 or specific people so that they can appear good to the many. Its a hard thing to endure but God is faithful and I believe that motives will be revealed in the end. No one can truly hinder God's Love from reaching you unless you allow it. God is never fooled or convinced against anyone being attacked by such people
Let’s pray for the narcissist to be free from the demons. Let’s pray to rebuke all the unclean spirits who are attached to them, so people won’t suffer from their demonic behaviours.
Good idea; most everyone says the narcissist won't change though. I know of one I truly wish would change.
My whole family is narcissistic! I never knew why I felt alone! Now I have it very clear!
There are families of them out there!
Mine too. I am a loner over it.
@@LReno-di9cm The ones who are scapegoats awaken, one by one over time and reunite with the family for they want out of toxic and dysfunctional. They had enough!
My Wife and kids actually left the state we lived in and I took a transfer so we could escape my Dad because they were interfering with the way we were raising our kids by home schooling them and going to a real Bible Church instead of a dead Church that my Parents were going to. We did what we had to do to protect our sanity and walk with the Lord. And we have always been blessed and we have been married for 39 years.
Same🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Vengeance is mine saith the Lord, I will repay. ~ proverbs
Yeah I've been waiting over ten years
@@gloriaavishai-pw4nn Been at it for so long I thought that was normal life until recently.
I don't care if God wants vengeance. I am just exhausted from doubting that it will happen in any way that doesn't take me down with the narcissist for having stood up to them for once in my life.
I hope so. but I won't hold my breath.
That is actually in Romans 12:19
I currently live with 3 narcissists family members, please pray that I can safely get away from them and cutt all ties with them. Amen🙏🏽
I hop you get away real soon god love you
I pray that God blesses you with the abundance of money you need, the perfect time to get away, and a safe and secure place to land when you run to your peace and freedom.
@@Morgan24_7 Amen🙏🏽🙌🏽
@@shirleygill6209 Thank you🙏🏽
Run as fast as you can
It took me over 7 years to fully recover from my narcissistic marriage. Life does get better, but you'll never be the same again. The saying 'once you see, you can never unsee' is definitely true. You'll be much stronger when this is behind you, but you'll never fully trust again, PEACE will become your new best friend, and God will gift you with a special power when this is all over... your eyes will be opened to the reality of what is truly good and what is real evil. This gift will be your forever protector, your shield, and your armor. You will rejoice in your deliverance while having a deep sense of gratitude for what God delivered you from. And although you won a real spiritual battle, no one will ever understand the magnitude of what you went through if they never had a real encounter with a narcissistic spirit. Remain Bless
I am 67 & years & decades of abuse has me feeling like a old jalopy car both on the surface & deep inside!! The damage is done & all I can do is ask God to give me the strength to continue on!!
Why did God let a narcissist torment you to begin with?
Thank you for sharing your experiences and I’m happy that you’re doing well by God’s grace. The fact you mentioned it took you over 7 years to fully recover, gives me hope because it’s been 2 years for me and I still haven’t recover yet and I have phases of distress ptsd’s. And people around me be like it’s been a long time get over it
@@danmurray1143 Maybe you seek God on that or perhaps gain some clarity by reading the story of Job in the bible- you do know what a bible is right?
@aliciauzor9249 Yes, I know what a Bible is -- it's a book of ancient myths, 😆
Sometimes people end up all alone because they were raised in a narcissist household as the scapegoat, therefore being conditioned to narcissistic abuse, when they learn about narcissistic abuse later in life, they realize they are surrounded by narcissistic predatory people. As God closes all the doors on these people.. they find themselves alone and too broken to rebuild their lives. This is what has happened to me, I keep trusting God to send the right kind, Godly people and whenever I put myself out there to try to make new friends… predatory people are the ones who show up every time! I’ve put SOOOO much effort and prayer into my healing, counseling, support groups, education about PTSD but no matter what, it’s like I’m living in some horror movie, invasion of the NARCISSISTS! I am not drawn or attracted to these people anymore. However it has been a very long lonely road trying to recover and create a new life. Trauma survivors tend to isolate even if they are an outgoing person. It takes a great deal of strength to try to make new friends and is very discouraging when each person you meet you know will not be a good fit.
Please pray for me, I still believe God can turn my life around for His Glory!
Love your channel Mark! God Bless!
Prayed in Jesus name ❤
@@mamapeshy1887 Thank you so much for your prayers! God has already begun to turn the tide! 🙌🏼💕 went through the darkest trial last 72 hours and coming out the other side with hope and renewal!
Praise Him!
It seems that I too have been walking that same road most of my life and never knew it until recently as well.
@@thecustodian1023 ❤praying healing and restoration and right relationships for you and me 🙏
I am 67 & been a Christian since age 12 & I can say that many years & decades of abuse has left it's mark & God's grave is 'just sufficient enough' Yes I am like an old jalopy car, yet I get from point A to point B, though it can be really, really hard!!
I personally believe anybody with a Jezebel spirit is a narcissist.
You’re not wrong
Yes that’s what my Pastor with Prophetic gift told me!😮
I agree. The secular world calls it narcissism, the Bible calls it. a Jezebel spirit!
It's true, narcissism is the jezebel spirit
the Bible does contain a person named Jezebel will ill traits, but does not mention a Jezebel spirit.
1) Misery 2) Loneliness 3) Punishment through exposure and downfall.
thats not enough....sorry
@@whitemax5372..and then suffer the same pain they inflicted
I lived and suffered with a narcissist for awhile. I then started to read the Bible daily and was baptized. They left me and new doors opened. God's plan was greater than anything I could've imagined. All the glory to God.
Amen 🙏🏽
I'm glad it worked out. But, why didn't God protect you in the 1st place?
Where’s the learning in that?
Hoping this will happen to me after my divorce.
I didn't pray to God but I cut ties with them and I feel in peace I feel like God wanted me to see the revealing truth of these narcissists and he knew I was gonna get them out of my life.
I'm alone because of all the narcissists. I've cut everyone out of my life because of their cruelty. The world is full of diabolical narcissists and I don't see any of them being punished.
The universe has its own system.. karma. Karma is very real and it will take care of them. Don’t worry … live your best life.
I feel they are criminals who go unpunished too.
@@jill4268 💯
I don't see they're punished either
@@jill4268my sister she's not sorry for the family problems or starting a fight on Christmas after husband died 0ctober 7 2022 I had to call police and ask them to please bring mW to a motel she wanted to. Hit me now I'm not allowed to see my own mom
What is rarely addressed is how a lot of these people have truly gaslighted/lied to their own selves into completely believing they Are following God's Word and have no need to change. They delusionally believe it is everyone else who are wrong.
Absolutely! It is beyond insane!
What they do to themselves is far worse than what they do to their victims! They teach & train us, giving us even more validation of oourselves and strong courage & strengh from within us & in the Lord!
So true, narcissists do not accept any fault as thier own. I have experienced many covert narcissists that use God's word in vain to serve themselves that start out pretending to be concerned, try to find out what people need & provide for them as a way to gain their confidence, then try to destroy their lives. This is a meaning of Matthew 24:5.
So very true. I was in a challenging position about 18 months ago, & made the mistake of accepting help from someone I thought I knew to be a person I would be able to rely upon. That person turned out to be an EXTREME NARCISSIST!! It was the most depressing experiences of my life. I am grateful God got me out of that position when He did😢. "Now" I know the precise definition of narcissism, first hand. I wouldn't wish that on anyone!!
Hypocrite types are always quoting Scripture to justify the abuse they force on their victims. It's usually easy to pick apart their "logic", so they start abusing again, or using crap they learned at seminary or from a pastor who's learned abuse in seminary.
The narc gets great pleasure at seeing others fall it seems to give them a sense of achievement.
Pride is not just any sin, but it is the sin that drives the devil himself.
I was a victim of narcissistic abuse once ,I almost died but the Lord plucked me from that living hell n blessed and protected me. He strengthened me . I live in peace now , my advice is just keep praising the Lord and He will fight your battles 🙏🏽
Psalm 37 was my psalm in dealing with my narc ex-husband. Reading that chapter frequently comforted me and gave me hope that one day justice will be served.
maybe your mom thinks you are a narcissist. maybe she wants God's best for your life. here AND in the future. as a mom, I am learning these traits follow children too. FORGIVE . rise above the evil. God will help .
Psa 73 reads much the same, gives more info.
@@allenone6970 That’s a good one, too!
Yes to psalm 37 .. however psalm 36:1-4 is what HE gave me concerning the narc ex .
Ty for this scripture, I'm so mess up I thinkni maybe one. I feelbcause I won't take my ex abuse I'm the narcissist. I'm so sad N depressed. God pls help me. 💔😥🙏🏾
My husband’s got narcissistic traits, also some good ones. Very confusing, and I married him before I knew what was going on and had no clue about narcissism 😢 heartbreaking 💔
It really is I had a kid with one didn't know until the pregnancy it was a nightmare
My now ex-wife, too. She treated me with such "love", kindness, and affection when we were dating.
Immediately after we got married she started treating me coldly. But she would rotate between cold and kind/loving, sometimes like a light switch for no apparent reason.
Eventually the cold became the full time reality, giving only breadcrumbs of kindness.
When I shut down and stopped taking it, she amped up the bad treatment before discarding me.
Now I see the narcissistic pattern: lovebombing, mask removal, breadcrumbing, and discard.
The only step left is hovering, when they see how well you are doing and try to get you back, and start the cycle over again.
Could be a low to mid range narcissist. With many years of therapy there might be room for improvement. For high range narcissist not so much. The only thing you can do is run away.
I'm walking the same walk. Praying for Divine Guidance on how to get out of it. My husband is getting worse however, so I'm reaching the point of divorce. Not something I am looking forward to at the age of 64.
He probably rushed the relationship. They can't keep the false character for long. Bless you. I divorced one.
They are very self righteous, and glory in the attention people give them.
Or unwilling to believe the folks who look so good in public are so wicked behind closed doors.
My DIL is a covert narcissist and she is destroying my family! Please pray for the healing of my son and our family. God please help us!
Prayers for you and your family.
Jezebel Sprit (narcissism) cannot operate without an Arab spirit. Recommending a book called Confronting Jezebel.
So true… my ex has become a loner and an empty shell… He was so handsome with many women at his beckon call a sex addict and now at 74 years old living alone and with heart issues and was told he has to have all of his teeth pulled because of infection…
God had his ways of humbling us…
But living without him I’ve never felt more at peace. He destroyed so many lives with his selfishness.
🙏🙌
I can sooooo relate! Hugs
Narc deserve to be alone. No wife at his side at the same time no children. Until last breath
The thing is we always need to choose to forgive…and move on.
“You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.’
Every time I gave into my trauma bond and started communicating with my narc ex again, I always had demonic dreams or dreams warning me to stay away from him...
Yes, we have to let go of the false to have open hands for the real blessings God has for us
Twice I took him back I almost died. Once on the drive home from his house a car was driving on the wrong side of the freeway coming right at me. It was surreal. Now that I am DONE with him but battling in court I have night terrors always about 3 days before court that I'm being choked and can't move or speak. I wake screaming the name JESUS
@@drkatherine20 May God take care of you. Jesus is always there.
@@drkatherine20 I pray God completely deliver you from soul ties and any spiritual hooks they may have left I your life. The things you describe is serious and I know it must be frightening and frustrating. God is greater. Draw nearer to him as you go through.
You need to break the soul ties to the narc because sex created a soul tie and this is why they are appearing in your dreams.
It's so sad right. My sister passed away and my father told me he wished it was me. When my mother was alive she said she loves me but my siblings it's her favorite and my grandmother that raised me just told my daughter I was a monster because I'm going to church and told her she doesn't love me but she cares for me. Now that I'm 30 yrs old I see that all 3 of them are narcissistic. I'm Noone daughter but Jesus which is the most important thing.
You must set up boundaries with narcissists for your own mental health. Even if it means, cutting them out of your life.
Had to do that with a couple of my immediate family. They try to gaslight me. Won't even apologize for what they do!
Do it Lord
I believe every word in your word. Let the wicked be exposed and to you be all the glory
I agree. In Jesus name. Amen.
Amen
Amen
I needed to see this comment
Amen!❤
I see comments that obviously show that those people have never suffered from narcissistic abuse. Unless you have, the worst thing that you can do is question or dismiss a victim’s experience. We’ve already been gaslit, a lot of times unsupported by police, judges and sometimes our own family and friends. Of course the enemy would have people believe that narcissism doesn’t exist, just like has many believing that he himself does not exist. That’s what makes this abuse so dangerous, people are dismissive of it unless they see bloodshed or wounds. The emotional damage that these unclean spirits inflict on ESPECIALLY BELIEVERS is overwhelming and sometimes deadly. So please have empathy, and maybe educate yourselves on Narcissistic Personality Disorder before making light of it. Praying heavily for everyone who has ever been the target of a true Narcissist. May God protect you and heal you in the mighty name of Jesus!
I agree
Amen 🙏
THISSSS❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹 I overstand and you are so correct. Pastors and churches def need the education and stop guilting/abusing victims of said abuse as the perpetrator and calling us unforgiving or unChristlike because we now have boundaries. It turns my stomach how I allowed this man to abuse me and go back because the Marriage counselor said it’s a wife job to make them feel needed, to validate them, to sacrifice for them even though I already was and it was not enough. To have more sex or be at the door with a clean house kids asleep and ready for sex because that’s how God wired the man. Oh I had to forgive the church and myself for falling for all that. I said it then and say it now. Those are things the Lord should be in someone’s life. God brings contentment not another human. It was like I was brainwashed to think I was the Holy Spirit to his life and that’s not a spouse job. Unfortunately this is spiritual abuse at its finest and narcs thrive off it to keep that spouse from leaving.
They are of their father the devil.
They take your soul and destroy your life, whilst happily going about their own lives. They leave you an empty shell of the person you once were.
Its more than sad ... narcism peoplle always like hurt others , its sickening...
This is a fight between good and evil. Through God we learn how to fight.
I. Was a narcissist but God delivered me from it all you can do is pray for the narcissist what people don't understand is narcissist are blind to what they are doing even if you confront them without God revealing to them they live a lie and are blinded must ask God to remove the scales off of their eyes and pray for them the life of a narcissist is a nightmare but God can change their narcissist and he's the only one that can God bless you all
I haven't been diagnosed, but after doing some self reflection I have found out that I have done damage to people I care about and have given off some negative energy. I hope you can get better. I don't want to hurt anyone and I don't want to hurt myself anymore.
If they do not know then why do they have such discernment about the times that they choose to be so abusive
@@jeanniewhite3450 they don't know what they are doing and sometimes it takes a while to figure it out.
I pray for my narcissistic mother in law every day. I pray she is able to accept the grace of God. Only he can save her.
@jesushotline232; I think they know exactly what they are doing; I confronted a covert narc about their behaviour & all they did was stonewall me. (I've since found out that this is a way that they try to control you) ---'they aren't the actions of someone who doesn't know what they are doing, are they?
I was with a narcissist over five yrs God opened 😮 my eyes wide open glad gave him up thank you Jesus.❤
You ARE not God, and he has come for all that are sick, also the narcissist. Stop thinking that you even understand GOD, your brain is not even 0000000000000000000000000,1 procent of GOD and his forgiveness.
My mother in law is a full spectrum narcissist. My wife and I have lived in a house that my mother in law bought for her and her sister. But my mother in law was using that to control my wife and holding it over her head. Eventually I told my wife we needed to leave and get our own place. We ended up leaving but Covid hit me hard and I was unemployed for 7 months. We both were invited to live with my wife grandparents but only lasted for 6 months. My wife was having problems with her grandma because she started to be overbearing and controlling. Her mom tried to lure me and my wife back into her house and I tried to warn my wife but her mother convinced her things will be different but I didn’t believe it. After living 3 months, things went bad real quick. So my wife and I have been looking for houses non stop until we found and lock down on it. We’re leaving in just a few days.
Very glad you're leaving.
My Wife of 6 years is a narcissist. God opened my eyes to realize my battle is not with her but with the spirit of Jezebel. I pray for her deliverance. Thank you Jesus.
So true. These are otherwise very possibly loving people who are either demon oppressed or demon possessed. I am married and separated to one. My heart hurts because of the circumstances of NPD. I don’t want to lose faith,hope and deliverance on my dear wife. I especially don’t want her eternal place be in danger separated from Jesus because of this condition. In tears may Jesus have mercy and grace on her soul. Amen. ✝️🏃♂️
Father I pray to give John strength and guidance during this season in the mighty name of Jesus Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit. May your presence reach my brother and his wife as your power is omnipotent and has no limits may you break and sever every chain every strong hold the enemy has against him. Lord fill John with love, clarity and peace. He is covered in the blood of Jesus Christ and the enemy is attacking his marriage and home because he knows of the plan you have for him father. I rebuke any demonic force any spirit spouse attacking him and his wife in Jesus name. Holy Spirit fill his home, wife and family with your presence, give him rest, any lie the enemy is attack running thru his mind is broken in jesus name. Spirit of insomnia leave in the name of Jesus Christ, depression leave in the name of Jesus Christ. Thank you lord.
I pray for your covering as well in YAHSHUA’s Name!
@@emmanuelfranco3511would she go see a Catholic exorcist?
@@lisyclare nope, last time she went to Mass for Ash Wednesday she was mocking it using curse words during mass, everything she hears me playing Christian music she’s like eww.
Hard to avoid when you are a child with a parent who is the narcissist!
Also, too many church leaders are narcissists these days!!!
these traits follow family lines . you TOO MAY BE ONE . forgive, love, and be humble. we are all on our path to become HOLIER .
@@charvankerck9617 i am learning that curses are passed down thru generations. I think that we are putting a stop to them by learning and going no contact. This is probably what is causing the gates of hell to open right now with all of us reporting demonic attacks like never before.
Valerie R, I am also the child of narcissistic parents. So far, my only answer to this confounding relationship is to treat my abusive parent in a way that is best fitting with my inner sense of integrity. And I stick to the boundaries I’ve set in place. It’s hard. I often have to remind myself we wrestle not against flesh and blood.
@@shayg5268 Boundaries are important! I still struggle with maintaining mine. God bless!
You are not lying! Mother and sister Malignant narcissism EXTREME! POSSIBLY THE WORST EVIL NARCS I HAVE SEEN! I DONT KNOW HOW I SURVIVED EVEN WITH God's help!
Thank you Mark for making this very unique and very needed video. I have been struggling with why God has allowed the narcissistic psychopath to hurt me so much despite my best attempts to avoid them. I have been through great trauma and depression due to the pain and sheer evil. I so deeply appreciate you using scripture to show me God is in control and He will not be mocked.
Amen, the only one to fear is God! And when we fear him biblically, we lose all fear of others and come closer to the Lord through humility and grace from Jesus. God bless!
Thank you Mark! I will pray against fear. I encountered this narcissist because in my ministry I helped someone escape the narcissists terrible abuse and saved their life so now the narcissist is after my life with vengeance and is leaving no stone unturned. Thank you for your guidance.
@@amritahluwalia5234 Kinda like how King David was pursued by Saul, no? Pray, and have no fear. - john
@@johnboyer9008Thank you so much! I SO appreciate the support from you! I will pray and I will have no fear.
Thanks for sharing this. It comforts me to know that I'm not the only one 🙏 and that God is our comfort and strength
Just left a 19yr marriage due to narcissistic abuse. Thank you Jesus for giving me strength and opening my eyes to this evil man and his ways. I feel like a new person.
I am currently in 19 year relationship and still can’t leave, pray for me…. I need strength
It was hard, I was devastated. But God gave me strength, peace and showed me I was better off out of that situation. I have so much peace and joy now and Happy everyday.
@@jodiebennett5123 I have 5 sons
Welcome to the liberated club, sister! Live your best live, with wisdom!
@@freewomaninchristalone8389
I’m in a 25 yr marriage to a narcissist! 4 sons, my daughter died - I homeschool and I want to get away from him so bad 😢 so hard 🙏
Narcissist cannot be saved. They love themselves too much.
Do you know Jesus?
I don't believe that a narc can repent. They would have to take a long hard look at themselves and they CANNOT do that
Tares dont repent
God gives narcs over to a reprobate mind. Over time, They can’t see their sin due to a seared conscience. They don’t usually ever repent unless they get Into Trouble & can’t get out of consequences or maybe on his/her deathbed.
@@CG-no7js. Correct. Correct and correct again 👏🙏🙏👍👍👍.
I've pretty much reached the same conclusion but remind myself that He can save to the uttermost. So I pray for my arrogant proud hard hearted siblings and then leave the matter with God
Wow I was just praying about dealing with my daughters father who is narcissistic. He’s been on 10 lately (sometimes nice then mad when he doesn’t get his way) and I’m like enough is enough! I’m main prayer is for GOD to cover my daughter she didn’t ask for any of this dysfunction 🙏🏽
That’s happening with my narcissist. Was being nice on Friday afternoon then it must’ve been too much for him so by Friday evening he’d turned again
Does not play well with others,
Use it as a lesson for her so she doesn't end up with one like you or I did wasting her life on somebody who doesn't love her
Butterfly Bri omgoodness I was married to one for almost 12 years and I could not bear it anymore, it will never end. It only worsen over months. No one understands if they've never encountered. We have 2 children and it is conflicting.
I now one that abused two children for over a decade. The only defense is to abandon them I'm afraid.
They are EVIL. They will never change.
They are wolves in sheep's clothing
It was God that was on my side, and He is the one that helped me see WHOM my husband was, just 3 months into our new marriage. It was God that gave me the strength I NEEDED to walk away from my marriage and from a man that I loved so very much. My soon to be EX-husband's narcissistic abuse, which included severe physical abuse, was beyond what I can describe in mere few words here.
I forgave my abuser as soon as I left him, because I needed to be free from "carrying him" with me as I healed. I healed and got stronger and stronger..
Hallelujah and ALL glory be to God, for helping me and NEVER leaving my side.
Your comment touched me deeply. My story is similar to yours except it took me 44 years to finally break free. May God keep you safe and you never experience such cruel behavior from anyone again❤
The most relevant video in my life currently, I pray for anyone going through the abuse of a narcissist that you a free from them, that you get your freedom, life and mind back .God bless and keep you all
Some say the narcs that rule our world are imposing god's judgment on us right now. Judgment from a god that gives most of us the silent treatment, like a narc does.
IN JESUS CHRIST NAME WE PRAY. AMEN.
I needed to hear this. I just ended a relationship with a narcissist and I always was crying because I didn't want him to get away with how he treated me and others, I know God will give him what he deserves
Pray for him to get better and find some peace and teraphy. Send blessings those people are extremely. Miserable and they need help Iam studying this personality trait and best thing to do is to walk away and no contact
If you were intimate with him, it will be harder to cut ties as you may have a soul tie. If you had sex you must take accountability and repent.
Yup. Give justice up unto God and get on with the life you are meant to live. That's how you win.
Amen 🙏🏽
He cheated on me since 6 months and is now love bombing a home breaker bitch. Bastard will pay for sure one day.
These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! And are trying to steal yours. This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this.
I never thought I would have suffered at the hands and still ongoing trauma by such a disgusting evil narcissist. Everything you have pointed out relates to my suffering. It's as if you've read that part of my life and all the boxes ticked. Endangerment by NOT physically harming to hide their evil. Tormenting on every level possible. It's empowering that this is understood to those who suffer and lived in fear. I truly understand for all of those who have suffered mentally, resulting in physical health affected too and the evil disgust of their exploitation, for what they find commendable as these monsters see themselves as superior....throw in a racist mentality adds to their ugliness of absolute achievement. I had let this monster into my home. Folks....be very careful of evil entering your home, and leaving nothing but painful trauma for every level of exploitation possible. I am pursuing a matter presently that relates to disgusting criminal exploitation.....years later, and still worried and scared. But for my hardworking family and my two children, past loved ones who have worked so hard.and not letting this wretched evil monster from ongoing terrorizing me. I ask God to help me, and not stay weak and scared.🙏
The narcisist made my life an island of loneliness then he left and he was alone too. I'm slowly finding my people again
The hard thing about suffering abuse from these people is that often the churches response has not been to confront the sinner or expose them in public like Paul said. Rather it is to throw the word “forgiveness” like a dart at the very confused abuse victim who just wants to be heard and get strong again. Forgiveness is not the same as rebuilding trust.
I agree, I went through this a lot, and they took my husband side, he has abandoned me, left me with nothing, and now I'm left to pick up the pieces by myself, I trust that God will open doors for me, and that things will be even better, my future will be great, thank you Jesus 😇😇😇if a person don't want deliverance no one can force them to get it, the best thing anyone in this type of demonic relationship to do, is save themselves, and that's what I'm doing, I've had enough and I'm working on getting back on my feet, I'm at peace with the situation I just have to stay focus, eventually, ill be totally free from this abuse IN JESUS NAME 😇😇😇
The church is wrong and you are doing the right thing! Vengeance is the Lord's. Reading Job over and over and Psalm 37 helped me through it.
@@Chosen1_LadyIsha you are not by yourself. I didn't get a chance to tell you but the same happened to me. I was a homemaker. Knowing now that was all a part of the plan to have a lot of kids on the narcs scheme. I chose to get my tubes tied because I had major depression with the next to last kid because it was a lot of my mental (now I know why) I remember him saying I'm not going to get fixed so you will have to. I felt selfishness then but I was so into pleasing God and my husband like the Bible seems to elude to that I thought don't speak on it and use wisdom to just do what you have to do. The narc was sent by Satan to destroy me. So as the kids grew I prayed to God to open a door for free schooling. HE DID THAT, I had lost my car and my credit all held us down during that season, GOD ALLOWED ME ANOTHER CAR, I went to school and worked hard so they offered me an intern spot, that intern spot paying $10/hr helped me take care of the kids. See narcs are very selfish and lie and say they can't afford this or that when they live double lives and he had plenty of money to eat out himself and pay for others. From the intern spot I got like a adjunct/contractor type job and had a certification course paid for by guess who THE NARC EX BOSS at that job who because of her behavior led me to go to therapy to deal with her evil and THERE the blinders came off and I realized I was in an abusive relationship and the man I married was a covert narcissist. I was blown away but God continued to hold me up through it all. The narc faked repentance after his cheating and comes to the church I go to. I thought God had answered my prayers and we can finally be united and a family and the kids see a Godly household...NOPE! The enemy sent him there to make sure no one was trying to be with me, to covet my praise leader position, and to turn people against me. ALL OF THIS WHILE in my face saying he wanted his marriage and family. He was bitter and full of every type of evil. Joined the praise team and bumped me out and he took over. Once I left him I also left that church because God said go in lots of ways. Do you know he had left the church (broke my heart again) probably a year prior telling the Pastor there he was called to be a preacher at his dads old church and pretty much left me and the kids again. ONCE I LEFT HIM HE CAME BACK TO THIS CHURCH to finish his smear campaign and the preacher brought into it a bit. It's been two years so I can tell he sees now but the pain and heartbreak and constant strife and evil these people do is beyond MINDBLOWING BUT for me I had to follow God. I forgave the church, people who believed him, and him BUT I AM NO CONTACT. Those who sided with the narc I just said Father forgive them for they know not what they do but I personally will no longer be in fellowship or aligned with people who do not validate my abuse, the experience, or try to get me to take the narc back. I listen to GOD ALONE. God has RESTOREDDDDDDDDDDDDD everythingggg. I just moved into my first 3-BEDROOM brand new apartment last year after having to return home for almost two years with my 3 kids. GOD CONTINUED TO PROVIDE. This whole experience has made me focused on the will of God and my purpose as well as showing the kids GOD SAID I WILL NEVER LEAVE OR FORSAKE YOU and I HAVE NEVER SEEN THE RIGHTEOUS FORSAKEN OR HIS SEED BEGGING FOR BREAD! It was fearful at first but God had my now Director call ME and ask me why I hadn't applied for her job. The night before I was like Godddd you promised that I do not have to worry about what to eat, drink, or wear. You promised that you provide for a sparrow so you will take care of us. I need you to do something!!! Well he answered that next morning and from then has performed miracle after miracle. TRUST GOD! God is near to the brokenhearted. Also, walk with God and follow his voice and lead. Churches get it wrong, Pastors can get it wrong but YOU CAN NEVER GO WRONG when YOU are personally connected to your Father and being led by the Holy Spirit. I wanted to encourage you that a man may abandon you but God never will. You may have to start from the bottom but God has a way of making the least the greatest and the humble exalted in due time. TRUST THE PROCESS AND YOU GOT THIS IN CHRIST!!!!!
@@stephm5877 Amen I will add that to my prayer and study as well, thank you for sharing the word of God with me I really appreciate it, JESUS LOVE YOU AND SO DO I ❤️🙏💨🌊🕊️🔥
"...throw the word "forgiveness" like a dart..." Very apt description. If a significant portion of your church has been mesmerized by your adversary such that you have no support it's just that much worse. I started to suggest you look for another church, but I don't think that's my place. I would just say that a skilled narcissist is like a snake that hypnotizes his prey and it could years for the church to figure out what the situation really is. I grew up gullible around a master narcissist. I eventually moved out of state for 20 years and when I returned I realized what he was up to. Just cut off almost all connection with him... I think sometimes you have to.
Thank you. I need to hear more of this. My Narcs are destroying me and taking my money and my house. I am trying to find hope and joy in the midst of failing health, sleepless nights, and depression.
I pray for your protection from spiritual warfare. I am also trapped like you are. It's my own son doing this to me and our home. Trying to stay calm and not react badly is very hard. Jesus bind the devils in our loved ones so they and we can be healed. Amen
I'm there with you. It is devastating. Hold on to God with all your might. Prayers for you.
Whatever you are facing, God will pull you through. You can break free from addiction. I was set free from drugs, alc and smoking.
This Narcissistic behavior, is DEEP, almost 70 Years of age, and I didn't know there was a name for this behavior, then I met the worst person in my life 5years ago, I could actually write a Whole Book, GOD gave me TWO dreams, Warnings!!! I didn't ignore them, just thought I could make a difference, well I walked away FINALLY! now I have PEACE and not pieces Blessings to Everyone ❤
Me, too, at 85!
My Mother is a narcissist, she is hurting me my whole life (I'm 42) and she goes to the church every Sunday but in church they talk only about : " honor your father and mother" so she feels absolved.
So,...honor her.
Life is short, just because you think she is narcissistic, doesn't mean she is either. She still deserves honor.
"Do good to those who hate you," and, "Bless your enemies," are in the Bible. I doubt she hates you, and would be stunned to find that she is your enemy. Obey God, leave the vengeance to Him. He will repay.
Smile. We are nearly finished here!
Apparently you've never experienced a narccist. Count your blessings!
@@rosemaryraplar8 oh, sweetheart, but I did.
There are plenty of Bible verses that say to avoid wicked people. You can love, honor, and forgive people from a distance.
@@MichelleMohr-lt1wo honestly. This mother is abusive and mean and your answer is to honor her. I’m pretty sure God didn’t tell us to lay down and take all abuse. That’s sadistic in and of itself.
I have a sibling that’s a narcissist her behavior is always justified by my dad and he’s always enabling her abuse and because we are family we just suppose to put up with it and accept it. Doesn’t matter how bad she’s always trying to tear us down and calls us bad names. When we stand up to her she runs to my dad for sympathy then I have stopped contact and feel soooooooo relieved and happy that I ended her communication. I just pray for her abuse behavior and that my dad finally wakes up and see and stop defending her abuse.
My dad does the same thing with my brother to the point, I stop talking to both of them
@kujokannibal7081 Yeah it's just unbelievable. Making excuses for such behavior is beyond me.
"By smooth talk and flattery, they deceive the hearts of the naive" - that's me - fell right into his trap. Narcissism contagious - fighting to get out of his pit.
This is SO WEIRD. I LITERALLY WAS JUST THINKING THIS.
So glad this was timely!
Not to bad talk anyone. But I feel like that sometimes, like my phone can read my mind. Is it that? Is it God? Is it my phone hearing what I speak and using it to bring videos? Working on knowing what it is...
Me too
Dude!!!!!!
Jesus will speak to you more and more in this way because he is anxious for you to come home and he won't stop until he finds your attention.. don't ignore this video I'm sure it spoke to you so coincidence?? Maybe. But I feel like you have asked and then you received an answer
Thank you so much Mark. My family recently suffered a death and the narcissist, (one of the parents of the deceased) will not accept responsibility for the way they treated my loved one. And my heart truly grieves for this. I ask myself how can you lose a child and keep moving like they never existed. I realize there has to be some demonic influence to this.
Nunu--my EX-husbands 12 year old son died. Narc ex has never cried nor showed any emotion about losing his only son. During our marriage I saw him cry only once, when narc ex was talking about a sports writer and his "dirty hands" from working very hard.
REAL tears running down his face.
The weirdest and most cringing I've ever felt.
@@mariasartzis-Sartzis-PELLICIER 😰 SAD!
They never except responsibility for anything they’re always right. They have no issues and they never will because I don’t see them. They always think that they’re superior to everyone. And sometimes I believe that includes God and that scary. And the more I think about it maybe they don’t believe in God because they think they are.
@@virginiamills2298 I told my "Christian" narc mom that she is her own god.
I'm sorry for your recent loss. The narc who doesn't accept responsibility or grieve the child is filled with demons. It's still evil, though, no excuses at all for the narc. "Evil destroys itself." It includes those who chose to essentially follow Satan; if he doesn't turn around and destroy so & so, then God will finish it.
My dad was/still may be evil. When my mom miscarried the baby after me, but before my brother, he didn't grieve, let alone care. I was only 3, too young to understand. But yeah, eventually, narcs get theirs; by Karma or God's severe dealing, whichever comes faster...
Thank you for this! I recently left my almost one year relationship, with whom I was told was divorced, turned out he’s still very much married. Covert narcissist from day one, started with the love bombing and just spiraled from there. He’s in law enforcement so physical abuse wasn’t his thing. Mental, verbal….🏆. I’m seeing where GOD has me now! HE WAS ALWAYS WITH ME, MY FAITHFUL FATHER SAVED ME❤
I needed to hear this. But every Narcissist's that has done me wrong, something awful has happened to them. Some have died. And they died rather suddenly too.
I think my friend is sick
@@ritatolbert6395 We know that bad things do happen to good people. As Christians, we have the right to go to the Father and ask for our healing. Narcissist would never kneel before God. They say, "If He was a God of love, He wouldn't let me get sick".
A narcissist thrives on drama and the attention that it brings, I try and trip up and or change the drama to confuse them, it works sometimes.
My mother was/is a Christian narc. The path of destruction she has left in her wake is catastrophic. I am so ashamed of entire family of origin, and the hell they bring to everyone lives
There are plenty of religious narcissists.
I wonder if their religion is simply another form of ‘supply’ to them
WOW----knowing hurts but sets you free to learn to be yourself with your beliefs in your Savoir.
Me too !
Narc mother, shame of family and how they enabled her to TRY to destroy me.
God is good! ❤
I was married to a Narcissist for 17 years and we’ve been divorced for 10 years but he’s still making me and our kids miserable!! My son is 26 and has severe autism and he’s holding him hostage!! Our 18 year old daughter lives with me now bc she can speak!! I really need prayers for my son!!! I can’t begin to tell you what I’ve been through. The only reference is Convicted Wife Killer “Drew Peterson”, a former police officer, like my ex husband was before being forced to resign !! He is still portraying himself as retired law enforcement, to the extreme of having “Thinbluline” on his license plate and all over his so called hunting businesses! I’m scared for my life!! I really believe he killed a drug dealer bc I found items in our shed, expensive gold jewelry, biggest boom box I ever saw with the CD still in which was typical music! Please pray for me and my children!! Thank you 🙌🙏✝️
Wait on the Lord!!! The Lord vindicated me in a way I never thought. The narcissist was exposed after months of prayer and waiting. When the narcissist was exposed the mess didn’t touch me because I was over it and out of their life. God will do the same for you!
God has delivered me from narcissist in my family and personal life and at work. He has given me the knowledge to spot them and stay away from them including covert narcissist which are sometimes hard to spot. God is great indeed!
If I am blessed and I can help someone else, it brightens my day. If I treat myself, the joy is over rather quickly. The key to happiness is helping others. That’s the reason why narcissist are always miserable inside: they don’t do things for other people, at least not without having second thoughts on how this might benefit them.
So, So True!!!!
I sought pastoral counseling and was devastated when she admonished me for telling her about the extreme abuse I suffered at the hands of my own parents. I now am a happy Pagan who connects with my loving ancestors and their strength. So much more healing than any Christian church I’ve ever experienced.
I'm very sorry you got such a lousy reaction. Sadly the pastor you counseled with didn't understand the depth of sin and the necessity of Jesus' death. I suspect many of us have encountered that kind of reaction to various degrees.
Please run back to our Creator Father, through His precious Son who DO LOVES YOU SO!! The enemy planted that counsellor to ruin your relationship and to block you from who we can trust in who DOES care and that IS JESUS.. The enemy is laughing his guts out, knowing he has pulled you away from the ONLY strength and comfort we will ever have. Please DO NOT seek man for advice or counsel. We are told never to put faith in man. Jesus TOLD us to go to HIM for healing and to be restored. Please I beg of you in the name of Jesus the Son of Yah to return to His arms alone. He is waiting for you and sorrowful you are no longer seeking HIM. Be blessed dear one... Forsake the "loving ancestors" who are DEAD. Seek HIM who STILL LIVES AND LOVES YOU. Seek counsel in HIM.. PLEASE do not be part of the great falling away, that has been prophesied in these wicked days. Come back to HIM as a matter of urgency dear one/
The narcissist will become there own worst enemy .
Hubby of 44 years chose to look outside of our marriage for attention….. they are a bottomless pit of needs!! Lied to everyone and portrayed himself as divorced. Cheated with 2 women ( unconfirmed 3) over 5 years. The pain this has caused me has been undoubtedly the worst I have ever experienced. Statements in the video were comforting to me. GOD knows my pain and not neglected me. ( it feels like it some days). I am working on my healing and praying for a man to cherish me one day. Hubby has to answer to GOD, currently he lacks the maturity to pull that off. He will suffer the consequences of his behavior!!
Did you ever or often refuse him sxx?
I'm so sorry this happened to you. If you ever need someone to talk to lmk. God will heal you of all your pain. Cry out to him. I'm constantly on my knees weeping for he's there catching every tear. Love you sister in Christ.
Dust your sandals off and never, ever think about him again.
I can go on without my narcissistic daughter,30. My young granddaughters ages 2 &7 are the deepest wounds. And God bless and them and the one on the way. I know it was He who set me free. Although she kicked me out of her life just recently. Please pray for all involved. And may she have a true God encounter!!! And in name only.
tell her u will babysit the kids, that way she will have free time to go do whatever she wants, and u will b able to visit with the kids.
@@Lauren-vd4qe fat chance that! We offered an abundance of times! That narcissist knows full well that no contact with those grands is her number one weapon to cause pain. And honey she will wield it. In our case it doesn’t matter that we have kept our other grands for a week at a time and they were safe, healthy, and happy. No, the other child just simply won’t allow contact with the grands. The nice things e have done in the past mean nothing. The times we stepped in on spur of moment to help don’t count. You don’t understand how narcissism works at all my friend. Not at all.
oh I DO understand, i just didnt think it had progressed to that extent. so, looking back, do you think you spoiled her at all? like, how do you think she ended up like this? my mom spoiled her youngest, my younger sister, and she turned out as a very bratty adult. as she aged into her 50s, 60s, though she became more reasonable. @@user-oi9ym7te1w
It's true I have suffered from a nac daughter for a long time.
The narcissist does not feel shame or quilt or remorse .
I grew up with a narcissist father and I have had those tendencies. God opened my eyes and heart and have changed.
The Golden Rule.
You never get away with anything. The pain they want to do onto others, is because they're suffering that exact pain themselves. You don't have to accept it though.
I am tempted to expose some people I suspect are narcissist after what they did to me and others. On one hand I could ruin their reputation. On the other hand, I get the feeling some wouldn’t believe me even with proof and insult me, possibly create drama. I really don’t like how narcissists are slowly exposed because they often seem to get away with what they did for years.
We are to expose the fruitless deeds of the dark especially if it related to them breaking laws. They run smear campaigns and we expose them. Record and document everything for court and DO NOT BE AFRAID to expose them. I have defeated all the narcs in my life through Christ Jesus by bringing my receipts in a court of law. This can only be done by God, as they are high ranking principalities and YOU must bring the Lord’s hand in and let Him fight this battle. God bless! ❤️🙏🏻✝️
Let God take care of it. And let Him heal you.
It is tough to swallow watching the narcissist demonic one appear to continue on their merry way seemingly unaffected but their path of destruction but be assured it is all a front and a house of cards for optics. The comment of leave it in God’s hands who will deal with them and carry on healing in your own journey is perhaps the best option.
Resist the temptation. Vengeance is mine says the Lord.
I agree!
I was becoming One Bc my Mom was putting it on us as we got grown up But Now Im trying Walk With The Father and Have Jesus In My Life Yall Plsss Pray for my journey ❤💯☝🏾✝️
My son married a narcissist, after 10 years, my son has become one doing and saying things that he was NEVER raised to do or say! I’ve had to say goodbye and keep him in prayers for God to heal his cowardness, fear and weakness to give into his wife. I haven’t seen my grandchildren in over 5 years.
But, I trust Jesus to save his soul🙌🏻🙏🏻
My narcissistic mother shook me as a baby and I almost died. When she got me back she neglected my medical care and let her husband abuse me. My mother says she has cursed me. My infant brain injury that my mother inflicted upon me -recently has been causing me seizures and strokes. Please I beg any one plz pray for my body and protection for my spirit🙏🏼
@DecemberKat. Please be encouraged to know that I will keep you in my prayers. I sincerely will, and even now, I pray that you will be totally healed, delivered, and set free from all of the effects of the trauma that you have experienced, spirit, soul, and body, in Jesus' Name. I'm so sorry that you went through that, and I just wanted you to know that I care, and most of all, God cares. Please make sure that you forgive all who have hurt you, and surrender your life completely to God, r
My God that's horrible. Daily meditation and prayer is needed along with burning of frankincense before bed with the window cracked ☯️
Miracle internet church online can help you, experts in healing and deliverance. They are the Real Deal.
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I was reared by a narcissist and they are awful parents but I also do not agree that it’s a choice on their part. Research demonstrates that it’s typically bred out of neglect in the first years of life. Pray for them but also stay away from them.
The whole world is under the power of the wicked one! 2 Corinthians 4:4! Great video
I believe we all have narc traits and need to seek jesus daily as our battle is against spiritual powers and our flesh.
No. We all sin; yes. We all have narc traits- NO!
If you are in a narcissistic relationship....know your not alone...I too have been in that position and more importantly God is with you Angels do surround you...everything every place every situation and every person is a lesson....every evil person you come across has given you a certain feeling...always remember how you felt around evil around users around manipulators....this discernment will keep you and your family safe in the future...always listen to that voice inside that heads warnings ❤️ love to all no matter what situation...learn your lesson remember it moving forward and don't turn back...your not broken you are loved and full of The Light of God ❤
Yet God has allowed them to strip me of everything and I still cant see a way forward that will go far enough to matter. I am exhausted from the fight and it hurts.
@@russianbot4418 I understand....many years and much toil from these relationships have stripped me of pieces of my soul...but sometimes it takes us being broken to be put back together more beautiful than ever....and it's been years now of fighting to reclaim my spirit,my light and there's still much work left but I am so much stronger and intuitive than ever and I would not have these gifts if not for the monsters I've encountered....I hope you can find hope within yourself and keep moving forward...be easy on yourself and everything really does happen for a purpose...never give up..if I would have given up the many times I wanted to I would not know the beautiful life I have today...I would not be here to experience what I now have and you have something beautiful awaiting you in the future as well 💜 we all do ❤️ your life has meaning and purpose 💜 be kind to yourself love yourself be your best friend and pray pray pray especially when things are hard and crashing down in on you 💜
@@sagecoleman8132 I try. The problem is a few years ago I prayed for an actual purpose in life and by coincidence one of my hobbies blew up into a highly profitable business.
The problem is that brought out the absolute worst in my dad who has been after me nonstop in legal warfare over it with ever more ridiculous and wild nonsensical claims. At one point early on in a family get-together he outrightly told everyone that he would have control of everything or I would have nothing.
The logic is that I am his kid therefore I and my life and my life's assets are his to control until the day he dies.
My business should be his to control and what possible profits I get from it should be determined by him and his view is that since he raised me I owe him lifetimes worth of payback to such a level I should stay living at the sub-poverty level I have for the majority of my life.
He has no idea how my business works and what I do and it is clear by his early views that as he sees it should be run would have bankrupted and killed it in the first year or less.
The fact a good friend of mine with a business background helped set it up to be bulletproof from such attacks drives him nuts. The best he can do is endless false reports to law enforcement and regulatory agencies claiming that I did illegal things that he has no proof of or that actually show he did them trying to set me up. He claims he has never done anything like that but what paperwork I have gotten back from the number of FOIA requests sent out to these agencies so far has solidly shown otherwise.
It's so far over the top stupid it's hard to even take it as real most of the time.
@@russianbot4418 well I'm sorry that's hard to have a parent as an "enemy"...very difficult thing to internally process and often something that comes back to our attention and heart many times.... everything really does have a purpose though and you'll see it some day....I have never had parents and grew up in violence and used to cry to God why? But now that I have children I know why exactly why I went through all I did 💜 yo seem strong and wise 💜 love to you sweet soul 💜
@@sagecoleman8132 Thanks. It was just a down day today.
They are few and far between now but they still do happen out of uncertainty and frustration. I just want my life back and the right to excel at my work and actually get something out of it.
I've gone from living sub-poverty level to having good times where I have made almost as much in a month as I used to make in two bad years combined. It just frustrates me that due to his endless BS I'm still as poor as I ever was if not worse despite the crazy income.
Dont let anyone get away with abusing you. People who are bullies are always cowards underneath their paper facade. Once you stand up to them they always whimper away....and I mean really stand up to them, not just act like you will. For this to happen you have to push in all your chips and be ready for battle. No matter if that means losing a job or getting in a fight, or whatever. People like that pick on the weak because they can get away with it, and because they are really pieces of shht deep down. Be a rude smart ass whenever your in contact with them...remember you did not start this, and no rational person just tries to play the mind games that these fukks try to get away with. You wouldn't let a little kid get away with abusing you, so dont let an immature adult who doesn't have the dam sense to treat people with respect get away with it. No matter who they are..your boss, your co workers, your spouse...no one. Make them as uncomfortable as possible when in contact with you....and for the love of all things, dont let them get off the hook by feigning playing nice all of a sudden....that is just bullshit so they can manipulate you once they feel they have figured you out...lol Stay safe, stay strong, and always stay ready to do battle.
Not really a biblical answer in your comment! It’s more of a humanist answer!
Pray for them, keep silent after telling them, and walk away. It's only God who can change.
@@deehan177 Absolutely, sometimes people need a humanist answer to the problem. If praying didn't resolve the problem for someone, maybe the answer is to try a different approach. Life is not a movie, and the good guy can, will, and does get crushed, abused, and hurt sometime. Sometimes the biblical answer may be to stop allowing someone else to abuse you, and you may have to be the vessel through which Gods will is done.
@@victorinedempsey3969 Yes, if the situation allows it, that is good. But the situation may not allow it, and that is exactly what preditors thrive on....that is why they started in the first place....because they can get away with abusing someone with ZERO CONSEQUENCES.
@@anonymousf454 and didn't David in the Bible get treated bad by someone he went outside and got his men with him to draw their swords...but the guy's wife soothed him so he didn't get violent..in the end God caused the bad guy to drop dead and David married his girl lol.. so yeah be ready always to fight back but temper it with patience in reasonable way as often these people destroy themselves!?
When I was little I always prayed to our Lady. Because my mother was so cruel I felt I had no mom. Our Lady became my mom.
THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH. I needed these scriptures brought across to me in THIS context! Praise be to God, HE HAS WON! I really TRULY thank you!
This video is insanely good! Anything backed by the Bible is the Word! Thank you for this. I would add only this: Proverbs 3:31: envy not the oppressor and choose none of his ways.
If you are stuck with a narcissist or don’t know if they are a narcissist this book really has helped me. It’s called When loving him is hurting you. By David Hawkins
Listening now! Thank you
@@ambriellebrown211 let me know what you think about it.
My narcissist ask me to call him Lord, like Sarah call Abraham in the bible. If that is not a narcissist I don't know what is. He did nothing to ever have such high praise yet in his head the little he did do. I was supposed to bow down for that. 😥💔🙏🏾
I completely believe you. WOW, he actually demanded the word “lord”. Sorry you suffered that insanity.
I know 2 women who actually want to be worshipped by their husbands + others. Both started smear campaigns against me. Why? Because I spoke the truth. Evil people hate the truth especially if it’s about them.
Sense of entitlement is outrageous. Both husbands have lost touch with reality, in my opinion. Coercive Control is an extremely destructive force. IF I didn’t up close & personal witness this, I probably wouldn’t believe it.
You ARE not God, and he has come for all that are sick, also the narcissist. Stop thinking that you even understand GOD, your brain is not even 0000000000000000000000000,1 procent of GOD and his forgiveness.
4 months today narc free. I have done everything. No regrets sometimes I miss that person but I know deep down in my heart for me to protect myself is to stay away from that person. I been praying that person to change so no more victim
Very accurate. The same things are happening to the narcissist that manipulated and discarded me. Unfortunately she's around the literal worst influence possible. A psychopathic man that just wants her around for pleasure that triggers the "comfort" response in her traumatized mind. He was around when she was young and in the process of being traumatized, he wormed his way in at a young age and convinced her he cared. Nowadays he uses her as a punching bag and even strangles her occasionally, and she throws heavy objects at him. Just about everyone else in her life that isn't an enabler has already left. I wonder if she'll ever wake up?
DEAR MARK, please forgive me for interfering in your wonderful ministry, but I see this as a very heavy subject, and may I say a few words to my fellow Christians, please: My wife was narcissistic (need I say more?). Friends I had treated well for many, many years turned their back on me My mother went to her grave still not giving me the time of day. As soon as you can, please, substitute compassion for the hatred and hurt. You are the lucky one ! It was jealousy that made Saul pursue King David. You are most likely a beautiful person and the narcissist hates you and because they know they can't be like you, they have to destroy you. Getting hit by a Mack truck would probably be a blessing in comparison to what you are going through, but hang in there, for if they left you with only a cement slab and a small blanket, and JESUS, I repeat, and JESUS, you will be blessed beyond belief, but you can't even hate the cockroach that crawls in the blanket with you. The more you cling to JESUS the faster you will heal. I would say it probably took me 20 years, but I'm a slow learner. If every day we are a little better, who cares? You and the whole world equals nothing, you and JESUS equals everything - now who is the winner? Love, and God bless. - john (I never did understand why "unbelief" was such a big sin, but now I think that our unbelief of the Bible is calling God a liar, no? ) "Make (Godly) love your aim and earnestly desire the Spiritual gifts". Otra Vez, love ya. - john
yes's this how it started with me and my husband, this was the first incident, then it got worst,
I went through this a lot, people took my husband side, he been trying to destroy my character from the beginning, he has abandoned me, left me with nothing, and now I'm left to pick up the pieces by myself, I trust that God will open doors for me, and that things will be even better, my future will be great, thank you Jesus 😇😇😇if a person don't want deliverance no one can force them to get it, the best thing anyone in this type of demonic relationship to do, is save themselves, and that's what I'm doing, I've had enough and I'm working on getting back on my feet, I'm at peace with the situation I just have to stay focus, eventually, ill be totally free from this abuse IN JESUS NAME 😇😇😇
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Thanks brother
What a beautiful reply. Thank you.
These people are purely evil. Anyone else see the smirk when you truly see them and they know it?
Yesssss, it makes my stomach sick. He thought he was hurting me but GREATER IS HE IN ME. God will forever cover the Righteous.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I’ve seen it before too.
Nar. he/she fears u because u know their true color. Thats why they try to threat.
Yes!!!!!
Looking into the demonic eyes of an alcoholic narcissist is something that will make your blood run cold. 👿
The pulpit attracts narcissists like a magnet. Being a clergy provides everything a narcissist wants: image, status, power, a group of forgiving victims at their disposal.
That's why we need to pray, "lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil"
Currently narcissistic personality disorder is being considered and possibly implemented into the DSM. If this happens, people with this disorder can be held accountable rather than just "trying to get along with them" like we are often told. I sure hope and pray this is so!
It wasn’t already?! Its an actually personality disorder so i wonder how it was never in the dsm to start with!!
NPD was first added to the DSM-3 back in 1989. But it wasn't used nor recognized. Then they thought to add NPD to the DSM-5. Who's ever making these decisions clearly do NOT know what they're doing.
I'm sick of the whole mental health system and I'm speaking as a psych nurse of over 20 years (retired)
Narcissim is a mental illness; there is no doubt in my mind.
Some idiot way back then decided to call it "personality disorder" and everyone ran with that title.
Meds for NPD now come on what's next? Transgender tabs
@@nataliaxo8053 Who said anything about meds?
@@Jess-kn8vl I did
Truly it is better to have to suffer at their hands than to ever have to BE them. I didn’t always see it that way tho. Of course, it is even better to get wise and minimize or if possible eliminate the suffering they want to cause yourself and others. It makes me a lot happier to finally know that I don’t have to stick around and just keep tolerating their abuse and extreme mental and emotional torment and vindictiveness and bullying and crazy making until the end of time and that God can heal every single wound they ever inflicted upon me...AND that my ever faithful MIGHTY God will make it up to me in the future.
But for them...It’s not such a glorious future. I would shake in terror if I was them on Judgement day and I fear for them. It’s truly scary and humbling to know that any of us could be that depraved of a human if we slide down that slippery slope of pride and other deadly sins. Falling into a deep pit that we become hopelessly trapped in and utterly blinded by. May God smack me down so hard at the first hint of it if I ever start down that road. It was one of many thing I realized as I was in the middle of the abuse recovery. But it’s their choice. May God have mercy on their souls Bcuz they’re most def gonna need it.
Imo pride is the whopper one tho. The more you play with it, the tighter the noose gets around your neck and the darker your vision becomes until you cannot get your sight back. I hope some God can help but reality is that Scripture would not speak of reprobates unless they actually existed. There are some who exist down here who truly are unredeemable. Pride is such a beast tho. It’s the one thing if taken over the edge that can cause someone to become Raca (doomed). It’s not for me to judge who they are but it is still wise (albeit scary and sad) to know that such folks exist. I most def would NOT want to be in their shoes, that’s for sure. They live in hell on earth that’s for sure. And all the torment they inflicted upon us was our temporary hell as well. They dragged us down in it with them for awhile. And it was truly an awful place of dark emptiness and death and scorpion like stinging poison. But some of them will be living there for eternity also which is an even scarier thought. Don’t let them fool ya tho. They are not in fact the “blessed” ones and we are not in fact the “cursed” ones. It’s an utter tragedy to become like they are. What do they really “win” tho? Whatever earthly prizes they gain now by their utter deceit and however much they gloat about it at our expense will only amount to rubbish in the end and it also may cost them their very souls. If they make it to Heaven, I’m pretty sure they’re gonna be in the remedial classes for a long time Bcuz they know nothing at all about love.
👏 Well said, thank you.
Pray for their souls. God has shown you who they are. They need God's help. Please pray for them and forgive them.
@@judithvallembois2744 I am not responsible for their souls. If God led me that way then sure but I have not had any instruction along those lines. God has shown me who they are to save my OWN life. And then by extension perhaps to spare a few others from being destroyed by them like I was. Besides God didn’t “bring them to me.” I was born into this mess by older humans and their own poor choices and folly and pride and selfishness and so on. It’s not my “calling” to be a martyr when said martyrdom helps no one but vile perpetrators. And then doesn’t even help them anyways. Perhaps those not shredded by them would be more fit to pray for them. Could maybe have more faith for such a miracle. We survivors have quite enough on our plates as it is and our biggest downfall was always caring about them too much and disregarding our own needs and safety. Caring for them at our expense. Shouldering the blame for THEIR wrongs and injury TO us at their hands to boot. No, I think we’ve done quite enough for them already as it is. Far too much already...to no avail. It’s time to finally stop investing in a futile cause and start caring better for ourselves. There’s nothing more I could ever do that would change anything or help them. All I can do is not go down with them anymore.
Not even God can help the stiff necked person who digs their heels in and adamantly refuses to repent (is not contrite) and who lies about what they did. Who is so sure they can’t ever be wrong. I say just as God would say. Forgive what specific sin? Bcuz they are never going to say “XYZ sin.” They’re going to say “I never sinned.” God also requires repentance. They’re forgiven (or rather they are “let go”) but I still can’t be too close to them nor can I afford any more false hope concerning them or even have them bothering too many moments in my day to think of them at all. It is now between them and God and doesn’t concern me anymore. And Bcuz that’s what letting go means. Put them in God’s hands. And even God cannot remove natural reaping and sowing consequences Bcuz He would be going against His own laws set in stone. It’s all there for them to take advantage of or be blessed by, but it is of no avail to such a person like that. Cain was still cast out and marked and punished. Abel’s blood still cried out for justice. King Saul still had to take his lumps. Jezebel and Ahab got just desserts. Moses didn’t get to enter the Promised Land. A whole generation had to wander in the desert for 40 years and neither could they enter. And how many times did the whole nation’s disobedience bring them into captivity? Etc etc etc. NT. The couple that deliberately lied to the prophets/apostles. Struck dead that instant. And so on.
These people make their own dismal choices and we simply cannot do anything about that. Have to just let go and let God in their case pretty much. Yah. We’ll see but I naturally have a lot more prayers for their victims and for myself. For future generations to be able to break abuse cycles they create and to prevent many from ever being destroyed by one of them. All the helpless kids they abuse and torment who cannot escape them. They would be last on my list to pray for as there are so many better and more worthy causes and one only has so many years down here. So no. They are not at all a priority on my prayer list. You can pray for all the sinister, wayward Jezebels if you want to, but I’ve got far better things to put my time and effort into.
Neither nor. Walk away
I love what you wrote. It makes perfect sense to me.
There are many narcs who are secret society members who run charities, so they do get involved in a lot of 'service' work. But I put that in inverted commas, as they often do it with ulterior motives and not out of love for their fellow man.
After i suicide i realize a lot and thank god give me second chance and now our family doing great hope my change influence my family to love god first