People who are naturally like quiet and introverted often have the most interesting things to say. Remember that next time you don't feel like speaking up.
I'm pretty introverted, but if you get me into a conversation about really deep stuff like the similarities between the light and darkness of the sky and human experience then oh boy you're in for a ride,-
Annalise Wedewer YO! I’m an extrovert... but I’m an extrovert who thinks really hard when alone and loves time to reflect on life. So an ambivert, I guess? Lately though, it seems I can only have solid friendships with introverts, because all the extroverts that I think are awesome and try to talk to tend to get overwhelmed by me. Really fast, too. Because I’m random and very deep (I’ve been told)? ANYWAY! People like you are literally awesome and refresh me so much. Yeah, I do appreciate being the life of the party sometimes... but when the other people there don’t really want to contemplate the meaning behind things or spend hours chatting about complex life questions, the introverts are always ready to step in. Like, always. And it makes me so happy that you and people like you exist on this earth, because y’all have the best ideas and the best things to say. Love you all. 💞
@@sophiaredwood5825 usually introverts form families where an extrovert adopts them all. This is usually how friend groups in elementary schools form. A really weird extrovert or two adopt(s) a bunch of introverts and it just kinda happens. Sometimes extroverts bring random extroverts into the group though, and if the wrong kind of extrovert worms their way in and refuses to leave, this special bond can be broken. So yeah. Forgive my ramble, internet stranger... Also, you're more likely to find introverts online than anywhere else because lots of us get really anxious in social situations with unfamiliar people. Ah, I'm rambling again. But yes, if you would comment something you want to discuss in an intellectual conversation, I can do so while effectively quoting memes
Annalise Wedewer Woah, mind blown, I literally just realized that that is exactly how my friend group formed. And it makes perfect sense! Aaa!! Also, don’t apologize for rambling. I’m a writer by nature, I read and write without stopping so I’ve surely burdened many who try to read my long comments 😂 but I will usually never be bothered by a long comment to read. ESPECIALLY if it’s sincere and interesting. So you’re perfectly fine 😊 As for speaking intellectually? Hmm, lately I resort to thought-provoking questions or hypothetical situations (some stupidly fun, others actually super interesting)... Like... “If all of a sudden you met your future child and they were your age because of some time-related thing, and they knew you were their (younger) parent, how do you think the conversation would go? Any interests you think you both would have? How would your friends react if the same thing happened to them?” Also stuff like, “What is a donut without a hole?” or “Why is hot chocolate called what it is despite its actual temperature?” and stuff to that effect, haha. I also tend to think a lot about people and interactions and identity and stuff but that could be a bit long 😂
@@sophiaredwood5825 A donut without a hole is still a donut. They come in all different shapes and sizes, but holes made them easiest to cook so it's the most common and well known type. Hot chocolate is called so despite its temperature because... I don't really know, haha. It was hot originally, so it is always hot chocolate. But then, why don't other things not change names in relativity to temperature? Hot cookie, cookie, cold cookie, frozen cookie. How does that stuff work? The English language is just one big "Well yes, but actually no."
Let’s all go to a theatre that’s putting on Dear Evan Hansen and when Evan sings Waving Through a Window we all wave viciously and shout “WE’RE WAVING!”
Every single time I sing this song, I sing this part. I mean, obviously. It’s part of the song. Anyway, I sing it, and my dad overhears the part, and he’s like, “Didn’t you literally just say that you have nothing to say?” And I’m like, “I SANG it. Anyway, didn’t you say you had to do something that isn’t annoying?” Savage.
I missed the musical on Broadway & San Francisco but loved the movie. There’s nothing like seeing a great musical in person on the stage. I listen to this soundtrack so often! ❤❤❤
I feel like just about everyone's first reaction to hearing this song (or most of the other DEH songs also) is: his voice is so prettyyy * *___* * Because yeah, it's freaking gorgeous
yes, it hit too hard. seriously, it literally smacked me upside the head with a bat and punched me in the guts and proceeded to stab me 37 times in the chest
“Step out, step out of the sun” “If you keep getting burned” This line is my single favorite line in songwriting. A beautiful analogy that exactly represents anxiety. The sun, being the spotlight, is referring to being seen, to putting yourself out there. But what happens when no one responds to what you say, or when you find yourself in an awkward conversation, suddenly empty on words, struggling. There’s a point in time, after failing so much, you just never risk standing in the sun again. For why step into the sun if you keep getting burned?
I read the whole thing about what this song means so I could get a better look on the emotions and I love it I'm gonna audition to sing it at a concert for school
Cøffee it feels like you're always being watched In normal anxiety. With social anxiety it feels they will think you're weird, or they will hate you if you talk to them. There are many forms.
I haven't had it as hard as Evan, but the first time I listened to this musical, I sobbed. I've never had suicidal tendencies, but I have suffered from anxiety my entire life. I've experienced the crippling loneliness that feels like no one would notice if you vanished into thin air. When I heard this, I couldn't believe it. I felt so seen. And it helped me realize I matter just as much as everyone else. Thank you, Dear Evan Hansen.
❤️❤️ it really is hard to realize you matter too sometimes, and this song definitely helps, it explains my feelings exactly. Thank you for typing this, it makes me feel so seen because this is exactly how I feel too. -from a struggling lonely college girl
God saw fit to create you. He has a special plan for your life. He loves you. The creator of the universe loves you. I know it's been a year since you posted this comment but Jesus loves you. He did the day he created you. And he will forever more.
I just love how Evan is repeating everything. It shows how panicked he is to leave an imprint in this world. He wants to be noticed by someone, just wants someone to see him instead of looking through him.
I just thought of Michael in the bathroom from be more chill at the part where he repeats knock, clang, bang, and splash a gazillion times and I am SHOOK
YES, this comment. Everything circles and IS a reference to when he “fell” from the giant oak tree. Something about his fall is mentioned in many of the songs.
I feel that all to well I'm sorry single no body and will die this way probably so I've come to accept it I'm glad it got a happy ending or so I'm tolled lol
I don’t have social anxiety, but I do have generalized anxiety disorder and this is how it feels whenever I have to be around anyone I’m not familiar with. It sucks ass.
Maybe add autism to that. With the slight difference that in my case The Mistake isn't just something I imagine, it's something people have deigned to scream at me for my entire fucking live and then somehow they are surprised almost 70% of autistic people have social anxiety as well? Like, I could probably analyze my entire life into this song, but maybe that should be reserved for English class.
Your Obedient Sandwich, A. Ham I know social anxiously is hard I have been bulled adout how I react around a group of People and because I have acne every where on my face when I was found out I had social anxiety everything kind of clicked
If you listen to that part of the song closely, you’ll notice that he’s actually going through the 5 stages of grief the final one being acceptance of his urge to take his own life.
I'm already crying and I can already tell that I'm gonna love this musical because I have social anxiety and I've never heard a song that expresses exactly how I've felt my entire life.
Yes, but- Lifeboat isn't about social anxiety as much as peer pressure. McNamara has no problem interacting with people daily, she's just afraid of losing her status.
While I was in a mental hospital, I made a friend with a boy who loved DEH. He helped me write a song there. I just watched the movie and was reminded of him. I feel so connected to Evan and realize how far I’ve come. I’m so thankful for these art forms that make people feel heard and seen.
I have clinical depression and the line "when you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around, do you ever really crash or even make a sound?" Actually changed my life. Make a sound. Make yourself known. I'm so much happier because I've listened to this song so many times and just... Appreciated it. Little things in life make me happy. I love this. It's my theme song for my life.
This song is Evan's inner monologue. It's the thoughts running through his head, not what he actually expresses on the outside. And as a person suffering from social anxiety, I can tell you this is pretty accurate in putting to words the thoughts and feeling that run through my head constantly
I never picked up on the thought that Evan's broken arm was due to a failed suicide attempt. This really puts things in perspective. He's socially awkward, he attempts to fall and crash, but it fails. He follows the suggestion to write himself mail and it then gets taken as a suicide note when one actually commits suicide. His therapy for the parents turns his own life around.
"[Verse 1] I've learned to slam on the brake Before I even turn the key Before I make the mistake Before I lead with the worst of me [Verse 2] Give them no reason to stare, No slipping up if you slip away So I got nothing to share No, I got nothing to say [Pre-Chorus] Step out, step out of the sun If you keep getting burned Step out, step out of the sun Because you've learned because you've learned [Chorus] On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been? 'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass I'm waving through a window I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass I'm waving through a window, oh Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me? [Verse 3] We start with stars in our eyes We start believing that we belong But every sun doesn't rise And no one tells you where you went wrong [Pre-Chorus] Step out, step out of the sun If you keep getting burned Step out, step out of the sun Because you've learned, because you've learned [Chorus] On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been? 'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass I'm waving through a window I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass I'm waving through a window, oh Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me? [Bridge] When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? Did I even make a sound? Did I even make a sound? It's like I never made a sound Will I ever make a sound? [Chorus] On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been? 'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass I'm waving through a window I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass I'm waving through a window, oh Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me? [Outro] Is anybody waving? Waving, waving, whoa-oh, whoa-oh-oh-oh"
3 years later and I read this from the song: “I’m tap, tap, tapping on the glass!” - I’m asking for help. “Can anybody hear me?” - Is nobody gonna help me? “Watching people pass.” - Nobody is helping me... “Is anybody waving back at me?” - Is anybody trying to help me or even bothers?! “Do you ever really crash or even make a sound?” - Is what I’m saying... Even heard? Is anybody gonna stop and help me?! I loved this song because I felt that way. “Waving Through A Window” is a beautiful song and I’m grateful to have it.
Yeah, I just noticed that he asks "did I even make a sound?" referring to when his own "falling out" of the tree. People noticed and made a big deal when Connor chose to end his own life but Evan is asking if anyone even noticed or cared that he himself tried to?
this song always reminds me of being a person who has undiagnosed autism (me). especially lyrics like “i try to speak but nobody can hear so i wait around for an answer to appear” it reminds me of how i didn’t know how to explain what i was feeling and how i longly wanted people to notice that there was something wrong. there are so many other lyrics that explain what its like to experience life the way you were taught to and not the way you do.
I saw the video for this and assumed it was about a guy with autism because that’s exactly what this song makes me think of, I have friends with children who have autism and I imagined this song being a great way to describe how it feels
This is honestly what it feels like for me sometime when I try to interact with people. I have anxiety in general and a huge part of that is social anxiety and even though I have a lot of friends, I realize most of them prefer to talk to someone else more than they like to talk to me. This feels like when I'm trying to be heard over the others. I know no one realizes it but they still ignore me sometimes, and it still hurts.
Does anyone else perk up whenever then "We start with stars in our eyes..." Part comes on? But honestly this song describes having Social Anxiety perfectly.
I am sooo glad you mentioned that...it IS a perk up point...and you can even detect it in his voice...what a wonderful song...I so wish I could see this musical...this cast...thank goodness for the Tony's!
When you have seen the show and the verse, "When you're falling in a forest, and there's nobody around, do you ever really crash, or even make a sound." Has so much more meaning, and it kills you. **Spoiler** Evan tries to kill himself prior to the start of the show by climbing a tree and letting himself fall to the ground, hence the cast.
** ADDITIONAL WARNING FOR MORE MAJOR SPOILER TALK ** One of the things I love most about the book of this show is that there are all these little subtle details that make the emotional moments hit even harder... like the fact that it's not that Evan consciously or actively jumped from the tree. And the fact that he spends right up until the end of the show in denial to even *himself* that it wasn't just an accident. The implication is that he really did start off climbing up the tree just for something to do (or at least convincing himself that was the case), and at some point along the way it got a little trickier to climb, and instead of keeping going or climbing back down he just kind of... let go... gave up. And, for me at least, that kind of resigned passiveness in it hits hard. Although I've thankfully never been suicidal myself, I've definitely had my fair share of mental health issues that I've spent a LONG time being in a whole lot of denial about, and I can't help but think that if I ever had reached that point.. that's probably more along the lines of how it might have come out for me too. Something where it could be easy to be in denial about it even having *been* what it actually was, and something that could be easily passed off as "nah, it was an accident". Aaanyway, sorry that just got awkwardly personal! But the point is, yeah... the particular way it's all revealed is SO well done and honest and gutting. And you don't even realize until after it's revealed how much the show has been building up to that moment, either!
Keana Astalos By book she means script. For musicals they say "book" and "score" instead of just "script" because there is usually more than one writer and it gives credit where credit is due. :)
LYRICS: I've learned to slam on the brake Before I even turn the key Before I make the mistake Before I lead with the worst of me Give them no reason to stare No slipping up if you slip away So I got nothing to share No, I got nothing to say Step out, step out of the sun If you keep getting burned Step out, step out of the sun Because you've learned, because you've learned On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been? 'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass I'm waving through a window I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass I'm waving through a window, oh Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me? We start with stars in our eyes We start believing that we belong But every sun doesn't rise And no one tells you where you went wrong Step out, step out of the sun If you keep getting burned Step out, step out of the sun Because you've learned, because you've learned On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been? 'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass Waving through a window I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass Waving through a window, oh Can anybody see, is anybody waving? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? Did I even make a sound? Did I even make a sound? It's like I never made a sound Will I ever make a sound? On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been? 'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass Waving through a window I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass Waving through a window, oh Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me? (oh) Is anybody waving? Waving, waving, whoa-oh, whoa-oh
Dear Evan Hansen, Thank you. You have helped me more that you could know. And I know you're just a character from a musical show/book but you really are something. You feel real. Your story feels real. Your troubles feel real. Because I can relate. Watching this movie and listening to this soundtrack has made me realise I am not alone. There are kids like me that struggle everyday and there's kids like Connor who are unseen. We go unnoticed but that doesn't mean we aren't there. We aren't alone. Non of us. No one should have to suffer in silence because we exist, and we will get the help we need. We will see the light again. We will be found. Thank you Evan Hansen For everything.
Sometimes I come on here just looking to respond to someone’s pleas for help. I like to remind people that all life is precious. I tell them that we all have pain and they aren’t alone. I say if there is no one else to talk to we are here. I am not a doctor, not a counselor, but willing to listen. Sometimes that is all someone needs. Remember there are always those in similar situations, some better, and some worse. We are all united in our struggles. I say share your good fortunes with people, help those who need it, and SEEK support when you need it. You will be found.
Thank you so much for that comment. It made me cry and I don't normally cry, but I just want someone in my life who understands me, who I can talk to and who is like me. You are a amazing person just for writing this comment.
The line "When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around, Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound" sounds really deep and moving until you realize _he actually, physically fell from a tree._
I’ve got ASD I’m in college now. I’ve found a circle of people to call my genuine friends and I’ve never been surer of that in my life. Hearing this for the first time and this gave me flashbacks to middle and high school when I was too afraid to connect, too busy wallowing in my own self-pity, afraid my differences only inconvenienced those around me or made them uncomfortable. Now I’ve grown and I’ll always be grateful for that.
Read this if you have ever felt alone, depressed, suicidal, lost, scared, worthless, abandoned, or anything of that nature, this is for you You Are Beautiful. You Are Wanted. You Are Wonderful. Don't quit on yourself. Don't hurt yourself. You are worth the world and nobody wants to see you suffering. This is not the end. The way you feel right now will pass. Peoples minds will change. Things WILL get better. We love you and are always here for you. Do NOT do something permanent over something temporary. You're better than that. All stars need to see darkness before the light. And always remember, Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself & the right people will find and love the real you. Your own unique Mindset always trys to engage in the right ways Now read the first letter of every word You Matter! no matter what other people may say. Always know this is true. It helps. You are worth my time to write this. I do care.
So this kid in my Drama class sang this for an audition and it was AMAZING. I had never heard this song, or heard of this song before and it was BREATHTAKING. I guess I'm in this fandom now. HERRO :D
Awkward Aesthetic Avocado Well, I like to think that there are multiple nice communites, this being one of them! I love everyone's enthusiasm and positive comments saying it will get better. Do any of you happen to watch Jacksepticeye? His community is pretty awesome and I bet if you don't watch him now, you'd love him and the community. He has this whole Positive Mental Attitude movement this year and it's great
Samiha The Unicorn Welcome, you’ll find this fandom is very understanding and willing to listen. We all have problems and we get that, so just feel welcome into this community. Our daily inspiration coming from a DEH fan girl. I personally believe everyone has potential to be great no matter how you see that and no matter what you look like, who you love or what people expect from you. Do what you want and live your own life. Just know there’s people that care, and if you ever need reassurance of that find someone in your life that will listen or come to one of these video comments section, I personally am open to talk even though I am not a therapist I’m a person that will listen and make you feel appreciate.
If you ever find yourself waving through a window, just remember: No one deserves to be forgotten, no one deserves to fade away, no one should come and go and have no one know they were ever even here, no one should flicker out or have any doubt that it matters that they are here. Even if you’ve always been that barely in the background kind of guy, you still matter. Even if you’re somebody who can’t escape the feeling that the world’s passed you by, you still matter. If you never getting around to doing some remarkable thing, that doesn’t mean that you’re not worth remembering. Because even when the dark comes crashing through, when you need a friend to carry you, when you’re broken on the ground, you will be found. So let the sun com streaming in, cause you’ll reach up and you’re rise again. Lift your head, and look around. You will be found
Yeah. I have ASD so the line is pretty literal for me. When I screw up, no on tells me where I went wrong because they assume I already know or that I did it on purpose.
Honestly, my friends would always get mad because I had severe anger issues/mood changes. They never told me directly what I was doing wrong, but just that they didn't like it when I got frustrated. P.S, I couldn't control it back then.
@@samhenley7156 That's only part of the reason. The other reason is because in our society, it's considered "impolite" to tell people when they've misstepped. Even if telling them might be helpful for them.
@@jeremiahnoar7504 also you never know who can and can't handle criticism, there are so many people who get pressed beyond belief if you give them the slightest amount of critical feedback. especially if they grew up among parents or adults who went way too hard on the whole 'positive reinforcement' thing and never acclimated them to accepting criticism
dude people don't need to share their life story on the internet, people can say they feel better when they listen to music without sharing their life with complete strangers... THANKS BYE
I relate to this song hardcore because I used to try to blend in and I have really bad social anxiety. It's been getting better since I dyed my hair a crazy colour and people are constantly complimenting and I have to say thanks, but still.
Alfred Fisher, I can relate to you, I too have really bad social anxiety and stress, insomnia, a condition called Raynods that cause me to always wear gloves, and I'm introverted Heck my mom gets mad when I don't speak.
All I can say is, don't blend in, stand out. People always look at me as if I'm crazy just because I'm being really humourous with my friends. Know that it isn't everyone else you need to impress but yourself
You know I've had a rough pass few years and I've had a lot thrown at me. Work, relationships ending, and some people just flat out ignoring me when I've been friends with them for years. This song made me cry when I first heard it. I was driving and had to pull over because I couldn't see through my tears. Honestly it made me feel so much better knowing other people can relate, even if it only is a musical. This song still makes me tear up. No matter how much I listen to it.
I just went to a drag show last weekend, and one of the kings did a cover of Waving Through a Window. Whenever the line "is anyone waving back at me?" came around, the entire audience waved at him and cheered. It was such a lovely thing to experience ☺️
*gets obsessed with Heathers* I probably only will like this one. *gets obsessed with Hamilton* These two are the only musicals I will like. *starts to listen to Dear Evan Hansen* Well shit
My first time exposed to the world of musical theater was this song when my friend sang it at the school talent show. During 2020 musicals really helped me make it through the hard times. What I’m trying to say is this song is the reason I memorized every musical on the face of earth and why my my sister thinks I’m weird.
In an alternate version of the show I imagined in my head, after Conner signed Evans cast Evan tried everything to become his first friend since he doesn’t have one either even though Connor isn’t the closest person to get to, they would get into a bunch of wacky hilarious scenarios when suddenly the drama would be when Connor finds out his new friend has a crush on his little sister he gets pissed because he thinks Evan was using him to get to Zoey. But they all work it out in the end and become friends and Evan gets the girl lol
This song got me through middle school. I like talking to people, but I am very bad at taking initiative to talk to people. When I did speak though it did seem like nobody would hear me. I often pretended to be normal and happy when I was actually really sad. I felt that I had no friends and that there was no one I could talk to. Whenever I was sad I would just sing this song and I would feel better. Thankfully I am in a better place now.
@Lilian Long I’m so sorry you are going through that. I am glad it is getting better. I like the emotion I can express when singing songs from this musical. I will keep you in my prayers.
This song is just perfect for anyone struggling with anxiety, I mean I should know. Being a senior in high school whilst living with anxiety can become impossible but this song and whole musical reminds me there are people out there on the other side of that window and things will get better
For someone that almost committed suicide, this movie made me cries quite a few times. I might be one of the only ones, but I really loved that movie. Made me realize that I'm lucky to be alive and I should cherish every day with my friends and family.
*SAD STORY TIME* (it's related to this song, don't worry) So... even though this happened a year ago, it's still rough to talk about... here goes nothing: Basically, I went to Blue Lake Fine Arts Camp last year, and met this incredible lad. His name was Austin. I doubt he's even still living. Let me explain. During the time we were there, he told me about his life, and how it was absolute SHIT. Like, it was terrible, honestly. He attempted suicide multiple times, and did once at the camp (I stopped him tho). But the main point for this comment was that he showed me this song and sang it to me for practice, for it really resonated with him. A LOT. Especially the bridge, where Evan Hanson talks about his suicide attempt and how nobody cared. It was the same with Austin. My name is Evan, so it reminded him of his favorite song from his favorite musical: *Waving Through A Window, Dear Evan Hanson*. I gave him my number, but to this day, he hasn't called. Or maybe it was one of those various random number calls that I've grown to immediately deny out of instinct. I have PTSD from my friends attempting suicide and me being the person to stop them... Welp, I'm just glad that I finally got that off of my chest. Thank you to anyone who cares enough to even read this... anyways... *stay glad my lad.*
Dear Hamilton, This past year has been life changing. You made me cry, fan girl, and ship harder than anything else. But there's...... someone else. Someone who rips the tears out of my eyes and makes me scream in my pillow every time I see ben platt. I will forever love you but I found another true love ❤️. Sincerely me
“How'd you break your arm? How'd you break your arm Evan? I fell. Really? Is that what happened? Yes. I was.. I lost my grip and then I just... I fell so... Did you fall? Or did you let go?”
"You can get rid of me, whenever you want. You can get rid of all of it. The Connor Project, The Orchard, and all you're gonna be left with.... is you"
I think my favourite part of this musical as a lot of media paints people with social anxiety as these sweet, shy mites who just have to be bought out of their shell but this musical really brings to light, nope, we're just as flawed as everyone else. That's what makes things even harder.
Dear Evan Hansen, This month, I will have been a year clean from self-harm. You can do it. You are not obligated to take all of your friend's burdens on yourself while trying to balance your own life. Your friends will not benefit from you being unhealthy. Help them in ways you can afford. Help each other through things. Vent to your friends. If they are truly your friends, they will listen. Your problems are just as valid as theirs. You don't need to prove that you aren't okay. I love you for who you are. You are a beautiful human being. I can't afford therapy anymore, but my friends have helped me through tough times more than any therapist ever could. People care about you, even if you haven't met them yet. Sincerely, Me (edit: 2 years!! still going strong, you can do it!)
OMG ANOTHER FANDER! also i like that a fander is here [i heard thomas did a cover of this song , and i love it] and Congrats!! you're getting better everyday ma'am/sir/non-binary person
" On the outside always looking in, will I ever be more than I' ve always been" is the line that resonates so much with me. I 've never lived my life according to society's standards. I 've struggled with crippling anxiety, depression and often times have felt I m just not where I should be in life. I am just a bit different compared to others... when society and culture tell you where you should be in life by a by a certain age and that I m on the "outside looking in" and watching everyone else live a normal life and achieve happiness. I m in a better place than I used to be thankfully but this song really hits home for me. I just love it.
NachoSexual thanks. and its literally my favourite musical now out of all the ones I heard. ive watched the live TH-cam bootlegs 2 times, and I cried way too much. I love dear evan hansen. honestly I feel bad fkr my friends at school because its the only thing I talk about
Other musicals: Yeah we're gonna have a few sad songs but mostly happy! :D Dear Evan Hansen: Hold my jar of fan's tears Edit: I’ve been wait for this comment to finally die
evan protecc
evan attacc
but most importantly
it is confidence that he lacc
pastel tears omg
pastel tears i love u for dis 😂
pastel tears I feel personally attacked :/
boomboy b It's okay I do too lmao
pastel tears OMG fucking perfection
If you listen very closely, you can hear me singing along, and sobbing.
I hear it. I love it.
I’m officially your friend.
I can hear you
Chloe Watson LMAO I OFFICIALLY LOVE YOU ❤️
TRPlayz damn okay, chill out. No one wanted to hear that from you
Please don’t tap on the glass, it disturbs the fish.
I’m *TAP TAP TAPPING* on the glass
It scares the ice cream.
It scares the rocks, they're very shy and hardly interact with humans.
Rae_Rae 10 underrated comment tho-
Omg my sides hurt 😂😂
Just in case anyone was wondering, this is the best song to have a mental breakdown to while folding laundry
Or doing school work
Or imagining sad fnaf scenarios
all of the above
I’m listening while working out in the gym :v
Definitely
People who are naturally like quiet and introverted often have the most interesting things to say. Remember that next time you don't feel like speaking up.
I'm pretty introverted, but if you get me into a conversation about really deep stuff like the similarities between the light and darkness of the sky and human experience then oh boy you're in for a ride,-
Annalise Wedewer YO! I’m an extrovert... but I’m an extrovert who thinks really hard when alone and loves time to reflect on life. So an ambivert, I guess? Lately though, it seems I can only have solid friendships with introverts, because all the extroverts that I think are awesome and try to talk to tend to get overwhelmed by me. Really fast, too. Because I’m random and very deep (I’ve been told)?
ANYWAY! People like you are literally awesome and refresh me so much. Yeah, I do appreciate being the life of the party sometimes... but when the other people there don’t really want to contemplate the meaning behind things or spend hours chatting about complex life questions, the introverts are always ready to step in. Like, always. And it makes me so happy that you and people like you exist on this earth, because y’all have the best ideas and the best things to say. Love you all. 💞
@@sophiaredwood5825 usually introverts form families where an extrovert adopts them all. This is usually how friend groups in elementary schools form. A really weird extrovert or two adopt(s) a bunch of introverts and it just kinda happens. Sometimes extroverts bring random extroverts into the group though, and if the wrong kind of extrovert worms their way in and refuses to leave, this special bond can be broken. So yeah. Forgive my ramble, internet stranger...
Also, you're more likely to find introverts online than anywhere else because lots of us get really anxious in social situations with unfamiliar people.
Ah, I'm rambling again. But yes, if you would comment something you want to discuss in an intellectual conversation, I can do so while effectively quoting memes
Annalise Wedewer Woah, mind blown, I literally just realized that that is exactly how my friend group formed. And it makes perfect sense! Aaa!!
Also, don’t apologize for rambling. I’m a writer by nature, I read and write without stopping so I’ve surely burdened many who try to read my long comments 😂 but I will usually never be bothered by a long comment to read. ESPECIALLY if it’s sincere and interesting. So you’re perfectly fine 😊
As for speaking intellectually? Hmm, lately I resort to thought-provoking questions or hypothetical situations (some stupidly fun, others actually super interesting)... Like... “If all of a sudden you met your future child and they were your age because of some time-related thing, and they knew you were their (younger) parent, how do you think the conversation would go? Any interests you think you both would have? How would your friends react if the same thing happened to them?”
Also stuff like, “What is a donut without a hole?” or “Why is hot chocolate called what it is despite its actual temperature?” and stuff to that effect, haha.
I also tend to think a lot about people and interactions and identity and stuff but that could be a bit long 😂
@@sophiaredwood5825 A donut without a hole is still a donut. They come in all different shapes and sizes, but holes made them easiest to cook so it's the most common and well known type.
Hot chocolate is called so despite its temperature because... I don't really know, haha. It was hot originally, so it is always hot chocolate. But then, why don't other things not change names in relativity to temperature? Hot cookie, cookie, cold cookie, frozen cookie. How does that stuff work?
The English language is just one big "Well yes, but actually no."
Evan: is anybody waving back at me?
Me: *frantically waves in theater*
Me: *Waving* I’M WAVING EVAN!!
Me: I AM *waves*
#ProtectEvan
not even gonna lie it took serious restraint to not wave
Let’s all go to a theatre that’s putting on Dear Evan Hansen and when Evan sings Waving Through a Window we all wave viciously and shout “WE’RE WAVING!”
“So I got nothing to share, no I’ve got nothing to say”
*Goes on to sing an entire song*
GalaxyLatte *huh*
Have you noticed that the most annoying people in history always start these long speeches by saying, “I’ve got nothing to say.”
omfg yes
Every single time I sing this song, I sing this part. I mean, obviously. It’s part of the song. Anyway, I sing it, and my dad overhears the part, and he’s like, “Didn’t you literally just say that you have nothing to say?” And I’m like, “I SANG it. Anyway, didn’t you say you had to do something that isn’t annoying?” Savage.
The Music Girl, you’re so right! You didn’t say it, you sang it.
This is why Broadway must never die. Songs like these just fill you with so much emotion and I hope everyone gets to feel all those feelings
Yep. We do
lol i know what you mean "i hope everyone gets to feel all those feelings". I thought that during the entire show
YESS musicals have so much relatable emotions this song helps me with my social anxiety
I’ve been a musical theatre geek since I saw Wicked!
I missed the musical on Broadway & San Francisco but loved the movie. There’s nothing like seeing a great musical in person on the stage. I listen to this soundtrack so often! ❤❤❤
THIS MAN HAD GOT SOME INCREDIBLE PIPES
I feel like just about everyone's first reaction to hearing this song (or most of the other DEH songs also) is: his voice is so prettyyy * *___* *
Because yeah, it's freaking gorgeous
YAY MORE KYUNGSOO STANS THAT LIKE DEH
Jenny DOKyungsoo yes a kyungsoo stan
I am a Kyungsoo Stan and obsessed with this song
Jenny DOKyungsoo ikrr
“when you’re falling in a forest and there’s nobody around, do you ever really crash or even make a sound?”
my poor baby :(
Wtf
Bad B***h, Ikr!
Also, love the profile pic
Ya poor thing 😢
....Connor....(come back please)
Woah...
Right when I started reading this the song played these lyrics XD
"Give them no reason to stare, no slipping up if you slip away."
that hit too hard
yes, it hit too hard. seriously, it literally smacked me upside the head with a bat and punched me in the guts and proceeded to stab me 37 times in the chest
Is that Virgil I see
@@amandaanderson3300 y e s
@@winter-on-mars9576 I'm suprised u actually replied after that long 🤣
@@winter-on-mars9576 ships??
“Step out, step out of the sun”
“If you keep getting burned”
This line is my single favorite line in songwriting.
A beautiful analogy that exactly represents anxiety. The sun, being the spotlight, is referring to being seen, to putting yourself out there. But what happens when no one responds to what you say, or when you find yourself in an awkward conversation, suddenly empty on words, struggling. There’s a point in time, after failing so much, you just never risk standing in the sun again. For why step into the sun if you keep getting burned?
Mine is "are we a country of states? what's the state of our country?" Hamilton
@@boby9140 that one’s good too, although isn’t the actual line “Are we a nation of states? What’s the state of our nation?”
god that is so beautiful and true!
I read the whole thing about what this song means so I could get a better look on the emotions and I love it I'm gonna audition to sing it at a concert for school
Screen shorting this in case if I ever have do dear Evan Hansen in Literature
Fun fact: this begins Evan hinting about the fact he attempted suicide. He interweaves it into the narrative. "When you've fallen in a forest"
I guess you haven’t actually read the book or seen the musical, then.
@@emmaparker omg there's a BOOK!
Kaitlyn Burton um yes?
@@emmaparker that made my day I absolutely love this musical and enjoy books 😁
Kaitlyn Burton cool!
“What does anxiety feel like?”
Me: *_aggressively points_*
Cøffee it feels like you're always being watched In normal anxiety. With social anxiety it feels they will think you're weird, or they will hate you if you talk to them. There are many forms.
@Cøffee
XDXDXDXDXDXDXDXD I’ll just sing it! 😂👍
@@stitch_playz9710 yeah, mine is that I'm worried that I'll offend someone and then everyone will hate me
I was your 1,000th like!!! :D
Raven Gleam so true.
Imagine if instead of clapping, everyone in the audience waved back at Evan. I can’t 😭😢
I want that 😭😭
Diamond Borealis *everyone liked that*
WAIT I WANNA DO THAT NEXT TIME I WATCH IT-
They'd get kicked out of the theatre unfortunately 😀 theatre etiquette is strict
That would be pretty epic
I haven't had it as hard as Evan, but the first time I listened to this musical, I sobbed. I've never had suicidal tendencies, but I have suffered from anxiety my entire life. I've experienced the crippling loneliness that feels like no one would notice if you vanished into thin air. When I heard this, I couldn't believe it. I felt so seen. And it helped me realize I matter just as much as everyone else. Thank you, Dear Evan Hansen.
My heart while reading this, I’ve also struggled with depression, anxiety, adhd , sleep, my whole life and I felt seen to💗
❤️❤️ it really is hard to realize you matter too sometimes, and this song definitely helps, it explains my feelings exactly. Thank you for typing this, it makes me feel so seen because this is exactly how I feel too.
-from a struggling lonely college girl
You are not alone....
God saw fit to create you. He has a special plan for your life. He loves you. The creator of the universe loves you. I know it's been a year since you posted this comment but Jesus loves you. He did the day he created you. And he will forever more.
I’m so glad your still here ❤
"We start with stars in our eyes... we start believing that we belong..."
And nobody tells you where you went wrong
My childhood in a nutshell.
@Nicole Vastis step out step out of the sun because you've learned, because you've learned
@@tabitermen On the outside always looking in, will ever be more than I've always been?
@@rjsmiley4872 cause I'm tap tap tapping on the glass... I'm waving through a window
I just love how Evan is repeating everything. It shows how panicked he is to leave an imprint in this world. He wants to be noticed by someone, just wants someone to see him instead of looking through him.
Some of those repeats are the chorus.
I just thought of Michael in the bathroom from be more chill at the part where he repeats knock, clang, bang, and splash a gazillion times and I am SHOOK
YES, this comment. Everything circles and IS a reference to when he “fell” from the giant oak tree. Something about his fall is mentioned in many of the songs.
@@alysaemmons329 damn didn't think of that. Wow.
I feel that all to well I'm sorry single no body and will die this way probably so I've come to accept it I'm glad it got a happy ending or so I'm tolled lol
Everyone has a happy ending, if your not happy, it's not the end. (I found this in a Dove Chocolate wrapper.)
*when chocolate is literally the only thing supporting you*
@@raspytigerlily6978 XD yeah.
@@raspytigerlily6978 :')
Omg ikr lol me too :3
I was like "wow what a philosophical thing to say" and then...just...c ho co l a te
as someone with social anxiety, this song… really hits close to home.
It hits harder than something about my father's belt idk I'm from israel
That was a joke btw
fr
I hope ur okay xxxx
Dude same here, I have anxiety and this hits hard
This song describes how it feels to have social anxiety so perfectly.
Katie Miller yes
It’s truz
And depression, kinda-
I don’t have social anxiety, but I do have generalized anxiety disorder and this is how it feels whenever I have to be around anyone I’m not familiar with. It sucks ass.
Maybe add autism to that.
With the slight difference that in my case The Mistake isn't just something I imagine, it's something people have deigned to scream at me for my entire fucking live and then somehow they are surprised almost 70% of autistic people have social anxiety as well?
Like, I could probably analyze my entire life into this song, but maybe that should be reserved for English class.
I have social anxiety and I haven't cried like this since Perks of Being a Wallflower.
This is like a reverse Let It Go.
Me too!
Your Obedient Sandwich, A. Ham Who's seen the play I'm really depressed and I have anxiety I do cut and this made me cry so much
dONT BRING UP LET IT GO MAN
Your Obedient Sandwich, A. Ham I know social anxiously is hard I have been bulled adout how I react around a group of People and because I have acne every where on my face when I was found out I had social anxiety everything kind of clicked
I just realized when Evan talked about falling in a forest, he was talking about his suicide attempt.
yeah uh
Isn't also referring to the quote "If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?"
@@Elizabeth-mk1pq it's both
If you listen to that part of the song closely, you’ll notice that he’s actually going through the 5 stages of grief the final one being acceptance of his urge to take his own life.
"When you're falling in a forest... and there's nobody around, do you ever really crash or even make a sound..?" These lines hurt :
I'm already crying and I can already tell that I'm gonna love this musical because I have social anxiety and I've never heard a song that expresses exactly how I've felt my entire life.
Same here, it just articulates my feelings so eloquently and accurately it makes me so incredibly emotional
Sarah Lopez Darren 😍😍😍
Listen to Lifeboat from Heathers
MiMi Star Hell yeah! Lifeboat is a really good song to relate to for Anxiety
Yes, but- Lifeboat isn't about social anxiety as much as peer pressure. McNamara has no problem interacting with people daily, she's just afraid of losing her status.
this song: exists
animators with social anxiety: it’s free real estate
WHY HELLO YOU CALLED
Why'd you call them out like this man
*cough*
What? Who said I had social anxiety? PFFFDBT
Therapist: you have an appointment set for friday-
I feel so called out right now
So, all of them?
"Is anybody waving back at me?"
*aggressively waves back*
blessed army ^^^ XD
me
blessed army same
fav comment ever lol
*Waving intestifies*
While I was in a mental hospital, I made a friend with a boy who loved DEH. He helped me write a song there. I just watched the movie and was reminded of him.
I feel so connected to Evan and realize how far I’ve come. I’m so thankful for these art forms that make people feel heard and seen.
Reading this comments are making me sob, I hope you have an amazing day 💖
I am not-so-slowly falling in love with this musical.
sassy chicken I'm falling hard.... and fast (help)
into a forest..
+CarlaDaFox too soon
You should see it live. This guy's acting is just as phenomenal as his voice, and the show is SOOOOO GOOD!
sassy chicken I finished it one day...Help me.
to those with anxiety
you're not alone
you're stronger than you think
and loved more than you know
it will be ok
this message is so wholesome, i love you so much this should be the top comment. : )
I have anxiety I can’t do anything but fail math
thank you i needed that
Love the pic
@@sethgameryt4524 same dude. It sucks
Daughter 1: Mom why did you name me Rose?
Mom: I Really like Roses.
Daughter 2: Makes sense why you named me Ben Platt’s Vibrato.
THIS COMMENT
this is gr8
Funny you say that. My name is “Maxing out my husband’s credit cards”.
PumpkinSpikes BRUH-
Lol
His voice is so beautiful, I’m gonna die. He’s a real siren. Ben Platt did such an amazing job, and I’m sad I will never get to see him on stage.
good news! he's going to be evan in the movie version of DEH! :D
I have clinical depression and the line "when you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around, do you ever really crash or even make a sound?" Actually changed my life. Make a sound. Make yourself known. I'm so much happier because I've listened to this song so many times and just... Appreciated it. Little things in life make me happy. I love this. It's my theme song for my life.
I damn cried when I listened to this song, and I was depressed alot, so yeah, I could relate.
Thanks man, you too.
@Diya Arun Kumar, how bout you consider it both ways?
@Diya Arun Kumar same here, mate. Have a good day to you.
I am learning to stop wallowing and make friends. It is amazing how it shortens depression and crazy.
Evan: “No i’ve got nothing to say”
Also Evan: *proceeds to sing*
_Technically_ it’s not saying anything
@@adridaplague-boi *Technically*
This song is Evan's inner monologue. It's the thoughts running through his head, not what he actually expresses on the outside. And as a person suffering from social anxiety, I can tell you this is pretty accurate in putting to words the thoughts and feeling that run through my head constantly
@@tomdienstbier49 It was a joke-
Well, he’s not REALLY saying anything…
I never picked up on the thought that Evan's broken arm was due to a failed suicide attempt. This really puts things in perspective.
He's socially awkward, he attempts to fall and crash, but it fails.
He follows the suggestion to write himself mail and it then gets taken as a suicide note when one actually commits suicide.
His therapy for the parents turns his own life around.
Tigerman1138 sometimes it's hard to keep a straight face when you realize he *literally fell out of a tree*
"Cause I'm tap tap tapping on the glass"
EVAN STOP THAT SCARES THE FISH
lol very good
underrated comment
The songs from this movie is great, im just sad the movie itself wasn't very good
"[Verse 1]
I've learned to slam on the brake
Before I even turn the key
Before I make the mistake Before I lead with the worst of me
[Verse 2]
Give them no reason to stare,
No slipping up if you slip away
So I got nothing to share No, I got nothing to say
[Pre-Chorus]
Step out, step out of the sun If you keep getting burned
Step out, step out of the sun Because you've learned because you've learned
[Chorus]
On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been?
'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass I'm waving through a window
I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear
While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass I'm waving through a window, oh
Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me?
[Verse 3]
We start with stars in our eyes
We start believing that we belong
But every sun doesn't rise
And no one tells you where you went wrong
[Pre-Chorus]
Step out, step out of the sun If you keep getting burned
Step out, step out of the sun Because you've learned,
because you've learned
[Chorus]
On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been?
'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass I'm waving through a window
I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear
While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass I'm waving through a window, oh
Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me?
[Bridge]
When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound?
When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound?
When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound? When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound?
Did I even make a sound? Did I even make a sound? It's like I never made a sound Will I ever make a sound?
[Chorus]
On the outside, always looking in Will I ever be more than I've always been?
'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass I'm waving through a window
I try to speak, but nobody can hear So I wait around for an answer to appear
While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass I'm waving through a window, oh
Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me?
[Outro] Is anybody waving? Waving, waving, whoa-oh, whoa-oh-oh-oh"
Thank you!
@@hazellevesque8809 No problem :)
I respect you
@@priscillagaspari7884 Thanks :)
I love it when someone comments the lyrics to a song I dong know well. I need the lyrics to experience the song.
3 years later and I read this from the song:
“I’m tap, tap, tapping on the glass!” - I’m asking for help.
“Can anybody hear me?” - Is nobody gonna help me?
“Watching people pass.” - Nobody is helping me...
“Is anybody waving back at me?” - Is anybody trying to help me or even bothers?!
“Do you ever really crash or even make a sound?” - Is what I’m saying... Even heard? Is anybody gonna stop and help me?!
I loved this song because I felt that way. “Waving Through A Window” is a beautiful song and I’m grateful to have it.
Smexy Socks
Alright, I will, thanks.
Take good care of yourself, there will always be someone who finds you❤
this is why "waving through a window" is my favorite song, because i can relate to it
Yeah, I just noticed that he asks "did I even make a sound?" referring to when his own "falling out" of the tree. People noticed and made a big deal when Connor chose to end his own life but Evan is asking if anyone even noticed or cared that he himself tried to?
So sweet
I’ve played this exact video 342 times.
Enough said
I might have an addiction
SuperUltraGamer Don't we all
SuperUltraGamer SAME
OML YOU'RE LIKE ME
Me tho
Only 342? Man I got a problem then.
this song always reminds me of being a person who has undiagnosed autism (me). especially lyrics like “i try to speak but nobody can hear so i wait around for an answer to appear” it reminds me of how i didn’t know how to explain what i was feeling and how i longly wanted people to notice that there was something wrong. there are so many other lyrics that explain what its like to experience life the way you were taught to and not the way you do.
I have autism too
Yes! I know this is a song abt anxiety, however it resonated with me since I have undiagnosed autism too, as well as ADHD
That’s amazing how you thought of this, because I did too! I’m Autistic myself 😮
Woah, same! It was my comfort song in middle school lonnng before I realized I was autistic. I suppose it makes sense lol
I saw the video for this and assumed it was about a guy with autism because that’s exactly what this song makes me think of, I have friends with children who have autism and I imagined this song being a great way to describe how it feels
This is honestly what it feels like for me sometime when I try to interact with people. I have anxiety in general and a huge part of that is social anxiety and even though I have a lot of friends, I realize most of them prefer to talk to someone else more than they like to talk to me. This feels like when I'm trying to be heard over the others. I know no one realizes it but they still ignore me sometimes, and it still hurts.
I feel the same way
That’s exactly how I feel. It’s great to see that someone goes through the same thing as me. I thought I was the only one.
i hear you homie
get new friend they're jerks
ya'll need new friends!
Does anyone else perk up whenever then
"We start with stars in our eyes..."
Part comes on?
But honestly this song describes having Social Anxiety perfectly.
Riley Michelle
I know
I am sooo glad you mentioned that...it IS a perk up point...and you can even detect it in his voice...what a wonderful song...I so wish I could see this musical...this cast...thank goodness for the Tony's!
Ikr
well the beat kicks on so thts probably why
I also really like “Step out step out of the suunn if you keep getting burned”
is it bad that I find amusement in "Broadway cast recording" (get it because hE's IN A CAST)
HAHAHAHAHHAAH
this made my day
PHAHAHA
You are my new favorite person 😂
SO I GOT A BLACK EYE AND MY ARM'S IN A CAST
I have severe social anxiety and depression. This musical saved my life. IM WAVING BACK EVAN!! 💙💙💙
"We start with stars in are eyes. We start believing we belong. But every sun doesn't rise." That hit me hard.
Natalie Parker
Same also
"On the outside always looking in will i ever be more than I've been"
When you have seen the show and the verse, "When you're falling in a forest, and there's nobody around, do you ever really crash, or even make a sound." Has so much more meaning, and it kills you. **Spoiler** Evan tries to kill himself prior to the start of the show by climbing a tree and letting himself fall to the ground, hence the cast.
reader2012 TRUE 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
** ADDITIONAL WARNING FOR MORE MAJOR SPOILER TALK **
One of the things I love most about the book of this show is that there are all these little subtle details that make the emotional moments hit even harder... like the fact that it's not that Evan consciously or actively jumped from the tree. And the fact that he spends right up until the end of the show in denial to even *himself* that it wasn't just an accident. The implication is that he really did start off climbing up the tree just for something to do (or at least convincing himself that was the case), and at some point along the way it got a little trickier to climb, and instead of keeping going or climbing back down he just kind of... let go... gave up.
And, for me at least, that kind of resigned passiveness in it hits hard. Although I've thankfully never been suicidal myself, I've definitely had my fair share of mental health issues that I've spent a LONG time being in a whole lot of denial about, and I can't help but think that if I ever had reached that point.. that's probably more along the lines of how it might have come out for me too. Something where it could be easy to be in denial about it even having *been* what it actually was, and something that could be easily passed off as "nah, it was an accident".
Aaanyway, sorry that just got awkwardly personal! But the point is, yeah... the particular way it's all revealed is SO well done and honest and gutting. And you don't even realize until after it's revealed how much the show has been building up to that moment, either!
Stephanie L THERES A BOOK?????
Keana Astalos By book she means script. For musicals they say "book" and "score" instead of just "script" because there is usually more than one writer and it gives credit where credit is due. :)
Stephanie L Very thoughtful and well articulated response and point of view!
LYRICS:
I've learned to slam on the brake
Before I even turn the key
Before I make the mistake
Before I lead with the worst of me
Give them no reason to stare
No slipping up if you slip away
So I got nothing to share
No, I got nothing to say
Step out, step out of the sun
If you keep getting burned
Step out, step out of the sun
Because you've learned, because you've learned
On the outside, always looking in
Will I ever be more than I've always been?
'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass
I'm waving through a window
I try to speak, but nobody can hear
So I wait around for an answer to appear
While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass
I'm waving through a window, oh
Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me?
We start with stars in our eyes
We start believing that we belong
But every sun doesn't rise
And no one tells you where you went wrong
Step out, step out of the sun
If you keep getting burned
Step out, step out of the sun
Because you've learned, because you've learned
On the outside, always looking in
Will I ever be more than I've always been?
'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass
Waving through a window
I try to speak, but nobody can hear
So I wait around for an answer to appear
While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass
Waving through a window, oh
Can anybody see, is anybody waving?
When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around
Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound?
When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around
Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound?
When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around
Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound?
When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around
Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound?
Did I even make a sound?
Did I even make a sound?
It's like I never made a sound
Will I ever make a sound?
On the outside, always looking in
Will I ever be more than I've always been?
'Cause I'm tap, tap, tapping on the glass
Waving through a window
I try to speak, but nobody can hear
So I wait around for an answer to appear
While I'm watch, watch, watching people pass
Waving through a window, oh
Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me? (oh)
Is anybody waving?
Waving, waving, whoa-oh, whoa-oh
Thank you
tysm
I feel like all theatre kids have an obligation to like the comment with the lyrics in it
@@allthewayfromatoz3855 I agree
Thanks, this is appreciated😊😊 Xx
Dear Evan Hansen,
Thank you. You have helped me more that you could know. And I know you're just a character from a musical show/book but you really are something. You feel real. Your story feels real. Your troubles feel real. Because I can relate. Watching this movie and listening to this soundtrack has made me realise I am not alone. There are kids like me that struggle everyday and there's kids like Connor who are unseen. We go unnoticed but that doesn't mean we aren't there. We aren't alone. Non of us. No one should have to suffer in silence because we exist, and we will get the help we need. We will see the light again. We will be found.
Thank you Evan Hansen For everything.
That's really wholesome. Too damn much
@@boby9140 it made me realise I don’t have to fight alone
Is is bad that when ever I hear the clinking sound I just imagine Jared banging his head on a cow bell in the background?
Probably.
This made my day
Jared: IM ONLY DOING THIS SO MY PARENTS PAY FOR MY CAR INSANCE
No. U are probably right...
I have a fever. The only prescription is -Ben Platt's vibrato- more cowbell.
That's amazing, I needed that, thank you
Sometimes I come on here just looking to respond to someone’s pleas for help. I like to remind people that all life is precious. I tell them that we all have pain and they aren’t alone.
I say if there is no one else to talk to we are here. I am not a doctor, not a counselor, but willing to listen. Sometimes that is all someone needs.
Remember there are always those in similar situations, some better, and some worse. We are all united in our struggles. I say share your good fortunes with people, help those who need it, and SEEK support when you need it.
You will be found.
Thank you so much for that comment. It made me cry and I don't normally cry, but I just want someone in my life who understands me, who I can talk to and who is like me. You are a amazing person just for writing this comment.
You are a good person, sir. Respect for you.
Tigerman1138 I try to do the same thing
You are so nice
Tigerman1138 the world needs more people like you, people who try to make a difference, who try to help people and build them up.
The line "When you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around, Do you ever really crash, or even make a sound" sounds really deep and moving until you realize _he actually, physically fell from a tree._
Simply Arie he referenced that at the end of that lyric and he says "did I even make a sound it's like I never made a sound"
Simply Arie TRU! I actually made that connection before I thought it was deep tho
It makes it better when "Will I ever make a sound?"
did he fall? or did he let go?
Seishin Omg
I’ve got ASD
I’m in college now. I’ve found a circle of people to call my genuine friends and I’ve never been surer of that in my life.
Hearing this for the first time and this gave me flashbacks to middle and high school when I was too afraid to connect, too busy wallowing in my own self-pity, afraid my differences only inconvenienced those around me or made them uncomfortable. Now I’ve grown and I’ll always be grateful for that.
Me too
Happy for u!
Don’t tap on the window.
It ANGERS the g l a s s .
this is so cursed but I love it
- fish in tank
I tried tapping on the glass, the next day, the glass tapped on me.
Angry g l a s s
Why is this funny-
I told myself that I was gonna be immune to this musical and that it wouldn't feel personal to me, but then this song happened and I'm honestly crying
Steph Piano same
To be fair that's also what happened with Hamilton so the joke's on me lol
That happens with every musical I listen to lool
Very true
I managed to cry during Heathers?? Is that weird??
Read this if you have ever felt alone, depressed, suicidal, lost, scared, worthless, abandoned, or anything of that nature, this is for you
You Are Beautiful.
You Are Wanted.
You Are Wonderful.
Don't quit on yourself. Don't hurt yourself. You are worth the world and nobody wants to see you suffering. This is not the end. The way you feel right now will pass. Peoples minds will change. Things WILL get better.
We love you and are always here for you. Do NOT do something permanent over something temporary.
You're better than that.
All stars need to see darkness before the light.
And always remember, Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself & the right people will find and love the real you.
Your
own
unique
Mindset
always
trys
to
engage in the
right ways
Now read the first letter of every word
You Matter! no matter what other people may say. Always know this is true. It helps. You are worth my time to write this. I do care.
Hi, this is something I'd say, but not the way I'd say it, like I said, found it on another video, but it's a nice message.
Sebastian Demerjian thank you for this... having a bad day and this made it better
Sebastian Demerjian what a amazing thing to say. I cried when you said that it was just enlightening
You know this probably just made my day, thanks I needed this
Thanks for the support but it won't work. I can't turn back because of a paragraph
To whoever needs to hear this I promise you are loved and it doesn’t always feel like it and that’s okay
thanks I really appreciate it I'm glad that I have someone to care 😊
@@colemaxwell34 no problem
As we're social distancing, a lot of people are waving through windows.
I FINALLY have time to sit on my computer and listen to this on repeat FOR DAYS!!
Yeah,but....at whom?there's nobody there in the streets...😥
bro thats deep...
@Percy Jackson21 Woah, a Percy Jackson and Dear Evan Hansen fan? I’ve finally found my people :’)
And finally, we can confirm, That when your falling in the forest, There IS actually nobody around.
So this kid in my Drama class sang this for an audition and it was AMAZING. I had never heard this song, or heard of this song before and it was BREATHTAKING. I guess I'm in this fandom now. HERRO :D
the most innocent fandom, we all have problems
Awkward Aesthetic Avocado Well, I like to think that there are multiple nice communites, this being one of them! I love everyone's enthusiasm and positive comments saying it will get better. Do any of you happen to watch Jacksepticeye? His community is pretty awesome and I bet if you don't watch him now, you'd love him and the community. He has this whole Positive Mental Attitude movement this year and it's great
My best friend first got me into Hamilton, now DEH. I'm addicted xxx
My best friend sang this for a choir final and it was so beautiful.
Samiha The Unicorn Welcome, you’ll find this fandom is very understanding and willing to listen. We all have problems and we get that, so just feel welcome into this community.
Our daily inspiration coming from a DEH fan girl. I personally believe everyone has potential to be great no matter how you see that and no matter what you look like, who you love or what people expect from you. Do what you want and live your own life. Just know there’s people that care, and if you ever need reassurance of that find someone in your life that will listen or come to one of these video comments section, I personally am open to talk even though I am not a therapist I’m a person that will listen and make you feel appreciate.
"Is anyone waving back at me?"
*WAVES BACK AGRESSIVELY*
danica me do---
👋
this musical saved my life.
If you ever find yourself waving through a window, just remember:
No one deserves to be forgotten, no one deserves to fade away, no one should come and go and have no one know they were ever even here, no one should flicker out or have any doubt that it matters that they are here. Even if you’ve always been that barely in the background kind of guy, you still matter. Even if you’re somebody who can’t escape the feeling that the world’s passed you by, you still matter. If you never getting around to doing some remarkable thing, that doesn’t mean that you’re not worth remembering.
Because even when the dark comes crashing through, when you need a friend to carry you, when you’re broken on the ground, you will be found. So let the sun com streaming in, cause you’ll reach up and you’re rise again. Lift your head, and look around.
You will be found
...did you just recite the lyrics to a later song in the soundtrack?
Gamer Bro ....Maybe (Don’t judge Lol)
Ella Aiyana It still is an inspiring message!
Job Muller Yes, yes indeed
woah thanks
"and no one tells you where you went wrong" hits really hard
Yeah. I have ASD so the line is pretty literal for me. When I screw up, no on tells me where I went wrong because they assume I already know or that I did it on purpose.
Honestly, my friends would always get mad because I had severe anger issues/mood changes. They never told me directly what I was doing wrong, but just that they didn't like it when I got frustrated. P.S, I couldn't control it back then.
Fr man
@@samhenley7156 That's only part of the reason. The other reason is because in our society, it's considered "impolite" to tell people when they've misstepped. Even if telling them might be helpful for them.
@@jeremiahnoar7504 also you never know who can and can't handle criticism, there are so many people who get pressed beyond belief if you give them the slightest amount of critical feedback. especially if they grew up among parents or adults who went way too hard on the whole 'positive reinforcement' thing and never acclimated them to accepting criticism
We're singing this absolute gem for my choir performance at our school summer show. Now i have an excuse to listen to this
This musical has given me a new outlook on life. Thank you for encouraging me to just be me. It's exactly what I needed to hear right now.
*the how this song connected to my life* cliche
laurenthomsxn where's the suicide and sap backstory??
there isn't one, i take comfort in music. bye.
dude people don't need to share their life story on the internet, people can say they feel better when they listen to music without sharing their life with complete strangers... THANKS BYE
thank you, Olivia.
I like how Big Fun from Heather’s was after this on my randomized playlist.
*singing along*
bIggG fUnn *cries*
BIG FuN BiG FuN **ugly crying**
Same wtf
Kitten-Topped Ice Cream I have Blue next on my playlist from Heathers
YES hahaha
The whole "falling in a forest" bit is even more emotional after learning the whole plot of the show
the line "I try to speak but nobody can hear, so I wait around for an answer to appear" hits deep in ways you can't find the words to say
this song is literally the perfect metaphor for anxiety-
I relate to this song hardcore because I used to try to blend in and I have really bad social anxiety. It's been getting better since I dyed my hair a crazy colour and people are constantly complimenting and I have to say thanks, but still.
Alfred Fisher, I can relate to you, I too have really bad social anxiety and stress, insomnia, a condition called Raynods that cause me to always wear gloves, and I'm introverted
Heck my mom gets mad when I don't speak.
Alfred Fisher that's awesome! you got this
All I can say is, don't blend in, stand out. People always look at me as if I'm crazy just because I'm being really humourous with my friends. Know that it isn't everyone else you need to impress but yourself
Alfred Fisher it's ok u are cool 😎 and u deserve all them compliments 🤗
Alfred Fisher This sounds so much like my situation, I dyed my hair purple and I use it to give people something positive to talk about 😂
You know I've had a rough pass few years and I've had a lot thrown at me. Work, relationships ending, and some people just flat out ignoring me when I've been friends with them for years. This song made me cry when I first heard it. I was driving and had to pull over because I couldn't see through my tears. Honestly it made me feel so much better knowing other people can relate, even if it only is a musical. This song still makes me tear up. No matter how much I listen to it.
Brandon I hope you have a better year this year
Danger Noodle it's still been rough but I'm coping. Thanks for caring though
Brandon woah... Thats deep.. This is my fav dear evan hansen song
Brandon I hope things get better... my friends never listen to me when I talk, it's a horrible feeling
I feel you..... I have gone through the same thing. My friends ignore me when I talk. I am not garrulous either. I am pretty quiet.
I just went to a drag show last weekend, and one of the kings did a cover of Waving Through a Window. Whenever the line "is anyone waving back at me?" came around, the entire audience waved at him and cheered. It was such a lovely thing to experience ☺️
I love his voice... :0
doesn't everybody :)
SAND SAND LOVE SAND I love him!
it's magic the voice he has
Ben Platt is an angel.
IKR! 💙😂😍 his voice is beautiful his literally my idol!
How can a song reach every emotion I’ve ever felt?? Everything I’ve been trying to say has been said.
Dear Evan Hansen,
Thank You.
I relate
exactly
for me it’s this song and michael in the bathroom that hit all the right emotions
@@banshusband8095 that song is another one that is really sad, good, and relate able at the same time.
*gets obsessed with Heathers*
I probably only will like this one.
*gets obsessed with Hamilton*
These two are the only musicals I will like.
*starts to listen to Dear Evan Hansen*
Well shit
My order
Morgan McDowell and bmc
SAME but I got hooked on Hamilton for a full year now I'm on Evan Hansen
Same 😂
Morgan McDowell listen to wicked :)
My first time exposed to the world of musical theater was this song when my friend sang it at the school talent show. During 2020 musicals really helped me make it through the hard times. What I’m trying to say is this song is the reason I memorized every musical on the face of earth and why my my sister thinks I’m weird.
You should go see Wicked
In an alternate version of the show I imagined in my head, after Conner signed Evans cast Evan tried everything to become his first friend since he doesn’t have one either even though Connor isn’t the closest person to get to, they would get into a bunch of wacky hilarious scenarios when suddenly the drama would be when Connor finds out his new friend has a crush on his little sister he gets pissed because he thinks Evan was using him to get to Zoey. But they all work it out in the end and become friends and Evan gets the girl lol
Ok
Cool beans
wait that sounds so cool!! :)
Hell yeah happy ending
All of that, except it's TREEBROS.
You will be found
Even if you are down
So just keep dancin
To dear evan hansen
EmmaTEr 123
Underrated comment.
Someone show this to Lin or something. This could be a bop
This is what I live for. I found my senior quote
*evan
This is a poetic masterpiece
"Your existence matters to someone. Life is like a glass window, it's fragile and you don't want to break it."
This song got me through middle school. I like talking to people, but I am very bad at taking initiative to talk to people. When I did speak though it did seem like nobody would hear me. I often pretended to be normal and happy when I was actually really sad. I felt that I had no friends and that there was no one I could talk to. Whenever I was sad I would just sing this song and I would feel better. Thankfully I am in a better place now.
I'm so sorry for what you had to go through. I'm glad that you are in a better place now.
I’m just leaving middle school, and I have the same thing!
@Lilian Long I’m so sorry you are going through that. I am glad it is getting better. I like the emotion I can express when singing songs from this musical. I will keep you in my prayers.
Listening to this song right now for the very same reason you used to haha. I’m so glad you’re getting better! I wish you the best?
I'm so happy that you're in a better place now :"D
this song fucks me up man.
AHHHHHHHHHHH!😭
Same, but ive been fuck up ever since 2012 :/
This song is just perfect for anyone struggling with anxiety, I mean I should know. Being a senior in high school whilst living with anxiety can become impossible but this song and whole musical reminds me there are people out there on the other side of that window and things will get better
Dear Evan Hansen,
Why are so many people using this format
Sincerely, Me
I like your username
@@Wolf-vy2gu thanks
Tfw ur a theater kid
Heh nice
@@jacproton5119 thank you
Didn’t realize I needed an “anxiety anthem” until now
i relate to that so much
I just came back here because my parents and I are packing for a trip and they keep arguing too.
same
For someone that almost committed suicide, this movie made me cries quite a few times. I might be one of the only ones, but I really loved that movie. Made me realize that I'm lucky to be alive and I should cherish every day with my friends and family.
*SAD STORY TIME* (it's related to this song, don't worry)
So... even though this happened a year ago, it's still rough to talk about... here goes nothing: Basically, I went to Blue Lake Fine Arts Camp last year, and met this incredible lad. His name was Austin. I doubt he's even still living. Let me explain. During the time we were there, he told me about his life, and how it was absolute SHIT. Like, it was terrible, honestly. He attempted suicide multiple times, and did once at the camp (I stopped him tho). But the main point for this comment was that he showed me this song and sang it to me for practice, for it really resonated with him. A LOT. Especially the bridge, where Evan Hanson talks about his suicide attempt and how nobody cared. It was the same with Austin. My name is Evan, so it reminded him of his favorite song from his favorite musical: *Waving Through A Window, Dear Evan Hanson*. I gave him my number, but to this day, he hasn't called. Or maybe it was one of those various random number calls that I've grown to immediately deny out of instinct. I have PTSD from my friends attempting suicide and me being the person to stop them...
Welp, I'm just glad that I finally got that off of my chest. Thank you to anyone who cares enough to even read this... anyways... *stay glad my lad.*
Hey I've been to blue lake
thewoodsarelovelydarkanddeep I live in navy ocean
aww this made me tear up.
hopefully he did not attempted suicide again
@@danielvaca04 Evan probably doesn't have Austin's number -- he was the one who his to him.
Dear Hamilton,
This past year has been life changing. You made me cry, fan girl, and ship harder than anything else. But there's...... someone else. Someone who rips the tears out of my eyes and makes me scream in my pillow every time I see ben platt. I will forever love you but I found another true love ❤️.
Sincerely me
I love the fact you included a song name from DEH
good for you
PotterPand a same
BIG MOOD
Leah Thai yep same
I just love the singer sounds more and more on the verge of tears as the song goes on. It makes the song alot more relatable 😅
“How'd you break your arm?
How'd you break your arm Evan?
I fell.
Really?
Is that what happened?
Yes.
I was..
I lost my grip and then I just...
I fell so...
Did you fall?
Or did you let go?”
"You can get rid of me, whenever you want. You can get rid of all of it. The Connor Project, The Orchard, and all you're gonna be left with.... is you"
*WHO GAVE YOU THE RIGHT*
@@jubileetea 😭😭😭😭 truuuuu
@@MarcoPolo-ej1bp NONONONONONO-
@Sunny G oop-
I think my favourite part of this musical as a lot of media paints people with social anxiety as these sweet, shy mites who just have to be bought out of their shell but this musical really brings to light, nope, we're just as flawed as everyone else. That's what makes things even harder.
Yeah, exactly.
I was 200 like
Dear Evan Hansen,
This month, I will have been a year clean from self-harm. You can do it. You are not obligated to take all of your friend's burdens on yourself while trying to balance your own life. Your friends will not benefit from you being unhealthy. Help them in ways you can afford. Help each other through things. Vent to your friends. If they are truly your friends, they will listen. Your problems are just as valid as theirs. You don't need to prove that you aren't okay. I love you for who you are. You are a beautiful human being. I can't afford therapy anymore, but my friends have helped me through tough times more than any therapist ever could. People care about you, even if you haven't met them yet.
Sincerely,
Me
(edit: 2 years!! still going strong, you can do it!)
Im very proud of you. Keep being amazing ❤️
Im so proud of you! Also you made me cry mate.. Those words mean more to me and some others than you may ever know.. Keep going, you're doing so well
Thank you, so much for this❤️
Congrats :)
OMG ANOTHER FANDER! also i like that a fander is here [i heard thomas did a cover of this song , and i love it] and Congrats!! you're getting better everyday ma'am/sir/non-binary person
" On the outside always looking in, will I ever be more than I' ve always been" is the line that resonates so much with me. I 've never lived my life according to society's standards. I 've struggled with crippling anxiety, depression and often times have felt I m just not where I should be in life. I am just a bit different compared to others... when society and culture tell you where you should be in life by a by a certain age and that I m on the "outside looking in" and watching everyone else live a normal life and achieve happiness. I m in a better place than I used to be thankfully but this song really hits home for me. I just love it.
me: oh look heres a new musical ive never listened to.
me: *starts crying on the second song* FU C K
me. and your username sameee
and peggle me rn
and peggle this comment was posted a month ago now your profile is Evan Hansen wow im asumming this musical ruined you
btw nice name
NachoSexual thanks. and its literally my favourite musical now out of all the ones I heard. ive watched the live TH-cam bootlegs 2 times, and I cried way too much. I love dear evan hansen. honestly I feel bad fkr my friends at school because its the only thing I talk about
benplattypus All of my tears have already been used so I'm unable to cry
Maybe the fish are waving back
Possibly
NOT WHAT THE SONGS BOUT
but I laughed
I know
Just listen to the song again and imagine this scenario 😂😂😂😂
Omg 😂
Thank you, Evan Hansen.
For being the voice that we all needed to hear.
#youwillbefound
June Bug #youwillbefound #weallareevanhansen #thankyouevanhansen
I love the bit that starts with "we start with stars in our eyes" it just shows how amazing you are a how we call all have a dream
Ben Platt is just fantastic. The whole “cast” is so talented and terrific.
Ellie Loves Music That pun was well done lolol
pUnS
Ellie G PUN GAME STRONG
It doesn't sound anything like him! ( I know it is tho)
THAT PUN
Weell, Dear Evan Hansen now have the Tony for the Best Musical.
Wow.
This song have a new sense, I guess...
Fiore Emeri On the outside always lookin in, will I ever be more chill
Oops wrong musical
They were quoting the John Addams rap that was cut from hamilton...
DEH Hamiltrash The horse-crazy charter kid at heart
dude
they were quoting the Adams Administration rap
Fiore Emeri Great Comet was ROBBED
close to 666 likes
*cLOSE TO 666 LIKES*
I started singing this to myself in class. My friend joined in and everyone just stared at us. I’ve never felt more happy in my life.
I saw Dear Evan Hansen at the theatres yesterday and it’s one of the best musicals I’ve ever seen- and I’ve seen a lot- it was just amazing
Other musicals: Yeah we're gonna have a few sad songs but mostly happy! :D
Dear Evan Hansen: Hold my jar of fan's tears
Edit: I’ve been wait for this comment to finally die
It only goes downhill the moment evan opens his mouth
Has nothing to do with this comment-but i love your pfp! Its super cute!
@@lemonmeringue1448 Aww thank you!!
@@strawberrystudios9479 No problem!! 🤗 What's their name?
@@lemonmeringue1448 Honestly it doesn't have a name I just randomly decided to draw a strawberry cow lol
This is an existential crisis put into song
Chicken Permission TBH