The Basics of Shadow Work: What is it, Prompts I Enjoy, Resources

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  • @Elethia1213
    @Elethia1213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +898

    Acceptance of your shadow doesn't happen over night either. Sometimes it takes months or years to accept that icky feeling and shadow self.
    Also 5 questions I seem to always go back to
    1: Why do you not allow yourself to make simple mistakes, or any mistakes?
    2. Why do you not allow yourself to feel X emotion? (excitement, anger)
    3.Why do you not allow yourself to be human?
    4. Why do you keep moving the goal post instead of celebrating an achievement?
    5. Why do you feel directly responsible for negative things that happen? (Example: Friend drops plate at pot luck and breaks it, first instinct sorry I should have gotten paper plates.)

  • @hellbender4946
    @hellbender4946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    IF YOU HAVE PTSD OR C-PTSD DO **NOT** DO SHADOW WORK ALONE. i have c-ptsd but i'm also a shadow witch. most of my shadow work has had to involve a therapist that can support me through SEVERE trauma shenanigans. if you try to just do shadow work with these disorders you will have a Bad Time and yes i do know this from experience lmao just trust me

    • @ChaoticWitchAunt
      @ChaoticWitchAunt  3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      *THANK YOU*!!! This is so so important!!!!!

    • @UniqueSquadUwU
      @UniqueSquadUwU 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@ChaoticWitchAunt oop- Uhh I don't know if i have a mental health condition

    • @aleatoryEpiphany
      @aleatoryEpiphany 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ABSOLUTELY. I had enough Bad Times doing shadow work even *with* the guidance and help of my therapist, struggling through trauma therapy and constantly not wanting to accept myself and my reactions and just, ugh, so many breakdowns in the beginning. It's hard. It hurts. Is it worth it? Absolutely, a thousand percent yes. But it's not easy, it's definitely not overnight (I still do shadow work, 8 years later) and it needs help if you have anything even remotely traumatic in your past, and also imo, certain mental illnesses. I suffer from psychosis and that added a butt ton of extra problems in as well.

    • @jayahmoore7251
      @jayahmoore7251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I've been diagnosed with PTSD multiple times but I dont remember much so I'm starting to think its CPTSD I dont have access to therapy but my bestfriend has straight up told me most of the prompts in this video could I begin shadow work if she helped me? (Shes an empath)

    • @hellbender4946
      @hellbender4946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@jayahmoore7251 so here's the thing: i am not a doctor. and i cannot give you medical advice regarding your treatment. and that's what shadow work is in a lot of ways: a treatment of the scary stuff inside you. and if you have c-ptsd and can't even remember a lot of the Big Bads (like me for many years), then you should really, really, REALLY put a pause on the work before you even start and talk to a licensed professional when you can. i'm sorry if this is disappointing, but it really is in your best interest :(

  • @ivabrlas476
    @ivabrlas476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    My favorite one so far was 'write yourself a letter as someone who hurt you' when i tell u i sobbed the whole night-

    • @amandaaustin8691
      @amandaaustin8691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Could you elaborate on this? Is it me writing a letter to my abuser or is it me trying to see their perspective?

    • @ivabrlas476
      @ivabrlas476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@amandaaustin8691 it's writing ''apology'' letter as your abuser towards you. Trying to see their perspective yeah, but not necerassirly forgiving them or something. What it does to me is i get some closure i guess and when i write that letter i am more able to let go :)

    • @halosandhorns8330
      @halosandhorns8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Just did that poem style

    • @ivabrlas476
      @ivabrlas476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@halosandhorns8330 i wish i was creative enough to write poems bruuuh, i love that :)

    • @camryenmitchell-marr3205
      @camryenmitchell-marr3205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have so many people who have hurt me that I have forgotten so many people's names

  • @YourWitchyCousinTikTokComps
    @YourWitchyCousinTikTokComps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +683

    Me, thinking: “Universe, send me a sign if I need to do my shadow work.”
    The Universe: *notification for this video*
    Me: “...FINE.”

    • @sam-dn6qq
      @sam-dn6qq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      NO BUT ME TOO IVE BEEN SEEING THINGS ABOUT SHADOW WORK ALL DAY BAAAJAJAMKAK

    • @theauburnfirefox8767
      @theauburnfirefox8767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I LEGIT WAS LIKE I KNOW I NEED TO DO MY SHADOW WORK BUT I CANT BE BOTHERED THEN THEY SENT THIS VIDEO

    • @Alisa-jc2kb
      @Alisa-jc2kb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hii! I love your videos!

  • @TheWitchOfWonderlust
    @TheWitchOfWonderlust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    ily

  • @ravendelacour1917
    @ravendelacour1917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    This may sound like an odd technique, but if you instinctively seek out music when having an emotional reaction it's a good step to take a look at the vibe that music gives you. Often we'll instinctively seek out music that embodies either the buried cause of the trauma or the vibe we need to embrace to overcome it.

  • @TheVerdantSorcerer
    @TheVerdantSorcerer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    These are particular ones for me-
    1.Why do you have the same negative physical reaction to excitement as you do to fear?
    2.Why does finding out that you are wrong about something inconsequential make you feel humiliated and stupid?
    3. Why do you get angry, spiteful, and aggressive when someone points out a personal flaw that you know is true?
    4. Why won't you allow yourself to be bad at something until you've put in the necessary time to be good at it.

    • @erincrystalexe9125
      @erincrystalexe9125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Number 3 hits hard like a truck... I feel called out

    • @pickletown
      @pickletown ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This entire list resonates deeply for me.

  • @thepagesofsamantha
    @thepagesofsamantha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    I really liked that you included the fact that therapy isn't always available or an option for some people. I feel like we tend to forget that and we definitely need to recognize it. those questions made me feel icky which I suppose means I have more shadow work to do myself lol
    when I do shadow work, I like to work through my triggers and why those specific things are triggers for me and how I can work through them in a positive way. I also think it's important to validate yourself while doing shadow work. writing down the words "it's okay that you're feeling like this" or "my feelings are valid and are not wrong" helps me A LOT

  • @layneholiday2818
    @layneholiday2818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    One prompt I really like is, list 20 things you like about yourself then write an apology letter to yourself for tearing yourself down. It's great for days when I feel like there's nothing to like about me and makes me acknowledge why I feel negatively about myself

    • @spiritkaetzchen9164
      @spiritkaetzchen9164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have a lot of respect for you for doing this! I deeply struggle with this too. and I dont think I am currently capable of doing something like that right now. So best of luck to us both I guess

    • @erincrystalexe9125
      @erincrystalexe9125 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can I use this for my future shadow work?

  • @ekultneb1331
    @ekultneb1331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I was literally just about to research how to do shadow work when this came up on my phone.😯🙃

    • @Myke_thehuman
      @Myke_thehuman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That upside-down smiley face is...terrifying.

    • @mmalove98
      @mmalove98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Myke_thehuman I like this combo 🙂🙃

    • @kerryanne3962
      @kerryanne3962 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Top tip we all have a shadow side, I've found the light seer tarot very inspirational that challenges you to acknowlege the shadow and embrace it, I'm 60 years old now I'm a crone, this is a gentle approach, hope this helps. Blessed Be

    • @shankaka_99
      @shankaka_99 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      saw this at 111 liked

    • @veryberry8085
      @veryberry8085 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same hahaha

  • @honeyedcyndaquils4363
    @honeyedcyndaquils4363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I just realized I've been accidentally doing shadow work activities thanks to a very good councilor I had who taught me how to breakdown my reactions and emotions. Big thanks to that guy, I don't know how far I would've gotten without him.

    • @you_gullible_fucc
      @you_gullible_fucc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I accidentally set myself up to be prepared for shadow work because I'd imagine a version of me who had never undergone through these traumatic events, and they became this person I needed but never had: a person who spoke up about how wrong the things I've experienced are, and through that I began to realize that my self-perception is flawed and needs reflecting

    • @Noa3882
      @Noa3882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same. I didn’t even realize I’ve been doing shadow work for so long without even realizing it. I had to do “shadow work” before I could go to therapy when I was child. It’s interesting how a lot of people have done this but didn’t even know.

    • @khyati7733
      @khyati7733 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you guys give some practical tips on how to break stuff down? Im a complete beginner and dont have anyone to guide me

  • @halosandhorns8330
    @halosandhorns8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    So im actively telling people that they need therapy. WE ALL COULD USE SOME THERAPY.
    My shadow work prompt:
    Your shadow self manifested into a physical form (a person) and you have a conversation. Write it out. You can write in tandem or shadow then yourself.

  • @JacquelineParker
    @JacquelineParker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Shadow work is so difficult for me. My brain has so many blocks and walls up that prompts literally trigger nothing, zilch

    • @oliviam3551
      @oliviam3551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      same !!
      I've tried doing shadow work but honestly its just made me realize how many problems I have, not how to solve them.
      If I could heal through shadow work, I would but I genuinely don't know how because most prompts aren't "deep" enough to make me feel something.

    • @halosandhorns8330
      @halosandhorns8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      When you get to a block ask where that came from. When did i build this wall? What am i trying to protect myself from? Allow the wall to fall away with trust not force.

    • @JacquelineParker
      @JacquelineParker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@halosandhorns8330 that's actually really helpful, thank you

    • @halosandhorns8330
      @halosandhorns8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JacquelineParker glad i could be helpful. ❤

    • @itsntok6071
      @itsntok6071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@oliviam3551 But where do those problems stem, and why are you avoiding them? Why don’t you address them?

  • @risingphoenix8889
    @risingphoenix8889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    As a licensed therapist, I think you did great job explaining this concept. I appreciate you also letting people know that there are going to be times when therapy will be needed, especially when there is some pretty complex trauma. :)

  • @EricaSantos-mp1bz
    @EricaSantos-mp1bz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    We were just learning about the shadow and shadow work in my Theories of Personality class. My professor said to watch out for shadow work workbooks sold online bc lots of them are just looking for profit and guarantee gaining things in your life bc of doing/buying their shadow workbook that's not ever guaranteed! So just a tip to be careful of for anyone in the comments. I think it's important to keep in mind that Jung was a racist, pro-colonization, nazi-sympathizer, sexist, religious forcing, and stole some of his work from other cultures as his own ideas.

    • @onyxhydrangea
      @onyxhydrangea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Yes! This! Carl Jung also didn't "invent" it. He coined the term sure and placed them in an organized study. But the idea and many techniques within shadow work existed within many different cultures, practices, and religions before he came along. He just put it together.

    • @ashestoashes78
      @ashestoashes78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏

    • @khyati7733
      @khyati7733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wait what?! I did not know anything about him 😅 i guess that's what I get for getting all my info on TH-cam lol

    • @shepherdessofskymeadow
      @shepherdessofskymeadow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Um, what? Those are some pretty hefty allegations that would go better with some cited source material.

    • @EricaSantos-mp1bz
      @EricaSantos-mp1bz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shepherdessofskymeadow I had just replied but no longer see my reply. I'm not sure if it's because I provided links in my reply? Or maybe Chaotic Witch Aunt does not want links in their comment section. If emails are allowed you can leave yours and I'll be happy to resend my reply.

  • @esoclectic
    @esoclectic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Some of my favourite prompts to cry over & ones I have to revisit regularly:
    What is it that makes others genuine but not you? What would make you good enough/real enough to what you project? Why do you consider yourself false where you trust others?
    Why do you make allowances for others you would not give yourself?
    What are your problems with authority and why do you always fold in the face of authority despite wishing not to?

    • @shibalol1969
      @shibalol1969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how did you reply 8 hours ago

    • @lolal-t2027
      @lolal-t2027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shibalol1969 patreon

    • @shibalol1969
      @shibalol1969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lolal-t2027 i didnt know that was a existing thing , 2 reply early LMAO thank you

    • @oneirodynia8863
      @oneirodynia8863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank youuuu so much oml this are the exact prompts I need

    • @CleaSelene
      @CleaSelene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just gonna throw it out there, have you ever considered turning no. 2 around as well? Why do you not make the allowances you make for others for yourself? Just a thought from a perfectionist with sometimes unhealthily high standards for her self...😅

  • @the_air_is_thick_with_magi6880
    @the_air_is_thick_with_magi6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    My 3 prompts i got from this are:
    When you think of the word failure, what springs to mind?
    What does your inner, truly real and authentic you look like? In what ways do the inner and outer selves not match up?
    How many times per week do you feel strong negative emotions? How often out of those times do you dismiss and/or feel guilty about those emotions?

  • @L3N0R4L4N3
    @L3N0R4L4N3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I'm working on a prompt where you break down the qualities of a character you obsess over and a character you despise, see why you have that strong emotional response to that character, and identify the traits that you share with those characters. It's been a really interesting and enjoyable one!
    But, then again, I really like shadow work. It's like a huge weight coming off my shoulders every session! I like to think shadow work is like you're disassembling yourself, cleaning and polishing the parts, then putting everything back together again!

    • @abhilasha9608
      @abhilasha9608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is a really good idea! Thank you for sharing it!💜

  • @oneirodynia8863
    @oneirodynia8863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Not me avoiding Shadow work and my bestie reminding me only for me to see this video thanks Frankie🧍‍♀️

  • @rozagrabowska8258
    @rozagrabowska8258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    If anyone is Buddhist or interested in Buddhist meditation, I highly recommend "Feeding your demons" by Lama Tsultrim Allione! There is a guided meditation here on TH-cam and you can also buy her book I believe!

    • @calicedetamarack
      @calicedetamarack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Great for non buddhists, as it's not an actual Buddhist practice but inspired by it.

  • @maskedpanda8502
    @maskedpanda8502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Also, one thing that can be helpful is to remember that shadow work doesn't always have to use prompts. if they don't work, you can just sort of feel around and try to see what you can address at that point. That's how mine goes because a lot of the time what I have to address is directly tied to a trauma, and it can be extremely dangerous to try and process something you aren't ready for. Though, this doesn't mean just avoid it, rather I guess just sort of wait and listen to your mind for what it is ready to address.

    • @ShadowWork
      @ShadowWork 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I start mine with meditation

  • @decilleg1120
    @decilleg1120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I haven’t done shadow work because I’ve never known how to start but then I saw this and I was like *CLICK CLICK CLICK*

  • @lavenderlillith1566
    @lavenderlillith1566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I started my shadow work by writing down who I am. The cut and dry facts like my height, colour of my eyes and such. Then the next thing I did was writing how I see myself, allowing my insecurities to do the talking.... Gave me alot of insight what I need to work on ^^'

  • @kizzyuzui1497
    @kizzyuzui1497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    what you said about mental illness not necessarily being a thing that needs to be ‘fixed’ hit so hard for me. i’d been thinking and saying for awhile about how my mental illnesses aren’t just these components or problems that have been “put on” me, they’re an aspect of who i am. and as you said, shadow work and the likes is more so about *accepting* these parts of yourself and working from there (obv i’m not saying to continue being depressed or anxious etc., but more so don’t view these things as something that makes you less than)

  • @StarSeedMe
    @StarSeedMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just wanna heal the depression that has always been with me and that is extremely painful. I just wanna be happy and feel joy being born from within me.

  • @mlina1985
    @mlina1985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    my favourite prompt is "What am I afraid of being true right now and what would be so bad about that being true?". If I'm able to remember "when was the first time I felt a similar feeling?" .
    Another great source for shadow work is Teal Swan. Highly recommend her videos on this topic.

  • @figuringthingsout9305
    @figuringthingsout9305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Not me pulling The Devil card reversed right before I saw this video. Tarot deck said "You about to level up but you need to do some letting go" :)

  • @teyahshuman8343
    @teyahshuman8343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    ✨ Prompts ✨
    9:00
    10:00
    13:05
    14:20

  • @Myke_thehuman
    @Myke_thehuman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Well now we need a statue of Frankie called the all knowledgeable Frankie.

  • @L3onking
    @L3onking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I would definitely say that successfully establishing a harmony with our Shadow allows for an accelerated ascendance into enlightenment. It's easier to navigate our mental landscape when you can see your whole self

  • @RunaStrong
    @RunaStrong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I do the same thing!! I ask what their child needed and say "okay now give that to yourself now. You still need it." and i'm so glad i'm not the only one pushing that message. It's so important!

  • @destinylentini
    @destinylentini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One topic that gets me every time is "What was one time you remember feeling wronged as a child? How did you react? Has this affected you into adulthood? How?" Whenever I think about it, it can cause 2 emotions, sometimes I can feel myself get frustrated especially if im physically talking about it to someone or it makes me cry.. but I feel like most of my issues now stem from my childhood... ive tried to accept it and just move on but I found that even tho I say I've accepted it and will move on from it, whenever the topic pops up I still find myself in the same emotions of anger and/or sadness.. which makes me feel that I still have yet to fully accept it and forgave those that hurt me in my childhood..

  • @GigiGravesXX
    @GigiGravesXX 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I don't thinkmy mental health needs to be fixed" loves that and feel that soon much.

  • @sierras8199
    @sierras8199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love this intro! Carl Jung's name is pronounced like "yung" 😊

  • @vampiricvirgo
    @vampiricvirgo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I would love for you to do a video on veiling! I feel drawn to the practice but feel like I can’t do it bc I don’t have a good enough reason- it wouldn’t be for a deity or because I’m an empath. Maybe you could discuss different reasons for veiling within the witchy and pagan communities and your experience with it?

    • @tbd287
      @tbd287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They talk about veiling in their empath protection videos if you haven’t seen them!

  • @luciasoosova2182
    @luciasoosova2182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    You pronounce J in Jung like y in yoghurt.

  • @crystalhotz3441
    @crystalhotz3441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
    THIS ALL OF THIS YESSSSSS
    As a psych student and an avid fan of Carl Jung's work, this is so good! Thank you so much for making this! It's all therapeutic work! It takes time, energy, and can often be life long work. It is okay to go and seek therapy, and it is okay to to explore "shadow work". Carl Jung also discussed dream work as a form of shadow work and believed the tarot can also help as a therapeutic practice!!

  • @NimeetaA
    @NimeetaA 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know how others do it but for me, I imagine a little me inside of me. Whenever i get triggered or feel strong emotions, I imagine hugging her tight and crying/feeling the full spectrum of emotions along with her. I let my emotions run its course. It helps for now

  • @rachelselima2609
    @rachelselima2609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE all the definitions, tips, and advice you gave on the subject of shadow work, but particularly that you encouraged people to study the psychological roots of it in Carl Jung. He's such a giant resource in psychology, and I feel often gets glossed over in the modern arena of mysticism, psychology, and self-improvement.
    One of my personal prompts in shadow work is based off of the old saying, "The mark of insanity is doing the same thing, and expecting different results." When I find myself in a rut, to which the solution isn't readily evident, I ask myself, "What in this situation have I been repeating, that hasn't helped me get to my desired goal?" Sometimes it takes a lot of introspection, but sometimes just looking at the patterns, the problem becomes self evident, and just starting by eliminating the repetitive element starts me on the better path.

  • @bugsnhugs
    @bugsnhugs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you! I was so tired of people being like “do ur shadow work🤬🤬” and it just gave me so much anxiety, especially thinking I had to do it by myself :/ thank u!!!!!!! ily!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @lyndseymichele
    @lyndseymichele 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    BEST shadow work video (article, read etc etc) I have ever seen.

  • @only_aster1450
    @only_aster1450 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so happy you mentioned the stewing on your emotions part! I sort of started shadow work without knowing what it even was in the sense that I started trying to acknowledge the parts of me I didn’t like, and the one thing that always got me was I would always try to be that “bigger person” right away; I wouldn’t allow myself to feel my emotions and instead approach them head on with “why do you feel that way?” It ended up being an alternative way of invalidating my emotions which was what I was trying to heal in the first place lol

  • @symone1858
    @symone1858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve seen other comments make this statement but I’m going to add it as well. if you are someone who has PTSD/C-PTSD, DID/OSDD, And BPD it is not recommended to do shadow work alone. I am someone who has C-PTSD and I can speak from personal experience. It is highly recommended to have a therapist or a counselor to help you with that. Since those disorders are trauma based disorders, it can be very difficult to work through those disorders on your own without treatment. Now I know that therapy is a privilege and not everybody has access to them, so work at your own pace and with the resources that you have. I hope everyone is doing well and being able to push forward on their healing journey. I’m proud of all of us❤️

  • @laylajules5999
    @laylajules5999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Started shadow work this week. Been avoiding it for a while.

    • @kamrynn6382
      @kamrynn6382 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too, i started on march 1st but i always avoided it tooo.

  • @sunboi3736
    @sunboi3736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Surrender, the past and what it holds, forgive the present for its trials, accept the future and imbrace the change you want to experience.

  • @jstevens773
    @jstevens773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i realized how much i’ve let my mental health go and then five minutes after i came to that conclusion this can up on my feed. thank you. i really needed this

  • @yourlocalcryptidd
    @yourlocalcryptidd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    for me, shadow work is feeling things from the past and working though those emotions. I try to understand why some things happened or why i did some things instead of hating myself or being ashamed of it. I slowly make it easier to think about traumatic events and think through what happened. Most of this was without a therapist, because when I was in therapy it was really stressful for me. Currently I'm focusing on my anxiety and figuring out causes and how to cope so I can go to therapy again and continue going to therapy.

    • @ChaoticWitchAunt
      @ChaoticWitchAunt  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really feel this, and understand that therapy is difficult and stressful for a lot of people. This sounds like it's working for you, and that is the most important part.

  • @santuseal4670
    @santuseal4670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, I recently got into witchcraft and feel really overwhelmed with what I should be doing and how I should start. At first I saw your tiktoks and now I found your TH-cam channel. And I really like watching your content. I hope to learn a few things from you as a baby witch. Sending my love.❤️

    • @ClownzTownz
      @ClownzTownz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cleansing, protection, grounding, shielding, centering, meditation, etc

    • @santuseal4670
      @santuseal4670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ClownzTownz yes, thank you. I have started with reading and researching more books on witchcraft and they have been helping me understand most of the things now.

  • @beyandel8680
    @beyandel8680 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uplifting fallen Humanity...is definitely not easy but well worth the Awards.Thank you...

  • @tallgeek1131
    @tallgeek1131 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have done shadow work with a therapist (didn't know that was what it was called, it was just a visual exercise) and I can confirm it is I N T E N S E but rewarding once you start working with it.

  • @Bbkeegs
    @Bbkeegs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my opinion, in my non-professional opinion lol, I feel like shadow work is similar to EMDR. Very similar. Except, EMDR would be more so to “fix” specific traumas. EMDR is don’t with a therapist, not on your own. Very hard to do on your own, without a therapist!! I love your descriptions on everything. Thank you!

  • @NylonCunt1189
    @NylonCunt1189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for making this video, this is the first video i've seen that explains it well. Also without even knowing it, i've been doing shadow work for about a year and a half now, it started then I started therapy, and that was the number one thought that came to my head when hearing about this: therapy.

  • @littledarling2190
    @littledarling2190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really love your explanation. I am still in an environment where I'm in survival mode and have tried to do the shadow work so I can feel better. But I should be patient with myself and know when I'm ready instead of forcing.

  • @erinlayke
    @erinlayke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the recommendation of Jim, I went directly over to his page. I've been practicing for well over 17 years now but never had the opportunity to have a mentor due to the fact that I live deep in the Bible Belt South. I was even bullied out of one middle school for being called a witch, being 2004, they loved Harry Potter and The Craft but hated the fact that someone might actually be a witch. I just turned 30 this year and I still growing, so for anyone feeling lost or stuck, it takes time, I'm glad we are all able to share on this platform.

  • @LiminalDoll
    @LiminalDoll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this because I agree some people use it in a weird way and don't even know what they are talking about as the concepts they are working on. It's really interesting cause I also break it down into those. Most of mine are fear based. Sometimes it's just but recently I forgave something that was taking up too much space. It took a year of intensive therapy to get to that point. It's very hard work and important.

  • @Fleur_Ink94
    @Fleur_Ink94 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me shadow work helped me to accept my autism instead of brushing it under the carpet. It is useful as if i know truly what i want, who is my core self, my spellwork becomes more powerful. ❤😊

  • @HouseCatTV
    @HouseCatTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you say shadow work is only recent in terms of being regarded as essential you are 100% right. I was part of the witchcraft community from about 1999-2007ish and only recently came back to it in late 2018 - when I did, I had NEVER heard of shadow work. Or if I had, it wouldn't have been in a memorable way. So while I have a lot of knowledge from those years in the noughties, shadow work was a completely new concept to me.

    • @HouseCatTV
      @HouseCatTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      For the record I had also never heard of black salt 🤔🤔

  • @kimberlysharp2780
    @kimberlysharp2780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this! I greatly appreciate the energy, thought, research and time you put in to your videos. 💗
    You may not be "The All-Knowledgable Frankie", but you are, to me and many, a source of inspiration and information.
    Be well and safe, all the best to you and yours. 💗

  • @alexsmith319
    @alexsmith319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been an avid listener of Around Grandfather Fire and a fan of Jim Two-Snakes for so so long. I feel like this is the best crossover EVER.

  • @billymoltisanti7565
    @billymoltisanti7565 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are my favourite witch. What I have learnt is that the people who you love the most, those are the ones who can make your shadow emerge faster than strangers.

  • @ShadowWork
    @ShadowWork 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for SOMEONE for finally SAYING THAT! I had to mention in my Shadow Work channel that to do Shadow Work, you need to be of some psychological maturity and have a healthy self esteem. My advice to others is to continue with Chaotic Witch Aunt's other great videos first before you do shadow work of some kind if you feel you're not in the right frame of mind.

  • @yazxx3304
    @yazxx3304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am honestly so absolutely greatful you started this channel, I was so lost within the world of witchcraft and finding myself but you and your videos have guided me so much. I appreciate you dearly❤

  • @TheLakeWitchWriter
    @TheLakeWitchWriter 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi! Coming from just not having an idea what to journal about and your videos about shadow work and trauma-based promts were popping u on my suggestion page, thanks for explaining it more.

  • @ryderlynch3198
    @ryderlynch3198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I do my shadow work I use a “who,what,when,where,why and how” prompt. This way it allows me to grow off of each entry and see my growth and progress!

  • @DestinedClock18
    @DestinedClock18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just started getting interested in this today, and after listening I’ve realized that I’ve been doing some of this for a while already, analyzing my emotions and why

  • @cflo.tography9730
    @cflo.tography9730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just started my shadow work journey this week, i will be watching this video on repeat for a bit don’t mind me

  • @lesliedavidson95
    @lesliedavidson95 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad I seen this video before buying one of those prompt book.

  • @take67806
    @take67806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The mentioning of your inner child immediately made me cry.. I'm gonna go write about that, I guess

  • @AlastorTheNPDemon
    @AlastorTheNPDemon ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been doing something akin to shadow work in my mind for the past five years or so - maybe even lifelong - but the journaling bit is new. Here's to hoping the journaling part actually helps, because doing it "hands-free" only causes emotional spiraling and overthinking.

  • @noblesix6632
    @noblesix6632 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very insightful and informative.

  • @jessica2309
    @jessica2309 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m really glad i found this video because i was going to start my shadow work mainly because there are people on tiktok or social media who say “if you’re a beginner, do your shadow work” and i just blindly listened, i haven’t started yet, it after seeing this i don’t think i’m starting soon, i will when i’m ready :)

  • @shellyhelene814
    @shellyhelene814 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    discovered your account on TikTok and literally cannot stop watching. The deities are so fascinating

  • @Imaburrito69
    @Imaburrito69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was so insightful thank you

  • @emispook777
    @emispook777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i really really enjoyed this!!! blessed be

  • @rachellanggin
    @rachellanggin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hi, i regularly watch ur stuff and i just really wanted to comment to say that i really appreciated the ending of this video :') the entire video too but idk just hearing some of this was really helpful and appreciative and i haven't really heard it elsewhere. thank you

  • @adrianalinhares908
    @adrianalinhares908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I recently bought shadow work cards. Each card has a different word or idea that we may struggle with or need to work on and art that represents it. On the back of the cards are questions to get me thinking about it and an affirmation. Love these cards they’ve really helped me put meaning and words to what I feel! I’m really looking forward to continuing shadow work! Good luck to others who are also working on themselves ✨❤️

  • @cyprin9454
    @cyprin9454 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been seeing horoscopes and tiktok videos about starting shadow work. My sister told me to do it. And now this video? That's a sign I've ever seen one.

  • @sydneyhubbard7964
    @sydneyhubbard7964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I struggle with anxiety, so I like to journal about what made me anxious and why it brought up a fear reaction

  • @briacarter2349
    @briacarter2349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video.
    I have that problem of taking things personally....but asking "why did this upset me?" Is a good way to gain perspective.

  • @dindranew.6808
    @dindranew.6808 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so young to be so wise; I respect you, and I value your voice, despite the fact that I am ancient.

  • @annajosephinestark664
    @annajosephinestark664 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was amazing, thankyou ❤

  • @aleatoryEpiphany
    @aleatoryEpiphany 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THERAPY YES. I started shadow work at a recommendation from my therapist when we started trauma therapy because of how much I was struggling to accept the things I was learning. Ended up deeply tying it into my spiritual practice because my Tarot deck was amazing at slapping me around and going "No, that's not right, you're lying to yourself, be *honest*.", and it helped, so much, with so much of my life.

  • @breannabaker9458
    @breannabaker9458 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you talked about not being able to do shadow work because of a situation in which it’s just surviving and protecting yourself 24/7 I felt understood on such an astounding level for the first time, so thank you! I’ve managed to find an amazing therapist recently who is scary good so in about five months I’ll be able to do more self working outside of my sessions 🥰🥰

  • @awakenspirit3277
    @awakenspirit3277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm happy you recommend someone to see a counselor before doing shadow work because somethings can causes triggers. I thought I was the only one that thought that but you confirmed thank you for this video.

  • @mariangel5394
    @mariangel5394 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is the first video I have seen of yours and I can only say that it was of great help and that you are very pretty

  • @carabousoandso2648
    @carabousoandso2648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this. It was really educational.
    I'd actually never heard if "shadow work" before this. But it sounds almost identical to trauma work and mindfulness to me (I've been in therapy half my life, too). I'll probably do more reading up on it soon.

  • @sydneyleusink5513
    @sydneyleusink5513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found you on tiktok and ilysm 💜

  • @andrewshy4831
    @andrewshy4831 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love it when auntie (Chaotic witch aunt) posts!!!!!!

  • @veryberry8085
    @veryberry8085 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    back here again rewatching

  • @briandickie1451
    @briandickie1451 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a newbie; I appreciate your labor here. Thank you.

  • @JanieBee
    @JanieBee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Remember to watch and click on ads sometimes, yall 🤞🏾

  • @leastidyworld4365
    @leastidyworld4365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your cardigan.

  • @mx.maniac7521
    @mx.maniac7521 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Why do you take everything so personally”
    I took that personally😑

  • @MyrnNecromanson
    @MyrnNecromanson ปีที่แล้ว

    I had no access to a therapist and did shadow work and by GOD I AGREE. It hurt. Bad. I made it through but really should ha e had a professional too

  • @cactusparty3119
    @cactusparty3119 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This came right on time! I decided that I was finally ready for shadow work last night while in Astral. Thank you for the video! Blessed be!

  • @havingagoodtime2859
    @havingagoodtime2859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Had issues with trying to do more with my shadow work, I´ve gotten the light stuff over with. But now I have to dig through the heavy stuff. thanks for this upload

  • @anerdnamedalex8527
    @anerdnamedalex8527 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The past 3 spreads I’ve done have reminded me to finally start shadow work so.... here we are 🤪✌️

  • @em-tc6zr
    @em-tc6zr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's crazy; I've been looking into shadow work. You clearly are superior to us ✋😌🤚

  • @Lizwhynot
    @Lizwhynot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Betterhelp has been exposed as ...very bad. I used them and agree that they are a scam. They have issues charging folks when they shouldn't, and I paid for services I didn't get.
    They also have hired therapists who have no qualifications. Just need to point this out, as there's so many ads shoved into our faces and sponsorships but they're not good.

  • @andyrodriguezpina1497
    @andyrodriguezpina1497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am really loving your content, I am a baby witch and your videos explain amazingly some complicated concepts I have trouble understanding