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The idea of getting with a woman with a "casual" past is disgusting and repellent. Even if it is just one.
I recently heard some girls talking about possibly dating their male friends, and one of them said something like, "You have to consider your options. If you can do better, why would you settle for him?" It seems like this mentality is common. They dont see men as people. They look at men as "options," and they sort through them like looking at cars on a lot. They don't care about having a meaningful connection. They want the "option" that has the best features. They dont want a man that they can love. They want the man they can get the most out of. Why would any man date at all when he knows that he won't be wanted or valued as a person
Yep that's basic biology and evolution right there. This is why it's important for men to understand women are different they are not like us. We don't even experience emotion in the same way. We love them idealisticlly they love us opportunisticly. All throughout history men have been the disposable gender. If you get a girl love her moderately, don't ever let your love grow greater than the love she feels for you. If that happens her instincts are going to kick in and she'll have no issue dropping you and moving on to the next guy if she feels she can do better.
@raizen21ss56 I'd rather just date a woman that has a sense of integrity. As men we have our own biological impulses but the world demands that we keep them in check. Certainly, if I search the entire world, i can find a culture where women are taught not to do wrong simply because it's wrong to do regardless of what their hormones are telling them to do
@raizen21ss56 i dont think that's the problem. Men also have biological impulses that push us to view women in dehumanizing ways, but we teach men to curb thst shit from an early age. Additionally, women in different cultures don't put such heavy emphasis on what they get out of men. The problem is entirely that western cultures teach women that this is the entire point of having a man around, and that if he cant give them the what they want, he should be thought of as "useless"
It looks more like a cultural problem than a matter of biology to me. Men also have biological impulses that push us to view women in dehumanizing ways. We dont excuse those things. We teach men that it's wrong from an early age. Additionally, women in other cultures understand that this is wrong and dont accept that sort of treatment of men because they weren't brought up to think it's ok. This is just a problem with western culture
Love this chat. I think your both right I do side favorably with Rai. Society can possibly mitigate natural hypergamy, I think having higher on average SAT scores helps but TH-cam won’t let me talk about that Avenue, but I don’t know to what degree hard coded hypergamy can be mitigated. I think Raizen is correct almost entirely in that I think they are wired that way because of a few stats we can look at like f*male emotional recovery averages. They recover very quickly from breakups but it’s known guys don’t. I think that we can clearly see which species likes one more than the other. For guys en masse we like them way more than they like us. It’s hard to think of other people as “models” with “features” and the idea that selection preferences that we can see in dating apps and just general marriage success qualities seems to indicate an almost solipsistic world view from the ‘fairer species’. You can say, “some” or excuse it. But general trends can’t be excused and they do seem to indicate qualities that aren’t good in general. I wonder if our neighboring species are capable of caring for men the same way the male species does with them. I’ve never really had a hard time with objectifying w*men, and am not really sure if this is all assisted by a vain culture that targets and brings out w*mens worst qualities. I think they have a cruel competitive nature, but I think a healthy culture could help bring out their humanity more.
I see these bad qualities in w*men that I think have good records and are of good stock in my own life. That’s what worries me. Even the good g*rls view guys like cars. It’s Ironic that modern fe*inism seems to paint males as viewing w*men similar to cars and cheeseburgers, when the reality seems even worse for w*men who view men as ATM’s. Since love, intimacy, and affection is so scarce and precious as a man, I find it bewildering and confusing that someone couldn’t value having it as one of the most valuable things in life more valuable than almost anything in life. But I guess if we could easily have it, we might take it for granted too.
Without God there is no purpose to anything.
I'm 44 and haven't dated in 8 years. Simply isn't possible to meet women's insane standards, and given how often men get screwed in divorce/etc, I don't even want to anymore.
🐈 was much better and easier back in the 2000s wasn't it!?
No
Only the best looking men meet the criteria. They’re the only 1% getting majority of women. It’s truly over in the west and is spreading worldwide. The elites plotted this all along because once you give women power, it all wreaks havoc.
I'm in my early 30s, make just over $130k/year, have my own place with no debt besides the mortgage, am 6'00'' and better than average looking... and dating is still BRUTAL now. Every woman is "talking to" multiple men. Every woman comes with a catch (kids, a drinking habit, massive debt, etc). It's hard to keep motivation to go for more when it seems like I have enough for my needs and I'll never meet a normal woman worth pursuing. I know A LOT of guys in my position right now
It’s over a new age is about to dawn heck it has to something has to give. Get saved. Believe in the blood atonement of Christ Jesus.
Bruh please leave USA tbh you have the money just sell the house and move abroad honestly
I wonder what men think average is because ...
This isn’t really a new thing…it’s just gotten worse. I was 35 when I got married to a Filipina who was living in Greenwich, CT. She was a God fearing woman from the provinces in the Philippines. Best choice I ever made. Her goal in life was not a career…it was to be my wife. What a blessing she has been. Married now 30 years. Get your passport!
I think by 2040, as a man you will either be Genghis Khan, or worthless cannon fodder (bottom 99.5%)
I turned my back on society I was right all this time society is wrong.
Same I did just that back in 2014. But since last year I stood firmly on it. It has to burn
Let me guess you’re underage
Never forgive never forget
Only idiots and shit brains think that we owe anything to society or anyone.
Shit straight out of patrick bateman sigma edit
I'm working in a factory where more than half of the employees are older generations, and today I got a reality check when I got told how young people today have it easier in terms of employment and work. I'm starting to lose faith in finding understanding among boomers/gen x.
In my case, I didn't have a father, I didn't have any support, my mother sabotaged everything I tried to do and belongings, my extended family betrayed me, the schools are designed towards educating girls at the expense of boys, I get taxed hard, the Welfare system ignores me because of my race/religion/malehood/politics/gender preference, the economy is terrible, I can't get a job, I'm homeless, and demonized at every turn and/or blamed for all of the problems in the world. I don't have anything going for me to build up my life, yet I am expected to take on everyone else's responsibilities. Us Millenials got hit first. Now you Gen Z-ers, and later Gen A, are going to suffer what we got stuck with.
OF COURSE I'D HATE AMERICA!!!!!
@malumnexus7919 I agree with you up to the last line. America the country was great and could be again. But the GOVERNMENT has turned on the people, flooded our country with military aged men, and sold us out to foreign interests. It's not new. We were sold out since the early 1900's. It has just gotten so much worse recently. Something needs to change, and soon!
Seek the Lord, and he will provide all that your heart desires.
@@thekangaroo42America was never great.
@@thekangaroo42you were sold out in 1918, and some may even argue earlier then that.
Honestly it's because of Jesus Christ I'm fine with being single forever, woman's love is conditional but God's love is unconditional. It's hard to want anything other than a relationship with Christ because He's the living water, the bread from Heaven and He'll sustain you! God bless!
Am 28 Hispanic Male.
Went to college work my ass off and once I graduated my career path collapse due to pandemic and Ai.
- due to the pandemic I force to work a dead end job
- my depression has been in a decline am basically like the Ottoman empire where it was on its last leg.
- Never had a relationship not even school. I only ask 2 girls out one in 2015 and the other 2023, after 2nd one I pretty much gave up.
- I have no dept, no drama, have a busy life with job, design animations, and working out.
@unisangalaxystudio Are you me? But seriously, I feel your pain. I'm a bit older, but I was destroyed financially in 2008, then again for the lockdowns. They started outsourcing my engineering career, and wages are the lowest they have ever been. Just got out of a job that only paid about HALF of what i would need to afford a house loan. Keep working out, brother! I'll hit the gym, too!
Thanks
I do gym everyday before going to work
More than young guys. I just turned 42. My whole life has been like this.
I'm sorry man. Thats a pretty horrible life.
You’re right. You need Christ.
The struggle and hard work is worth it but only in a society and culture worth contributing to and living in, but we don't have that goodness nowadays. I'd rather work towards the revolution and a higher state and higher culture.
I’m 25 and I have to live at home unless I want to drop 2k a month on rent or buy a house which starts at 500k plus around me lmao. How are we supposed to get married or have kids when we can’t even move out because jobs don’t pay anywhere near close to the living standards.
There is no political solution
We can’t expect God to do all the work…
…in record numbers*
It is not like young men are giving up. We literally got sent our own way.
Monk living since the early 2010. Serenity is my purpose.
Insomnia and lack of eating. What does one do? It's like that movie Fight Club. Just awake, but asleep at the same time. Amazon nesting routines.
Are you saying you have bad insomnia? I absolutely hate when I get insomnia. You feel so crappy the next day.
@@stevearnold8265 Chronic levels. I call it "guinea pig" sleep. 1 hour sleep. One hour awake. 3 hours asleep. Awake for 2 hours. then sleep for 1 hr wake up 30 mins then wake up.
That's a good night. Worse night so far has been 3 hrs for a whole day then 1 hour in middle of day. I read and study a lot, instead of video games to not spiral into a "slurred inactive" mind with a body that can stay awake like this.
If I did play video games with my current diet, I'd probably stay awake for multiple days at a time. I eat meat and greens, very little bread. Prefer to get carbs at meal time from sugar (no corn syrup) sodas or juices. Kept things cheap until 2020 inflation. :/
It's a double edged sword to do positive things with no purpose in life. You end up in this weird nesting routine waiting for nothing. The best thoughts are you getting hit by lighting and happily fluttering away.
Then you have the other side of the coin of doomers on the streets or in their mom's basement with no purpose just rotting away. I get them. I kind of even envy them.
Great thoughts! I have 2 sons (22 and 260 and hope they will watch these videos. Thanks, keep it up!
With the blatant lack of purpose and likely lack of understanding on how to even exist, on top of likely a life rather free of hardship to the point of simply coasting (speaking for myself at least). We have effectively made male living into an existence in a limbo equitable to that of a coma patient. Alive, but never having lived (again speaking for myself).
I feel that man but keep the faith
@@garry8390 All I got anymore.
Men are seen as a disposable battery. Just something to use and dispose of when no longer useful and replaced.
Life is worthless and we live it coz we lack the balls to end it
people will wake up slowly, but they are
I woke up and realized society isn’t worth helping or being a “good citizen”. I turned my back on society and only help those who are family or very very close friends.
But in public I don’t help strangers especially women.
The only people I help is when I see a veteran especially older ones who did pay a high price, I will help them. But no one else.
Nailed it.
I'm joining the Amish
Seems like the best move lol. They’ve had it right the whole time.
Fr Amish and Mormons seem to have it figured out
I saw my first Amish couple at a Texas Roadhouse in Bowling Green, KY. Homeboy was watching Sportscenter!!! I was like you're allowed to watch TV? Lmao
We have no reason to grow up or move out and save money if we have no marriage prospects. That was the biggest reason for us to move out and do more, but that hope is gone, so no point in doing anything else, and im 26. I see no point in moving out while my younger siblings are already engaged.
Matthew 7:21-23 CSB
[21] “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven. [22] On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, didn’t we prophesy in your name, drive out demons in your name, and do many miracles in your name?’ [23] Then I will announce to them, ‘I never knew you. Depart from me, you lawbreakers!’
Love this channel, keep it up man. You're one of the few people on YT speaking the truth.
It's always been hard. I'm 51 years old. It's still hard and now getting older. It's even harder.
God is the answer
Thanks, Jennerr. I’ll hit the gym and go to church.
Find that good woman, have beautiful children with her, build that dream home for y'all and then get wrecked in divorce court because she feels 'something is missing', move into a 500 Dollar shithole, and have your beautiful ex-wife poison the kids against you, while she gets her back blown out by the guy who has now moved into your ex-house. 1 in 2 chance.
Ur an inspiration bro
thanks king
@@jennerrr Serve your race, not God.
Imagine living in NYC
N Carolina is cheap 😅
Grew up/currently living in the Boston metro. A friend's dad was told us, a group of my friends and I, straight out of highschool in the 80s he was making $22 an hour working at a GE factory. Good luck finding any job that'll pay that today, let alone straight out of high school.
Dawg how many times are you gonna upload the same video over and over lol
show starting tmrw king - this is the last normal video
Lol, while I agree it’s the same topic, I’m enjoying all of them.
FO REAL!!!!
Plan B
1.) adopt a kid, don't get marry
2.) passport, start a brand or solve something
3.) Serve & Honor in all you do
Might use this ngl 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@user-mt2yc2po8q also adopting a pet help, specifically if you can develop “you need me, I need you’ relationship
2:30 …major wars at least provided that purpose…men were joining left and right to defend the country etc. We don’t really have that any more. Most men lack purpose.
Old men too
It was a quite an enlightening experience to realize that most people CAN’T be atheist. It requires a very particular kind of mind and personality to stare into that void and go, “this is fine.”
Niezteche described a kind of anti-nihilism, where it was meant to be freeing rather than demoralizing, but again, it requires a very particular kind of person to make the most of that philosophy.
Funniest thing to do Gents is ordering food while showing off cash then stiffing the waitress on tip 😂
None of this advice is going to work. The west is cooked. Sorry.
Its world wide
the west has fallen...
Next generation going have it even harder too
Dating and jobs etc
AI and also immigration .
It's over
Zoloft helped me finally lose any sexual interest, freeing me from the pointlessness of it all.
Why would some guy mentor you
What will you offer him
I'm 44 married female, raising Gen Alpha boys and my heart breaks all the time for the world my boys have to inherit, we are killing ourselves to build something for them as your generation will get nowhere without some help from older generations... the boomers especially are just evil incarnate, living as old people in mansions whilst young people cant even start families... unprecedented selfish generation. I remeber my grandma (greatest generation), gave up her entire house so her youngest son and wife and kids could live in it, and they literally build her a tiny outhouse at the end of the land and she did all childrearing for them and worked in the fields growing food for her sons family well into her 80s, and she would always say how blessed and happy she was she could be of help to her son and grandkids... she was a God fearing gem 💎 of a woman... try finding that level of self sacrifice those pre boomer generations had now!! This is an evil world, but Jesus is King 🤴 🙏
And donate your millions to the church.
society is not normal the change of failure! 😮
I thought Islam was the fastest growing religion?
Hard to take Christianity seriously when you act like other religions are equal.
we're not giving up but all the benefits of marriage can be found outside of it, and be much less expensive.
A-thiesm is "the fastest growing RELIGION?" A-theism?
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