same. but i cant believe that tammy is being jealous but doent even try to lose weight. she could atleast try to walk more with her walking stick or whatever its called, shes not even making any effort!! amy needs more respect for TRYING and doing her best since shes exercising and eating healthier.
well... I think they need someone more supportive ASIDE FROM THEIR VERY BAD MOTHER. They need more support from other people so that they will have enough willpower. If I was their mother I would actually care and support them because if they dont get that surgery then it's technically the end. Real mothers would be really caring to them!
Isha Manga yes, support is very helpful but they can’t depend on other people to make their final decisions. At the end of the day, they only have themselves. But I do see where you’re coming from.
Tammy is staying in her married sister's house! Does she even realize how lucky she is to have someone take her into their home? Get me this, get me that...if you want something get up, and get it yourself while you still can. If I were her sister, I would stop fetching things for her.
Torchlight31 I see where you’re coming from and you make some valid points, however no one can force you to do something really. I’m sure Amy wasn’t force feeding her sister & they both are to blame, they have equal blame for this shitty situation they put themselves in. And it’s ultimately only up to themselves if they want to change and get out of it, they put themselves in it so they each have to get themselves out of it :/
Seriously! Amy doesn't HAVE to let her stay or help her AT ALL. Why can't Tammy be the slightest bit grateful. Amy was extremely reasonable saying can't you ask me to get the phone and the other thing at the same time instead of making it two trips. That's what triggered that fight. Selfish Tammy.
Honestly i think Tammy needs a therapist. I think she needs someone to vent to and can help her work out her guilt and trauma of being bullied and to help her deal with the psychological damage that comes from recognizing you need help but you’re not in a position to help yourself. She’s taking her own frustrations out on her sister. Amy doesn’t deserve that 😔
It’s shitty that they just have each other (basically Amy does have her husband for support) and being each other’s cheerleaders is vital in this! It’s so hard when you’re with that person 24/7 and don’t have an objective outlet to discuss things with. their MOM should be there for them but a professional definitely needs consulting. I’d be surprised if the producers don’t get them one soon
They both need counseling or therapy. If you watched their previous episodes they've mentioned them growing up in a poor environment where they were severely neglected and abused. The environment plays a big factor in anyone's growth, and it's obvious that their negative environment has indirectly pushed them towards using food as a coping/placebo mechanism.
Absolutely. She has an addiction and trauma she was pushing down with food, and now that she doesn't have food anymore, it's like it's all bubbling to the surface. She needs a safe place to work out her problems with someone who won't judge her or let her push them around.
fReSh bOnEs if shes so jealous about amy then she could try to have the sane effort as amy because all tammy is doing is sitting on the couch and saying that shes "trying" but in reality shes not even making the effort to stand up and get something from the other side of the room. put more respect on amy
@fReSh bOnEs they need over 3k calories a day, 1-3 180 cal sodas wont hurt much. Tammy also is flaunting her bf who is MARRIED all over social media. Tammy needs alot of work mentally.
Yeah, Tammy always plays victim, no one is falling for your victim sob story Tammy, she needs to grow up! Amy went through same things but she is trying her best!!
Plus, we never know if they actually ended up throwing it out, we never saw the bag actually getting disposed of. They might well have taken it to a food bank for all we know. And I certainly hope so, because I can't stand it when people waste food.
For a person who lives in her YOUNGER sister house, the sister that cares for her shops for her, Tammy is really rude to Amy I don't think I could ever talk to my sister's like that
@@Msanimefanatic25 exactly that! Because even though she isn't treated fairly, she still took care of her. Which shows respect and more maturity so I kinda agree with the comments that Tammy needs a therapist that she can talk or vent to because in my opinion, as long as she's staying with Amy and her husband, I think she'll take liberty of that fact and push blame onto them for things she can't do
@@edith_ing I did too, I think it's because she's the more responsible one and Tammy just lets her own personal garbage get the best of her and she acts like a petulant child instead.
Tammy really frustrates me. She's very melancholy and I think she needs some kind of treatment for depression, because where she thinks Amy is throwing her under a bus, I think Amy is trying to keep her accountable. Tammy comes across as very selfish, but I think it's a symptom of depression; I used to be exactly the same way. I used to think no one was listening to me and no one cared, but when I started to feel better, I started to realise that I wasn't asking for help or letting myself be listened to. I don't want to make this about myself, but I think Tammy needs to look deeper into why she has no motivation. Love this series you're doing!
Replying to myself to let everyone know I'm not a healthcare professional by any means, just someone with a history of clinical depression. I wanted to be completely clear :)
@fReSh bOnEs Most people are commenting about how Tammy IS struggling. They dislike how she is acting but realize she struggles too. Amy is doing better than her and is definitely working harder, which doesn't mean she's "better" just that she's doing better work towards her goal.
@ImYuri I sincerely apologise for offending you; it was never my intention to offend anyone, and I understand that depression is very different for everyone. To clarify, I was trying to point out that when I was actively depressed I struggled to understand things from others' perspectives because I was so caught up in my own head, and I feel that Tammy is in the same situation. That being said, I cannot say for sure how Tammy feels, and I really hope she gets the help she needs. I appreciate you helping me to learn to consider my words better and helping me be completely clear, especially when typing, so thank you.
@fReSh bOnEs no ones hating on her, we all damn well know she's struggling, EVERY comment I've seen you reply to are from people simply holding her accountable, not hating, whilst understanding its hard. Its like when I have treated my own family like shit when I was dealing with abuse trauma and people called me out for it, they understood that yes, I'm struggling but enabling my shitty behaviour aint it, that my struggles aren't an excuse. If anything you seem to hate on Amy, anytime someone sympathises for her and what she has to put up with you reply all angry like "everyone hates tamny, fuck amy she fucked them over with the sodas and she doesn't have it as hard" 🙄 the one holding Tammy back is Tammy, I can see that because I used to be JUST like her. Focus on the actual hateful comments toward her, you know the ones that mock what she looks like, mock how she ended up like that.
Tammy needs to learn that pain, no matter how small or how large, is equal. It's not pleasant for either of them, but I don't think she considers that Amy is hurting because all she wants is to help her sister along too? It definitely seems like Tammy isn't as serious about trying to lose weight etc however, and whilst I get its hard, it needs to be done... but she doesn't have the same motivition like Amy wanting a baby, but surely there must be something she wants in life that she won't achieve living her life the way she is... I do hope the both of them get better, but atm it seems like Amy's the only one focused on the end goal :/
Tammy I feel like is in denial in a sense, sure she wants to lose weight but I feel like when it comes down to it she doesn't actually bare down and put in the work. And trust me I know how hard it is to lose weight im not 500 lbs but I'm trying to lose weight myself so I understand the struggle but when your life is in danger it needs to be done there is no what if there is no I'll do it later you have to do it and you have to do it now
Tammy has a textbook case of self victimising, it's really childish and dangerous especially for her. Hope she gets past it, listens to Amy and loses a lot of weight.
Tell me about it! Tammy needs to stop self-victimising, it's the only way forward! Love you Tammy but you need HELP gurl!! Amy is doing great, Tammy never listens, shameful of you Tammy.
Maybe she’s hypersensitive? She looks like she’s been judge and bullied a lot in her life so now any remarks made toward her even if it’s to help her she feels like it’s an attack. She’s not helping her case being so disrespectful and ungrateful as if it is owed to her but that also maybe a reflect of their upbringing and how their own mother disregarded and disrespected and neglected them their whole life. Just being the devil’s advocate cause everyone is going at her rn it’s obvious she’s emotionally suffering and feeling she’s getting getting looked down on by her sister so she cries and get back at her to what she assumes is the same level of aggressiveness
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Tammy is In more physically pain than Amy, however Amy has to deal with other things besides Tammy such as work, shopping (tbh anything that involves moving) for everyone in the house. This means that Amy is more stressed. And Tammy needs to stop wining about how big she is. Everyone understands she’s in more physical pain.
I think physical unbalance like this is usually an indication of psychological issues or trauma. In addition to the dietician a therapist would have been awesome to have involved in their journey. Hope they can overcome their struggles 🤞
If you watched previous episodes they have mentioned that they grew up in a poor household where they were neglected and abused. They even said it themselves, they turned to food for comfort and it escalated to this.
The sisters are so funny but I seriously worry for their health. If they don't get help they won't have much longer. Edit: They actually seem to be doing better🥳. I hope they keep this up.
Well, they are "filmed", so of course they will react in a modrate way. Trust me, most of people are irritated and disgusted watching these episodes. I am.
@@mlr.9257 That's so true. Idk why Black Wings said something like that... Maybe he/she would be the person that is filmed but acts super cute and friendly and then is this: Disgusting.
"I'm still trying to figure out what the healthy foods are." I really wish the dietician had given them laminated sheets with pictures and descriptions of "healthy" foods in a typical grocery store, and maybe some recipes. Kentucky and Georgia are both southern states, so they'd have similar stores and they could get similar things from a Kentucky store that they would get at a Georgia store. I feel like the dietician didn't do her due diligence in educating Tammy and Amy in what is good food and what is unhealthy. It might not be her fault but she should have realized that they have no idea what is healthy when they were rattling off their list of foods with such zeal. I still have a gut feeling that Tammy and Amy were not only victims of abusive neglect by their mother, but possibly abuse by other people their mother let in the house (and maybe their own siblings). Their mother seems to be that kind of person too that was abused herself and perpetuated the cycle onto her own children. Don't get me wrong, their mother is an abusive piece of shit and her own abuse does NOT excuse her abusing other people - she needed to woman up and decide to break the cycle but she was too weak-willed to do so (either with help or by herself). Everyone in the household - Tammy, Amy, AND Michael - needs therapy and counseling.
You have a point, I am very surprised the dietician didn't educate them better about what is healthy, give them a grocery list etc. And I like that you mentioned Michael, poor guy, life must be tough for him too ! They all need therapy.
The person was listing off a list of items and to be honest we never saw what else they talked about. And the only vegetable they got wrong was the lettuce. And the other sister realized it was wrong. As a nutritionist, would you think that your clients, who are women in their thirties, and probably go to the supermarket more than once a week, to not know what a carrot is? Not saying that there won't be people who are ignorant to veggies, but I wouldn't put any blame on the nutritionist. As I said before we don't know what else they talked about, and the girls have already proved themselves knowledgeable. Depending on who you're working with showing pics of veggies to an adult would seem insulting. I would understand if she asked about them and didn't do it ☺️ But thank you for taking an interest in these girls health ❤️
I personally dont think the mom is “abusive”, i just think shes kind of a bitch. After all the mom did raise 5 kids by herself and thats not exactly easy, plus the way children turn out isnt 100% a parents fault. Just my opinion tho because harsh words are v common in asian households, especially about weight, but i personally wouldn’t consider it abuse.
I would think again about the use of the words "abusive neglect", especially considering the only thing we know about the mother is through their lens and we only know that she was a mother of five (that definitely has a terrible sense of how to say the truth in a less harmful way) and worked three jobs to support her kids while not showing them love in an obvious way (they also said they think she didn't know how to show how she cared as well.) I think that's not abusive neglect, it's just neglect due to the fact that she had to do so, so much to raise them. My dad doesn't work three jobs but he's been working all my life, and when he's not working, he's sleeping, and he rarely ever showed his love for me and my sisters growing up, so I felt like I barely knew him up until I was 13. And I feel like they would've probably mentioned abuse of other people seeing as they're very blunt women, just like their mother, to the point of plain rudeness half the time. So you could be right, but I have serious doubt about it, and that's a far jump to conclusions considering they definitely didn't allude to any of that when talking about her, and neither did the like 90 second clip of the mother and her pretty rude attitude give away hints to allude to that either.
Never mind, just started watching their fifth episode reaction to them. What an emotionally abusive woman, like you could at least spare them the pain of trying to deal with you their whole life by abandoning them once they grew independent of you, it'd probably be a lot better for them than keeping her energy around and trying to mend a relationship she's just NOT willing to fix. She's not even trying, no wonder they struggle with willpower.
Betsy Corona Utermohlen One would think a therapist or psychiatrist would be standard practice to bring in for someone facing major surgery, especially this kind. Because surgery can mess with your mind too, so you need to be prepared. But surgery or no, you’re flat out right, they need a therapist no matter which way things go
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@@Naomihere these specially obese people just lack proper sense and logic, you dont become that obese because you have "psychological issues" otherwise every depressed person would be that obese which isnt happening.
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@@Naomihere If you study these things and you are this ignorant then i feel sorry for the people in your field having idiots like you plaguing it, i was depressed at one point in time and started eating as way to comfort myself but once i realised i was gaining too much weight i simply started eating less and stopped the issue, ITS LITERALLY THAT EASY STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR THESE PEOPLE WHO ARE TOO LAZY TO FIX THEIR OWN ISSUES WHILE THEY BLAME OTHERS.
Tammy has such a victim mentality, we get that she's in pain but Amy's struggles aren't any smaller than hers because she's smaller, I don't get how she hasn't understood that.
tammys issues are worse than amys mainly because she can barely move but they equal struggle and need help, tammy needs to get her shit together and grow the fuck up
honestly, amy is doing everything. she's taking care of herself, her husband AND her sister. i can see why she reacted the way she did and i don't blame her one bit. she's trying to help out her sister and she's trying to help herself as well. tammy doesn't understand that if she doesn't try harder she could lose her life and that must be so hard to have in their minds. tammy needs to start appreciating her sister alot more and needs to try :(
I agree but it's not that simple. Oversimplification of a struggle is extremely bad advice, even slander to a certain extent. Don't generalize other people's adversity without understanding the entirety of the situation, it makes you look uninformed at best and apathetic at worst.
@@drive1293 I see where you're coming from, but how many obese people get this sort of chance? A chance at surgery, a dietician, a chance to completely turn your life around. It seems like she isn't even trying to use what's been given to her. Sometimes you have to stop pandering, and coddling. Amy seems like the only one who desperately wants change, and is willing to really work for it.
"How deep the mud is depends on whom you ask" Tammy really needs to realise that just because Amy isn't as big as she is, that does not also mean by default that she is suffering less. I sense a small bit of jealousy on her part perhaps? hmm
This may be random, but I love the way you guys effortlessly change between Korean and English. I went to an International school throughout most of my childhood, and had loads of Korean classmates that did the same thing - you guys doing it reminds me of them, and makes me super happy.
I think Tammy is incredibly frustrated and lashing out at the people closest to her. When you have an addiction, quitting can bring out the worst in you when you don't have access to what brought you comfort before. I really hope and pray Tammy can find a way to express herself in a way that doesn't hurt Amy, she's obviously a smart woman with some awful habits but none of us are perfect.
Seriously. She doesn't seem to think about her communication; it's just a reaction. When arguing, a remotely mentally mature person thinks about the outcome of their words or tone. "Will this accomplish what I want?" She is so immature in how she approaches conflict that she creates more conflict, then blames others for not understanding her. I feel like she almost needs formal education in self expression to help her.
Omg I was waiting for this video, I think that I love when its YOU reacting to them cuz we can see how much you aren't judgemental for their looks and comprehensive to their situations you truly are national treasures ilysm and the "hi kids" makes my heart melt yall are so sweet ily❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Haha I love your reaction videos they're the best! Also, I feel bad for amy. Shes trying as much as she can and Tammy's just treating her like a slave. But I do worry for them, skeletons can't handle that kind of pressure, not to mention the stress it puts on the heart and organs. I hope they'll get better.
Okay... last episode I was more on Tammy's side of the arguments, but this one completely flipped my opinion. I think Tammy needs some other third party who is neutral to help her sort through her problems rather than her own sister. I really hope they are doing better now.
The way they talk to each other is wrong. I get that sometimes siblings tease each other, but when you're using the same language as the abuse, where is the line? It's not a secret why Tammy regresses to a child-like state when she feels attacked. I really like Amy, but I feel like they're both wrong here.
What's terrible is that Amy has to deal with her and someone else's pain. Tammy is acting like a child in need of help from their mom but Amy IS ACTUALLY trying to be independent. I hope their bond grows better while they're on their weight loss journey
Have you thought about adding Korean subtitles as well? I love your channel and would love to have this channel as a fun way to learn Korean slang as well 😊
I think Tammy seriously needs to grow up. I mean, Amy IS helping you, she DOES care. But you don’t seem to care. Amy is making an effort to eat healthy and be healthy. Like Amy said, there ARE things that YOU can do. You just don’t do them.
I would kick tammy of my house until she says sorry. She's so ungrateful and thinks what she's saying and doing is ok. This episode lowkey made me so sad.
I love that they're more focused on the attitude and thought process, viewing these ladies as people rather than just focusing on the looks and shock value, it's really refreshing and rare to see that type of maturity from youtubers. *if either of you see this, thank you for giving new perspective!*
i really wanna see like a day or longer where amy and michael just arent at the house and tammy has to kinda look after herself and get things herself/do things herself. that way it would make her feel abit more independent or show her how much she really relies on amy and try to make that her goal to lose weight is so she doesnt have to rely on her sister as much as she does. but we'll find out in the next episode!
I just got off from a really hard day at work (I work in a childcare center) and today is my study day and I’m using you guys as my background noise to keep me awake and in a good mood. This was a really funny video❤️❤️
I am literally only watchin this show through you guys because it would frustrate me just to watch it, lol. So thanks for keeping up with it, i look forward to the next episode!
The girl on the right seriously has a native pronunciation when she speaks English! Especially when she says words like "girl" or "financially" which are hard for Koreans. Did she live abroad or something? I've only heard her say a couple words in English this video, but I wouldn't be surprised if she was fluent--she sounds so natural!!
@@TheSlipperyNUwUdle Ohh that makes sense haha! It's impressive how she can change between Korean and English so quickly though! She's my new inspiration haha
It’s honestly so sad to see. They wont realise how important it is to love each other and not fight before it’s too late. And it can be too late soon judging by Tammy’s weight.
I wanna feel bad for tammy but sheS acting like a 5yo “My pain is greater than yours, my needs are GREATER than yours!” Tammy...your sister takes care of you, feeds you, shelters you, prolly washes you too bc your mom doesnt want to deal with either or you and your sister wants you to have someone to lean on And you’ve yet to say thank you pretty much at all Ungrateful 🙄🙄
Tammy is telling Amy that "she keeps digging". But when Amy started to walk out of the room, Amy said "stupid" and Tammy yes "Yeah, you are". She's saying that Amy is the one who "keeps digging", but Tammy is!! It's really upsetting honestly...
I love watching this series with you guys. I don't think I would have watched it on my own, but it's so much more fun to watch with you guys. Can't wait for the next episode!!~
"why you got an attitude with me" first of all you living in Amy's house Second of all you disrespecting her by not letting her take a rest from walking around. I would have an attitude with you too
I just wanna say I love you guys and I love your videos and grandma of course ❤️, I remember when you guys didn’t even have 100k subs and you’ve came so far, I am a proud subscriber ❤️❤️❤️
Watching this while trying to change my own eating habbits. I have lost about 3kg in couple of weeks. 💪 I miss chocolate tho. (I am not banning all sweets. I just allow a little bit once a week)
Congrats on your progress! Giving up sweets can be really challenging, but you're going about it the right way, don't make it forbidden, just tiny amounts like you mentioned.
I sense jealousy on Tammy's part for Amy weighing less and possibly for being married.
same. but i cant believe that tammy is being jealous but doent even try to lose weight. she could atleast try to walk more with her walking stick or whatever its called, shes not even making any effort!! amy needs more respect for TRYING and doing her best since shes exercising and eating healthier.
well... I think they need someone more supportive ASIDE FROM THEIR VERY BAD MOTHER. They need more support from other people so that they will have enough willpower. If I was their mother I would actually care and support them because if they dont get that surgery then it's technically the end. Real mothers would be really caring to them!
Isha Manga yes, support is very helpful but they can’t depend on other people to make their final decisions. At the end of the day, they only have themselves. But I do see where you’re coming from.
Yes Tammy is soooo jealous! Amy should just continue doing well and ignore Tammy's jealousy! Amy is amazing!
Definitely for being married.
Tammy is staying in her married sister's house! Does she even realize how lucky she is to have someone take her into their home? Get me this, get me that...if you want something get up, and get it yourself while you still can. If I were her sister, I would stop fetching things for her.
That’s how powerful guilt is. Tammy’s sister is held down by guilt. Sad.
Same
You know she can’t move right.
Torchlight31 I see where you’re coming from and you make some valid points, however no one can force you to do something really. I’m sure Amy wasn’t force feeding her sister & they both are to blame, they have equal blame for this shitty situation they put themselves in. And it’s ultimately only up to themselves if they want to change and get out of it, they put themselves in it so they each have to get themselves out of it :/
Seriously! Amy doesn't HAVE to let her stay or help her AT ALL. Why can't Tammy be the slightest bit grateful. Amy was extremely reasonable saying can't you ask me to get the phone and the other thing at the same time instead of making it two trips. That's what triggered that fight. Selfish Tammy.
Honestly i think Tammy needs a therapist. I think she needs someone to vent to and can help her work out her guilt and trauma of being bullied and to help her deal with the psychological damage that comes from recognizing you need help but you’re not in a position to help yourself. She’s taking her own frustrations out on her sister. Amy doesn’t deserve that 😔
It’s shitty that they just have each other (basically Amy does have her husband for support) and being each other’s cheerleaders is vital in this! It’s so hard when you’re with that person 24/7 and don’t have an objective outlet to discuss things with. their MOM should be there for them but a professional definitely needs consulting. I’d be surprised if the producers don’t get them one soon
They both need counseling or therapy. If you watched their previous episodes they've mentioned them growing up in a poor environment where they were severely neglected and abused. The environment plays a big factor in anyone's growth, and it's obvious that their negative environment has indirectly pushed them towards using food as a coping/placebo mechanism.
drive yes their background and relationship with their family must play a large part with their weight and their mental health
Absolutely. She has an addiction and trauma she was pushing down with food, and now that she doesn't have food anymore, it's like it's all bubbling to the surface. She needs a safe place to work out her problems with someone who won't judge her or let her push them around.
@@TheChickenRiceBowl really? Where Im from you need a psychology degree to be a therapist. The more you know...
BRuH straight up Tammy is being so rude. She is never going to lose weight with her victim mindset
You were right she didnt or atleast didnt lose much
Jared N. Ikr !!!
fReSh bOnEs if shes so jealous about amy then she could try to have the sane effort as amy because all tammy is doing is sitting on the couch and saying that shes "trying" but in reality shes not even making the effort to stand up and get something from the other side of the room. put more respect on amy
@fReSh bOnEs they need over 3k calories a day, 1-3 180 cal sodas wont hurt much. Tammy also is flaunting her bf who is MARRIED all over social media. Tammy needs alot of work mentally.
Yeah, Tammy always plays victim, no one is falling for your victim sob story Tammy, she needs to grow up! Amy went through same things but she is trying her best!!
I just think that rather than throwing away some of that fresh/unopened food they could've given it to a food bank perhaps. 🙃
Plus, we never know if they actually ended up throwing it out, we never saw the bag actually getting disposed of. They might well have taken it to a food bank for all we know. And I certainly hope so, because I can't stand it when people waste food.
@@flowerdolphin5648 they most likely didnt
ikr i was thinking the same thing
Flower Dolphin whAt if I’m too full I can’t eat anymore? U want me to vomit then?
Flower Dolphin sometimes u have to put the rest in the bin.
For a person who lives in her YOUNGER sister house, the sister that cares for her shops for her, Tammy is really rude to Amy I don't think I could ever talk to my sister's like that
for some reason i thought amy was older.......
@@Msanimefanatic25 exactly that! Because even though she isn't treated fairly, she still took care of her. Which shows respect and more maturity so I kinda agree with the comments that Tammy needs a therapist that she can talk or vent to because in my opinion, as long as she's staying with Amy and her husband, I think she'll take liberty of that fact and push blame onto them for things she can't do
lol I thought amy was older all this while
@@edith_ing I did too, I think it's because she's the more responsible one and Tammy just lets her own personal garbage get the best of her and she acts like a petulant child instead.
@@Msanimefanatic25 its a one year difference. its nothing
Tammy really frustrates me. She's very melancholy and I think she needs some kind of treatment for depression, because where she thinks Amy is throwing her under a bus, I think Amy is trying to keep her accountable. Tammy comes across as very selfish, but I think it's a symptom of depression; I used to be exactly the same way. I used to think no one was listening to me and no one cared, but when I started to feel better, I started to realise that I wasn't asking for help or letting myself be listened to. I don't want to make this about myself, but I think Tammy needs to look deeper into why she has no motivation. Love this series you're doing!
Yeep totally agree
Replying to myself to let everyone know I'm not a healthcare professional by any means, just someone with a history of clinical depression. I wanted to be completely clear :)
@fReSh bOnEs Most people are commenting about how Tammy IS struggling. They dislike how she is acting but realize she struggles too. Amy is doing better than her and is definitely working harder, which doesn't mean she's "better" just that she's doing better work towards her goal.
@ImYuri I sincerely apologise for offending you; it was never my intention to offend anyone, and I understand that depression is very different for everyone. To clarify, I was trying to point out that when I was actively depressed I struggled to understand things from others' perspectives because I was so caught up in my own head, and I feel that Tammy is in the same situation. That being said, I cannot say for sure how Tammy feels, and I really hope she gets the help she needs. I appreciate you helping me to learn to consider my words better and helping me be completely clear, especially when typing, so thank you.
@fReSh bOnEs no ones hating on her, we all damn well know she's struggling, EVERY comment I've seen you reply to are from people simply holding her accountable, not hating, whilst understanding its hard. Its like when I have treated my own family like shit when I was dealing with abuse trauma and people called me out for it, they understood that yes, I'm struggling but enabling my shitty behaviour aint it, that my struggles aren't an excuse. If anything you seem to hate on Amy, anytime someone sympathises for her and what she has to put up with you reply all angry like "everyone hates tamny, fuck amy she fucked them over with the sodas and she doesn't have it as hard" 🙄 the one holding Tammy back is Tammy, I can see that because I used to be JUST like her. Focus on the actual hateful comments toward her, you know the ones that mock what she looks like, mock how she ended up like that.
Tammy needs to learn that pain, no matter how small or how large, is equal. It's not pleasant for either of them, but I don't think she considers that Amy is hurting because all she wants is to help her sister along too? It definitely seems like Tammy isn't as serious about trying to lose weight etc however, and whilst I get its hard, it needs to be done... but she doesn't have the same motivition like Amy wanting a baby, but surely there must be something she wants in life that she won't achieve living her life the way she is... I do hope the both of them get better, but atm it seems like Amy's the only one focused on the end goal :/
Yep
Amy seems to do a lot for Tammy so Tammy doesn’t look like she wants to be independent
Tammy I feel like is in denial in a sense, sure she wants to lose weight but I feel like when it comes down to it she doesn't actually bare down and put in the work. And trust me I know how hard it is to lose weight im not 500 lbs but I'm trying to lose weight myself so I understand the struggle but when your life is in danger it needs to be done there is no what if there is no I'll do it later you have to do it and you have to do it now
also if you look them up Amy did mange to lose weight while tammy stayed the same she did find a boyfriend/(husband?)
You’d think what she would want in life to actually live
I just wanted to go to bed but then I see that you've just posted, wow
Same
What country? I’m america it’s only 6:15
UK it be around 11pm
Same ..UK
Oof UK gang lol
Tammy has a textbook case of self victimising, it's really childish and dangerous especially for her. Hope she gets past it, listens to Amy and loses a lot of weight.
Tammy literally said, " I am a victim."
Tell me about it! Tammy needs to stop self-victimising, it's the only way forward! Love you Tammy but you need HELP gurl!! Amy is doing great, Tammy never listens, shameful of you Tammy.
Maybe she’s hypersensitive? She looks like she’s been judge and bullied a lot in her life so now any remarks made toward her even if it’s to help her she feels like it’s an attack. She’s not helping her case being so disrespectful and ungrateful as if it is owed to her but that also maybe a reflect of their upbringing and how their own mother disregarded and disrespected and neglected them their whole life.
Just being the devil’s advocate cause everyone is going at her rn it’s obvious she’s emotionally suffering and feeling she’s getting getting looked down on by her sister so she cries and get back at her to what she assumes is the same level of aggressiveness
you're really out here saving quarantine with all this quality content
I hate quarantine ☹ And I'm not into the internet much but I kind of have a nerd crush on the lady on the right 🙃
Mine's ending soon, I have to go back to school 💀
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I would have snapped without these!!
Tammy is In more physically pain than Amy, however Amy has to deal with other things besides Tammy such as work, shopping (tbh anything that involves moving) for everyone in the house. This means that Amy is more stressed. And Tammy needs to stop wining about how big she is. Everyone understands she’s in more physical pain.
well said🙌🏼
Hello Kitti, *whining. But great point.
I think physical unbalance like this is usually an indication of psychological issues or trauma. In addition to the dietician a therapist would have been awesome to have involved in their journey. Hope they can overcome their struggles 🤞
I was just gonna comment the same sentiment. It’s painful to watch them try to heal themselves with such little guidance :(
They said it in the beginning that they eat a lot to deal with past trauma
If you watched previous episodes they have mentioned that they grew up in a poor household where they were neglected and abused. They even said it themselves, they turned to food for comfort and it escalated to this.
IKR I immediately thought all that was caused by eating disorder tho
The sisters are so funny but I seriously worry for their health. If they don't get help they won't have much longer. Edit: They actually seem to be doing better🥳. I hope they keep this up.
Them: Hi Kids!
Me a 25 y/o adult: 👁👄👁
It's because a lot of kids are on TH-cam haha
lol xD
Me being 20😂😂😂
me being 13: i am indeed a kid 🧍
OMG I'm 30😅
I just love how they are being compassionate instead of judging or bad criticizing them
Well, they are "filmed", so of course they will react in a modrate way. Trust me, most of people are irritated and disgusted watching these episodes. I am.
@@Dark666Butterfly I don’t think that’s necessarily true... I’m not being filmed and I’m not “disgusted”. These are human beings.
@@mlr.9257 That's so true. Idk why Black Wings said something like that... Maybe he/she would be the person that is filmed but acts super cute and friendly and then is this: Disgusting.
"I'm still trying to figure out what the healthy foods are."
I really wish the dietician had given them laminated sheets with pictures and descriptions of "healthy" foods in a typical grocery store, and maybe some recipes. Kentucky and Georgia are both southern states, so they'd have similar stores and they could get similar things from a Kentucky store that they would get at a Georgia store. I feel like the dietician didn't do her due diligence in educating Tammy and Amy in what is good food and what is unhealthy. It might not be her fault but she should have realized that they have no idea what is healthy when they were rattling off their list of foods with such zeal.
I still have a gut feeling that Tammy and Amy were not only victims of abusive neglect by their mother, but possibly abuse by other people their mother let in the house (and maybe their own siblings). Their mother seems to be that kind of person too that was abused herself and perpetuated the cycle onto her own children. Don't get me wrong, their mother is an abusive piece of shit and her own abuse does NOT excuse her abusing other people - she needed to woman up and decide to break the cycle but she was too weak-willed to do so (either with help or by herself).
Everyone in the household - Tammy, Amy, AND Michael - needs therapy and counseling.
You have a point, I am very surprised the dietician didn't educate them better about what is healthy, give them a grocery list etc.
And I like that you mentioned Michael, poor guy, life must be tough for him too ! They all need therapy.
The person was listing off a list of items and to be honest we never saw what else they talked about. And the only vegetable they got wrong was the lettuce. And the other sister realized it was wrong.
As a nutritionist, would you think that your clients, who are women in their thirties, and probably go to the supermarket more than once a week, to not know what a carrot is?
Not saying that there won't be people who are ignorant to veggies, but I wouldn't put any blame on the nutritionist. As I said before we don't know what else they talked about, and the girls have already proved themselves knowledgeable. Depending on who you're working with showing pics of veggies to an adult would seem insulting. I would understand if she asked about them and didn't do it ☺️
But thank you for taking an interest in these girls health ❤️
I personally dont think the mom is “abusive”, i just think shes kind of a bitch. After all the mom did raise 5 kids by herself and thats not exactly easy, plus the way children turn out isnt 100% a parents fault. Just my opinion tho because harsh words are v common in asian households, especially about weight, but i personally wouldn’t consider it abuse.
I would think again about the use of the words "abusive neglect", especially considering the only thing we know about the mother is through their lens and we only know that she was a mother of five (that definitely has a terrible sense of how to say the truth in a less harmful way) and worked three jobs to support her kids while not showing them love in an obvious way (they also said they think she didn't know how to show how she cared as well.) I think that's not abusive neglect, it's just neglect due to the fact that she had to do so, so much to raise them. My dad doesn't work three jobs but he's been working all my life, and when he's not working, he's sleeping, and he rarely ever showed his love for me and my sisters growing up, so I felt like I barely knew him up until I was 13. And I feel like they would've probably mentioned abuse of other people seeing as they're very blunt women, just like their mother, to the point of plain rudeness half the time. So you could be right, but I have serious doubt about it, and that's a far jump to conclusions considering they definitely didn't allude to any of that when talking about her, and neither did the like 90 second clip of the mother and her pretty rude attitude give away hints to allude to that either.
Never mind, just started watching their fifth episode reaction to them. What an emotionally abusive woman, like you could at least spare them the pain of trying to deal with you their whole life by abandoning them once they grew independent of you, it'd probably be a lot better for them than keeping her energy around and trying to mend a relationship she's just NOT willing to fix. She's not even trying, no wonder they struggle with willpower.
There's an evident underlying psychological issue going on 🤔. They need a therapist!
Betsy Corona Utermohlen One would think a therapist or psychiatrist would be standard practice to bring in for someone facing major surgery, especially this kind. Because surgery can mess with your mind too, so you need to be prepared. But surgery or no, you’re flat out right, they need a therapist no matter which way things go
@@Naomihere these specially obese people just lack proper sense and logic, you dont become that obese because you have "psychological issues" otherwise every depressed person would be that obese which isnt happening.
@@Naomihere If you study these things and you are this ignorant then i feel sorry for the people in your field having idiots like you plaguing it, i was depressed at one point in time and started eating as way to comfort myself but once i realised i was gaining too much weight i simply started eating less and stopped the issue, ITS LITERALLY THAT EASY STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR THESE PEOPLE WHO ARE TOO LAZY TO FIX THEIR OWN ISSUES WHILE THEY BLAME OTHERS.
I've never seen anyone argue while sitting on the couch so casually lol
Tammy has such a victim mentality, we get that she's in pain but Amy's struggles aren't any smaller than hers because she's smaller, I don't get how she hasn't understood that.
exactly. they have the same goals so they have the same amount of pain.
For real. Tammy doesn't know the pain of being forced to have someone who acts like a bratty child live in your house with you.
Tammy needs to grow the f*** up.
tammys issues are worse than amys mainly because she can barely move but they equal struggle and need help, tammy needs to get her shit together and grow the fuck up
"Hi kids"
me: Hi MooOoOmMmMM
Yes 😼✨🌸
Lmao
@AMINA MOTAMAD yessir
@@kalinae9096 Ayyyyeee
I went and watched the entire series after watching you guys watch episode 1! Love you guys!!
Can you pls share the link? I couldn't find the entire episodes for whatever reason
@@isadorasaraiva5552 I watched it on Hulu!
Me too i even tried to find their ig
@@avant4life93 Same!! haha
i totally just found this channel yesterday and fell in love with this channel; the next day they post the next video in my favorite series!!
Oml me to
i found it a few months ago and agree it's really entertaining. Especially the ones with Zoe's Grandma.
honestly, amy is doing everything. she's taking care of herself, her husband AND her sister. i can see why she reacted the way she did and i don't blame her one bit. she's trying to help out her sister and she's trying to help herself as well. tammy doesn't understand that if she doesn't try harder she could lose her life and that must be so hard to have in their minds. tammy needs to start appreciating her sister alot more and needs to try :(
Her: Hi, kids!
Me, a 21 year old woman drinking wine: 👁👄👁
u'r a weeb I just play overwatch, doesn’t mean that I’m not 21.
18 Sage don’t worry bruva, i am
I mean I would have hoped that the Doctor would've given them a Grocery list and Meal plan
Yeah! I find it kinda crazy that they havent given them a proper meal plan or anything.
Thats what the nutritionist was for. She probably did give them a typeof meal plan, they just didnt show that part.
tammy needs to stop feeling sorry for herself and do something about it. stop whining about your problems and fix them bruv.
Totally. Tammy isnt a very likeable person on screen
I agree but it's not that simple. Oversimplification of a struggle is extremely bad advice, even slander to a certain extent. Don't generalize other people's adversity without understanding the entirety of the situation, it makes you look uninformed at best and apathetic at worst.
I see you everywhere 🤣🤣🤣
@@drive1293 I see where you're coming from, but how many obese people get this sort of chance? A chance at surgery, a dietician, a chance to completely turn your life around. It seems like she isn't even trying to use what's been given to her. Sometimes you have to stop pandering, and coddling. Amy seems like the only one who desperately wants change, and is willing to really work for it.
She does have some pain motivating her to feel like she cant do anything-- They both just need to be more understanding
0:36 yumi is so cute
0:00 - 17:22 FTFY
"How deep the mud is depends on whom you ask"
Tammy really needs to realise that just because Amy isn't as big as she is, that does not also mean by default that she is suffering less. I sense a small bit of jealousy on her part perhaps? hmm
i agree. but even if tammy is jealous she still should try to have the same optimistic mentality as amy
This may be random, but I love the way you guys effortlessly change between Korean and English. I went to an International school throughout most of my childhood, and had loads of Korean classmates that did the same thing - you guys doing it reminds me of them, and makes me super happy.
I think Tammy is incredibly frustrated and lashing out at the people closest to her. When you have an addiction, quitting can bring out the worst in you when you don't have access to what brought you comfort before. I really hope and pray Tammy can find a way to express herself in a way that doesn't hurt Amy, she's obviously a smart woman with some awful habits but none of us are perfect.
Amy has great emotional intelligence. Tammy needs to work on hers
Seriously. She doesn't seem to think about her communication; it's just a reaction. When arguing, a remotely mentally mature person thinks about the outcome of their words or tone. "Will this accomplish what I want?"
She is so immature in how she approaches conflict that she creates more conflict, then blames others for not understanding her. I feel like she almost needs formal education in self expression to help her.
@Madison Grider yes!!! Tammy needs help, praying for her!!
I love how yumi is almost smiling the whole time in the beginning
Omg I was waiting for this video, I think that I love when its YOU reacting to them cuz we can see how much you aren't judgemental for their looks and comprehensive to their situations you truly are national treasures ilysm and the "hi kids" makes my heart melt yall are so sweet ily❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have literally been waiting forr thissss i love yall sooooo much!!!!
When you start arguing over who’s a bigger baby is when you automatically lose that argument
Haha I love your reaction videos they're the best!
Also,
I feel bad for amy. Shes trying as much as she can and Tammy's just treating her like a slave. But I do worry for them, skeletons can't handle that kind of pressure, not to mention the stress it puts on the heart and organs. I hope they'll get better.
Seeing them holding their "sodies" is really frustrating aaaa
I literally never heard of this show before you guys started reacting to it. I couldn’t imagine watching it without y’all now
I love how their encouraging her when they do something right like “good job” and stuff like that 🥺 I wish I had you all with me in my workout journey
It is pretty sweet, the just both need to be more understanding :D
what Tammy is doing is wanting the easy way thru hard times which will never be the solution and sooner or later she will know 😕
I love this channel so much and it helps me with studying Korean. So not only am I enjoying the content but I'm also learning a lot. So thanks ahshah
I should be going to bed cause it’s my first day back at school after several months tomorrow but I need to watch this first!
Good luck on your first day back!
Jessica Cirullo awww thank youuuu!! It wasn’t too bad aha
Okay... last episode I was more on Tammy's side of the arguments, but this one completely flipped my opinion. I think Tammy needs some other third party who is neutral to help her sort through her problems rather than her own sister. I really hope they are doing better now.
The way they talk to each other is wrong. I get that sometimes siblings tease each other, but when you're using the same language as the abuse, where is the line? It's not a secret why Tammy regresses to a child-like state when she feels attacked. I really like Amy, but I feel like they're both wrong here.
I don’t think I breathed during that argument, like the damn tension was 🤭
What's terrible is that Amy has to deal with her and someone else's pain. Tammy is acting like a child in need of help from their mom but Amy IS ACTUALLY trying to be independent. I hope their bond grows better while they're on their weight loss journey
The amount of times I rolled my eyes, sighed, and closed my eyes to calm down bc of tammy’s attitude is just... ugh... 답답해 Tammy야... 좀 그만해 프리즈😐
Have you thought about adding Korean subtitles as well? I love your channel and would love to have this channel as a fun way to learn Korean slang as well 😊
Yesss! I’ve been waiting all week for this. I stayed up all night explain the first two to my husband 😂💗
You guys just keep uttering the words in my head. It's insane. Love the content!
I think Tammy seriously needs to grow up. I mean, Amy IS helping you, she DOES care. But you don’t seem to care. Amy is making an effort to eat healthy and be healthy. Like Amy said, there ARE things that YOU can do. You just don’t do them.
I love how supportive and non judgemental you both are, I'm loving watching you both
"two! Ah three!!!!" Was super frickin cute
Love you guys ❤ so excited for the next video!
I would kick tammy of my house until she says sorry. She's so ungrateful and thinks what she's saying and doing is ok. This episode lowkey made me so sad.
My class just ended a few min ago. I needed something to cool down with, glad to have my notifs on❤️
I love how you guys share a pair of earphones 😂
Omg I’m so invested, I want to watch more but I’m like noooooo I can’t watch ahead without you guyysssss
Tammy needs to trust that her sister understands her pain.
I love this seriesss! Thanks for making them.
Imagine arguing with ur sibling in front of a camera crew, I would be super embarrassed
I love that they're more focused on the attitude and thought process, viewing these ladies as people rather than just focusing on the looks and shock value, it's really refreshing and rare to see that type of maturity from youtubers. *if either of you see this, thank you for giving new perspective!*
i really wanna see like a day or longer where amy and michael just arent at the house and tammy has to kinda look after herself and get things herself/do things herself. that way it would make her feel abit more independent or show her how much she really relies on amy and try to make that her goal to lose weight is so she doesnt have to rely on her sister as much as she does. but we'll find out in the next episode!
I just got off from a really hard day at work (I work in a childcare center) and today is my study day and I’m using you guys as my background noise to keep me awake and in a good mood. This was a really funny video❤️❤️
If I were Amy and Tammy said “try being my size” I would have told her “try being grateful”
I am literally only watchin this show through you guys because it would frustrate me just to watch it, lol. So thanks for keeping up with it, i look forward to the next episode!
Tammy is so rude, *she is living in Amy’s house, yet she treats Amy like a maid*
They have the best reactions because they’re so honest yet still kind hearted
The girl on the right seriously has a native pronunciation when she speaks English! Especially when she says words like "girl" or "financially" which are hard for Koreans. Did she live abroad or something? I've only heard her say a couple words in English this video, but I wouldn't be surprised if she was fluent--she sounds so natural!!
Five years abroad in New York for college. :)
@@TheSlipperyNUwUdle Ohh that makes sense haha! It's impressive how she can change between Korean and English so quickly though! She's my new inspiration haha
I love your company while watching this. Feels like watching with friends. This is my 3rd episode straight🤭
ive been waiting for thisss
ahhh, can’t wait for episode 4! already watched the entire show but watching it with you two is much more entertaining! 🤍
00:38 "oh my butt" YES OH OUR BUTTS
Please keep reacting to them we love these videos !! release the 4th one soon please ! Hahaha
It’s honestly so sad to see. They wont realise how important it is to love each other and not fight before it’s too late. And it can be too late soon judging by Tammy’s weight.
I love watching your videos. Thanks for making quarantine less boring! Such good laughs!
Tammy and Amy: Trying their hardest to lose way.
Me: eating ramen noodles 😳
I'm so glad you guys posted. I need something to cheer my day up
I wanna feel bad for tammy but sheS acting like a 5yo
“My pain is greater than yours, my needs are GREATER than yours!”
Tammy...your sister takes care of you, feeds you, shelters you, prolly washes you too bc your mom doesnt want to deal with either or you and your sister wants you to have someone to lean on
And you’ve yet to say thank you pretty much at all
Ungrateful 🙄🙄
Tammy is telling Amy that "she keeps digging". But when Amy started to walk out of the room, Amy said "stupid" and Tammy yes "Yeah, you are". She's saying that Amy is the one who "keeps digging", but Tammy is!! It's really upsetting honestly...
Wow, Tammy really needs to see this video. It really shows how much she’s really effecting Amy.
Commenting while I finish a long ad, thanks for this series I really do enjoy seeing you two together ✨vibing✨
Wow I just realized u guys are watching this in English wow.If I watch Korean stuff i need captions
Whenever I get off work, I see that they have uploaded. Makes the long day worth it. They are the best 💕
I am healthy and still struggle to find lettuce and cabbage apart
Same. They just look so similar lol
I love watching this series with you guys. I don't think I would have watched it on my own, but it's so much more fun to watch with you guys. Can't wait for the next episode!!~
"why you got an attitude with me" first of all you living in Amy's house Second of all you disrespecting her by not letting her take a rest from walking around. I would have an attitude with you too
I’ve finally finished all my school work and seeing o was just in time for this is such a treat 😭 💕
I’m scrolling through the comments and everyone’s attacking Tammy 😂
You guys are motivating me to do better ❤️
My goodness, this is such a toxic relationship going both ways. I can’t say I see this ending well.
I just wanna say I love you guys and I love your videos and grandma of course ❤️, I remember when you guys didn’t even have 100k subs and you’ve came so far, I am a proud subscriber ❤️❤️❤️
I just think instead of throwing food give to homeless they need food like ................😂😂🍔🍗🍖🍕🍕🌭🌮🍟
I’m invested in this series but I only wanna watch it with you two commentating. Love your expressions 👩🏾💕
It's like Tammy expects Amy to magically lose the weight for her.
Waiting for this videos for dayyyyys, both of you are just so nice..Hope they keep going in the right directions. Xx from Belgium.
I Can see that Amy's Double chin had died down and I'm SUPER proud!🙌🏻✊🏼 You got this!
I’ve had such a stressful day and this just made me feel so much better. Thank you for always making me laugh!
Watching this while trying to change my own eating habbits. I have lost about 3kg in couple of weeks.
💪
I miss chocolate tho. (I am not banning all sweets. I just allow a little bit once a week)
Congrats on your progress! Giving up sweets can be really challenging, but you're going about it the right way, don't make it forbidden, just tiny amounts like you mentioned.
@@raebookworm4013 thanks and yea
@u'r a weeb sadly I dont like dark chocolate at all. Which is shame bc it's the least unhealthy chocolate :,)
Aww good for you!
a lil piece or dark chocolate is good!
Your reactions to this series is so good!! I love it so much