The fact that Matt actually became REAL friends with him, talking to him daily and doing all he did for the family speaks so much about his character. Most youtubers wouldn’t actually rearrange their lives and schedules to do this…sure they may touch base over facetime from time to time but what Matt did is so much more. God bless what these guys do and how many lives they touch and change for the better.
Anorak Me too! I’ve head “life’s a bitch and then you die” along with “The only thing certain for all of us in life, is death” It sticks with you, doesn’t it? But will never know how it feels until close to it
I feel like everyone would be okay with ads if all the money they made from this vid was funneled towards research for Xavier’s disease. With an okay from the family of course
@@azrael4771 A shirt and a ball is meaningless with the time he has left. An item to be stored away on a shelf is probably nothing to him compared to the everlasting thought and memory he’ll carry that his 20 year long idols, acknowledged that he was out there. To most of us, celebrities feel like fairytales. Fictional people living amazing lives. But having them actually speak *to you* really makes everything feel so much more real
It's sad that they couldn't even fly to see him or something. That's the least they could've done. They just recorded a video for him and the only thing they said in it was to keep fighting. That fucking sucks if I'm honest. When they weren't even able to fly to see him in real life they at least should've done like a long video and say something nice to him and how they appreciate that he is such a big fan for so long. That man was a fan of them his entire life and the only thing he got in return is a 5 second video. These celebrities are just money machines and f them.
He passed away only 3 weeks after her wedding. He lived for her happiness. Upon Patriots sending him personal message, and after seeing her wedding and her happiness, he had everything he ever wished for. I can say one thing for sure, and that is that heaven got one new beautiful angel.
I know how Xavier felt. I’m disabled. I have a condition that makes my bones weak and due to that I can’t walk without holding anything. Alhamduillah I survived 12 surgeries and countless fractures. And I’m only 14. I know. The pain, the suffering. Trust me Yes Fam. I know it all.
When someone can be nice to you, has a good story, you know you have a good bond, please just keep your friends, you will never have a million. Keep the ones who you had a moment with and make a bond, connect for a few days and boom you can be together for years
@@Doom_State what does your comment have to do with anything in the video? He just stated an interesting quote, which about 600 people agree with, while you just up and argue with him for no good reason.
This happens everyday, Xavier did not die alone, he was loved and cherished , the Australian gentlemen went to great lengths to make sure Xavier had some exciting moments, wish the world had more of those 2, thanks for sharing. Rip Xavier
"When we're born, we're all diagnosed with the same condition - death." - The fact that he lived 4 years longer then the doctors expected means you can do what you want *Don't give up and it will happen* Rip Xavier❤️
This guy: goes to meet women's cousin who is suffering from a terminal illness. Ends up: Being in her wedding. Becoming GREAT friends and actually close and try to make a relationship not just having a conversation for content. Respect dude. Your a great guy to do that.
I was given 12-18 months last year. They said I'd start to feel it at 6 months. Physically, I don't. But mentally, I appreciate a lot more. I watch the sunrise whenever I can (cancer screws with when you're tired/awake). Lose your hair, teeth. They don't talk about that in movies. I know that with what I look like now, I could never be an inspirational video. And the things on my bucket list, I'm not capable of doing. I mostly go to the 3 blocks from the hospital, to the mall, and watch people (before the quarantine ). And I try and live through them. It's all I can do.
@@TheTechAdmin Hope you get better man! i really do, but chemo consequences are different for everybody i guess, my dad is the strongest dude i know by far, he was diagnosted 4 years ago lung cancer and metastasis (head tumor and some others, i never knew all of them for my own mental stability), he's the only cancer patient in europe with over 36 chemos, and he has over 50 already, my dad is 64 years old this month and is still strong as hell, his hair didnt fall once, he only lost his armpits and legs hair haha, sometimes he's really tired and feels awful, doesn't sleep right and such, but physical syntoms are not as showable as you said, he was given 6 months 4 years ago, and he still wakes up everymorning and acts like superman, i hope he's a motivation for everyone struggling with cancer, and remember mental and attitude is everything!
man... I was in the hospital for 40 days and had multiple heart/ lung surgeries and im only 17, My whole family and doctors thought I wasnt gonna be able to live, and when Xavier said he has moments about wanting to give up I know how he feels, my life will never be the same that it was before, but I'll always fight for my family and friends, This video made me cry multiple times cause I understand Xavier. I pray for EVERYBODY and ANYBODY who is going thru anything.
@@eneskaya7307 the word "life" is the noun for "living", I said the opposite of life is being dead because being dead doesn't have a specific noun, but just because there isn't an English word for it doesn't mean an opposite doesn't exist.
Just seeing her filiming and waiting for her son's reaction while watching the video in the beginning, the words her eyes said is more than i've ever spoken in my life. God bless her♥️♥️♥️
This is one of those videos where you're just on the verge of tears the entire time you're watching it. You guys have amazing souls. I'll never get tired of this channel
Personally I don’t think that your religious maters during death but we can end life with positivity. Now I am the type of guy to make jokes about things and that’s what got me through my Grandmas death she died from lung cancer she would’ve been 83 tomorrow but unfortunately she is not here to celebrate it but we are. And basically when death comes around don’t be serious be funny make a joke because those seconds will go down in history in your families mind, your friends mind and everyone who you loved will want to see you happy and that is what is important.
I felt every moment of this vlog. Xavier was so brave yet so humble, what a beautiful soul. I too have terminal metastatic breast cancer. I was given the same prognosis. 6 years ago this July 27th (my husband’s birthday), I was told I had 3 to 6 months to live. The cancer was extremely aggressive and had spread from my breast to all of my spine and 2 ribs. I had a tumour in my femur too. Hearing those words literally felt like someone had opened a sink hole under my feet. My husband and my mum were with me when I was given the diagnosis. I immediately felt I needed to protect them, so I said, I accept I have cancer but I won’t ever accept my prognosis. I was 43 with one son (who’s on the autistic spectrum) and 4 step children (my husbands children). The most difficult thing I have ever had to do, is tell my son it was terminal cancer. He was 18 at the time, just turning 19. I couldn’t lie to him because he is extremely intelligent, it’s high functioning Asperger’s syndrome he has, so lying was off the table. I told him then what I’ve been saying to other cancer patients since. A prognosis is only an opinion, it’s not fact. I don’t claim the diagnosis, I never say my cancer, I say the cancer, I do this because when you say something is yours, you welcome it, you want it. I don’t want this cruel disease. I’m on my 4th line of treatment, cancer is a b**ch, it learns how to get around the breast cancer treatments. So you get times when your treatment works and the cancer shrinks and you get so elated! Then it stops working and you start falling down that sink hole again. Then the next treatment works for a while, then stops. The emotional rollercoaster is exhausting and mentally crippling. As I’m writing this, I feel guilty because I’ve not had chemotherapy yet, it’s all been targeted treatment and hormone blocking treatment. Although I have bad side effects, it’s not like chemotherapy. I’m terrified of having chemo. Cancer guilt is one of the hardest things to carry. The guilt that you are putting your family through so much pain because they feel so helpless. The guilt when someone you’ve met and become close to who is a cancer patient, passes away. Survivor guilt. It’s horrendous. Watching Xavier fight the fight, I recognised his exhaustion. It’s exhaustion like no other. When you wake in the morning, you may have had 9, maybe 10 hours sleep but you literally feel like you’ve not slept for a month. I saw his guilt too. It makes you feel so inadequate. You can’t do the simplest of tasks without feeling shattered and that makes you feel like a burden. But, I saw his smile too, believe me, those moments are incredible because for a while you forget your ill. Thank you for holding space for Xavier, it was beautiful to watch and thank you for giving me an opportunity to write what I have. Holding space for someone who is terminally ill, literally takes the weight off them for that time and it’s such a relief and blessing. Sleep gently Xavier. Just love one another and always be kind AND live every single second of your life, really live. 🥰 Kindest regards Ann. Guernsey, Channel Islands.🙏🏻
26 years old, that’s really sad. I can’t believe how well he dealt with all this. I really don’t think I’d have been as strong as Xavier. This video is as good a tribute as you can get.
Yeah I am 26 and I cant believe he went away that young but I know how fragile and short life is. One moment we are at the top and good and the other moment we could be somewhere else. Wish you all health guys and that life treats you kindly. My prayers and best wishes to those who are down and sick :(
It's been 2 years since this was posted. Xavier's story, as well as the story of his family, is still reaching people. I hope he is partying it up in the afterlife, and I hope his family is doing well! ❤️
"When we're born, we're all diagnosed with the same condition... death." Wow, that hit way harder than I expected. Man, this video had me in constant tears, so well done and just so wonderful of you all to arrange. This is why I'm such a big fan of you guys, moments like these where you go above and beyond for someone. I didn't expect the ending though, that broke my heart. He seemed like such a wonderful man, and had such wonderful friends and a wonderful family there for him and caring for him. Rest in peace, Xavier. 💔
This video made me realize something. It could be anyone’s last 3 months, last 3 weeks, last 3 days, last 3 hours, last 3 minutes, and last 3 seconds. Those last 3 should be the best 3 ever. Each one should be better than the last. When I look at Xavier, he didn’t get to go to the wedding. And that was something that hurt him. For other people it may not be a wedding that puts them down. It could be anything. Something we say, the way we look at them, and most importantly the way we treat them. So after watching this video I realized, that no matter who it is. Treat everyone like it’s their last 3. Years, months, weeks, days, hours, minutes, and seconds. Cause you wouldn’t want to leave our beautiful earth being laughed at or made fun of. You’d wanna leave being loved, and with people that treat you like it’s your last 3.
Honestly tho i dont really care what people will think about me when i'm gone. They can laugh, they can step on my gravestone, they can hate me i dont really care cause by that time, well... I'm gone. But one thing that i will certainly do now as i'm living right at this moment that i'll living the life to help more PEOPLE in my own unique ways. What you said about "YOU don't want people have bad perception to you when you're gone" is really not the kind of mindset that i agree with and it's sure giving me fear & anxiety that i need to be "perfect" in everything that i do so people will "accept" me as the reward of doing something "good". That statement is also counter-intuitive if you want to live the life of impacting other people live for good, because most of the time people like that always go against the mainstream and by going against mainstream means you will do alot of things that may cause people around you dislike what you do. And that statement mentality is just not going to support it. You could have said it better like "No matter what people said about you, do the things what you feel right no matter whether they like it or not, believe in yourself first and eventually they will believe in you." Because if you're trully have a goodwill no matter what you do that make them dislike you now, they will LOVE you in the end.
Bro I have never cried so much for a stranger, thank you for telling Xaviers story and introducing me to a man I didn’t know I needed to meet. The things we go through in life are so trivial compared to the fight this man faced. I am a better man after watching this than I was before, and for that I can thank Xavier. What a legend. Rest In Paradise champ, we’re all still rooting for you bro.
Rest in peace. he passed away December 5th 2019 :( you fought for as long as you could. I'm so sorry! My heart goes out to those who loved and cared for him. 😭
What does he leave on this earth? What is the effect of this video? I think I value life more now and believe more in fighting, But at the end of the day the only thing that matters is love and the people. Love and the people. I've been saying this for a while...
Dr. tells me I have a yr to live. After watching this video I feel so much more hope. I hope anybody watching this gets the message that a loved one needs love and support more than ever!! May have had a lot to do with Xavier living as long as he did. Some of us die alone and I am willing to bet that some of them gave up too soon :( Matt is an Angel ! a rare human being with a huge heart ! I wish there were many like him ! Thank you Matt for this inspiring video!
About six months ago, my dad was diagnosed with terminal Leukemia. All the treatments that they tried had no effect, and the cancer progressed rapidly. It's a very real fear of mine that every time i make the 5 hour drive back to college after a weekend visit that that will be the last time i see my father. thank you so damn much for even just trying to bring family together, because nothing is more important than family.
Hang in there my dear . Your dad needs you to be stronger more then ever . My sister was diagnosed with cancer 11 years ago and it reoccured back again last year aswell she was diagnosed with a second altogether. It's been a rough couple of years now running around to the hospital. I keep telling myself that I need to be strong for her more then ever so hang in there love . Sending prayers to your dad and to your whole family .💟
Trippy watching this, I was 26 around that time in 2019 and was told I was on borrowed time myself. I was told October 15th that no doctor would attempt to fix the large vascular malformation inside my brain because of the dangers. Living what you understand to be your final months, it does something to your soul. This guy’s spirit was strong. Walk free in paradise man 🙏
@@kidfrankie54 well they got it out, it was “difficult” let’s say and caused a lot of damage but they got it out and I’m alright. Some things have been a struggle but I’ve pretty much returned to normal life.
Carlo.Strange when someone is fighting for a life to get more longer some people are losing hope to live in this world. And count me in. Im tired to live but When i saw him fighting for about years and his sufferings. 😢
He died in December. I’m glad he got to live until his cousins wedding and his birthday. May his soul be blessed, and safe now. If your wondering if I’m lying just watch the whole video. Fly high. 🕊💛
You honored Xavier, his family, and his memory, so thoroughly, just by being there. By sharing Xavier and his family's story, you've helped me and so many others know, love, and get inspired by him.
Xavier's story is humbling, inspiring, tinged with a sense of sadness and yet tremendous bravery and determination. I also noted the lovely bright coloured pens he used to do his colouring artwork, - maybe another insight the into beauty inside him.
If anyone sees this. Make sure to live your life out like YOU want too. Don’t let anyone tell you your not strong enough and that you can’t do it. Make sure to be with the people that you cherish the most and laugh a little. Life could be gone in an instant and it’s up to you on how you want to carry it out
Currently fighting a late diagnosticed cancer myself. Live the life to the fullest people, could be a sickness, an accident, you never know when it's your time to go so make sure you live everyday like it's the last one! May you rest in peace Xavier and hopefully i won't meet you too soon up there!
I have been watching Yes Theory for quite some time and I have never commented, in fact I have never commented on TH-cam.. however I felt inclined to write this and how this video displays a true fighter, what a gentleman Xavier was.. A true and kind hearted soul. May you rest in peace and fly high with the angels sir. Love from England.
He passed on my birthday... There I was celebrating being 23, when Xavier’s family (& so many others were grieving).. Just makes you realize how fragile & delicate life really is. RIP Xavier, you will be missed dearly.
I was just thinking the same thing I was out celebrating my 27th birthday, While his family was in grieving...it makes you really think about the life your leading.
I mean... damn... Imagine going to sleep everyday, not knowing if you will ever wake up and there is nothing anyone can do about it, you can't call your mom to get you out of it, you can't get your dad to help you and even your doctor has given up on you. Every night you go to sleep, you are dancing with death himself and it is only a battle you and you alone can fight in. My respect goes to that man and my condolenses to his mighty strong family.
I don't care if I wake up or not. Only things I do is: Sleep, game with my friend (bcs he wants too) , and eat. I don't go to school or anything bcs I just can't.
"When we're celebrating love, we bring back people." Wow, that's such an insightful and beautiful thing to say... Thanks Matt, and rest in peace to your beloved friend Xavier
It took me a long time to want to click this but today, im glad i did. R.i.p Xavier and thank you for showing what a beautiful soul he was. Its truly amazing
He fought to see his cousins wedding. He fought to get to his 26th birthday. He fought till the bitter end and may he rest if piece hopefully with the feeling that his life was still full of blessings even when he was in his toughest times. These tears are for Xavier and anyone fighting to get past the goals they set themselves in a time of pain and hurt.
Dude I noticed... if he were still here id be knocking on tj hunts and tanner Fox's doors rn and sharing the story and how we need to go meet this man. I wish there was more out there for people in need of love like Xavier.
I love this you guys throw a dart on map to fly then meet a guy luke on footpath in aus and now he is in other corner of world to inspire another stranger ,that’s awesome. You guys are uniting world 🌏.
This video and the authenticity of love and empathy gives me chills. Matt you are awesome and yes theory are awesome by staying in touch wit those you meet. And you see these people are not just for videos. Authentic and pure. Much love to xavier and his family.
Damn who ever disliked this video literally has no heart, soul and empathy. May Xavier Rest In Peace and my condolences to the Romero family. May his family find the courage and strength to persevere in this tough world we call life 🕊❤️
You gotta look at every perspective. I think that, probably, people who disliked this video, could've perceived it as somewhat of a distasteful video. Just think that, even though they're trying to make something good, they made a video with an eye-catching title, almost dramatizing every scene with sad music, a sort of cinematic/documentary intro. They could have *easily* make the same good things without having to make a video and uploading it on TH-cam just to profit with views out of someone's life threatening condition and, later on, death. You may say that they didn't do this because of that, but, as I said, making this video was a completely unnecessary step in order to make Xavier happy with that present. Even if they demoniticed it, they still got a somewhat of a potential viral video which attracts more people, and, inevitable, subscribers. So, from that point of view, I can understand those dislikes.
Out of 600k people some might have accidently pressed the dislike button. Some times i go to the videos I have watched before and it shows that I have disliked it mistakenly. I think nobody meant to dislike the video its just an accident
This video hits way too close to home. My mom was diagnosed with a incurable brain tumor called Anaplastic Oligodendroglioma while pregnant with me. She was given less than 2 months to live. 16 years later she’s still going strong and so am I. To see a video documenting what people like my mom go through is incredible and immensely emotional. From the bottom of my heart, Thank you Yes theory.❤️
@@_Nonplussed That is absolute horseshit and the main reason why the world is so totally screwed up. Because of people like you who see something ugly when everyone else sees genuine love and concern.
I'm not usually an emotional person, but the last few minutes of this video never fails to make me cry. Thank you Matt and to the Yes Theory team for sharing the story of this wonderful young man. And to his amazing family - thank you for showing the world what it truly means to love unconditionally.
A good friend of mine had terminal cancer and moved back to Baltimore to be closer to his family and be treated there. I was on the phone with him one day he said "Bro you wouldn't even recognize me right now. Cancer is the greatest weight loss I've ever had! It's awesome!". He passed a couple of weeks later. One day he was fine, the next he had a diagnosis, and within what felt like a blink of an eye he was gone. In that period of time he held strong a positive. To this day that phone call reminds me to never give up. It reminds me that strength can be rallied from within no matter what. His name was Will Frawley, he was a paramedic, a fireman, and a brother. He never gave up. Don't see it as sad. See it as the greatest weight loss plan he ever had.
Haven't cried once in like 10 years. Cried the last 30 minutes and 4 seconds. Life is Short, thanks for the reminding us what really matters. Rest in peace Xavier.
Idk if my female hormones are just through the roof but idk how people don’t cry for 10 years. I think i probably cry once a day, watching the news, seeing a cute puppy, watching a youtube video. My tear ducts are always ready to roll 😫😂
I can see pure empathy in Matt's eyes. Matt became a close companion to the whole family and on top of that introduced a kind hearted soul to lift them up. True warriors 👏💕
Joselito Balicante or growing up near a n older brother, sleeping every night, not knowing if your brother and only friend will make it through the night, the first 10 years of your life... because he was heavily handicapped and everyone around you, relatives, student fellas or people on streets (no matter the age) hate, laugh and bully you for having a handicapped brother. All of this while having a „father“ who was a heroin addict, destroying the entire family, making you loosing your parents, get stranded at grandparent‘s house as a small kid. Mother somewherever else, father dead. Yet one day my brother died and all that was left, were people doing the same shit on me for him dying... cruel world we live in. Ridiculous.
1 year since this video was uploaded. I am so grateful that my brothers story has touched SOOOO many people! His legacy truly lives on!! Thank you Yes Theory ♥️🥲
You guys are amazing, I'm happy that there were such loving people around him during his last months. I was wondering who was cutting onions during this video.. it's very emotional. Your brother is an absolute legend, may his soul rest in peace and watch over you❤
I cried so much through this, you had the most amazing brother I’m so so so sorry for your loss. Rip Xavier I’ll never forget your story and I’m glad I got to hear it thank you❤️
Not going to lie, I was avoiding this video because I knew it was going to hurt. Life is so precious and I love this community for pushing me to become better. I wish growth and prosperity for everyone reading. I wish it for those who aren’t reading this either.
I love to see that they're still connected and communicating with Luke. So glad that I bump to their TH-cam Channel. You bring us joy and lessons in every video that you made. Keep inspiring. May your soul Rest in Paradise Xavier.
Breaks my heart, looking in his room, he is a part of our JDM (Japanese Tuning Car) Community So it is very heartbreaking that a young soul like Xavier who is also a part of our community is gone. May you rest in peace EVOKIN8 :), our straight-piped exhaust notes, and our "braap sutututu"s will never forget you. From all of us gearheads and car lovers...
Grateful to have crossed paths with you Xavier, may you Rest In Peace
Yes Theory 😭😭😭
Yes Theory 🙏🏽
No please dont be true, I cried throughout this video and I'm barely in the middle 😥
Poor man...
really makes you think about your own life, rest in peace
Nobody is talking about how good a spirit Luke is. That’s a friend everyone needs
luke is awesome
That’s like everyone in Australia tbh
Stevie Leticq I wanna go to Australia
Yeah, that guy is a real one
He's a better Luke than i could ever be
Australian guy is the exact energy everyone wants to have
I want to like this comment but I refuse to ruin the 420 likes
@@user09459 to late
Mike Sacco Jr. Yasssss 😫
@@tobias6867 hey thats cool, nobody cares
Mady bro exactly like me like when I see video that has 5000 likes I want to like but it would be like 5001 em no thx
Imagine how hard it was to edit this and look back at all the footage...
Isabel Flood I feel like more sad the he was
not that hard
@@Waddaxdd then upload a 2 hour video on your channel *(Must be edited)*
DappyXD for heartless people
@@Waddaxdd are You Totally nuts!,
The fact that Matt actually became REAL friends with him, talking to him daily and doing all he did for the family speaks so much about his character. Most youtubers wouldn’t actually rearrange their lives and schedules to do this…sure they may touch base over facetime from time to time but what Matt did is so much more. God bless what these guys do and how many lives they touch and change for the better.
If I ever make it into a yes theory video I'm calling them every fucking day from that point forward.
That's why Matt is my favourite! Such a good, kind hearted, pure soul!
Kinda sad reading the title then seeing "3 months ago"
that's actually a really sad coincidence
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“When we’re born we’re all diagnosed with the same condition: death” idk why those words stuck with me through the whole thing
That'll stick with me for a while
I remember hearing this awhile ago, in a different form. It was “Life is just a terminal illness, and were all victims”
Anorak Me too!
I’ve head “life’s a bitch and then you die”
along with “The only thing certain for all of us in life, is death”
It sticks with you, doesn’t it?
But will never know how it feels until close to it
Life is an illness, ending with dead in 100% of all cases
I just took a shit
Not even a single ad. Big respect
Rythm Nation yeah at least these guys don’t put ads on their videos, when it’s about something like this
True... They have a huge heart
I feel like everyone would be okay with ads if all the money they made from this vid was funneled towards research for Xavier’s disease. With an okay from the family of course
4 ads
If they did put ads they'd probably donate the money to cancer research
The Australian guy who had just met Xavier did so much more for him than his lifelong idols.
It's so True!!!
I appreciate the video they sent, but it would have been really awesome if they would've sent him a signed shirt or ball maybe?
@@azrael4771 uhhh having TB12 and Bill shout out my name would be worth more to me than a signed piece
@@azrael4771 A shirt and a ball is meaningless with the time he has left. An item to be stored away on a shelf is probably nothing to him compared to the everlasting thought and memory he’ll carry that his 20 year long idols, acknowledged that he was out there. To most of us, celebrities feel like fairytales. Fictional people living amazing lives. But having them actually speak *to you* really makes everything feel so much more real
It's sad that they couldn't even fly to see him or something. That's the least they could've done. They just recorded a video for him and the only thing they said in it was to keep fighting. That fucking sucks if I'm honest. When they weren't even able to fly to see him in real life they at least should've done like a long video and say something nice to him and how they appreciate that he is such a big fan for so long. That man was a fan of them his entire life and the only thing he got in return is a 5 second video. These celebrities are just money machines and f them.
"I looked at the Devil straight in the face" most BadAss thing ever said.
Wasn’t badass to him, he was forced his cards. He had to, otherwise he wouldn’t have. A soul that will be remembered forever
@@Halamadridistas he wasn't forced to, he had 2 choices. Give up or look at the devil in the eye.
Multiple times man
“When we’re born we’re all diagnosed with the same condition: death.” That’s so true man. Wow.
Well yes. We die period
It's the worst STD, and infects every species.
SINISTER ACTIVITY zMmXXZZZ,bcxM,b,!
@@memberHD actually a jellyfish is immortal
@@pluontop-b its only immortal if it stays in the water
Man at 21 is given 1 year left live
Lives 4 more years. What a legend
Your legacy will live on
Also Xavier is a badass name wow
Pez absolutely !!! My lil bro will forever be a legend
E Squared your brother is a soldier, all love from my family to yours... ❤️
LEGEND
Thank you.
i had a friend named xavier, sadly he died in a shooting
He passed away only 3 weeks after her wedding. He lived for her happiness. Upon Patriots sending him personal message, and after seeing her wedding and her happiness, he had everything he ever wished for. I can say one thing for sure, and that is that heaven got one new beautiful angel.
This comment is everything !! ♥️♥️♥️
Dang it! This is the comment that made me sob 😭
I cannot BELIVE that Luke flew himself out, by himself to visit Xavier. That’s the people we need in this world.
nah he just wanted to see LA .... kidding kidding!!!
Yaakov Lasson not funny.
@@엘사-g2g take a joke
William Greene nah dude y’all just fucked up
@@williamgreene6669 not the time to tell a joke tho..
this had me ugly crying
rest in peace Xavier
I am only 11 minute into the video...wait he passed??
At 29:29 he did pass away
rest in peace man...
harty same... may he rest in piece. He’s inspired me to keep on moving no matter what... rest easy man you will always be in my heart
Rest In Peace
Shayla Yancey dame I looked at the comments and my time and it was 11 minutes in
UGH SAME😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I know how Xavier felt. I’m disabled. I have a condition that makes my bones weak and due to that I can’t walk without holding anything. Alhamduillah I survived 12 surgeries and countless fractures. And I’m only 14.
I know. The pain, the suffering.
Trust me Yes Fam. I know it all.
May allah grant you good health.
Osteogenesis imperfecta ?
If only I could transfer my bone integrity over to you. Like seriously over all the accidents I’ve endured I’ve never broken a bone.
may God bless you
@@avgredditors ameen
Yes theory makes the most meaningful content out there
Gordy Dix hands down
Um lazarbeam drove a virtual truck across Europe in 12 hours
They just understand life better than the rest of us
Facts.
Yes, Justine Bieber eating a burrito sideways was very meaningful
Im happy that Yes Theory kept in touch with the Aussie guy.
Waddup Broskis! Same
Not just that, but the energy he brought into the house when he came, it put a such smile on my face!
When someone can be nice to you, has a good story, you know you have a good bond, please just keep your friends, you will never have a million. Keep the ones who you had a moment with and make a bond, connect for a few days and boom you can be together for years
"Death is not the opposite of life. Life has no opposite. The opposite of death is birth. Life is eternal.” -Eckhart Tolle
How is that better
@@infogames2724 it means birth is good, the creation of life, the opposite of death. And life is eternal
Songs Instrumental cool but what does this have to do with he’s theory
@@Doom_State what does your comment have to do with anything in the video? He just stated an interesting quote, which about 600 people agree with, while you just up and argue with him for no good reason.
The meaning of life is death. You live to one faitful day, die. The meaning of death is life. If you were not to live you wouldnt have died.
This happens everyday, Xavier did not die alone, he was loved and cherished , the Australian gentlemen went to great lengths to make sure Xavier had some exciting moments, wish the world had more of those 2, thanks for sharing. Rip Xavier
yo papi absolutely right my boy
"When we're born, we're all diagnosed with the same condition - death." - The fact that he lived 4 years longer then the doctors expected means you can do what you want *Don't give up and it will happen*
Rip Xavier❤️
Im never going to die, my will power is that strong
"Do what you can't" - casey neistat
Поздрави братле, радвам се да те видя в това community!
Faith - Hope - Love
This guy: goes to meet women's cousin who is suffering from a terminal illness.
Ends up: Being in her wedding. Becoming GREAT friends and actually close and try to make a relationship not just having a conversation for content.
Respect dude. Your a great guy to do that.
Absolutely! It was an unforgettable experience ♥️
Yes theory for you.
"When we are born, We are all diagnosed with the same condition. Death."
Damn that was deep
That part hit like a damn bus
That hit me hard 😢
Yup, indeed. It is for us to get the most out of it
@@axdilez3486 mm. Yea. I just wish my parents didn't shout at me and make me cry every day tho 😔😐
Sunshine Gacha I feel you😢
I hope you're finally able to rest, Xavier. Thanks for all the smiles you left in your wake.
Hey, he made it almost 6 times past his prognosis. That’s one tough dude.
F for Xavier
I was given 12-18 months last year. They said I'd start to feel it at 6 months. Physically, I don't. But mentally, I appreciate a lot more. I watch the sunrise whenever I can (cancer screws with when you're tired/awake). Lose your hair, teeth. They don't talk about that in movies.
I know that with what I look like now, I could never be an inspirational video. And the things on my bucket list, I'm not capable of doing. I mostly go to the 3 blocks from the hospital, to the mall, and watch people (before the quarantine ). And I try and live through them. It's all I can do.
@@TheTechAdmin I hope you get better and be able to enjoy the world now and after quarantine.
@@TheTechAdmin Hope you get better man! i really do, but chemo consequences are different for everybody i guess, my dad is the strongest dude i know by far, he was diagnosted 4 years ago lung cancer and metastasis (head tumor and some others, i never knew all of them for my own mental stability), he's the only cancer patient in europe with over 36 chemos, and he has over 50 already, my dad is 64 years old this month and is still strong as hell, his hair didnt fall once, he only lost his armpits and legs hair haha, sometimes he's really tired and feels awful, doesn't sleep right and such, but physical syntoms are not as showable as you said, he was given 6 months 4 years ago, and he still wakes up everymorning and acts like superman, i hope he's a motivation for everyone struggling with cancer, and remember mental and attitude is everything!
Michael Antonio Good luck man best wishes :)
Despite what he's been through, man the Australian dude is filled with positive energy.
Um he was there for 5 mins and is still alive.
@@Halamadridistas He never said Luke died. He's just saying Luke's filled with a ton of positive energy, even after given a 3% chance to live.
These are 30 minutes I wouldn’t want to replace with anything.
I'd rather have watched porn
@@jakob6399 You need to find your heart man.
man... I was in the hospital for 40 days and had multiple heart/ lung surgeries and im only 17, My whole family and doctors thought I wasnt gonna be able to live, and when Xavier said he has moments about wanting to give up I know how he feels, my life will never be the same that it was before, but I'll always fight for my family and friends, This video made me cry multiple times cause I understand Xavier. I pray for EVERYBODY and ANYBODY who is going thru anything.
We love you, stay strong champ
Stay strong champ
stay strong bro!
”Life has no opposite. The opposite of death is birth. Life is eternal.”
Birth -> death
Life -> being dead
Yeah I don't mean to be anticlimactic but there kind of is an opposite
R4ktooN Anon being dead is a state of being, life isn’t.
@@Random-zk2sc This. Just facts, as sad and meaningless as this all is... It's only true.
Could stagnation be the opposite of life? Not progressing forward.
@@eneskaya7307 the word "life" is the noun for "living", I said the opposite of life is being dead because being dead doesn't have a specific noun, but just because there isn't an English word for it doesn't mean an opposite doesn't exist.
His mother is the sweetest woman ever.
You're a sweet woman too Zuko
Just seeing her filiming and waiting for her son's reaction while watching the video in the beginning, the words her eyes said is more than i've ever spoken in my life. God bless her♥️♥️♥️
@@Polvolk_ stop hitting on her😂
He had an absolutely perfect circle around him which was perfect and probably motivated him to fight further.
cal for real
This is one of those videos where you're just on the verge of tears the entire time you're watching it. You guys have amazing souls. I'll never get tired of this channel
on the verge isn’t even the word to describe me watching this… i cried from the start & all the way through. ughhhh 😩
@@yamiles
Yes, same xx
I've been in Matt's situation, watching a friend slowly die from liver cancer. I'm not on the verge of tears. I'm full out crying.
my heart is totally broken, his mother filming everything so she can have something to hold on when he's gone...
I think that's what made me the saddest 😭
Awwww I didn't even think about that .......craaaap here I go again 😭😭😭😭
I thought the same as I was watching. And his spirit was amazing, what trivial problems we have when things are put into perspective
Damn it. I wasn't even thinking about that. Now I'm crying again.
Agree its sad
I hope that every person that disliked this video finds happiness and find a way to enjoy life
What about the people who liked? (I disliked tho)
the people who like are normal and your weird for liking your own comment
Yes.
@@uninstall0491 but I didn't tho
@@mg-ej4po I wish them happiness and everything best too, no need to leave people out, but to those who disliked, they might need it more
The sad part is how this is only one of the millions of stories; Cancer sucks shit really made me cry
It really does. My oldest brother would be 39 today of cancer hadn't taken him.
@@whitneypickle I'm sorry about that
Just trust God. We can always Trust God.
unfortunately I don’t trust a god, I’m my own controller, I am MY higher power. I respect that you do though, it’s all belief.
Personally I don’t think that your religious maters during death but we can end life with positivity. Now I am the type of guy to make jokes about things and that’s what got me through my Grandmas death she died from lung cancer she would’ve been 83 tomorrow but unfortunately she is not here to celebrate it but we are. And basically when death comes around don’t be serious be funny make a joke because those seconds will go down in history in your families mind, your friends mind and everyone who you loved will want to see you happy and that is what is important.
I felt every moment of this vlog. Xavier was so brave yet so humble, what a beautiful soul. I too have terminal metastatic breast cancer. I was given the same prognosis. 6 years ago this July 27th (my husband’s birthday), I was told I had 3 to 6 months to live. The cancer was extremely aggressive and had spread from my breast to all of my spine and 2 ribs. I had a tumour in my femur too. Hearing those words literally felt like someone had opened a sink hole under my feet. My husband and my mum were with me when I was given the diagnosis. I immediately felt I needed to protect them, so I said, I accept I have cancer but I won’t ever accept my prognosis. I was 43 with one son (who’s on the autistic spectrum) and 4 step children (my husbands children). The most difficult thing I have ever had to do, is tell my son it was terminal cancer. He was 18 at the time, just turning 19. I couldn’t lie to him because he is extremely intelligent, it’s high functioning Asperger’s syndrome he has, so lying was off the table. I told him then what I’ve been saying to other cancer patients since. A prognosis is only an opinion, it’s not fact. I don’t claim the diagnosis, I never say my cancer, I say the cancer, I do this because when you say something is yours, you welcome it, you want it. I don’t want this cruel disease.
I’m on my 4th line of treatment, cancer is a b**ch, it learns how to get around the breast cancer treatments. So you get times when your treatment works and the cancer shrinks and you get so elated! Then it stops working and you start falling down that sink hole again. Then the next treatment works for a while, then stops. The emotional rollercoaster is exhausting and mentally crippling. As I’m writing this, I feel guilty because I’ve not had chemotherapy yet, it’s all been targeted treatment and hormone blocking treatment. Although I have bad side effects, it’s not like chemotherapy. I’m terrified of having chemo.
Cancer guilt is one of the hardest things to carry. The guilt that you are putting your family through so much pain because they feel so helpless. The guilt when someone you’ve met and become close to who is a cancer patient, passes away. Survivor guilt. It’s horrendous.
Watching Xavier fight the fight, I recognised his exhaustion. It’s exhaustion like no other. When you wake in the morning, you may have had 9, maybe 10 hours sleep but you literally feel like you’ve not slept for a month. I saw his guilt too. It makes you feel so inadequate. You can’t do the simplest of tasks without feeling shattered and that makes you feel like a burden. But, I saw his smile too, believe me, those moments are incredible because for a while you forget your ill. Thank you for holding space for Xavier, it was beautiful to watch and thank you for giving me an opportunity to write what I have. Holding space for someone who is terminally ill, literally takes the weight off them for that time and it’s such a relief and blessing.
Sleep gently Xavier.
Just love one another and always be kind AND live every single second of your life, really live. 🥰
Kindest regards Ann. Guernsey, Channel Islands.🙏🏻
Thank you
Thank you, Anne.
Dream Catcher:
What a powerful story..
Metastatic Breast Cancer:
Those words are terrifying to all women!
Oh, I wish you well in your battle!
You are Loved.
Thank you everyone 🙏🏻
26 years old, that’s really sad. I can’t believe how well he dealt with all this. I really don’t think I’d have been as strong as Xavier. This video is as good a tribute as you can get.
I agree
It made me cry😥. I always get sad when someone younger than me dies💔. I ask why couldn't they have more time?
Since I knew I would have died I would have donated my organs...hoping that someone will live instead of me
26 year old he’s only about 3 months older than me
Yeah I am 26 and I cant believe he went away that young but I know how fragile and short life is. One moment we are at the top and good and the other moment we could be somewhere else. Wish you all health guys and that life treats you kindly. My prayers and best wishes to those who are down and sick :(
Can someone also appreciate that Luke saved up 1MONTH OF HIS SALLAARY TO MET HIM AND GIVE HIM ENERGY
love is amazing 😍
I love how luke is just a reoccurring dude like you met him randomly and now he’s like a bestie 😂😂
yess
Fr
Seriously!! I love Luke’s energy!!
Cancer is just so horrible, id never wish it on anyone not even my worst enemy. My condolences to Xavier’s family.
Uhh he didnt die of czncer
Kate Weissenberger I am sorry for your loss
@@samsunited4965 wat
Kate Weissenberger wow I’m sorry 🙁 my friend died on July 22 2019 my best friend of 29 years :(
dumb ass ....in the video it said that he had a rare form of liver cancer... that’s a form of cancer
It's been 2 years since this was posted. Xavier's story, as well as the story of his family, is still reaching people. I hope he is partying it up in the afterlife, and I hope his family is doing well! ❤️
This means so much ❤️
This story proves that a stranger is a friend you haven’t met yet.
Xavier, you are a legend. Rest easy brother.
The people who disliked it were crying and couldn’t see the like button and miss licked
Facts 😂
No they just disliked him being in this Situation
Who even licks the like button
@@encryptedjc1772 he was also crying so he misspelled,understoos?
Nah its just australians pressing the like button
I cried when he was talking about his struggles.
I cried trough the whole video 😢😅
You got 420 likes on ur comment💪🏾
Me too but I cried through it all
Same here, then I started crying 10x more at the end
he die same less than a day as juice wrld
Xavier, wherever you are, thank you for being such a tough fighter. Thank you Matt for sharing this.
"When we're born, we're all diagnosed with the same condition... death." Wow, that hit way harder than I expected. Man, this video had me in constant tears, so well done and just so wonderful of you all to arrange. This is why I'm such a big fan of you guys, moments like these where you go above and beyond for someone. I didn't expect the ending though, that broke my heart. He seemed like such a wonderful man, and had such wonderful friends and a wonderful family there for him and caring for him. Rest in peace, Xavier. 💔
Loomis yummy
I feel like everyone crys at the end.
@@jxkubpiatek7551 wtf
Luke could not pronounce anything in Spanish but he still has the best energy
he's actually so chill as well
literally a so chill dude with more positive vibes than nearly anyone I know
This video made me realize something. It could be anyone’s last 3 months, last 3 weeks, last 3 days, last 3 hours, last 3 minutes, and last 3 seconds. Those last 3 should be the best 3 ever. Each one should be better than the last. When I look at Xavier, he didn’t get to go to the wedding. And that was something that hurt him. For other people it may not be a wedding that puts them down. It could be anything. Something we say, the way we look at them, and most importantly the way we treat them. So after watching this video I realized, that no matter who it is. Treat everyone like it’s their last 3. Years, months, weeks, days, hours, minutes, and seconds. Cause you wouldn’t want to leave our beautiful earth being laughed at or made fun of. You’d wanna leave being loved, and with people that treat you like it’s your last 3.
Thats some wholesome deep shiz right there
Damn that's crazy
Wow that’s quite a comment
Wow man i literally cried in the first time of life by seeing a comment.
Honestly tho i dont really care what people will think about me when i'm gone. They can laugh, they can step on my gravestone, they can hate me i dont really care cause by that time, well... I'm gone. But one thing that i will certainly do now as i'm living right at this moment that i'll living the life to help more PEOPLE in my own unique ways. What you said about "YOU don't want people have bad perception to you when you're gone" is really not the kind of mindset that i agree with and it's sure giving me fear & anxiety that i need to be "perfect" in everything that i do so people will "accept" me as the reward of doing something "good". That statement is also counter-intuitive if you want to live the life of impacting other people live for good, because most of the time people like that always go against the mainstream and by going against mainstream means you will do alot of things that may cause people around you dislike what you do. And that statement mentality is just not going to support it. You could have said it better like "No matter what people said about you, do the things what you feel right no matter whether they like it or not, believe in yourself first and eventually they will believe in you." Because if you're trully have a goodwill no matter what you do that make them dislike you now, they will LOVE you in the end.
Bro I have never cried so much for a stranger, thank you for telling Xaviers story and introducing me to a man I didn’t know I needed to meet. The things we go through in life are so trivial compared to the fight this man faced. I am a better man after watching this than I was before, and for that I can thank Xavier. What a legend. Rest In Paradise champ, we’re all still rooting for you bro.
Really hits home when I think that he's the same age as myself. Life is so unfair.
SLIC3 0F LIFE that is facts yo
SLIC3 0F LIFE yeah, it’s crazy how someone’s life can just change like that in just in a snap of a finger
Xp Reflex God has a reason for everything
Rest in peace. he passed away December 5th 2019 :( you fought for as long as you could. I'm so sorry! My heart goes out to those who loved and cared for him. 😭
What does he leave on this earth? What is the effect of this video?
I think I value life more now and believe more in fighting, But at the end of the day the only thing that matters is love and the people. Love and the people. I've been saying this for a while...
@@latifalujain2758 It was September 26th 2019 not December 26th 2019.
He died on my 14th birthday...
Rest in peace
He made it to his birthday!
SpixDango he did the wedding was in November
I wish every terminally ill person could have a Yes Theory adventure
DNTV I wish every terminally ill person didn’t have terminally illnesses
zurgut54 he didn’t meant it that way.
I wish that every terminally ill person was ok
I wish I could be terminally ill
@@ヤマト-q7x this is not reddit
and same
Dr. tells me I have a yr to live. After watching this video I feel so much more hope. I hope anybody watching this gets the message that a loved one needs love and support more than ever!! May have had a lot to do with Xavier living as long as he did. Some of us die alone and I am willing to bet that some of them gave up too soon :( Matt is an Angel ! a rare human being with a huge heart ! I wish there were many like him ! Thank you Matt for this inspiring video!
Hey Gayle I hope you're still here with us
Hi Gayle!! Keep fighting girl!!!
About six months ago, my dad was diagnosed with terminal Leukemia. All the treatments that they tried had no effect, and the cancer progressed rapidly. It's a very real fear of mine that every time i make the 5 hour drive back to college after a weekend visit that that will be the last time i see my father. thank you so damn much for even just trying to bring family together, because nothing is more important than family.
Be strong! Your dad needs you and know you can do it. Much love to you and to your dad!
We’re here for you both💗Keep being strong through these hard times.
Hang in there my dear . Your dad needs you to be stronger more then ever . My sister was diagnosed with cancer 11 years ago and it reoccured back again last year aswell she was diagnosed with a second altogether. It's been a rough couple of years now running around to the hospital. I keep telling myself that I need to be strong for her more then ever so hang in there love . Sending prayers to your dad and to your whole family .💟
I'm not being a dick-head but try be as healthy as you can be :). I wish you and everyone all the best.
Tell him to follow Jesus
"we all die, the goal isn't to live forever its to make something that will."
xd
Where is this quote
“Don’t be sad that’s it’s over, be happy that it even happened.” He lived 4 YEARS longer than the doctors thought possible, that a win in my book
Bloody oath! If it were me, i'm not sure how long i'd stay strong for. It's a hard thing.
Trippy watching this, I was 26 around that time in 2019 and was told I was on borrowed time myself. I was told October 15th that no doctor would attempt to fix the large vascular malformation inside my brain because of the dangers. Living what you understand to be your final months, it does something to your soul. This guy’s spirit was strong. Walk free in paradise man 🙏
To you as well. Hope you are doing better
If you don't mind me asking. How are you doing now?
@@kidfrankie54 well they got it out, it was “difficult” let’s say and caused a lot of damage but they got it out and I’m alright. Some things have been a struggle but I’ve pretty much returned to normal life.
@@azadisoleil6319 cheers bro. Thank you for the response. You got a stranger rooting for you
@@kidfrankie54 I thank you. It’s been a journey. My body has healed oddly well, I think my mind may need work throughout the rest of my life though.
I feel bad taking my life for granted. Xavier has been fighting for himself everyday, appreciating each and everyday he lives. RIP Xavier❤️
Carlo.Strange when someone is fighting for a life to get more
longer some people are losing hope to live in this world. And count me in. Im tired to live but When i saw him fighting for about years and his sufferings. 😢
I totally agree with this.
God damn, it really hurts that a person like this passes away.
He's the kinda person we all love
My hero! ♥️
Amen!
Amen!
Wr3x yes so sad! Amazing person!
Rip
He died in December. I’m glad he got to live until his cousins wedding and his birthday. May his soul be blessed, and safe now. If your wondering if I’m lying just watch the whole video. Fly high. 🕊💛
What's your snap I want to see
Yael Calixto Why
Are you sure?
Crypto if u watch the whole video then ull see
Mine died December 16 2019 :(
You honored Xavier, his family, and his memory, so thoroughly, just by being there. By sharing Xavier and his family's story, you've helped me and so many others know, love, and get inspired by him.
Xavier was 26 years old when he passed and i pray for that whole family.
U got bananas?
Tirpis ha lol so unrelated lol but it’s funny
Ik his name is that but just saying I mean it’s unrelated to comment and vid
Blazegamer 14 name of the commenter is banana bus, it’s kinda relevant
HowKidsBecomeKids ik but I meant it’s unrelated to the vid and the comment banana bus made I said this already
And what is praying gonna do?
I'm crying after he didn't go to his cousin's wedding and after weeks he died. Rest in paradise ,this whole video was emotional
Vortex Blast I’ve never cried from a TH-cam video before 🥺
@@xo7689 I've never cried before :-(
he was 26, man. just 26. I can't stop crying
Yeah. thanks to Matt to represent Xavier. It really emotional.
Hopefully he was a child of God, I have a feeling he was and is.
Video: A Stranger’s Last 3 Months to Live
TH-cam: recommends me this video 3 months later
Me too, I just got recommended this an hour ago.
I just got recommended this video
honestly i wish i could meet them they’re amazing☹️
Just Get Recommend This Video To
I saw this as a meme on Reddit and searched the video
Xavier's story is humbling, inspiring, tinged with a sense of sadness and yet tremendous bravery and determination. I also noted the lovely bright coloured pens he used to do his colouring artwork, - maybe another insight the into beauty inside him.
His mother recording things make me cry just look at her finding a way to live beyond his life
My heart cries today.😢
No mother should have to lose a son or daughter. I can’t even begin to imagine the toll that has.
💔😭😔
I think that part made me cry as well more than anything!
If anyone sees this. Make sure to live your life out like YOU want too. Don’t let anyone tell you your not strong enough and that you can’t do it. Make sure to be with the people that you cherish the most and laugh a little.
Life could be gone in an instant and it’s up to you on how you want to carry it out
Thank you for your kind words♥️♥️
Thanks so much u acc made me cry 😭
like YOU want to*
I wanna become a good music producer. I was gonna sleep now but fuck it it's now or never.
Purxy is just out here trying to spread a positive message can all of you shits not just let this person be nice
Fruck grammar 😎
Currently fighting a late diagnosticed cancer myself. Live the life to the fullest people, could be a sickness, an accident, you never know when it's your time to go so make sure you live everyday like it's the last one!
May you rest in peace Xavier and hopefully i won't meet you too soon up there!
Stay strong man, wishing you the best!
Stay strong 💪 Man
May god intervene with a miracle and take away your cancer. I send you love and compassion.
Keep going man you've got all you need to beat this
Hey m8 sending all good vibes, you’re a warrior!
I have been watching Yes Theory for quite some time and I have never commented, in fact I have never commented on TH-cam.. however I felt inclined to write this and how this video displays a true fighter, what a gentleman Xavier was.. A true and kind hearted soul. May you rest in peace and fly high with the angels sir. Love from England.
He passed on my birthday... There I was celebrating being 23, when Xavier’s family (& so many others were grieving).. Just makes you realize how fragile & delicate life really is.
RIP Xavier, you will be missed dearly.
Jayden Raelee yes it is very sad stuff like this happens everyday and life just goes on
I was just thinking the same thing I was out celebrating my 27th birthday, While his family was in grieving...it makes you really think about the life your leading.
Jayden Raelee i was just thinking the same thing. celebrating 22. im glad he reached past his birthday
Same here, my 24th birthday on the 5th. I don't know how to feel about death.
Happy birthday tho...
I mean... damn... Imagine going to sleep everyday, not knowing if you will ever wake up and there is nothing anyone can do about it, you can't call your mom to get you out of it, you can't get your dad to help you and even your doctor has given up on you. Every night you go to sleep, you are dancing with death himself and it is only a battle you and you alone can fight in. My respect goes to that man and my condolenses to his mighty strong family.
Well said.
@@cal7350 Dont we all wake up, not knowing if we will wake up in the morning. It really is what it is.
I don't care if I wake up or not. Only things I do is: Sleep, game with my friend (bcs he wants too) , and eat. I don't go to school or anything bcs I just can't.
OsvG “Because I cant”
What?
❤️
you can see him get skinnier and skinnier as the years went on, I was so happy to see him enjoy his last moments.
Bruh
I cried when I heard him talk...
He's not dealing with those struggles anymore. He's in a beautiful place now smiling ear to ear.
Matt has pored his heart and soul into this, lovely to see how people still care for each other
"When we're celebrating love, we bring back people." Wow, that's such an insightful and beautiful thing to say... Thanks Matt, and rest in peace to your beloved friend Xavier
It took me a long time to want to click this but today, im glad i did. R.i.p Xavier and thank you for showing what a beautiful soul he was. Its truly amazing
He fought to see his cousins wedding. He fought to get to his 26th birthday. He fought till the bitter end and may he rest if piece hopefully with the feeling that his life was still full of blessings even when he was in his toughest times.
These tears are for Xavier and anyone fighting to get past the goals they set themselves in a time of pain and hurt.
in peace*
Couldn’t say it better
“You are most alive when you are closest to death” - Socrates
So true.
Socrates didn't say that lol.
As far as I know, Socrates didn't say that.
@@eudaimon7324 okay tf. than Monkey Business said it, who tf cares.
@@Turnpost2552 a lot of people cares. Tf
He was a car enthusiast too. We lost a good one boys, we lost a good one.
That makes it even worse 😥
Evo-king plate on his door
Dude I noticed... if he were still here id be knocking on tj hunts and tanner Fox's doors rn and sharing the story and how we need to go meet this man. I wish there was more out there for people in need of love like Xavier.
I love this you guys throw a dart on map to fly then meet a guy luke on footpath in aus and now he is in other corner of world to inspire another stranger ,that’s awesome. You guys are uniting world 🌏.
It’s sad that he’s gone now but he isn’t suffering anymore and can finally take a break
@David Williams yeah...read the top comment ;_;
@David Williams yes...
Did you guys even watch the whole video? It says at the end
A very long break...
@@ifyouhaveghosts6 Or watch the video, lol
This is humanity. Kind to the core. Yes Theory, you represent humanity to me.
Agreed.
More like the ideal humanity
Petition to make Luke a permanent member of the Yes Theory team
He already dead
@@bradynwisotzkey6702 he said luke not xavier
@@bradynwisotzkey6702 luke is the austarlian one
DINO FAM 💀💀💀
Grace Stevenson yessssss
This video and the authenticity of love and empathy gives me chills. Matt you are awesome and yes theory are awesome by staying in touch wit those you meet. And you see these people are not just for videos. Authentic and pure. Much love to xavier and his family.
I thought the exact same thing! They are TRULY GENUINE in what they do❤️
I just survived cancer and it makes me sad that I got a second chance when some people don't. Rest in peace Xavier
Nina A THATS horrible, I’m glad you made it And fought through it. Mad respect for you ✊
Were you bold?
@@nicksnickers411 bold? Yes. But also bald, yes.
Nina A so now live on for those who didn’t get the opportunity you got, live on your life to the fullest.
Nina A you’re awesome keep being you I’m so proud of you
Luke is a blinding light in this world and everyone he touches he brings magic too, I’m so grateful he and Xavier were able to meet ❤️
Luke is so awesome and such a bright spark. Always has a smile on his face. What an inspiration
Luke?
Kaelib TeeGarden yes Luke have you watched the video?
@Joshua Tyler Ahhh my b my b
Mihir Satra not sure do some google searches
Damn who ever disliked this video literally has no heart, soul and empathy. May Xavier Rest In Peace and my condolences to the Romero family. May his family find the courage and strength to persevere in this tough world we call life 🕊❤️
It feels as though TH-cam puts fake dislikes to even it out.
So maybe if that’s the case then those that disliked really do have no soul.
You gotta look at every perspective.
I think that, probably, people who disliked this video, could've perceived it as somewhat of a distasteful video. Just think that, even though they're trying to make something good, they made a video with an eye-catching title, almost dramatizing every scene with sad music, a sort of cinematic/documentary intro.
They could have *easily* make the same good things without having to make a video and uploading it on TH-cam just to profit with views out of someone's life threatening condition and, later on, death.
You may say that they didn't do this because of that, but, as I said, making this video was a completely unnecessary step in order to make Xavier happy with that present.
Even if they demoniticed it, they still got a somewhat of a potential viral video which attracts more people, and, inevitable, subscribers.
So, from that point of view, I can understand those dislikes.
They could've thought YesTheory put ads on the vid
they couldnt see through the tears
Out of 600k people some might have accidently pressed the dislike button. Some times i go to the videos I have watched before and it shows that I have disliked it mistakenly. I think nobody meant to dislike the video its just an accident
Aye, he made it to his goal of 26. I am proud of him.
This video hits way too close to home. My mom was diagnosed with a incurable brain tumor called Anaplastic Oligodendroglioma while pregnant with me. She was given less than 2 months to live. 16 years later she’s still going strong and so am I. To see a video documenting what people like my mom go through is incredible and immensely emotional. From the bottom of my heart, Thank you Yes theory.❤️
Good luck brother💪🏻
my mama was diagnosed with anaplastic astrocytoma when i was 8 years old. my well wishes go out to you and your mom
BalticFNM that’s so awesome to hear man, I wish you and your mom the best
I wish you, your mother and your family the best💙 Stay strong - keep fighting🙏🏼
I wish her all the luck and strength in the world
How could anyone dislike this video???? It is humanity at it's finest. Rest in peace Warrior Xavier.
Their eyes were blurry from tears and they misclicked
Just realize that 98% of people are good. Then there are pieces of jealous shit like the thumbs down people. Fuck em.
@@panchovilla5458 must be only logical reasoning
Probably cause there kind of capitalizing on his ilness
@@_Nonplussed That is absolute horseshit and the main reason why the world is so totally screwed up. Because of people like you who see something ugly when everyone else sees genuine love and concern.
Xavier is what everyone wants to be, a warrior. He deserves upmost respect
✊🏻✊🏻
Ummm
Utmost Respect* and yes he does
✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻
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I'm not usually an emotional person, but the last few minutes of this video never fails to make me cry. Thank you Matt and to the Yes Theory team for sharing the story of this wonderful young man. And to his amazing family - thank you for showing the world what it truly means to love unconditionally.
It’s sad seeing how much weight he lost...
It reminds me of my dead grandmother. She lost a bunch of weight when she had 1 month to live.
A good friend of mine had terminal cancer and moved back to Baltimore to be closer to his family and be treated there. I was on the phone with him one day he said "Bro you wouldn't even recognize me right now. Cancer is the greatest weight loss I've ever had! It's awesome!". He passed a couple of weeks later. One day he was fine, the next he had a diagnosis, and within what felt like a blink of an eye he was gone. In that period of time he held strong a positive. To this day that phone call reminds me to never give up. It reminds me that strength can be rallied from within no matter what. His name was Will Frawley, he was a paramedic, a fireman, and a brother. He never gave up. Don't see it as sad. See it as the greatest weight loss plan he ever had.
Matt Schmissrauter sorry for ur loss my man 😞
@@Fire_Marshall_Bill
May he rest in peace.❤
He was pretty buff though, not really fat imo
Imagine being strong enough to have you’re life last 5 TIMES LONGER than it should have out of pure strength
axio dude, it’s really not necessary to correct small stuff like that. we all know what he/she meant.
Willpower
Haven't cried once in like 10 years. Cried the last 30 minutes and 4 seconds. Life is Short, thanks for the reminding us what really matters. Rest in peace Xavier.
Idk if my female hormones are just through the roof but idk how people don’t cry for 10 years. I think i probably cry once a day, watching the news, seeing a cute puppy, watching a youtube video. My tear ducts are always ready to roll 😫😂
@@scivnce4273 its not that its just how some people are. I'm a man and I cry. I do and I can admit it
Lol imagine not crying everyday
@@gracedonfield1047 i don't cry everyday i just cry when I have a surge of emotions
Im usually not very emotional 😄 and the social conditioning for men not to cry is another factor, i think.
I can see pure empathy in Matt's eyes. Matt became a close companion to the whole family and on top of that introduced a kind hearted soul to lift them up. True warriors 👏💕
Died on the same day as my Dad, just 11 years apart. We’ll see them again.
May he rest in peace aswell ma brothr
Imagine being parents watching ur baby boy fighting for his life😭😭😭😭
Joselito Balicante or growing up near a n older brother, sleeping every night, not knowing if your brother and only friend will make it through the night, the first 10 years of your life... because he was heavily handicapped and everyone around you, relatives, student fellas or people on streets (no matter the age) hate, laugh and bully you for having a handicapped brother. All of this while having a „father“ who was a heroin addict, destroying the entire family, making you loosing your parents, get stranded at grandparent‘s house as a small kid. Mother somewherever else, father dead.
Yet one day my brother died and all that was left, were people doing the same shit on me for him dying...
cruel world we live in. Ridiculous.
@@inverovenevectum6857 for sure😭
1 year since this video was uploaded. I am so grateful that my brothers story has touched SOOOO many people! His legacy truly lives on!! Thank you Yes Theory ♥️🥲
He's such a hero and inspiration.
It absolutely has. Love to your family @eSquared.
You guys are amazing, I'm happy that there were such loving people around him during his last months. I was wondering who was cutting onions during this video.. it's very emotional. Your brother is an absolute legend, may his soul rest in peace and watch over you❤
@@jumpinghero12 thank you sooo much. Your words mean the world! ♥️
I cried so much through this, you had the most amazing brother I’m so so so sorry for your loss. Rip Xavier I’ll never forget your story and I’m glad I got to hear it thank you❤️
Not going to lie, I was avoiding this video because I knew it was going to hurt. Life is so precious and I love this community for pushing me to become better. I wish growth and prosperity for everyone reading. I wish it for those who aren’t reading this either.
I love to see that they're still connected and communicating with Luke. So glad that I bump to their TH-cam Channel. You bring us joy and lessons in every video that you made. Keep inspiring. May your soul Rest in Paradise Xavier.
Breaks my heart, looking in his room, he is a part of our JDM (Japanese Tuning Car) Community
So it is very heartbreaking that a young soul like Xavier who is also a part of our community is gone.
May you rest in peace EVOKIN8 :), our straight-piped exhaust notes, and our "braap sutututu"s will never forget you.
From all of us gearheads and car lovers...
Welijami yessir love him forever
The car gods are with him.
The car gods gave him that evo he always dream of .
Hes driving the roads we can only dream up
Everyone make your next Rev, Burnout, 2 step, Drift, Cold start, etc... For Xavier