That father is a true example of Godly love and forgiveness. To see the son playing at the end within his father applauding….moving indeed. What an episode! Let us show love and acceptance to one another.❤
Thank GOODNESS they are talking about post-tbi behavior changes. It took me THIRTEEN YEARS to get a brain injury diagnosis post auto collision. I lost a LOT. OF. TIME. I'm still dealing with the changes 25 years later. Multiple re-injuries. I'm so amazed at how resilient my brain is!!!
I pray Benedict get sober forever, he seems a lovely young Man. My Daughter died last August from chronic severe alcoholism she was 39. Watching him withdrawing bought back all the memories it's so so sad.
Thanks for sharing that w/ us. I feel it helps others. And, of course, I'm also sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you are able to find a way to go on w/ YOUR life though!
THATS amazing! 👏👏 I hope you will continue to do well I'm a geriatric nurse. I can't tell you how many times I've seen elderly been taken off opiods without any help or care about the withdrawl. If you been on 32ug fentanyl patches for years, like a doctor don't know, that just ending them all cold turkey is gonna give bad withdrawal.. and often the elderly that can't communicate..
The cure is to not drink. We need to begin to make drinking alcohol a special occasion drink and not an everyday or after work thing. Lifelong teatoller here
No cure for alcoholism. You stop drinking but it only takes one drink to start it over again...some ppl it may take more than one in other words it is always there. I have 42 yrs sober but I know I can never have a drink again....ever!
I'm a 61 year old man, and this episode made me cry. My first tears came when I saw John feeling probably hopless and devastated, especially since he had already problems with his brain, I trully hope he has recovered completely and is doing well and happy. Equally emotional but uplifting was Benedict's case, a true example of real fatherly love. I wish Benedict success controlling his addiction, it will be a life long job, but not something he couldn't accomplish, especially with the help of that incredible, loving ad thoughtful father he has. This is by far the episode I've liked the best.
I was aghast that Benedict spent 3 days in a detox center. With national health care, I assumed that going into a detox program would mean detox AND rehab. Alcohol abuse is draining on public healthcare systems. It seems that a detox program should be contingent on going through rehab as well. Every dollar spent on rehab is a hundred not spent in A&E.
@@jeanaprewitt9658 Dear Jeanna, I couldn't agree more with you, detox is vitally important and should go hand in hand with a rehab program, which is absolutely essential for a real and lasting recovery of addictions.
I only discovered this channel a couple months ago and have been watching as many episodes as I can. My daughter is a cardiac care nurse and I know she has some really tough days. Also my husband was a recovering alcoholic who had many years of sobriety. I’ve seen so many suffering alcoholics going through all kinds of terrible things. Like withdrawals, hallucinations and relapses. I pray Benedict has continued sobriety and success. It can be done. I know many people who have succeeded. Thank you for this episode. ❤
I love this series, it’s not afraid to show most of the blood and damage done to the body during an accident. I’m a retired nurse and I’ve missed it so much. This show makes me feel like I’m back working in the hospital. Great job everyone. 😊❤🙏
I have been binge watching this series and Emergency AU for weeks, i think im addicted but thats ok ❤..ive learned alot watching these series bùt one of the main things ive learned is that We all are human, & we all are capable of loving the next person unconditionally..it dont take much time or effort to show your fellow brother or sister that you care and they aren't alone through a devasting traumatic situation ❤🫶
Rough episode. John realizing that he can’t answer the orientation questions correctly, and Benedict knowing that he was going into withdrawal and not being able to get help. Ugh.
Head injuries. TBI's are absolutely life changing. Our friend's sweet quiet musically gifted teen son had one and a few years later after a med increase he shot his dad, mom, sister and himself. All heard by his recently married older brother who had been on the phone with his dad. I absolutely blame the medication...but he also needed something. Such a tragedy. No one blamed the son. His brain was never the same affer surviving a 30 foot fall in a grain silo.
I felt bad for Benedict. He had to wait to get the shakes from withdrawals until he was treated 😢 And, it's sad to see the suffering he's gone through. I really hope he can get ahead of his addiction and overcome it every day 🙏
I feel really bad about the young guy asking for help with alcohol withdrawals he obviously came before they got too bad and they get bad he probably knows that and planned better to come by before they fully kicked in sadly they sent him away not sick enough but now he’s about to start getting really sick and could turn deadly even. He more than likely went and got a way to get more alcohol to avoid the withdrawals since the hospital didn’t really feel he needed serious care. That’s sad and causes a lot of relapse and also fails for addicts struggling.
This is a wonderful, informative and touching programme, but that awful 'music' = noise, covers up the voices of the patients and staff. It's so annoying. It happens on so many videos.
John's breaking my heart 😢 Also it blows my mind how patients can step out of the ambulance bay to smoke lol In American hospitals (at least all the ones I've worked at/been to) if patients leave the building they're immediately deemed "left AMA"
😂 That was my thought too. Can you imagine? Where did bed 12 go? Smoke break. Oh ok. Let me tidy the bed while he’s out. Such lovely weather, bless him. 🤣 I guess when every bed isn’t worth thousands and a need to be filled, smoke breaks will be the norm.
Alcoholism is a disease. If you truly want help it is out there. It isn’t easy, but maintaining your alcoholism is exhausting work. One day at a time. ❤ to all still suffering, and 💕to those of us who are in recovery!
Benedict, the Alcohol Addiction. ....if its Only cine on Suddenly,at 19,...What's happened to this Young Man???😢 Benedict, you JUST DONT REALIZE, just How WONDERFUL, YOU ARE!!!!! My Goodness, you play,Play, an ORCHESTRA,in ENGLAND!!!! BEAUTIFUL MYSIC you play,In ENGLAND!!!! 😮 Icould Never Do That,in Fact,Most People on our Planet,could NOT Do,what You have done! I Wish,I had even One Parent,who Loved Me,like your Dad Loves You! Your Very Blessed
31:52 he came in before asking for help and they turned him away. Now look at him, this is heartbreaking. Both my parents were alcoholics I do not have much compassion for addicts.
@@maryellenblount6376 yeah well I'm an addict and tore my family apart but now I'm Six YEARS Clean from all drugs and have a great life and family Today. People do change.
Head injuries, would a baseball bat hitting front right lobe (skull fracture) missing a piece of bone in that area be classified as severe❓I was very lucky, thank the Lord🙏🏻
You wonder about the people that are outside sitting in waiting room why they’re in the ER they seem fine and not very I’ll. I guess looks can be deceiving.
Yeah, sorry. I do not believe a father with a cross behind him saying he did not cause it and cannot cure it. There was fundamental emotional neglect there at some point.
a lot of the things the father was saying are straight out of the therapy manual for people dealing/living with alcoholic famly members - so don't beat him up over that to me it means that he was trying because he sought out therapy. I have several alhcoholic family members and he is absoltutely correct the only person who can cure addict is the addict.
BS you can't say that at all. Alcoholism is a genetic disorder involving 5 known genes one of which is a protective gene, if that's switched off you have a real issue controlling use or entering into sobriety. It has nothing to do with upbringing per se or neglect. We know this by studying identical twins.
Benedict drinking 74 units of 9% strong cider...in a day, is the biggest exaggeration i have heard in my whole life! I don't doubt he drinks alot,but...........!!
Maybe he meant units of alcohol? Not 74 bottles/cans of cider? It sounds a lot, but I think one unit is 10ml or 8g of pure alcohol, a strong beer is about 3 units. But I admit it sounds really a lot with 74 units. It would mean about 24-25 beers. But then again alcoholics really CAN drink a lot when they're far down on the road to death/institution..
I almost started crying when John asked why his leg wasn't working and when he got the year wrong.
That father is a true example of Godly love and forgiveness. To see the son playing at the end within his father applauding….moving indeed. What an episode! Let us show love and acceptance to one another.❤
Hello Deborah, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
The devastation in johns eyes when he hears the year broke my heart. I hope he is well.
I cried for him
When he asks why his leg isn’t working - broke my heart 💔
That has me in tears 😢. Hang in there John,praying for you.
Thank GOODNESS they are talking about post-tbi behavior changes. It took me THIRTEEN YEARS to get a brain injury diagnosis post auto collision. I lost a LOT. OF. TIME. I'm still dealing with the changes 25 years later. Multiple re-injuries.
I'm so amazed at how resilient my brain is!!!
Benedict's story just broke my heart. All the best to him and his loving dad, Damian. Hats off to the staff.
I pray Benedict get sober forever, he seems a lovely young Man. My Daughter died last August from chronic severe alcoholism she was 39. Watching him withdrawing bought back all the memories it's so so sad.
Hello Pretty, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
I am so sorry for your loss. 💜
Thanks for sharing that w/ us. I feel it helps others. And, of course, I'm also sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you are able to find a way to go on w/ YOUR life though!
So very sorry for your loss. Sending gentle internet hugs. ❤❤❤
Going on Six YEARS Clean from all drugs. Praying for anyone going through withdrawals. Not fun.
THATS amazing! 👏👏
I hope you will continue to do well
I'm a geriatric nurse. I can't tell you how many times I've seen elderly been taken off opiods without any help or care about the withdrawl. If you been on 32ug fentanyl patches for years, like a doctor don't know, that just ending them all cold turkey is gonna give bad withdrawal.. and often the elderly that can't communicate..
I'm a total stranger, utterly overjoyed for you! You, sir, are a genuine monster slayer!
I'm in the clinic now have been for 5 years so I no what your going through it's a rough long road.
That is wonderful! Congratulations!!
One day at a time. Great work, my friend! So proud of you.
My husband has 24 years of sobriety - I’m so proud of him……❤. Alcoholism is a disease and there is no “cure”.
No alcoholism is not a disease. It is a choice. And there is a cure. Its called don't touch it. And I will argue it. It will never be a disease.
Not a disease and there is a cure
@@randomvintagefilm273 everyone is entitled to their own opinion
The cure is to not drink. We need to begin to make drinking alcohol a special occasion drink and not an everyday or after work thing. Lifelong teatoller here
No cure for alcoholism. You stop drinking but it only takes one drink to start it over again...some ppl it may take more than one in other words it is always there. I have 42 yrs sober but I know I can never have a drink again....ever!
Johns story broke my heart. I had tears in my eyes seeing him struggle so much.
I hope he recovers quickly. Bless him 😊
John has such beautiful eyes and seems like a nice guy. I am glad he recovered, at least for the most part.
You never overcome alcoholism. It’s there to catch you when you forget what you are. I hope never to forget what I am.
Benedict's father is just so lovely.
That little lady is hungry and those woman laughing at her and she is so sweet.Makes me sad.
I'm a 61 year old man, and this episode made me cry. My first tears came when I saw John feeling probably hopless and devastated, especially since he had already problems with his brain, I trully hope he has recovered completely and is doing well and happy. Equally emotional but uplifting was Benedict's case, a true example of real fatherly love. I wish Benedict success controlling his addiction, it will be a life long job, but not something he couldn't accomplish, especially with the help of that incredible, loving ad thoughtful father he has. This is by far the episode I've liked the best.
I was aghast that Benedict spent 3 days in a detox center. With national health care, I assumed that going into a detox program would mean detox AND rehab. Alcohol abuse is draining on public healthcare systems. It seems that a detox program should be contingent on going through rehab as well. Every dollar spent on rehab is a hundred not spent in A&E.
@@jeanaprewitt9658 Dear Jeanna, I couldn't agree more with you, detox is vitally important and should go hand in hand with a rehab program, which is absolutely essential for a real and lasting recovery of addictions.
Benedict has his whole life ahead, but if he keeps drinking, that might not happen. I'm sober 25 years, and I don't miss it. Have a great day ❤️🙂⚘️.
I only discovered this channel a couple months ago and have been watching as many episodes as I can. My daughter is a cardiac care nurse and I know she has some really tough days. Also my husband was a recovering alcoholic who had many years of sobriety. I’ve seen so many suffering alcoholics going through all kinds of terrible things. Like withdrawals, hallucinations and relapses. I pray Benedict has continued sobriety and success. It can be done. I know many people who have succeeded. Thank you for this episode. ❤
I love this series, it’s not afraid to show most of the blood and damage done to the body during an accident. I’m a retired nurse and I’ve missed it so much. This show makes me feel like I’m back working in the hospital. Great job everyone. 😊❤🙏
Benedict! You are worth everything!!
What an episode! John & Benedict's story's hit very close to my heart. I hope are doing well.
I have been binge watching this series and Emergency AU for weeks, i think im addicted but thats ok ❤..ive learned alot watching these series bùt one of the main things ive learned is that We all are human, & we all are capable of loving the next person unconditionally..it dont take much time or effort to show your fellow brother or sister that you care and they aren't alone through a devasting traumatic situation ❤🫶
Same
Staying clean and sober is a life long job. You need a support group. It does work.
My husband had an 8 mm brain bleed at 3:30 am and lost his speech and right side. 2 years later,and hes just now starting to learn to eat again
I AM PROUD OF YOU BENEDICT FOR TURNING YOUR LIFE AROUND,,I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK.
This is one of my favourite episodes. Such great stories and so much emotions
Wow! John is one determined man getting himself across onto the 'bed' for the scan machine. I wish him well for tge best possible outcome.
John's breaking my heart, bless him ❤
I feel terrible for John, when he realizes he doesn't know what the year is.
Benedict's dad is a hero. No question.
Bless you Benedict - I hope you are still OK
WAY TO GO BENEDICT!! You can do this. Its hard but its worth it.
Hello Mary, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
I want to hug John.😢
I just want to hug Benedict and his dad ❤
Hello Jo-Anne, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
Rough episode. John realizing that he can’t answer the orientation questions correctly, and Benedict knowing that he was going into withdrawal and not being able to get help. Ugh.
Been binging this and avoided crying for so many episodes. But John got me.
Head injuries. TBI's are absolutely life changing. Our friend's sweet quiet musically gifted teen son had one and a few years later after a med increase he shot his dad, mom, sister and himself. All heard by his recently married older brother who had been on the phone with his dad. I absolutely blame the medication...but he also needed something. Such a tragedy. No one blamed the son. His brain was never the same affer surviving a 30 foot fall in a grain silo.
Love this documentary series! Doctors awesome!
Many many congratulations to the young man who quit drinking. I hope his determination and strength keeps up.
I would love to know how Benedict is doing all these years (10) later.
I felt bad for Benedict. He had to wait to get the shakes from withdrawals until he was treated 😢 And, it's sad to see the suffering he's gone through. I really hope he can get ahead of his addiction and overcome it every day 🙏
I feel really bad about the young guy asking for help with alcohol withdrawals he obviously came before they got too bad and they get bad he probably knows that and planned better to come by before they fully kicked in sadly they sent him away not sick enough but now he’s about to start getting really sick and could turn deadly even. He more than likely went and got a way to get more alcohol to avoid the withdrawals since the hospital didn’t really feel he needed serious care. That’s sad and causes a lot of relapse and also fails for addicts struggling.
Goodness, take Nana for some supper already 😄
wow - what an episode
This is a wonderful, informative and touching programme, but that awful 'music' = noise, covers up the voices of the patients and staff. It's so annoying. It happens on so many videos.
What kind of drug is Benedict look for to help his symptoms of withdrawal?
Hello Kitty, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
Such a sad young man over drinking.
Hello Lucille, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
Way-to-go Benedict!
John's breaking my heart 😢
Also it blows my mind how patients can step out of the ambulance bay to smoke lol
In American hospitals (at least all the ones I've worked at/been to) if patients leave the building they're immediately deemed "left AMA"
😂 That was my thought too. Can you imagine? Where did bed 12 go? Smoke break. Oh ok. Let me tidy the bed while he’s out. Such lovely weather, bless him. 🤣 I guess when every bed isn’t worth thousands and a need to be filled, smoke breaks will be the norm.
I’ve seen tons of people outside our hospital with IV’s in, smoking. 😳
@@river8760and oxygen.
@@Wendy-yg8yu: That is so incredibly shocking to me every time I hear about such a scenario! What an addictive hold nicotine has over some folks! 😮
We have no smoking allowed on the whole hospital campus. You'd have to walk 2 blocks to have a smoke.
If I remember correctly, that cider will knock you on your rear after one bottle.
Alcoholism is a disease. If you truly want help it is out there. It isn’t easy, but maintaining your alcoholism is exhausting work. One day at a time. ❤ to all still suffering, and 💕to those of us who are in recovery!
Benedict, the Alcohol Addiction. ....if its Only cine on Suddenly,at 19,...What's happened to this Young Man???😢 Benedict, you JUST DONT REALIZE, just How WONDERFUL, YOU ARE!!!!! My Goodness, you play,Play, an ORCHESTRA,in ENGLAND!!!! BEAUTIFUL MYSIC you play,In ENGLAND!!!! 😮 Icould Never Do That,in Fact,Most People on our Planet,could NOT Do,what You have done! I Wish,I had even One Parent,who Loved Me,like your Dad Loves You! Your Very Blessed
31:52 he came in before asking for help and they turned him away. Now look at him, this is heartbreaking. Both my parents were alcoholics I do not have much compassion for addicts.
They do bring a lot of misery to their families. Very sad and tragic.
My dad was addicted to food, ate himself to death. Hope you are able to forgive them one day. Depression hits you and you cope how you can
@@maryellenblount6376 yeah well I'm an addict and tore my family apart but now I'm Six YEARS Clean from all drugs and have a great life and family Today. People do change.
Head injuries, would a baseball bat hitting front right lobe (skull fracture) missing a piece of bone in that area be classified as severe❓I was very lucky, thank the Lord🙏🏻
I don't understand why trauma patients don't come in with IV access done by EMS.
They do in Canada
Grams is hungry 🤤
😢❤
You wonder about the people that are outside sitting in waiting room why they’re in the ER they seem fine and not very I’ll. I guess looks can be deceiving.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️👍👍👍🇨🇦
Hello Donna, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the COVID-19 virus??
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Yeah, sorry. I do not believe a father with a cross behind him saying he did not cause it and cannot cure it. There was fundamental emotional neglect there at some point.
a lot of the things the father was saying are straight out of the therapy manual for people dealing/living with alcoholic famly members - so don't beat him up over that to me it means that he was trying because he sought out therapy. I have several alhcoholic family members and he is absoltutely correct the only person who can cure addict is the addict.
Not necessarily at the father’s hands…
BS you can't say that at all. Alcoholism is a genetic disorder involving 5 known genes one of which is a protective gene, if that's switched off you have a real issue controlling use or entering into sobriety. It has nothing to do with upbringing per se or neglect. We know this by studying identical twins.
Benedict drinking 74 units of 9% strong cider...in a day, is the biggest exaggeration i have heard in my whole life! I don't doubt he drinks alot,but...........!!
Maybe he meant units of alcohol? Not 74 bottles/cans of cider? It sounds a lot, but I think one unit is 10ml or 8g of pure alcohol, a strong beer is about 3 units. But I admit it sounds really a lot with 74 units. It would mean about 24-25 beers. But then again alcoholics really CAN drink a lot when they're far down on the road to death/institution..
@@kesses9041you are correct, he stated units of alcohol, so grams of alcohol, not cans or bottles.