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NICE GUY . 1. Don't get affect by expecting something from anyone. 2. Keep yourself in no. 1 priority . 3. Learn to say no . Learn to establish healthy boundries in friendship or any other relationship . 4. Think critically and rationally not emotionally about a relationship . 5. DON'T be mean or asshole .
What what if that girl whose problem i am solving is my cousin sister. I am her brother. I try to solve her problems but seems she doesn't need it. She does only states her problems to me ,and i always try to give her solutins. My solutions were good, but she started making excuses that it will not work blah blah. She is just a help rejecting complainer. I drain by listening to her. I have to earn, also have to study, havey own problems, have to love and give time to my family too. Even have to be free sometime or exercise or just enjoy or talk to my friend. I cannot give her 1-2 hours on a daily basis all just listening to her complaints /her problems that" nobody loves her, everybody uses her, Life is sad to her, her mom is this and dad her aunt is this and that." Note- she didn't have a father or elder brother, Note- she also victimes herself always. That everybody cheats har, larke kamine hote h, etc
@@sachinjha6333 bro bro... Dekho phli baat ki i think she doesn't have a goal or something nhi toh vo bakwas dukh kisi ko bhi nhi sunati chahe wo bhai hi kyu na ho.. Aur Tumhe bhi toh na bolna padega.... Jaise tu padh raha hai aur uska message aa rha hai ya phone aa raha hai ki bhai bahut bura feel ho raha hai toh tu bol ki mai abhi padh raha hu.. 2 ya 3 ghante me baat krta hu. .. Aaram se baat karunga tab... Then usko bhi feel hoga ki mujhe bhi kuch karna chaiye... Aur zaroori nhi hai ki log apne dukh sirf solution paane ke liye kehte hai... They seek sympathy... Agar koi sympathy ke liye apna sadness share karrha hai then tum kitne bhii solutions de do wo bekar hi hai she just wants to get empathy...
@@AmanMaurya-bg3le thanks bro but mai ab usse dur ho gya hoon, maine uske ek "sympathy gaining talk session" me uski galti nikal di ki wo apne family k baare me bhala bura bol rhi thi but unhone to aisa kuch nhi kiya uss din mai v tha, fir usne mujhe bhala bura bolke kaha ki ab mjhse kabhi baat nhi kregi aur ye ki mai v bs matlab k liye uske saath hoon . Mujhe v accha laga ki chalo ab call nhi karegi. Uske baad 2 week baad usne call kiya maine nhi uthaya fir ek do baar aur kabhi kabhi call kiya maine nhi uthaya ,ab wo nhi karti. Thik hi h
In January I broke my 3 year old friendship with my friend, I didn't realised that he was using me, my friendship with him was becoming very toxic, I had a bike and I used to go to college on my bike he didn't had a bike so I was daily picking him from his house and then dropping him back after college, and even daily I used to pay for his breakfast, but one day I gave my bike for servicing and gone to college in local bus when he knew I didn't had my bike he didn't even called me and ignored me in the college and after college is over he alone took auto and gone to his house without even telling me, and the next day when I got my bike back he called me and was becoming very sweet and good but on that day I ignored him and never talked to him. Now I feel very good without him and if you also want to check who is your real friend go to them with empty pockets, nowadays lot of people respect and be with you till you have money but the real friends will be with you in your hard times. STAY AWAY FROM TOXIC PEOPLE!
Same Thing happened with me too , I use to pick my frnd for tuitions in class 12. Even if its raining I use to go to him without forgetting , his place was not even in straight from my house to classes even though I use to drop nd pick him. He was not well in studies so also used to help him in studies , even I used to pay for his snacks too after tuitions. I don't remember that did he asked me when his dad's bike was available or not.. Bt that too even didn't bothered me much... He was a bit shy wid girls nd was like always ready to fall in relationships. I also shared my past life nd secrets nd girl tips etc keeping faith in him and even told him that pls don't fall for any girl since its 12th. Once when were going school via bus I came to know frm 3rd prsn that he's is in relationship for the first time wid that xyz girl. Instead of asking him that why he never told me I was feeling happy for him like a nice guy nd just called his name inorder to congratulate him (he was sitting behind his girl) and he just replied me by " idr kya dekh rha hai MC".That really broked me. Then I had a fight wid him in school toilet mostly wid words and little wid arms 😅. His relationship in last phase of class 12 science got him FAILED. Now he keeps me calling for getting tips for further career. Bt now I don't give a Fuck 🖕
@@garud333bhai aese jahrile or ghatiya insan se bat karna bhi pap hai or agar wo phone kare to is ke number black list me dal do or kabhi samane aakar bat karne ki koshish kare to muh fer lo or bol do aaj ke bad muj se kabhi bat mat karna bus itana bol do aese toxic insan ko
Don't Be NICE Be A Badass.! People Take you granted if you being Nice.! Even Chankya Ji Said- Straight Trees Are Cut First.! So Always Be Yourself Treat Others As They Treat You.! Respect Is Not Concerned With Gender.!
I watch his video to survive emotional turmoil in my head.really appreciate how this guy formulates his thoughts into words smoothly and with ease!!!👍👍👍👍
Exceptionally awesome vedio.. I myself had harmed my career out of being a so called "nice guy"... I got clarity and courage from your vedio sir... Lotzzzz of love for you!!!
Your videos are changing my perspective Koi faltu ki speech nhi, Practical and kadwi sachhai You have become like a friend to me who always guides me for my good Thanks man🙂 Really appreciate your work
Bhai har cheez 100% correct bol raha hai tu... thanks for regular video updates... Even the nicest people will use you if allow them... I really wish ke chahe hamara kuch ho na ho lekin tere saare sapney pure ho... lots of love
Perfect, i needed this very badly. nice guy is just an excuse, dont expect , respect your needs as well before offering care. maintain balance. this guy is perfect analyst
Yes bro, nobody can mind your talks, the main thing you've in you is that I can connect to you, your talks, you really brought a huge change in my way of thinking. Thank You bhai
Shwetabh bhai sorry mai apki previous videos par comment kar raha tha ki aap thode aggressive ho jaate ho videos mai. Bro aapki videos se motivate hokar self learning se ab tak 15 programming languages seekh chuka hu aur approximately 7,000 logon ko ethical hacking seekha raha hu for free. Thanks bro.
You're now become my fictional friend, who always helped me in any circumstances of my life. Love you for everything you've changed in my life and keep changing.
You are my ideal bro! Love from Pakistan! God bless you! Can't thank you enough for your work. Salute! Salute! Salute! You are by far the best speaker mentor, straight forward youth activist and motivator. Love your work! I can't even fathom how many lives you are touching by your genuine work!
Bhai tera bat kaun bura manta hain... Tu bhai theoretical se acha practically hum logo ko samjha deta hain. Bhai hm सभी youth के दिल में तेरे लिए बहुत इज़्ज़त हैं. Tu अपना बड़ा भाई हैं Luv u Swetabh bhai
Bohot sahi kaha.. Maine experience kia hai. Takleef tab hi hoti hai jab tum apne aap ke upar kisi ko rakh ke uske liye favors karte ho. Tumhe yaad reh jata hai ke maine iske liye kitna kuch kia hai but use to ye na pata hota hai ya pata ho to bhi farak nahi padta kyuki usne nahi bola tha k tum apne kaam chhod ke uske peeche bhago. Jab ye cheez samjhi Tab maine 'No' bolna seekha. Ab mai kisi ke liye kuch bhi karti hu mujhe koi takleef nai hoti jab ve log same favours return nai karte kyuki mai unhe help tab hi karti hu jab kar sakti hu. Bohot sahi kaha hai. Ek phase tha jab mere sath bhi yahi hua tha. These things happens with girls too. Friendzone bandiyo ke bhi sath hota hai where they keep going out of the way to curry favor with guys. Actually that's the last thing one should do cz no one likes those people back who don't put themselves first. Whelle log kisi ko pasand nahi aate.. and in logo ke samne apne aap ko acha prove karne ke chakkar me hum ye impression unke dimag me daal dete hain ke hum to jobless hai. Jabki esa nahi hai.. Kaam bohot hote hain but in logo ke liye hum out of the way jaate hain jo actually sahi impression nahi ulte galat impression create karta hai humare baare me.
Ye bat sahi bole ap aesa mai sochata hu, lekin sb ke liye ni sirf jise apna manta hu uske liye sochta hu lekin sb pura try hoga n sochi ty samjhane ke liye
So true of this video. Eye catching !! We get so over-available for girlfriends and lose our precious tym. I did so much for her( without any expectations) & at end of day she criticised me for not putting enough efforts. First question- How to make her realise indirectly the good efforts we did for them so that they DON'T TAUNT later ?? 2nd question - How to xcuse them in future without hurting their ego?
I never hurt anyone. But people always try to hurt me. I don't want revenge that's why I always get sad and cry. Now I don't make new friends. I am very happy spending time with my family members. 😊
I accept it... Maine aisa feel kiya hai..Esliye sayad mai chutiya hu...mai hu chutiya esliye feel kiya...Ladki nahi.. dost tha...Ab Aisa kuchh nhi hai...Ab mere dreams hai and mujhse bss 2 hi log expect krty hai and mai bhi mom dad...Aur koi na... Duniya jaaye tel lene...Sab dk bose hai..
I never expect anything from others when I help them. But I only help when someone actually need it and not when someone want it even when they can help themselves too.
Thanku sir, Mai daily khoob mehnat kr rha hoon, subah uthte hi apne aap ko determined krta hoon ki aaj khoob kaam krna h ....... Office jane se pehle aapke videos dekhta hoon , or apna 200% kaam me lgata hoon . Thank you so much.....
Woahhhhhhhhhh !!!! Kitni sahi baat hai yaar ... Omg ...!! I am one of your big fans ...!!! Don't be mr. Nice guy .. 💯 💯 💯!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Self love is best !!! Be practical .. Don't be nice everytime 💯💯💯💯 Be well maintained in your life .. . Be happy..
,Mere ek dost ki exact story........ Friend,girls sabki help ki but aaj koi nahi puch Raha hai,jinke liye 24 hours me se 20 hours diya unki life me aaj uski value 2 paise ki nahi hai..... Literally Aisa Laga jaise mere dost ne hi script di hai aur shwetabh bhai bas padh Rahe hai..... Aaj tak Aisa video jo meri life se itna relate Karti hai pehli Baar dekhi hai Hats off to you shwetabh sir God bless you and keep making this kind of videos
Bhai yrr abhi tak kisi ka fan nahi hua You are the first one whose I have been a jabra fan. Kya logic diye ho bhai . What you said should be the way of life....
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Bc sponsor ka button kab ayega?video was everything needed....bhai kya zabardast explain kra hai yr maan gya aapko.... Sincerely following you since a year....naam yad rakhlo mera😁😁😁ayaan khan
Awesome bro.. ye video bnake aapne bhut logo ko chutiya bnne se bacha liya..
Thanks a lot bro.. awesome video
Men Ki Baat 👍👍👍👍👍👍
sir ap nein meri ankhen khol di
6 mahine sare subjects padha diye , kuch din bad Milli tho bolti hai Hum tumhare bare Mai sochte v nahi hai, tumhari aukat kya hai.
"Ghatiya mat Bano, par chutiya bhi mat Bano"
GREAT BANO ......Sab ko prove karke dikhado......... Apna help khud karo
Great bhi matbano duniya mya great logoki kami nahi hya bano to perfect bano..
Jo bt he
Sahi hai
That's awesome line in the whole Video 👌
"Never be so kind , you forget to be clever. Never be so clever , you forget to be kind"
That's it.
Taylor swift :Marjorie 🤩😍
How to find balance bro?
I have heard this in evermore🙂album
-TAYLOR SWIFT
@@aditibisht22 lannnaaa,I love her so much much
Once my teacher said: "if you're not a nice guy, don't try to act like a nice guy." Life would be very simple..!!
And mine teacher said you can not achieve something only because you are nice..
Thanks bruhh
My teacher doesn't say anything 😐
Mera teacher gunga tha
@@tlatimes9251 😂😂
"Nice guy aapko kisne bataya aap ho", I can't stop laughing, this guy is too real
😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
@@maryamri8khalid452 😶😶
Me too
haha for real
@@Asmrtantric365 roo
NICE GUY .
1. Don't get affect by expecting something from anyone.
2. Keep yourself in no. 1 priority .
3. Learn to say no . Learn to establish healthy boundries in friendship or any other relationship .
4. Think critically and rationally not emotionally about a relationship .
5. DON'T be mean or asshole .
What what if that girl whose problem i am solving is my cousin sister. I am her brother. I try to solve her problems but seems she doesn't need it.
She does only states her problems to me ,and i always try to give her solutins. My solutions were good, but she started making excuses that it will not work blah blah. She is just a help rejecting complainer. I drain by listening to her. I have to earn, also have to study, havey own problems, have to love and give time to my family too. Even have to be free sometime or exercise or just enjoy or talk to my friend. I cannot give her 1-2 hours on a daily basis all just listening to her complaints /her problems that" nobody loves her, everybody uses her, Life is sad to her, her mom is this and dad her aunt is this and that." Note- she didn't have a father or elder brother,
Note- she also victimes herself always. That everybody cheats har, larke kamine hote h, etc
@@sachinjha6333 tell her to start meditating on a daily basis
@@sachinjha6333 bro tell her you have outgrown yourself then its high time to solve own problems by taking responsibilities
@@sachinjha6333 bro bro... Dekho phli baat ki i think she doesn't have a goal or something nhi toh vo bakwas dukh kisi ko bhi nhi sunati chahe wo bhai hi kyu na ho.. Aur Tumhe bhi toh na bolna padega.... Jaise tu padh raha hai aur uska message aa rha hai ya phone aa raha hai ki bhai bahut bura feel ho raha hai toh tu bol ki mai abhi padh raha hu.. 2 ya 3 ghante me baat krta hu. .. Aaram se baat karunga tab... Then usko bhi feel hoga ki mujhe bhi kuch karna chaiye... Aur zaroori nhi hai ki log apne dukh sirf solution paane ke liye kehte hai... They seek sympathy... Agar koi sympathy ke liye apna sadness share karrha hai then tum kitne bhii solutions de do wo bekar hi hai she just wants to get empathy...
@@AmanMaurya-bg3le thanks bro but mai ab usse dur ho gya hoon, maine uske ek "sympathy gaining talk session" me uski galti nikal di ki wo apne family k baare me bhala bura bol rhi thi but unhone to aisa kuch nhi kiya uss din mai v tha, fir usne mujhe bhala bura bolke kaha ki ab mjhse kabhi baat nhi kregi aur ye ki mai v bs matlab k liye uske saath hoon . Mujhe v accha laga ki chalo ab call nhi karegi. Uske baad 2 week baad usne call kiya maine nhi uthaya fir ek do baar aur kabhi kabhi call kiya maine nhi uthaya ,ab wo nhi karti. Thik hi h
Bro we need more men like you in this world. Huge respect for you man!
only youtuber worth listening !!! huge Respect from Pakistan...
Oki
@Manish Singh Saini 🤣
@Manish Singh Saini sahi baat politics ki maa ka bhosda
Manish Singh Saini 😂😂
@Manish Saini bahar ki duniya ke liye Pakistan aur India dono brown hai bas. Sab hume chutiy samjhte hai. Aur hum aapas mein hi ladte rahte hain.
Ye banda mudde ki baat karta he...real lyf motivation yehi he😃😎
Rajak Patnaik .
isko apna baap bana le chutiya
Bhai shakt laundaa h..
@@softie2.028 lol
In January I broke my 3 year old friendship with my friend, I didn't realised that he was using me, my friendship with him was becoming very toxic, I had a bike and I used to go to college on my bike he didn't had a bike so I was daily picking him from his house and then dropping him back after college, and even daily I used to pay for his breakfast, but one day I gave my bike for servicing and gone to college in local bus when he knew I didn't had my bike he didn't even called me and ignored me in the college and after college is over he alone took auto and gone to his house without even telling me, and the next day when I got my bike back he called me and was becoming very sweet and good but on that day I ignored him and never talked to him.
Now I feel very good without him and if you also want to check who is your real friend go to them with empty pockets, nowadays lot of people respect and be with you till you have money but the real friends will be with you in your hard times.
STAY AWAY FROM TOXIC PEOPLE!
Same Thing happened with me too , I use to pick my frnd for tuitions in class 12. Even if its raining I use to go to him without forgetting , his place was not even in straight from my house to classes even though I use to drop nd pick him. He was not well in studies so also used to help him in studies , even I used to pay for his snacks too after tuitions. I don't remember that did he asked me when his dad's bike was available or not.. Bt that too even didn't bothered me much... He was a bit shy wid girls nd was like always ready to fall in relationships. I also shared my past life nd secrets nd girl tips etc keeping faith in him and even told him that pls don't fall for any girl since its 12th.
Once when were going school via bus I came to know frm 3rd prsn that he's is in relationship for the first time wid that xyz girl. Instead of asking him that why he never told me I was feeling happy for him like a nice guy nd just called his name inorder to congratulate him (he was sitting behind his girl) and he just replied me by " idr kya dekh rha hai MC".That really broked me. Then I had a fight wid him in school toilet mostly wid words and little wid arms 😅.
His relationship in last phase of class 12 science got him FAILED.
Now he keeps me calling for getting tips for further career. Bt now I don't give a Fuck 🖕
@@garud333bhai aese jahrile or ghatiya insan se bat karna bhi pap hai or agar wo phone kare to is ke number black list me dal do or kabhi samane aakar bat karne ki koshish kare to muh fer lo or bol do aaj ke bad muj se kabhi bat mat karna bus itana bol do aese toxic insan ko
This guy is a beast....love u bro
Haryana ka map kyu hai
@@shubhamjoshi8762 मै हरियाणे ता हूं
Don't Be NICE Be A Badass.! People Take you granted if you being Nice.! Even Chankya Ji Said- Straight Trees Are Cut First.! So Always Be Yourself Treat Others As They Treat You.! Respect Is Not Concerned With Gender.!
Ajay Kumar ya it's true
Right bro
true bro
He is the modern day Chanakya for us 😄
Ajay Kumar Sahi hai Bhai👌
I watch his video to survive emotional turmoil in my head.really appreciate how this guy formulates his thoughts into words smoothly and with ease!!!👍👍👍👍
True..i am a girl but someone like this speaker was much needed!!
Bcoz very few or almost no one is talking about this!!
Sir, Har roz padta hu. *Ab mujhe koi nahi rok sakta*
Rohit Sharma all the very best for the future brother...
Thanks to you and our bhai Shwetabh
Best Of Luck bro For Your Upcoming Matches with Ireland & England.
bhai mai kisa padhi kro mera man hi nhi lgta
Rohit Sharma tumhe to TH-cam Rok raha hai.. time wasting
Exceptionally awesome vedio.. I myself had harmed my career out of being a so called "nice guy"... I got clarity and courage from your vedio sir... Lotzzzz of love for you!!!
Same here bhai
When I Was Opening His Video
My mind to me= Ab Tu Gaali Sunega
Aur launde kya haal chaal....this sentence is just Calmness bfr storm... 😎😎😉😉
*Success is best Revenge*
Mehdi Raza no bro Dedication
Right
Agreed 100% , Mooh se jawab mat do aisa karke dikhaao ki bolne wala hi ek majak ban jayee
Nope....revenge z for losers....a person shld enjoy his/her own success regardless of how others perceive him/her.....
forget about revenge. Don’t be a slave of your revengeful mind.
Your videos are changing my perspective
Koi faltu ki speech nhi,
Practical and kadwi sachhai
You have become like a friend to me who always guides me for my good
Thanks man🙂
Really appreciate your work
Scereat of happiness "No Expectation" with anyone.
YS ri8🌷🌷
By Shakespeare too.
choose satisfaction not happiness
Ok then go to himalaya and become sadhu
@@anil6191 ya infact it's batter than having lots of expectations from others and being frustrated and sad all the time.
A nice guy doesn't expect anything in return, he only expects people to be fair with him. I guess everyone deserves that.
Bhai mjhe is video ki bhut jyada jarurat thi is wakt thank you bro
Bhai har cheez 100% correct bol raha hai tu... thanks for regular video updates...
Even the nicest people will use you if allow them...
I really wish ke chahe hamara kuch ho na ho lekin tere saare sapney pure ho... lots of love
Perfect, i needed this very badly. nice guy is just an excuse, dont expect , respect your needs as well before offering care. maintain balance. this guy is perfect analyst
Yes bro, nobody can mind your talks, the main thing you've in you is that I can connect to you, your talks, you really brought a huge change in my way of thinking. Thank You bhai
his is so logical and real ....
Damn . What colour is it ?
In short, we have to learn to say "NO" ,Apna kaam Pehle
Best
Bilkun sahi
True
Bhai Aakhen khol di
*Aankhen faad di*
This video literally changed me within two years. I am just revisiting all my saved videos and found this had a deep impact on me.
I feel the same .one of the best videos I have seen.
Thank you bhai.I'm from Bangladesh. Ap is generation ki ladko ke liye ek ashirbad hoo bhai. Bohot madat mil rahi hai Shwetabh bhai.Thanks a lot.
🇧🇩❤️🇮🇳
Shwetabh bhai sorry mai apki previous videos par comment kar raha tha ki aap thode aggressive ho jaate ho videos mai. Bro aapki videos se motivate hokar self learning se ab tak 15 programming languages seekh chuka hu aur approximately 7,000 logon ko ethical hacking seekha raha hu for free. Thanks bro.
Review land good job bro
Review land can i get to know you.. i too want to learn how you did it by yourself.. maybe your Insta id or whatsapp no. Plz ? Genuinely puch rha hu
Congrats land!
How do I reach you. Want to learn Ethical Hacking
Great work. Want to reach you for learning this
Shwetabh bhai, you are making me a better person. Thank you.
Mind=blown after watching this. wow, the level of thinking and analysis.. no words
You're now become my fictional friend, who always helped me in any circumstances of my life.
Love you for everything you've changed in my life and keep changing.
Very truely said bro...u made me eyes wet..I can see how u trying convience our mind ..Thanx it was very motivational
You are my ideal bro! Love from Pakistan! God bless you! Can't thank you enough for your work. Salute! Salute! Salute! You are by far the best speaker mentor, straight forward youth activist and motivator.
Love your work! I can't even fathom how many lives you are touching by your genuine work!
Aitzaz Ijaz love to you from india
Love from India lekin Kashmir humara hai
Arya swarajya ha ha ha
@arya swarajya shi baat h broo... dudh mangoge kheer denge kashmir magoge toh cheer denge
Bhao ku pakistani kashmir mangege.unse pakistan smbhal jaye wohi bht h...love from india to pakistan..be a good human ..
Bhai tera bat kaun bura manta hain...
Tu bhai theoretical se acha practically hum logo ko samjha deta hain.
Bhai hm सभी youth के दिल में तेरे लिए बहुत इज़्ज़त हैं.
Tu अपना बड़ा भाई हैं
Luv u Swetabh bhai
Koi nahi ayega kandha dene....... 👍👍👍
Maa baap ayenge
True
He use to talk soo differently back then, he seems soo much more innocent 😇
only thing which is constant is change..
Bohot sahi kaha.. Maine experience kia hai. Takleef tab hi hoti hai jab tum apne aap ke upar kisi ko rakh ke uske liye favors karte ho. Tumhe yaad reh jata hai ke maine iske liye kitna kuch kia hai but use to ye na pata hota hai ya pata ho to bhi farak nahi padta kyuki usne nahi bola tha k tum apne kaam chhod ke uske peeche bhago. Jab ye cheez samjhi Tab maine 'No' bolna seekha. Ab mai kisi ke liye kuch bhi karti hu mujhe koi takleef nai hoti jab ve log same favours return nai karte kyuki mai unhe help tab hi karti hu jab kar sakti hu. Bohot sahi kaha hai. Ek phase tha jab mere sath bhi yahi hua tha. These things happens with girls too. Friendzone bandiyo ke bhi sath hota hai where they keep going out of the way to curry favor with guys. Actually that's the last thing one should do cz no one likes those people back who don't put themselves first. Whelle log kisi ko pasand nahi aate.. and in logo ke samne apne aap ko acha prove karne ke chakkar me hum ye impression unke dimag me daal dete hain ke hum to jobless hai. Jabki esa nahi hai.. Kaam bohot hote hain but in logo ke liye hum out of the way jaate hain jo actually sahi impression nahi ulte galat impression create karta hai humare baare me.
Are bhai,tu hamesha seedha bol deta hai.Without any feeling.The Blunt Truth.🤔😎🙂👌
One of the best video ever on TH-cam
Agree?? Hit like
Expectation & Desire is root cause of sadness in human life ~ Gautam Buddha (Greatest philosopher ever lived)
Ye bat sahi bole ap aesa mai sochata hu, lekin sb ke liye ni sirf jise apna manta hu uske liye sochta hu lekin sb pura try hoga n sochi ty samjhane ke liye
So true of this video. Eye catching !!
We get so over-available for girlfriends and lose our precious tym. I did so much for her( without any expectations) & at end of day she criticised me for not putting enough efforts.
First question- How to make her realise indirectly the good efforts we did for them so that they DON'T TAUNT later ??
2nd question - How to xcuse them in future without hurting their ego?
Absolutely True
londe aaj emotional ho gyaa,,tu,,, i know ur intention are in right way....thats why i listen u
Bhai ji ghanta koi yaad ni rakhta, bas moke pe choka lagta h😂😂😂😂
Sab ko fayde ka mauka chhahiye...... Uske baad Gaand mar hi dete hain
Hanji🤟
@@karanrana424 true
True
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I was struggling with this "nice guy" issue in my life.. very nicely explained, thanks
11:10 unexpected 😂😂😂😂😂
But I expected it😂
11:06 dill chhu liya bhai , aisa laga jaise koi sachhca dost samjhara hai
I watched your all video.....and this one is the best............you are doing a great job.......our country will proud of you
Big brother . In the midst of all the work, whenever i need to set my mind straight i watch your videos. God bless you brother. Take care.
Do you know why i like your videos? You always speak the harsh truths! You made my day again, Vaiya!
You're like more than a brother...thank you so much
I never hurt anyone.
But people always try to hurt me.
I don't want revenge that's why I always get sad and cry.
Now I don't make new friends.
I am very happy spending time with my family members.
😊
Greatest form of love is self love 😘😍. Superb line brother !
Sir😁
What if every school and college have atleast one teacher matching your perception.
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Moral of the video: achha kaam karne ka mann hai to karo, madad karni hai to karo but without any expectations
Bhai mai bina kisi expectations ke kar raha hoon suru se hi, but fir v ab mera man nhi krta unki madad karne ko
@@sachinjha6333 hmm Bhai jab mann kare tab karna,khud ke liye badh,we are born for ourselves only
True
Moral of this video...... :- God Helps Those Who Helps Themselves..............
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Explanation by Emotes 👌👌
Just needed...thank u bhai... after all we girls also need this type of speech 🙂
I accept it...
Maine aisa feel kiya hai..Esliye sayad mai chutiya hu...mai hu chutiya esliye feel kiya...Ladki nahi.. dost tha...Ab Aisa kuchh nhi hai...Ab mere dreams hai and mujhse bss 2 hi log expect krty hai and mai bhi mom dad...Aur koi na...
Duniya jaaye tel lene...Sab dk bose hai..
Same bhai
Same here.
Same here bro but bina friends k hum lonely ho jaate h 😥
Same bro
Same bhai ! Mera bhi dost ke saath aisa hi hua aur ho raha hai😧
I never expect anything from others when I help them. But I only help when someone actually need it and not when someone want it even when they can help themselves too.
Thankyou bro
You saved me ❤️ andar se roo raha tha roz but tumhari videos dekh kar aacha lagne laga h
his agression is of next level...hatsoff to hum ❤️
Thnx bhai... Ek ek word dimag pe lagta h.. Jo kee dil pe lagi baato ko nueutral kar deti h.. 😊
most important rule of life-never expect anything from anyone
Thanku sir,
Mai daily khoob mehnat kr rha hoon, subah uthte hi apne aap ko determined krta hoon ki aaj khoob kaam krna h .......
Office jane se pehle aapke videos dekhta hoon , or apna 200% kaam me lgata hoon .
Thank you so much.....
Bhai Jo aap bolte h bs perfect bolte hai thank you to change my life
Superb Message 👌👌👍👍
Be The Smart Guy
Dil jeet liye bhai tu ne badalw aa gya zindagi me dhere dhere hi sahi.
Bhai har bar itna sahi kaise bolte ho, damn 🙏🙏🙏 #respectforyou
VLOGGER LADKA you are right commenter
Respect! Love your brutal honesty!
I needed a video on ths topic very badly... Thnku bhaiya
I recommend the book "No more Mr Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. Its pdf is available free on google. Its a great book on this same topic.
"The subtle art of not giving a fuck" A book you must read.
WeFlyHigh I have the audiobook of The subtl art...
Bhai tum to life guru ho yr....thank u so much...each video are related to me...@ present...😜😜
duniya ki expectations k bajaay apne aap se kya expectations hain..
bestest lines
Isiliye bc 6 month semai apne frnds n ladki wgerh se dur hu and aaj bahut acha progress kr rha hu. Everyone is selfish in this world.
I WILL ROAST YOU true
How got your parents are they selfish too??
bhai sau takke ki baat ki hai ..... also trying to follow the same
I WILL ROAST YOU Brother Mere bhi sb frnds ke ldai hogyi or ab 1 months se alg hu Or hmeaa rhunga
Friends maderchod hote h
I WILL ROAST YOU mai bhi
MENSUNTRA BEST INFORMATION💞💗🎈💞💞
absolutely true
Bhai you are awesome ..may almighty bless you with EVERYTHING you desire !!
Tumhare vidoes ek alag hi nzaria deta hai thank u 😊😊sir plz videos bnate raho hum jeso ki help krne k liye thanks again 😊😆
Bhai jo bhi kehte ho dil pe lag jata h,,, two words for you- decent and humble.
All the best for your work and life. 🙂
As Simple As That Really This Man Changed my Life yr
Thxxx sir g,,, may u live a long life 🙏🙏
kal rat se apki sari video dekh raha hu sir 😍
Mai bhi bhai
Same yr
Main bhi do dino se😀
Apply kb kroge
Dekhna band kar aur kaam pe lag.
Woahhhhhhhhhh !!!!
Kitni sahi baat hai yaar ...
Omg ...!!
I am one of your big fans ...!!!
Don't be mr. Nice guy ..
💯 💯 💯!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Self love is best !!!
Be practical ..
Don't be nice everytime 💯💯💯💯
Be well maintained in your life .. .
Be happy..
Bhai mera life style bhi ek nice guy Jesa hai... Aapne bilkul true bola hai
Thankyou bhaiya , mind clear ho gya apke explanation se
You changed my thinking thanks
I am trying in best thanks for motivate me thanks ....for heart
Thank you so much for this awesome video bhai. Really thanks a lot I will keep watching your videos in future.
,Mere ek dost ki exact story........
Friend,girls sabki help ki but aaj koi nahi puch Raha hai,jinke liye 24 hours me se 20 hours diya unki life me aaj uski value 2 paise ki nahi hai.....
Literally Aisa Laga jaise mere dost ne hi script di hai aur shwetabh bhai bas padh Rahe hai.....
Aaj tak Aisa video jo meri life se itna relate Karti hai pehli Baar dekhi hai
Hats off to you shwetabh sir
God bless you and keep making this kind of videos
Bhai bohot bohot dhanyavad. You are literally pulling people out of misery, making them think properly.
May God bless you. 🙏🙏🙏
Bahot sahi bola shwetabh Bhai...you just opened my eyes
thank you for saving my life
Bhai mera wapas aa gaya😎
Best guidance 🙏 . Thanks bhaiya👍
Such a amazing and eye opening video.❤❤
Bhai kya bolu Mai bhut Acha Mai to fan ho gya apka
One word: Thanks.
Dimaag khul gya...
Sahi me bade bhai, aag laga di 🔥 !! Thanks ❤️
The greatest form of love is self-love....😎
Beautifully explained, amazed by how deep your thoughts are.
Bhai yrr abhi tak kisi ka fan nahi hua
You are the first one whose I have been a jabra fan. Kya logic diye ho bhai . What you said should be the way of life....