@@BagmanJohnJo even as a part timer you should work hard on your goals/ passoions. u can be a millionaire but if you just sit at home doing nothing no girl is going to find u attractive
@@FoxSleepingThe Arnold analogy is indeed a good case study because the woman became "Chad widowed". She probably even thought of him when getting banged.
Women need a variety of contrasting emotions. Attraction falls when they are on a steady diet of one thing or the other - they get bored and look elsewhere for the thing you're not giving them. If you like her and treat her well, but ultimately put yourself first, you won't need any tricks or short cuts - this will provide her with enough emotional stimulation. Also - gym. This is non negotiable. Get lifting.
Totally but a lot of people may misinterpret this as giving very less attention to her. Which imo is also disastrous. Why do women cheat on their partners with gardeners and stuff... if not physical cheating.. there is an emotional cheating i.e they tell their newly founded male friend, how they love their husband/boyfriend but he doesn't give her his time and attention... So I think a bit absence but also lots of love and ample attention is the key. Absence makes heart grow founder but If overdone, it might also teach them how to live without you...
@@carlospita6442 sex ig that and affection honestly yea it's not worth it ngl, me personally i want a girl for life but i gave up on relationships just gotta accept that's how life is.
It's healthy in a relationship to have some space from each other. However women crave attention from their man especially when they're in love! You still need to court and date your woman and make her feel special otherwise she'll wander off! Everything in balance.....
Well said. I wonder how many men quit dating their girlfriend/wife once they're in a long term relationship and are living together? At that point she becomes more like a roommate than your romantic partner.
@@gu3sswh075 my wife35 was CRAZY about me 38. She worked and I stayed home caring for our daughter now 7. I stopped being the guy that I was going to the gym I wasn't so nice to her , I became always available , I became so comfortable. Let things on auto pilot. She became cold and distant.
@@gu3sswh075 She started going out with her sister 27 and co workers wondering off to the point she said if u don't like it the door is open. And I stayed home with my daughter. She made me 2nd to some bouncer pothead, cokehead. For 3 months. She even came home at 9 am once. At the time i didn't know there was another male.She realized the guy was a duchbag apparently she liked smoking with him. She said they were like friends she could talk to him about everything without being judge. But I guess the guy wanted more and he became mean. She said she wasn't sexually involved 😏 Now she says sorry I fucked up. But I'm a different person now I was to passive. I'm now going to the gym now taking care of myself. I will never let my self go again. BIG mistake. I've learned so much in the past few months. I'm not that nice guy anymore. She wants to remain married but the tables are turned now. Im not sure what to do.
i didn't get tired of my gf, on our Mexico trip, cause we slept in separate bedrooms, mainly cause I was under the weather the entire time and did not want to get her sick. worked well and she was all over me during the day time.
Hi, I want to ask you one question. I watched all your videos on youtube and have to say you are the best. I tried all you said and yes that is true. Space create attraction. But what when you live together and you have work/job from home? Is it best to take time away going out with your friends, to the gym ir something else? What do you think? Thank you
Actually it depends on both partners deep in how they view relationship. One may feel bored with relationship, and having temptations of glancing at all other beautiful excitements out there. While the other is satisfied with 'their relationship', it takes two to build a relationship. But if one's focus is on the outside, how do you help it? Almost zero despite some effort, maybe only few out of a million couples want to remain together, how long that's another issue. She/he may even get tired of 'routine f*cking' same person without emotions.
Things were perfect at the beginning,we were smooth and attraction was through the roof (she has no experience in relationships) I'm an architect doing very well built my own company at 25 and thinking of moving to Canada soon,she was kinda of intimated and started to first, studying me and doing perfect things presenting her best self to me(she has a lot of insecurities which i don't give a damn obout! I love her anyway and i don't see them!),i encouraged her to BE HER SELFmany many times, that's when things went south and got complicated over time we broke up few times and got back.... it's like very awkward now,we love each other but... somthing is just NOT Right....i can't banter with her or poke her and be playful without thinking if she's gonna get touchy obout it....and I'm sure she feels the same....😕😕 We hit a wall which we're ignoring right now and i want to destroy it! And be playful and fun with her as i always was...
Just enough to show that you have important things to do in your life. If you're supposed to be working for example, wait until the next break. Don't show any insecurity or that you were waiting for her message or such. Make your responses brief, fun, and don't reveal too much at once to keep the mystery. Try to set up a date with her, then end the conversation, rather than chatting too much by text.
I3orn2Win wait a day or 2 this will show u don't really care, and arnt going to reward her or kiss her ass by being right there when she texts make her work for you at this point not the other way around!
My wife wants and loves being with me all the time... But, naaaa , I won't allow it.. I gat to read. Research, work, think , and sleep in the other room.. she hates it. But it only makes the bond stronger .
what should i do if my gf is very alpha and i had to go off contact for a weeek now and still she didn't talk at all nothing not a text or anything should i talk to her or what
If you feel like you can't live without her, she'll know and won't come back. You are your own story and she is part of it, not the whole story. Focus on your self and she'll (Might or might not) focus on you.
Arnold swarzzeneger was not with her, because he was behind power, not that kind of power of money or being the ruler of the world, he likes power and of course, he was very intelligent choosing one of the Kennedy's house, come on he climbed socially just getting married with one of the Kennedys. That was not because of love or something like that.
It's called working hard, 40-50 hours a week! Hitting the gym, chilling with your friends!
40-50 hours? Part timer 😉
All that & a man cave.
@@BagmanJohnJo even as a part timer you should work hard on your goals/ passoions. u can be a millionaire but if you just sit at home doing nothing no girl is going to find u attractive
@@FoxSleepingThe Arnold analogy is indeed a good case study because the woman became "Chad widowed". She probably even thought of him when getting banged.
Women need a variety of contrasting emotions. Attraction falls when they are on a steady diet of one thing or the other - they get bored and look elsewhere for the thing you're not giving them. If you like her and treat her well, but ultimately put yourself first, you won't need any tricks or short cuts - this will provide her with enough emotional stimulation.
Also - gym. This is non negotiable. Get lifting.
Totally but a lot of people may misinterpret this as giving very less attention to her.
Which imo is also disastrous.
Why do women cheat on their partners with gardeners and stuff... if not physical cheating.. there is an emotional cheating i.e they tell their newly founded male friend, how they love their husband/boyfriend but he doesn't give her his time and attention...
So I think a bit absence but also lots of love and ample attention is the key.
Absence makes heart grow founder but
If overdone, it might also teach them how to live without you...
@@tausif3kbars
All of that hard work for what?? What value is the female offering?
@@carlospita6442
sex ig that and affection
honestly yea it's not worth it ngl, me personally i want a girl for life but i gave up on relationships just gotta accept that's how life is.
It's healthy in a relationship to have some space from each other.
However women crave attention from their man especially when they're in love! You still need to court and date your woman and make her feel special otherwise she'll wander off! Everything in balance.....
Well said. I wonder how many men quit dating their girlfriend/wife once they're in a long term relationship and are living together? At that point she becomes more like a roommate than your romantic partner.
Yep my wife started cheating.
Daniel Silveira because you didn't give her attention?
@@gu3sswh075 my wife35 was CRAZY about me 38. She worked and I stayed home caring for our daughter now 7. I stopped being the guy that I was going to the gym I wasn't so nice to her , I became always available , I became so comfortable. Let things on auto pilot. She became cold and distant.
@@gu3sswh075 She started going out with her sister 27 and co workers wondering off to the point she said if u don't like it the door is open. And I stayed home with my daughter. She made me 2nd to some bouncer pothead, cokehead. For 3 months. She even came home at 9 am once. At the time i didn't know there was another male.She realized the guy was a duchbag apparently she liked smoking with him. She said they were like friends she could talk to him about everything without being judge. But I guess the guy wanted more and he became mean. She said she wasn't sexually involved 😏 Now she says sorry I fucked up. But I'm a different person now I was to passive. I'm now going to the gym now taking care of myself. I will never let my self go again. BIG mistake. I've learned so much in the past few months. I'm not that nice guy anymore. She wants to remain married but the tables are turned now. Im not sure what to do.
Just make sure you're home in time to sleep or for dinner and spending evenings together. That's enough time to be together.
i didn't get tired of my gf, on our Mexico trip, cause we slept in separate bedrooms, mainly cause I was under the weather the entire time and did not want to get her sick. worked well and she was all over me during the day time.
SIMP
@@hyzcagulada3559 how's your hand working out for you
@@WhiteGhost21 so hows your life with your gf simp?
@@hyzcagulada3559 still going. she pays for a lot of my things including half of the rent. cheers.
@@WhiteGhost21 good for you mate
This guy is saving a lot of relationships
Arnold's middle aged Mexican house keeper was obsessed with him too.
yes sir 😈🍆😂
Spot on as always Chris!
Never live with your girlfriend,
no matter what. Don't do it!
I look forward to these videos.
peter6625 , I look forward too. They are always filled with great information.
To go as far as to sleep in a different room is pushing it a little bit I would say.
If attraction become very low
3-4 marriages later and a bunch of kids. God, DAMN!
Stuck on him as that was her high point and nobody else stacked up.
Chris is the man! Great content as usual.
True it's bothersome being in each other's face 24/7
I think this applies to all women, even the "low value" ones.
Space and good communication
Mating in Captivity is a very important read!
Good stuff brother. you always bring in great content I love it.
coach you are the best
Hi santosh from India 🇮🇳 you are genius....hats off to you
Give this man a knighthood already! Great video as always 👍 #sirchris #legend
How can i keep my girl friend attracted to me in a long distance relationship???
Great advice brother! Thanks!
This video fits perfect with me 💪🙏
Thanks for keeping it real 😂
Hi, I want to ask you one question. I watched all your videos on youtube and have to say you are the best. I tried all you said and yes that is true. Space create attraction. But what when you live together and you have work/job from home? Is it best to take time away going out with your friends, to the gym ir something else? What do you think? Thank you
Actually it depends on both partners deep in how they view relationship. One may feel bored with relationship, and having temptations of glancing at all other beautiful excitements out there. While the other is satisfied with 'their relationship', it takes two to build a relationship. But if one's focus is on the outside, how do you help it? Almost zero despite some effort, maybe only few out of a million couples want to remain together, how long that's another issue. She/he may even get tired of 'routine f*cking' same person without emotions.
Things were perfect at the beginning,we were smooth and attraction was through the roof (she has no experience in relationships) I'm an architect doing very well built my own company at 25 and thinking of moving to Canada soon,she was kinda of intimated and started to first, studying me and doing perfect things presenting her best self to me(she has a lot of insecurities which i don't give a damn obout! I love her anyway and i don't see them!),i encouraged her to BE HER SELFmany many times, that's when things went south and got complicated over time we broke up few times and got back.... it's like very awkward now,we love each other but... somthing is just NOT Right....i can't banter with her or poke her and be playful without thinking if she's gonna get touchy obout it....and I'm sure she feels the same....😕😕 We hit a wall which we're ignoring right now and i want to destroy it! And be playful and fun with her as i always was...
If a womans chasing you your all good😎👍. Just dont go chasing her, thats when walls are built up.
Why did u stopped making videos???
thank you Chris
the first point is so true 👐
Chick pulled away from me. Stayed calm and she just texted me today. How long should I wait to respond?
Just enough to show that you have important things to do in your life. If you're supposed to be working for example, wait until the next break. Don't show any insecurity or that you were waiting for her message or such. Make your responses brief, fun, and don't reveal too much at once to keep the mystery. Try to set up a date with her, then end the conversation, rather than chatting too much by text.
Gordon G I haven’t responded yet it’s been 12 hours lol
Play one step forward two steps backward. Never invest too much time in her it will kill attraction. Trust me I've been there.
I3orn2Win wait a day or 2 this will show u don't really care, and arnt going to reward her or kiss her ass by being right there when she texts make her work for you at this point not the other way around!
Raider Nation stil hAvent replied lmaoo. I’m busy working ...
What if you're stuck in lockdown together?
How did it go for you?
@@David-js3bk haven't heard anything from her in almost 2 years 🤣 but i accepted it and dated other women
My wife wants and loves being with me all the time... But, naaaa , I won't allow it.. I gat to read. Research, work, think , and sleep in the other room.. she hates it. But it only makes the bond stronger .
Never trust her words
Is it the same as "just be selfish" ?
yeah. better focus on your own shit my guy.
what should i do if my gf is very alpha and i had to go off contact for a weeek now and still she didn't talk at all nothing not a text or anything should i talk to her or what
If you feel like you can't live without her, she'll know and won't come back.
You are your own story and she is part of it, not the whole story.
Focus on your self and she'll (Might or might not) focus on you.
Watch every new videos chris have. It's a fountain of life.
How about going to sleep with an other women!
Does it rebuild the attraction?
No! or just don't get caught lol or else you'll just be destroying your relationship and will obviously have stressful situations.
Good video .
Arnold swarzzeneger was not with her, because he was behind power, not that kind of power of money or being the ruler of the world, he likes power and of course, he was very intelligent choosing one of the Kennedy's house, come on he climbed socially just getting married with one of the Kennedys. That was not because of love or something like that.
I work 10 hours 5 days
Simple. Chase sucess,not women.
but sir chris i no longer in relationship what do i do now sir chris please sir i am on my knees begging for advice sir
WTF
@@fuadahmed6060 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@agneat4596 Very weird shit bruh
My girlfriend broke up with me
Great
I pull away too. Men we can pull away also. Do your own shit.
Can we wish them on birthday. ..Christmas ?
yes you can
Come home late, then walk into the bathroom and take a shower. Get in your PJ’s and hop into bed.
👍💪
She tell don't text her don't call her she tell me. And tell me go report to police. I do not any thing to her phones
This doesn’t feel right.
👍💪