wow wade's story really resonates with me. goes to show that what makes you a good person isn't just never having that instinct to be violent, because TRUST ME, there are people out there evil enough that will be able to step on every single nerve of yours just to see you snap like that regardless of who you are, but what makes you good is being able to reconcile with yourself. i'd be worried if wade DIDN'T feel absolutely haunted by feeling that. it feels horrible but man, in the moment youre just "leave me alone, leave me and my family alone" and it's even worse when it comes from YEARS of bs from someone.
Came for the laughs.....stayed for the real conversation. I know that rage. Haven't felt it in a long time like I did as a kid, but the knowledge of its existence lives in the back of my mind. I won't get into full details, but it's a dark place to be. A place I refuse to go now that I'm an adult and have had God's help dealing with.
@@mav4031 Kinda splitting hairs there tbh. I would argue rage is also a fear response. It makes sense that, instinctually, our most violent emotions are related to having to protect/preserve life, which is a fear response.
47:08 Oh man, I feel that. One time a I was going over a college project I was struggling with alongside my professor, and my professor had the gall to ask, "Is English your second language?" As someone who is considers themselves well-spoken, no freaking question has offended me more than that one, the assumption that I was struggling because I didn't know _English._ Gagh! It makes me so irate.
Mayo would in fact go bad after being left out if it’s been previously open. I have accidentally left an unsealed container of mayo and it has definitely gone bad.
when an autistic person "shuts down," its because they're feeling what Wade described. we know that if we react at all we're not going to be able to stop.
Yes. I have been there too many times as someone who's also autistic. It's not just anger for me and I get to the point if I even move it's gonna come out. I'm going through a health scare right now and it's really scary. I also had a surprise dental appointment I had no control over (I have a panic attack every time I go to the dentist). My partner literally had to dress me and half carry me to the appointment because I was in such a deep shutdown.
I have had a couple of times when I WENT OFF at people. One is so painful, I tell NO ONE, and I regret it, and I can't fix it because that person has passed away. The other, I just can't mention.
people going around me is something i can totally relate too. it's more occasional in florida where i live though, so it only happens every once in a while, but yeah. i feel bob's rage. every other state thinks florida is full of douchebags, but after hearing bob's story, i really beg to rebutt.
@chenstormstout9456 well....he hasn't for long enough times, i am a PT i see people who "have tried everything" on a weekly basis, and you put them on a calorie restrictive doet and like clockwork they start loaing weight
@@lux99500 I can't really tell you to get off your high horse, since I'm pretty sure horses know pretentious people when they see them so they stay away.
He’s lost weight before and has been skinnier before, but whenever he has been skinnier, he’s said that he’s felt worse and has had insomnia and shit like that so I’d rather him be healthy and a little heavy rather than skinny and dead on his feat, y’know?
God damn, wades story about his brother scares me. Good thing he didn't go any further because his life couldve gone down a drastic route.
wow wade's story really resonates with me. goes to show that what makes you a good person isn't just never having that instinct to be violent, because TRUST ME, there are people out there evil enough that will be able to step on every single nerve of yours just to see you snap like that regardless of who you are, but what makes you good is being able to reconcile with yourself. i'd be worried if wade DIDN'T feel absolutely haunted by feeling that. it feels horrible but man, in the moment youre just "leave me alone, leave me and my family alone" and it's even worse when it comes from YEARS of bs from someone.
32:51 Mark mentions punching the wall in front of Ethan
Came for the laughs.....stayed for the real conversation. I know that rage. Haven't felt it in a long time like I did as a kid, but the knowledge of its existence lives in the back of my mind. I won't get into full details, but it's a dark place to be. A place I refuse to go now that I'm an adult and have had God's help dealing with.
29:40 its called "fight or flight", that's what it feels like when your body chooses 'fight'.
Nope. Fight or flight is a fear response. Rage is a completely different monster all it's own.
@@mav4031 bless your heart, i hope you never have to feel it.
@@mav4031 Kinda splitting hairs there tbh. I would argue rage is also a fear response. It makes sense that, instinctually, our most violent emotions are related to having to protect/preserve life, which is a fear response.
47:08 Oh man, I feel that. One time a I was going over a college project I was struggling with alongside my professor, and my professor had the gall to ask, "Is English your second language?"
As someone who is considers themselves well-spoken, no freaking question has offended me more than that one, the assumption that I was struggling because I didn't know _English._ Gagh! It makes me so irate.
I really appreciate Wade to talked about this kind of stuff
Mark: Rage Games
Bob: His Fridge
Wade: BARBARA!!
It's so fun to revisit these after I've forgotten about them. This has been my weeks binge show
"I'll just go around" happens in MA, too.
I mean I just usually blame myself for losing my temper first before blaming anyone else. But that's just me and I can be wrong on that mindset.
Mayo would in fact go bad after being left out if it’s been previously open. I have accidentally left an unsealed container of mayo and it has definitely gone bad.
when an autistic person "shuts down," its because they're feeling what Wade described. we know that if we react at all we're not going to be able to stop.
Yes. I have been there too many times as someone who's also autistic. It's not just anger for me and I get to the point if I even move it's gonna come out. I'm going through a health scare right now and it's really scary. I also had a surprise dental appointment I had no control over (I have a panic attack every time I go to the dentist). My partner literally had to dress me and half carry me to the appointment because I was in such a deep shutdown.
Awesome! I missed a lot of these before, jeez, where was I? 😂
thank you distractigo
Damn Wade Respect.
I love dry chicken wings 😂, I don’t like a lot of sauce. I watched this six days ago lol
Damn Wade... 😨
I have had a couple of times when I WENT OFF at people. One is so painful, I tell NO ONE, and I regret it, and I can't fix it because that person has passed away. The other, I just can't mention.
people going around me is something i can totally relate too. it's more occasional in florida where i live though, so it only happens every once in a while, but yeah. i feel bob's rage.
every other state thinks florida is full of douchebags, but after hearing bob's story, i really beg to rebutt.
love the video but speaking of uno id love to see you guys play more uno and boardgames stuff like that
Them making fun of wade eating a dry sandwich. He does mention he has a beverage lol
pippity kaka poopoo
I love dry sandwiches and a simple cheeseburger with nothing on it!
I sympathise with wade.
wade is so wrong so loudly (about sandwiches specifically but can apply to Many Things)
3:23 7:55
I agree with wade my brother I hate him
Am I a bad person for finding this funny?
Maybe if Bob skipped on his mayo and souces he wouldn't be obese
ok
Bob has gone on record saying he’s been on the heavier side for most of his life. Kind of insensitive to think he hasn’t tried at multiple points.
@chenstormstout9456 well....he hasn't for long enough times, i am a PT i see people who "have tried everything" on a weekly basis, and you put them on a calorie restrictive doet and like clockwork they start loaing weight
@@lux99500 I can't really tell you to get off your high horse, since I'm pretty sure horses know pretentious people when they see them so they stay away.
He’s lost weight before and has been skinnier before, but whenever he has been skinnier, he’s said that he’s felt worse and has had insomnia and shit like that so I’d rather him be healthy and a little heavy rather than skinny and dead on his feat, y’know?