Jinger Duggar Vuolo: Disentangling Faith from Fear
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ส.ค. 2023
- Jinger Duggar Vuolo (19 Kids and Counting , author of Becoming Free Indeed ) opens up about the evolution of her views on Bill Gothard’s extreme religious teachings, how it feels to deal with her family’s struggles as someone in the public eye, and her anxiety as a result of trying to precisely follow religious principles. She discusses the positives of her upbringing, like her community of siblings, as well as the harmful dynamics she witnessed often at the expense of women. Jinger recalls the origins of her disordered eating and how her mom helped her through it, what forced her to finally challenge her beliefs, and her technical approach to disentangling her truth from the religious falsehoods she was taught to believe. Mayim breaks down religious obsessive compulsive disorder and shares her pop culture recommendations with Jinger. They discuss why Jinger still wants to be in the public eye, how she feels about her parents now, and the value of privacy after a life of being observed. Jinger considers how her relationship with a higher power and how her views on sex and a woman’s role in a relationship have shifted.
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This is the most respectful, non judgmental interview of Jinger Vuolo I have watched. I appreciate your eloquence and the respectful manner you addressed her family situations without shaming her. She did nothing wrong; no control over the actions of her family and doesn’t deserve some of the tactless questions she has been put on the spot to answer.
I’m a new subscriber because of this interview.
Yes ❤
Same. Just subscribed for the same reason. Jinger sounded so restrained and scripted in all her other interviews. Almost robotic. But Mayim was able to draw so much more of the real thoughts and personality of Jinger. Mayim is a very gifted interviewer. I’m looking forward to hearing more interviews.
Definitely !
Yes!! I just came to add a comment but you and @TroyCanDance just said it perfectly! I’ve heard many, many of Jinger’s interviews. I really like her and Jeremy, but sometimes she seems stiff and scripted. Mayim did such a great job relating to her and showing her such compassion. I loved what she was able to draw out of Jinger that no one else has done! The question about sex was awesome because it was so honestly asked-not in a way that was looking to illicit an answer that could be used against her at some point. As a Christian, I’m often concerned that non-Christians are looking for a “gotcha” moment when they interview a Christian.
Thank you, Mayim, for this great interview! I look forward to watching more of your content!
Yes!! I just came to add a comment but you and @TroyCanDance just said it perfectly! I’ve heard many, many of Jinger’s interviews. I really like her and Jeremy, but sometimes she seems stiff and scripted. Mayim did such a great job relating to her and showing her such compassion. I loved what she was able to draw out of Jinger that no one else has done! The question about sex was awesome because it was so honestly asked-not in a way that was looking to illicit an answer that could be used against her at some point. As a Christian, I’m often concerned that non-Christians are looking for a “gotcha” moment when they interview a Christian.
Thank you, Mayim, for this great interview! I look forward to watching more of your content!
It really spoke to me when Jinger said God meets us when we are broken, He doesn't wait until we are perfect. Truth.
In the last few months, my best friends and roommates have been helping me build my faith and encourage me to know Him and I have a running tally: every time Bestie Jenni (like Sister ___ but Bestie___ ) reminds me that God meets you where you are- there’s another tally 💛 thank you for helping me add to it 💛
Jinger is someone I hadn’t even thought about wanting to see on MBB. Every time there’s a guest I hadn’t thought of, I find it’s a great episode.
Same. But since it's Mayim's🥰 show and the Duggar family has been so controversial for years, I decided this is a must watch episode
Same here. The Kelly Clarkson episode was an eye opener for me.
Me as well.
Please have Jill Duggar come on when her book comes out!
Mayim is a great conversationalist hands down. This is the most genuine I’ve ever seen of Jinger. You did a great job. 😊
Mayim Bialik & Jinger Duggar- the crossover I didn’t even know I needed! Great choice for a podcast guest! Amazing conversation, as always. ❤
Absolutely! I love seeing Jinger get her intellectual groove on & I know this is gonna be awesome because Mayim asks deep questions but she also lets people just say what they think.
Agreed! I grew up Roman Catholic, so this was super interesting. I wanted to be a nun until I was 15. My priest was removed due to being gay. That shattered my view of "God is Love". He was a brilliant man --- he performed a Jewish sedar AND a Kwanzaa celebration. He wanted to open our eyes to how others celebrated God and his people. He did this before our Confirmation. This education helped me solidified the practicing of my faith. When I lost him, I felt so lost. I was also a lone wolf. The only other Catholic in school with me DID NOT want ANYONE to know she was Catholic. That was fun 😒 However, I stuck it through and found how to love God. He showed me patience is a something you have to earn. He taught me to look at whole person and not divide them up based on my assumptions. He also taught me to not be hard on myself. Being a teen, that took a lot of extra work. I'm 38 now and I'm glad I did the work. My faith feels stronger now than ever due to personal circumstances. However, I feel proud that I didn't throw in the towel.
My priest and I reconnected a few years ago. He became a Catholic missionary and found his fiance...another ex-priest. They work with AIDS and HIV infected children. I believe the children are in the safest hands with these two God lovin' fellows. In the end, we all received new, fulfilling beginnings that are lit with God's love.
@@MissMeggarz142 What a story! I enjoyed reading it, thanks for sharing!
I would love to see a Jill Duggar interview once her book drops.
@@MissMeggarz142. I also grew up Catholic and had a priest that gave us something to think about - who do you think that God will let into heaven first, the Christian who does good works so that he can get to heaven, or the atheist who does good works because he sees the need and needs to help.
. This is the second of M.B's (sorry, but my spell check refuses to allow either of her names to be spelled correctly - I do not mean to be rude) podcasts that I have listened to, and I love both so much that I have subscribed to make sure that I don't miss any😊
I was expecting to dislike this. But I don’t. It felt like kindness from both parties. Something this world desperately needs .
Right there with you. I've been putting off watching because I wasn't sure, but it was great.
kindness from abused to abuser. but now that jinger is passing down the curse to her own children, she is an abuser too.
What curse???
@@VelveteenRabbit77Context clues point me to either abuse or religion. Take your pick.
Yes, this was what a “conversation” looks like.
Jinger is so respectful of her family, even though there were many hurtles that she had to overcome. I believe her true faith in God, without the skewed, twisted interpretation of Bill Gothard's teaching surrounding her, has led her down a path of forgiveness.
On a side note, Mayim is a great interviewer. Most of our "national news" anchors, could learn from Mayim Bialik.
Wowwwww, high praise!! Thank you so much!!! 🙌🔥
I agree! Mayim is one of the best out there for interviewing people. She asks more interesting questions than other interviewers do and there is an ease and sincerity to the conversation. Hands down my favourite interview of Jinger!
Another good interviewer is Andrew Gold from On The Edge. He’s a great listener and very compassionate.
This is my first time seeing this channel and an interview by Mayim. I'm really enjoying the conversation and style.
@@loislewis5229he sounds familiar. I'll have to check out his videos!
I love that Mayim has such a diverse set of guests who have a range of faith backgrounds. A lot of public figures in modern American society shy away from featuring/ discussing Christianity and I'm elated to see someone like Mayim give voice to somebody different from her. The world honestly needs more of this.
❤️❤️❤️ yes
And a more mature version of Christianity than what we see these days
You and Jinger had such a great flow and conversation during the whole interview. I have never seen her be so open before in interviews. I’m glad you had her on. This is one of my favourite episodes. I love how you are not afraid to ask the questions of your guests and how open you are. You also need to have her sister Jill on.
100%
I agree.
Agree. I put off watching this episode (I’m a Jew who has a bit of a weird thing for snarking on but also genuinely being fascinated with Christian fundamentalism and particularly the Duggars and of course always enjoy Mayim and her show) because I was like meeeh, I truly wish Jinger and all of the Duggar kids the best but I’ve not thought too highly of some of the other interviews I’ve seen of her around her book and all. Not even a judgment specifically of her. It also just doesn’t appeal to me, a lot of the Christian stuff, but this interview was truly enjoyable to listen to. Gave me a few surprising insights into the Duggar family, and it’s the first time I’ve truly felt like wow, Jinger has come such a long way and great for her. Like not my business as a nosy member of the public to know anything about her she doesn’t want to share but it’s the most open and relaxed and natural I’ve seen her and that just feels nice to see.
Also, since I’m at the end of the interview where Mayim was asking about privacy and what it feels like to be a public figure going through difficult times, and Jinger herself covered how much it means sometimes when she is able to help or inspire others who have been in cults or even worse situations- it’s just so nice to see public figures or famous people be real and relaxed and human. Really a fantastic interview and speaks so much to what a fantastic interviewer Mayim is as well, her ability to make guests of so many different backgrounds feel comfortable with her is a gift I’m glad she’s sharing with us all.
TOTALLY AGREE … i will LOVE TO SEE THESE GALS DO ANOTHER SHOW ❤❤
I am in agreement, would love to see interviews with Jill and Jessa too.
I'm not a Christian but I used to watch 19 kids and counting with amazement and curiosity about her family. I'm so happy to see her finding her happiness. She has become a very beautiful, strong, smart woman💚
As someone whose family spent quite a bit of time on the fringes of the Gothard phenomenon, I can't even begin to express the damage that has been done. Our family system was NOT healthy to begin with, and this teaching has poured damage upon damage. Thank you for talking about all of this.
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I’ve always wondered if the boys that grew up in this type of environment end up being hypersexualas they grow older. Like if they’re more prone to porn addiction etc
@@HH-gv8mx If you are interested, Davey Jackson grew up in this and has a series on his experience as a boy in this. @daveyjaxx
I'm happy the door to healing is open to those who suffered. I pray the best for you and us all.
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IDK. But there is a great deal of incest & other sexual abuse in the cult.
I like the way you pointed out that “ we share the Old Testament”. That is a wonderful reminder of the tie of faith between Christianity and Judaism. Great interview by Jinger and Mayim. Thank you ladies💕🙏👏
I was shocked when I became close to a Jewish woman & learned of some of the hatred & vitriol she had been exposed to from Christians! The churches I have attended have always respected the Jews as God's people. My friend was accused of being of the faith that killed Jesus. Correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't Christianity teach that the sacrifice of Jesus was God's plan all along? The Jews played what I would call a pre-ordained role; those that condemned Jesus thought He was trying to change their beliefs. And His death was also, in some ways, a political move. Sadly, my friend felt she was remaining true to her heritage by rejecting Jesus, bc there is only one God. I gave her an example, that H²O can be a gas, a liquid & a solid, yet is still H²O in all 3 forms but she wasn't having it. I had to respect her choice. Anyway, so glad you looked for the connections & not the differences in your faiths!
It would be wonderful for you to also interview her sister, Jill Dillard. Her book recently came out and it would be so wonderful to hear her Speak her truth too.
Jessa would be funny because she is such a bully! She always seems so full of herself! It's apparent she runs her marriage! Ben just follows her rules! He has it easy! He doesn't seem to do anything but hide out at his little church and dream about being a Christian rapper!
Are you sure it’s already out? Do you have it?
It would be nice to see her interview Jill. She could see the differences.
Like how Jill can’t come to the big house unless her dad is there because he doesn’t want her influencing the younger kids.
I think it’s interesting how Jinger mentioned that.
@@daveshoemaker7137Jessa’s husband Ben would never let her speak on this unfortunately 😢
Her book comes out next month.
Since coming out with her book, Jinger has done many interviews. This one was the best. Mayim asked such smart, interesting questions, and Jinger was so articulate, warm, engaging, and fun. Great episode!
💯 the best interview she's done on this book tour
Yes! And I love how Mayim’s team edited the shots. Jinger is very intelligent and gracious. And she is the real deal in real life.
@@lindseyp4451I think she felt safe in this interview.
What a genuinely impressive interview! Both the guest and the host! Mayim clearly read more than just the end flaps of Jinger's book. She was able to ask intelligent and beneath the surface questions that allowed Ginger's beliefs, thoughts, and personality to shine through. Ginger appeared at ease, and the two appeared to truly enjoy the interview. Which made the interview so enjoyable to listen to!
I just finished Jinger's book and I just wanted to cheer her on and give her a hug. I'm impressed she has been able and wanted to keep her faith- but also how she explains the effect religion had on her life. She also is very kind- she says right up front it is not a tell all book, and she doesn't veer off into those tangents. She's truthful and authentic and I'm just hoping for the best for her and her family.
And now her sister Jill is coming out with a book ; can’t wait
I completely agree. I'm currently reading it. 🙏
She's married to a "preacher." So how could she get away from "God" even if she wanted to? Jeremy converted her from Gothardism to his equally patriarchal religion... Calvinism.
@@celestelawler587 she doesn’t want or need to get away from god/Jesus. She is recognizing the difference between following a leader and following the Bible- and that’s a step in the right direction.
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She doesn't know WTF SHE wants. She been TOLD all her life what she wants to do. She went from her being under her father's thumb to being under Jeremy's thumb. You can use the bible for toilet paper. It was written by a bunch of sheep herders. And who knows WHAT they were doing with those sheep.
I like how Jinger and Mayim have different faiths but are very open to each others’ thoughts and humanity. At first I thought of her last name and thought “would she be comfortable talking to someone who is not a Christian?” Then I thought “But this is Jinger, she would not care” ❤️
Loolm I’ll😂❤
A very respectful conversation/interview! ❤
Jinger is absolute class. She is so beautiful and precious...I know with her own personal struggles, both with that Sibling Who Won't Be Named and her mental health, she may not always feel strong, but she has this amazing strength that is so admirable. Her book is such a gentle look into what all she goes through and her beautiful faith.
Jinger's sister Jill, who was the 1st one to drop Gothard teachings has a book coming out. I hope you interview her, she is wonderful! She is less guarded than Jinger and more of a hippie. They are both wonderful women. Great interview !!❤
Excellent video. As a 59-year old male who is working through the same issues as Jinger did this was a real eye-opening episode for me. Thank you!
So glad to hear it was helpful, Cornelis, and sending you strength and peace in your own journey. We're very happy to have you here! 🧠🫶
Thank you!@@MayimBialik
Wow, this is the BEST Jinger interview I’ve ever seen, and I don’t say that lightly because there’s a LOT of them. These were SUCH great questions!
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My sisters and I used to watch 19 Kids & Counting all the time, and we’d find it fascinating to see the similarities and differences between that world and our Orthodox Jewish life. Now to see the two worlds come together in this interview was very exciting for us. Mayim, I love listening to how you explain Judaism to the general public; it helps me do the same. And my heart goes out to you, Jinger, for the challenging journey you’ve had to endure till you found your place, and the courage to tell your story to help others.
Mayim, you led the interview intelligently, sensitively and with humor; it was great, thank you.
Can I say this was a model of how people with different faiths can talk , share and learn and both walk away better and stronger. I’m not sure where America became a place where people with different backgrounds and beliefs decided to hate those different than them. This discussion didn’t stop at just respect, it moved to benefit. This was so positive and uplifting to see. I respect Jinger so much for her journey being a path of growth, not berating and negativity. Blessings on both of you for being light in the world of faith discussion!
Actually, religious intolerance has a long and multinational history, alas. But it would be nice if the US could break that cycle.
This is the best interview Jinger has ever done. It feels less “walking on egg shells” as her other interviews.
I appreciate Jinger's path and message. Having been to an IBLP conference with my parents in 1980 and following the teachings for several years, I'd say that it meets the criteria of a CULT. A cult has a charismatic leader who determines a set of rules and beliefs and orders them to follow them (or else). I've been out for over 23 years. The new "anti-cult" phenomenon has been so helpful! For so many years, I locked that part of my life away and just moved on. Now, I'm dealing with it.
Thanks so much for sharing, Lorraine, and hoping you've found the peace and healing you so deserve. 🧠🫶
I come from a Catholic School background and I had the same feelings as Jinger, if I did something wrong, God was waiting to get me. This was a wonderful podcast between two women from different faiths but essentially the same sharing a universal message of love and life.
Me too!
Gosh a me too as well. The focus on confession mortal sin versus venial sin was a constant concern to the point at the third grade I was having full blown panic attacks. As a young adult I finally put distance between that notion and as time went on I could actually feel my mental health returning. Today I still struggle with panic and anxiety but for other reasons altogether. What I have discovered is that early trauma set the stage for rewiring my brain. That kind of indoctrination does have life long effects that changes who you are from a biochemical standpoint. With time, maturity and therapy it can be managed but the damage is certainly a thing.
Wonderful interview. Thank you, Mayim for your compassion and understanding in the interview. It was beautiful!
My chavrusa is chassidic living in NY and she, who has just had her 8th, has told me so many times to never feel badly about getting permission from my Rabbi to only have 3 kids because I have hyperemesis gravidarum. She says that the most holy and religious women in her community who have HG also only have 2-4 kids in the midst of families that have 6-12 for the same reason. As an orthodox influenced I follow says, “we live by these rules not die by them” and she is so right. When something is harmful to us physically and now more prevalent psychologically, Rabbeim will often give leniencies to use things like birth control or place other measures in place so that we can enjoy doing the commandments and love Gd through our Torah. I love Judaism!!!
What a respectful, kind and curious conversation between two people who both have a strong faith and they aren't exactly the same. Masterful interviewing, Mayim!
I grew up evangelical Church of Christ & WOW, so much of this resonates! I now call myself a Jesus-follower & am a member of a non-denominational church, but goodness, so much of what Jinger says resonates.
And the pressure of trying to be the savior for everyone else, like it’s all on you to save the world - that is NOT of God. Love, love, love this interview!!!!
Jinger on my Mayim's channel. I am so excited to watch this ! I love BOTH of you !
Same!! Are you also a “Jew for Jinger” 😆 as I am?
This is like legitimately the most human I've ever seen Jinger act before, like when she was talking about tv shows and laughing, and I don't even know if Mayim realizes that she is like one of the first people able to bring out Jinger's real personality on an interview before 😂 THANK YOU MAYIM YOU WERE SO SWEET TO OUR GIRL
I loved this interview Mayim. It was nice to see Jinger being herself. I used to watch all of their shows and all you saw were clones repeating the same doctrine and just a tiny bit of each child’s personality. She is has become such a well rounded human being. No longer having to tow the company line. So happy for her and Jeremy and their daughters. 😊😊😊
Wow. What a dream duo for a podcast. Ladies, I love you both.
I love when people just want to get to know someone. No agenda. No judgment. Beautifully done.
First episode I have ever seen. I think Jinger has found her happiness. I have so much respect for how she has never painted a bad picture of her parents. She has grown into such a beautiful person. Thank you for the amazing conversation.
Mayim having no idea what the big hype about Jinger is, and Jinger likely knowing little to nothing about Mayims TV history.. CRAZY! Just 2 great individuals!
I really enjoyed this one. I am so glad Jinger is doing so well and has a very supportive husband. She has every right to protect her children .
This was def one i was NOT expecting! A duggar??? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Yall need to interview her sister Jill! Shes the one in the documentary you mention! Def gonna need you to bring Jinger back if you watch the documentary!
I watched the majority of the interviews that Jinger has done in regards to the book she wrote. This interview, by far, is the best one she has participated in. Mayim is so relaxed and asked such good questions. She seems to really enjoy talking to Jinget.
If I was to have a "favorite" Duggar, it was definitely Jinger. Something about her always appealed to me and hearing her say how devout she was, was kind of funny to hear because I always thought of her (from my outside perspective) as the only one with a mind of her own - and look at her now. She, being the artistic, photographer, in the family, made her unique and fun. It's neat to see her come into her own and seeing her real personality shine on your show was cool. Her giggles and joking. The similarities between your different religions and how things can be "extreme" for good or bad, was extremely interesting. This was a great interview. Thank you for bringing her on to the show.
Alright I came to see Jinger but I'm surprised of all the things I learned about Mayim in this interview!! 😮😊
I love the diversity of guest she has for interviews. And she is non judgemental. And ask good questions.
I read the book cover behind Jinger as A Man and his Witch! What a relief when I found instead A Man and his Watch on Amazon!
Jinger is a great woman who is gently treading between worlds, that of her toxic birth family and the one she has built with her very dear husband and children. I admire her so very much.
Jinger isn't kinda ballsy. She is absolutely ballsy. God bless you Junger. Your parents might not be thrilled but most people are very proud of your strength and determination. You are in for a very bright future.
Maya you are the best 🥰
Jinger, so proud of you, and the woman you have become. You are a beautiful young lady inside and out. ❤😊
I grew up with Jinger (our family met the duggars at an IBLP conference) and as I grew up and became an adult and married my husband (and left iblp teachings) one of the FIRST “secular” shows we watched was big bang theory lol. And I’ve been a fan of Mayim since then. So this whole interview was so wholesome in that it was respectful and thought provoking and I just loved every part of it!
This was such an unexpected episode. The deep conversations regarding perfectionism and having to try to figure that out is very real. Moving from feeling that you need to do things a certain way to be worthy of love - weather it’s for a god or a parent - a boss etc is a very hard to work passed. I’m still working on this. Jinger is very brave and eloquent in her story. MBB thanks again for another wonderful episode.
That there are Mayims in the world willing to have open, thoughtful conversations makes me feel some hope for our world.
One of the better interviews I've seen with Jinger. It was amazing to hear them talk to each other knowing so little about each other, having to google one another before the interview! Wow. To walk in with NO preconceived notions is amazing.
Jinger is so articulate and gifted.
i really appreciate how you respected Jinger and her faith without bashing her or disrespecting her ❤
I've followed the Duggar family for years and have always admired their love of the Lord and that it showed in their children. I've watched multiple interviews with Jinger and I have to say, yours was amazing. I watched Blossom and was thrilled to see you on The Big Bang Theory but those were just characters that you played. Your interaction with Jinger in this interview was kind, respectful, heartfelt and genuine. I love that it revealed that we usually have more in common with each other than we often see at first glance. Congratulations on your channel and I wish you continued success!
Same
Best Jinger interview. There was great chemistry between the two of you. It worked because you both have a background of faithfulness to God, and have worked to sort through the issues of religion.
this is legitimately the best interview i’ve ever watched. the juxtaposition between jinger and mayim is just incredible to watch.
To be honest, I had kind of never wanted to hear from the Duggars ever again. But, as I adore MB, I decided to click on this episode of MBB with a fully open mind. I'm absolutely shooketh that I found Jinger to be relatable, well-spoken, honest, and, well... much more "normal" than I would have imagined. This episode actually left me feeling like she and her book deserve my support, or, at the very least, my open-mindedness and non-judgement. MB, it never fails to amaze me how you continue to open my mind with this podcast.
Thank you for sharing your faith ladies
Personally I was taught one never talks about their feats nor Resentments as a child
Now in my 60 I find it okay to truly express all emotions
Taking the moments of life to breathe
Thank you ladies
Gigi
I cannot thank you enough for this interview, Mayim. So much can be personally gleaned by the listener because the foundation of this discussion is kindness and respect. This is the most comfortable I've ever seen Jinger discussing her life.
Well done to both of you. I’ve watched Jinger grow up on TV and always saw that anxiety on her face. It’s so nice to see her come into her self. Loved this interview as she was the most relaxed I’ve seen her on any screen. Beautiful conversation and questions were fabulous. Love to you both!
Jinger is such a bright and brilliant mind; I’m so grateful that you had her on for us to witness it. She has such an interesting and important perspective, and Mayim asked some killer questions to create a truly thought-provoking conversation. I sincerely loved this episode.
I’ve seen so many interviews with Jinger and this was hands down my favorite! So respectful and joyful and fun! Thank you for doing this interview.
This was such great interview. And, after seeing Ginger speak on different occasions, it's wonderful to see her appear so much more in her own skin each time. She has such great self-awareness and confidence and maturity now, and I'm so proud of her and the life she and Jeremy have built. Thanks for a great hour and a half!
This is the best interview I've seen of Jinger. She is relatable and open. I'm so happy for her. She's glowing and thriving. I hope she continues to spread her story.
I loved this so much! I think what made this interview so great was that Mayim went into it not knowing much about the Duggars, so she didn’t have the bias most other interviewers have with regards to this family. It allowed for genuine curiosity on Mayim’s part, and she asked questions we haven’t heard directed at Jinger a hundred times already. This also seemed to allow Jinger to be more comfortable throughout the interview. Plus, it’s always awesome to see people of different faiths and backgrounds speak to each other with such respect and understanding. 💜
This was amazing. I love the respectful dialog between a faithful Jew and a faithful Christian. We need more of that! I grew up a lot like Ginger and in this interview she really nails so many points. Wow how she has grown. Thank you both so much. So good to get to know Mayim.
Jinger is amazing and I thoroughly enjoyed this video. She's down-to-earth and I'm so happy that she has found her soulmate and that they have such a beautiful family. The questions and answers were very enlightening truthful and respectful. Thank you, Mayim for another fantastic interview 💕
Yes..this was the interview I have been wishing for. Two favorite topics…Dr. Bialik and the Duggars.
It is crazy how long these interviews are, but I don't get bored, and the genuine conversation always gets at much more interesting content than when they try for soundbites and quick content. Great job Mayim! ❤❤❤
This is the interview with Jinger I'd always hoped for. I have always wanted to hear from her more candidly. I'm glad she's doing so well ❤❤
I love this so much. I love the respect, kindness, & gentleness that both Mayim & Jinger brought to this conversation. These ladies are both incredibly intelligent, articulate, & absolutely lovely. My parents took a few Gothard seminars in the 70s and taught us from the few things they felt were helpful, but they also learned multiple languages & taught us how to interpret scripture for ourselves.
I absolutely loved this conversation!
Who would have imagined two women raised in such two different faiths could have so much in common from their religious journey.
Thank you so much for such an intellectually stimulating exchange of thoughts and ideas
I’ve watched MBB from the start and this yet another excellent example of keeping an open mind. I was … affected… by the eldest’s action and dismissed the whole family. I genuinely felt like to protect myself emotionally I had to reject it all. But I also treasure learning and gaining new understandings, and this conversation was all of that! Jinger, you are so articulate, choosing your words well to make the salient point. Mayim, you have an innate ability to be respectful across the board and yet ask the truly insightful (non-sensational) questions. These are the kinds of conversations that will incrementally pull people out of extremes. Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. ❤
Your willingness to shed light on such a sensitive issue resonates deeply with me, as my family too was once ensnared by the same extreme religious beliefs. Your thoughtful approach to the topic not only educates but also validates the experiences of countless others like myself. Thank you for being a beacon of hope and awareness. ❤
This was the most respectful, honest, introspective interview with a Duggar daughter I have EVER watched! Jinger's candor and openness are admirable. Her perspective is so clear and refreshing. Thank you for an amazing conversation between two beautiful human beings!
Thank you so much for having Jinger on today's episode. I love watching your exciting podcast. Much love to you Mayim! ❤
I loved this interview! I have seen several interviews of Jinger regarding her book, but you, Mayim, asked her the most interesting, insightful and novel questions by far. Great interview!
I’m proud of Jinger calling out the “joyfully available” teachings. I’m shocked she went there but so happy she’s healed and grown to this point. Keep healing Jinger! You and Jill I hope can inspire your siblings!
Oh I can’t wait for that part!
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My favorite episode so far. Great to hear an open respectful discussion of two women of faith.
Mayim, I want to say thank you for the respect & compassion you have with all your guests. You & I approach solutions so differently, but it see the similarities in why these issues cause us to take action.
I love how you share your life & are so kind to everyone on your show. Coming from a place of love, compassion, & w genuine desire to understand the differences between us while focusing on what brings us together across all backgrounds - wow. You are doing *exactly* what you were created to do, & I admire you for stepping into that. Well done, good & faithful servant.
This was the BEST podcast I have heard all year! Listening to 2 people with different religions (Jewish and Christian) having an open discussion about life and how we can view things differently but, the same. It’s hard to explain but, this was so enlightening. I’ve always love Jinger and it is so cool to see her grown and becoming wiser. Great podcast!
I've been following the Duggars since the very beginning. I remember thinking what a unique and happy family. I've since evolved and realized just how damaging their teachings are and am so happy to see Jinger and Jill out in the real world. They are still sticking with their faith but without the icky cultish twist. Thank you Mayim for this interview. Jinger is a beautiful inside and out.
Really a fun episode. I have seen Jinger interviewed several times, but Mayim seemed to provide a new path for her to open up. I really liked their ability to find the commonalities between Jinger's old and new beliefs and Mayim's faith and teaching. Super fun. Thanks.
I really found this episode interesting! I’m a person without a religious faith but I have respect for ALL the faiths & beliefs of others. I enjoyed hearing you discuss & could have listened longer as you talked about the similarities in your faiths. Jinger has done a good job understanding that she can be the person she wants to be & a mother how she wants to mother. Thanks Mayim!
My anxiety over praying for my whole ever growing family daily is obsessive…
Thank you so much for sharing this ladies & I LOVE Ya BLOSSOM 🌸
I really enjoyed this interview. I have watched Jinger grow up on tv. But I never really got to know her. I’m so impressed how she has handled her life. She seems to be so genuine. And I agree she’s a brave woman. The two of you seemed to really enjoy talking to each other. I would love for her to come back again. 😊
I loved watching you both vibing on shared humorous and also gripping concepts. I felt like this was a clear window into both of your relationships with God. Praying for you both. God IS a LOVING God.
This is an outstanding interview. Mayim, you were totally non-jugdemental. Jinger has done a lot of inner work and it shows. As a behavioral health clinician, I think you're right in suggesting that her anxiety had some OCD flavor to it. However, it seems like she has moved past it. I do think Jinger dodged the question about whether she thought the IBLP is a cult. I think she is still afraid of betraying her parents.
Genuinely enjoyed this. I have a lot of respect for Jinger for having the courage to write/speak about this issue. She's a real one. ❤
I love this interview so much! So often we see people of different backgrounds and faiths talking down to others or scoffing at other faiths. I love how respectful and intelligent this conversation was!
It’s so powerful that you and Jinger were able to make connections through your very different religious upbringings to show respect for what was and what now is. Your questions were fascinating. Now wonder I’m binging your channel. Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom and humour Mayim. 🤗🇨🇦🤗
Thanks so much for the kind feedback, Elizabeth, and so glad you found us!! 🧠🫶
What a great interview by two ladies who are so well spoken. I attended those seminars as a teenager and totally get where Jinger is coming from. Always an interesting and informative podcast with great guests.
Mayim you’re amazing as a host and interviewer. Thanks for sharing and doing this podcast!!!❤
I love this so much. I grew up in a christian household and have been struggling with faith ever since my dad's addiction. This is great.
I just love Jinger. Thank you for having her on. She's very encouraging & inspirational.
Jinger and Mayim were both so awesome in this discussion. Brilliant. Thank you for sharing!
@Mayim Bialik - first of all, you are an amazing person. Thank you for sharing so many of your gifts with us over the years! I have listened to your podcast since you started but always just the audio. However, when I heard you interviewed Jinger Vuolo, I realized I needed to go to TH-cam to watch.
I’m a survivor of the evangelical church - I survived ex-gay therapy and a litany of experiences which I won’t go into here. Watching the Duggars over the years was a curiosity at first, looking back at the community I had left was somehow therapeutic. Eventually that well ran dry for me and I stopped paying attention. However, when the facade began to break down and the nitty gritty of the IBLP and Duggar lifestyle choices became public, I started paying attention again. I keep an open mind, observing their journeys. Thanks for conducting/presenting this interview. You are admired and greatly appreciated!
This was a phenomenal interview. Mayim, you were so respectful of Jinger and asked such great questions. Jinger is such an articulate, intelligent young woman and I am so happy she has had the strength to extricate herself from the rigidity of the dogma her parents' and siblings followed.
Excellent and uplifting discussion, Mayim. Prior to your podcast, I only knew your guest, Jinger, as a caricature of the religious extreme. No doubt, she has walked a remarkable journey from darkness to authentic, soul restoring faith. Thank you for bringing Jinger and her story to the Breakdown.
I really appreciated how respectful this interview was but also probed a bit deeper than some of Jinger’s other interviews ! It was very well done by you both !
Jinger! Preach! Thank goodness this podcast exists, it brings me hope always❤ God recognizes the condition of your heart. Jesus is my example and makes my heart kinder... so we follow what conditions our heart to the best it can be.
Thank you Jinger for your honesty and openness. It’s so brave of you to share your life.
Oh my WORD this was the episode I never knew I wanted! I love this kind of deep, thoughtful interfaith dialogue. I grew up in an interfaith family, but by the time I was in middle school, only my brother and I kept going to church-just bc youth group was fun. The church was a painfully conservative arm of the restoration movement, subscribed to biblical literalism, and suppressed women. As a child, I was also diagnosed with tourettes, adhd, and ocd- the latter of which manifested as intense anxiety surrounding being “wrong” and going to hell. But since that doctrine was so normalized, I felt intensely lonely in my anxiety. Once I left for college, I studied religion among a tight-knit cohort of liberal progressive Christians. In studying the bible and its context, I found a deep source of HOPE for a better world. Though my theology aligns with the Jewish half of my upbringing (to my dad’s delight), I have a real appreciation for the kind of Christianity I experienced with my friends. I LOVE the Bible! And it’s so disturbing to see the many ways people have managed to weaponize it, with callous disregard for the damage they cause. I know that Jinger interprets the Bible differently that I do, so I wouldn’t typically be inclined to seek out content from her. But interfaith dialogue is SO important- hearing her perspective reminds me that Jinger (and all other such open-minded ppl) and I absolutely agree on some of the most fundamental aspects of being human!! Given the intense political (and related religious) climate in America right now, if more of us would be willing to have such an honest conversation with the “other side,” we’d find ourselves in a much better place.
Thank you both for being so open and honest! I enjoyed every bit of this lil talk :)